Pearl - Wife Admits She LIED About Her Sexual Past… Even After Having His Baby

00:00:00.000 so today we're reacting to the female insufferability epidemic um and this was a show

00:00:05.760 called love is blind and love and love is blind is reality tv and basically they fall in love

00:00:10.800 through the wall and then they see each other for the first time now mind you this guy is objectively

00:00:15.920 better looking than the girl and still the girl says do you have gel in your hair a little bit

00:00:21.200 oh wow okay this is nice that's nice we're gonna have to get you a boy haircut what does that mean

00:00:26.960 where it's like shaved on the side my head's kind of a weird shape you know we'll have to try it

00:00:32.320 out we need to get you a piercing or something though yeah yeah he's laughing but it's totally 0.79

00:00:39.040 insufferable she's chubby you know how are you as a chubby woman do you think i need a piercing

00:00:45.280 a piercing yeah yeah yeah yeah i don't know about that one and he's so cute he's a handsome guy 0.92

00:00:51.120 that's like he's like objectively like a wood you know what i mean and she's i i don't even think

00:00:57.840 most guys would for her like he's she's overweight we're gonna mold you yeah man insufferability

00:01:05.440 epidemic i'm trying to be a good person i'm about to say some mean no i don't want to be a mean

00:01:09.040 person okay now this is more insufferability you're making my mask peel off do it get 0.74

00:01:15.200 i'm not scared of you don't over it but your husband likes you okay here's more insufferability 0.87

00:01:19.440 When my husband and I first started dating, I was talking to him about my sexual history.

00:01:27.020 And now we've been married almost two years.

00:01:29.000 We have a six-month-old.

00:01:30.600 And I have still never told him the truth.

00:01:33.960 And it's really starting to weigh on me.

00:01:37.140 And I think it's affecting me emotionally.

00:01:40.380 And I just don't know how to tell him.

00:01:42.720 Yeah, secrets will kill, man.

00:01:44.680 So less important about your past,

00:01:47.840 What has it been about your relationship with him that it's felt unsafe to say it out loud?

00:01:54.080 Yeah, well, because she's trying to cheat the system, and she cheated it, and it worked.

00:01:58.400 So I think she got a kid now.

00:02:00.200 It really started with his initial reaction back when we were dating.

00:02:07.020 When he asked me, we were like maybe our third date, he asked me if, I guess, about my sexual history.

00:02:14.260 and i was like well yeah i have without thinking and um he just the look on his face looked like

00:02:22.060 he'd been hit with a bat and uh because you're somehow less than or not worthy of um it was less

00:02:29.820 that is kind of how it works but it just is what it is you got to take the l and more he was like

00:02:34.380 he was raised in a yes he was raised in a very um we're both believers uh in christ now but he

00:02:40.640 was raised in a very christian home and it was like he was not expecting that from me at all he

00:02:45.200 didn't expect that because oh because only those people do that and he doesn't go on dates with

00:02:51.120 those people and here he was falling for somebody day three and you ruined it for him laura and

00:02:56.640 little did he know right that's how that's how it felt really and i i knew he would not have

00:03:02.800 continued the relationship if i had told him the truth at that moment so i panicked and oh wow

00:03:08.720 like one person one time it wasn't you know and i i was like i felt so bad about it um which you

00:03:15.840 didn't and that's i mean now i yeah i did not yeah and i'm not i'm not i'm not getting on to you for

00:03:23.840 that like it's so that's a really strange moment to find yourself to to have a baby girl most

00:03:29.840 amazing thing in your life is your marriage good other than this big secret that's underneath it

00:03:34.240 yeah i honestly want now she wants to ruin it girl just die on this lie what are you doing

00:03:41.120 what are you doing he doesn't need to know man i mean you guys tell me in the chat you already

00:03:46.120 got a kid so he's happy don't i mean he's wonderful okay so you have this whole life

00:03:53.320 that but not for this and the women said let me just yeah she just wants drama let me just

