Pearl - October 03, 2025


Why Traditional Marriage is DEAD in America

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Kevin Samuels Hinge
Why Men Pick Strippers Over Wives Attractive Women Will Always Win in the End

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In this episode, I talk about why women need to be married by the age of 22, why women should get married at 22, and why women don't want to get married until they're 30. I also talk about the declining birth rates and why this is a problem.

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00:00:00.000 I say if you're a woman and you want to go the traditional route, you have to like 23 to do it. 1.00
00:00:05.640 Any guy that does that after that really is kind of a sucker, to be honest. 0.98
00:00:12.700 So we're going to watch.
00:00:14.600 So again, I want to see if she advocates for the laws changing first.
00:00:20.280 I actually haven't seen the full thing, so I could be wrong.
00:00:24.200 But I know how the Tradcons talk. 1.00
00:00:26.720 Brett, keep covering this stuff, please.
00:00:31.380 It's giving me stuff to do.
00:00:33.660 And you know how much easier it is to cook you than the guys?
00:00:37.580 Cooking women is just so much easier. 1.00
00:00:40.640 Oh my gosh, like, please, please keep doing this.
00:00:44.980 Okay.
00:00:46.160 It is the infrastructure for a family.
00:00:49.480 And that infrastructure is quickly collapsing, and so are the birth rates.
00:00:54.180 Here's why.
00:00:56.720 So if you've been following the news over the last year, if you've watched any of my videos, then you've probably heard about the birth rates falling and how.
00:01:05.540 Hold on.
00:01:08.180 $10 super chat.
00:01:09.960 I agree, but there are more men who want marriage than women.
00:01:13.160 The issue is that men, is that the men that women want, don't want marriage.
00:01:18.320 And if women can't get those men, they just play the field. 1.00
00:01:20.640 Yeah, I know.
00:01:21.420 That's the other part of female nature. 1.00
00:01:24.160 Oh, I forgot it over there.
00:01:25.420 Could you?
00:01:25.640 That's the other female nature, conservatives. 1.00
00:01:29.860 Conservatives have this idea that women are just getting pumped and dumped. 1.00
00:01:39.620 But to be honest, now, ugly women don't count. 1.00
00:01:43.200 Yes, ugly women get pumped and dumped. 1.00
00:01:45.000 But if you're fat, I mean, that's your own choice. 1.00
00:01:47.520 You're choosing.
00:01:48.240 At that rate, you're choosing to get pumped and dumped.
00:01:50.800 Like, I mean, seriously.
00:01:52.460 So that's a choice.
00:01:55.880 That being, that's, that is a choice you made. 0.96
00:01:58.940 But I would say hot women pump and dump men more than men pump and dump them. 1.00
00:02:04.280 Seriously.
00:02:05.380 The men, the women that men want to marry that are the most desirable don't want to settle down. 0.70
00:02:10.860 It's not the men that don't want to settle down.
00:02:12.820 Such a big issue, not just in America, but around the world.
00:02:15.680 It is something that countries around the globe, from here to Korea, are dealing with on a massive scale.
00:02:21.220 But here is what nobody is actually talking about.
00:02:23.320 And that is the fact that Americans' desire for large families has continued to increase.
00:02:29.140 Take a look at this graph.
00:02:30.420 In blue, you'll see that that is three or more children.
00:02:33.060 And while there was a massive decline.
00:02:34.720 Now, again, conservatives have the problem of taking what women say seriously. 0.95
00:02:40.200 So, ironic coming from me, I know.
00:02:44.000 But, so, they'll, again, because conservatives have a tendency to not understand female nature. 0.99
00:02:51.160 Men that have banged a lot of women know that women go through different phases in their life.
00:02:56.920 And oftentimes, the woman, especially men that have been in casual relationships with women over time,
00:03:02.580 the woman they meet at 18 is not the same woman they're still banging at 25.
00:03:07.380 Women go through phases. 1.00
00:03:08.960 Just because women say they want something, it does not mean they actually want it. 0.95
00:03:15.580 And sometimes it's not even being, it's the women don't even know it, that they don't want it. 1.00
00:03:22.080 So, I'll give you an example.
00:03:26.240 If you have a fat friend, and he's just super fat, and they keep eating a lot of food and not going to the gym,
00:03:36.140 that means they want to be fat.
00:03:38.120 Now, they might not say, if you ask them, they might say, well, no, I want to be thin.
00:03:41.920 But, the choices they're making suggest they want to be fat, right?
00:03:48.060 And it's the same thing with women. 1.00
00:03:49.760 You know, if women wanted to be in relationships, women would be. 1.00
00:03:54.060 If women wanted to be married, we would be. 1.00
00:03:56.440 We got to stop taking the, and this is what I'm saying.
