Pearl - July 13, 2026
Why I Do Church Interviews
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Harmful content
Misogyny
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about why I do these church interviews, why I don t want a house, and why I think women should obey their husbands. I also talk about how the church is broken and how it needs to change.
Transcript
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What's up, guys? Today I have a black coffee with half and half and sugar-free syrup.
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I really wanted a latte so bad today, but I'm like, no. No, I will continue my fitness journey.
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Sometimes after I go to the gym, I do these coffee talks.
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So, okay, I wanted to talk about why I do these church interviews.
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for this for those of you that don't know i go to um the church different churches every week
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and i have a giant sign um it's actually in the back of my car right there if you see it
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and it says should christian women obey their husbands and then the people at the churches
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can answer um yes no why or why not and yesterday i went to this catholic church it was latin mass
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and so um you're thinking you're going to get more traditional answers um and that's like the
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hypothesis I guess the more traditional the church uh the more like traditional the answers or
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whatever um and I really don't find that to be true at all um I guess maybe it's worse in like
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the ones with gay flags and black lives matter and stuff um but in my opinion what is the difference
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between a gay relationship and a transgender relationship and if a woman does not obey her
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husband. I don't think you're any better than a transgender. I really don't because you're acting
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like a man. So, um, the reason I do these church interviews, um, I had somebody yesterday say to
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me, like they thought I was trying to antagonize people. And I'm like, no, that's not it at all.
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There's something in my soul. Okay. I hate when people are dishonest and they lie. I don't know
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what it is about me. And you know what I think it is. I grew up in a Catholic area. And I watched
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these stupid women have these saints of husbands, these amazing husbands. And it wasn't all so if
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you're from my area, if it doesn't apply, let it fly, damn it. But they would have like these
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husbands that were saints. And they would constantly undermine their authority with the
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freaking Bible and it was something when growing up I couldn't really articulate why they did it
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or how they did it but it was just something that like felt wrong to me if that makes sense like
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I don't know how to describe it but you know when you're a kid you don't understand everything
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but you can feel when something's off and you get older and things make sense later
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and when I found out that I did 20 years Catholic school and I had never had um a teacher a priest
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i never heard them talk about being obedient to your husband i never even know that's what you
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were supposed to do in a relationship i i never heard about it never heard about women being
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subservient and when i figured this out honestly i was pissed because how did my parents spend all
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this money on catholic school catholic high school um i even attended a catholic church in college
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and none of the priests are doing their job and I'm not an angry person but this makes me angry
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because the way I see it there are well-meaning good meaning people that go to church and they
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they're going to these churches they're spending their hard-earned money and they're going to the
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churches to get the truth and you have sorry someone called me the freaking spam calls I don't
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want a house. Okay. But you have these pastors that are taking people's money and they're not
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doing their job. And it like, honestly, it pisses me off because I feel that way as a commentator,
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right? The reason, um, I get all this flack, right? When I say, Hey, it's not going to get
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better. The birth rate's going to go to zero. Traditionalism isn't coming back. This isn't
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what I want to be true, but it's my job to be honest. And I feel that way about the pastors.
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Like, if you guys can't come up to my sign and say, yes, women are meant to be obedient to their husband.
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If you can't shout that out in your church, then honestly, I don't see how you're better than the Pharisee.
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I really don't because, you know, a lot of the apostles, they had a true faith and they said the truth at the risk of death.
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And these pastors and these priests will not be honest, honest at the risk of losing their reputation and their congregation.
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fuck you like that that's the way i see it that that's the way i see it is screw you guys because
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you're taking people's money and you're giving the the stupid wives all of the ammo that they need
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to beat their husband with the bible and it impacts everybody everybody's tortured by these
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crazy women you get that you go to any traditional area catholic area i mean i see catholics i grew
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up with it and these women it's like i'll and i can i can literally show you examples like i'm
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doing um interviews on the trail the other day this crazy lady just comes up to me and starts
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antagonizing me and it's like because none of you priests none of you pastors hold the women
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accountable in the congregation, they get away with freaking murder. Murder! Sorry, I'm passionate
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about this topic. It drives me nuts. And the truth of the matter is, is that men have authority
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gifted to them by God. Now, I'm not the most religious person in the world, but
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you're not going to gaslight me with what I see with my eyes, okay? And
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men have the ability to offer order structure and solve problems and women for we either don't do
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that or don't have it i don't know which the result is the same okay so anyways i go to this
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church and this is the most annoying part um i didn't get this part on camera because i was like
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you know what today i'm gonna go to the pastor and the priest and i'm gonna say hey this is what
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i'm doing um we're trying to get your thoughts on obedience i'd love to interview you guys
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and they do this passive aggressive stuff where they're like oh yeah we're really busy you're busy
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to spend you're too busy to spend two minutes and tell people the truth truly truly really
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and then what they do I couldn't even believe it so yesterday I'm at this catholic church
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I'm at this catholic church now imagine like here is one area and here's the other and it's like so
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close um they go out of their way to kick me off of their property when literally i think i had to
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move like 30 feet like i'm like basically um my camera guy has to sit out in the sun for hours
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to do these interviews but i will do it whatever we're troopers but like i'm like so let me get
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this straight you guys i i nicely ask you and i say hey i'm gonna do these interviews
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and legally i could stand on public property you guys even though i'm gonna do the same thing just
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to like make it more difficult you guys want me to move like 30 feet so we have to stand out in
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the sun i i guess that's your god-given right but it's crazy because they'll kick you off their
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property but they won't say what they think okay what is wrong with the sign i'm not coming in
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hostile I'm not trying to gotcha I want to know what are you guys teaching at your church
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what are you teaching are you teaching the right things more more often than not they're not right
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and they get that then they get the cops involved yesterday um they couldn't kick us off of public
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property but it's like now the cops are watching us and I'm like okay I just I came up to the your
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pastor or your priest, whatever. I get, like, now is your chance to say what you think.
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And honestly, I go to these churches hoping that they're going to prove me wrong, right?
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I go to these churches and I think, maybe today I'll have a congregation that actually
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believes in what the bible teaches and look maybe i'm not the best messenger i'm probably not you
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know because that's always the argument it's like pearl you're not the best messenger you're
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degenerate you're this you're that maybe i'm not but screw it at least at least i have the i have
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more balls okay i'm a woman i'm gonna protect the class it's not the same but it's like at least at
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least I have the right answer to the question. So I don't know. I might crash it out. I think
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I'm crashing out. So that's why I do these. That's why I do these interviews because
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I want to give churches the opportunity that if you're, if you are teaching what you're supposed
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to be teaching, I'm giving you the opportunity to show us and they just disappoint me again and
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again. Um, yeah. Also, um, yeah. So anyways, that's why I do the interviews. Let me know
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what you think of the comments. Also, I'm doing, um, no, sorry. Okay. Well, all right.
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So I'm doing an event in London or not London, New York city. Um, I have a debate September
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12th. Um, I'm also going to do an event in October, but we're only going to sell like
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15 20 tickets they're small so if you're interested um email doug at the audacity
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network.com also we're doing um a clipper program if you want to be an editor clipper um email
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doug at the audacity network.com um trying to think clipper program event debate um yeah so
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anyways like the video subscribe and i'll see you next time