Pearl - September 30, 2026


Women Get Divorced Then Make Their Ex Their Entire PERSONALITY

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Women Having MELTDOWNS Over Completely Normal Dates “Woman Has ONE Bad Date and QUITS Dating Apps Completely” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

187.01

Word count

2,352

Sentence count

40

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

28

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Hate speech

17

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00:00:00.000 all right what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so today we are going to be reacting to
00:00:05.260 women um talking about their ex-husbands and probably lying so i've just learned to kind of
00:00:10.980 listen to women with a grain of salt when we say things because we just can't be honest story time
00:00:17.360 about ex-husband right so a little story about my ex-husband not often do i come on here and talk
00:00:24.540 about him because he's way out my mind now i doubt it um i doubt she doesn't i have a hard time
00:00:31.000 believing any woman doesn't talk about a man she invested that much into because that's the only
00:00:35.700 thing we got going on but he's been a right bellend i decided to leave the family home because
00:00:42.800 of mental abuse 14 years ago the biggest narcissism mental abuse okay it's known to man
00:00:50.120 massive drink problem just always when he'd come home we were working away he used to come home on
00:00:55.940 a friday you know a pistol friday to going back to work monday so yeah but you loved that drama
00:01:02.840 you know what i mean you loved it 14 years i decided to leave leave the family home i left
00:01:09.840 with everything the house the full bundle and i left with three kids in tow i got me then a really
00:01:17.820 nice uh rented house kitted it out all my family rallied round um i had massive support but the fun
00:01:26.780 started probably about four months after i left just decided then that the only way that it could
00:01:32.400 get to me was through the kids and financial abuse so he stopped paying maintenance i went
00:01:37.860 through everything really with him just corrupting the kids um affecting their mental health and then
00:01:43.880 one day he decided to get pissed and forgot he had the kids that weekend while they were in the
00:01:49.740 house. My daughter rang me. I could hear him pissed on decking outside. And I just said to
00:01:57.400 Lola, get your stuff, babe. I'll be outside in five minutes. So I picked her up and took her own.
00:02:03.360 Six hours later, he rang me, couldn't find kids. This is the type of guy you were. And then after
00:02:10.340 that obviously lola went to school social services got involved and he smartened his act up started
00:02:16.020 being a decent guy until he met someone and then i weren't allowed to park on my own drive to pick
00:02:22.340 kids up took me seven years to get him out the house and to sell the house and it was only when 1.00
00:02:28.260 he met his new wife who he married yeah so he she was probably insufferable she was probably
00:02:33.940 insufferable and then um just couldn't and then he left and now she's taking that out in lockdown
00:02:41.140 by the way he decided to sell the house and set me financially free in lockdown he decided that
00:02:48.860 he didn't want to see the kids boris apparently said that he couldn't uh co-pair yeah but why
00:02:54.600 didn't he want to see the kids probably because you kept bitching about him to the kids and then 0.98
00:02:58.340 now he's getting nagged by everyone in the house i mean in lockdown we know that's bullshit don't 0.98
00:03:03.360 we and he decided to pick a woman over his kids probably a woman who was nice to him you never 0.98
00:03:09.980 take notes you always blame him said her mom had cancer and that he couldn't see kids and all right
00:03:15.420 let's let's keep going my ex-husband had an affair that's why i chose to leave him he still thinks 1.00
00:03:22.080 he's not wrong well were you fucking him yeah because you have to be a certain type of crazy 0.99
00:03:25.720 to dance about your divorce on tiktok all right let's see and sent me a list of things he had to 0.99
00:03:30.880 give up in order to be in a relationship with me during our divorce and i would like to read them
00:03:36.640 to you today uh with my current husband listening because he has not seen this list
00:03:43.060 okay i've given up that number one every woman that i could have slept with since you and i got
00:03:49.820 together oh this was a tara chad number two i gave up my free time during the during the week 1.00