00:03:59.420 Like, a lot of times, Kevin Samuels had a phrase, and this is kind of an uncomfortable phrase. 0.95
00:04:05.760 Anyways, women go through a slut phase when they're ready to settle down. 1.00
00:04:11.960 This is a true thing. 0.99
00:04:13.400 This is an uncomfortable part of female nature. 1.00
00:04:16.680 Because, to some extent, dating is a numbers game for women. 1.00
00:04:20.460 I knew a girl. 0.92
00:04:21.440 She was dead set.
00:04:22.660 She wanted to get married by 22. 1.00
00:04:25.180 She said, I will be married by 22.
00:04:27.860 This girl banged 10 dudes in the year. 1.00
00:04:30.660 I swear to God.
00:04:31.500 I swear on my life.
00:04:32.720 And, the 10th was her husband.
00:04:35.380 And, then she was done.
00:04:36.640 She was out of the game forever.
00:04:38.360 By 22.
00:04:40.760 So, what happens is, a lot of times, we prioritize other things.
00:04:44.680 I'm not saying it's wrong or bad to prioritize those other things.
00:04:48.980 I'm really not.
00:04:49.620 I'm not saying it's immoral or whatever.
00:04:52.840 But, I try to make that distinction.
00:04:55.420 But, what I am saying is, if women want to, we have the option to download Hinge and go on a date every day of the week.
00:05:04.760 Until we meet somebody that, imagine if men had the option to get 5,000 women ready to go, willing to meet them, go on a date tomorrow. 1.00
00:05:16.400 And, they wanted to be married in a year.
00:05:18.520 Do you think men would be married by the end of the year? 0.98
00:05:23.260 They would.
00:05:24.260 They would.
00:05:24.580 And, that's, we keep treating women with these, like, kid gloves. 0.99
00:05:29.140 If women wanted to, we would. 1.00
00:05:31.580 We would.
00:05:32.800 So, we could say we want three kids.
00:05:35.100 But, if we're not having three kids, then we don't want three kids.
00:05:39.040 Point, case, simple.
00:05:41.440 You know, because, another big tell that women want to be married is we stop going for men out of our league. 0.98
00:05:47.520 Because, women, we have a tendency to want both. 1.00
00:05:49.660 Like, we'll be like, oh, well, I want to date the hot guy. 0.98
00:05:54.040 And, you're like, well, you're going to have to have sex with him pretty much immediately. 0.86
00:05:57.160 He'll wait, like, a week because he's hot and he doesn't have to not. 0.96
00:06:00.040 And, you'll have a risk of getting ghosted.
00:06:03.140 So, now the burden of performance that's on you, you've got to work really hard now.
00:06:07.380 And, they're like, well, no, I don't want to, I want no risk.
00:06:10.000 And, it's like, well, that's life.
00:06:13.640 You know what I mean?
00:06:15.000 So, it just goes back to, I mean, there's nothing in life you can have without risk.
00:06:19.960 I knew another girl, okay, and she actually went the more traditional route. 0.83
00:06:26.880 I say, if you're a woman and you want to go the traditional route, you have till, like, 23 to do it. 0.99
00:06:33.160 Any guy that does that after that really is kind of a sucker, to be honest. 0.97
00:06:37.980 Because, now he's just taking the woman's word that she's pure. 1.00
00:06:41.540 At 23, you could kind of be like, have plausible denial.
00:06:45.880 You could lie good enough, I guess, but, I don't know, 24, we've got to start treating you like an adult.
00:06:51.920 So, I did know another woman who was, again, she wanted to wait until she was married. 0.97
00:06:58.040 And, she was dead set on being a virgin on her wedding day.
00:07:03.200 She was Catholic.
00:07:04.200 And, she went to a Catholic university.
00:07:07.260 She picked a Catholic dorm to stay in.
00:07:10.720 And, this woman was husband hunting. 0.99
00:07:12.700 And, she did not prioritize class.
00:07:16.800 She was on a mission.
00:07:18.020 I'm going to be honest.
00:07:18.740 This girl was on a mission.
00:07:19.780 And, she was married by 23.
00:07:23.020 I think she did it a year later.
00:07:24.840 But, close enough, right?
00:07:32.400 Yeah, give you that girl. 1.00
00:07:33.680 I mean, but, even that girl, let's be honest, she still did something.
00:07:37.560 I'm just being honest here.
00:07:38.920 Like, not all the way, but, it's like, they'll find a way around it.
00:07:43.240 But, it doesn't matter, whatever.
00:07:46.420 She got what she wanted.
00:07:48.080 And, that's my point.
00:07:49.220 If women wanted to, we would. 1.00
00:07:51.620 That's it.
00:07:52.360 Point blank, case, period.
00:07:54.440 The only, like, when you want something, you take action.
00:07:59.220 It's kind of, I'll give you another example.
00:08:00.740 So, when I wanted to be a YouTuber, I really wanted, I wanted to go into media.
