Pearl - September 25, 2026


“Woman Admits Her Own MOTHER Was Her Biggest Bully” @JustPearlyThings

The Life of a Real Ninja “Single Moms Keep Bringing ABUSIVE Men Around Their Children” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

218.56

Word count

457

Sentence count

5

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

1

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 the biggest bully she hated everything about me she hated how weird i was how playful i was
00:00:05.200 she hated that i just existed in being and so she picked me apart and she tried to make me
00:00:11.840 this small and the voice of her lived inside my head for years and it repeated in different faces
00:00:17.440 in different spaces and for much of my life her yeah the the first person to call their daughter
00:00:24.080 fat ugly or tell them they need to change in some ways usually the mother her voice defined who i 0.99
00:00:29.120 i was and lived in my head because my mom was my biggest bully she was the first bully the woman 1.00
00:00:33.700 that was supposed to hold me and love me and yet she made me feel this small and she did everything 1.00
00:00:38.460 in her power because of what she lacked within herself to make sure that i would repeat the
00:00:43.240 cycle and i didn't i chose not to my mom was my biggest bully and for years i lived with this
00:00:49.740 framework and these yeah glasses of how i saw myself in the lens of my mother see we usually
00:00:56.020 get a very healthy view of ourselves from our parents yeah and that's the problem that's what 0.94
00:01:00.600 i mean mothers emotionally torture the kids because they're just emotionally unstable and
00:01:05.280 the father is the father is supposed to protect the kids from the mother but they've been cooked
00:01:10.380 in this society and they've been told that the mother is supposed to be in charge you know the
00:01:14.020 father needs to be in charge they're supposed to build us up and love us but what happens when that
00:01:17.820 doesn't happen what happens when the people that are meant to hold you and love you and care for
00:01:22.080 you, abuse you, neglect you, make you feel small, or make you feel bad about yourself. And so I
00:01:28.260 spent a lifetime taking those glasses off, making sure that I would be who I actually was, and that
00:01:35.060 I could see myself in the mirror. So if you had an abusive parent, if you had a neglectful parent,
00:01:40.200 I'm here to tell you that you don't have to live through their lens. And to erase that voice that's
00:01:45.520 in your head that was put in there by other people, that's not really who you are. And there
00:01:50.320 are a bunch of beautiful things we live in 2026 the internet and books and podcasts and people
00:01:55.160 are out there that can make you see the truest version of yourself because you're not what your
00:02:00.320 parents told you you were you're fine you're perfect you're here you're not broken there's
00:02:04.440 nothing wrong with you all right