Pearl - September 30, 2026


“Woman REGRETS Listening to Her Friends and Divorcing a Good Man” @JustPearlyThings

Women Having MELTDOWNS Over Completely Normal Dates “Woman Has ONE Bad Date and QUITS Dating Apps Completely” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

185.41

Word count

531

Sentence count

10

Harmful content

Misogyny

3

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

sentences flagged


Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 I regret listening to my friends and divorcing my husband that brought me to-
00:00:05.280 That's another thing. Women, the streets are fun. So women love the streets. 1.00
00:00:10.240 Also, I was thinking more about this community thing because they always say women don't have 0.99
00:00:15.760 a tribe and they don't have community. And I keep thinking, how much community do you need?
00:00:19.500 You get your church community if you want it. You get your house community. Like if anything,
00:00:23.700 I think women have too much community. So we don't build communities at home. We build communities 1.00
00:00:29.360 out in the world you know what i mean so anyways uh the problem with the big friend group is when
00:00:34.380 the divorce happens they're all going they're going to story time i got married to a man and
00:00:40.920 this man in question is a very good man when i said very good man he is a very good man and
00:00:47.380 the family that i came from they are not well to do you know but god bless me with this man
00:00:54.400 who takes good care of me he rented a flat for me here in nigeria and furnished it very well
00:01:02.120 he also bought a car for me i already have two children a boy and a girl for him and he also
00:01:09.720 hired a house help that he is also paying a monthly basis to help me so i am living a
00:01:16.560 comfortable life here in nigeria and he is in germany so while the marriage was going on
00:01:24.400 i started thinking about going to germany to stay with him you know i feel like he needs to bring
00:01:32.120 me there because to me he is doing well he is doing very well because the kind of money that
00:01:37.960 is giving to me on monthly basis i was thinking that he has too much you know that was how i
00:01:47.240 started disturbing him telling him that oh i want you to come and take me and my and the children
00:01:52.120 to germany we need to be closer we need to be together and all of that at first my husband
00:01:57.720 told me that i will not like it here in germany that he makes sure that we are living a comfortable
00:02:05.240 life in nigeria that if i come to germany it will not be as comfortable as that i did not understand 1.00
00:02:12.920 it i told my husband there you cannot convince me that someone that is living in nigeria is living
00:02:18.760 more comfortable than you that is in germany that is even giving us the money so i was able to
00:02:25.640 convince him to bring me and the kids to germany which he did because at some point i started
00:02:33.000 accusing him of maybe you have a woman there maybe there is someone you don't want us to meet
00:02:38.200 this is that the comments are saying if a man loves her he should give her a second chance
00:02:41.960 you know he told me that what i mean no he knows what he's telling me that i am more comfortable
00:02:47.640 I will be more comfortable here in Nigeria than they. 0.96
00:02:50.660 He doesn't want her nagging. 1.00