Pearl - Womanese： What Women Say VS What They Mean

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00:02:15.520 pill content i think it was about four years ago um maybe three or four years ago now and

00:02:21.680 as you guys know one of the first videos that i saw was um kevin samuel's high value men cheat

00:02:27.680 and this triggered me a little bit it really did but um one of the um second or third or maybe

00:02:34.400 fourth i don't remember at this point people that i saw was donovan sharps content and donovan was

00:02:42.480 or is a red pill content creator and he had a course called or a a part of his channel called

00:02:50.240 womanese and he would say this is what women say and this is what they actually mean now

00:02:55.920 at the time guys i gotta be honest i thought i thought donovan come on that that is not right

00:03:05.280 he would say things like for example you know if she calls him an it means she wants to

00:03:11.840 f them and i thought that's not true maybe i just think he's an that is totally

00:03:17.280 untrue wrong wrong but then i did a thousand you know i interviewed a thousand women

00:03:25.920 and then i also observed myself my friends people i just knew's behavior over the years and i

00:03:33.040 donovan was one of those people that was just right about freaking everything it was insane um

00:03:38.720 his entire he has a course and it's called womanese and the link to it's in the description

00:03:43.120 if you guys want it um it it amazed me that he was just like i think he spent years dissecting

00:03:53.120 this stuff we're gonna bring him on today um he's a friend of the show um and seriously guys i just

00:04:01.520 i when i first heard the the content that he had i thought he was making it up i thought

00:04:07.520 he was over exaggerating and then three years later i come back and i'm like he is completely

00:04:13.680 right welcome to the show donovan i'm so happy to have you on hey how you doing can you hear me

00:04:20.880 yeah i can hear you can you hear me oh perfect perfect i can hear you loud and clear how are you

00:04:25.200 i'm good how are you i'm i'm doing good listen man nothing nothing makes me feel better than

00:04:32.000 to hear someone say donovan you are right about everything

00:04:38.960 no because i'll tell you what when i first you know you don't realize how blue pill most

00:04:44.400 relationships are so that's the norm in america and and the red pill wasn't really mainstream

00:04:50.320 back then so some of the stuff you would say i would think was an overreaction or it'd be kind

00:04:55.680 of out there and then time passed and i just thought holy crap donovan knows his stuff like

00:05:04.400 i just when it comes to what women say versus what they mean there's no one that knows it better than

00:05:09.200 you nobody right well and and the reason why is because i have had many many many failures with

00:05:17.760 women and i i tell this i tell this to my guys all the time for every story that i have ever told

00:05:23.360 about some big breasted blonde that i you know game some one night stand i had with a hot redhead

00:05:29.120 or a brunette there are 50 stories of absolute utter failure and i think in life and i think

00:05:36.880 this goes i think this goes with any with anything you do in life i think you learn more from failure

00:05:43.120 than you do from winning right even in sports like if you win okay great we won but when you lose if

00:05:50.080 you, if you look at yourself with a critical eye, if you're honest with yourself, you will

00:05:55.020 learn a lot more, you know, during your losses than your wins. For example, let's just say

00:05:59.400 someone, Stephen Curry, right? Greatest shooter ever. You know, he, he, he shoots a bunch of

00:06:03.700 threes. Stephen Curry has missed more three pointers than he's ever taken. But with every

00:06:08.140 miss, he learns a little bit more about what to do, what not to do. And, you know, on any

00:06:12.400 particular technique. And so over the years, Stephen Curry has sort of honed his craft and

00:06:16.780 it's not really knowing what to do. It's knowing what not to do. We all know, Hey, in order

00:06:21.060 to shoot, you play basketball, Pearl, in order to shoot, you put the ball over your

00:06:23.640 head and you let it go. But there are certain things you can do, like spreading your fingers

00:06:27.540 across the basketball, the way you aim with your eye, the way you aim for aim for spot

00:06:31.480 six, six inches before, you know, the basket that increases the odds of it going in the

00:06:36.620 arc of the ball, you shoot it a little higher. So it has more of a chance to go in. Well,

00:06:40.860 the same thing goes on the dating market. If you walk and you approach, I don't know,

00:06:44.360 let's just say 10 girls and they all blow you out. They all reject you instead of getting into your

00:06:49.720 feelings, which is very easy to get because rejection is not easy to get used to, but it's

00:06:53.460 a lot easier for men to get used to. But in, in, instead of just, you know, ah, you know,

00:06:58.200 she rejected me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You have to think to yourself, okay, what did I say?

00:07:02.560 What did she say? She told me that she had a boyfriend, but she told me she had a boyfriend

00:07:07.820 like three seconds after I approached her. Right. And so I wondered why, when I kept trying,

00:07:12.940 she told me, hey, look, I told you I had a boyfriend, whereas you approach another girl

00:07:16.120 and you're talking to her for 10, 15 minutes. And then she tells you that she has a boyfriend.

00:07:21.540 That's exactly what you're thinking. You're like, okay, is it really that she has a boyfriend? No,

00:07:25.340 she told you that as a shit test, right? So the earlier in the set, she tells you she has a

00:07:29.360 boyfriend, the more likely it is that it's a rejection. If you learn these things, and if

00:07:34.040 you apply what you've learned and you go out and approach girls, you know that if you've been

00:07:37.780 talking to a girl for 10, 15 minutes, and then she says she has a boyfriend, you know, she's

00:07:41.740 probably lying and she's saying that to throw you off the scent and so that's that's really the main

00:07:46.220 reason i created woman ease i created woman ease was to let guys know hey listen this is what women

00:07:52.380 say versus what they really mean and so how long did it take you from when you were complete blue

00:07:59.420 pilled simp to to like how many years did it take you to figure all this out like i i think it would

00:08:07.580 help people to know like how many reps you had or how many approaches you have any girl like what

00:08:14.300 was your your origin story because some people might not know it here yeah so oh my god so

00:08:22.140 oh my goodness gracious well to make a very very long story very short um

00:08:29.340 so the way i discovered the red pill is i had just gotten out of a really really bad breakup

00:08:33.900 That's not the relationship that red-pilled me.

00:08:36.340 Got out of a bad breakup, moved to Atlanta for six months, decided I didn't want to live there.

00:08:40.440 Then I moved out to Vegas.

00:08:41.780 And so I got this, you know, this call center telemarketing job, pardon me, you know, because

00:08:47.040 I'm really good at sales, I have a good speaking voice, et cetera, et cetera.

00:08:49.200 Well, there was this, there was this Mexican girl who was attractive-ish looking, looking

00:08:53.820 back now, she probably wasn't as attractive as I thought she was at the time.

00:08:56.520 And, you know, we really started it off and everyone, everyone said to themselves, okay,

00:09:00.220 it's only a matter of time before donovan and martha the girl's name hook up well of course we

00:09:04.780 hooked up and you know we had this three-week relationship well three weeks into the relationship

00:09:10.140 i it just it just clicked in my mind i honestly stayed with her probably two weeks longer than i

00:09:14.460 should have just because i was getting regular sex and i had it's it had been a while since i'd had

00:09:18.460 sex with any girl for any period of time but she was a single mother she had a bad kid her house

00:09:23.660 was always messy she was she was an absolute dumpster fire so even then i had the foresight

00:09:28.540 to say okay let me just go and dump this girl so i go over to her place and i dumped her face to

00:09:32.780 face i was like hey it's not gonna work out blah blah blah blah and what shocked me was that she

00:09:37.340 didn't seem surprised at all she didn't take it as hard as i thought she was i thought it was just

00:09:41.660 gonna be a bunch of trauma and a bunch of crying but here's here's why i thought she was gonna cry

00:09:48.540 this is my blue pill mind because a week and a half before she told me she loved me now i didn't

00:09:53.260 tell her she loved me back but i was like no there's no way this girl loves me because we've

00:09:56.620 We've only been seeing each other for a week and a half.

00:09:58.460 We haven't known each other that long.

00:09:59.900 She's really just trying to reel me in.

00:10:01.840 So I was a little bit shocked when I told her, all right, Martha, it's not working out.

00:10:05.620 We need to go our separate ways.

00:10:06.680 She was like, okay, well, later on I go home and, you know, I'm doing my thing.

00:10:11.040 And, you know, a friend of hers calls me up.

00:10:12.640 She's like, yeah, Martha just called and told me that, you know, you are going your separate ways.

00:10:16.880 I was like, yeah, you know, you know, it wasn't working out, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:10:20.220 I said, well, how is she doing anyway?

00:10:21.760 You know, because again, I'm thinking, okay, maybe this was just a delayed reaction.

00:10:25.320 like actually she's getting ready to go out on a date and i was like what like i dumped this chick

00:10:31.240 like an hour and a half ago why is she going out on a date and so that right then and there after

00:10:36.840 i got off the phone with my friend okay um i jumped on the internet and i typed in why do girls get

00:10:43.080 over breakups so easily and that google search changed everything that was the genesis of donovan

00:10:49.960 sharp so that's the that that's the reader's digest version of how i got into the manosphere

00:10:55.000 so i guess my question is though from there like did it take you one year two years because your

00:11:00.360 womanese is so detailed like you go through everything and i'm when i read it i'm like

00:11:08.120 he must have spent years studying this stuff so how long did it take from point a to developing

00:11:14.920 the course, I guess. Lord, probably about a decade, probably about a decade. Um, I discovered

00:11:20.020 the red pill in the summer of 2010. I came out with the woman ease course, incidentally enough,

00:11:25.640 uh, in 2021. And, you know, listen, the good Lord, whoever he is blessed me with a very good memory.

00:11:31.980 And so, you know, throughout my life, you know, I just kind of reflect on all of the interactions

00:11:36.140 that I've had with women, the conversations that I've had and what I quickly began to discover

00:11:40.380 after consuming enough red pill content is, wait a minute, women are not really direct.

00:11:45.520 They don't really say what it is that they actually mean.

00:11:50.100 And, you know, the interesting thing, Pearl, is that a lot of men these days, we want women

00:11:55.100 to be more direct.

00:11:56.380 And let's be honest, if women were more direct, we wouldn't have to read between the lines

00:12:00.020 with everything they say.

00:12:01.100 But on the other side of that, if you deal with women on the regular, like I did for

00:12:05.200 the better part of a decade, whether it's at work, you know, your relationship, your

00:12:08.940 family. Anytime you deal with women, you can't actually really count on the fact that they are

00:12:13.800 going to tell you exactly what they mean. And it sucks to not be able to take what they say at face

00:12:17.700 value because it causes a lot of confusion and frustration, especially when you're dealing with

00:12:21.820 them romantically. Now, the two main reasons why women aren't direct is number one, being verbally

00:12:26.960 direct is seen as a masculine trait, right? It is a trait that is admired in men. When a woman is

00:12:32.480 direct, what is she seen as? Bitchy, bossy, you know, whatever the case may be, or a woman with

00:12:37.060 bad attitude a lot of times a woman now a woman certainly won't they don't want to be that way

00:12:42.580 right so they generally avoid being direct when talking to people the second reason women aren't

00:12:47.140 direct is because it makes them look bad a lot of times if you give me an example if a woman is

00:12:51.060 attracted to a guy and wants to sleep with him she's not going to say he's hot i want to bang him

00:12:55.140 obviously that makes her look like a hoe so instead what she'll do is she'll make up something

00:12:58.900 nebulous about him to give herself an excuse to be around him to sort of give herself the

00:13:02.500 opportunity to make the sex happen. So in other words, and so instead of saying, well, you know,

00:13:07.180 I really liked the guy, I want to bang him. She'll be like, you know what, Dave over there,

00:13:09.880 I really like his energy translation. I want to bang him, but the way what the, and, and,

00:13:14.860 but the way modern women operate today, Pearl, and you experienced this firsthand doing the

00:13:18.820 pregame interviewing, interviewing a thousand women, they use their indirectness as a way to

00:13:23.520 play games with men as a way to mislead men. And sometimes even flat out lie to men about what

00:13:28.520 their intentions are however if you are familiar with the way women communicate in terms of what

00:13:33.880 they say versus what they mean you can pick up on this stuff rather quickly and that in large part

00:13:38.020 is the reason i created womanies 101 and is it frustrating to you when blue pill men like i i

00:13:44.240 see them attack you all the time when you are correct and it's like do you think that blue

00:13:51.060 pill men know that you're that you're correct and they're just white knighting or do you think

00:13:55.280 they're ignorant and they think they're doing the right thing yeah i think i think a lot of them

00:14:00.220 are ignorant and i think a lot of them are you know caping up for their fair maidens but you

00:14:05.500 know what they always say hit dogs holler right yeah and there are a lot of blue-pilled men out

00:14:09.660 here pearl who who probably low-key know that most bitches out here really ain't shit but they

00:14:16.680 can't really wrap their they can't admit it to themselves or other people because then it

00:14:20.640 destroys this rose-colored view of who and what women really are a lot of men would like for women

00:14:26.280 to keep that allure and that and that mystery and that mystique about them like they're these

00:14:30.760 otherworldly creatures but women they they burp fart and shit just like the rest of us and the

00:14:37.720 sooner men understand and recognize that women are really no women like there's no woman that

00:14:43.600 is special and i remember a long time ago a really good friend of mine said you know what donovan

00:14:47.620 women are people too and that sort of let me know and obviously women are people too but a lot of

00:14:52.980 men operate like women are these otherworldly godly and angelic like creatures but when you've

00:14:58.540 been around them enough just like you have and you hear them communicate enough and you see what

00:15:03.040 they say versus what they mean for example he's an asshole well you know that if a woman says that

00:15:08.060 a guy is an asshole in this day and age she probably wants to bang him she might really

00:15:12.160 actually think he's an asshole pearl but guess what that doesn't mean that she doesn't still

00:15:16.180 want to bang him. And a lot of times women will make sure that the asshole finds out that he

00:15:20.000 called her an asshole. That's almost like an indirect shit test. I'm going to let Brad know

00:15:23.640 that I called him an asshole indirectly. And if Brad comes over and hollers, then Brad must

00:15:27.840 understand the way women really work. This is happening in their firmware. They're not doing

00:15:31.440 this consciously. They're doing this subconsciously. And this is, and again, this is what

00:15:35.740 one, and the, you know, the woman, he's one-on-one course, 625 different translations, 625. That's

00:15:42.900 lot of translations like i said it took me 10 years to sort of aggregate all this stuff and put

00:15:47.060 it together but i'm very proud of it i really am well and the other thing too that like kind of

00:15:52.260 red-pilled me was i you i'm sure you've seen this on fresh and fit whenever to a guy and a girl like

00:15:58.020 a girl kept arguing with a guy she's trying to sleep with him oh yeah nine out of ten times the

00:16:04.980 show the cameras go off she's talking to him after and i'm like you were just yelling at him

00:16:12.340 10 minutes ago incredible yes dude it's i guess you reacted to so many i'll i'll show you some

00:16:20.500 of the clips where the girl was trying to think and then i was like we don't go for 10 percent

00:16:25.940 of men or 20 it's not that bad and then there'd be like a single mother of four that's going for

00:16:31.460 like this jacked god looking guy on the show and i'm like how do you not see you're you're a single

00:16:38.100 mama for how do you not see this guy is out of your league like well obviously the reason why

00:16:45.100 she doesn't see that this guy is out of her league is because the world tells her never settle you

00:16:50.100 know you deserve the best no matter you know matter what no matter what your situation is

00:16:53.840 and the funny thing is is there are a lot of men out here that are losers right we know who they

00:16:59.820 are we know we generally know what male losers look like lives with his mom plays video games

00:17:04.420 he's out of shape, doesn't have any direction in life. No problem calling men losers, but we don't

00:17:09.660 call women losers. Right. And in my opinion, if you are a woman over the age of 30 and you are

00:17:15.980 unmarried or not in a long-term relationship that is leading to marriage, you are a loser.

