Pearl - July 29, 2026


TradCath Women Aren't Any Better Than 304s


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00:00:00.000 see all these convoluted answers that they give it depends that that means the woman and you guys
00:00:05.920 have to see through this what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so today i actually have
00:00:12.800 a new series where i am going to be reacting to my own street interviews and kind of tell you what
00:00:16.960 was going through my mind when i did these interviews if you want like the video and
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00:00:26.480 near you so let's see churches preach against marrying non-virgin women not necessarily i mean
00:00:33.920 it is so the church preaches against um marrying bad guys right i mean you hear that all the time
00:00:40.800 don't date a man that's going to use you but they never talk about not dating women that are going
00:00:46.720 to use you and ruin your life and so the churches really have no protection for young men young men
00:00:54.960 are targets and they're going to men that stay in the church are going to end up marrying old 0.99
00:01:00.340 sleazebag whores um and the other thing too is that the young men it's feminism in a way because 0.99
00:01:08.020 if you look around it's a bunch of sexless young men a bunch of women that claim to be sexless um 0.99
00:01:13.420 while they're railing god knows who um so they want men to be in the pews they want them to 0.82
00:01:19.800 donate they want them to volunteer a lot of times in exchange for nothing which is exactly what 1.00
00:01:25.540 feminists want because they want women don't you know feminism really is a strategy for women to 1.00
00:01:30.700 not have to have sex with guys they're not attracted to it's always exalted as the ideal 0.99
00:01:34.580 right but the men have to follow the ideal the women don't so i do a channel and we ask um we 0.91
00:01:39.980 go to different churches and we ask people what their belief is on obedience so i'd love to get
00:01:45.040 I'd love to know, one, how long you've been a member here, and two, what your beliefs are around
00:01:49.800 obedience. Sure, so I've been attending this church for, I believe, four years now, and in search of
00:01:57.640 obedience, well, the catechism of the Trent actually touches on this expressly, and we believe
00:02:04.780 that to be, it's the most authoritative catechism ever put out by the Roman church, relied on for
00:02:11.960 several hundred years at this point and it actually touches in there on the duties of
00:02:16.440 a wife and the duties of a husband and in the duties of a wife section it has i believe the
00:02:22.120 phrase goes let them never forget to esteem their husband yeah so again it's kind of cope right
00:02:28.920 because at the end of the day the church has no authority to enforce so a lot of the christian
00:02:33.080 guys i think because uh you know maybe the original bible like uh they're gonna come up
00:02:38.520 with a few copes the original bible is not being taught in these churches because all of them are
00:02:45.480 triggered by the word obey i should not be kicked off of church property um asking if women obey
00:02:53.400 their husbands in fact the priest should come out and he should say yes he should say it with his
00:03:00.120 chest um and he should have no fear in him however you know what i get actually is asked to leave so
00:03:09.640 what are you gonna do as second to god and to yield to them in all things not not in offense
00:03:16.360 against christian piety or in line with christian piety something to that effect so it's pretty
00:03:21.320 straightforward and and just so you would say yes they should obey well of course yes um and
00:03:27.880 what do you guys do here if the priest and the husband disagree well i'm a little bit young to
00:03:33.080 answer that question how old are you you're what 20s early 20s yeah that's accurate 23 23 okay so
00:03:40.760 you've been around long enough right four years that's a good amount of time i mean yeah but in
00:03:44.680 terms of like observing priest husband conflicts i don't have any okay so you're not you're not too
00:03:49.560 sure no i don't know i don't know what happened yeah because i guess one of the questions in our
00:03:53.240 priest though yeah well it's one of the questions we come to is that no two men agree on everything
00:03:57.880 so yeah so when it comes to if you want to walk this way slightly just in case someone comes in
00:04:03.020 when it comes to like parenting style and um you know just um there's different different
00:04:08.620 disagreements in a marriage uh what happens if the priest agrees with the wife and not the husband
00:04:14.040 who who should she listen to according to you well it depends on the subject in question so
00:04:21.480 priests are just get out of it pretty serious well first off this isn't necessarily represented
00:04:27.160 in my parish it's just like off the dome when you're asking me but if it's a matter well why
00:04:32.520 see all these convoluted answers that they give it depends that that means the woman
00:04:39.880 and you guys have to see through this okay it means the wonder of moral theology for example
00:04:48.840 where the priest learning and his specifically spiritual authority in that way would come into
00:04:53.720 play more and the husband maybe doesn't know the thing or so on then in that case it would make
