Pearl - Why Do Fat Women Talk About Loving Themselves instead of Just Losing Weight

00:00:00.000 What is up my neck? What's up my neck? What's up my neck? Can't say it. Can't say it in this

00:00:14.680 country. Maybe I should say $500. I'll drop an N-bomb. $500 in the chat. I will drop an N-bomb.

00:00:23.020 Yes, I'll do it on camera. $500. And then if any time I'm in an interview in the future, 0.95

00:00:31.160 if they say, why'd you drop the N-bomb? I'll say, look, I was paid $500.

00:00:35.240 You could call me a capitalist. You could call me a capitalist. You know what I mean?

00:00:41.920 I am a capitalist. I'm here for it. But thank you guys so much for joining me. I'm sorry. It's

00:00:48.760 been a few days since I went live. I actually got pretty hammered this weekend. I won't even

00:00:52.640 lie to you guys. Pretty hammered. I know I shouldn't say that on stream, but it is what it is.

00:00:59.460 I got to tell you a story. I got to tell you a story where I'm the villain, you know. There's

00:01:04.980 times I basically played this volleyball tournament. And when I did the volleyball

00:01:13.560 tournament, the team was so bad that I just left. I left and I went and had some beers.

00:01:17.980 i laughed and i'm like it's st patty's day parade i'm not missing this you know what i mean

00:01:25.060 yeah um but it was pretty cool it was pretty cool i met some of you guys that watched the

00:01:33.440 stream this weekend at the parade which was kind of cool i love meeting you guys never

00:01:37.360 no i never i never mind you know saying hi so welcome welcome to the show

00:01:44.720 thank you guys for tuning in. All right. Let's see what's going on on Twitter this week. Cause

00:01:51.020 I like to, I like to go through and react to the tweets of the day with the Twitter spheres going.

00:02:01.140 Oh my gosh. So, okay. For those of you that don't know, this woman cheated on her husband 1.00

00:02:06.500 at a Coldplay concert and they put her and the boss on screen and then they like covered their

00:02:14.520 faces and everyone's like oh they're cheating they're cheating for sure and it turns out they're

00:02:20.520 both married okay and this woman um is now pretending to be the victim here so concert and 1.00

00:02:29.320 my daughter messaged me and said oh it's so great that you and andrew are both at cold play so she

00:02:35.400 let me know that my estranged husband was also at the concert so i think it's very important this is

00:02:40.440 what i did not know her husband was before god oprah's oh my the story and y'all can obviously

00:02:47.800 didn't know either that she was separated from her husband and that her boss was also separated

00:02:57.960 or said he was separated from his wife did you all know that no okay all right or that

00:03:06.440 or that her husband gotta say do y'all believe that no why'd you guys hide your faces then do

00:03:13.080 you like it's just i have to live in this world where my intelligence is constantly insulted

00:03:19.560 and i don't think i'm the smartest person ever really so like i don't know what it's like for

00:03:24.520 the men on this planet you guys are better than me in every way pretty much so how do the men feel

00:03:30.600 when you're just constantly having to play pretend like now i gotta pretend this wasn't cheating

00:03:36.440 like why do I live in a world like this you know was there this is the this is the thing so you get

00:03:44.560 texted from one of your children yeah my daughter was like this is so fun great I was like and in

00:03:49.820 my mind I thought well that's is this going to be weird if he sees me with Andy like that you run

00:03:55.540 into him yeah if I run into him but then I was like I'm in Gillette Stadium there's 55,000 people

00:04:00.220 here I'm probably not going to run into him but it doesn't matter I mean that would have been better

00:04:04.880 at the end of the day if i just run into him um but it's you know he knows he knows how closely

00:04:10.960 andy and i work together he knows we socially got lunches and got drinks it was fine so he knew that

00:04:15.920 there was a relationship there yes he just he knows the nature of my work and the way the really

00:04:20.800 i've shared desks with the ceos i've worked with like it's just a very close and so it didn't matter

00:04:26.480 yeah um and now she's going on i'm not a whore tour so you're gonna see these throughout your 0.96

00:04:31.360 lifetime where you know um again it's women go on instead of apology tours it's i'm not a whore 0.91

00:04:38.640 where they gaslight everybody not that anyone cares um i made ticket buys with a uh peanut sauce

00:04:45.520 yesterday but you can't i made a little bit i didn't make enough i like to meal prep where i

00:04:50.160 make the whole bag and i didn't make enough sauce so you can't really see it but it was really good

00:04:54.560 actually so and then i put some asparagus in and it was it was i don't know if i would have i think

00:05:01.680 i might have like i kind of cooked the asparagus in the noodles so i don't know in the future i

00:05:06.880 might not do that but if anyone cares um i also have my bread improving i don't know it's not

00:05:15.120 i don't think i think it's like it's not rising as much as i want so i don't know what i'm doing

00:05:19.840 wrong five dollar super chat thank you thank you i don't know like what i'm doing wrong but my bread

00:05:27.520 like it's edible but it's just not it yet and then i got bread mogged can you believe this

00:05:33.140 some guy was like come back when it looks like this i'm like obviously my bread does not look 0.99

00:05:38.240 like this like it's who the fuck screw you ned ned bunt line screw you bread mogging me 0.99

00:05:47.440 yeast needs more heat like what do you mean like I need to put in the oven longer 1.00

00:05:53.740 or I need the water to be warmer when I like do in the beginning

00:05:57.120 well it's getting better not great but you know I mean we all get to start somewhere and I really

00:06:05.700 want to be able to make every single thing I eat so I'm kind of excited I think I'm getting kind

00:06:10.180 close so you know like i really i really want to um be able to make like every single thing i eat

00:06:19.460 from scratch so you know pearl could lose a few pounds post your physique then why don't you post 0.99

00:06:30.980 your physique ten dollars you guys are thank you you guys are so nice today look at you guys

00:06:40.180 you know when i was fat when i was fat that actually would have gotten to me i would have

00:06:49.580 actually thought about that comment all day but now that i know i'm not fat i'm like

00:06:52.780 let me see your physique let me see what your body looks like post it add some flour when it rises 0.97

00:07:02.500 sounds like you're six three one sixty it sounds like you need to build muscle

00:07:19.180 get to the gym you know what i mean it's like yeah

00:07:23.740 all right let me let me keep going a woman oh okay this woman found out her father 1.00

00:07:32.280 she was not actually separated from her father so let's let's watch i'm about to be extremely

00:07:37.600 vulnerable because this might help someone i've never been this vulnerable online and like ever

00:07:44.600 okay i believe you are as sick as your secrets and saying things out loud helps free you so

00:07:52.400 my parents were married and then they had me i guess their marriage was difficult so they later 0.98

00:08:00.280 got divorced. I don't know why. I don't know the details. All I know is that they separated. So I

00:08:07.280 used to be with my mother one week and then I'll go be with my father the next week. Okay. So back

00:08:13.720 and forth one week, my dad never showed up to come and pick me up. I sat by the door, literally

00:08:21.300 waiting and waiting. He never showed up the following week. I did the same thing. I did this

00:08:26.220 for months okay he never came so i felt so rejected okay i still quite literally turn into

00:08:35.340 that little girl when i talk about it it has changed the trajectory of my life okay so i didn't

00:08:44.940 now she is a woman crying on the internet so take it with a grain of salt but something else kind 0.96

00:08:50.060 genuine about this and find out until literally recently as an adult that my father did not

00:08:57.180 abandon me my mother cut him off because she was afraid that he was gonna take me from her 0.92

00:09:04.700 so i literally had to grow up without a father thinking that my father didn't love me so i would

00:09:11.740 go on dating these men who were amazing to me i've had wonderful relationships and i would

00:09:19.100 literally feel like the love was never enough because my father didn't love me how could

00:09:25.020 another man love me so it just fucked me up okay like for good so this is why i chose the man that 0.92

00:09:32.840 i chose to have a baby with like everything truly makes sense and my grandmother tells me this and 0.99

00:09:38.780 i was angry at my mom angry okay because how dare you be that stuff fucking selfish and not think 0.97

00:09:45.680 of me you don't think i wanted to have my father i've forgiven her and i've made peace with it 0.94

00:09:52.160 but that's why i feel so strongly about cutting parents or cutting yeah so again

00:10:00.880 the mother was so selfish that she didn't allow this woman to have a father 1.00

00:10:06.160 and you know the trauma like it repeats itself i mean women once you become an adult your trauma

00:10:12.880 like is it's you got to figure it out um but it turns out her mom was the villain and she spent 0.93

00:10:19.940 her life hating her father other person off you don't get to fucking do that you don't okay because 0.96

00:10:26.080 like i said it scarred me and now my father is dead and it haunts me for the rest of my life 0.99

00:10:31.840 oh damn so she didn't even get to repair the relationship because he died holy shit because 0.99

00:10:38.400 because I literally grew up thinking he didn't want me. 0.99

00:10:42.240 That wasn't the case.

00:10:43.840 He was coming.

00:10:45.200 They were returning him.

00:10:46.940 And I was sitting there by that door,

00:10:49.020 waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting

00:10:51.740 and he never showed up.

00:10:55.520 And I hope this brings me some type of closure

00:10:59.220 because it literally eats at me all the time

00:11:03.100 still to this day.

00:11:04.520 isn't that crazy

00:11:07.880 isn't that crazy

00:11:11.900 wait I'm a little confused 0.73

00:11:34.520 black 1.00

00:11:35.840 black woman says black men are cheap she points to ryan davis saying his daughter only wants to 1.00

00:11:42.040 be around him to get money as proof she says shannon sharp's willingness to only pay 30k 0.99

00:11:45.800 towards his daughter's wedding is proof that they're cheap in relationships and

00:11:49.340 stop being loyal and go where they're respected huh that's not is that the same woman 0.99

00:11:55.160 a little bit confused

00:12:00.100 no they look different okay i'm a little confused

00:12:07.860 clav can't even bench 135 i have plenty of muscle i'm sure that did not hit a nerve

00:12:15.220 because you did not send me like five messages saying that your physique is good sure sure

00:12:25.220 okay oh sabrina carpenter

00:12:31.320 um is that lala 0.91

00:12:35.160 and apparently she called men useless here 0.90

00:12:42.600 what are you calling

00:12:45.380 come on

00:12:47.140 or is it i don't know what

00:12:51.300 But there's a cue to work for it.

00:12:59.300 I know.

00:13:00.300 Make time.

00:13:04.300 Why are you always gonna run into me?

00:13:08.300 For my life.

00:13:12.300 Won't you let it in you slip on the beat?

00:13:16.300 yeah so now she's calling men useless as they pay for her entire life it's incredible though

00:13:28.800 because um like how bratty can you be um i don't know why i just have never like thought this could

00:13:40.160 be fun i don't who likes fest does anyone like festivals in the chat can you explain it to me

00:13:46.560 because there's just no way i could find this to be comfortable where i'm like jam-packed with

00:13:52.660 other people listening to music i can barely hear i don't can somebody explain how this is fun

00:13:59.520 can anybody explain it

00:14:10.160 I don't get it. Um, I liked Ryan Stone's point. So it says parents raised by emotionally mature

00:14:18.860 parent. What's one phrase that your parents use that, that you want other parents to know

00:14:24.480 mix Becca. My husband has an incredible mother and he talks about how she never said they were

00:14:29.860 bad kids, only that they're behaving badly. She'd say things like you're such a kind boy. Why would

00:14:34.900 you say those mean things to your sister? You're not a mean person. What's going on? He talks

00:14:39.500 about how he'd be like, wait, I am a kind boy. Why am I being mean? Versus being told he was bad,

00:14:45.420 mean, and thoughtless. It's a small shift in wording, but she raised some very kind and

00:14:49.700 confident kids. Then it says, generally speaking, the industrial revolution has been horrible for

00:14:55.840 children. Women generally parent by identity. Do this or you're a bad boy, which attacks a kid's 1.00

00:15:01.460 survival instincts as being rejected by a parent and is a instinctive sentence. Men generally

00:15:09.720 parent by behavior, follow the rules and everything is good. This gives children control over their

00:15:14.360 safety and comfort. And the other problem is that a woman's mood can change her parenting. 1.00

00:15:18.580 And since kids can know that bad boy is bad, they can't tell from day to day whether they have a

00:15:24.380 good mom or a bad mom. So they act in a codependent way to please the mom as a survival strategy. 0.97

00:15:29.760 and since men stopped working at home on the farm they're at factories and cannot parent as much

00:15:34.540 so women dominate child rearing and codependence dominates childhood formative experience add that 0.94

00:15:41.700 to the divorce epidemic and you add fuel to the fire this is why you have a world of codependent

00:15:46.100 validation seeking men women have removed men from parenting and technology has removed men

00:15:51.020 from parenting this is gynocentric social order read the longhouse and its core issue is that

00:15:56.800 everything else grows from them summary of robert glover's no more mr nice guy read longhouse i

00:16:04.400 think i've read this before but let me pull it up longhouse ryan stone maybe

00:16:19.520 okay

00:16:26.800 okay let me go back

00:16:34.360 oh this was a little throwback of the debate i did this kind of circulating twitter and what

00:16:41.080 women try to do is they go into a man's world and tell them how it should be different yeah 1.00

00:16:45.020 because as you recognize even though even though they've done none of the work it seems like you

00:16:48.180 are you interviewing me or are we even though they've done none of the work of building

