Pearl - March 12, 2026


Why Do Christian Women Obey The Pastor But Not Their Husbands？


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14 minutes

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2,414

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86


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00:00:00.080 All right, good morning everybody. I made muffins this morning, which is very exciting.
00:00:05.300 So if anyone has a good poppy seed muffin recipe, put it in the comments.
00:00:12.140 Okay, so today, for some reason, I want to give theological talks.
00:00:17.760 And I'd like to preface, I don't read the Bible regularly. I don't. I don't. I don't at all.
00:00:23.640 I went to Catholic school for 20 years, but I've been involved in non-denominational churches.
00:00:30.000 Catholic church for a long time. I've even been to an Orthodox church, and I was completely
00:00:35.720 surrounded by Christians, Catholics when I was growing up. So I'm just talking about my
00:00:42.420 observations. I'm sure there's smarter people than me that can do this stuff, so don't take this as
00:00:47.780 gospel. So a lot of people ask, why am I kind of hostile towards religion? Why, you know, some of
00:00:58.580 my commentary seems that way. I don't really think I am, but whatever. Okay. And I'm going to explain
00:01:05.360 why. It seems like to me, the order of the world is supposed to be God, man, woman, children.
00:01:15.160 I have come to this conclusion, not necessarily from, it's definitely not from like reading
00:01:23.000 scripture or anything, but just on my observations in the world living in it. I think a lot of
00:01:29.660 commentators, they want to dictate your reality. And what they want to do is they want to say,
00:01:34.040 look at my studies, look at my X, Y, look at my book, look at my, and it just seems like
00:01:39.800 commentators and a lot of religious people, they're just the confusers, right? They're very
00:01:44.600 good at just confusing you. When it seems like everything you need to know is like right in
00:01:51.420 front of your eyes like it's just what I observe so a lot of people would say I believe in God
00:01:58.220 but their whole life does not reflect this order right so they're like they're men a lot of times
00:02:04.640 these are guys saying I fear God I fear God but it seems like this is the order they're living by
00:02:21.420 okay, write it down, it seems like the order they're living by is woman, God, children,
00:02:32.200 sometimes children even come before God, then the man, and then he says, I'm a good man, I'm a good
00:02:37.020 man, but you put yourself last, you know, and it seems like when men get together, they just create
00:02:43.240 like goodness, it seems like God, when it's in this order, God puts like, I don't know, maybe
00:02:50.180 creativity. And it seems to come in particular through white guys. Um, I don't know why. Um,
00:02:57.740 so I guess there maybe could be a racial component to this, but I don't want to get into that too
00:03:02.980 much. Maybe I will fuck it, fuck it. You know? So it seems like white guys, um, they get their
00:03:10.760 creativity from God. They get like, um, and when people like when black guys like Ben Carson, um,
00:03:18.320 submit to like the white guy's rules they seem to like do better you know it just seems like
00:03:26.920 when you listen to white guys life just gets better I don't know why I don't know where
00:03:32.080 it's like when white guys make a neighborhood everyone's trying to get in it when white guys
00:03:36.120 make an institution or a country that's just what it seems like um you know there aren't people
00:03:41.400 dying to go to Africa there's people dying to go to every white like made country I don't know why
00:03:47.520 this is i don't understand it this is just my observations because i lived in london and when
00:03:53.220 i was in london it's like all the muslims are trying to get in all the um all the africans
00:04:00.580 are trying like everybody's trying to get in so that's my observations this is no hatred towards
00:04:06.100 any group so anyways and it really ticks me off because i will go to these churches
00:04:12.440 and this is how they're living and the reason i can tell and this is i've just noticed it's
00:04:19.380 every time there's a group a lot of times the catholics like to say um oh that never happens
00:04:25.180 in our community and the orthodox try to say that never happens in our community um but when i'm
00:04:32.840 ingrained into those communities i'm admittedly more catholic than orthodox but regardless
00:04:38.440 the exact same patterns. And whenever someone says, no, we only do it like this. We never do
00:04:45.320 it like this. I get really frustrated because oftentimes they've been, if you look at the
