Pearl - Women Getting PUMPED AND DUMPED

00:00:00.000 is it okay if i get an extension is what he says and i laugh at that and i'm like yeah of course

00:00:03.840 you can get an extension we're messaging while he's out of town and then i ask who is he going

00:00:08.640 out of town to see men love having in other cities what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so

00:00:15.360 today we are talking about women taking l's in life um and with our surplus of bad decisions

00:00:21.200 there's no shortage of l's for us ladies but today we're talking about the ultimate l which 0.92

00:00:26.400 is getting pumped dumped ghosted and never spoken to again now with the amount of chads out there

00:00:33.360 um with the amount of chads out there i don't blame us for taking an l every now and then

00:00:38.080 um but we are gonna laugh at you maybe with you if you have a good sense of humor

00:00:42.480 and talk about the time you had before we start though there's a google form in the description

00:00:47.120 please i need to do an event in your city but i need your contact information um if you want to

00:00:52.800 Donate also. This weekend, my sign got stolen and beat up. So I need to get a new sign,

00:00:58.940 theaudacitynetwork.com. All right. All three of them was because it came down to making a plan

00:01:05.240 to hang out. The first guy messaging back and forth on his, we're messaging pretty consistently.

00:01:10.080 We send voice memos. He responds to my prompt where it says, take me to a wine bar. And he's

00:01:14.120 talking specifically about wine bars. Oh, I've been to those wine bars before. I like that wine.

00:01:19.100 he goes oh well we'll have to go sometime and i'm like yeah here's my number so i give him my number

00:01:23.680 start texting for a little bit and i go okay so when are we gonna go to this wine bar he goes oh

00:01:28.320 my cousin's coming in town on saturday i won't be able to hang out this weekend and at this point

00:01:33.140 that we're texting it's like a weekday it's like a monday go oh okay well i'm free like during the

00:01:38.040 week he doesn't respond at all to that and that was like five days ago second guy messages me

00:01:44.600 we're messaging on the app asks me like what i like to do for fun which i was always like a

00:01:49.300 really hard question for me to answer i don't really know what you mean by that so if she's

00:01:53.340 talking about him he's chad because women don't talk about men that aren't chad i'm telling him

00:01:58.220 what i like to do for fun obviously i mentioned wine bar that's like my go-to on these apps he

00:02:03.360 goes oh i don't really know much about wine maybe you'll have you'll have to show me and i say i

00:02:07.400 don't really know much about wine either honestly i just like drinking it and he goes well we have

00:02:11.460 drink it together sometime i say sounds good here's my number let's plan something he texts

00:02:17.300 me he's being so communicative via text he actually says glad you gave me your number because in your

00:02:22.900 bio you say that if you don't match if you don't meet up with someone within the first week you

00:02:26.820 lose interest and like i want to see you and i would love to meet you but i'm actually going

00:02:31.060 out of town for a few days is it okay if i get an extension is what he says and i laugh at that and

00:02:35.700 i'm like yeah of course you can get an extension we're messaging while he's out of town and then

00:02:39.780 i ask who is he going out of town to see men love having in other cities they don't

00:02:49.380 mess with the in their main city or in their friend group ask him like hey when do you get

00:02:53.060 back and he's like oh i get back in a couple days gotta plan that wine date and i go okay cool

00:02:57.300 perfect respond to that and then he just stops responding that was before someone better and

00:03:03.060 hotter move on i left to paris so that was a while ago and then the last guy i matched with

00:03:08.020 while i was in paris but i was actually mostly she's probably skipping over all the men she

00:03:12.420 ghosted this isn't this isn't even a real ghost he didn't bang you like about this last night he

00:03:16.980 was so cute i was flying back from paris he was flying to alcapulco and he was like i'm gonna be

00:03:22.580 here for a week when i get back i would love to see you and he goes again he also mentions the

00:03:31.380 weak thing and he goes we can facetime before then so that way you can see who i am and see if we

00:03:36.180 vibe and then hopefully we do vibe and then i can see you when i get back and i say oh that sounds

00:03:40.180 great he's sending me pictures of his trip i think he's so cute and so funny and then i open up hinge

00:03:46.740 and i see like right when i open up hinge i see a chat disappear and i'm like who is that chat

00:03:53.060 you saw that you were fatter it just disappeared obviously i don't know there's so many chats there

00:03:56.820 that i couldn't i just couldn't see hours later i'm like wait i haven't messaged that guy from