00:16:51.700 the society go ahead i would argue that our society would be better off if we did have a

00:16:55.940 part in building it. Our society has been stagnated and has been held back because women have been 1.00

00:17:00.240 held back. Imagine the prosperity and imagine the opportunity that the world would have if women 1.00

00:17:04.600 weren't held back and women weren't stagnated. And you continuously complain about these things that

00:17:09.540 men have to endure and then simultaneously call it a men's world that women should be grateful to 0.96

00:17:14.960 be a part of, but we should also be sensitive towards the things that they've built that are

00:17:19.500 detrimental to themselves. So what do you think men did historically? Like, what do you think

00:17:25.480 their jobs were like 1800s what were your choices as a man to do as a job because you know you

00:17:31.140 she's like it does not compute talk about how women were held back historically so i'm asking

00:17:36.500 like what was life like back then well women had to stay home and men had to do all of the jobs 0.98

00:17:41.520 because they didn't allow women to help them what were their jobs that they did what were the most

00:17:46.060 common methods of employment back then i mean what do you mean i mean it's going to be it's

00:17:50.560 going to be construction it's going to be medicine it's going to be food production it's going to be

00:17:55.280 factories it's going like the same thing that runs all of society so they had three choices coal miner 0.59

00:18:00.880 farmer factory worker nothing else happened in society i'm not saying nothing else that

00:18:05.200 was the majority of how people were employed i just i can't believe she's a doctor

00:18:14.640 um apparently joey o'connell has a liberal daughter who's filled with rage and became

00:18:20.080 physical with him when he criticized kamala let's see i'm gonna tell you about a bit of

00:18:29.440 i say this will i stay married blow it over here my um sounds like you're gonna blow it over here 1.00

00:18:36.000 the night of the election this third one yeah third election everyone knows what i'm talking

00:18:42.720 about here um i was watching late at night the returns and i'll be honest with you i didn't

00:18:50.080 think trump was going to win i live in california i didn't think he was going to win for what i was

00:18:54.160 hearing i didn't either this is where i live you know yeah um i said something along the lines of

00:19:02.960 like there was no planning this is what they get there should have been a primary i said something

00:19:10.640 along those lines you know like i was just spitballing ideas as to it was a shock you know

00:19:17.920 my wife and daughters without saying anything became became physical with me they were

00:19:30.400 they were filled with rage so if i am being careful with you in how i say things yes i

00:19:39.040 I live in California.

00:19:40.140 I live with not one, not two, but three people who,

00:19:45.020 if I made any kind of joke, they would become very angry with me.

00:19:53.540 Well, I don't want to tell you how to live your life,

00:19:56.620 but I couldn't live that way.

00:19:58.600 Whatever household or ever situation I'm in,

00:20:01.640 I say what I truly think, and if it makes you angry, I'm sorry.

00:20:05.100 We'll have to work that out.

00:20:06.080 Well, it makes sense.

00:20:06.680 But I am not going to tuck my tail between my legs 1.00

00:20:09.640 and just shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:20:11.340 This is what you were dealing with when you were a child. 1.00

00:20:13.780 Just sit there and don't say anything.

00:20:15.860 Sit on your hands.

00:20:16.960 Well, what happened to Rob Reiner?

00:20:18.500 More of that, Jerry.

00:20:19.880 More of that.

00:20:20.860 Yeah, yeah.

00:20:22.300 Where's Rob Reiner's ghost when you need him to be?

00:20:25.120 Yeah, he's cucked.

00:20:26.780 Done.

00:20:30.120 Oh, I said this girl on IG was talking about how she was broke. 0.72

00:20:33.540 I saw this reel.

00:20:34.240 and this girl is talking about how she was broken up with because her man didn't have time for a

00:20:39.620 relationship just to find out he got married six months later and i'm like girl he didn't have time

00:20:44.780 for two relationships no guys married you in six months that that you're that hung up over no way

00:20:53.900 no way either this woman blew you out of the water right just in every way like hotter younger 1.00

00:21:01.620 whatever but i i really doubt women blow anybody out of the water ever so yeah it's just you know 1.00

00:21:06.900 he had to pick a girlfriend and you were not picked sorry okay this blackpilled me because

00:21:13.940 i asked men if this body was natural and 86 said yes she's had lipo um look at you guys

00:21:21.220 gotta understand do you see how thick her arms are and she doesn't have a gut 1.00

00:21:25.140 it black pills me every day

00:21:30.660 anyways 900 men voted

00:21:40.060 oh i watched this guy apparently there's some goth guy it's getting i don't know who this is 0.97

00:21:50.420 but what pisses me off most about the human race probably what's presented in this book here sex

00:21:56.000 and culture so what pisses me off most about the human race is i think women throughout history 0.63

00:22:02.420 throughout every civilization throughout every culture are in a constant state of trying to

00:22:07.460 slot out all the time it is men constantly who are the ones responsible for stopping women from doing

00:22:15.260 this. This then makes women see men as oppressors, which is, you know, that sucks for both sides. 0.84

00:22:22.340 As a woman, you feel like you're being oppressed. As a man, you're being viewed as an oppressor all

00:22:26.660 the time. Secondly, the second women are allowed to become complete whores, they do end up dominating 1.00

00:22:32.340 society and they get everything. They get all the money, all the power, all the influence, 0.99

00:22:36.800 all the success. They get everything they want. The worst part about all of this, and the more

00:22:42.080 you read this book, the more this happens. Every single time this happens, it happens for a very

00:22:46.360 short time before the entirety of the civilization crumbles to dust. So women are in a constant state 1.00

00:22:53.060 of trying to be whores. Men are in a constant state of making sure women do not do that. The 1.00

00:22:59.480 moment women do do that. Yeah, you have to understand women, whoring gives us power. We 1.00

00:23:03.620 got to stop act like women are like brainwashed into whoring. Whoring, there's no way you can 1.00

00:23:07.920 move up faster in society than being naked and being an absolute slut whore look i mean if i 1.00

00:23:15.800 wanted to be a billionaire you know it's the fastest way i could do it's not hard work it's 0.99

00:23:19.260 not inventing something i'm retarded we're all retarded it's um getting naked i mean not that 0.89

00:23:25.220 you know i mean i'm cute but i'm not i'm not hot enough to be a billionaire although nowadays i'm 0.75

00:23:29.420 like these of girls that are getting i'm too old but like these of girls making all this money off 1.00

00:23:35.320 being naked i'm like this gets a billion dollars you know what i mean this this man or this woman

00:23:42.520 i'm like but you know anyways that there's a brief period of utter total female dominance 1.00

00:23:51.000 which is then abruptly met with total annihilation the thing i hate about the human race

00:23:56.920 is we've developed these this immense tool our minds this incredible ability to create what

00:24:04.040 we've created we are so deeply profoundly more intelligent than any other creature on earth and

00:24:11.640 yet unfortunately we are plagued by the the same instinctual desires to mate and breed and we are

00:24:20.760 the same slaves to that drive and desire yep oh i was on um i was on gb news you can react to this

00:24:28.840 this um I think I got mogged here I'm not gonna lie I was kind of hung over doing this

00:24:34.300 I agreed to do it but I'm like I'm a little bit hung over I'm a little bit I'm a little 0.97

00:24:39.940 bit hung over right now I don't know if I should be um on the news but fuck you know 0.80

00:24:46.620 they asked me that morning and I'm like oh I'm like my headache I'm like I don't know 0.97

00:24:53.400 And before this interview, I'm like, can I do it?

00:24:57.240 Should I do it?

00:24:58.500 And then I'm like, F it.

00:25:06.320 Invite Jake.

00:25:07.340 Who's Jake?

00:25:09.380 Blackpilled woman. 0.99

00:25:10.200 And no, you're not old.

00:25:11.040 You're at your prime.

00:25:12.040 Aw, I love you guys.

00:25:14.100 I'll eat that right up today.

00:25:15.940 Jake is an awesome guy.

00:25:17.140 Let his appearance, not let his appearance deceive you.

00:25:20.760 He's a sweetheart.

00:25:22.400 i mean honestly the reason i don't love collabs um is because

00:25:32.720 i really just like to go live when i feel like it and that requires me to go live at the same time

00:25:41.680 i just feel like you know i like to i know i know um although i'm i'm gonna take a sponsorship

00:25:51.520 soon that's going to require interviews so i guess i guess put them in the comments because i'm

00:25:55.760 i'm going to do more soon anyway so i'm kind of hung over and i was thinking about it like damn

00:26:00.640 i got absolutely what do they call it mogged i'm like this girl mogged me she looks so cute look 0.87

00:26:06.320 at her anyways i'll start with you are men immature men should we say to blame for britain's declining

00:26:13.360 birth rate well what do they mean by immature men like if maturity is the problem why don't

00:26:20.320 women just date older men that's always an option it's a good point it's a good point i've gone on 1.00

00:26:26.720 social media sorry go ahead it was the echo wasn't no i was just saying it's a great point and i

00:26:34.400 looked at the list of things that women said that the reason that men gave them the ick smiling too 0.72

00:26:40.960 much being mothers boys tying their shoes playing pool doing yoga opening the car door um you know

00:26:47.600 know, when women have lists that are, you know, hundreds of pages long at this point of all the 1.00

00:26:52.500 things that men are doing wrong, what gender are the immature ones? You know, to me, women make 1.00

00:26:58.820 excuses for the fact that women do not want to be mothers and they want to blame men when really

00:27:04.100 the real issue is women don't want to reproduce with average men and cannot get commitment from 0.98

00:27:07.760 the men that they want. So interesting stuff there, Paul. And I'll pass that over to you.

00:27:12.620 Paul's made an interesting observation there is are both sides to blame is it just is it just is

00:27:17.760 it immature men or is it perhaps picky women or there's this thing called the ick I've seen that

00:27:22.880 trend on social media before what do you think Annette? Yes I think that nobody wants actually

00:27:31.220 a man baby and if we look at the stats we know that men are very much so sitting at home with

00:27:39.540 their trousers around their ankles and a box of kleenex and an only fan subscription and it's not

00:27:44.800 funny it's not sexy they're gaming also way too much they're chronically online way too much and

00:27:53.400 women don't find it attractive and yes you could say go for an older man but not all women want to 1.00

00:27:58.220 procreate with an older man that's the issue and actually if we look back at the 1970s um about 62

00:28:06.320 like i just feel as though i am forced like i should never have heard a woman's opinion that's 0.99

00:28:12.960 this stupid and bitchy like why am i in a world where i have to listen to your opinion 1.00

00:28:19.800 am i crazy for thinking this i'm like what 1.00

00:28:26.460 percent of 25 year olds were married and today that's only two percent so i do blame the men

00:28:34.780 and they need to sort it out paul over to you you're going to talk about if you're going to talk

00:28:39.580 about um men's video game addiction why don't you talk about women's social media addiction

00:28:44.140 most women spend like eight hours a day on their phones and it's far more detrimental to women than 1.00

00:28:49.340 it is to men i mean we can see women on tick tock complaining about these smallest littlest things

00:28:55.020 when it comes to men you have dating apps now where you can filter men by height by race by

00:29:01.500 even income on some apps. It's like, what more do you want, ladies? What more could you find? 0.99

00:29:05.900 You can get thousands of matches on these apps and you can't find one you like enough, really?

00:29:11.660 Well, that's the whole thing. So dating apps in general, they have found that they are less people

00:29:17.340 are using them because both sides are actually finding them a nightmare. It's this whole casino

00:29:22.620 effect. It's the same with TikTok and Instagram with people doom scrolling. It's not good for

00:29:27.660 anybody but your average person isn't going to not find you know they don't want to go on dating apps

00:29:34.380 and actually are men taking responsibility for that do men have good conversation skills do they

00:29:41.820 want to be motivated to be in a relationship and it seems like a lot don't you think that's just

00:29:46.540 complaining about anything though i mean come on if you gave a man an app okay okay let me ask you

00:29:52.140 a question he would find one he likes right okay let me ask you it just shows that women will 1.00

00:29:56.380 complain about anything. Yeah, sure. Okay. Let me ask you a question. If you had a husband

00:30:01.000 and he had an OnlyFans subscription and was spending the household money on it,

00:30:06.440 would you be okay with that? I wouldn't blame him if I was obese. I mean,

00:30:10.920 if women really wanted to stop the OnlyFans crisis. 1.00

00:30:13.720 And let Paul finish, let Paul finish, go on. Yeah. Again, if women really cared about what 1.00

00:30:20.280 their husbands wanted, they wouldn't be fat. So as far as I'm concerned, if you're a woman 0.99

00:30:24.900 and you're overweight and your husband's you know subscribe to only fans maybe get on the treadmill

00:30:29.940 yeah but what if he likes junk in the trunk what if he's that's his thing some men like that what's

00:30:34.740 wrong with that um well again if they liked junk in the trunk then the only fans models would be

00:30:41.060 fat but they're not so look at what i like how i just i'm just going to interject just briefly sorry

00:30:49.780 sorry sorry i just want to interject briefly is is annette i want to put this to you is it

00:30:55.060 the case that um i do not i look so bad in this it's all over the place i was so hung over and

00:31:02.260 are too immature or is it actually a product of the society that we've been building because

00:31:07.060 you know i i would say some of your criticisms about only fans and things like that well they

00:31:11.060 are also also perpetuated by people like uh you know only fans models there's some quite famous