00:17:21.040 Like that's just like, if you are a woman and you, and you do not procreate, you don't get married.

00:17:26.880 You don't have any kids. You have failed in life. Okay. But not enough people call women losers.

00:17:32.660 if you're a woman and you're a single mother of four you are a loser and let's get this right

00:17:37.960 single mothers decide to be single mothers okay birth control is the responsibility of the woman

00:17:43.840 and not the man i know a lot of people are probably going to disagree with that but this is why single

00:17:48.240 mothers are losers because they indirectly chose to be single mothers as soon as guys get the balls

00:17:53.580 to understand and put it in their mind you know what if this woman is a loser i'm going to deal

00:17:57.760 with her this way if this woman is not a loser i'm going to deal with her in another way and that's

00:18:01.580 what woman is that's actually what woman is helps men to sort of you know decipher is the woman I'm

00:18:06.860 talking to is she a loser or is she a woman of potential quality yeah and the other thing too

00:18:12.700 that they and it just it drove once I figured out that you guys were correct I was I could not

00:18:21.040 believe like they had like they put us on a DHS watch list and it's like they do not want men

00:18:27.800 getting this information you guys would be too powerful right now listen and the thing is this

00:18:33.800 man it's like if let's just say i were to let's just say i were to make this provocative statement

00:18:39.240 like women you know all women are uh all women are are the color purple let's just say i just

00:18:46.280 started a whole channel called the color purple and all women are the color purple pearl no one's

00:18:51.080 coming after me would you like to know why yeah because there are no purple women walking around

00:18:56.200 right? But the reason why they attacked the manosphere and the red pill is because what we

00:19:00.600 talk about is correct. Hit dogs, holler. If we were just talking bullshit and just making these

00:19:06.440 outlandish statements that didn't make any sense whatsoever, we wouldn't be on any DHS watch list.

00:19:11.400 But just like you said, they're trying to, they are actively trying to prevent men from having

00:19:15.720 this information because I'll tell you something else too, Pearl, the U S economy, the SIMP economy,

00:19:20.520 the u.s economy depends upon men not being red pilled okay if let's just say for let's just say

00:19:27.480 for the sake of argument let's just say 25 of the male population in america were actually red

00:19:33.640 pillarware not even living the red pill not even living the red pill life the economy would fall

00:19:38.040 overnight okay the u.s economy relies on men not understanding what their value is as compared to

00:19:45.080 the woman's value we're always told to pedestalize the woman the woman the woman is valuable no

00:19:49.480 no matter what. And men don't really question these things because most of us have heard this

00:19:53.440 stuff since the day we were born. Then guys like myself, Myron, Andrew Tate come along and we give

00:19:59.660 guys another perspective. And here's another thing, Pearl, we're not telling men anything

00:20:03.500 they don't already know. Most men inherently understand that there is something wrong with

00:20:08.880 the dating market. Most men inherently understand they know that a woman who sleeps around is not

00:20:13.800 a woman who is attractive for a long-term relationship. And there are so many men that

00:20:18.820 are in this battle this is what my firmware is telling me but this is also what the world is

00:20:23.400 telling me and nine times out of ten the world wins because it's all around them but when guys

00:20:28.220 like myself come along and we make these statements guys are like oh yeah you know what that is right

00:20:32.800 i remember i was in a situation or my buddy was in a situation or my brother or my cousin or my

00:20:37.620 uncle was in a situation one thing leads to another and you end up finding websites like ours and so

00:20:42.920 like i said what woman is what woman is really aims to do is it aims to sort of lift the veil

00:20:48.580 on this mystique of women this doesn't this doesn't mean that we're trying to make women

00:20:54.280 look bad guys women are neither good nor bad they just are you know women women are like water they

00:21:00.820 take the shape of the container that they're put in right now the container is fucked up so women

00:21:05.380 are fucked up and so guys like me exist too we're not going to save everybody we get that

00:21:09.580 but if we can save enough people then you know maybe we can make the world a better place who

00:21:14.260 knows yeah if if enough men were red pillow where i think there would just be single mothers

00:21:18.780 everywhere yep there probably would be a lot of guys would just do nail and bales and and uh and

00:21:24.300 yeah they they wouldn't they wouldn't take them seriously i before we get into the womanese i

00:21:28.780 wanted to get your take on a tweet that i had um that everyone was white knighting uh for

00:21:34.020 so i tweeted and all i tweeted was something that a private investigator told me i did not say this

00:21:41.800 a private investigator told me and i tweeted this i said a private investigator told me to baseline

00:21:49.600 assume that women are sleeping with two men at a time and that's not that's not my words

00:21:58.340 and um so i got a ton of reactions like one of them did an essay it's saying you're conflating

00:22:05.340 it's just black women that do that it's just you're just around yeah and i'm like i don't know

00:22:10.940 i've seen some pretty i've seen a hose of all races do you know what i mean yes and then there

00:22:16.940 was other ones saying well of course that's what the private investigator is going to say that's

00:22:21.100 like going to a divorce attorney about marriage advice you know or how what the state of marriage

00:22:26.780 is like and this got over a million views and everyone's just freaking out saying that i'm a

00:22:31.980 doomer and i didn't even make a statement i just repeated what was told to me so what is your

00:22:39.100 reaction to that information what was the so you said that you should always assume a private

00:22:46.220 investigator you know tells you that you should assume that um that you should always assume that

00:22:52.140 women are sleeping with two guys is that what it said yeah let me i could get it word for word but

00:22:56.460 yeah i it said um let me let me see it said

00:23:07.660 let me find it sorry but it was it was basically a private investigator told me

00:23:13.020 that to baseline assume that women are sleeping with two men at a time yeah i'd say that that

00:23:19.580 i'd say that's accurate i'd say that's accurate and the reason i say that's accurate is because

00:23:23.740 like women dude sex comes so easy to women and it's it cracks me up when women there are actually

00:23:31.760 women out here that brag about sleeping with three or four guys well congratulations I woke

00:23:36.600 up and brushed my teeth this morning getting sex for women a lot of times is easier than breathing

00:23:42.080 if a man wants to be a man whore if he wants to sleep around he really has to work at it all a

00:23:47.820 woman has to do to be a hoe is decide to she can walk right out her door right out the door and

00:23:52.440 getting hit in the face with dicks and the men who understand how to handle them on a sexual level

00:23:56.840 are the men who don't get screwed over see most men pearl like most men when they see the single

00:24:01.800 mom whatever the case may be they're in they're sort of in line to sort of get used and abused

00:24:06.120 and play because the single mom is already speaking womanese as soon as you as soon as

00:24:09.880 you talk to her you know listen i know my worth um you know i'm not that person anymore i'm not

00:24:15.800 who i used to be we you and i both know and we laugh at that because we know when they say i'm

00:24:20.200 I'm not that person anymore. Translation. I used to be an epic whore. He used to get trains run on

00:24:24.220 me. That's why I'm a single mother. Um, I know my value. Pardon me. When a woman says, I know my

00:24:28.800 value, what she means is I didn't know my value back then. So I passed my body around to all of

00:24:34.240 these men when my value is at its highest. But now that my value is at its lowest, I'm going to

00:24:37.680 pretend that I know my value. No women understand and know what their value is. What they've

00:24:43.320 perfected is the art of letting the world know that they think that their value is high. I have

00:24:47.580 actually had women in my comments talking about i'm a high value woman and then i'll go to their

00:24:51.940 instagram and be like no and here's the thing and i'll i'll end this little spiel with this

00:24:56.160 the the the the value of a woman is determined not by the caliber of men that want to sleep with you

00:25:03.540 but by the caliber of men who want to commit to you because most girls can most girls can sleep

00:25:09.180 with most guys if they want to but most guys couldn't sleep with most girls if they wanted

00:25:13.140 to and that's the difference can i play devil's advocate so yeah sure go ahead so women are

00:25:19.840 actually correct when they say i didn't know my value when they were younger because when they're

00:25:24.180 younger right you they're like the sluttiest when they're under 25 you know they're giving it away

00:25:29.900 for free they're giving it they don't have these high standards right and so they look back and i

00:25:36.640 think retrospectively they're like oh i didn't know my value because i slept with the drummer

00:25:41.720 the bartender this guy that guy that guy that guy and i could have and i could have got more

00:25:49.280 resources but i didn't know it i think that's what they're communicating do you agree or disagree

00:25:54.880 yeah listen it's it's it's cap it's cap women understand when when a woman does when a woman

00:26:01.100 figures out that persons of the opposite sex want to have sex with them instantly they figure out

00:26:07.400 okay, the world is open to me. If a woman is not sexually attractive, nothing is available to her.

00:26:13.460 Preferential treatment, dates, marriage, kids, whatever the case may be, everything is contingent.

00:26:18.500 This is why a woman's primary agency is youth and beauty. It is the way she looks. But when a girl

00:26:24.020 is young and hot, she's 21 years old, you're not going to convince me that a 21-year-old does not

00:26:29.160 know that she does not have value. Because when she walks into the room, she knows that 70 pairs

00:26:35.000 of eyeballs are all trained on her she knows right then and there that every man wants to

00:26:39.800 her and because and because she knows that men wanting to her is the key to everything she

00:26:44.280 understands very well what her value is when they get older they pretend not to know but let's just

00:26:48.600 say for example they really didn't know their value let's just say a woman said well i'm a

00:26:52.200 valueless person i'm just gonna pass myself around oh well not my problem not my problem

00:26:57.480 if you didn't understand what your value is being able if a woman walks into a room and she feels

00:27:02.680 every man's eyeballs honor if you don't know what your value is at that particular point there's

00:27:07.640 nothing i can do okay one more tweet and then we'll get to womanies i want to get your reaction

00:27:13.400 to it i said lily phillips and bonnie blue are better women than the women that don't have sex

00:27:20.520 with their husbands yeah i'd agree with that you say true yeah i totally agree with that i'll even

00:27:27.880 i'll make them i'll make a more provocative statement okay the relationship between a lady

00:27:32.840 of the night and her customer that is probably that is probably the realist relationship you can

00:27:39.640 be in right because the man knows he is not getting he's not getting the sex without the money

00:27:45.800 the woman knows she's not getting the money without the sex that is transactional that is the purest

00:27:51.000 form of a transactional relationship so i'll use my relationship as an example if devin didn't let

00:27:56.440 let me have sex with her. I would not share my resources with her by the same token. If Devin

00:28:02.460 knows that if she didn't have sex with me, I'm not going to share my resources. It is a transactional

00:28:07.100 relationship. And a lot of people, they, they, they kind of scoff. Oh my God, it's a transactional.

00:28:11.360 Yes. All relationships are transactional. Love is an action. Love is a transaction. There is no

00:28:17.640 act. There, there is no, there is no romance without finance. And I know a lot of people

00:28:21.580 are going to have a problem with that, but this is the way it is. Men, we leverage our resources.