00:08:06.160 I was insane.
00:08:07.440 I quit my job.
00:08:09.000 And, I posted, like, between probably 10 to 30 videos a day at times.
00:08:15.420 I would get up.
00:08:16.600 I would do some reactions on YouTube.
00:08:18.600 Then, I would go to TikTok, film, like, 10, 20.
00:08:21.480 So, that's taking action.
00:08:23.980 But, the challenge I see with a lot, like, and this was when I was in that non-denominational church I talk about. 0.80
00:08:30.040 I saw this the most.
00:08:31.740 They just, they want no action.
00:08:33.840 Like, nothing's going to happen.
00:08:35.360 So, again, if we wanted three kids, we would have three kids.
00:08:39.640 That's it.
00:08:41.300 I don't really care what people say.
00:08:43.220 It's like, what did you do?
00:08:44.400 Now, a lot of people say, well, what about money?
00:08:47.740 And, you could argue everything is getting more expensive.
00:08:50.680 I'm not even saying people should have three kids.
00:08:53.700 But, there's a way to prioritize.
00:08:56.320 Like, you know, I knew people that did not make a high income that had three or four children.
00:09:02.840 It's possible.
00:09:03.500 There's ways to do it. 0.99
00:09:04.980 Catholic dorms sound to me like anal-trained dorms. 0.99
00:09:09.600 Anal-trained dorms. 1.00
00:09:11.980 Look, my dorms had trans people in.
00:09:15.280 I can't say that.
00:09:16.080 I swear.
00:09:17.040 My school is one of the first schools to allow trans people in our dorms.
00:09:21.040 I never experienced a Catholic dorm.
00:09:23.860 I didn't.
00:09:24.340 I can't say.
00:09:26.880 But, women do find a lot of workarounds for the religious thing. 1.00
00:09:31.680 We do have a tendency.
00:09:32.840 I don't think she did that.
00:09:34.580 But, it doesn't matter.
00:09:36.960 But, we have a tendency to find every workaround possible.
00:09:42.040 That number of people that are wanting three or more children has been steadily increasing since...
00:09:46.740 And, remember, the worst thing you can sell to somebody is hope.
00:09:51.120 I think it's the worst thing.
00:09:53.620 Because, you get people's hopes up just to destroy them later.
00:09:57.900 And, that's what they do.
00:09:59.060 They say, oh, look at this poll.
00:10:00.340 There's a boom coming back.
00:10:02.180 And, I'm like, okay, let me get this straight.
00:10:04.080 The entire economy was built now.
00:10:06.760 All of their...
00:10:07.340 There's housing built for single people.
00:10:09.480 There is all of these businesses revolving around single people.
00:10:16.720 The birth rate is going down every year.
00:10:19.100 The marriage rate is also going down.
00:10:21.560 When is this trend going to change?
00:10:23.820 But, they sell you hope because they want to sell you a dream so you sign up.
00:10:29.920 I'm honest here.
00:10:31.060 I'm a doomer.
00:10:31.840 This is the doomer channel.
00:10:34.100 And, I don't think we really need to be doomers for real.
00:10:37.520 It's not like you were born 100 years ago where you have to go to war and get your head blown off.
00:10:41.940 I mean, relationships are just harder for our generation.
00:10:46.080 That's it.
00:10:48.080 It's not the end of the world.
00:10:49.720 You know, as a guy, you can just get a hotter girl after. 1.00
00:10:53.520 Let's look at the bright side here, you know.
00:10:55.720 This is just our generation's thing.
00:11:01.700 And, I don't think it's so bad, you know, with all the...
00:11:03.940 I can take ballet classes as an adult.
00:11:07.220 That used to be only offered to kids.
00:11:09.600 How cool is that, you know?
00:11:13.020 So, it's just a different world.
00:11:15.360 It's just...
00:11:15.860 It's not what the past is.
00:11:18.700 Is it really what's going to be in the future?
00:11:20.320 Around 2008, 2010.
00:11:23.500 It definitely took off around 2015.
00:11:25.860 So, based on this graph and based on the statistic...
00:11:27.880 Okay, you said there's no bright side.
00:11:29.740 You could still have a good life.
00:11:31.220 Why is a woman dependent on your life being good? 1.00
00:11:38.020 A woman's actions... 1.00
00:11:39.740 And I don't...
00:11:40.440 I'm not going to tell you as a man how to live your life, but...
00:11:44.440 Being outcome independent is a completely...
00:11:47.100 It's a better...
00:11:47.640 You're not in control.
00:11:49.240 If you're religious, if you're not... 0.57
00:11:52.440 It's either the powers that be, a higher power...
00:11:54.960 Whatever it is.
00:11:55.860 Someone else is in control.
00:11:57.200 It's not you.
00:11:57.620 You cannot control another person.
00:12:01.220 You can't.