00:31:16.100 ones out there that put out some quite racy content so we've also been talking about the

00:31:20.700 manosphere lately but there's also another side to that where where women are perhaps just as picky 1.00

00:31:25.900 I think Pearl had a really good point about that you know women by far on these the data showing 0.83

00:31:30.280 on these dating apps having lots of connections with men but men not getting the same in return

00:31:35.320 so is it fair to put the blame all on men? Well I think we have to look at when you talk about the

00:31:41.540 word picky when women do actually have children we know there's a cost of living crisis and that 1.00

00:31:47.640 you know two household incomes are going on very very much so in many families but women do 65 1.00

00:31:53.620 more household labor than men as well as working full-time and that they find difficult they also

00:32:01.440 lose 65 000 pounds um in the first five years of having a child so yes there's a bit of cost

00:32:07.900 living crisis going on but they need a secure partnership and at the end of the day marriage

00:32:13.260 is a business all right listen that data is collected that data is collected by ungrateful

00:32:20.140 women and they don't include the things that men do like assembling things from amazon and 0.99

00:32:24.780 there's other household chores they just count there's more to life than ikea i'm sorry we've

00:32:29.660 run out of time yeah yep that's me debating hungover you know what i mean

00:32:39.740 it's like my bad my bad oh this was an old debate i can't chase women down not because i'm better

00:32:48.620 than them or i have an ego it's for my own mental health we're in a new age right where women have 1.00

00:32:53.680 hyperabundance meaning that we they don't see guys as like we're like fourth i think for for

00:32:59.860 zoomer women we're like seventh most important and for women past the wall or we're like fourth 1.00

00:33:04.140 most important priority right we're not as important as we think we are to women right 1.00

00:33:08.960 if women do not show me that they don't care about being in relationships right 1.00

00:33:13.520 and why would i chase them down i've had women that you know offer to take care of my my puppy 1.00

00:33:20.360 right almost lose him almost get him killed and then hand him over to me and say hey uh sorry

00:33:28.900 about your dog and then laugh and say i can't see you anymore i'm seeing another guy and then like

00:33:33.320 and then a week before that we were holding hands at a coffee shop a lot of men are trying their

00:33:39.340 best and have tried their whole lives to be in the top so they can get a wife and kids and guess

00:33:47.380 what women still are not asking for relationships i can promise you you can't see this and i don't 1.00

00:33:53.700 blame you because you don't date women right but i can promise you most men are feeling this kind

00:34:01.060 of phenomenon where it isn't until they absolutely have to women will not settle we created this we 1.00

00:34:09.700 are the ones that throw money at women we create gold diggers we create whatever right because we

00:34:14.740 create them that was a good debate she deleted her twitter after that um 0.91

00:34:25.780 i said if people stop having sex once they get married why do people get married at all

00:34:31.460 it's i just never under like i was thinking about it if i was a guy 0.99

00:34:36.260 this would make you kind of dumb if you get married because 0.97

00:34:39.380 you're only giving up you're like i want to give up leverage 0.99

00:34:42.500 i don't know but covid screen time normalized drugs and microplastics severely damaged our

00:34:49.780 brains and trying to lower human collective consciousness stop it you look prettier than

00:34:55.220 that thing with horrendous makeup you have a natural charm the voice of the other woman lowers 0.99

00:34:59.220 my testosterone yeah she's crazy um okay let's see what else um a 28 year old married teacher 1.00

00:35:07.860 had sex with a sixth grade student. Look at this. Now from the 12 News I team, hours of recorded 1.00

00:35:14.680 police interviews released to 12 News detailing evidence in the case of Brittany Zamora. She's

00:35:20.820 the former sixth grade teacher accused of sexually abusing one of her students. And tonight you'll

00:35:25.800 hear from the parents of that 13 year old student. His mother and father received a call from the

00:35:30.320 teacher. You can imagine how alarmed they were after they discovered sexually explicit text

00:35:35.520 messages on their son's phone team 12's antony mejia takes us inside that explosive phone call

00:35:42.160 got even mark we do want to warn you what you're about to hear may be considered disturbing

00:35:47.120 we've also altered the voices of the team's parents to protect their identities

00:35:53.440 i don't what you want you what type of perverted person are you i want to know right now 0.90

00:35:59.040 a father demanding a response from his son's sixth grade teacher 28 year old britney zamora 0.99

00:36:04.800 you're a child molester do you understand me um no why do you say that oh gee i'm a lot smarter

00:36:11.200 than you can we meet you know to talk about this we can settle out you know outside oh yeah oh yeah 0.99

00:36:18.880 that's what we can do so i can give you a chance to do it to some other kid yeah that's exact

00:36:22.800 that's exactly what we're going to do that's exactly no and make sure you tell your husband

00:36:26.480 what's going on he's right here can he talk to you oh yeah put your husband on the phone she's done

00:36:32.160 so much and she made a huge mistake the biggest mistake of anybody could ever make in a whole

00:36:38.000 entire world what do you think about oh my god god preaches forgiveness a sixth grader

00:36:48.160 your wife decided to be a monster and prey on a child she scarred my son mentally for do you 0.99

00:36:54.400 understand what a 13 year old boy did having sex with her teacher do you get that at all do me a 0.99

00:36:59.520 favor do not call this number back again the next time you'll hear from me we'll be in court

00:37:04.080 but hours later the team's parents calls amora back with detectives in the room

00:37:09.200 i just don't know why why you did this honestly like i i just got really close

00:37:15.680 after i think everything went down and we're like oh like how could that happen

00:37:21.680 oh now zamora is facing charges for sexual misconduct with a minor she is expected back 0.97

00:37:28.960 in court tomorrow morning and the boys family has filed a lawsuit against the liberty elementary

00:37:34.240 school district and zamora's husband claiming they knew about the sexual abuse and didn't stop it

00:37:40.880 we're live in the alert center antonia mejia 12 news all right antonia thank you how disgusting is 1.00

00:37:47.600 that i had this teacher once and i went what is wrong that's what i said guys like their reaction

00:37:58.800 to this stuff depends on how hot the teacher is um oh i was thinking about this okay i was thinking

00:38:06.560 about how i went through all this trouble to learn to cook right because growing up i was kind of a

00:38:15.600 useless like person because i did travel sports and my schedule in high school was i'd get out

00:38:21.680 of school at like two three maybe three o'clock and then i would have a two-hour volleyball 0.65

00:38:25.920 practice and a two-hour basketball practice so um and my mom she worked and i grew up with like

00:38:31.900 rotating nannies so there just wasn't a lot of like stability you know what i mean like structure

00:38:37.000 i'll say um and anyways i didn't learn like basic cooking and cleaning skills partially because of

00:38:45.700 the travel sports and partially because um my mom i mean she was no she wasn't really she didn't

00:38:51.300 like cook every day you know so anyways as an adult I had to learn all this stuff and I feel

00:38:57.920 like it freaking took me forever it took me like so much work to learn like if you start from zero

00:39:05.520 it just takes like forever now I'm to the point where I actually I can't cook and I'm still messy

00:39:12.020 but at least I know how to like clean properly right anyways I realized though once you get to

00:39:20.720 your mid to late twenties, you're dating guys, um, five, 10, maybe 15 years older. Maybe that's

00:39:27.900 just me. Right. And I would say in my experience, most men, there's two types of men, right over

00:39:33.920 the age of like 30, 35. Okay. No, there's three types. Type one. No, I can cook now,

00:39:47.460 but I couldn't cook like five years ago okay um type one

00:39:52.520 he already learned to cook himself and he would rather do it himself because by the time a guy's

00:39:59.920 30 or 35 he is going to just because being by because he's a man he's going to have found a

00:40:07.160 better way to cook than you and to him it's like a hassle like I have to train you how to do it

00:40:14.080 even though you're just gonna leave me for another man later like that's kind of how they think so

00:40:18.160 they're like why i'll just do it myself or i have to what like they appreciate the effort right they

00:40:23.920 do men always appreciate effort but they find it a little bit annoying because they could do it

00:40:29.120 better and a lot of times they would prefer to do it themselves and many have to the point where

00:40:35.680 they actually love doing it it's like a joy okay

00:40:49.360 the other type of men you find is um and i would say these are men over like a certain income

00:40:56.880 right this is women only like see men over a certain income right the other type of man eats 0.99

00:41:03.440 out all the time and he genuinely like these are guys in some a lot of times they're in finance

00:41:08.720 or some sort of like they love their restaurants like they love where they eat out they want to

00:41:14.720 eat men are creatures of habit and so by the time a guy is 30 or 40 he has his habits and he likes

00:41:22.240 to eat out and then there's like maybe 10 or 20 of men that like want you to cook for them right

00:41:30.000 they're like they're they do exist um yeah but here's the thing you can cook with them but in

00:41:36.580 general you just slow them down and so even if you're trying your hardest to be helpful

00:41:40.120 just like by being a woman you're just slowing them down 1.00

00:41:44.540 and i was thinking about it i'm like really the things that men want are beauty youth

00:41:54.500 yeah kids and um you just sitting there and listening and like doing whatever they want to do 0.98

00:42:02.280 i don't think men i think it does it kind of makes sense that women are so useless because 1.00

00:42:07.280 all the things that men want now are kind of like um require no skill right 0.96

00:42:13.560 yeah

00:42:16.440 co-cooking never works yeah you know what i mean

00:42:26.000 not yeah and so i was thinking about it i'm like you know

00:42:32.400 i went through all this work to learn to cook um just to find out it's not really needed for most

00:42:40.660 men i was like i was thinking about it i'm like most of them and i know you guys are gonna roast

00:42:48.340 me in the chat and say pearl like you're just a terrible cook and i'm like maybe that was true 0.99

00:42:52.420 a few years ago but i'm really not now i'm like i'm actually a pretty good cook now um

00:42:58.580 but like i'm just saying in general i would say the most like the things men need the most would

00:43:04.340 be meal prepping like maybe lunches they'd like but a lot of times they do that themselves too

00:43:08.900 and doing the dishes i would say like doing the dishes that is something they appreciate

00:43:18.500 yeah

00:43:30.660 so i mean this is just so it's like i i got this advice you know

00:43:35.700 and i put a lot of time and effort into learning this advice um just to find out to be honest if

00:43:43.860 you're a single woman it actually it's going to be more of an roi on your time to go to events

00:43:49.860 and stuff where you meet these guys maybe even like dive bars a lot of maybe not the girly events

00:43:55.220 you want to go to like but do you see what i'm saying i was thinking about it and i'm like wow

00:44:00.580 i put in all this time yeah laundry is the other one dishes and laundry

00:44:18.100 i i know i know i i cook and keep my home clean it's not that hard and my place gets

00:44:22.820 cleaned in like two hours another person in my life would just be to have a woman around 1.00

00:44:26.420 I know

00:44:29.340 oh I talked to a paramedic the other day

00:44:36.460 and he said he didn't see a difference

00:44:38.080 in the weight of people having heart attacks

00:44:40.560 and I was like wow life isn't fair

00:44:42.440 I had a question of how would men treat women

00:44:48.760 if men were half as diabolical at getting revenge

00:44:52.540 because you know men are more capable at everything 0.81

00:44:54.420 so um oh actually before i get into that talking point cleanup sucks but then you don't clean it

00:45:01.660 exactly how they want and they can clean better than you and then again it's like too much work

00:45:06.240 to train you to clean it as well as they clean it that they're just like you know what just i'll do

00:45:11.480 it you know what i mean like it's um all right how would men treat women if men were half as

00:45:21.280 diabolical getting revenge.

00:45:42.400 Bro, I've thought about this and men would be chaos machines. If guys had even half the

00:45:47.220 strategic plotting women do, the world would be a war zone full of petty revenge. I'd probably be 1.00

00:45:53.400 hiding under a rock to survive. That said, I think most men are built for that level of cunning.