00:28:29.060 We leverage our resources for female sexuality. Women leverage their sexuality for men's

00:28:35.020 resources. It is a tale as old as time itself. And as men, we just need to understand that women do

00:28:40.500 not love us for who we are. They love us for what we are. And that's okay. We don't love women the

00:28:46.500 same way they love us. And I think a lot of guys just need to sort of get at it. A woman is never

00:28:51.020 going to love you sentimentally. No, as long as you are a high level dude, I guess, relative to

00:28:56.120 what you were when you met her, she is always going to love and respect you. But just understand

00:28:59.780 that if you fall off and don't show the resolve to get it all back, she is going to leave. And

00:29:05.280 I conflated to this. Let's just say a man has a lot of money and he falls off. He loses his job,

00:29:11.040 right? A lot of guys will say, well, she'll probably just leave him. Well, no, she's going

00:29:15.140 to give him time. You know, of course, due to the fact that she's been with him a while,

00:29:18.160 but the clock is ticking on the other side of that let's just say that a woman were to gain a

00:29:23.200 little bit of weight the man wouldn't instantly leave her because she's been thin the whole

00:29:26.740 relationship they'll give her a little bit of time to get thin but everyone in here knows that

00:29:32.160 if that woman stays fat and that dude and that dude has any value whatsoever he is either going

00:29:37.680 to cheat or he is going to leave her that's what this this is just kind of what it is and so i

00:29:43.040 think what we need to I think men and women alike we need to understand that we we both have to

00:29:47.940 provide we both have to provide value men we think of it as a value exchange a lot of women

00:29:53.360 think of it as a value loaded exchange we got to get out of that mindset you know what I I don't

00:29:58.380 think um this Devin is so awesome she's so on your pro she's she's so on your program too and

00:30:07.460 i like i just wanted to say that i feel like she is so well like um she's such a good yeah i don't

00:30:15.760 want to say trade i know that was disrespectful but no seriously i was like yeah i'm just watching

00:30:21.700 you guys interact even like off camera and stuff she's yeah she is such a model woman like she does

00:30:27.120 great she is she is yeah i love her i love her very much and um you know it's it's um our nine

00:30:34.920 year anniversary is coming up in October. And it's hard for me to believe that, that we have

00:30:40.280 been together for almost nine years. It was on dude. It was absolutely unbelievable or it's

00:30:46.740 absolutely unbelievable. Yeah. Devin is Devin is awesome. I love her to death. And, um, I mean,

00:30:51.440 we're still going strong. I'm glad that I'm with her. I said to her last night, I was like, dude,

00:30:54.620 I'm glad we found each other. So, and it's even great because it shows that you can have it all

00:31:00.680 as a man. Like you can play the field and you can settle down and have a good long-term relationship.

00:31:06.780 And I will tell you this, I will tell you this. It is, my life is 10 times better now

00:31:14.020 than I am with one woman than it ever was when I was running through hoes in Vegas. Yes, it was fun.

00:31:20.640 It was a great time, magic carpet ride, all the rest of that. But there's something to be said

00:31:25.360 about having a woman that you love and trust who respects and trust you. It's, it's just a much

00:31:31.200 better existence, but you can't get to that point unless you know how to handle them. You can't get

00:31:36.440 to that point unless you can decipher what they say versus what they mean. Listen, Devin hit me

00:31:40.980 with a lot of womanies when we first started talking. She did. And what's, and what shocked

00:31:46.240 her, what shocked her was that I would just call her out on it. Like I would just call her out.

00:31:49.880 She's like, and the funny thing is, is a lot of times she didn't even get upset. She just kind

00:31:53.540 of laughed. That's what I knew she was right. And she used to say to me all the time, she's like,

00:31:57.200 you're the only man that I have ever met who has spoken to me in this way. Women respect you when

00:32:03.980 you understand how to handle them. They might not like you for a short period of time, but in order

00:32:08.860 to get a woman's love, you have to have a respect. And you cannot have a woman's respect unless you

00:32:13.120 understand what she says versus what she means. So why don't we start there? What was the early

00:32:18.480 womanese that she would throw at you oh my god the early womanese that's a good transition into

00:32:25.800 the topic that is that is that is uh she's what did she say oh my god she's hit me with it all

00:32:30.700 the time so when we first started talking right um she would um what would she tell me oh she

00:32:37.220 would tell me that she actually the reason why she reached out to me is because she was talking

00:32:41.560 to a guy and the guy wasn't really the guy wasn't really coming around so i was like okay what's

00:32:47.500 she actually reached out to me for a consultation like okay what's the problem well he's this he's

00:32:50.580 that the third and i said okay so first of all let's go ahead and get this get this straight

00:32:54.640 she's like what's that i was like you're fucking this dude and she's like uh okay she's like no i

00:32:59.060 said you're talking to him that means you're fucking this dude a lot of girls girls don't

00:33:03.680 like to say i'm fucking a guy they like to say that i'm seeing a guy or i'm talking to him or

00:33:09.100 i'm dating him so that's the first thing that that she would say then she would say well i want to go

00:33:13.980 hang out with i'm gonna go hang out with my guy again whatever the case may be and at that point

00:33:18.700 she would and at that point when she figured when she figured out that i knew what she was saying

00:33:23.100 like you know being able to read between the lines you know she would be a little bit more honest and

00:33:27.660 dare i say a little bit more direct because she knew that if she tried to sort of mislead me about

00:33:31.980 what her intentions were that i would just that that i would just call her out on it here's another

00:33:36.860 here's another womanies translation uh we gave so we went to hawaii and this is actually our nine

00:33:43.100 year anniversary so we went to hawaii and i remember we were talking while we were on the trip

00:33:48.300 and she was like okay so what are we going to do after this i was like well you know i mean if i

00:33:53.100 like you after this trip then you know maybe we'll continue to see each other and then she says to me

00:33:57.660 she's like well i kind of have to do the same thing i don't know i said devin stop it i said

00:34:01.900 stop it i said you've already made your decision you don't have to what she tried to do is she tried

00:34:06.220 to she tried that inverse projection oh he's gonna tell me he's not sure about me that's making me

00:34:11.180 more attracted, more attracted to him. So let me try the same thing. Attraction is not symmetrical.

00:34:16.460 The same things that make us attractive to women are not, it's not, it's not the same in reverse.

00:34:21.040 And so she had to learn a lot of that, but you know, a lot of times when she would hit me with,

00:34:25.460 you know, when she would hit me with like, like she told me that she was going to go out with

00:34:29.280 one of her friends. She was like, Hey, you know, my friend Kim called me and she asked me if I

00:34:33.140 wanted to, you know, go out to the bar or whatever. And I told her I would see if I could go. And I

00:34:36.360 was like, no, no, no, no, you're not going. She's like, no, I told her, I would say, I said, Devin,

00:34:40.240 you're not going she's like what are you talking i was like devon if the answer is anything but yes

00:34:44.220 the answer is always no that's it that's all there is to it and she was like i never really thought

00:34:49.440 of it that way guess what devon didn't go to the club with her friend kim she had already had her

00:34:53.520 mind made up but because she wanted to be indirect even with me i'm not the person she committed to

00:34:57.700 she says well i was thinking about going i was thinking about saying no no no you had already

00:35:02.900 made your mind up and that's actually one of the translation clips i'm going to show today

00:35:06.300 oh sure can you show it on screen yeah sure can um let me go ahead and share

00:35:11.760 uh does he have the ability to share it yeah well i think you have to give me the ability

00:35:18.040 yeah that's what i was i was just talking to the producer just to make sure oh there we go perfect

00:35:22.140 oh there we go okay um let's see let's go to clip number two and here we go maybe

00:35:29.460 no we'll see no more than likely uh-uh hell nah if nothing comes up sure sure won't um if i can

00:35:42.440 finish my project of course of course not plans definitely definitely not when it comes to meeting

00:35:53.100 up with girls a general rule of thumb is that if the answer is anything but yes the answer is

00:35:57.720 always know listen if a girl wants to meet up with you she'll meet up with you she won't put

00:36:02.760 conditions on it she won't tell you about other plans she'll simply say yes and wait for your

00:36:07.000 instructions okay so pardon me this is where a lot of guys pearl end up wasting a lot of time

00:36:15.160 energy and resources on a woman who just isn't interested in them like i said in the clip if

00:36:20.480 the answer is anything but yes the answer is always no and the way this will help you is that

00:36:26.060 you won't be wasting time chasing a woman who doesn't like you like that right these are the

00:36:30.440 girls these are the girls really who almost always put you in the friend zone if they don't straight

00:36:35.840 up ghost you all together the men who understand this are the men who don't get hung up on are the

00:36:41.340 men who don't get hung up on girls um you know on girls who don't want them which of course allows

00:36:46.360 them to move on and spend time you know pursuing women who's you know whose interest level is a

00:36:51.100 bit higher so again if the answer is if the answer is anything but yes the answer is always no it's

00:36:56.700 got to be an enthusiastic yes 100 of the time what else are the common ones that what would

00:37:02.380 you say are like the most common mistakes women or men make when interpreting what women say versus

00:37:08.380 what they mean there is only one mistake that men make when interpreting what women say versus what

00:37:14.780 they mean and that is taking what they say at face value you can never you you just can't and

00:37:21.260 again this doesn't i'm not trying to make women sound like these nefarious creatures this is

00:37:25.020 just how they are okay men are direct women are passive okay and you you just have to understand

00:37:31.820 especially in the romantic context women are women don't want to look like a slut they don't

00:37:35.820 want to give you the wrong signals and so they're always speaking indirectly so when men take what

00:37:40.940 women say at face value like for example let's say you start dating a woman and she says i want to

00:37:46.460 take things slow it it it absolutely positively means something else and i've got a clip for that

00:37:51.980 as well okay uh this one is actually really yeah this one is crazy listen to this we need to take

00:37:58.860 a break i've been another guy behind your back we should start seeing other people i'm cheating on

00:38:05.820 you let's try an open relationship i'm having sex with another guy we need to talk i'm dumping you

00:38:14.220 for the guy i'm cheating with a woman will never just tell you they're someone else

00:38:19.260 so to circumvent having to be honest and having a difficult conversation which by the way means

00:38:23.500 admitting she's cheating she'll use any combination of these statements to avoid looking like a

00:38:27.660 cheating slut if she says any of these things to you she's been another dude for at least six

00:38:33.340 months and now know she can start a relationship with him count on it okay so there it is have you

00:38:39.260 need you know we go ahead oh have you ever had a woman tell you the truth and like say that she was

00:38:45.360 cheating no never never actually actually there there was one woman one time who told me she was

00:38:52.580 cheating and that's because i straight up asked her and the reason why the reason why she told

00:38:57.320 me is because she knew i had proof other than that a woman will never ever ever volunteer to you

00:39:02.560 that she is cheating on you i mean it's never happened to me and i do not bang more women that

00:39:06.680 i care to admit it's it's never happened to me okay sorry what were you saying before i interrupted

00:39:11.040 you sorry you know i was gonna say you've been you've interviewed more than a thousand women

00:39:15.580 okay and you have seen and heard the many many ways that women characterize engaging in

00:39:21.660 promiscuous behavior how many girls have you interviewed like 12 or 1300 some crazy number

00:39:25.900 like around a thousand yeah around a thousand and i don't think i have ever seen or heard a woman

00:39:31.460 say straight up the reason my boyfriend and i broke up is because i wanted to sleep around or

00:39:36.760 my boyfriend dumped me because he found out i was cheating okay the way this will help you guys when

00:39:42.500 it comes to dating is being proactive and ask her hey what happened in your last relationship now

00:39:48.080 what she'll say is we grew apart or he wasn't attentive to my needs or sometimes i'll just

00:39:52.980 straight up lie to you and say he cheated on me and by the way all these phrases are translated

00:39:56.620 in the course and when she says this to you you now clearly understand that she is recreational

00:40:01.260 use only if you talk to a girl and you ask her what happened in your last relationship oh we

00:40:06.220 grew apart this means she cheated this is how womanies helps you guys it gives you a clear

00:40:10.500 understanding of which women you should not take seriously and which women you shouldn't

00:40:15.140 got it what else what else do you have in clips um oh this is a this is a this is another good

00:40:21.400 one uh watch and learn and listen very very carefully this is this is actually this is a

00:40:26.980 lot of this is it's kind of a sobering reminder and it sucks that this is true but it is here we

00:40:31.720 go i'm a strong woman i want a strong man i'm super competitive i want a super competitive guy

00:40:40.320 men are intimidated by me i am turned on by men who intimidate me a dating hack i discovered a

00:40:47.920 while back is if you ask her what kind of woman she is she will tell you what kind of man she

00:40:51.840 wants a woman who talks about how strong competitive and intimidating she is is telling

00:40:56.800 you she's turned on by strong competitive and intimidating men okay because this pearl this

00:41:02.000 is why i've always i'm sorry go ahead because we turn into the men we want to marry so well yeah

00:41:07.760 so it's like a woman with a sleeve wants a man with a sleeve right there you go yeah and this

00:41:14.000 this is why i've always encouraged men to be proactive with their dealings and women as far

00:41:18.240 as like vetting them are concerned guys ask questions do not be afraid to quiz her don't

00:41:22.880 be afraid to put her on the spot because if there is one thing that we are all aware of whether

00:41:27.440 you're you know whether you're good with women or not is that they love nothing more than to talk

00:41:32.080 about themselves and not a one of us in here watching this right now are unaware of the phrase

00:41:37.120 let a woman talk long enough and eventually she will tell on themselves women and you guys got to

00:41:41.520 pay attention women are always telling us who and what they are but most of the time they're not

00:41:46.240 aware that they are okay that particular translation that i just shows you that allows you to find out

00:41:51.200 what kind of woman you're dealing with as well as the kind of man she wants to deal with again this

00:41:56.000 saves you a lot of time because now you have the information you need to make the call as to whether

00:41:59.680 or not you want to continue dealing with her okay so what questions would you say that they should

00:42:05.680 ask the the one that i just said hey what happened in or you mean as far as um uh no just ask hey

00:42:13.040 what kind of woman are you tell me what kind of woman you are you know describe yourself in 30

00:42:17.440 seconds and if you ask a woman to describe herself in 15 30 seconds she will almost always tell you

00:42:23.600 what she wants in a man and the reason she does this pearl is because if she's trying to impress

00:42:28.800 you like when you ask a woman what kind of a what kind of a woman you are she's trying to impress

00:42:32.960 you right and that's that's not a bad thing she wants to impress you because she likes you

00:42:36.880 but what you also have to understand is that when women are trying to impress when women try to

00:42:40.880 to impress you they're going to tell you what they think you want to hear this is why they tell

00:42:44.720 you i'm a strong independent and super and super competitive okay got it all right very good uh

00:42:52.380 the next one is my ex is an asshole this is actually the first one that we were talking