00:04:01.780 that's in al-capulco in a while and i look and the last time we messaged was like three days ago

00:04:06.340 and so then i go to hinge and it was his chat that disappeared so he unmatched me and i messaged him

00:04:11.860 and i texted him and i go sorry did you unmatch me on hinge did we break up because i was so

00:04:16.180 shocked that they might find your tick tock i know because literally the text just before was

00:04:19.700 him sending me pictures of his trip the first two guys that i've mentioned in the story they're just

00:04:24.340 dead they're done but this last guy this al-capulco guy like i'm hoping that he's just so busy on his

00:04:29.060 trip and that he'll text you when he returns because i'm so confused about that but i don't

00:04:32.740 know i've said this before i feel like guys just get scared to actually meet and plan a date and

00:04:37.780 and go on a date they're so happy to text and be pen pals but when it comes down to meeting they're

00:04:43.140 just like they get afraid and they run away also what i think it is they realize it's not worth it

00:04:48.420 they're trying to get to know you maybe a little before and then they're like i'll save my money

00:04:52.500 clearly as you see me right now i am in no condition to be meeting people i've been trying

00:04:57.300 to fight it off okay let's let's see who's next this cute little if you ever think a girl's hot

00:05:02.980 just know she's probably been ghosted don't be intimidated somebody probably hasn't called her

00:05:07.700 back that i feel uncomfortable going to his house for the third date and yes he ended up ghosting me

00:05:14.260 so he has not reply since i told him that i feel uncomfortable and that i yeah three days she's

00:05:21.780 so uncomfortable he's saying i'm not gonna waste my time i think that i wanted to go on a third date

00:05:29.380 to his house to watch a movie watch a movie so at least now we know that his intentions were not

00:05:36.740 the same as mine when it comes to what we're looking for maybe he's not really looking for

00:05:42.260 a serious relationship and like something long term maybe he's looking for something short term

00:05:48.180 and like yeah i'm not gonna lie i'm a little disappointed because i really thought that he was

00:05:55.540 a gentle man and that he was really nice when i met him see she's shaming him for wanting

00:06:01.460 sex but men don't shame women for wanting money or wanting to be taken out in a nice date but now

00:06:09.620 nothing is happening so he doesn't care i don't

00:06:12.340 it's every single time I don't even know what to do anymore I want to delete the app once again

00:06:21.260 yeah doing that on the third date doesn't mean his intentions are short term and she thinks that

00:06:25.680 because she's been pumped and dumped before so whenever women get burned that's when we

00:06:30.460 raise our standards it's like you know women at 18 will bang some random dude in a rave or at

00:06:36.940 country thunder at Lollapalooza um that doesn't have to do anything but then you know that dude

00:06:43.180 ghosts us and then we're like oh why don't we charge a super high price but we're older and

00:06:47.520 more used so it's just you know it's our manipulation before my date in Santa Monica

00:06:54.040 so this is me after my date he never showed up he never showed up he said be there at 7 30 I got

00:07:00.620 there at 7 29 I texted him and said I'm here and he deleted the chat he deleted the chat he probably

00:07:06.500 saw you were fat like how you gonna pick the time the place and the date and not show up that's the

00:07:11.700 most disrespectful thing to ever do to a person period and this is real that's the worst thing 1.00

00:07:16.580 that's ever happened to you women will steal your kids in your house and okay you get ghosted who 1.00

00:07:21.860 cares why these are not lonely enough because they think they can play in your face and get away with

00:07:25.860 it like that's so disrespectful he literally deleted the bumblecap and i was like wait what 1.00

00:07:30.980 the fuck is this actually all right let's see who's next this lady here we got hosting ever 1.00

00:07:37.700 just moved into a new apartment just for a sublease for the month of june 1.00

00:07:41.300 came with this bed frame never had a headboard like this as we all know i'm dabbling with

00:07:46.500 multiple lovers upon moving in ah why did you put that on tick tock noticing this situation and

00:07:53.620 considering i'm into some things i was texting one of them it was getting kind of steamy and

00:07:58.260 this wasn't just out of the blue. i sent a picture of myself with the headboard and i was like

00:08:02.540 beep the new headboard. i'm trying to you to it and you until you are begging me to

00:08:08.640 uh wrong audience reached. no response. no response to that one. my first ghost ever. i don't double

