Pearl - June 03, 2025


Why Modern Men Are Opting Out of Marriage w⧸ @thisisshah


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

207.78947

Word count

329

Sentence count

5

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the role of women in society and how they play a key role in society. What role do women play in society, what role do men play, and what role does society play?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 You know, in bride price, bride wealth societies, people get married earlier and a lot younger over
00:00:05.580 there. As dowry comes in, it pushes it back a little bit, still relatively early for the way
00:00:10.820 we do things nowadays. So yeah, you start to see the sophistication and complexity in how society
00:00:17.420 exists. So I've spent a lot of time looking at this just because it's really intrigued me.
00:00:23.540 And now when I hear guys like Matt Walsh, Michael Knowles, whoever it's going to be,
00:00:27.680 think lila rose is another one they'll sit here and they'll make a big deal about monogamy and 1.00
00:00:33.280 about all this stuff but what they're trying to trade for is something that is really untenable
00:00:38.320 i mean she can just leave with no fault divorce i think a lot of these women that say they're 1.00
00:00:42.880 submissive aren't actually submissive i mean we're all growing up in the same culture it seems like
00:00:47.840 um and then you know the family law is waiting there on the other end to just really make it
00:00:53.360 tough it's it's really hard so a lot of guys at this point are basically abstaining from it or
00:00:59.760 they're saying all right the long-term deal sucks here what do i get out of this i may as well just
00:01:04.640 engage in short-term stuff or you know the woman gets disappointed because the guy's playing her
00:01:09.360 and then she's like oh i thought he wanted to get me he didn't want to get married there's all this
00:01:12.480 upset stuff going on because we live in this very weird gray zone where people want to have one
00:01:17.120 foot in and one foot out yeah because you know there's a difference between a guy looking for
00:01:22.240 for like a hookup or a girlfriend
00:01:23.940 and being on like the marriage market, you know?
00:01:26.880 So what incentive are they really giving them?
00:01:29.780 They're not like, they're not,
00:01:32.460 the dowry at least would lower the risk.