Pearl - Women Giving Every Reason to DUMP HIM

00:00:00.320 the second that you start to seriously consider dumping your boyfriend you have

00:00:04.400 already signed a contract with the universe you are in fact going to dump him that's true

00:00:09.680 that's true like the second once once we have decided it's done there's no saving it what's

00:00:14.320 up guys welcome to my reaction series so women we're getting worse um than ever i think the

00:00:19.360 whole lindsey clancy case was just kind of an l for us your man does as women um and showing how

00:00:24.080 crazy and insufferable we are so anyways um moving on i have two things women uh you know to fight 0.93

00:00:30.960 this um are actually raising our standards not lowering them which kind of makes sense because

00:00:35.840 we have so much power in this society you know what i mean it's just like an ungodly amount of 0.81

00:00:40.000 power so anyways um today we're gonna react to women talking about why you should or you know

00:00:46.560 why why you need to dump your boyfriend uh but before i start guys you can meet me in new york

00:00:50.880 city um we're gonna do a dinner one day and then go behind the scenes of a podcast you can see how

00:00:55.120 podcast works uh it's really gonna be 10 maybe 15 people or less at this dinner really small one we

00:01:00.960 can just hang out um and then eventually we want to put these make them like fundraisers at some

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00:01:12.320 all right let's keep going your man does these things dump him or divorce him all right i'm sure

00:01:17.040 it's going to be very serious serious things right it's an emotionally abusive relationship

00:01:21.040 for 10 years married emotionally abusive that can be like damn near anything

00:01:26.160 i mean women emotionally abuse me every day you know what i mean i want you to get out sooner 0.90

00:01:31.280 than i did so does he if your man gets mad at you when you spend time with your friends dump him if

00:01:35.520 your man gets mad at you when you go out what kind of friends do you have i'm not you know honestly 1.00

00:01:41.120 if i'm being for real you really shouldn't be that controlling of a woman because if she's 0.77

00:01:47.120 gonna cheat she's gonna find a way to do it uh like women will find a way around it but

00:01:52.640 um and i think the more you tell women not to the more we want to uh but yeah i mean

00:02:01.400 i don't know dump dump him over that i don't think so there's a restaurants with your friends

00:02:07.420 dump him. If your man gets mad when you go somewhere in public by yourself, dump him. If

00:02:11.800 your man blows up your phone when you're out with your friends, dump him. If your man gets mad at

00:02:15.720 you when you don't text back frequently enough to his liking, dump him. If your man guilt trips you

00:02:21.320 about doing something without him, dump him. If your man makes unfounded accusations about you

00:02:26.260 texting other men, dump him. If your man throws a fit when you tell him that you have plans with

00:02:31.560 friends or family, as in group plans with him, and he doesn't want to go, dump him. Okay, so if he

00:02:37.300 doesn't want to go to all your bullshit activities, you have to dump him now. He was always in a bad

00:02:41.540 mood on a date. Dump him. If your man sits on his phone during dinner while you're out, dump him. If

00:02:48.480 your man never wants to do anything but play video games and sit inside the house, dump him. If your

00:02:52.920 man punches walls, dump him. If your man follows you around at home when you're fighting after you

00:02:58.460 said you needed space, dump him. If your man threatens to self-harm while you're fighting,

00:03:03.140 dump him if your man guilt trips you when you're not in the mood for sex dump him if your man says

00:03:07.940 that you're asexual or a lesbian when you're not in the mood for sex dump yeah she was dating a 0.52

00:03:12.660 guy she wasn't attracted to and he wanted um her to put out and then she didn't want to and instead

00:03:17.140 of just ending the relationship um guilt trip okay if your man accuses you of being inappropriate

00:03:22.900 with your does this go both ways asking for a friend co-workers or implies that your male

00:03:28.260 co-workers are being inappropriate i'm struggling with my kids wanting to know why i left their dad

00:03:32.580 and i'm a bigger person by not telling them all these things oh my god see this is what i beat

00:03:37.460 women will rationalize any poor choice when they're not dump him if your man always starts

00:03:43.220 a fight after drinking dump him if your man's excuse for not doing something is that you can 0.97

00:03:48.580 do it better now again you're mid i mean you just can't have this attitude being a mid you can dump