00:04:59.480 sense for the priest to have but okay but again it's still circumventing male authority because
00:05:05.000 why wouldn't he just figure out the thing himself people don't want you to think they don't want you
00:05:11.080 to think for yourself they want to think do the thinking for you so they can tell you what to do
00:05:15.080 and they have more power certain superiority but in cases that pertain more particularly to the
00:05:20.840 family that i mean it could become it could it could be compared really to the difference between
00:05:25.880 the church's authority and state's authority there's a big analogy there in the sense of the
00:05:30.360 church has supreme authority in spiritual matters but the state has a supreme authority and temporal
00:05:36.120 and temporal and matters that relate to the common welfare of the people so in that way
00:05:41.560 the priest logically would have an ultimate authority in spiritual things the husband
00:05:47.560 represents christ and thus is kind of a delegate in the in that way and also in practical things
00:05:53.640 relating to the common good of the household the husband would have you know the authority there
00:05:58.600 so if women are not getting married young in churches isn't that requiring morality 0.97
00:06:04.920 for men but not women i don't necessarily see how the two fall yeah okay because again if the women
00:06:10.120 are are getting married young they're getting time attention and resources from all the men 0.99
00:06:16.280 even if let's say for shits and giggles she's not banging somebody even if she's not 0.96
00:06:22.840 she's still getting all the men's attention time resources in exchange for nothing 0.95
00:06:28.600 so at some point the the pastors are gonna have to take a stand on this well when it comes to 1.00
00:06:34.920 abstinence women aren't waiting till marriage to have sex generally and if you go to a lot 0.61
00:06:39.400 lot of churches the men are well so wouldn't it isn't it kind of requiring morality for one and
00:06:45.460 not the other i mean i don't i don't know what churches you're familiar with but it's abstinence
00:06:51.940 is something that's universally pre-shared it's binding on catholics until marriage i mean it's
00:06:56.320 just part of the virtue of chastity really but if the men can if the women can do whatever they want
00:07:02.160 and be forgiven why can't the men so if you're talking from a secular standpoint or something
00:07:07.400 like that then maybe even here i i just even hear the women i interviewed a few and they said they
00:07:13.880 weren't virgins so like you're essentially even here i go to all different types and it's just
00:07:19.960 the typical christian couple um in a lot of places is the guy's a virgin and the woman isn't
00:07:26.040 so like when that's the case wouldn't you say it's requiring morality for one and not the other
00:07:30.520 i well first i would dispute this on two levels so first just empirically speaking in terms of
00:07:37.740 that's the average experience there are a lot of situations i know a lot of young people
00:07:42.380 i have a friend who goes to a land mass not this one but but again so it's the cope in real time
00:07:48.800 okay at these churches you're gonna see a few families right and you're gonna see the chads
00:07:54.440 and the stacys get together but it's look at the best looking men will have wives and kids 0.99
00:07:59.280 and the ugly ones will have nothing or a ran through whore maybe maybe and even that a land 0.99
00:08:07.280 mass up in minnesota and he and his wife are both virgins still married see that's selling hope 0.98
00:08:12.640 selling hope because there's the one person like that's why everyone says there's the one person i
00:08:17.760 know because it's one person you know what about here it has to be in minnesota you know what i
00:08:24.720 good and they were high school sweethearts as just an example on some i had would you say that's the
00:08:29.840 norm um he knows he wouldn't hear he this is the thing they want to be right they want to be right
00:08:38.800 very bad he's a nice guy there i got nothing against him i mean the norm well most people
00:08:44.400 aren't getting married yeah high school and that has correlations to premarital chastity but
00:08:49.520 but that's the point if you delay marriage since women have more sexual access
00:08:53.440 than young men do you're requiring morality for one and not the other i still wouldn't say this
00:08:58.560 requiring morality for one and not the other though well do the churches preach against marrying not
00:09:03.040 the results the like again that's cope because the results are and the catholics i'm so tired 0.52
00:09:09.840 of these catholics oh pearl the catholics are different okay not necessarily i mean it is 0.94
00:09:17.280 always exalted as the ideal right but the men have to follow the ideal the women don't
00:09:23.440 both of them do and both of them have to deal with the consequences what are okay but what are the
00:09:29.600 consequences if the men get married after men marry them after but if a guy marries her after
00:09:36.400 is there really a consequence there certainly could be but in all honesty not really well no
00:09:43.120 there certainly could be in so far as cope anyways all right guys um if you like me reacting to my
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