00:04:50.400 average cycle of someone in church, it's eight years or less. So you guys haven't even hit the
00:04:55.080 10 year mark and you already have the ego to say, I'm right because my church is like this.
00:05:00.840 When I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I saw 20 years of this, of the men having to put
00:05:06.860 themselves last. And part of this isn't really a choice because I think we live in the devil's
00:05:11.920 world, right? I think we live in hell on earth because women are above God. Women are above
00:05:17.720 children. Women just put themselves first and get away with it. Okay. Are we, are we following here?
00:05:25.760 Okay. So a lot of men, they say they fear God. And I just keep thinking, I don't think you fear God.
00:05:34.360 i think you fear a woman i think you're afraid of your wife and again i'm not a bible thumper so i
00:05:46.360 don't know but it seems like in the bible it would say not to fear their wife but they're afraid to
00:05:52.340 speak up um and the stuff i saw was just ridiculous like there would be women um like i when i was in
00:05:59.500 high school we would have chastity speakers and it was jason and christiana everett if you guys
00:06:03.700 ever want to talk, we'll have a conversation. Christiana goes on all these shows and basically
00:06:08.880 says, I was a whore and he took me after. To me, Jason, I don't think that's inspiring. I think
00:06:15.880 Jason doesn't have the balls to tell his wife to shut the fuck up, right? We don't need her
00:06:21.740 testimony. We need his testimony. But the church, this is a lot of Catholics support this,
00:06:28.620 say that they need her testimony now the other issue that i tend to find with churches they all
00:06:34.720 tell you they're special and different but what happens is you actually add in usually the pastor
00:06:40.460 or the priest is like an attractive guy a lot of times more attractive than their husbands
00:06:44.740 and then it becomes this order right it becomes the churches are trying to make money
00:06:50.480 because they have to right whenever you get a group you have to pay for like the stuff that
00:06:55.640 goes with the group. So it goes money, women, pastor and forcer. So these are the simps, right?
00:07:06.560 Children. Wait, these are the kids, whatever. And then again, the man.
00:07:13.820 So what happens is because women complain more,
00:07:19.080 the pastors, they need to make money. So they need the women in the church.
00:07:22.780 so you know what no hold on let me put the woman above the money because the women spend the man's
00:07:29.180 money so the woman comes first money comes second the pastor is then third the children fourth and
00:07:37.120 then the husband again so it just adds another person and you see this because bible studies
00:07:41.600 wouldn't it make more sense like what is the point of women's bible studies shouldn't it just be
00:07:46.640 listen to your husband like what did your husband say your husband your husband your husband what
00:07:52.160 does he say what did he say like that would be the only and shouldn't it be monitored by like the
00:07:59.100 husband but instead of giving the authority and like going to this order and saying listen to
00:08:04.480 your husband your husband's going to interpret the bible for you you can just listen to what
00:08:09.520 he says and then you guys will pass that on to the children here they say we're going to listen
00:08:17.700 to another man. And to me, that's just not a natural order. Now, part of this I think is
00:08:24.160 because a lot of men are raised to be like this, right? They're raised to fear women and put
00:08:29.160 themselves last. And I think that's why a lot of these criminals, they say, oh, I convert. I'm a
00:08:36.640 total convert. And then they bang all the women in church. Well, it's because the criminal at least
00:08:42.700 as it's actually closer to this order i think than this i don't know this is the spitballing
00:08:49.300 that you guys probably think this sorry my alarm went off the guy that's just banging women in
00:08:54.580 church at least he's putting himself first now there's no god here right you would take away the
00:08:58.880 god but that's at least closer to the natural order than this this is just a transgender
00:09:05.580 relationship. So like, I just, you know, and I've interviewed so many religious people and they all
00:09:13.280 think they're right. And they've all spent more time reading the Bible than me. Um, and they've
00:09:19.420 all come to these very different conclusions. So it's just, um, I think we can expect, I'm going
00:09:26.700 to put a few gods here that they, you know, the order, I don't know, maybe there's like an Allah
