Pearl - Women Hate When Men Play Video Games (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 good afternoon everybody welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity

00:00:14.320 network i am your host pearl and today we are going to talk about how women have a tendency 1.00

00:00:20.960 to ruin men's hobbies in particular video games however we're going to do a little

00:00:27.520 a derail a sidetrack an off-topic comment from the show today because i have it's a state of

00:00:40.300 an emergency guys there has been so much simping i can't deal with it this is becoming a simp

00:00:47.600 edemic michael knowles released a clip today that he is not only doubling down on nala being super

00:01:00.320 sorry and now a representative of catholicism he brought her back with her simp husband 0.99

00:01:08.400 And congratulations, Catholics.

00:01:12.420 Michael is your most well-known representative.

00:01:17.160 Amazing.

00:01:18.280 How awesome is this?

00:01:19.700 This is who's representing Catholicism today.

00:01:23.540 You think I'm kidding?

00:01:25.180 He's one of the most well-known ones.

00:01:27.920 All right, look, this is what we got.

00:01:29.840 Really shook the Internet the first time you came on.

00:01:32.100 I got in so much trouble for talking to you.

00:01:34.120 I know you have, and I appreciate that.

00:01:36.580 They say very nasty things about you.

00:01:38.220 oh yeah oh we know okay let me let me let's is michael let's let's make a prediction this

00:01:45.900 comes out at 9 a.m tomorrow and i want everybody to make a prediction will michael call out the fact

00:01:56.460 that she has hooker eyelashes on a full face of makeup and fake hair and that in this clip right 1.00

00:02:03.980 here wait let me find it hold on in her debate on whatever she was dressed in spandex 1.00

00:02:19.180 will he call that can we make a poll is he gonna call out

00:02:24.620 the fact that she raised her only fans prices

00:02:27.500 is he gonna call out anything is he gonna is he gonna hold her feet to the fire the way he would

00:02:37.700 a man had he had a man who was a player and dating multiple women the way that he would

00:02:50.720 hold that man's feet to the fire is he gonna do the same for Nala

00:02:57.500 the only reason she hasn't received consequences is because she's somewhat hot 1.00

00:03:05.900 I know I've never seen men fight harder for anything other than hot women's ability to be 0.98

00:03:13.800 naked be whores and get away with it and marry them and give them every benefit of the doubt 1.00

00:03:24.700 you know we had a the only reason michael knowles didn't win the simp of the year is because 1.00

00:03:32.780 god it's just we're in a simp epidemic this is like the pandemic

00:03:37.280 but it's like what is he gonna win over the guy that married her

00:03:40.980 and that's why i think we're gonna make a hierarchy of simps today and i want you guys

00:03:48.360 to help me because i it's still a running a running topic look the internet the first time

00:03:52.980 you came on i got in so much trouble for talking to you i i know you have and i appreciate that

00:03:57.880 they say very nasty things about you so here we go this is this is the this is what happens in 0.98

00:04:02.560 churches guys like him they're no better than the men with that allow the gay flags i swear 1.00

00:04:08.980 no better the exact exact same just in a different way he's saying yes fellas 1.00

00:04:17.740 here's a whore for you guys to marry we're going to make her do no work give her um 1.00

00:04:24.660 give her clout and allow her to represent christianity oh yeah oh we know we're a lying 1.00

00:04:31.460 deceiving prostitute now again this is what they do they go and they try to shame men for their 0.99

00:04:40.040 tone while dying on the hill of a prostitute please if you're a catholic put a two in the 0.95

00:04:51.420 chat put a two in the chat do you want is this who is this who we should allow to represent us 0.97

00:04:57.360 i don't know you said that you lied about everything people were tagging me on social

00:05:04.560 media and they said see michael here's proof that she lied to you everything i've said on podcasts

00:05:09.820 is complete clickbait why do you think so what they're gonna do is they're gonna say no no no

00:05:16.100 she was talking about what she said before was a lie and now is totally the truth and the thing is

00:05:23.660 with guys like this they either want to get laid so bad or they want to be right so bad i don't know

00:05:28.680 which it is but they want their religion to be right so bad that all the facts will go against

00:05:34.700 what they believe but because they want that story to mark it on their show

00:05:39.800 that's what they're gonna do that's what they're gonna they're gonna push

00:05:46.540 they want it too bad I mean it's a need to be right but in men instead of like looking at the