00:45:58.080 Yeah. So. Okay. This preschool teacher explains how kids today are different from 10 to 15 years

00:46:10.820 ago so for those of you that don't know me i have owned and operated a daycare center um and taught

00:46:19.380 four-year-old preschool for 20 years okay and i had a lady ask me today if i had seen a difference

00:46:28.580 in kids today and the kids 10 15 years ago well yes ma'am i have i'm going to tell you 10 15 years

00:46:38.980 ago we were sending kids to school reading kindergarteners were going in reading they knew

00:46:44.020 their sight words okay they knew a quarter dime a nickel a penny and then the difference in the

00:46:49.940 amount of it okay um they could hold scissors they could hold pencils they could color inside the

00:46:57.700 lines they knew how to write the um their names correctly with uppercase and all lowercase

00:47:04.740 they could recognize their names they recognized letters uppercase lowercase and numbers today's

00:47:12.340 kids they can't hold scissors they can't cut and rip paper they have no clue 0.95

00:47:24.420 and you think this is because all the kids are ivf now or because so they're like half retarded 0.99

00:47:29.140 or is it because um or like they're more dumb because the eggs are older or because the parents 0.97

00:47:36.740 are less involved no consistency with any chore they can't focus um but i know one thing they do 0.99

00:47:47.740 know they know how to operate a phone damn they know how to turn an ipad on they know how to put

00:47:54.280 password in and they can play games on the ipad but they don't recognize their own name 0.99

00:48:02.200 is anyone else seeing this damn 0.98

00:48:12.680 oh so this guy's wife is um coping again akash his wife obviously myron does what he does 0.99

00:48:28.240 and then the incels do what they do my question because i've never gotten to ask somebody who

00:48:34.700 was really on the receiving end of the internet and that to that scale yeah like you were how did

00:48:44.380 you feel i remember because you asked me this question like what is it like to look at like

00:48:49.060 think pieces and people analyzing your marriage and your personality it feels weird and it feels

00:48:55.760 surreal because you're like but you don't know me you don't know anything about me you've never

00:49:00.840 talk to me like you're taking i think that if i talked to you i would actually believe it more

00:49:07.080 taking the intention of this video in the complete wrong way and i mean this obviously

00:49:14.920 goes without saying but the misogyny was like really crazy because obviously we know it exists

00:49:21.960 in our society but to see it so rampant and like full force and just like unapologetically there 0.94

00:49:28.760 i was like oh my god like this is a real fucking thing and it's like it was bizarre to me because 0.95

00:49:36.120 i'm like my husband can go on stage and literally has a joke in his special about like getting a 0.98

00:49:42.440 hooker isn't like cheating it's just outsourcing which i really don't care like i think it's a 1.00

00:49:47.720 funny joke but it's like if i say something that's equally you know because men and women 0.96

00:49:53.160 aren't equal and it wasn't equally disrespectful at all oh raunchy like then i'm a whore or all 0.93

00:50:00.440 these things when it's like but the reality is what the reality is it's like i was a virgin

00:50:06.600 when i met my husband we lost our virginity to each other and i never made that a part of my

00:50:11.960 identity i only shared that because i share my life story because i'm an overshare y'all made

00:50:18.440 a part of my identity and then used it against me i don't give a if i was a virgin or i wasn't

00:50:24.040 or if my body count was 100 but it wasn't those are just facts so if you want to take like tongue

00:50:30.440 in cheek videos and make it into something it's not like that's not really a reflection of me

00:50:35.080 that's a reflection of them and i think moreover what people don't realize like i just have never

00:50:41.640 seen a woman cope so hard i don't even want to say his name but this loser whose name you said 0.94

00:50:48.040 like he was on the flagrant podcast like five years ago and my husband just humbled the 0.75

00:50:54.920 out of him and basically embarrassed him because he was like i think what you do is corny

00:50:59.720 and it's not really helping men so there's that and i think every year he would try to like bait 0.99

00:51:06.200 them by being like oh you guys are pussies or you guys are this but then every year that clip 0.99

00:51:10.120 would circulate and i think deep down it really embarrassed and humiliated and emasculated him 0.99

00:51:17.080 so when all of this first started um i can't listen to any more oh my god it's just her voice

00:51:27.400 all right that's enough i think that's my intro today is just going through twitter

00:51:32.360 if you're asking why there's a table that's a right side up in the background that will mind

00:51:36.520 your business mind your business you know stop asking questions you know stop it there's a good

00:51:42.680 reason. Okay. There's a total good reason. Okay. Okay. Okay. All right. So today we are talking

00:51:54.280 about women's self-help. And I'm going to put the link in the chat for you guys to put in your

00:52:05.320 comments, your questions and concerns. So I've noticed that women's self-improvement includes 1.00

00:52:13.200 things, um, start over. I've noticed that men and women have different forms of self-improvement.

00:52:23.020 And there's a big difference between men's self-improvement and women's self-improvement.

00:52:28.240 You know, a man's self-improvement might be to get in shape, get to the gym,

00:52:33.780 Get gains, six pack abs, make a bunch of money, right?

00:52:38.880 Go, go to work, work really hard, get a second job, you know, get, make some money so you 0.97

00:52:44.760 can pull bitches, get out of debt, you know, stop being a simping, overcoming your simpery. 1.00

00:52:54.640 Overcoming the simpiness. 0.99

00:52:56.260 men improve not only for themselves but for others they improve to be a better husband to

00:53:06.200 be a better father and be more productive for society their self-improvement has tangible

00:53:12.980 outcomes and goals for their efforts and i think me personally i am an expert on men's self-improvement

00:53:19.440 because i've been in this self-improvement space for years um well i don't tell personally tell

00:53:24.960 men what to do. I work with a lot of men that do like Myron, Justin Waller, you know, Justin Waller

00:53:30.060 will tell you how to get your rotation in order, how to pull more bitches, how to stop being run 1.00

00:53:35.180 by your women, right? Myron, he'll tell you how to make more money, how to get in shape. I mean, 0.99

00:53:40.680 who's more in the gym than my, I mean, Myron goes like three days a week, no steroids, like six

00:53:46.480 billion days a week, no steroids, right? Sneak goes out there fighting. All these, all these guys

00:53:53.000 are just working fresh, you know, exists, right? Sorry, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

00:54:02.360 I'm kidding. Um, but all these guys are really, um, are really, are really telling people to

00:54:10.260 improve, you know, but then there's women's self-help. 1.00

00:54:16.040 then there's women's self-help and women's self-help 0.95

00:54:23.700 is to be more confident queen

00:54:28.560 and what is really detrimental about women's self-help is women want to have confidence with

00:54:36.280 no accomplishments now i was talking to this with somebody today i play volleyball right

00:54:41.400 and there's a woman who just is not the best at volleyball she's not the worst but she's just not 1.00

00:54:47.320 that good like on one to ten i give her like a 3.54 now me in this league i'm going to give 1.00

00:54:53.240 myself a 10 because um just you know out of the 10 15 people that go you know there's probably

00:55:01.540 one or two guys at about the same level but i'm in the top you know quadrant it's not this is just

00:55:06.140 a rec league it doesn't take much i'm not a 10 in the context of all of volleyball but just i've

00:55:10.740 been playing so long do you know what i mean i just i'm not even going to be humble about this

00:55:14.400 so like what i'm going to be humble for the point of what i'm the best in the rec league okay

00:55:22.360 i'm the best just in the rec league okay

00:55:25.280 and anyways um

00:55:31.460 today we're arguing about a call right and um this woman and this this guy white guy of course

00:55:40.320 this white guy he's arguing with her um she is calling i hit the ball and she's calling i didn't

00:55:47.460 really see it right i i couldn't tell because i hit it was a sharp cross and so i would have

00:55:52.660 accepted anything but everyone's saying the ball's in but this woman was very confident the ball was

00:55:57.120 out and she's the white guy across and on my side of the net it's like no that was it and both of

00:56:03.460 me i know this white guy he doesn't really have a big ego so like we're both kind of on the same

00:56:08.000 level of like, um, play and neither of us have huge egos. Right. And so I know this white guy,

00:56:20.640 like, I know the woman has a big ego and the problem is she sucks, but there's no humility, 1.00

00:56:26.060 right? Confidence, you know, we're not against confidence, but confidence we know has to come 0.99

00:56:34.660 with competence, right? So like I'm confident in this league because I'm the one of the most

00:56:38.940 confident ones. But if you put me in a different league, my confidence would go down because in

00:56:44.540 that room I'm less competent. But in this league, I'm, I'm pretty like, Hey, this is where you're

00:56:50.940 supposed to be. This is where the calls. But again, if I get into a room with more competent

00:56:55.160 people, I try to know my place, right? I'm like, Ooh. And this woman, her confidence is like here

00:57:04.600 to the point she's arguing on me, the white guy. There's like one other white guy. She argues with

00:57:09.460 them all the time. And I'm thinking, you are the, one of the worst ones here. I mean, today there 0.94

00:57:17.140 was a call and I just said, do you guys not think I know what I'm like to the woman? I'm like, do

00:57:21.680 you not think I know what I'm, this was a different day, different woman. You know, she,

00:57:26.540 she made a call and I was kind of getting annoyed because she was arguing with me about the call. 0.97

00:57:33.180 i'm like bitch i played overseas do you not think i know what i'm talking about you're like b team 1.00

00:57:39.340 rec league there's like too much of a difference for you to be arguing with me and i feel the same 0.91

00:57:45.820 way when i play basketball right i mean there's an ex-nba player that goes to my gym and honestly

00:57:51.420 if he made a call i'd just give it to him because that's deference right i'm like well you've been

00:57:55.900 playing longer than i have you know and but this is the problem i realized that women's self-help 1.00

00:58:03.180 women's self-help and women in general build these monsters because, you know, they give us 1.00

00:58:08.860 confidence with no accomplishments. You know, it's why I've heard of, anyone heard of imposter

00:58:13.840 syndrome? Imposter syndrome. I think imposter syndrome is simply a female, I want to share my 0.92

00:58:23.320 screen, is a female thing. It's an internal experience of self-doubt and fear of being 1.00

00:58:29.540 exposed as a fraud despite evidence of success. I think this is mostly women because we do get 1.00

00:58:35.320 evidence of success in society, right? We'll get a promotion, make more money than we deserve,

00:58:41.680 dah, dah, dah, dah, dah. But we still have self-doubt and inability to recognize our

00:58:48.780 own competence because we shouldn't be there, right? Attributing success to external factors,

00:58:56.740 You know, I've noticed that the most successful men, they don't really care about, like, all they want to do is get the job done.

00:59:06.760 They don't really care about credit or if they deserve it.

00:59:10.700 They look at that as a waste of time.

00:59:12.960 Fear of being found out.

00:59:14.160 Constant fear that peers or superiors will expose you as a fraud.

00:59:17.440 Well, again, that's a women thing. 1.00

00:59:20.000 That's women. 1.00

00:59:22.460 You know.

00:59:22.800 overworking a superhero mentality where individuals work excessively hard to prevent

00:59:29.380 being exposed perfectionism setting unattainable goals and feeling disappointed when falling short

00:59:36.320 so um women set unattainable goals that they won't work for and then say they're perfectionist 1.00

00:59:42.760 but i don't think so right overworking you know women will think they're overworking 1.00

00:59:49.540 But people that actually overwork, they always say they can do more.

00:59:52.740 You know what I mean?

01:00:00.260 How to overcome it.

01:00:01.760 Talk about it.

01:00:02.600 See, that's what women do. 1.00

01:00:03.380 They don't solve the problem.

01:00:04.320 They talk about it.

01:00:05.440 Separate feelings from facts.

01:00:07.000 So this is where the therapist will say, look at the title you have and not recognize the 0.98

01:00:12.700 retarded mistakes the woman makes every single day, right? 1.00

01:00:16.620 um yeah again list the title accomplishments um but everyone knows you're not doing your job

01:00:22.220 challenge perfectionism setting realistic rather than perfect goals and accepting mistakes as part

01:00:27.640 of learning practicing self-compassion challenging self-sabotaging thoughts and do self-talk like men 0.55

01:00:34.680 they say increase skill women say increase self-talk

01:00:40.480 the next um tenet of women's um self-help is loving yourself even though you're fat broken 1.00

01:00:53.360 in debt yeah so women are overweight in this country we're in a bunch of debt and we're broke 1.00

01:00:58.860 not very good parents either and women's self-help say love yourself anyway men want to plan so when 0.57

01:01:06.560 they want to solve something they say what's step one and as a woman guys we can learn a lot from

01:01:11.660 men i mean that's always what i ask anybody um i say what's step one step two i want a step i want

01:01:18.880 a autistic level step by step so prove to me that you know what you're talking about

01:01:25.020 that's the thing we fix things because we like to see them working not for validation

01:01:31.340 oh my gosh that is a great point i love you guys the super chats sometimes you guys have better

01:01:35.840 points then probably all the time you have better points than me i mean you guys are men i'm women

01:01:40.480 you know i don't we work for ourselves to feel better not to impress some random girl on the

01:01:46.320 street yeah women want higher self-esteem while being worse people 1.00

01:01:57.360 oh in debt sorry if i'm so women will simultaneously be more selfish less giving 1.00

01:02:05.840 and a worse overall person and demand to feel better about themselves.

01:02:12.800 Now, again, when you're a selfless person, confidence ensues, right?

01:02:18.860 When you're useful, competent, and selfless.

01:02:21.860 But women want the good feeling of being a good person while doing no work for the good person. 1.00

01:02:28.560 Isn't it crazy?

01:02:29.700 Part of women's self-help is to live a soft life, demand more, right? 1.00

01:02:35.840 Um, women want to stop people pleasing, even though they're worshipped 24 seven, all of society in the world caters to women and women's self-help is to stop people pleasing. 0.99

01:02:53.260 Isn't that incredible? Women can't cook, can't clean, can't lose weight. And yet they demand 1.00

01:03:01.800 and they say, let me please people, let me be more useless. It's incredible. My gender, 0.96

01:03:14.660 ladies, I mean, you guys keep me employed. You are incredible. You're incredible, right? 1.00

01:03:23.260 And it's like incredible how delusional you can be.

01:03:31.540 Just when you think the delusion is here, we find a way to break.

01:03:35.500 Men break barriers by inventing things and doing all of the work. 0.97

01:03:39.660 Women break barriers by breaking the barrier of how delusional we can be. 1.00

01:03:45.360 Right?

01:03:50.560 Mindfulness.

01:03:51.120 Now, I get to Google what that meant because when women say mindfulness, I'm like, what does that even mean? 1.00

01:04:02.500 The practice of intentionally focusing on the present moment with openness and not in judgment, helping to reduce stress and increase emotional regulation.

01:04:14.580 So our next self-improvement is to do more nothing than we already do.

01:04:21.760 Ladies, you're going to keep me employed forever. 1.00

01:04:23.940 I love you guys.