00:42:58.440 about here we go my ex is such an asshole i'm still in love with my ex a woman who talks about

00:43:05.740 her ex is not over her ex. Remember, gentlemen, the more she tries to convince you of something,

00:43:10.980 the less likely it's true. A woman who calls her ex an ass wants her ex in her ass. Never forget

00:43:17.020 that. So many men, they actually, and this is where a lot of guys mess up. So many men think

00:43:24.880 that if a woman, if that, if a woman thinks her ex is an asshole, that she no longer wants her

00:43:31.000 ex guys that is completely wrong yes she thinks he's an asshole and chances are he probably is

00:43:36.340 but if you're dealing with a woman who a talks about her ex and b talks you know calls him an

00:43:40.040 asshole you need to understand that she is not over him okay the reason she's talking to you

00:43:45.080 is to create a false sense of scarcity with her ex to give her the impression that she's fucking

00:43:49.120 someone else the second reason and the most important reason is she's looking to distract

00:43:53.840 herself she doesn't like you like that okay she just wants that constant steady flow of male

00:43:58.540 attention from you while she makes, while she waits for her ex to make a play to get back with

00:44:02.540 her. And when he does trust me, she will go running back to him. So understanding this

00:44:06.620 translation, my ex is an asshole. Well, again, keep her from wasting time with women who don't

00:44:10.360 really like you. And here's the thing, Pearl. Every woman has that one ex. She can't leave

00:44:16.140 alone. It's that one ex, that one ex-boyfriend, that one situation ship that she can't leave him

00:44:21.220 alone. Yes. Eventually they do move on to some degree, but if she calls her sex and asshole,

00:44:26.120 her ex and asshole when she's dealing with you understand that it's only a matter of time before

00:44:30.640 she starts fucking with him again so was there a situation that that happened to you and you found

00:44:35.720 out she was cheating with the ex oh yeah 100 dude uh the girl's name was victoria i actually met her

00:44:41.880 at a uh at a five guys dude dude this girl was oh my god she had a great ass so i hit her at five

00:44:47.480 guys and she's actually looking grumpy i was like oh either you don't like black people or you hate

00:44:51.480 her job and she laughed and that kind of broke the ice well she used to talk about how her ex

00:44:55.720 was an asshole all the time and and again i had the game but i didn't have the understanding and

00:45:00.640 i was like yeah he's an ex he's an asshole she likes me blah blah blah blah blah of course her

00:45:04.460 phone is buzzing away and i'm like well who is that she's like well you know that's my ex-boyfriend

00:45:08.240 i'm like oh okay i wasn't worried about it because it's your ex-boyfriend he's an asshole right

00:45:12.880 come to find out she actually got back with him she got back with him while she was with me and

00:45:17.700 that's when i sort of discovered monkey branching so that was my introduction to when women call

00:45:21.860 their ex an asshole it still means they want to get with him that doesn't mean that she doesn't

00:45:25.740 think he's an asshole but she absolutely still wants to get with him a woman can hate a man and

00:45:30.080 still want to have sex with him absolutely oh my god yeah women can women can we can we can despise

00:45:36.660 and men don't understand understand this like we could we could hate a guy not want to spend any

00:45:44.140 time around him but still want to sleep with him that's right yeah that's right listen and men and

00:45:49.200 it's funny because and i know a lot of women who have slept around they have probably fucked a guy

00:45:54.400 or two they genuinely just did not like his people dude i fucked plenty of girls i just didn't like

00:45:59.280 that much i just like having i just liked having sex with her this is one this is one of the this

00:46:04.720 is one of the few things that men and women have in comma have in common uh as far as like you know

00:46:10.160 sexual interactions we will have sex with a woman even if we don't like her if a woman hates you

00:46:14.900 when a woman tells you she hates you it really means she loves you and i've said this before

00:46:18.900 pearl the opposite of love as far as a woman goes the opposite of love isn't hate the opposite of

00:46:23.480 love is indifference if she doesn't really care if she couldn't care less about you she's over you

00:46:27.620 if she hates you she probably does but she probably still loves you too there's a thin

00:46:31.120 line between love and hate that's why the saying goes that way got it okay what's what's next this

00:46:37.840 this next one is extremely extremely dangerous okay so a lot of women a lot of women like to say

00:46:45.620 we have a healthy relationship take a look this is a toxic relationship you're making it so hard

00:46:53.540 for me to cheat on you when a woman finds it hard to cheat on you she'll characterize your

00:46:57.760 relationship as toxic to try to get you to make it easier for her to cheat way too many men fall

00:47:03.240 for this ploy. Do not be one of these men. We have such a healthy relationship. It will be

00:47:09.180 very easy to cheat on you when I decide to. Beware of any woman who brags about a healthy

00:47:15.640 relationship. This means she has cheated, is cheating, or is going to cheat. Remember what

00:47:20.900 I said about toxic relationships? Well, the opposite applies when a woman says her relationship

00:47:25.480 is healthy. Yeah, it's a guy with no standards, right? She can just do whatever she wants.

00:47:30.640 there you go and a lot of men we listen you guys need to understand very very clearly that modern

00:47:37.440 women always want it both ways okay they want the status and the security of being in a relationship

00:47:42.460 while also being able to engage in activities that make them look single in other words they

00:47:47.380 want you to take them off the market but still allow her to have the for rent sign in the front

00:47:51.180 yard and this is where a lot of men go wrong in their relationships when women shame you like in

00:47:55.520 the clip we just saw they are clearly telling you they don't want to be faithful to you women go to

00:47:59.840 the club for attention they're on instagram because they're looking for your replacement

00:48:03.280 they travel without you because they want to get dicked down but not lose the attention you give

00:48:07.360 them her as her significant other the men who do not allow women to act single while in relationships

00:48:13.480 with them are the men that women respect they might not like it but they will respect it and

00:48:18.400 as we all know a woman cannot love you if she does not respect you yeah and the thing is um

00:48:24.360 it's tough because all of society tells the women that the guy is toxic if he has any standards at

00:48:32.460 all the family will um social media will the friends will so it's like it's like the guy

00:48:38.380 against the world yep yeah and and wow that's a that's a good way to put it pearl it's the guy

00:48:45.620 against the world yeah and i know that there are a lot of guys in the chat that are probably

00:48:49.500 frustrated it really is it is so hard pearl to find the right information man this is why you

00:48:56.460 know this is why you know uh you know guys like fresh and fit andrew tate justin waller being on

00:49:00.940 the dhs watch list to me that's nefarious because if men actually had this information i think it

00:49:07.260 would make relationships better yes there's going to be a learning curve no women don't like it when

00:49:12.780 women hate it when you when you figure them out they hate it but eventually they respect you and

00:49:17.820 love you for it yeah but beta bucks providers are what keeps society running so that's why they

00:49:23.660 don't want them getting the information it would just be single mothers everywhere like yeah it

00:49:29.020 would just be single mothers and then they wouldn't know what to do with all the single women

00:49:33.980 so they may get men's problem go ahead our our dude our channels and all that being shadow banned

00:49:39.980 and taken down it is this is an economical decision okay they try to characterize oh we're

00:49:45.820 trying to protect women from men. No, no, no, no. This is economical because it's, you said it

00:49:51.000 yourself and we talked about it earlier in the episode, the economy, the economy relies heavily

00:49:57.040 on, on, uh, on men, not being aware of what their value is compared to what women's value is.

00:50:03.300 Every kiss begins with K get down on one knee, do all this other kind of stuff. You know,

00:50:07.520 my wife is the boss, et cetera, et cetera. Most guys have, most men in the world have never been

00:50:11.960 exposed to this kind of content. And the powers that be are making sure that never happens.

00:50:15.600 and now we know why yeah it's basically eight dollars or two dollars do you want to make eight

00:50:20.320 dollars or do you want to make two dollars yeah i mean all that tweet i saw that video that was

00:50:25.440 profound pearl yeah no i mean it's so simple when you think about it um i mean i i don't know what

00:50:30.960 age you figured it out but at some age men understand that they lose money if they tell

00:50:36.080 the truth that's right or they get kicked out of school they they lose something right and so

00:50:41.840 they just learned to lie it's not really their fault um but and it's not really the women's

00:50:47.600 fault either because we're born into this it's like our grandmothers or whoever um but corporations

00:50:54.240 have more control over society if they're spending the women's money that they steal from the men

00:51:00.880 rather than the men making choices go ahead this is why this is why this is why 90 of the

00:51:06.720 the commercials are geared towards women yeah if you get any commercial every commercial almost

00:51:12.000 every commercial you see is designed to get you emotional and it's funny we don't even see

00:51:15.940 commercials anymore it's like we're seeing these miniature movies these miniature romantic comedies

00:51:20.040 now the the the the powers that be on madison avenue you know the advertising capital of the

00:51:25.460 world they know and listen this is a tale as old as time itself and this is men and women alike

00:51:29.880 people people buy based on emotion they rarely buy based on logic i used to sell cars for a living

00:51:35.400 and yeah you can tell them about the you know the the power steering and the you know the engine

00:51:39.520 this and that and the third they're not going to buy the car for 10 reasons they're going to buy it

00:51:42.880 for one reason and if that one reason is an emotional reason you have a much higher there's

00:51:48.020 a much higher probability that you're going to close that sale the guys over on madison avenue

00:51:51.900 understand that very clearly this is why they push that emotional button every single time because

00:51:56.520 women make what 80 of the financial buying decisions in this country so yeah if i were them

00:52:01.480 i would do the same thing yeah what's the next one we got uh the next one we got is a red flag

00:52:09.600 now what would you consider pearl as a red flag in women yeah no in men what is a red flag post

00:52:17.220 red pill awakening that you have that that like if like if a guy does or says or is x y and z that

00:52:23.520 is a red flag ooh tough one isn't it give me a second um

00:52:34.480 well the what i'm thinking of could be a red or a green flag depending on what you want um okay

00:52:42.320 well i'm thinking okay so if you want a guy that's gonna be more faithful you you go you go out more

00:52:48.800 into the country than the city because because there's less attractive women in the country so

00:52:55.440 it's going to be easier for you to compete there so if you want like an easier time you know what

00:53:01.520 i'm saying like if but if you want to play life on hard mode you go to the city where there's

00:53:06.640 a batch of 20 year olds that come every year you know what i mean so if you want like that's

00:53:12.560 one that i would think of but we like the men with options so i i'm having a hard time deciding which

00:53:20.320 like if it would be red or green because you know we had that interesting yeah you actually gave

00:53:25.840 you actually gave the right answer there really are no the only red flags that i can think of

00:53:32.320 for a men that are not sexually or economically attractive is he plays video games he lives he

00:53:38.000 lives with his mom right but there are guys who play video games and live with their mothers who

00:53:43.120 actually are able to get women somehow so this next clip is about red flags let's take a look

00:53:49.440 and listen i want to take this slow i want to keep my ex wait a minute that's the wrong one

00:53:55.440 i do apologize sorry about that here we go that's true red flag that turns me on if it gets the

00:54:03.760 attention of law enforcement it gets the attention of young hot beaming red flags are turned on for

00:54:08.640 girls guys and that's all there is to it if a woman says xyz is a red flag it means she's turned

00:54:13.920 on by him okay again pearl you have interviewed like you know a thousand girls you know over the

00:54:21.200 years and one thing that is consistent across the board in terms of their maid selection is that

00:54:27.040 they consistently commit to have children with get into situationships with men who have quote

00:54:32.640 red flags. And they tell us as much all the time when they talk about why their relationships and

00:54:37.600 or why they're not with the baby daddy anymore. And I'm telling you better than nine times out

00:54:41.760 of 10, they rattle off red flag after red flag. He drank too much. He was a drug addict. He had

00:54:46.800 a gambling addiction. He had two baby mamas when he, you know, you know, you know, when he met her,

00:54:51.040 the list goes on and on. So when these chicks out here talk about that's a red flag,

00:54:55.360 it is important to understand that this means that they're giving you the green light to pursue them.

00:55:00.160 it should not be this way but that's the way it is unfortunately and it's interesting too

00:55:05.280 when i would have girls coming on the show and i would actually see what their exes looked like

00:55:10.240 oh yeah yeah and and sometimes you would see the same ex i'm like he might have been dated a couple

00:55:17.120 uh but but the the one thing i think with young women now it's really they don't care about money

00:55:22.640 anymore they can go make their own money they care about clout that's that's what they care

00:55:27.200 about they care about pop like when i started seeing it through the lens of young women want

00:55:31.920 popular men so they want the guy playing guitar they want the guy with clout everything you know

00:55:37.200 and even um couples that you see meet nowadays it's like a lot of times it's through online

00:55:42.720 communities where the guy is the popular one in that community or like it's in the neighborhood

00:55:49.040 that they live in nearby and the guy's the popular guy at the bar like it's all it's all women are

00:55:54.320 like in high school forever they just want the popular guy so that so the the more men can like

00:56:00.860 mimic that the more they get the young hot women now the older women why i don't want to say wise

00:56:07.040 up but they have to think long term more yes so that that's when you see them like i see the older

00:56:13.220 women going more for like the doctors the lawyer but i don't really see the young women giving a

00:56:19.140 shit about men's accomplishments at all like i i see that i see that with like women 27 and up

00:56:26.360 right and the interesting thing is is what a lot of men and women really don't understand

00:56:34.040 that like when when we're younger girls tend to mature faster than boys right i mean dude

00:56:41.160 my sister's matured faster than me but and and and because of that they they assume that when

00:56:48.120 they're older, they're more mature. No, no, no, no. As soon as a woman figures out that men want

00:56:52.940 to have sex with them, the maturation process stops immediately. Okay. And the reason for that

00:56:59.060 is because they now know that they have everything they need to get everything they need in their

00:57:03.780 firmware. They're thinking, okay, guys want to fuck me. So I don't have to have a good personality.