00:05:54.040 facts is he is he gonna bring up any of the facts michael i swear i swear if you brought up none of

00:06:01.400 the facts that i've laid out on five different live streams nobody from your team reached out

00:06:07.240 for me with receipts zero none nada nayski why didn't you bring her on with me or reclaim your 0.98

00:06:18.840 throne he was on her ass why don't you bring her on with andrew no what you did is you're 1.00

00:06:25.480 facilitating an apology tour idiot god what an idiot he's either he's either an idiot or 1.00

00:06:34.120 or it's malicious and he wants to get laid i don't know which it is 1.00

00:06:38.520 i'm i'm ticked off people want you to be lying that happened to her i can't believe that it's

00:06:49.040 real because then that means i can change my ways and still get saved

00:06:53.420 you have got to be kidding me so her her argument

00:07:00.820 is nobody's allowed to question if it's real because of her actions

00:07:07.540 but it's because we don't think that we can be saved and this is what they do

00:07:15.040 they go into the churches they think huh I can get a get out of jail free card

00:07:22.180 here I can totally revamp there's all these guys with no experience so now let

00:07:28.000 me let me do my rebrand here and then on top of that the men are gonna fight for

00:07:34.600 me. They're all going to fight with each other and argue over if I'm sincere. I don't even

00:07:40.560 have to fight. I can bring in my simp husband in and this other simp that's like the equivalent 0.99

00:07:46.880 of, I don't know, the pastor or the theology teacher, whatever. And they're going to die 0.97

00:07:52.480 on the hill of letting me be a hooker. Good deal. Good deal. 1.00

00:07:59.600 brought up in the church is this mental illness people have criticized you because they say you

00:08:04.640 made all this money where is the penance they say you should give all your money away

00:08:12.960 now is he gonna say he did you see this simpidemic my god and he called her the prodigal daughter 0.91

00:08:20.320 oh make it end they're like why why don't men i actually googled this the other day that there's

00:08:27.920 more catholic women than men officially it's like 55 it's barely it's closer than a lot

00:08:36.080 of other religions it's like 55 women 45 men well here's your representatives

00:08:44.240 here you go where's the penance they say you should give all your money away

00:08:47.360 he said they say that there should be a penance that's that's his argument he's saying

00:08:58.680 that he can't take ownership and say i'm a catholic that was a shitty thing to do 0.91

00:09:04.920 why don't you give like he has to blame it on everyone else simp what a simp oh my gosh

00:09:13.700 Now, I want you guys to help me here.

00:09:15.860 Now, I've taken, I went to Twitter.

00:09:18.560 Give me one second.

00:09:20.680 Give me one second.

00:09:22.840 I got to go on to Twitter.

00:09:27.980 And I got to find some of the, I want to do a hierarchy of simping.

00:09:34.880 Here we go.

00:09:35.660 there's many different types of sims now I'd like to say this is a working video it's working

00:09:50.840 we're not completely done with who's the hierarchy of sim so the way I think I'm gonna do it here

00:10:01.940 is I want to make

00:10:04.880 the top the least simpy, guys,

00:10:10.140 and the bottom the most simpy.

00:10:14.460 Now, what makes somebody a simp?

00:10:17.920 What is a simp?

00:10:23.200 Somebody who worships women 1.00

00:10:25.580 and really just gives women whatever they want 0.60

00:10:29.840 regardless of the consequence.

00:10:31.660 regardless of how bad of people they are.

00:10:35.300 So the number one simp,

00:10:39.780 wait, hold on.

00:10:41.720 I have notes here.

00:10:45.920 Okay.

00:10:47.900 The number one most common,

00:10:50.660 you know what, sorry,

00:10:51.500 I need to re-talk about one thing.

00:10:53.780 The top is going to be the most simpy,

00:10:56.600 the bottom is the least simpy.

00:11:01.660 So, these are guys that put up, put up with wives not sleeping with them.

00:11:15.600 Yes.

00:11:17.180 These are the most common.

00:11:20.980 These are men afraid to divorce their wives.

00:11:24.080 So, they say, you can be as terrible as you want.

00:11:29.420 You can give me nothing in return.

00:11:31.660 but I will, simp equals putting women on a pedestal. 1.00

00:11:41.500 These are the guys that say happy wife, happy life.

00:11:48.320 Pretty simpy.

00:11:50.120 Number two, but you know, at least these guys,

00:11:53.620 they might get a kid out of the deal, right?