01:04:27.600 Another self-help that I found is that women ask for more money while doing less work. 1.00

01:04:35.760 So again, the self-help isn't, you know, how to be more useful to your boss.

01:04:41.300 It's how to ask for a raise.

01:04:43.940 How to ask for even more as if we don't have enough.

01:04:47.760 Thank you for the $20 super chat.

01:04:50.380 I love you.

01:04:51.120 thank you. Give me more money. See, I'm doing self-help.

01:05:00.040 Give me more money, bitches. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I'm just 1.00

01:05:05.160 kidding. You know? The next self-help is asking for a softer life, having a softer life,

01:05:14.320 even though we do the softer jobs, we do less work, we have Uber Eats, we don't cook,

01:05:27.400 we don't clean. And society said, do you know what you need, ladies? A softer, oh, $50. 0.99

01:05:34.340 $20. See that? Do you know what, Prazer? You know, it's just, wait, actually, let me Google

01:05:45.160 women's self-help, how to ask for a raise. All right, let's see. 1.00

01:05:55.040 Prepare your case. List achievements and focus on the wins. All right, Prazer, so I have

01:06:01.720 accomplished nothing, but I talk for a living. Okay. I talk for a living. My views are down

01:06:09.820 actually this year. I would say my peak was in 2023 and I've never quite recovered.

01:06:18.240 But call her daddy. It says, do your research and call her daddy makes $50 million. And even though

01:06:26.520 i don't have the views the money or create the revenue right i think i deserve more money

01:06:38.420 it says start with positivity so

01:06:41.240 i'm gonna you know i love i'm following the script here i love this job

01:06:51.760 um the achievements and let's skip over that

01:06:57.360 i am requesting five hundred dollars no no no sorry as a woman it says i might not ask for

01:07:11.880 enough. I am requesting $1,000 for this show. Now I'm supposed to stop talking. I can't

01:07:29.140 do that. I can't do that. I guess I'll never get the raise. Oh, well. It says, don't assume

01:07:40.540 your work speaks for itself. So I got to say, Hey, I really talk. I talk. I'm a talker.

01:07:49.700 Avoid emotional arguments. Focus on market value and business. You know, I had a bitch do this to 1.00

01:07:53.960 me once. She asked for double the salary, but she was so dumb. A hundred. Thank you, Praiser. You 1.00

01:08:01.780 got, you're dropping this today. And you know what she did? She asked for double the salary 1.00

01:08:05.820 and it turns out this bitch wasn't working. And when I fired her, I didn't notice a difference. 1.00

01:08:10.180 turns out my bad I was off by a zero I mean I appreciate it my bad so and by the way basically

01:08:27.240 she asked for double her salary causing me to look into what she was doing because I'm like okay why 0.99

01:08:32.820 don't I see if you're really doing that much work turns out she was doing nothing and got her ass 1.00

01:08:36.760 fired so sometimes ladies you got to take it you got to take it while you're ahead because she 1.00

01:08:41.800 probably would have milked me for another six months you know what i mean i she probably like 1.00

01:08:47.000 i before i would have noticed so all right the next part of women's self-health is morning 1.00

01:08:54.600 routines doing useless more makeup more skin care more hair not again producing value 0.91

01:09:06.760 but again, doing useless things. It's not being more useful to the people around them, 0.87

01:09:14.740 but more self-centeredness. It's incredible. Incredible.

01:09:25.740 Therapy, where they just have a woman tell them to stop fucking bad boys, which is actually next, 0.99

01:09:31.180 They would say toxic relationships, which is, again, fucking bad. 1.00

01:09:37.280 Boy, women will never stop doing that. 1.00

01:09:39.000 So if we get the chance, unless we get fat, we'll do it forever.

01:09:50.940 Things not listed for self-help.

01:09:57.740 Get out of debt.

01:10:01.180 lose weight, be less annoying, be more useful. That would probably solve a lot of women's 1.00

01:10:14.520 self-esteem problems. Again, thank you, Prazer. That was very nice of you. Thank you for the

01:10:19.960 super chat. But unfortunately, I want to do, it's not enough because I'm a woman. Yeah,

01:10:28.460 it's not enough. I want to do less work, more money.

01:10:34.600 I'm just kidding. I said, ladies, I'm a bad boy.

01:10:44.020 Anyways. Um, so if you guys have any, um,

01:10:47.420 observations you have about women's self-help, please call in.

01:10:51.760 I'm going to give Doug MPA the floor.

01:10:58.460 And I'm also going to put the link in the chat.

01:11:07.200 Let me go.

01:11:08.180 and the question is

01:11:25.120 I would love for you guys, not a question, I would love for you guys to list other things

01:11:32.160 you have seen when it comes to women's self-help and how it differs from men. Again, I don't really

01:11:38.160 have a question i just kind of want to have a general conversation about it and you guys are

01:11:43.460 welcome to call in anybody can call in but i must but again if you guys bore me too much i will drop

01:11:50.280 you because um there needs to be a and i i wish i could say um what exactly i'm looking for

01:11:58.340 but it's kind of you gotta you gotta have an interesting point okay and again if i drop you

01:12:04.960 one day because it's uninteresting don't take it personal just try to be more interesting next time

01:12:10.560 you know it is what it is um everyone's got to start somewhere you know my first call to kevin

01:12:16.800 samuel show um i was a nervous wreck you know i mean i was kind of nervous so it just it is what

01:12:24.560 it is um if you drone on too long you know i'll drop you too but don't worry because i'll kick

01:12:31.200 you so don't feel like like if i'm letting you talk um that means you're doing okay you're yeah

01:12:37.840 and if i kick you then you got your answer try again next time the link is in the chat um doug

01:12:42.960 mpa if you wouldn't mind pinning it if i didn't already okay no i think i pinned it and all you 0.88

01:12:47.920 got to do is click the link and it allows you to come right in at stream yard so you can do it on

01:12:52.720 a phone a computer camera offer on doesn't really matter today but maybe in the future we'll only

01:12:58.960 do camera on but if you have any thoughts on women's self-help in general and men's self-help

01:13:05.200 feel free to call in you got a story for me make sure it's on the topics if you start droning on

01:13:12.340 about your ex-wife unless it's specifically self-help i'm gonna kick you and it's not 0.88

01:13:18.180 personal doesn't mean i hate you doesn't mean i'm mad at you it just means you're the quality 0.95

01:13:23.800 the show was here and you brought it here and look you guys are normal people so i don't i

01:13:30.680 don't i understand that sometimes it just is what it is like i you know i'm not here to insult you

01:13:36.200 it's just you know we're trying to get you know hey how's it going my friend hey doug mpa all

01:13:43.960 right so what are your thoughts on women's self-help and what differences have you noticed

01:13:48.760 from men's self-help difference between men's self-help and women's self-help is tangibles and

01:13:55.960 intangibles so men will set a goal and a timeline and put themselves in a position to be disappointed

01:14:03.100 if they don't achieve it whereas women they keep their self-help intangible so they don't set they 1.00

01:14:11.840 don't put numbers to it they don't put a timeline to it and they call it a journey right women always 1.00

01:14:17.940 leave themselves and out guys if someone if a woman is on a weight loss journey a debt journey 0.98

01:14:24.520 or whatever it means they are putting themselves in a position to be able to change their mind or

01:14:30.180 quit whenever they want that's what a journey is oh that's a great point yeah i know

01:14:36.380 men will put ourselves in a position where if we set out a goal or a self-help goal or something

01:14:46.220 we will put put ourselves at risk to being ashamed or you know understanding so to put

01:14:53.500 ourselves at risk where if we fail you know it could be you know what i'm saying like we're

01:14:58.800 putting ourselves out there to be able to fail at something and feel ashamed whereas women they 1.00

01:15:04.780 won't do that they always keep themselves because remember guys in society women reserve the right 1.00

01:15:09.060 to change their mind about anything and everything at any given time and men children in society have

01:15:14.580 to facilitate when they change their mind that's completely true yep and I'll also say

01:15:23.580 um men's self-help ultimately translates to something good for everyone around that man

01:15:32.020 so you know if he gets in shape if he earns more money if he learns a skill most skills that men

01:15:38.980 learn when it comes to their version of self-help can translate to it benefiting others whereas

01:15:44.160 women are selfish in nature even their self-help is selfish yeah like if your wife gets in shape 1.00

01:15:50.880 she's about to leave your ass yeah exactly yeah she's gonna use that that new shape that she has 1.00

01:15:57.400 for her personal trainer um maybe a jujitsu instructor um maybe who else who else will 0.99

01:16:04.220 she use that new shape for um uh yeah her jiu-jitsu instructor um the yoga teacher 0.99

01:16:14.940 the the streamer women makes more make more money we're just we use it on plastic surgery um 1.00

01:16:26.540 crap amazon boxes we don't meet need if we're if we're fat um eating out rest

01:16:32.060 yeah think about weight loss women are most likely to lose weight when they get divorced 1.00

01:16:38.700 as a selfish means to get back at the husband that she left or to get a chad not to keep you

01:16:46.700 the man that committed to her how many times have you seen if she would have just did what she was

01:16:52.700 doing in the divorce in the marriage she never would have got divorced guys make sure to like

01:16:58.940 the video subscribe to the channel if you haven't already and uh prazer praise thank you for all the

01:17:06.220 donations we really appreciate all donations go to the divorce documentary so keep hitting that

01:17:11.500 super chat button women ruminate on their thoughts and have a higher trait neuropathy more difficult 1.00

01:17:18.460 dealing with negative thoughts that is why their self-help is more internalized in their minds 0.96

01:17:23.340 crap from target his replacement the husband's best friend someone put

01:17:31.620 yeah in kevin costner's case the neighbor yeah that's why you know a lot of men they think they 0.99

01:17:41.860 think i'll just have my wife at home then she won't cheat on me but where there's a will there's 1.00

01:17:49.040 away you know um women's self-help actually is finding a better man to bang that's women's 1.00

01:17:57.880 self-help is and and he might not actually be better but it's like better in the woman's mind

01:18:03.280 right maybe he's better at like one thing you know in bed probably that's probably what it is

01:18:09.040 um yeah like women will bang the pool guy the neighbor nowadays you could send her to a school 1.00

01:18:17.680 and be like it's all women and children i'm safe there and then they're like you're a sixth grader 0.96

01:18:23.520 yeah and then the husband will will defend his wife for sleep that was disgusting guys 1.00

01:18:30.400 and like i said in the chat guys first off no no adult should be sleeping with a child and then two 0.96

01:18:39.600 um none of my public school teachers were attractive all of them were goblins every 1.00

01:18:45.040 single one of them from first grade all the way to senior year there wasn't one attractive teacher

01:18:51.440 in any of my schools period i don't know who else had that experience but that was mine did i i don't

01:19:03.120 think we had any attractive ones i can think of either maybe high school there was probably one

01:19:08.320 or two that were cute there was actually a rumor that the my english teacher was banging a student 1.00

01:19:13.200 no idea if it was true i had a journalism teacher who was like this young volkswagen buster driving

01:19:20.700 hippie guy that hiked a lot he was a total chad and all four years of high school he would wait

01:19:31.120 for one of his students to turn 18 and graduate and then date that girl during the summer and

01:19:36.400 halfway through fall then you usually break up with that girl around new year's and then start

01:19:42.240 the cycle all over again sorry what'd you say i said there was a journalism teacher at my school

01:19:49.420 that was a total you know a liberal hiking chad and he would always start dating a girl who just

01:19:59.660 graduated like in may or june and then date her till you know after new year's break up with her

01:20:07.400 and then the cycle was turned all over again how do you not get in trouble i mean this is

01:20:14.220 a long time well not a long time ago but you know this is back in like the 90s early 2000s i guess

01:20:20.580 he could still get away with it back i was wondering did he ever get in trouble like later

01:20:24.500 i don't know all the women i withdraw my consent wouldn't have surprised me and guys that interview 0.98

01:20:33.360 that pearl had on the news i i said it in the chat i'll say english women are just ugly as 1.00

01:20:40.500 all hell and they age like sour milk guys put in the chat any attractive older english female 0.97

01:20:48.520 celebrity besides elizabeth hurley english women age like sour milk dude so believe me you did not 0.89

01:20:55.600 get mobbed on that interview pearl let me tell you you don't think so i thought yeah the big 0.96

01:21:01.620 bomb super chat look at that damn oh 100 wow i'm a woman living in a woman apartment for years i've 0.98

01:21:13.600 renovated a closed balcony repainted the thing made it nice did the same thing to the guest room 0.99

01:21:18.480 now there is a certain part that needs to be fixed in order to do um that the kitchen needs 0.81

01:21:24.800 to be torn apart i can't do that she looked as at me as if i was an idiot i've renovated the 0.75

01:21:31.160 closed and now they're starting to be 0.99

01:21:33.060 thank you

01:21:38.600 50 bucks you guys are balling

01:21:41.180 today

01:21:41.620 it's never enough 18

01:21:44.300 these super chats are getting bigger i better close

01:21:47.180 out soon otherwise i might have to say the n word

01:21:49.160 if someone tries

01:21:49.780 i'll do it

01:21:53.440 i promised it but i

01:21:54.740 we gotta we're gonna wrap up this show

01:21:56.720 i'm gonna be no

01:21:58.080 don't do it

01:22:00.120 okay um your device is not connected uh you got a different username yeah i'm gonna call you bob

01:22:12.520 it's i think it's abdulfar for abdulfar your device is not connected buddy