00:03:55.640 to work a nine to five so we can get ahead financially i bet she was just nagging him 0.98
00:03:59.840 about everything. So then he gave her a list as if women would respond to logic, but we're not
00:04:05.100 very logical. So she'll just use the list and throw it against you. AKA getting a job. I gave 1.00
00:04:11.540 up staying out as late as I wanted several times because you wanted to get home. We would be out
00:04:19.180 until like midnight and I was pregnant and I wanted to go home. I gave up regular conversations
00:04:25.320 with many women just so that you could have the certainty that i wasn't going to even get close
00:04:31.400 to cheating on you it wasn't just regular conversations it was conversations about
00:04:35.960 sleeping with them i gave up whatever i wanted uh many times to watch what you wanted to watch
00:04:42.840 not true he made us watch civil war documentaries almost every night i've given up a lot of my time
00:04:50.080 driving back and forth to see you throughout our entire relationship entire relationship is a
00:04:54.840 stretch because you know we lived together while we were married but while we were dating we did
00:04:59.200 live an hour apart sacrificed miles on my car that's what it that's what driving is actually
00:05:06.640 had a car crap out on me while driving back from your place that was about um i bet he was always
00:05:12.280 the one coming to see her and she did nothing maybe a month or two in he had a really old car
00:05:16.220 and just gave up on him but that was my fault number nine money i could have spent on myself
00:05:23.360 love i could have let myself for others let's read that again love i could have let myself for
00:05:31.100 others or others i don't know what that means what 11 time doing whatever i wanted just to be
00:05:36.820 with you giving up secrecy and told you everything that's actually not true you didn't tell me a lot
00:05:42.180 of stuff until after i got pregnant and i found out that you should be in prison um number 13
00:05:47.880 I've given up my pride to be honest and open with you.
00:05:52.420 Typical man not wanting to open up about how he's feeling. 0.99
00:05:56.260 Number 14, gave up acting like a jerk to be humble and studious to your family rather than prideful. 0.99
00:06:03.360 15, I've given my whole life to you on our wedding day. 0.98
00:06:06.420 I've given up feeling good about myself and my life just because you said I wasn't doing good enough.
00:06:11.600 i asked him to stop watching corn and flirting with other women and doing so you know i he i 0.99
00:06:21.500 made him give up never will understand women that get mad about porn it's better than fucking 1.00
00:06:25.580 another bitch his wife number 17 uh i could go on all day but you get the point that was number 1.00
00:06:31.240 17 is he could go on all day now she keeps this and is putting it on the internet you see what 0.98
00:06:36.400 i'm saying like and people know who her ex-husband is so that's why men aren't vulnerable it's used 0.91
00:06:40.960 against them. I wanted to get on here and share an update with you regarding the lawsuit that my
00:06:44.580 ex-husband, Zach Brown, from the Zach Brown Band brought against me. So on Monday, just a couple
00:06:49.820 days ago, the court announced that it has set a jury trial date for September 15th, 2025 at the
00:06:56.180 U.S. District Courthouse in Atlanta, Georgia. And this is a very important step toward closure,
00:07:02.500 and I'm very much looking forward to my day in court. For a bit of context, Zach has been dragging
00:07:06.440 me through lawsuits for the last year and a half now, and it started back in early 2024 when he
00:07:13.060 tried to force me to sign a marital NDA during our divorce, which I refused. And a couple weeks
00:07:17.800 later, he used our wedding video in his music video, replacing me with a look-alike model who
00:07:23.760 was engaging in inappropriate behavior, and it was just disgusting. Then in May of 2024, he filed a
00:07:30.640 lawsuit against me in regard to a poem I wrote claiming it violated my employee agreement with
00:07:35.620 his company, Zach Brown Collective. And he even tried to get a... Yeah, so again, she was probably
00:07:41.960 being passive aggressive and trying to get clout off of the relationship. And now she's going to 1.00
00:07:47.120 court. Temporary restraining order to silence me, which ended up being denied in federal court.
00:07:52.920 And then he sued me again, this time accusing me of corporate espionage, basically Coke versus
00:07:58.120 Pepsi kind of stuff, asking for an injunction against me. Then after a very long and very
00:08:03.560 expensive discovery process. In December of 2024, Zach withdrew his motion for a preliminary