00:57:08.140 I don't have to learn to cook clean. I don't have to learn to have conversation. That's why there

00:57:12.100 are so many smoke shows in Miami and Las Vegas and New York and LA who look, who are drop dead

00:57:17.620 gorgeous who are as dumb as a box of rocks hot girls are useless because they've never had to

00:57:22.440 be useful and i think i think a lot of guys need i think a lot of guys need to understand that

00:57:26.820 so when it comes to girls these days that that that you've been dealing with and interviewing

00:57:30.560 yeah of course they're not worried about a doctor's you know a man being a doctor when they're 21 and

00:57:35.040 hot but here's what happens so they stop the maturation process when they figure out guys

00:57:39.920 want to fuck them but then all of a sudden when they're 28 29 and they start having and they start

00:57:44.220 buying their own drinks from the club maybe the situationship doesn't last as long maybe the guy

00:57:49.120 you're having sex with isn't angling for a relationship a week later that's when the

00:57:52.720 maturation process starts up again because her hindbrain is thinking to herself uh-oh i'm not

00:57:57.100 getting as much attention from these high quality guys as i was when i was younger so now i'm going

00:58:01.920 to try to develop a good personality now i'm going to try to cook and clean now i'm going to be

00:58:05.980 pretend to be feminine and docile there are a lot of guys out here who have dated men who have dated

00:58:10.460 women you know who are in their 30s and 40s who act like fucking teenagers the reason why they act

00:58:15.740 like teenagers the reason why they act like overgrown children is because they still have

00:58:19.420 the mind of a 16 year old 16 years old is when they discovered that men wanted that men that

00:58:24.380 men wanted to them so they hadn't really thought about improving themselves in any way since they

00:58:29.100 were 16 years old so when you're out with the 38 year old former batty she probably might have the

00:58:34.220 maturity of a 20 year old because four years ago she figured out oh i better get mature because

00:58:38.540 guys aren't throwing the dick at me like they used to and i see this going up every like i see

00:58:43.820 the length of or the age of women that date like bad boys for longer i guess you could say going

00:58:51.180 up every year like for example in my mom's generation it was like if you weren't married

00:58:56.540 by like 20 like out of college really you were a loser now it's gen z i mean gen z is 27 because i'm

00:59:04.780 i'm two months away from gen z i barely i'm a millennial but barely wow yeah so you really

00:59:10.140 so you're a millennial zier then yeah like if i was i my birthday is november if i was born in

00:59:14.860 january i'd be gen z so that's how close that's how close i am to the cutoff um but only like

00:59:21.340 i looked up gen z like 15 percent are married wow yeah i'd have to i let me i could i don't want to

00:59:28.860 miss oh my god what percent yeah 15 out of every 100 gen zers are married that yeah no actually

00:59:36.860 it's 10 oh and um let's see so but gen z i know there's some of them are too young so what is the

00:59:46.460 youngest gen z i know i know so some of it's yeah so the youngest gen z is 13 the oldest is 27.

00:59:54.300 so okay yeah so but still that still means happy like i i see this going up and up every year

01:00:01.820 like you know it'll be interesting to see like gen z if i had to predict i think they won't marry

01:00:07.660 because when i was in ireland the average age of first marriage was 35. what yeah that's not

01:00:13.740 uncommon in some european countries if you google like average age of first marriage what do you

01:00:18.220 think about generation well how do you think generation alpha is going to do because it'll

01:00:22.060 just i mean if technology advances i don't know if it will but i mean ivf is so common in the cities

01:00:29.980 it kind of has extended fertility a little bit if women can wait till 45 they'll do i mean i know

01:00:36.940 like they try to say it hasn't but i i just because the thing is what i see is things happen in the

01:00:42.860 cities and then they migrate to the country does that make sense so yeah we've had this discussion

01:00:47.980 yeah absolutely yeah so the the trends that i saw in like downtown london is like i mean the women

01:00:55.500 there on my volleyball team i mean they're older than me and not really thinking about marriage

01:01:01.500 like some of them are like 32. incredible and so i i see this like the the party years or whatever

01:01:10.380 like i see that continuing to go up especially if and i know it's all sort of fake but like if

01:01:19.340 botox gets better if ivf gets better yeah or even if they don't get better if the illusion to women

01:01:26.860 is that it that it gets better i just see it going up does that make sense like no even if

01:01:32.780 even if the technology isn't there as long as they can convince women that it will be there

01:01:38.220 you know i mean if you if you see twit like like i think about this donovan matt walsh had two sets

01:01:47.180 of twins in his 30s right his wife was in her 30s those were definitely ivf of course like crowder

01:01:54.100 had had twins too with the wife in her third like so if the conservative if the right leaning

01:01:59.660 commentators are getting ivf kit like what and i think they're gonna hide this stat but what percent

01:02:06.900 of the future generations i mean even nick i'm not gonna say his name but nick f i mean he was

01:02:12.500 born via ivf like what percent of future generations are gonna be born via ivy i think

01:02:18.900 it's gonna be a lot i think someday it might be a majority even if the stats don't like show that

01:02:24.340 does that make sense i know that make dude that that makes perfect sense and i i heard a stat

01:02:29.540 that millennials and gen z ears are not having nearly as much sex as we thought they were i mean

01:02:34.820 i've heard i mean i've heard that they're just not having sex anymore like how true is that

01:02:39.140 uh i mean i think the women are having sex i mean if you want to if you want to check that out i

01:02:44.740 mean the std rates will tell you because women are the ones that the women's are the ones that

01:02:49.460 are spreading stds so if women are not having sex then gen z should have a lower std rate i do think

01:02:58.260 yeah i mean i do think we got to think about like if a guy if we're having sex with a smaller

01:03:03.140 percentage of men if a guy has a five girl rotation how often is he seeing the girls at

01:03:10.340 the bottom right do you know what i'm saying so i could maybe see like that possibly because um

01:03:18.660 like the fives the sixes if the guy's a nine and ten sure yeah they'll just throw themselves at

01:03:23.780 him i had a five girl rotation for two and a half weeks like dude anybody listen man look look look

01:03:29.220 look look every guy says i want to be fucking multiple girls and listen we all do i've done it

01:03:36.320 before but guys like it should be two three at the very very most and i know we teach you guys

01:03:43.400 to make sure you keep one in the kitty to you know to keep your abundance mentality but guys

01:03:48.580 what you have to understand is that sleeping with multiple girls is work it is it sometimes it can

01:03:54.940 be a bit of a full-time job and here's the thing if you've got a rotation of women you have to fuck

01:04:00.740 all of the women otherwise they're not in your rotation you'll hear a guy say well i'm fucking

01:04:04.840 five girls at the same time no you fucked five girls three months ago no the definition of having

01:04:10.320 a rotation is you're fucking every girl in your rotation regularly and she expects to have sex

01:04:14.780 with you again in the not too distant future gentlemen that is hard work it's fun when it

01:04:19.820 first starts and it's a nice little ego boost that you've got all these bitches in your phone

01:04:22.920 that you can come over and, you know, and let you smash her out in three texts or less.

01:04:26.600 But trust me, once you get there and you listen, once the new wears off, oh my, it, it, it,

01:04:32.380 it really is, believe it or not, it's more trouble than it worth more trouble than it's

01:04:36.080 worth. And here's the thing, the worst thing about having a five girl rotation, like I

01:04:40.360 did for two and a half weeks is that you have to have sex Pearl when you don't want to,

01:04:45.660 if you want to keep a girl in rotation, you got a fucker and listen, we all, if girls

01:04:50.400 think guys are thinking about, no, if you're fucking three and four and five girls at the

01:04:54.320 same time, you're not wanting to fuck all the time. But if you want to keep the bitch in your

01:04:57.940 rotation, you have to fuck her. That means having to have sex when you don't want to. And that is

01:05:02.120 not fun. That's not, that is no fucking fun, dude. Yeah. And I think that's where some of

01:05:06.720 maybe the sexlessness comes from. It's like if a four or five and six, like how often is she

01:05:12.580 going to get into contact with a nine and 10? I mean, like he'll do it. Right. I mean, they'll

01:05:17.460 always do it but sure sure but that's i guess she may do it right right but i don't know i'd have to

01:05:24.740 i have heard that like there are stats saying that they're sexless but we all know that they hide

01:05:29.300 stats about women being and i'm of course and and i'm seeing in gen z a

01:05:35.060 a divide between the women it seems like the women that are hot yeah it's okay there's the

01:05:40.740 women that are hot okay they are more monetized than ever so they're yeah and the women that are

01:05:48.100 either extremely socially awkward like and i'm not talking like i think some people think of

01:05:53.940 i'm talking some of the gen z women cannot hold a conversation at all like they have extreme yeah

01:06:00.500 that or overweight um i think they are the ones that maybe are in the sexless category but it's

01:06:07.780 just because they can't get the guys they want like they don't have the skills but if they get

01:06:13.940 into the other category they become monetized fast that's what i see but you know maybe you see you

01:06:19.300 see i mean you're on fresh and fit all the time so what do you see sure yeah listen most

01:06:24.740 unfortunately if you ever meet a super attractive girl there is a better than average chance that

01:06:31.460 she is monetized in some way shape or form she's she's either got a sugar daddy or five

01:06:37.300 she's on only fan she's an instagram model um you know she she women who are super attractive

01:06:45.540 unfortunately they make money off of the way they look now here's the difference pearl a lot of

01:06:50.980 people a lot of people think and they'll try to quiz you okay well what about uh you know let me

01:06:56.100 think of the older supermodels claudia schiffer or giselle bunchen are they sex workers no no no

01:07:01.860 here's the difference between a sex worker and a real published model a sex worker again your

01:07:06.740 instagram model your cam girls your only fans girl porn star strips whatever their market is men

01:07:12.840 everything they put out there is to attract men to come and spend money whereas if it's giselle

01:07:18.800 bündchen kathy ireland claudia schiffer etc they are encouraging women so the victoria's secret

01:07:24.620 models that's that show is not for men that show is for the women maybe she's born with it maybe

01:07:28.960 it's maybelline that's not for men that's for women so the difference between a model and a

01:07:34.160 sex worker is a model's market is other women a sex worker's market is other men big big difference

01:07:40.820 yeah what is next on the clips that we got what is next i've got one two i've got four more and

01:07:48.240 we'll go through these yeah let's go through them um take your time this is good commentary so take

01:07:52.660 your time okay good stuff a lot of guys will fuck around with a girl who says she wants to take

01:07:57.540 things slow i think we all know what that means here we go i want to take this share the screen

01:08:03.720 oh sorry about that oh i'm sorry i thought i was already doing that my bad oh my fault

01:08:08.540 share yep share there it is got it okay there it is sorry about that can you see it now yeah i can

01:08:16.540 all right very good let me uh okay here we go i want to take this slow i want to keep

01:08:22.640 fucking my ex while you buy me things women never take things slow with the men they want to fuck

01:08:28.340 they say this to make them think there's a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow

01:08:32.240 so that man will stick around and do her favors

01:08:34.500 thinking she'll reward him for his efforts.

01:08:37.400 Newsflash, she'll never

01:08:38.660 fuck that guy. So if a woman ever

01:08:40.640 says this to you, understand that you

01:08:42.560 will never ever fuck her.

01:08:44.820 Save yourself some time and bounce like a

01:08:46.660 bad check.

01:08:48.100 This, Pearl, this is how dudes get

01:08:50.280 friend-zoned, okay? And this is what we talked

01:08:52.540 about earlier. They take the

01:08:54.520 girl's word for it.

01:08:55.680 Donovan, share your screen

01:08:57.780 when you talk just so we can see you

01:08:59.480 because sometimes it...

01:09:00.560 yeah there you go no you're totally fine all right go ahead no sorry about that so so uh you

01:09:06.020 know uh they they take the girl's word for it and they take what they what she says at face

01:09:09.920 at face value because she wants to do things right and not jump into a sexual relationship

01:09:14.760 right away meanwhile she's getting bottomed out by her by her ex while you are giving her all the

01:09:18.940 benefits of being in a relationship which of course is attention and time without her having

01:09:23.100 to give you sex if a woman tells you she wants to take things slow with you it just means she

01:09:28.500 don't like you like that the the men that women want never have to wait for sex ever and i've been

01:09:34.500 on both sides of that yeah and i think um sometimes the women don't even realize they

01:09:41.620 don't like the guy i think when you're red pillow wear it's funny because you know i've had like

01:09:48.420 there is a woman recently that dumped her boyfriend and she was telling me like all the reasons she

01:09:54.260 dumped him and i just looked at her and i said you just don't like him like that's it like you just

01:09:58.900 don't because the reasons you're giving me are just not valid you just don't like it's fine you're not

01:10:04.580 a bad person right you just he's just not your cup of tea yeah that's it and girls don't want

01:10:12.260 to look and again girls don't want to look bad they and i know a lot of guys will disagree with

01:10:17.620 me girls a lot of times say they don't want to hurt feelings a lot of women don't give a damn

01:10:22.340 but women are they are acutely aware of public image and public persona and this is why they

01:10:28.500 don't just say you know the reason i dumped him is because i just didn't like him you know what

01:10:32.820 i mean like yeah he took me out and if i just didn't know they'll come up with all of these

01:10:36.100 reasons they'll come up with all of these reasons that don't make them look as bad well he's cute

01:10:41.700 or he's this or he's that but there was just something no you just don't like him and here's

01:10:45.860 the thing pearl women don't have to explain this yeah if you don't like the guy you don't

01:10:51.140 have to explain why you don't like the guy like it is like women are not obligated to give a

01:10:56.340 detailed report as to why they're not going to continue seeing a guy hey i just don't like him

01:11:00.360 and leave it at that but but again women are they're aware of public perception so they want

01:11:05.340 to come off looking good yeah and a lot of times it's just because he's too blue pilled like yep