00:03:55.220 him if your man has chronic health conditions that he refuses to take care of and won't keep up with

00:04:01.220 doctor's appointments, dump him. If your man gets shitty when you ask for help with chores or

00:04:05.860 grocery shopping, dump him. If your man calls you names, anything from you're acting like a bitch

00:04:11.520 to you're being whiny to outright calling you a bitch, dump him. If your man flirts with other

00:04:17.300 women in front of you, dump him. If your man gets mad at you because he thinks that you didn't get

00:04:23.740 over something that he did to hurt you soon enough, dump him. If your man gets mad at you when you

00:04:29.220 bring up something that he did that upset you or hurt you, dump him. That means I get offended at

00:04:35.440 everything. If your man gets mad that you asked your friends for relationship advice, dump him.

00:04:40.280 Yeah, because then they get mad for him. Your man asks where you went. If you do your hair or your

00:04:47.060 makeup or you wear a cute outfit, dump him. If your man only calls you by your given name as in

00:04:52.100 your first name, your legal government name, when you're fighting, dump him. If your man minimizes

00:04:57.200 your anxiety or implies that you're being ridiculous for being anxious dump him if your

00:05:02.080 man never plans dates dump him if your man randomly accuses you of being unhappy dump him

00:05:08.000 if your man cheats on you obviously dump him but if your man cheats on you and then gaslights you

00:05:13.200 about him cheating on you when it's very clear that he's been cheating on you dump him yeah all

00:05:18.480 right she dated an alpha that she was willing to put up with she was really willing to put up with

00:05:24.240 anything and now she's gonna make you um have all these standards okay if your boyfriend does any of 0.73

00:05:28.880 these things dump him let's talk if your boyfriend does any of these things dump him dump him okay

00:05:33.360 let's get into it also this is coming from someone who literally found their dream man who's like

00:05:36.880 literally dating the most perfect angel man to ever grace this earth and also coming from someone

00:05:40.640 so i i dated the guy i liked and now i'm dating a simp so let's put up with like crap in the past

00:05:45.600 who's like gave people the benefit of the doubt yeah when i was young and forgiving and now i'm

00:05:49.680 old and bitter um and and felt like they were asking for too much in other relationships she

00:05:54.300 probably was this one i feel like seems like super self-explanatory but for some reason not

00:05:58.040 if your boyfriend or guy you're talking to interested in anything is following half-naked

00:06:01.540 women alone liking their photos it's a wrap don't even get it started if that's who he's following

00:06:07.880 that's who he's liking that's who he's giving his energy to absolutely not to if he has road rage

00:06:12.500 absolutely not like get pull over the car and get me the fuck out right now because there's no way

00:06:18.560 as a grown man you're like screaming and getting red in the face and like upset and like okay i

00:06:23.600 actually i agree with that i agree with that under your breath or like screaming in the person knowing

00:06:27.920 that she's a woman she's probably over exaggerating it but i can't even hear you

00:06:31.520 half the time like skimming schizophrenic if he doesn't post you on instagram or has like 1.00

00:06:36.720 she's so bitchy i mean it's just women are so uncharitable rude and all the time 1.00

00:06:42.560 any sort of excuse on any social media platform it's like oh i don't just don't use it much

00:06:45.920 yada yada no drop him drop him drop him my boyfriend's account looks like a fan account

00:06:51.280 of me like that's what i mean simp i don't care if he dims this is a big one if he dims your light

00:06:57.120 in any sort of way like tries to take the spotlight off of you like i'm a very goofy person i like to

00:07:02.400 laugh women like to be the center of attention and if the guy is more lovable likable and charismatic 1.00

00:07:08.000 than you the women get mad i like to joke that's why that's why they hate when the kids like the 0.99

00:07:12.080 dad more um one of my exes would always act like i'm like embarrassing or like cringe or like

00:07:18.080 like what are you doing like dump him dump him dump dump dump him what's that uh olivia dean

00:07:23.360 song don't ring me in cue that and leave if he has girl best friends or girlfriends that

00:07:28.640 don't go out of your way to make friends with you to get to know you to make you feel comfortable

00:07:34.560 dump him if you tell him more than once that you do not like something dump him you should never

00:07:40.240 have to communicate does that go both ways what if you know what's crazy she said when he doesn't

00:07:45.680 like something that you should you should dump him if he complains about you but if he does