00:09:31.560 God and then the Buddha God, whatever. But the man is going to submit, he's going to pick the
00:09:39.500 different religion, right? But at least that would be an in-order relationship. On top of that,
00:09:47.920 the things I've witnessed is all of these random people getting enthralled in the woman and the
00:09:55.000 man's relationship. And that just doesn't make sense to me. So it's not that I don't believe
00:10:04.520 in God. I think it's silly to say that, you know, God doesn't exist. I do believe in God.
00:10:09.520 But it's very frustrating when it seems like every church I go to, this is the order. And
00:10:17.520 every church I go to says, oh, no, no, no, no, we're this. And it's almost like insulting my
00:10:26.320 intelligence. I'll give you an example. And this is no hatred or discord, no disrespect. But you
00:10:35.580 know, Andrew and Rachel pushed Sarah Stock, right? That was someone they pushed. And a lot of it
00:10:40.220 wasn't just them a lot of people pushed them um and there's another few e-girls I know are getting
00:10:48.820 married after some I'm not gonna name names but after some crazy nonsense um and so I see the
00:10:57.520 same thing where everybody's they say oh this girl's special this girl's different this church
00:11:03.380 is different or special, but the same thing happens. So it seems like people are kind of
00:11:11.020 meant to be on their own because I've noticed whenever there's groups, women tend to rule over
00:11:18.980 the group. So the groups are like this because they need women's money and the way society is
00:11:24.180 set up, women have all the money. And then it always just turns into, and also groups allow
00:11:30.120 more, I'm obviously, I love to gossip. I'm a woman, right? We all love gossiping. And groups
00:11:37.060 kind of set you up to partake in that. It seems far better to be removed from other women as far
00:11:45.140 as possible. So you're not tempted to gossip or sin with like words, even though I talk on the
00:11:51.200 internet. So maybe it's counterintuitive. But I've noticed that the more I'm around other women,
00:11:59.260 the more I want to do that you know or the more I want to sin in that way
00:12:04.060 not to say you know there aren't worse things I could be doing um like Elijah Schaefer and Sarah
00:12:10.680 but the problem is all these people trying to make money here in this one um and they get found out
00:12:21.620 right like Elijah Schaefer um then everybody says don't judge and then you're like pissed off even
00:12:27.640 more and then you start to hate the religion you hate it because these assholes have taken your
00:12:33.960 money and then when they're found to be just as bad if not worse than the women
00:12:40.920 then they they're totally willing to take the money um and then when they're found out and
00:12:47.320 you're like hey i think you were doing this they say don't judge no i converted yesterday i'm this
00:12:54.120 and you're like i don't think so and so i've noticed that the most moral men the men that
00:12:59.720 live the closest to this don't go to mass and this is just my experience i think the most
00:13:05.880 simpy men tend to go to church because they're involving other people in that natural order
00:13:12.200 it seems like men just do good all on their own um obviously not all right but in general i think
00:13:21.520 especially when men get a family you know this is kind of a really controversial thing to say
00:13:26.720 I know somebody that went to jail um I'll just say for something very very serious
00:13:33.420 and what actually made him stop doing that because um he was found guilty yeah I don't
00:13:41.060 want to say the crime because it was but it was bad um and he admitted to it was actually having
00:13:46.840 a family and that made him think okay i need to actually do the right thing because i have this
00:13:52.340 all these people counting on me so anyways that's kind of why i have a a hard time with religion
00:13:59.940 because it just enters the group dynamic and the female bible studies are like that's not that's
00:14:08.800 not this at all how can a woman a woman lead other women that's not this now when i know people say
00:14:16.740 pearl but you like you have a channel people follow you i don't think it's the same thing i
00:14:21.500 just don't i think this is like a fun you know but i could never teach a bible study right i think
00:14:28.280 that's a man has to be in charge anyways anyways i'm kind of spitballing here but let me know in
00:14:34.680 the comments you know maybe you have a different experience or you think i'm wrong um i'm certainly
00:14:40.340 not the most educated on this topic but i you know i don't like being gaslit and i actually
00:14:47.620 think that the biggest gaslighters are religious people