01:11:10.620 like usually i mean i've found if i if i didn't like a guy it was just because you know it's like

01:11:19.120 don't know how to handle women yeah he didn't have any frame you know and a lot of women we don't

01:11:23.440 we're never taught that's something we should look for there you go and so you know it's sometimes

01:11:29.520 when the woman doesn't know why she doesn't like a guy that's why he has no he has no balls you know

01:11:34.720 wow that's that's very interesting we don't like we don't like men that are afraid to tell us no

01:11:40.080 and like when we overreact you know yeah so it's like but it's it's not like this is conscious we

01:11:45.680 just feel like oh i don't like him but we don't know why and so a lot of times that's when on

01:11:50.960 these shows when the women say they dumped these guys and it just seems like over stupid reasons

01:11:57.200 if you really dig down to it you gotta ask like okay whose house did you live in yours or his

01:12:03.200 who was coming yeah yeah you know who was who was going to who you know when you really dig into the

01:12:08.640 the details of the relationship it's he was coming into her frame women don't like Devin said it in

01:12:16.220 the chat women don't like weak men and a lot of women don't know how to verbalize that right like

01:12:22.320 they don't realize that a guy they're talking to just like you said and blue-pilled I think Pearl

01:12:26.800 I think that's another word for a guy who's weak blue-pilled like a blue-pilled guy a weak man just

01:12:32.080 like you said is afraid to disagree with a woman he's afraid to tell his woman no right like Devin

01:12:37.700 just started her own business she landed her first major client yesterday when she got back

01:12:42.420 from signing that contract i was on the air i was proud of her i was on the air she's downstairs

01:12:46.100 yelling i'm like yo i'm on the air like let's keep it quiet down there right men are most men

01:12:52.100 pearl are afraid to piss off their women and that is a major major turnoff if a man and women can

01:12:59.940 tell this instantaneously you can tell when a man is afraid to your you can tell when a man is afraid

01:13:05.380 to disagree with you you're you know when when a man is afraid to be direct with you when a man

01:13:10.340 beats around the bush about what he wants women respect men who are direct women do not respect

01:13:16.820 men who beat around the bush because men who beat around the bush are blue pill which is another

01:13:19.860 word for weak how long did it take you to go from because i'm assuming early uh before you got red

01:13:25.940 pilled you were indirect with women would you yeah so what how long was that process for you

01:13:31.940 from being completely indirect blue pill to i mean devon's on your program she like there's no if

01:13:40.020 ands or buts i've seen you guys together um and so how long did it take to get from there to there

01:13:47.380 uh it was instant for me um as soon as i figured out and i'll tell you it was it's really it's

01:13:53.380 scary at first like when you start communicating with women you're sexually attracted to directly

01:13:58.740 because deep down inside you're like well i don't want to piss her off otherwise she won't like me

01:14:03.380 but the very first time this is dude i will never forget this this girl's name was her name was

01:14:07.940 trish i actually met her at a gro oh boy i can't remember i met her i think i met her at either a

01:14:11.940 grocery store or like a farmer's market or something anyway we're out on a date and i think

01:14:16.900 we're at this like we're at this pizza pasta joint or whatever the case may be and so we get to you

01:14:22.020 know and so we get there and she says to me oh she's like i i forgot to tell you like i'm a vegan

01:14:28.020 or i'm vegetarian or something like that now the blue pill the blue pill in me would have been like

01:14:33.460 oh let me let me just get up and and and and let's find another restaurant you know what i did i was

01:14:39.380 like oh you're a vegetarian it's like that there you go they have a vegetarian menu okay she and

01:14:43.780 i could tell that she respected the fact that listen we're here i planned this date and that

01:14:48.660 was almost like a ship test i told her and i wasn't an asshole i just okay you're a vegetarian cool

01:14:53.700 there's the vegetarian there's the vegetarian menu that right there pearl that was the genesis for me

01:14:59.540 she did not react aversely and that was like that was the flashpoint for me oh i can start being

01:15:07.220 direct with women now don't get me wrong every once in a while it will quote unquote backfire

01:15:12.580 but if a woman if if you show a woman raw masculinity when you are direct with her and

01:15:18.020 even a little bit of an and she reacts adversely that's the kind that is not the type of woman

01:15:23.300 you want to spend time with if a woman can't handle you being direct if she doesn't respect

01:15:27.460 that and and guys this most women respect the fact that you are direct some women just can't

01:15:33.060 get over there you go i can't believe you talk to me that way but most women when you're direct

01:15:37.380 at first they kind of bristle they go well wait a minute did this guy just say what i thought he

01:15:41.020 said and then they think yes yes he did and it kind of pissed me off and took me aback a little

01:15:45.380 bit but i think i kind of like this guy dude i can't tell you how dude pearl i can't tell you

01:15:50.980 how many women have told me no man has ever no man has ever spoken to me the way you have spoken

01:15:57.880 to me i dude i used to get that all the time and to this day devon still tells me the same thing

01:16:02.900 yeah yeah it really makes you stand out because most men are blue pilled so it makes you stand

01:16:09.740 out but more importantly pearl it doesn't make it that she knows right then that you are not weak

01:16:15.260 and this is the thing when you understand womanese and you are direct with women and you

01:16:20.320 and just like you said when when when you when you when you don't allow yourself to you know

01:16:25.980 sort of follow in her frame they might not like it at first and they might not know they don't

01:16:31.200 like it but they will respect it and it with some women pearl it happens instantaneously with some

01:16:36.540 women it happens a little bit slower but eventually a woman says to herself you know what

01:16:42.280 i kind of like this guy he tells me what he means and he means what he says and that is a big time

01:16:46.860 turn on for women yeah what's the next one so the next one is this one talks about sorry about that

01:16:55.060 this one talks about marriage so let me share this one so this one is about marriage and what women

01:17:01.120 and what women uh mean when they say that they want to get married he closed the tension okay

01:17:06.180 i want to get married someday i do want to get married after i fucked at least 100 guys

01:17:14.320 he wants to get married it is a symbol of her inherent value as a woman a man chose her to

01:17:20.700 spend the rest of his life with and to start a family with but today's women aren't interested

01:17:24.780 in marriage when their value is at its peak but then they wonder why high value men don't want

01:17:29.520 to wipe them up in their mid to late 30s now this is a funny one pearl because i think you've had

01:17:35.280 you you've had so many girls on who talk about what age they want to get married and what's the

01:17:41.640 age they always say it's like 30 or 32 or something like that like it like in your experience what's

01:17:45.880 the average age girls have told you they want to get married 32 okay right they say i want to wait

01:17:52.920 till i'm like 30 or 32 to get married the reason they want to wait until they're in their 30s is

01:17:58.020 because they want to be a hoe while their value is at its highest then they wonder why the men they

01:18:03.700 want don't take them seriously no woman who is serious about marriage will ever say i want to

01:18:10.360 get married someday someday clearly implies way off in the distant distant future oh yeah that's

01:18:16.740 you understand what I mean so when a woman says I want to get married someday she does she means

01:18:20.860 that she is not trying to get married anytime soon straight up yeah yeah that oh that makes

01:18:25.420 I didn't even catch that the someday that's that's good Donovan there you go there you go

01:18:31.160 and again I've and the reason the reason I have these in here is because I've heard this I've

01:18:36.940 heard this so many times i want to get if a woman wants to get married she'll say i want to get

01:18:40.800 married right i want to get married but when a woman says i want to get married someday it does

01:18:45.700 it it never means she wants to get married in her 20s or right around the corner it's when she says

01:18:50.740 i want to get married someday she's like yeah i want to be a hoe until i get married that's great

01:18:54.880 that's great for the guy because she she she can be a hoe for him right so it's like a green flag

01:19:00.460 on a date like you know while we're married right no no no i'm saying like if she's if

01:19:06.920 he's on a date and she says i want to get married someday he's like great i don't have to worry about

01:19:12.840 marrying her there you go there you go but here's the thing if he doesn't know that that's what she

01:19:18.360 means oh my god she says she wants to get married someday she's talking about marriage on the first

01:19:23.320 date i must be the guy she wants to marry uh uh when she adds the word someday it she ain't talking

01:19:29.560 about you no way that's so okay go ahead so he's like picking up what you're good he's like great

01:19:36.960 great now she could be a hoe that beats hoe phase so that's good for the guy right i want to get

01:19:42.140 married someday means i want to stay in my hoe phase now while women are in their hoe phase they

01:19:49.040 do shit with dudes that they do not do with their husbands and there are a lot of men who have a

01:19:54.820 little bit of frustration because they're not getting their dick sucked they're not getting

01:19:57.600 blowjobs well this is the excuse they give and this is really what they mean

01:20:01.680 i want to get married oh wait a minute sorry that was the wrong one this is the second to

01:20:07.500 last clip here we go i am not that person anymore i'm still that person just not with you this goes

01:20:15.720 back to getting buttfucked and swallowing random loads if a woman likes you enough she'll let you

01:20:20.420 do whatever you want to her if she doesn't she won't and she'll use this excuse to get out of

01:20:25.280 taking it in the ass or getting a protein shake now as funny as that sounds you know girls who

01:20:30.660 do say i'm not that person anymore are telling you that they are that person but only for the

01:20:36.640 right guys the guys they want to fuck if a girl tells you i'm not that person that means she's

01:20:42.360 not into you right if you're into freaky shit and she really likes you she will do whatever

01:20:46.220 freaky shit you want her to do if she doesn't want to do freaky shit and uses the excuse

01:20:50.640 i'm not that person anymore she is telling you that you're not the kind of guy who in who in

01:20:54.980 her mind warrants the privilege of being your personal porn star you should never ever have

01:21:00.300 to talk a girl into giving you a blowjob if you do you ain't who she wants yeah and this isn't

01:21:05.000 to make men mad it's just to identify the difference i mean if she's giving you starfish

01:21:09.680 sex you might as well take it while you're looking for the good sex too may as well because

01:21:15.440 sex is better than no sex yeah like take it for now but just keep looking for the next best i mean

01:21:21.280 i was looking at hooker prices because i was curious the other day i was like oh my god no

01:21:26.240 no not you know just because i was wondering what the price of sex like is to men because i had a

01:21:31.920 conversation the other day with someone and i was like why do personal trainers have sex with their

01:21:37.040 clients i'm like aren't they worried about losing their money and they're like well the way that

01:21:42.560 they're gonna see it is the sex is like the amount of work that yeah they're like i mean yeah they

01:21:48.960 might lose a client but i mean they got to pick up a rotation yeah well that he said he said um

01:21:56.000 it's he might have to pay like getting like if he paid a prostitute it would be expensive right or

01:22:02.800 if he paid you on these dates it's all this work and time he has to put into it so okay he might

01:22:08.000 lose a couple hundred bucks a month whatever still getting still getting the yeah and so

01:22:13.120 i thought about this and i guess it's a decent prostitutes like 300 an hour it's like 300 bucks

01:22:20.480 yeah so i'm like that's a lot of money so even if it's starfish even if it's starfish sex the

01:22:26.480 guy can get that instead of getting mad and be like oh she won't do this just accept the starfish

01:22:32.000 and then go find the woman that'll do the freaky stuff with you

01:22:34.960 i mean like you can date multiple right we do oh of course you can look for your next girlfriend

01:22:42.640 with your wife like oh wow whoa wait a minute i mean you know listen some guys some guys really

01:22:48.880 do do that like listen i've never paid for sex before so i don't know what the going rate is

01:22:54.160 for sex but i think what all guys have to understand is that there is never not a cost

01:22:59.360 that comes to sex a lot of guys like to say well even if he doesn't take her out on the date

01:23:04.080 he's still paying listen a woman's sexuality does not come for free there is going to be costs even

01:23:11.440 if it's not monetary it's going to cost time it's going to talk it's going to cost time it's going

01:23:15.840 to i mean this is just how it is and so and and like i said before sex does not come free does

01:23:21.520 not come for no cost and the sooner guys understand that the better off i think we'll all be yeah

01:23:26.560 yeah what's okay what's very oh go ahead no i was just gonna say what's next okay so this is

01:23:32.980 the very last uh this is the very last uh translation this one is actually this one

01:23:38.540 actually has to do um with saying things uh to try to make you feel special this one is very quick

01:23:45.740 and away we go i've never felt this way before i don't make you feel special but you're not

01:23:53.000 women will say whatever they have to to make you feel special or unique this is one of the many

01:23:58.780 obvious statements they make in an attempt to make you think that you are somehow different

01:24:02.460 or special from other guys so one of the one of my books is called the 49 laws the sharp and in

01:24:09.640 that book law number 28 states that you will never ever be a woman's biggest best first or only let

01:24:18.200 me repeat that you will never be her biggest her best her first or her only in other words guys

01:24:23.500 you're not special now she wants you to think she thinks that you're special because she knows that

01:24:29.840 the male ego is a cheat code in these cases foolishly thinking that she can't get from anyone

01:24:35.740 else that she gets from you is going to lead to some serious heartbreak and i've been a victim of

01:24:39.760 this many times and the reason for this is because if she successfully convinces you that you are

01:24:44.820 somehow special or unique she knows that you will allow her to engage in behaviors that put your

01:24:49.960 relationship at risk why because you'll think nah she won't cheat on me with her ex she's never felt

01:24:55.260 this way before guys i'm telling you never ever allow a woman to convince you that she thinks

01:25:01.000 that you're somehow unique or special because once that happens it is all downhill from there

01:25:05.460 and she literally has you by the balls do you think that some men take the approach that it's

01:25:12.960 not their problem to make her not cheat and if they catch her like the relationship's over what

01:25:19.520 do you think about that i've heard a lot of men say that essentially if she's gonna cheat she's

01:25:25.920 gonna cheat i can't stop it so if she chooses to do that it's not my problem and like eventually

01:25:35.440 i'll find out do you think that's true or untrue no it's not true and i'll give you an example