00:08:16.700 text especially if you're on the tail end of the roster. i'm not double texting. god forbid a girl

00:08:21.340 is a little freaky. god forbid a girl wants to take control every once in a while. i'll keep you 1.00

00:08:26.080 guys update the guy's in a fumble of eternity bro pass the ball

00:08:32.800 let's get into it not only are we on hand at 37 years old but we're ghosting question mark

00:08:42.920 exclamation point truly i have no words for this man we had a great first date and then

00:08:50.520 this is the guy who we were supposed to go out but i got a new car and so i wasn't able to meet him

00:08:58.480 the date that we had picked for our first date and he was super understanding and i thought

00:09:06.080 that's such a great quality thank you for being understanding and i was so apologetic obviously

00:09:11.220 then a week or so later we finally found another time to go out so we went to copa and we had

00:09:18.240 dinner at the bar and it was fabulous and we walked around a little bit went into the bookstore

00:09:23.020 that's across the street in the south end had a cutesy little time then i traveled for work and

00:09:29.880 we facetimed while i was traveling okay and then we came back and this is probably a week and a

00:09:36.180 half later at this point we're still texting and stuff went skiing i think we had like the

00:09:42.300 that and then i got sick okay day he's texting me i hope you feel better um morning good night

00:09:49.440 everything like texting pretty much all day um then i'm finally like okay feeling better like

00:09:56.280 if you wanted to plan a second date facetime right and i bring up dahlia that new restaurant that's

00:10:01.680 coming to or that's yeah so she's her dahlia and salty um he sent me we got off facetime and he

00:10:08.760 likes me the link and goes i'm just gonna leave this here and i'm like for what um at that point

00:10:15.180 i think that was like thursday i don't know about you guys but on a thursday i already have my

00:10:20.300 entire weekend planned out fully like whole thing is already planned and at this point we're truly

00:10:26.980 pen pal so i was like um everyone i said but he was like oh i looked for this weekend and they're 1.00

00:10:33.680 already booked and i was like and so am i like okay she now she's broadcasting her being insufferable

00:10:41.460 like joking and then i feel like i i told him that i had sunday night free um i had morning plans and

00:10:48.540 afternoon plans i had no plans at night this man just still never planned a second date yeah because

00:10:55.280 he tried and then you made it too difficult and he said eh not worth it you're not you're too

00:10:59.500 chopped right so my last response was like word like it was like a normal guy would be like oh

00:11:05.760 i've been so busy like when you get a reservation or like what day are you free you know ahead of

00:11:09.520 time he talked about the second date on the first date was saying stuff like oh my friend so and so

00:11:15.300 like end up meeting them we say we're gonna be with a man for life and then we change our mind

00:11:19.560 so he also can change his mind and that was probably love bombing he did also create a picture

00:11:26.700 of our children in chat bruh gpt so anyways i got love bombed and okay all right let's see who's

00:11:36.320 next the guy i've been speaking with has ghosted me the day before we should see each other we

00:11:41.900 we've met up a few times with a few dates he's just stopped applying to me yesterday and my

00:11:47.000 sad bastard self's like posted an instagram story and i keep checking if he's viewed it

00:11:51.760 just to see if he's actually like on his phone or if he's like i'm just we're talking to each 0.96

00:11:59.080 other on whatsapp we've got whatsapp text turned off so i don't even know if he's seen me message

00:12:02.880 it's sending me around the bend and i don't know why i'm having this reaction over some boy

00:12:06.880 we literally got on so well we've literally had no like there's been no change of energy and

00:12:11.820 messages and nothing and we'd plan to see each other today i've heard nothing from him in over

00:12:17.760 24 hours so that's that that's that for me it's been 24 hours if i don't hear nothing from you

00:12:23.020 in over 24 hours i don't want not okay so he hit it real good that's why she's crashing out over

00:12:28.620 not being texted in the day if women don't like a man um you know if he crashes out on her for

00:12:34.860 not responding she's like what are you doing but we'll crash out on when the d is very good so she

00:12:39.840 got d down and now she's crashing out i'm steward you're like that's just the real that's the 0.89

00:12:44.280 damn away i'm not happy with the reply 0.66

00:12:55.060 it's it's it's a valid response if it's true but i don't think it's true i think he's just 0.98

00:13:08.480 bullshit is all she's so in love all right guys um let me know what you think of the comments 0.66

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Pearl - July 28, 2026

Women Getting PUMPED AND DUMPED

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