00:07:49.600 anything you don't like to dump him one single time that you do not like something or not

00:07:54.800 comfortable with something it's a wrap if he doesn't shoot your dog or animals like his own

00:08:00.000 dump him how he treats your animals is how he will treat your future children genuinely don't ever let

00:08:04.880 a man like come up into your place and like say that your dog can't like sleep on the bed or like

00:08:08.640 like your animals no they were there first you can leave if his mom or like sister are mean oh my god

00:08:15.460 this is like this is a huge one um i've lived this one and i've learned it hardcore i like probably

00:08:21.480 should share it's story time sometime but you guys would genuinely think it was like a movie

00:08:25.100 a lifetime movie but like the truth is like when you're marrying someone you're marrying their

00:08:28.640 family you really are like you can't get around that and like if his mom or sister are mean or

00:08:33.400 like you're fucked like i'm sorry you're fucked like my boyfriend now i'm like obsessed with his

00:08:38.740 family like they're like all my besties like i actually don't disagree the the mothers and the

00:08:43.040 sisters will torture you so if they're drama filled get rid of them he has like his mom his

00:08:47.340 stepmom his dad like his stepdad like all his siblings like we're all pretty close like

00:08:52.620 like i'm sorry if you aren't absolutely like in love with his family then drop him like that's

00:08:58.100 your future that's your future it also seems self-explanatory but it's not as well if his

00:09:02.220 friends suck if his friends suck and aren't going out all the time cheating on their girlfriends

00:09:06.060 yeah he is doing the same thing that's like yada yada i agree i agree you know that saying like

00:09:11.240 show me your friends show me your future i know it's like so cliche it's true it genuinely is

00:09:14.640 true that's true also they want if he yells at you but it's crazy though because they'll

00:09:18.660 if your friends suck they will get mad at the guy for saying to stop hanging out with them but if

00:09:24.920 it's the other way around they think it's okay or raises his voice okay well it depends what did

00:09:29.860 do to have him raise his voice cam done listen the second that you start to seriously consider

00:09:34.500 dumping your boyfriend you have already signed a contract with the universe you are in fact

00:09:39.140 going to dump him that's true that's true like the second once once we have decided it's done

00:09:44.740 there's no saving it but you're genuinely catching yourself considering it you have basically already

00:09:49.940 done it it's already done and now your only job is to wrap it up as soon as you can bear to

00:09:57.140 because going back and forth about whether or not you want to be with somebody in your head

00:10:00.740 is a really good sign that you don't want to be with somebody um it might be fine it might be

00:10:05.620 relatively comfortable but that doesn't like you don't you you're done you just are done and you

00:10:10.900 let that yeah they're saying i wanted him to cheat so i could have a valid reason the impending doom

00:10:15.780 until it happens is sickening oh my god that's so true to the girls with ocd she's not talking about

00:10:20.980 us i thought surfaced you know you have did you do you know you have 30 minutes lol because it was

00:10:28.180 clearly based on something and now you must dump him um i think i mean that's always been my

00:10:34.020 experience like the second that i consider it it's already basically done um so don't wait around

00:10:40.740 and wait for something to happen or wait for your feelings about it to change because it's just

00:10:44.580 going to keep gnawing um and you're wasting your own time and you're wasting your own healing and

00:10:49.300 you're also wasting their healing getting through it i'm also like an incredibly avoidant person

00:10:54.420 and we'll put and i like i'm giving this advice avoidant means i'm too lazy to be honest about

00:11:00.500 and i would rather talk behind your back than to your face him or divorce him part two i was

00:11:05.380 in an emotionally abusive relationship for 10 years married for six and i want you to get out 1.00

00:11:10.420 sooner than i did if you missed part one go back and it's crazy because women will do this stuff 1.00

00:11:15.540 emotionally abusive marriage everyone knows who her ex-husband is and now she's just ruining his 1.00

00:11:21.540 reputation that out on my page if he lets his family this just makes the it makes it worse

00:11:26.260 i talk down to you dump him if he throws a fit when you wear certain clothing dump him if he

00:11:30.580 guilt trips you for not spending enough time with him when you're doing your hobbies but doesn't

00:11:35.060 want to spend time with you when he's doing his hobbies dump him if he throws a fit when you ask