01:25:42.960 we uh devin and i we have a world-class security system we have a world-class security system

01:25:48.320 no one is getting into this fortress if without me knowing it okay we've got alarms cameras

01:25:54.640 everywhere that being said if somebody really wanted to break into our house if they really

01:26:00.560 wanted to do it they would find a way to do it okay so if i know that if somebody really wanted

01:26:06.640 to break into my house what am i going to do well if they want to break into my house i may as well

01:26:10.960 unlock my door i may as well turn off my no no no no no no no you're gonna have to earn it if you

01:26:15.920 want to break into my house you are going to have to work for it well it's the same thing as women

01:26:20.720 and cheating a lot of guys say well if a woman is gonna cheat she's gonna cheat okay you're right

01:26:26.000 that doesn't mean you have to grease the skids to her cheating that doesn't mean you have to unlock

01:26:31.040 your this doesn't mean just because you know somebody can rob your house if they really want

01:26:34.720 to that doesn't mean i'm going to disarm my security system and unlock the door because i

01:26:38.080 i know that they can get in here if they really want to no they're going to have to work for it

01:26:41.840 and so for guys to just kind of throw up there well it's not my responsibility to make sure she

01:26:46.060 doesn't cheat yes it is because if your woman cheats that's on you and this is this is a huge

01:26:52.500 huge mistake that almost all men make in relationships and this is where the rubber

01:26:57.580 meets the road as far as relationships are concerned pearl is too many men are the first

01:27:03.300 to angle for a relate too many too many men are the first to angle for relationship when you ask

01:27:09.000 a woman to be your girlfriend your wife whatever the case may be you are essentially forfeiting

01:27:13.940 your right to set boundaries standards and expectations and when you are not allowed to set

01:27:19.440 boundaries standards and expectations the first time she does something that you think puts your

01:27:24.260 relationship at risk she's going to look at you and scoff because she's going to say well where

01:27:28.020 was this when when we weren't together no you always you always let her pursue you for the

01:27:34.860 relationship now a lot of guys will say well what if she never brings up or broaches the the subject

01:27:39.980 of being in a relationship with you that means that she didn't like you as much as you thought

01:27:44.320 she did if a woman really really wants to be with you she will angle for commitment and when she

01:27:50.440 angles for commitment that's when you tell her these are my standards boundaries and expectations

01:27:55.260 and it's free sex it's like congrats she doesn't she doesn't like you now you don't have to deal

01:28:01.760 with her problems just take the sex it's a win just take like it's like you know women are like

01:28:10.140 here's the sex and the guy's like why doesn't she want to date me it's like what are you what are

01:28:16.880 you a woman what are you a woman oh my god and so many men are feminine like that so many men

01:28:22.920 so many men how can i put my little my little brother is like a natural alpha you know he's

01:28:28.860 just a natural one he's the ladies love him if a girl doesn't want to date him he's like great

01:28:33.820 i think he wishes less women wanted to date him so he could they could stop going so you can just

01:28:40.000 get easy yeah yeah easy sex right i know they always they always fall in love and then they

01:28:44.200 make sometimes they'll dm me and i'm like what this isn't my problem i'm like what the of course

01:28:50.720 i'm taking my brother's side of course right this one girl he left her he left her at a bar

01:28:57.120 because she was being a and he just left her he's a natural you know he's a natural

01:29:02.400 he just left her there and she dm'd me and i'm like well what you're an adult get an uber you

01:29:08.080 want me to do about it get an uber like you're an adult if i was left at a bar i would get an uber

01:29:14.240 like what this is 2025. yeah what are you doing without your phone like and what are you supposed

01:29:19.360 to do about it hey you know brother go back and get this girl at the bar even though she's being

01:29:22.800 a i swear to god no i said i said adam you gotta dump this broad i'm like like what do you think

01:29:31.200 if you're messaging his sister like what do you expect i mean maybe maybe there's some weak ass

01:29:37.200 sisters out there but if you think there's any way in hell i'm taking your side over my this was

01:29:41.840 years ago by the way but sure but you ain't doing that i mean he could cheat on you and i'd say it's

01:29:48.000 your fault here you go absolutely get out of here but like i said dude like i said guys are lazy

01:29:57.600 when guys make that statement well if she's gonna cheat there's nothing i can do about it well if

01:30:02.800 she's cheating there's nothing you can do about it but there are things that you can do to safeguard

01:30:06.960 yourself or to safeguard you from for a from a woman stepping out on you i tell devon all the

01:30:12.000 time if you're going to cheat okay you are going to have to earn it she's gonna have to earn it

01:30:19.200 really is she's not see here's the thing cheating for women is not hard okay it's the getting away

01:30:24.400 with it part that trips them up right devin dude for all i know devin could have got went and got

01:30:29.200 smashed out on her way back from signing you know from signing that contract with her first with

01:30:33.120 her first client i don't know you know what i mean but i i've got her location i've got her phone and

01:30:37.600 all this other kind of stuff i mean you guys know anyone who's followed me for any number of time

01:30:41.040 knows that if Devin really wanted to cheat, she could, if she wanted to, it just wouldn't be,

01:30:47.000 it would not be easy. And like I said, it's the getting away with the part. And as long as you

01:30:51.320 have those boundaries, standards, and expectations in place at some point, Pearl, see, here's what,

01:30:56.840 here's what goes through. Here's what goes through women's mind. One thing that I have figured out

01:31:00.080 about women is they always do what's easy. Okay. If it's easy for her to cheat, she's going to cheat.

01:31:05.640 But if she's with a man that makes it hard for her to cheat, now she has a choice to make.

01:31:09.660 she can either cheat or she can be in the relationship with you but she knows she can't

01:31:14.380 have both so now she's got to make a choice okay either i stay with this guy or i just tell this

01:31:20.140 guy i just don't want to be with him anymore in either case in either case you're off scot-free

01:31:25.180 because at least you know what's going on so um i got a request to show you the modern woman

01:31:32.240 life cycle and see if you agree with it so i made um okay so the modern woman life cycle is to go

01:31:39.160 to some high-priced institution to get a degree that no one cares about to put themselves into

01:31:45.060 debt and barely learn anything except how to use men for things oh wow step two get a job that is

01:31:53.300 too stressful and does not care about them in reality the job is not actually that hard or

01:31:59.020 stressful but women convince ourselves that it is step three ignore the student debt buy a house

01:32:07.040 travel or get a luxury car step four wake up at 33 to 37 rush to get a husband kids or both

01:32:18.600 hit late 30s early 40s and try to get pregnant by some loser or ivf start antidepressants at 40

01:32:26.500 maybe love maybe love the child um but hate the child for having to settle step nine buy a dog

01:32:34.280 um or a cat divorce your husband and die alone oh no i yeah yeah would you say that's accurate

01:32:43.620 did i miss anything nope i would say i would say that i would say that that that that is very

01:32:48.820 accurate and this is why i remember this is interesting i remember i i don't know if it

01:32:53.320 was you or somebody else but i remember you did like a video on the archetype of the of the most

01:32:58.360 miserable group of people in america she's it's a woman who is 42 years old who is a doctor or a

01:33:04.840 lawyer that fits that perfectly that absolutely fits that perfectly now there's a couple phase

01:33:10.600 options that women go through okay so like you know oh so there's the um the hoe phase of course

01:33:17.560 yep abortions tattoos piercings stds 100 um the christian phase often comes after the hoe phase

01:33:24.760 yes so they try that they try to get out of jail free card with that um the health phase um this

01:33:30.280 often comes after getting an std so they gotta they gotta get healthy they get like hpv or

01:33:35.800 something so it's time to get you know they gotta clear it you know women um will waste money um

01:33:42.760 they'll also convince women will also convince them or it's an std or gaining a bunch of weight

01:33:47.720 from poor decisions during the whole phase there you go brunch you know eating out whatever all

01:33:52.680 these foodie dates that the 50 pounds comes um women will waste money on things to make them

01:33:58.360 healthier and they'll convince the um themselves that it's the birth control and the water making

01:34:03.160 them fat and not their poor life choices an overpriced gym pilate you know stuff to give

01:34:08.440 them in more debt you know the overprice like the 200 a month gym membership that adds to it so then

01:34:14.280 the gym phase waste money on expensive gym membership they don't need a personal trainer

01:34:20.520 so they can he can blow their back out then they go to the healing phase which is overpriced trips

01:34:26.600 the therapy phase deal with unprocessed trauma aka um someone checked them in the hallway in

01:34:33.640 high school and they're still bitter about it um the influencer phase um the raise your standards

01:34:41.240 phase that's good the independent woman is the above it all era um the raising kids era the

01:34:47.480 divorce era um the boyfriends during their 20s they got two options a beta who has no standards

01:34:53.880 so she can do whatever she wants um alpha who cheats on her really that's it shopping era um

01:35:01.560 biological clock era abstinence phase um the hippie phase um the cougar phase the non-monogamy era

01:35:11.320 um the swap your wife era the whole phase yeah well we yeah we said you know the trad wife era

01:35:18.740 the wine mom era the self-discovery era the waiting till marriage era the botox era the

01:35:24.440 the girl math era the false allegations era the whole mom era where the mother lives through her

01:35:29.680 daughter the instagram era music festival that the women puts themselves into doing things like that

01:35:35.860 the plus size area the left um the lesbian phase um that's all the faith i feel free if you have

01:35:43.200 anything else to add to this any phases or no i mean i have very i have very very little uh to uh

01:35:49.360 to add to that and it's it's it's funny how there are so many people who have aggregated this and

01:35:54.440 it and the reason why it's funny is because it's true it's like we see this all the time we see it

01:36:00.780 the time i think it's yeah yeah yeah yeah dude like i don't look dude i try my best pearl not

01:36:06.460 to be a doomer but dude in in in order to be effective you gotta tell the truth man you gotta

01:36:14.700 tell the truth and i don't want to say you know enjoy the decline or or or send the asteroid

01:36:20.300 whatever the case may be but it is bad out there it really is oh devon adds the born again phase i

01:36:25.100 think that was the uh the christian yeah i mean yeah but that's she's definitely right that's

01:36:29.740 definitely part of it oh yeah yeah yeah yeah okay listen i've got one more i've got one more clip

01:36:35.900 that i want to play for you and this clip this clip is this clip is a little over four minutes

01:36:41.100 long this is the entire volume one chapter one of womanese and by the way by guys by the way

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01:37:29.320 so you can so you can watch the course like we are now or you can listen to the course or you

01:37:34.680 can read about the course either way tremendous tremendous value uh again the link pardon me the

01:37:40.420 link is in the description um so without further ado i'm going to play the entirety of chapter one

01:37:46.000 of womanese, and away we go.

01:37:54.220 Don't judge me.

01:37:55.840 Don't hold me accountable for my bad decisions.

01:37:59.060 Women make impulsive decisions

01:38:00.280 all the time, but they don't want to accept

01:38:02.200 responsibility for the consequences,

01:38:04.140 so they use the don't judge me phrase

01:38:05.900 to preemptively avoid being held responsible

01:38:07.940 for their actions.

01:38:09.260 He cheated on me. Yeah, I cheated on him.

01:38:12.320 This is a go-to lie women tell their

01:38:14.000 family and friends to cover up their own cheating the reason they use this lie so much is number

01:38:18.240 one they know that it can't be proven and number two she knows her family and friends will always

01:38:22.400 take her side he cheated on me so i dumped him i cheated first so he cheated on me this is a

01:38:30.000 classic example of a woman leaving out the part where she fucked up they do this all the time

01:38:34.800 it is never this simple and there is always more to the story he wasn't attentive to my needs i use

01:38:40.560 this excuse because every woman does this one is another classic line in the blame him for my

01:38:46.560 cheating playbook that women have been using for years and by the way she'll never tell you exactly

01:38:52.080 how he didn't meet her needs funny how that works right we grew apart i cheated a woman will never

01:38:58.240 come right out and say i cheated she'll sugarcoat it with something nebulous like we grew apart as

01:39:04.160 if to imply that it magically forced her onto another man's dick when a woman says this it

01:39:09.120 It means she cheated, period.

01:39:11.200 I fell out of love with him.

01:39:13.100 I started fucking another guy.

01:39:15.340 This gentleman is the branch swingers anthem.

01:39:18.400 A woman never falls out of love with a man

01:39:20.580 if she hasn't fallen in love with another man first.

01:39:23.460 This line is a dead giveaway that she was fucking around

01:39:26.140 before she fell out of love.

01:39:28.280 We ended things mutually.

01:39:30.120 He dumped me.

01:39:31.320 Women never leave a relationship

01:39:32.920 if they haven't started another one.

01:39:34.760 So if a woman says the breakup was a joint decision,

01:39:37.400 you can bet your ass that he dumped her.

01:39:40.540 I'm doing this for me.

01:39:42.000 I'm doing this for more attention from guys.

01:39:45.400 Every decision a woman makes is for the sole purpose of attracting more men.

01:39:49.840 Losing weight, changing their hair,

01:39:52.220 anything and everything they do is to increase their opportunities for dick.

01:39:56.600 I'm doing this for me is code for I'm doing this for more dick.

01:40:00.520 I'm so done with him.

01:40:02.220 If he calls me, I'll totally fuck him.

01:40:04.920 The opposite of love isn't hate, gentlemen.

01:40:07.400 it's indifference if a man still elicits strong reactions within a woman she definitely still

01:40:12.760 wants to be with him if a woman ever says this to you count on her taking that guy's dick that night

01:40:19.000 i don't know why women don't like me they don't like me because i flirt with their boyfriends

01:40:25.000 women always feign ignorance when it comes to being attention whores pretending that they don't

01:40:29.480 understand why girls don't like hanging out with them is another way they do this i'm in an open

01:40:34.280 relationship. I cheat. He doesn't. Women cheat all the time as a matter of habit. Telling you she's

01:40:40.460 in an open relationship is her admitting to you that she's unfaithful without actually calling

01:40:44.780 it cheating. I don't really do this. I'm a slut, but I don't want you to think that I am. This is

01:40:52.060 another example of a woman putting up her slut shields. They want to engage in slated behavior

01:40:56.100 without being labeled a slut. And this is a go-to phrase they use when they're about to fuck a guy

01:41:00.480 they really like. Remember, gentlemen, you are not special. She just wants you to think you are.