01:22:21.720 yeah it's okay you know well you can either figure it out or not um it only has the power

01:22:28.120 people give it well i'll pay yeah it's 500 charged so i'm gonna do i'm gonna be like yeah

01:22:42.600 pearl will call me and i'll say what up uh my ginger yeah and i never drop it ever

01:22:50.920 no i would do you know what's funny you know it's funny um

01:22:59.720 the do you know who's pushed me to say the n-word more than anyone else

01:23:07.200 black people yeah especially when you're a young white girl black people always want you to say 1.00

01:23:12.920 the n-word but then it's like why are you guys trying to trap me this is entrapment yeah and 0.79

01:23:19.700 the thing about it nowadays is you if someone's wearing a pair of glasses don't say it because

01:23:26.060 they could be wearing those meta glasses and catch you on camera yeah

01:23:30.920 it's so funny guys are you gonna call in call in call in and tell me someone just sent me an

01:23:40.700 interesting email um actually i won't read it but

01:23:46.940 uh but it was basically saying how

01:23:53.160 the number one white guy rule is that you're not allowed to complain if one does not have a

01:24:00.980 workable solution or even a theory about a solution yeah it's like my father told me

01:24:07.580 one of the best pieces of advice and guys you need to implement this in any any kind of interaction

01:24:14.660 or relationship with a woman disapproval is not a position it's not so um like how you get caught

01:24:24.740 you'll have a plan or you'll be doing something and a woman will say well um 0.99

01:24:30.340 i don't want to do that think of something else or you say oh look let's eat here just i don't

01:24:37.380 want to eat there well let's eat here i don't want to eat there guys disapproval is not a position

01:24:42.180 do what you want to do unless she has another solution or like unless she has another suggestion

01:24:49.560 but women will just disapprove as a position oh yeah homeboys on camera now 1.00

01:24:55.660 thank you good afternoon thank you welcome from young son ohio how everybody's doing

01:25:04.200 you're from oh you're from ohio youngstown ohio yes ma'am oh nice when i was in high school i

01:25:10.000 looked at that college right oh youngster state university yeah i didn't go but i did look at it

01:25:15.920 it's okay thank you for accepting me to join here and i do i did i do have uh sorry for uh

01:25:23.480 i'm just nervous a little bit i have an experienced and really some of the the feminist issues within 0.94

01:25:32.420 the last four months and um uh i forgot the topic but if that's okay i would love to share my story

01:25:41.380 what's the story on how how women can be so selfish i'm so sorry i'm so sorry um 1.00

01:25:53.620 yeah no we gotta we gotta stay on topic we gotta show topic

01:25:57.780 i know i know we can we can do a woman selfish you know a woman selfish one 1.00

01:26:03.900 we got to stay on topic you know different day um i did appreciate the enthusiasm he was very

01:26:12.200 happy to be here we love you but yeah next next on you got to watch the show and contribute to

01:26:20.540 the topic. What do you think are the differences between the biggest differences between male

01:26:27.420 self-help gurus and female self-help gurus? The biggest difference between male and female 0.83

01:26:36.040 self-help gurus are, oh, is that the male ones do actual work and the women don't. It's the same 0.99

01:26:44.920 thing is everything. You know what I mean? It's the men, the men, they give you a plan,

01:26:51.920 a step one, step two. The women say, feel better queen. You know, we're such insufferable people 1.00

01:26:57.820 that it makes us very insecure. Um, and because of that, because it makes us so insecure,

01:27:05.620 uh, we have low self-esteem as we should, right? Cause if you're a bad person, you have low

01:27:12.300 self esteem. And instead of, you know, making better habits and

01:27:15.360 better choices, they just say to do the same thing and feel

01:27:17.740 better.

01:27:18.860 So yeah, yeah, Omni TMX says male self help gurus, you can be

01:27:23.980 better female because you are fine as you are. And also, male

01:27:29.700 self help gurus, they don't, they don't feel threatened by the I

01:27:36.360 think that female self help gurus, they don't want you to 1.00

01:27:39.120 get better because no woman wants another woman doing better than them whereas a male self-help

01:27:45.080 guru wants to see the people seeking his guidance wants to see them do better

01:27:53.100 yeah that's true and women just want um because a lot of times it's younger women that seek advice 0.89

01:28:01.600 when older women can't help but give advice right and so they just want to you know steer the younger 1.00

01:28:08.000 women towards destruction uh women can't like i was thinking about how it's almost feminist even 1.00

01:28:14.000 for women to i always say that my show is entertainment you know um i really i try my

01:28:21.040 best not to give advice but i was thinking how it's even feminist for women to coach other women 1.00

01:28:26.320 because why would you not be destruct like you we would we destroy everything 0.88

01:28:32.160 like even that is feminist because why isn't a man teaching the women like a man if men can do 1.00

01:28:40.640 everything better than women then why don't they just like men are entering into women's beauty 1.00

01:28:44.900 competitions and winning them so men can even be beautiful better than women men are raising 0.99

01:28:50.660 children better than women men um i you know i think they probably gluck gluck 9 000 better than 0.60

01:28:56.720 women because i i don't know why these trannies are still in our men you know what i mean like 1.00

01:29:00.340 there's some like rappers and shit that actually have female choice that are saying you know what 1.00

01:29:05.180 i'm gonna go get a training so they probably are gluck gluck 9000 better than women so why would 1.00

01:29:12.400 why would you have a woman teach other women anything you know what i mean the only self-help 1.00

01:29:17.460 it should be ask your boyfriend like what did your boyfriend say or what did your husband say

01:29:21.620 what did your dad say like that should be the redirect like okay um well what did this person

01:29:27.160 say now there's a lot of blue-pilled simps out there that can't help you so that's

01:29:31.960 that is the problem but you got to find a real nick to ask that's why there's um

01:29:41.480 that's why podcasts like caller daddy are so are such an anomaly in general people even women don't 1.00

01:29:51.080 like podcasts where where where it's just a bunch of women talking so it's so specialized that like 1.00

01:29:57.880 a caller daddy can make a bunch of money but if you look at the top like 20 it's it's usually all

01:30:04.680 men but guys the age of a bunch of women squawking at a microphone it is slowly starting to fade 1.00

01:30:12.200 away guys even women are tired of women talking in a circle because not the i'm just gonna share 1.00

01:30:19.560 my experience there's no practical solutions no nothing it's just a bunch of women squawking 1.00

01:30:24.840 hey hey let's not speak ill of call her daddy hey that that is the number one self-help women's 1.00

01:30:33.160 podcast you know what i respect the hustle man you know i respect the hustle wait so so that's

01:30:41.640 our update um we had three dates whatever well acid if you live in new york i see like a picture

01:30:46.440 with you and i don't know where it is but it's it's a 30 minute one but hey i mean that's at

01:30:50.480 least a tutorial that that saved marriages across the united i mean they will tell you to leave your

01:30:58.100 husband and gluckluck 9 000 on someone else right call her daddy but let's just be honest here that

01:31:03.500 at least saved the marriage for a little bit i heard women when they're cheating get better at 1.00

01:31:07.600 sex like i i heard that like um like one of the guys you remember he called in he said the best

01:31:13.900 sex he ever had with his wife is when she started cheating on him you know why right because okay 0.96

01:31:20.100 men we don't project as much as women project a woman will be cheating and then she'll women 1.00

01:31:30.480 they'll find a way to try to make themselves feel better about this situation and even if it's

01:31:37.940 giving to the husband somehow to justify herself cheating and that's what it is it's just her

01:31:45.440 projecting and trying to get over her guilt of cheating that small little bit by giving her

01:31:51.220 husband a little bit of sex men do that too when they're cheating i mean they'll take you on a trip 1.00

01:31:57.800 or something like what did i do to deserve it so ladies if you end up getting it's like the most 1.00

01:32:05.720 elaborate you've been perfect like you are wow so so if your husband buys you a new car out of the

01:32:14.600 blue he's cheating on you you know if you get a new handbag out of the blue yeah he's cheating on

01:32:20.240 you yeah you think i've done nothing to deserve this well you probably he did something yeah

01:32:27.080 100 true all right danny welcome to the show you got any thoughts on um women's self-help

01:32:35.280 versus a man so yeah I'm sorry for the accent first of all I have thoughts on

01:32:41.880 both women and men self-help and I have okay I think they're both scammers I 1.00

01:32:51.960 think those people prey on people insecurities and they are trying to sell

01:32:58.080 them cheap easy and uh absolutely non-working solutions to problems they don't have actually

01:33:09.680 do you think all of them are scammers or most like what percentage would you say

01:33:14.680 are scammers like 100 80 70 i think like i think like 80 of them

01:33:20.660 i think they pray on the weak i think they do they do this for their own uh like uh profit

01:33:30.680 and they're uh in order to make money it's it's all about markets these days so whenever a person

01:33:40.340 is feeling weak when whenever they're insecure they pray on that thing and i think uh that 0.55

01:33:46.700 should be fucking illegal i think those people should be should be held accountable in some way 0.68

01:33:54.060 i don't know what way all right thanks for calling in danny appreciate the input yeah great great 0.97

01:34:01.740 great call see that he got right to the point he said his thing it was good energy the first

01:34:07.580 guy that called in i just want you guys to know so you can call in better in the future you know

01:34:11.740 um the first guy had great energy um but in the beginning just to give you guys you don't need to

01:34:17.500 tell me you're nervous or that you're a big fan just get into what you want to say all right i

01:34:23.320 do appreciate i i've been nervous as well i've done all those things so i'm not judging you guys

01:34:28.240 for it but you know just come in with your topic and then you can call into more shows and then

01:34:34.260 all the hosts will love you so how do you think doug mpa got here right 0.98

01:34:38.780 that's true i started as a fan yeah so all right matt welcome to the show what is your thoughts

01:34:47.180 on women versus men's self-improvement i think uh men's uh self-improvement is usually based off of

01:34:55.600 their pain or shame and women's self-improvement it the the motivation is uh making them feel 0.99

01:35:03.960 better and uh they have to basically just feel better about themselves and then they can

01:35:13.640 improve themselves oh so it's about making the feeling go away uh men it's about men it's about

01:35:21.160 making the feeling go away for women it's about they have to be happy first and then they can 1.00

01:35:28.680 self-improve oh okay

01:35:33.320 so wouldn't that make women also trying to make the feeling go away or am i misunderstanding

01:35:38.920 um i i think they women need to uh be in a positive place to uh self-improve whereas a 1.00

01:35:49.800 A man needs to be in a negative place. 0.99

01:35:53.520 Oh, okay.

01:35:55.060 Then women don't self-improve at all, right? 1.00

01:35:58.920 Yeah, pretty much.

01:35:59.980 I mean, they need to be able to be happy before they'll improve,

01:36:06.480 so they'll never improve.

01:36:08.100 So what you're saying is men's self-improvement,

01:36:12.320 a male self-improvement person will say,

01:36:15.040 you need to start taking steps forward.

01:36:16.660 a female self-improvement person will have you sit there and just pow wow and complain and cry 1.00

01:36:21.820 and not really take to take steps forward is that what you're saying

01:36:27.200 yep makes sense to me i think that's 100 true yeah i do too they'll be they'll pay for a woman 0.98

01:36:36.060 self-help guru and be like i feel so much better after like six months but it's like

01:36:40.740 what have you accomplished this whole time that response gets you to stay on the panel if you

01:36:47.740 wish all right welcome welcome hey my brother thank you oh you're you're all official today

01:36:56.760 you got a new set yeah yeah i got a new crib got a new set got a new me yeah let's go looks good

01:37:05.040 he's upgrading up so what are your thoughts on the topic about men versus women self-improvement

01:37:10.640 and side question i'm thinking of now you ever have um the ladies on your program self-improve 1.00

01:37:17.200 do you ever like that just seems like something you would do like you would have them i don't know

01:37:23.440 like lose weight or do something to make their lives better i don't know yeah i mean i could

01:37:28.720 start there but heck yeah man i mean i'd be telling girls they'll be like hey look you fat 0.59

01:37:33.440 you need to work that out but this is the thing this is how i say it i usually like dang you 0.93

01:37:38.800 you know you're overweight man that's why you're pulling your pants up to your belly button you 0.88

01:37:42.400 know that joints is ridiculous she's like oh you know how they try to cover it up and i'm like hey

01:37:47.600 look there's no problem you can fix that that's something that's controllable right so the power

01:37:53.200 is yours and i usually say like you look like this now but imagine when you actually fix that weight

01:37:58.480 you know you're going to be on instagram trying to show everybody your six pack with your stomach

01:38:02.160 now so where do you want to be you want to be tucking your god dang shirt all the way up to 0.98

01:38:06.160 your nipples or you want to actually be having your pants down low so they can see your stomach 1.00

01:38:10.960 do you do you give them like a meal plan and like tell them what to eat and stuff 0.99

01:38:15.440 hell no no you know what that is that joint is that's a coat man go ahead you know you know you

01:38:19.840 eating too much dunkin donuts fruit roll-ups and cold cuts and kfc like come on eat vegetables and

01:38:25.840 fruit i never saw somebody do that and was overweight all right since for men people

01:38:32.160 look into his future so you can improve for women we look at our past it's impossible to improve

01:38:36.560 your past that's a great point holy crap wow yeah because you know women's self-improvements just 1.00

01:38:48.320 lying better yeah so so you know example you always say that a lot of the issues with women 1.00

01:38:56.720 and a lot of the issues with black people are the same i always say that about black people 0.99

01:39:01.600 And Sean, you can back me up on this.

