Pearl - October 03, 2025Why Traditional Marriage is DEAD in America
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about why women need to be married by the age of 22, why women should get married at 22, and why women don't want to get married until they're 30. I also talk about the declining birth rates and why this is a problem.
Transcript
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I say if you're a woman and you want to go the traditional route, you have to like 23 to do it.
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Any guy that does that after that really is kind of a sucker, to be honest.
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So again, I want to see if she advocates for the laws changing first.
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I actually haven't seen the full thing, so I could be wrong.
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And you know how much easier it is to cook you than the guys?
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Oh my gosh, like, please, please keep doing this.
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And that infrastructure is quickly collapsing, and so are the birth rates.
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So if you've been following the news over the last year, if you've watched any of my videos, then you've probably heard about the birth rates falling and how.
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I agree, but there are more men who want marriage than women.
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The issue is that men, is that the men that women want, don't want marriage.
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And if women can't get those men, they just play the field.
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Conservatives have this idea that women are just getting pumped and dumped.
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But if you're fat, I mean, that's your own choice.
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At that rate, you're choosing to get pumped and dumped.
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But I would say hot women pump and dump men more than men pump and dump them.
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The men, the women that men want to marry that are the most desirable don't want to settle down.
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It's not the men that don't want to settle down.
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Such a big issue, not just in America, but around the world.
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It is something that countries around the globe, from here to Korea, are dealing with on a massive scale.
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But here is what nobody is actually talking about.
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And that is the fact that Americans' desire for large families has continued to increase.
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In blue, you'll see that that is three or more children.
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Now, again, conservatives have the problem of taking what women say seriously.
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But, so, they'll, again, because conservatives have a tendency to not understand female nature.
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Men that have banged a lot of women know that women go through different phases in their life.
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And oftentimes, the woman, especially men that have been in casual relationships with women over time,
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the woman they meet at 18 is not the same woman they're still banging at 25.
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Just because women say they want something, it does not mean they actually want it.
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And sometimes it's not even being, it's the women don't even know it, that they don't want it.
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If you have a fat friend, and he's just super fat, and they keep eating a lot of food and not going to the gym,
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Now, they might not say, if you ask them, they might say, well, no, I want to be thin.
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But, the choices they're making suggest they want to be fat, right?
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You know, if women wanted to be in relationships, women would be.
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We got to stop taking the, and this is what I'm saying.
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Like, a lot of times, Kevin Samuels had a phrase, and this is kind of an uncomfortable phrase.
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Anyways, women go through a slut phase when they're ready to settle down.
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This is an uncomfortable part of female nature.
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Because, to some extent, dating is a numbers game for women.
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So, what happens is, a lot of times, we prioritize other things.
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I'm not saying it's wrong or bad to prioritize those other things.
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But, what I am saying is, if women want to, we have the option to download Hinge and go on a date every day of the week.
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Until we meet somebody that, imagine if men had the option to get 5,000 women ready to go, willing to meet them, go on a date tomorrow.
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Do you think men would be married by the end of the year?
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And, that's, we keep treating women with these, like, kid gloves.
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But, if we're not having three kids, then we don't want three kids.
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You know, because, another big tell that women want to be married is we stop going for men out of our league.
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Because, women, we have a tendency to want both.
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Like, we'll be like, oh, well, I want to date the hot guy.
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And, you're like, well, you're going to have to have sex with him pretty much immediately.
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He'll wait, like, a week because he's hot and he doesn't have to not.
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So, now the burden of performance that's on you, you've got to work really hard now.
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And, they're like, well, no, I don't want to, I want no risk.
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So, it just goes back to, I mean, there's nothing in life you can have without risk.
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I knew another girl, okay, and she actually went the more traditional route.
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I say, if you're a woman and you want to go the traditional route, you have till, like, 23 to do it.
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Any guy that does that after that really is kind of a sucker, to be honest.
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Because, now he's just taking the woman's word that she's pure.
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At 23, you could kind of be like, have plausible denial.
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You could lie good enough, I guess, but, I don't know, 24, we've got to start treating you like an adult.
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So, I did know another woman who was, again, she wanted to wait until she was married.
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And, she was dead set on being a virgin on her wedding day.
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I mean, but, even that girl, let's be honest, she still did something.
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Like, not all the way, but, it's like, they'll find a way around it.
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The only, like, when you want something, you take action.
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So, when I wanted to be a YouTuber, I really wanted, I wanted to go into media.
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And, I posted, like, between probably 10 to 30 videos a day at times.
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Then, I would go to TikTok, film, like, 10, 20.
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But, the challenge I see with a lot, like, and this was when I was in that non-denominational church I talk about.
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So, again, if we wanted three kids, we would have three kids.
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Now, a lot of people say, well, what about money?
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And, you could argue everything is getting more expensive.
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I'm not even saying people should have three kids.
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Like, you know, I knew people that did not make a high income that had three or four children.
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Catholic dorms sound to me like anal-trained dorms.
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My school is one of the first schools to allow trans people in our dorms.
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But, women do find a lot of workarounds for the religious thing.
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But, we have a tendency to find every workaround possible.
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That number of people that are wanting three or more children has been steadily increasing since...
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And, remember, the worst thing you can sell to somebody is hope.
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Because, you get people's hopes up just to destroy them later.
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There is all of these businesses revolving around single people.
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But, they sell you hope because they want to sell you a dream so you sign up.
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And, I don't think we really need to be doomers for real.
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It's not like you were born 100 years ago where you have to go to war and get your head blown off.
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I mean, relationships are just harder for our generation.
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You know, as a guy, you can just get a hotter girl after.
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And, I don't think it's so bad, you know, with all the...
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So, based on this graph and based on the statistic...
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Why is a woman dependent on your life being good?
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I'm not going to tell you as a man how to live your life, but...
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It's either the powers that be, a higher power...