01:41:04.720 I'm not a size queen. I love huge dicks. A preference for huge dicks is the calling card

01:41:11.040 of a bona fide slut. She's fucked enough guys that she's had her share of big dicks in her life.

01:41:15.900 If a woman says this to you unprovoked, she is 100% a size queen. Remember, the more a woman

01:41:21.760 tries to convince you of something, the more likely that the opposite is true. I'm not like

01:41:26.400 most girls. I am like most girls, but I want you to think I'm not. Every girl says this to a guy at

01:41:32.760 some point. This is what we like to call snowflaking. The thing is, women know they're not

01:41:37.320 special. They just want you to think they are. All women are not the same, but all women are like

01:41:42.480 that. I'm one of the guys. I'm a slut. This is how girls get away with hanging out with a bunch of

01:41:49.020 guys without being called a slut. But other women know why they only hang out with guys, and now

01:41:54.160 you do too all right and so that is the so that is the that is the first full chapter uh of woman

01:42:03.680 ease and like i said guys uh there are 600 pardon me there are 625 of these translations in video

01:42:10.060 uh audio and also in ebook form so you know whether you're you know whether you're at home

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01:42:31.060 Yeah. And guys, Donovan knows this stuff. I'm telling you, um, Donovan has reacted to thousands

01:42:38.460 of hours. Like I don't even have content. Um, he's been on fresh and fit a million times and

01:42:43.900 he has a decade of living in vegas yeah yeah trust me yeah everything listen everything that

01:42:51.640 i thought was like just i'm telling you guys everything i thought in the beginning i was like

01:42:57.820 oh i'm not sure he was correct he was right so you really should get i really do recommend it guys um

01:43:05.400 you said it's pearl 24 that's the code yeah pearl 24 uh pearl 24 and it's not case sensitive just

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01:43:21.560 I wanted to, you know, I want to be able to put this, want to be able to put this stuff out into

01:43:25.100 the world. This is sort of my, this is sort of my signature course. And it's really information

01:43:29.240 that a lot of men need, like a lot of men definitely, definitely need this information

01:43:33.520 because, and dude, I've heard, dude, I've had guys, I should have actually should have played

01:43:38.180 you my um i should have played you my uh all of the all of the testimonials man a lot of the men

01:43:44.120 who have had this dude i've got scores dude dozens of emails notes videos whatever of them tell of

01:43:50.360 them telling me how womanies has changed their life just because they now know what they're

01:43:54.200 dealing with yeah it's crazy yeah and it's not to get mad at women it's just to help you navigate

01:43:59.540 the marketplace of like even donovan's in a long happy successful relationship absolutely this

01:44:06.880 isn't uh to use you know it's it's not to use women it's not to take advantage of women it's

01:44:12.140 just to understand what they're what the fuck we're saying you know and and the the the funny

01:44:18.540 thing is is that and this is what i teach this is what i teach guys all the time is that and i know

01:44:24.560 it's very very difficult for guys not to have this mentality because i know that dating dude i know

01:44:30.720 the dating market is absolutely cruel towards men, but you can either, you have to, how can I put

01:44:38.900 this? Once you come, you can never, you can't love women truly unless you understand them.

01:44:44.840 And once you understand them for who and what they are, that's when you can, that's when you

01:44:49.300 can really begin to love them properly. Not idealistically, like, you know, like our hard

01:44:54.280 drive tells us to do, but it's almost like the red pill is teaching us. And this is unfortunate,

01:44:59.540 it but the red pill has taught us that in order to be successful with modern women we have to go

01:45:04.980 against what we have to go against our masculine instinct and hard drive we have to do that to me

01:45:11.540 that sometimes can be a miserable existence but like everything in life practice makes perfect

01:45:17.100 and if you if you work at something long enough it eventually becomes who you are i'm gonna read

01:45:22.580 the some there are some questions in the chat for you oh cool yeah so they wanted to know what kind

01:45:28.060 of cars you sold oh i sold audis and they wanted to know where you got the name donovan sharp from

01:45:35.420 so the name donovan sharp um so i used to i used to write for roosh v uh roosh valizade you know

01:45:43.560 long long story um i used to write for return of kings and my nickname my name for return of kings

01:45:50.020 was sharpshooter well he didn't want us to have mononymous names he wanted us to have like sort

01:45:54.240 official names like we had guys that had names like runs on magic you know just crazy stuff like

01:45:59.840 that and so i decided my english teacher in high school her name was mrs sharp and she was very she

01:46:05.840 was extremely instrumental in teaching me how to write like the english written word uh and one of

01:46:11.680 my best friends in las vegas who had all the game his name was donovan and so i figured okay donovan

01:46:15.680 sharp that's why i came up with the name donovan sharp they wanted to ask you i tell my 22 year old

01:46:21.680 son all the time not to consider marriage and children until he's in his 30s and focus on

01:46:27.180 building his value and self-respect what are your thoughts donovan one thousand percent agreement i

01:46:33.300 would also i would also tell you this a man in this day and age should not start to think about

01:46:39.940 a long-term relationship until you are at least 35 years old and have slept with at least 35 women

01:46:45.920 you can call it degenerate you you can you can call it whatever it is you want you can guys

01:46:51.680 you're gonna you're going to get hurt and you don't get to where i am having a great relationship

01:46:58.100 and having a black belt with women if i have if you haven't gone through immense emotional pain

01:47:02.840 guys i have been hurt deeply and badly throughout my life because of women that is the reason why

01:47:09.760 I have my black belt and women, because I have been hurt many, many times. Understand you are

01:47:15.360 going to be hurt. Men who try to avoid pain and relationships, guys, you can save. I'm not saying

01:47:21.800 walk right into, you know, I'm not saying to commit to the, you know, the blue hair tattooed

01:47:25.380 and expect nothing to happen, but you're going to have to understand no matter how good you are

01:47:30.800 with women, no matter, no matter how great your game is at some point, you're going to run up on

01:47:35.200 a woman who not only plays the game better than you do but a woman who manages to sort of bypass

01:47:40.340 all of your all of your red pill programming there are multiple women out there like that for men

01:47:46.120 understand that she is coming when that happens and instead of packing it all in learn from the

01:47:51.960 experience lick your wounds and come back stronger um they want to know how did it end up like this

01:47:58.160 did women a hundred years ago have anything similar to this similar to what like feminism

01:48:04.700 i don't know where they can't well carlos if you have any and by the way guys this is the audacity

01:48:10.880 chat if you guys have questions you have to sign up to the audacity network.com i read the chat on

01:48:15.700 the website normally you have to super chat for youtubers because we're demonetized you go to the

01:48:20.180 website and you don't you just you but you pay once a month and then you get unlimited whatever

01:48:24.920 you want me to read sorry go ahead no that's okay um a hundred years men have always been

01:48:31.800 acutely aware of the true nature of women okay women as as far back as adam and eve are on

01:48:39.480 autopilot with self-destruction this doesn't mean they're bad people but women wield such power with

01:48:45.520 their beauty and their femininity that the creator the creator had to leave off a little something

01:48:51.100 okay she has absolute power over men for the better part of a decade we're gonna make her

01:48:55.260 she's going to be self-destructive i don't know if that makes any sense or not but you have to

01:48:58.880 understand when women are left to their own devices when they have total control over anything

01:49:03.460 they destroy things this is why every religion every government as far back as past the bible

01:49:09.240 days the paleozoic days with the dinosaurs they had strict parameters on women because men even

01:49:15.220 back then understood what women were capable of if left to their own devices no this doesn't mean

01:49:21.360 that they thought that women were children but in this day and age with all of the freedoms women

01:49:25.100 have women really do act like children it's almost like children with dynamite they have the power to

01:49:30.220 they have all this power to wield it but they have no direction men 102 000 years ago understood this

01:49:36.380 very clearly this is why religions and governments had these had these parameters and these restrictions

01:49:41.820 on women and now these days we understand why um do your translations help with understanding female

01:49:48.620 managers absolutely 100 because even when a female is a manager even women who try to be direct are

01:49:56.440 still going to throw some woman ease at you and guys i want you to understand woman ease not only

01:50:00.440 helps you in relationships sexually it helps you with your mother your sister your aunts you know

01:50:05.940 your cousins your co-workers your bosses and i'm not i'm not here to say that all women are like

01:50:10.860 that are all women the same but guys listen man the the hardware might be different the way she

01:50:15.840 looks the way she talks even the way she thinks the software is all the same this is not bad okay

01:50:21.460 this is just the way it is women by nature are not going to be direct okay so it is incumbent

01:50:28.340 upon you to read between the lines the womanese if you will and decipher things correctly

01:50:32.900 what is the biggest womanese trend that changed after social media became a thing

01:50:38.580 wow probably the money thing probably the money thing a lot of women and you said you said it

01:50:50.880 yourself young hot girls aren't really looking at the money because they know that they can make

01:50:55.700 their own money but these young hot girls they're not committing to brokies okay so in the end even

01:51:01.580 though women are capable of making you know as much money if not more money than than the average

01:51:06.900 man women are still looking for stability okay if a woman even a woman that's a millionaire she's not

01:51:11.940 going to marry a guy who's broke she wants to marry a guy who's a millionaire and the one thing

01:51:16.100 that one of the many things that's changed since i guess the advent of feminism and social media

01:51:20.740 is the more status the more money the more clout uh the more recognition a woman gains the further

01:51:27.060 she shrinks her pool of potential suitors because women don't date down they don't down they don't

01:51:32.020 marry down they marry up they up they date up and so by women acquiring all of this money

01:51:38.180 and status and i'm a boss babe they have no idea that they are shrinking the pool of men

01:51:43.060 that they're going to be not only sexually attracted to but economically attracted to

01:51:49.540 i think that's all the questions in the chat so okay thank you guys so much for um watching and

01:51:56.340 signing up on the website yeah this is so fun um and if anyone wants um to me to read their stuff

01:52:03.780 next time um i could even text donovan if you have more questions you know yeah yeah i'm happy

01:52:08.740 i'm happy to answer uh come back come back next time um can you tell them where they can find you

01:52:15.060 and all of your stuff and then um if you would wouldn't mind repeating where they can the links

01:52:19.860 is in the description guys for the for the um womanese course but if you wanted to repeat what

01:52:26.560 you said earlier too that'd be great absolutely yeah tsr academy.com slash pearl uh the link is

01:52:32.120 in uh pearl's description she's got it pinned up in the chat again use promo code pearl 24 uh that's

01:52:38.380 no spaces it's not case sensitive you guys can find me all over the internet on on youtube just

01:52:43.420 look for donovan sharp just like the way it's spelled it's actually youtube.com slash donovan

01:52:47.220 sharp same thing with rumble rumble.com slash donovan sharp search for donovan sharp on uh on

01:52:52.440 instagram uh i'm actually back on x which is good uh but yeah go to any social media any social

01:52:58.680 media search engine and just type in donovan sharp s-h-a-r-p-e and you will find me find follow

01:53:03.300 like and subscribe guys i'm sorry there's one more question before we go um how to balance starting

01:53:09.360 to date with school is it best to wait till he's out of school to date for someone with adhd and

01:53:14.480 emotional deregulation difficulties, um, relationships till immune. Yeah. Um, and this

01:53:22.360 is a man that asked this question, correct? Yeah. That's a man. Never wait to start to date. You

01:53:27.100 need to get as much experience as possible as early as possible. The one rule, listen to me,

01:53:33.760 what I'm telling you here, the one thing, and guys, I want, I want to make this very, if you

01:53:38.360 haven't heard anything I've said, you need to listen to this. I made every conceivable mistake

01:53:44.120 with women. You could possibly make every single one. I've rented homes for women. I bought gifts

01:53:49.400 for women. I've even given money to women. But the reason why I didn't get caught up is for one

01:53:54.420 reason. And one reason only I didn't have any kids. I didn't knock a bitch up. I don't have

01:53:59.220 a bunch of kids running around. And a lot of guys with game, like in their teens, in their twenties,

01:54:04.060 a lot of times they get hamstrung because all the girls want them. Inevitably, you're going to be

01:54:07.860 saddled with a bunch of kids. Wrap your dicks, guys. Don't knock her up. Make all the mistakes

01:54:14.780 that you want in the world with women. Just do not have a child with a woman that you are not

01:54:19.940 married to. Don't do it. That's my best advice. And the last one, it's not a question, but a

01:54:25.640 statement. Women say fuck men, but then they fuck men. Don't listen to what they say, but watch what

01:54:30.900 they do yeah yeah that is the age listen that is the age-old red pill motto do not listen to what

01:54:38.040 women say watch what they do and this again is why I created woman ease because you have to really

01:54:42.880 know what they say versus what they really mean and a lot of times women will say one thing and

01:54:46.980 do another in pearl you learn this you know doing the pre-game podcast they'll say oh that guy's an

01:54:51.660 asshole and I hate the bad boy players yet you look in their phone all of their exes are bad boy

01:54:55.320 players very good advice there do not listen to what women say watch what they do well thank you

01:55:00.300 so much donovan it's always a pleasure having you on um any last words for the people

01:55:07.820 yeah uh guys like subscribe and share pearl's videos man absolutely share pearls videos uh

01:55:14.140 she's been a great she's been a good friend of mine for a long time uh devon and i we sort of

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Pearl - March 12, 2025

Womanese： What Women Say VS What They Mean ｜ Pearl Daily

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