00:03:59.100 mess it up lie that is grown underneath the foundation of our marriage i don't have i don't

00:04:05.020 have any of this stuff i don't have my baby girl i don't have him i don't have this life i have

00:04:08.880 yeah phew now listen i don't normally say this laura but you need to not tell anybody this

00:04:14.440 happened and just bury this thing i'm just kidding you can't do that i know that was the right answer

00:04:19.400 oh my god oh gosh it does it does sound like whoa man all right so play it out for me play it out

00:04:27.960 for me you sit down and tell them i can't keep this from you anymore there's some stuff from my

00:04:32.760 past you don't know and lay it out exactly as you laid it out for me i remember you asked me this

00:04:37.640 one question and i answered it and the look on your face was so shocking that i immediately

00:04:43.220 said one person one time i didn't even i i hated it um i wish i hadn't have and actually it was

00:04:48.780 more what does he do she doesn't she's only telling him because she has the leverage now

00:04:54.340 what i've been um struggling with i know he obviously he's not gonna leave me um but i think

00:05:00.980 it'll do him some i think it'll really do a number on him and i will the sex part your number on him

00:05:06.740 or will the fact that his wife's lying to him about something that he valued significantly do

00:05:12.020 something i mean it'll it'll be the lie um but also i think i mean he's like he's very like 0.94

00:05:18.980 possessive he's like a man you know and that's stupid i am too and i think he'll see yeah 0.67

00:05:25.940 and by the way even even if this is i mean women never get the something that people kind of ask 0.99

00:05:30.340 me you should lie often it's like well now she's talking about how she can train her husband to be

00:05:34.900 better actually people don't even ask it like people just assume that rafael has just always

00:05:40.900 been a really good of me i just don't think i mean some men but like i really don't think

00:05:47.700 men have like that natural instinct that's okay like that's what makes this is projection women

00:05:54.180 don't have that natural instinct men definitely do and so special i've men just aren't um they're

00:05:59.940 too nice they don't realize how evil we are really had to like kind of teach him but it's not like

00:06:04.100 hey can you do this for me it's like i continue to celebrate others the way i would want to be

00:06:10.420 celebrated and i think over time he's just kind of learned like really you show up it doesn't

00:06:15.700 have to be anything crazy but like intentional he'll ask me how i think of stuff for people and

00:06:20.020 i'm like i just listen and i notice that they say this and then when the time comes i just kind of

00:06:25.380 have a mental note of it and i feel like he's kind of started to do that i feel like there's so many

00:06:29.460 women that have really high expectations and i think it's just because women get used to being

00:06:33.620 let down so like when the time comes it's like just another thing that lets me down you know

00:06:38.580 but for example like i knew rafa and i spent a lot of time together we're together 24 7 so

00:06:43.940 it would be unrealistic of me to not see him buy my birthday card and it would be unrealistic of

00:06:49.700 me to put pressure on him taking time out to like make an additional stop and like keep it secretive

00:06:56.900 to get my birthday card where i was going with all this one it's our responsibility to communicate

00:07:00.820 men and women are scientifically biologically chemically yeah okay so she's talking about 0.99

00:07:05.460 that's embarrassing right how how would it be if men did videos on how they train their wives even

00:07:11.300 though again that would be better right we want to be trained so it's all it's all like the opposite 1.00

00:07:15.540 insufferable she's about to not even started and you're going to break the zipper checking

00:07:20.820 i'm breaking it or are you breaking it like it'll look really good if you just do it up

00:07:25.140 oh yeah it's not that hard would you know how it is how would you know if it's not that hard

00:07:29.540 less comment see she's nagging him that's my honest i'm being lazy seriously you haven't

00:07:35.220 actually even tried to zip it up can you just try again she already was starting to nag him and look

00:07:40.980 Look at all the comments. 1.00

00:07:41.660 Just women. 1.00

00:07:42.200 I just want you to understand what I've noticed in media is the more women and black people 1.00

00:07:46.480 scream at me, the more I'm right. 1.00

00:07:48.320 They will gaslight you to the end of time.