01:39:03.940 Black people, there are too many of us who keep talking about the past. 0.94

01:39:09.700 And they don't, they don't, okay.

01:39:13.700 One of the biggest, you can ask yourself, whenever I would have a problem, my dad would listen to me.

01:39:19.620 He'd say, okay, okay, are you done?

01:39:21.020 Are you done?

01:39:21.480 Are you done?

01:39:22.100 What are you going to do about it now?

01:39:23.620 And black people, we always talk about the past and we stop ourselves from asking, what are we going to do about it now?

01:39:31.040 and that's women's self-help they talk about the past but they don't include what are you gonna do 1.00

01:39:37.200 about it now how are you gonna move forward whereas men's self-help that's the first thing 0.85

01:39:41.860 they ask you what are you gonna do about it you have these problems oh well what are you gonna do

01:39:47.760 about it yeah that's so true that's a really see something laura's just knocked it out of the park

01:39:54.760 that was great you gotta call it sometimes these guys they come up with like the best stuff like

01:40:01.560 yeah right um jackson welcome to the show actually um sean why don't you finish what you were saying

01:40:08.040 about yeah yeah i didn't get to do the self-help aspect yeah yeah so i was gonna say like it's

01:40:15.320 very interesting i see women's self-help is actually helping themselves now let me explain

01:40:20.760 so they do do self-help but they help themselves now helping themselves across the board

01:40:26.440 is actually them being the center of everything even over the family so women try to self-help 1.00

01:40:32.520 themselves over everybody else they're not helping others whereas men when they do self-help

01:40:38.120 it's centered around helping others like often you will hear guys telling you hey self-improve

01:40:43.400 for your family self-improve for your society the nation etc right it's always improving for someone

01:40:50.120 else versus women's self-improvement is like hey improve for you improve so you can leave your 1.00

01:40:56.800 family improve so you can take the kids and alienate them improve like it's always something

01:41:02.040 that's self around their happiness and their existence so i would say they do attempt to

01:41:06.660 help themselves a lot but it's just over everybody else over the society over the neighbor over the

01:41:12.680 guy down the street like even when women give like gifts and stuff it's like to help themselves 0.94

01:41:18.300 to get more stuff from you later

01:41:20.400 or to ask for favors later

01:41:22.120 or to hold it over your head later.

01:41:24.900 And hence why it was often that men took 0.89

01:41:28.260 young children away from women when they were young.

01:41:31.180 Because if you allowed a kid,

01:41:32.940 especially a young boy, to stay with the mother,

01:41:35.460 she would help him,

01:41:36.940 but it would be not for himself.

01:41:38.900 It would be for the mother. 0.99

01:41:40.100 He will never grow.

01:41:41.220 He will never progress.

01:41:42.440 He'll never go through pains and sufferings and obstacles.

01:41:45.560 They would just be detrimental to their growth.

01:41:47.940 so they took them away really when did they do that yeah like a tribe you never seen like a

01:41:53.720 tribe take the boys away and then they go and be go you know on their own passage they're crucible

01:41:58.980 maybe not at like a certain age yeah like let's say around like 11 16 they're taking them away

01:42:07.860 from the mother because the influence is so powerful right they'll seek to coddle them 0.94

01:42:12.420 They'll seek to actually give them safety and security where they need that danger.

01:42:17.460 They need those obstacles in order to develop a character where they'll stay forever moist.

01:42:22.820 Jackson, welcome to the show.

01:42:25.020 What is your thought on women's versus men's self-help?

01:42:28.760 Hey, well, this does go right along with what's already been said, but I thought this might be worth pointing out.

01:42:36.280 One difference I see between men's self-help and women's self-help, in addition to all the things 0.96

01:42:41.620 you guys have just said, is that women's self-help tends to be broader in my experience,

01:42:47.480 whereas men's self-help tends to be more about a specific topic. For example, as a man, I might

01:42:53.340 just Google, hey, how do I lose fat or something like that? Or how do I get a girlfriend? Or how

01:42:58.760 do I get my finances in order? And usually the self-help gurus for men are about one topic,

01:43:05.160 like they might be dating coach i'm not saying they never ever branch into other topics but

01:43:09.560 usually they have one or a few topics that they specialize in whereas female self-help coaches 0.99

01:43:17.480 usually seem to encompass like this strange broadness i've noticed like one of the things

01:43:23.160 that really stood out to me as unusual about the guest you had recently about losing the last 15

01:43:29.400 or 20 pounds i took mental note at the time that's one of the most specific uh female self-help things 1.00

01:43:36.360 i've ever seen because she has a very specific thing that she's marketing and trying to help 0.84

01:43:41.160 women with very often i'll be looking at advice on let's say nutrition and let's say a woman will be 1.00

01:43:47.960 giving nutrition advice and sometimes it's even a woman who clearly does know something about what 0.96

01:43:52.440 she's talking about about the subject but then she also wants to broaden it to having a healthy 0.52

01:43:58.520 relationship with food when i'm just asking about what's healthy and what isn't if that makes sense

01:44:03.480 so this strange broadening is something i see as a big difference between male and female self-help

01:44:10.520 or intuitively eating that's another yeah well that that's just basically be fat and stay fat

01:44:18.040 intuitively eat like sugar like yeah yeah that are 600 calories so

01:44:23.800 that was a great point um do you have anything else you wanted to add on the topic

01:44:28.440 no that's that's pretty much it i'll keep listening to the show cool thanks for calling in

01:44:32.800 jackson that was uh see that was a great call guys just so you guys know that was he could

01:44:38.420 have stayed he he left but i wouldn't let him stay that's the kind of that's the kind of point

01:44:42.820 you bring and you get to stay on the panel you know um danny's back what you got for us danny 0.97

01:44:52.180 you have another thought yeah uh oh fuck i'm i'm on i'm sorry uh well let's suppose 0.97

01:45:01.780 for a second that those people aren't scammers uh the thing that i uh think i i've seen the most 0.98

01:45:10.440 on the on the internet is like uh men's self-help is usually when it's when it's done properly

01:45:21.960 it's actually uh telling men that they need to go through a really tough time okay and they need to

01:45:32.460 like fight their demons and that's going to be painful and that's going to be a struggle and 0.95

01:45:38.320 that's going to be like a fucking nightmare that they need to crawl out of in order to discover 0.99

01:45:46.260 something uh better on the other side while women's self-help on the other on the other side 1.00

01:45:54.700 is rarely that it's actually quite the opposite it's like uh i have seen some gym content actually 0.85

01:46:05.120 uh that maybe can prove my uh prove my point that there's a fucking bimbo with the you know 1.00

01:46:14.600 with the fake boobs and 1.00

01:46:15.980 other fucking shit 1.00

01:46:18.520 and she's telling like 1.00

01:46:20.000 okay girls we're not going 1.00

01:46:22.620 too heavy today

01:46:24.040 we don't want to look like a man 1.00

01:46:26.460 and we don't want to

01:46:28.240 like

01:46:29.100 push ourselves too hard

01:46:32.400 we want to

01:46:34.080 just get toned a little 1.00

01:46:36.580 bit like bitch what the 1.00

01:46:38.600 fuck are you talking about 1.00

01:46:39.740 you're in the gym what are you doing 1.00

01:46:42.500 put some effort

01:46:43.400 you're like some okay if you want to train light like train light whatever but you're not going

01:46:53.640 to look like a man because you lift heavy it's quite the opposite actually you're going to look

01:46:59.720 more defined you're going to look more attractive you're going to look better but yes it is going 0.96

01:47:05.400 to be fucking painful and you better be ready for that and that's what none of the fucking uh 0.98

01:47:16.840 women's self-help quote unquote uh content creators yeah i would add to what you're saying i would say 0.99

01:47:26.040 men self-help it's about they're usually saying look life is only gonna get harder and if you

01:47:34.520 if you embrace hardship you'll get ahead whereas women's self-help find ways to blame everything 1.00

01:47:41.960 else except for the person no self-reflection yeah every single outside thing it was everything

01:47:50.120 everything outside you's fault and figuring out where it came you you didn't cause what happened

01:47:58.600 something happened to you and they absolutely did that they absolutely munched on their on their

01:48:05.400 donuts and their chocolate and their ice cream and they need a justification

01:48:13.160 that uh it's not their fault you see it's not that's just who they are which is yeah it's like

01:48:20.920 their mother's fault or their their upbringing yeah yeah guys guys like the video see if we

01:48:30.040 can get over 200 likes so anyway sorry doug keep going so yeah you know your ex-husband or your

01:48:36.440 ex-boyfriend was a narcissist you know all that stuff or probably someone else's fault it is your

01:48:44.840 cat's fault basically yeah

01:48:51.240 danny's on fire man this is a great call thank you thank you i might be uh again for another

01:48:58.600 one but it's getting too late for me uh but i love this i really love this thanks for

01:49:03.800 you again danny appreciate it thanks for calling awesome yeah see that he just got right to it

01:49:12.280 see that that's the type of call i keep you on the panel for so yeah see these guys these guys

01:49:19.480 have proven their caller like effectiveness see that's why they get to stay every time but you

01:49:25.480 know um sean do you have any thoughts on that anything you want to add yeah yeah no especially

01:49:32.600 the fact stuff man i mean a lot of people blame it on the fda they blame it on the fbi and the cia

01:49:39.000 and i just think a lot of times it's just coke but it's very important to realize that

01:49:43.480 like even what's it called ozempic if you just even look at that right like that's blown up you

01:49:48.600 know by stocking ozempic for real for real because it's just a shortcut and people love making

01:49:54.120 shortcuts and they don't like doing the work especially women it's like do you remember when 1.00

01:49:58.440 they were getting that stomach stapling surgery and then they would eat too much and then break

01:50:04.600 yeah and break it and be right back in the deficit and now they're hurt they're busted up

01:50:09.560 yeah so yeah i don't know if either one of you who are old enough to remember this but back in

01:50:15.000 the 90s the women used to get their jaws wired shut to lose weight seriously you used to be able 1.00

01:50:23.800 to get your jaw wired shut for like 60 days and not be able to eat i tell you this i tell you this

01:50:30.440 man it's bad pearl like i come from the fattest community allegedly i don't claim them but they 0.88

01:50:36.040 will claim me but the black folks like man i remember i used to get i used to order like 0.99

01:50:41.880 vegetables or watermelon and stuff like that at the house and my family be like oh look at you

01:50:46.840 you eating that rabbit food boy you need some help you need some it's just like bro the coat

01:50:53.000 they're bullies they're not good people also too so fat people need to cope in order to build their

01:50:58.920 own alternative and also i'll bounce off that bad remember uh well this is in general but especially 0.98

01:51:06.360 in our community the the fat girls can make fun of the skinny girls but the skinny curls 1.00

01:51:11.960 can't make fun of the fat girls because it's fat shaming yeah and then they'll just bully you 1.00

01:51:18.040 they'll probably sit on you they'll probably roll on you like stuff like that they'll probably just 0.57

01:51:22.600 move real fast towards you you know i'm using this opportunity to say what i always say guys 1.00

01:51:28.760 American black women are the scum of the earth dude now the these aren't pearls views these are 1.00

01:51:33.840 Doug MPA's views but guys the worst women on the planet worst mothers on the planet 1.00

01:51:38.020 worst women on the planet you cannot tell me different you can't you can't worst with no one 1.00

01:51:43.640 has worse women to pick from than American black men you know I gotta be honest I covered a story 1.00

01:51:49.600 of a black woman putting her kid in the oven this year oh yeah yeah yeah alive so you know I do have 1.00

01:51:56.980 my gripes with white women i really don't let us get off the hook at all but i can't i can't say 1.00

01:52:02.440 that the stuff i cover really helps black women's case i gotta be honest remember that story we did

01:52:09.000 a couple months ago where the the lady shot her daughter and then when the police came she she 1.00

01:52:15.520 convinced her daughter to lie to the police about about shooting her and she did how brainwashed you 0.50

01:52:21.940 got to be insane crazy the level of like like hypnosis you can be under from your mother it's 0.99

01:52:28.520 like it's not like you could distance when you're like holy shit yeah go ahead no i was saying it's 0.95

01:52:34.700 probably interesting when i remember when eminem used to talk about his mom he'd be like you were 0.98

01:52:39.220 a bad mom f you and it's funny like you hear tupac say when she was a crack fiend she still was a 0.99

01:52:45.220 black always was like what i never heard a white man say like you were on junk and you were still 1.00

01:52:51.800 Ice queen. I never heard that. 1.00

01:52:54.060 I just heard them say, F you, mom, 1.00

01:52:56.040 and she was a loser. 0.99

01:52:57.500 I'm just like, yeah, it's pretty bad 1.00

01:52:59.360 in that thing called black community. 0.99

01:53:01.980 It's terrible. 0.97

01:53:02.900 She got shot and still had to protect her mom.

01:53:06.020 Yep.

01:53:06.540 It's like emotional torture.

01:53:09.780 Brad, welcome to the show.

01:53:11.160 What are your thoughts on women versus men

01:53:13.160 self-improvement?