00:08:09.740 injunction claim and essentially admitted that. Now lawsuits, this is the thing. Women can't get
00:08:15.640 money out of men for marriage because they're not marrying as much anymore. So now women are suing 1.00
00:08:19.300 and falsely accusing in order to get money. There was no evidence and no damages. Despite all of 0.93
00:08:24.620 this, Zach has kept me tied up in these expensive lawsuits as a means to control and intimidate me,
00:08:30.980 even though our divorce is finalized back in january so just a few months ago
00:08:35.120 so why this guy won't just leave me alone i don't know probably because you won't this has been
00:08:41.300 incredibly difficult probably because you won't shut up all right let's keep going this is my 0.98
00:08:45.860 ex-husband all right oh shit turns out okay wait like i don't know i could say at this point yeah 0.98
00:08:58.100 it's probably that you need to attack whatever stuff you want to get right now and go to your 0.99
00:09:02.580 ass okay but i'm not saying hey i'm being like i'm being like what i just thought about what 0.99
00:09:08.340 fucking kidding on me this is my ex-husband oh okay wait hold on i don't know so her side okay 0.98
00:09:16.100 sorry i was confused basically she put this romantic thing about saying her ex-husband 0.99
00:09:20.980 ruined her life and now the men men tell your side of the story sir hey she embarrassed you 0.98
00:09:27.380 you do it back damn she put a cloud she cheated and put a cloud over i mean this is crazy part 0.99
00:09:48.740 two of how i found out my husband okay now she got cheated on well you're kind of fat so that's 1.00
00:09:52.980 expected cheating on me while i moved to miami so the neighbor texted me she said there was tons of
00:09:57.300 and you okay violence tons of cop cars and that i needed to call her so i literally was so terrified
00:10:04.020 that he was like non-existent that he was no no longer with us so i'm like crying and i think my
00:10:10.340 mom was like on a boat somewhere so i called my dad i'm like dad did i tell him everything he's
00:10:14.740 like okay like come to the house i don't think i brushed mine or my kids now when when you get
00:10:18.900 like this is the family should get the man side of the story too right it shouldn't just be the
00:10:23.940 girls i think we literally got in the car and drove to his house and i was like panicking the
00:10:28.880 whole way and i'm like bracing myself to like find out like something has happened to him right
00:10:32.660 and so i get there and my kids go inside and me and my stepmom we go and sit out on the swing
00:10:38.880 and i'm like so scared like shaking i'm like the neighbor said to call so i call the neighbor i'm
00:10:43.940 like hey what's going on I'm so scared and she's like hey um yeah so I guess him and his girlfriend
00:10:53.540 got into it last night and I didn't hear that I said huh him and his who and she's like yeah
00:11:00.300 his girlfriend was laid out on the ground and like he got taken to jail I said okay thank you
00:11:07.940 thank you for this information have a good day ma'am I just look at my stepmom just like staring
00:11:14.540 at each other I literally said at least he's not that's all that's like the that's that's all I
00:11:20.640 could think of that's all I could give to him in that moment you know so I'm like looking and I
00:11:27.020 can't remember if I saw his mugshot or not but I'm still over there with my family because I'm like
00:11:31.260 this is crazy like I need to process this with my family so um I'm like over there and he calls me 0.94
00:11:39.960 from jail bitch okay that's all I and I couldn't wait to take this phone call because how freaking 0.95
00:11:47.200 dare you like my daughter was literally running to the door looking out so excited that her dad 1.00
00:11:52.060 was gonna move back in with us like she would be looking outside every single day and be like oh
00:11:56.920 daddy's coming daddy's coming and it's like the amount like you guys could not even understand i
00:12:02.120 literally would pray for this man every single day which you know i'm glad i doubt it i doubt it 1.00
00:12:10.760 i did i'm so glad i did and then you left the state and you took your daughter bitch 0.98
00:12:15.240 needs it and i had filled like a whole journal full of prayers front to back like writing out 0.99
00:12:21.280 prayer oh my god all right ladies i just got no sympathy anymore i'm tired all right guys let me 1.00
00:12:28.920 know what you think of the comments these women just never get to the point like the video 1.00
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