00:07:50.980 I swear to God they will. 1.00

00:07:53.080 So don't you fear like pissing off women.

00:07:56.680 You cannot be loved by the masses.

00:07:58.520 You can't.

00:07:59.180 Once more.

00:07:59.940 I'm going to break the zip or I'm going to pinch your back.

00:08:03.660 You won't.

00:08:04.760 Because Alan, trust me, I can hear it going up.

00:08:07.740 It will not go past.

00:08:09.420 Come on, just zip it.

00:08:10.380 I'm sweating.

00:08:10.980 it doesn't work it doesn't work baby it's too small i'm sorry babe you've been lazy like you're

00:08:16.440 not putting okay i don't know if you just i don't know if you think you're that size whatever size

00:08:20.840 that is you're not that size i'm sorry you're just not i'm out i'm off i'm gone i've tried

00:08:26.700 so many times it doesn't go up i'm not doing it it sucks i don't like it yeah she loves

00:08:34.160 I saw a girl post. Look at the smile. I mean, it's just all right. Now then also women train

00:08:40.500 their husband to be slaves and then brag about it to other women. Look. Things that her husband 1.00

00:08:44.760 does without her having to ask. So I'm going to do my own version. This guy. These are things

00:08:49.500 that I've never had to ask my husband to do. He's just automatically done them. Never had to ask

00:08:54.820 ever. The first thing, which I think that this is normal, but a lot of girls don't think this is

00:09:01.740 normal. I have never done one single load of laundry in the three years that we've been

00:09:07.420 together. Has it been longer than three years? I will. So again, just, you know, as women,

00:09:11.960 men that require nothing and do everything, it seems nice, but now she doesn't know how to do 1.00

00:09:15.900 laundry. And I think there's some level of like unhappiness that comes from like women that are 1.00

00:09:21.580 with men that worship them because they're so useless in those relationships. They don't know 0.99

00:09:25.940 how to do anything. I trust me. I've been in a relationship where the guy did a lot

00:09:31.740 and i've been in one where i did a lot and i'm i'm always happy i like i like having something to do

00:09:36.860 you know ever do a load of laundry for the remainder of my life and that's just a normal

00:09:41.980 for us he does all the laundry he does all the dishes he takes the trash out during the school

00:09:47.980 year when i'm busier with teaching he does the cat litter he does most of the cleaning he does

00:09:53.580 most of the cooking because i'm gone at work for 10 to 12 hours a day whenever we go to the grocery

00:10:00.060 store i never push the cart i never grab the groceries out of the cart and load them into

00:10:06.120 the car whatever he does that for me doesn't like me carrying heavy things even though i'm more than

00:10:10.960 capable and i completely would help him he will take it out of my hand and refuse help i don't

00:10:19.480 drive anywhere i haven't driven to a place together like ever i don't think ever unless

00:10:26.440 we're driving back to my hometown which is 12 hours away from where we live currently then i

00:10:32.200 might take a one so this is insufferable right insufferable so i'm kidding me this man goes i 0.89

00:10:38.760 know let's see this one great mexican spot to take you to you think shits funny too man 0.74

00:10:48.520 one day you'll be in your 30s working 10 hours ships raising toddlers running on caffeine and 0.55

00:10:52.680 five hours of sleep and someone will have the audacity to ask what's for dinner and suddenly

00:10:56.440 you'll understand why britney shaved her head again that's insufferable you know these are 1.00

00:11:00.920 all choices she made nobody put a gun to her head and made her be a doctor you know and have kids 1.00

00:11:06.520 you could have just picked one but women just are insufferable so anyways all right guys let me know 0.99

00:11:11.480 what you think in the comments uh like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel i 1.00

00:11:15.240 love you. Thank you for watching and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - October 27, 2026

Wife Admits She LIED About Her Sexual Past… Even After Having His Baby

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