01:53:17.300 Yeah, a thought I have is

01:53:19.140 uh-oh i think is your audio your sound went out brad your sound went out all right yeah 0.99

01:53:30.140 i'm gonna let him figure it out um but yeah yeah but black women will put their kids in the oven 1.00

01:53:40.060 apparently it doesn't surprise me at all kill them in the world if they if they get that far 0.99

01:53:45.620 yeah i'm about to say you know and it's not that i think white women are great i just think we're a 1.00

01:53:51.140 bit less violent like physically we're more like emotionally and verbally violent so like we'll be 0.98

01:53:56.180 a lot nicer on the front end a lot more crazy on the on the back end yeah the black and women at 1.00

01:54:00.900 least they put it up front they're like i am yeah i am crazy the white women will be like t 1.00

01:54:07.460 yeah yeah you like the tilly girl now you know tilly um the the girl she's falsely accusing um 0.57

01:54:17.860 like andrew of being a rape or suffer what she said exactly like the girl that was on

01:54:23.620 like the british girl yeah she's like t he uh t what andrew yeah i gotta find that

01:54:30.260 actually i'm gonna i'm gonna see if no way yeah you have to find it on twitter

01:54:38.160 oh yeah i mean here if you put it in the put the link in the chat i'll play it we can talk but uh

01:54:45.080 okay so here is one one give me one second because i found

01:54:52.180 hold on one second you guys oh my gosh it won't work until she um acquises him but women aren't 1.00

01:55:00.960 trying to make space for anyone other than the top guy and men don't want to take the risk of

01:55:05.760 divorce how do we fix the standoff we're in you can't fix it right i mean that's the i mean that's

01:55:12.020 the women don't want the top guy they don't want us neither like they don't they don't want nobody 1.00

01:55:20.020 by themselves they don't want no top guys tom brady what happened with him yeah elon musk elon

01:55:26.660 musk he almost a trillionaire and shorty and the shorties be doing away with him grimes and

01:55:31.700 taking his kids like bro they don't want the top man neither just a high value target man get it

01:55:37.300 right it's it's not you it's us like women are just um unhappy with everything so it's got nothing to

01:55:44.180 do with you guys like it's i mean unless you're fat maybe but i might have something to do but

01:55:50.740 but but but but in general like you know we're just not happy with anything ever we're not happy

01:55:57.300 with ourselves we're not happy with each other like we just torture everybody um okay yeah so 0.99

01:56:03.140 again t he i'm a white girl he's a rapist andrew wilson's a rapist i saw you did you do sit with 0.99

01:56:10.740 andrew wilson that's one thing i would disagree with you doing which is interesting like maybe 0.99

01:56:15.940 that's the like yeah oh interesting um i just worry immediately for your safety in that moment 0.91

01:56:26.660 because of the fact that he's a rapist andrew wilson's a rapist i mean he's admitted on live

01:56:31.700 streams before on his podcast that he doesn't really believe in in what he understands the 0.92

01:56:37.780 the modern version of consent to look like and he his entire career is upon a foundational premise

01:56:45.360 that you get clicks by bullying underage girls or women who are underqualified to speak about

01:56:50.020 political problems and i'm not saying that that's you i actually don't think that that is you at all

01:56:54.200 and i think that he went out on a limb when he debated you because that's not usually the type

01:56:58.160 of person that he would engage with um but like i think that that's for the men i think andrew

01:57:03.640 Wilson is for the men to to tackle um because his audience are so I mean I've watched I've watched

01:57:09.960 um I probably watched 20 20 hours or more of his his podcast and I've I've been approached before

01:57:16.900 to come on on whatever and I just said no because um I don't think there's any winning and that's

01:57:23.140 yeah so I just smart enough that okay okay first time we support Andrew Wilson over here 0.99

01:57:30.020 and both these two can go straight to hell 0.94

01:57:32.260 straight up I'm hoping that Andrew 0.99

01:57:34.280 Wilson sues the pants off this 0.94

01:57:36.300 girl and

01:57:37.320 odds are he will

01:57:39.980 this is the type of thing I

01:57:41.680 think that Rachel and Andrew will put

01:57:44.180 their full force into you and they have a

01:57:46.260 really good team around him she

01:57:48.080 messed up by doing this

01:57:50.240 she messed up 1.00

01:57:52.000 you fucking idiot 1.00

01:57:54.240 oh I'm sorry I'm out cussing 1.00

01:57:55.800 we support Andrew Wilson over

01:57:58.240 here man Andrew get her man 1.00

01:57:59.920 get this chick yeah it's just like tee hee you're a rapist like what is wrong with these women 1.00

01:58:06.000 see this is white women for you know it's not that black women don't do this too but 1.00

01:58:10.160 again black women put their aggression up front so they're like yep i am crazy here it is guys so 1.00

01:58:16.720 like you know they kind of even if something crazy happens later you can't say you didn't 0.99

01:58:20.720 really see it coming like every time doug mpa tells me a story about a bad date with a black 0.54

01:58:25.680 american woman it's like he's like he's like why did i do this again like you know that's

01:58:31.600 at least up front but white women it's like t he now now the rug's kind of been pulled like 1.00

01:58:38.160 after amber heard came out now it's a lot more like okay you know okay white women are crazy 1.00

01:58:45.440 you know they remember how hot amber heard was young and like she seemed sweet and she was 0.98

01:58:49.440 fucking insane this is just another one of that because uh on this post brian said i will be 0.78

01:58:55.440 pursuing a lawsuit against tillie middlehurst for numerous libelous comments further i strongly 0.93

01:59:01.840 encourage andrew wilson to pursue his own particularly strong legal case against this

01:59:05.840 liar her false and fabricated claims that andrew wilson is a is a great person or defamation per

01:59:12.720 you know per se is it despicable that leftists must resort to such egregious slander without a

01:59:18.480 a second thought. So to casually falsely accuse someone of grape is terrifying. So she was too

01:59:25.900 much of a coward to debate Andrew Wilson, so instead resorts to pathetic attacks and false 1.00

01:59:29.800 accusations. This woman has zero credibility. Charlotte encouraged any men professionally or 1.00

01:59:34.340 otherwise to stay away from this woman, giving her propensity for baseless false accusations.

01:59:39.240 She's also a nightmare to deal with when we attempted to book her for a debate with Andrew 0.96

01:59:43.080 Wilson awful attitude total diva there you go that was it I was frankly not gonna go and sit in a

01:59:49.980 room with a bunch of men who don't believe in consent I was fooked yeah the it's it feels

01:59:58.640 correct me if I'm wrong it feels like a commentary on platforming in general and I have very mixed

02:00:04.140 thoughts about platforming and maybe you disagree maybe it is not a platforming and so correct me

02:00:08.380 am i misunderstanding you and saying it's somewhat feels maybe a little okay maybe a little

02:00:12.680 because i'm usually i'm not big on the argument of you platforming you're legitimizing these ideas

02:00:18.320 i think that that's actually a really complex and nuanced topic that people slap a big uh thought

02:00:22.060 terminating cliche on you're you're legitimizing you're doing this i was genuinely just worried

02:00:26.880 that a a woman was engaging in the debate i think that in this instance when it comes to 0.97

02:00:31.480 men like this it should be a man who engages in that particular debate and also i was literally

02:00:35.600 the chat physical safety i'm worried for the physical safety of the women who go in person 0.99

02:00:40.040 to these podcast environments i've heard what the fuck is wrong with this woman bro like andrew's 0.99

02:00:45.980 so nice like he's so nice he's actually such a nice guy that it's well like it's just incredible

02:00:53.260 that she would say this i think i think we're losing the point i think it's actually pretty

02:00:58.840 smart that she says this because this is her soft power when someone can't beat you in a debate 1.00

02:01:03.940 especially a woman this is one of the ways they just they beat you it's called discredit shame 1.00

02:01:09.520 insult the guilt that need to be right like this is her tactic this is called soft power this is

02:01:15.600 what it looks like and it's on display no what you disagree that she's doing this because this

02:01:23.040 is how she rolls no no no i'm not saying it's right i'm saying this is what she does

02:01:28.280 well she can't beat andrew wilson in a debate she doesn't want to engage in that so how would

02:01:33.580 she try to beat him by discrediting his character and calling him this obscene things that she's 0.98

02:01:39.020 claiming him to be that is her play in this and that is so far yeah yeah but i would say if she

02:01:46.120 would have called him anything else except that it would have been soft power but like to toss

02:01:52.680 that r word around like that's there are things where okay she called you something you let that

02:01:59.740 slide but like that right there is not so that's one of the only things you can you can call someone

02:02:06.060 that's not soft power you know what i'm saying i get what you're saying but the accusation isn't

02:02:12.100 soft huh yeah i get you it's a serious accusation but again this but but it's launched all across

02:02:18.500 society most women say three words and put most men in jail and it's a soft power technique in 1.00

02:02:24.260 the realm of actually evaluating what hard and soft power is now i get what you're saying it

02:02:29.060 has serious implications again women have been able to push their soft power to this point where 1.00

02:02:35.300 they can just say these words and most people take it as true most people say believe all women that 0.89

02:02:41.860 is a very powerful thing so it's very serious i agree what you're saying but that is soft power

02:02:48.500 and they just reached the crazy line go ahead go ahead stories of them forcing you to film for

02:02:53.480 eight nine hours and then promising you reimbursement but then they're dragging out

02:02:57.400 and dragging out the debate until they get uh until they're satisfied and only then will they

02:03:01.920 reimburse you and people have been stranded out in the desert trying to get back home because

02:03:06.660 of like i've heard horror stories from so many women obviously i'm not going on there women 1.00

02:03:11.660 who've spoken to me personally about their experiences and none of them have been good

02:03:15.940 so that was i disagreed with you going because i was just thinking oh what is she doing not nothing

02:03:20.660 to do with platforming you know yeah so i suppose in my experience i have a pretty decent working

02:03:27.060 relationship with brian atlas the host um he repaid me so we negotiated ahead of time that

02:03:32.260 he was going to pay for for travel and stay and he reimbursed me within 24 hours so i had no

02:03:37.380 reimbursement issues um afterwards he offered to take me out for food he got food on on set

02:03:42.900 but i've definitely never felt for even a second physically under threat from either 0.97

02:03:47.060 of these individuals like in no way shape or form in fact he's a rape damn so even the super far 0.95

02:03:56.100 even the super far leftist woke chick was like no i felt fine like 0.98

02:04:03.540 that's a danny here that's their only move calling them the est words without any evidence 0.68

02:04:07.940 to support their claims yeah i mean what other yeah i guess what other power does she have 0.90

02:04:12.900 what else what else does she have is the only card you can play and it's interesting too

02:04:20.620 if you see the actual like soft position that the actual host took it wasn't a straight

02:04:27.280 confrontation it was just like hey that's not my experience but the allegation was still allowed

02:04:32.540 to linger yeah exactly sean good picking up on that most men would have been like no you can't

02:04:39.440 Dude, you got to prove it.

02:04:41.460 That's the difference between men and women communication. 1.00

02:04:47.060 Damn. 0.99

02:04:49.240 Like, what do you even, I'm hoping 1.00

02:04:51.580 Angie and Rachel can come for her neck. 0.88

02:04:55.220 Yeah. 1.00

02:04:55.980 What a crazy woman. 1.00

02:05:00.840 That's their only move. 0.99

02:05:02.660 Well, that's all I got on the topic.

02:05:04.780 You guys got anything else?

02:05:05.980 um um yeah you know i've women's self-help well women's nature is selfish so their self-help 1.00

02:05:15.660 is uh selfish men's self-help it's about improving everything that has to do with men's

02:05:24.140 self-help is something that will that a man can invest in that that could potentially benefit

02:05:30.940 others around him, him making more money, learning a skill, becoming more

02:05:35.080 competent, all that stuff. But women's is the exact opposite. 1.00

02:05:40.700 And one last thing.

02:05:43.420 Men, we, I honestly think

02:05:47.080 that women's self-help will, women feel 0.97

02:05:51.100 threatened by other women, so self-help, but they don't want to help each other because they 0.99

02:05:55.060 see each other as threats.

02:05:56.020 what are your final thoughts sean yeah man basically look

02:06:03.900 women will have a lot of weight to their body you're not really fat you just have a lot of 1.00

02:06:10.660 mass on you and one of the things that's important is you got to move in order to get it off of you

02:06:16.140 eat right diet right because it's not good to be fat stop the coat shout outs to pearl shout out to

02:06:22.720 done. Peace. Thanks for calling in both of you. All right, guys. Yeah. Women talk about loving 1.00

02:06:40.140 themselves instead of losing weight, in my opinion, because we're lazy. I really think

02:06:44.960 every answer to all these questions can just be we're coping and lazy and just not as good

02:06:50.040 of people as men. So I don't say people think I'm trolling and I'm really not. People think I hate

02:06:55.960 women kind of, um, not completely, but you know, a little bit at least. Um, but you know, that's 1.00

02:07:02.240 just women for you. So like the video, subscribe to the channel. I love you guys. Thanks for tuning

02:07:05.840 in. Thank you for the super chats. You guys are super generous this show. Like seriously,

02:07:10.360 I guess no one. Oh darn. I can't say the N word today. Oh, oh, oh, I'll see you in my 0.99

02:07:20.640 I'll see you in my next...

02:07:22.080 I'll see you.

02:07:25.500 I love you guys.

02:07:26.600 Bye-bye.

Pearl - March 17, 2026

Why Do Fat Women Talk About Loving Themselves instead of Just Losing Weight

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