00:11:40.180 him to take a turn cooking dinner dump him if he starts arguments in public dump him if he

00:11:44.980 intentionally hides spending money not in like I'm gonna get you a gift for your birthday way

00:11:50.260 but is spending money behind your back and it's throwing off your budget, dump him. And if he

00:11:55.760 opens a separate bank account without telling you and you find out through looking at your own bank

00:12:01.120 statements because the numbers aren't adding up, dump him. If he always finds a way to turn something

00:12:07.200 he did to hurt you into your fault, dump him. If every apology he gives you is followed by

00:12:14.180 I'll do better and it won't happen again but he doesn't do better and it always happens again 1.00

00:12:19.760 dump him if you have to make his doctors okay you know all the things she's saying women do

00:12:24.400 so men actually do make changes over time that's why they lose themselves like women always say

00:12:30.360 that we lose ourselves in relationships but men lose themselves in relationships because they do

00:12:35.040 change for the woman and follow her complaints where uh women like all the things she's saying

00:12:41.800 i think this should be a video for men appointments dump him if he never handles calls for things like

00:12:47.160 the phone bill or car and men cover most of the expenses parents or uh getting unless you guys

00:12:53.880 are dating losers which kind of says more about you hold of a car mechanic dump him if you have

00:12:58.680 to apply to jobs for him because he won't even if you send them to him dump him if you're trying to

00:13:05.480 drag him to couples therapy don't bother dump him if you always catch him in lies especially stupid

00:13:10.600 ones that make no sense to even make up dump him if he talks badly to you about his friends and

00:13:16.760 family and then acts all buddy buddy when he's with them dump him if he twists something you say

00:13:24.120 into something you never meant just to cause a fight and punish so what they'll do is they'll

00:13:29.480 say back like they'll they'll say well you said this and then we don't like that we don't like

00:13:33.960 being held accountable for the things we say you dump him if you feel anxious around him because

00:13:39.640 you don't know what version you're going to get women that's what women do women we don't

00:13:44.520 men don't know what version of us they're going to get because we change based on where we're

00:13:47.880 at in our cycle day or even that hour dump him if he texts you while you're at work to fight

00:13:53.320 which causes you stress and the inability to focus on your job because he won't leave you alone

00:13:58.440 dump him if you have to rehearse what you're going to say to him in order to try to avoid

00:14:05.080 him having a bad reaction dump him if he uses vulnerable things that you've told him against you

00:14:11.880 or tells other people those vulnerable things that you told him in confidence dump him and if he says

00:14:18.760 that you're too sensitive in response to you expressing how he hurt your feelings dump him

00:14:24.040 and yes as with part one these are all things that i personally experienced in my former

00:14:29.640 relationship if your man does yeah so what'll happen or divorce him okay what'll happen is

00:14:34.740 women um we love the criminals the losers and then when we can't get them anymore it's like 0.95

00:14:39.780 a weird world we're in where women like in the woman hierarchy um it's like better to date a

00:14:46.320 criminal or whatever so but the criminals and the losers and the whatever the wife beaters

00:14:51.600 you know they only date women under uh a certain age so when we age out of that then the other

00:14:59.100 women are like, no, you can't date the bad boys. Only, only I was able to, but don't do what I 1.00

00:15:04.600 did. Um, yeah. And it's really just out of jealous. Um, have your fun ladies go get tortured. So

00:15:11.080 anyways, if he uses the wrong, you're in your dump him, he's a cheater. And if he doesn't dress

00:15:17.280 well, like he doesn't put effort into his outfits, he just doesn't care about how he looks in a bad

00:15:22.600 way. It's actually disrespectful. And he's also probably cheating. So dump him again. Yeah. Just

00:15:26.820 Stump him. Everyone's a piece of shit.

00:15:28.560 Yeah. All right, guys.

00:15:30.220 Let me know what you think in the comments.

00:15:32.240 I love you. Thank you for watching.

00:15:35.160 And, yeah, women hate other women. 1.00

00:15:37.000 They want you to dump your boyfriend over nothing.

00:15:39.560 So, anyways, I love you.

00:15:41.420 I love you. Like the video on your way out.

00:15:43.460 Subscribe. I'll see you next time.

Pearl - August 21, 2026

Women Giving Every Reason to DUMP HIM

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