00:11:56.120 I mean, at least they're getting a kid or something.

00:11:57.900 So next on the simp is guys that are friends with women, with women for nothing in return.

00:12:14.680 Now, what I'm not talking about, there are men that do get things out of friendships with women.

00:12:21.300 I'll give you an example.

00:12:22.340 There's a guy in Vegas, and he is a promoter for a club.

00:12:29.900 So the women will go get him other women to bring to the club. 1.00

00:12:34.300 He's getting something out of that.

00:12:36.520 Or there's other guys that, like, their women friends will set them up with other women. 0.98

00:12:41.400 Or their women friends, they get something in return. 0.96

00:12:44.460 I am not talking about those guys.

00:12:46.820 I'm talking about the guys that have been in love with a girl for years

00:12:50.300 and accept that friendship.

00:12:52.960 And they say, you know what?

00:12:54.320 They have no self-esteem, so they just, I deserve nothing in return.

00:12:59.160 Stop it, King. 1.00

00:13:01.040 Say, put out or leave, bitch. 1.00

00:13:03.540 Okay, next. 1.00

00:13:06.500 We have the guys that pay for OF. 0.61

00:13:14.520 And I want to give credit because MancoSmash on Twitter, he gave me a lot of these.

00:13:21.740 So I do like to give credit where credit is due.

00:13:24.520 Pay for OF tips, messages for OF.

00:13:36.660 So the guys that pay for OnlyFans, strippers, et cetera, 0.79

00:13:43.460 they are super simps, but they're getting something in return.

00:13:48.120 I mean, they use those women as therapists, 1.00

00:13:50.540 or they use those women to make special videos for them. 1.00

00:13:54.620 At least they're getting more.

00:13:56.620 You guys all think you're above the OnlyFans models, 0.88

00:13:59.680 like the men that you guys, you all say,

00:14:02.820 those guys that pay for OnlyFans,

00:14:06.660 they're the super simps.

00:14:12.180 Well, are you in a girl's friend zone? 0.63

00:14:14.320 Sorry.

00:14:17.080 Now, next on the totem pole or the white knights.

00:14:25.000 So these are the guys like Michael Knowles

00:14:27.800 who fight for women they're getting nothing from.

00:14:32.840 So they say, you know,

00:14:34.120 you're not giving me sex, a kid, or anything, 0.97

00:14:39.120 but I'm going to white knight and fight for you. 0.97

00:14:48.460 The next we have Captain Savaho.

00:14:57.200 These are the men like Nala's new man,

00:15:00.780 where they marry women that have done sex work in the past. 0.96

00:15:14.580 And now there's two forms of cucks that are at the top. 0.99

00:15:19.920 So cucks two, cucks one.

00:15:23.560 Now the cucks two, you know,

00:15:25.240 they're actually a little bit more accepting of female nature

00:15:28.420 than, like, I don't know, the guys, the white knights.

00:15:33.560 Like, some of the cucks are more realistic. 0.77

00:15:35.980 They're like, she's going to leave and cheat anyway. 1.00

00:15:38.080 I might as well get sex from her twice a week, 1.00

00:15:40.660 but I'm also going to cheat. 0.99

00:15:42.800 I want you guys to think about this.

00:15:44.240 So Lauren Southern, she was a conservative commentator 0.63

00:15:48.960 who married a Christian guy.

00:15:51.320 She cheated on her husband with Destiny, 1.00

00:15:53.820 who was in an open relationship.

00:15:55.500 it. Now, Destiny, his wife banged other dudes, but he was also banging other hot women. Who took 0.99

00:16:03.040 the bigger L? The guy who got cheated on with Destiny or Destiny whose wife was getting dug out

00:16:10.440 by other dudes, but he was also cheating. So cuck two are guys that their wives get dug out, but

00:16:16.560 they also dig other women out. Cuck one are the men that accept cheating. So they're in a relationship. 0.94

00:16:24.360 the woman's cheating, and or the men that literally let the women sleep with someone 0.83

00:16:32.640 else in front of them.

00:16:33.540 They watch.

00:16:36.460 Now, I'm open to adding more things, but this is just our original ballpark.

00:16:43.500 I wanted to involve you guys.

00:16:45.240 So if you guys have any thoughts on where the hierarchy of simps, who should be added, moved.

00:16:55.920 But it's essentially, you know, pretty much all I got right now.

00:17:03.740 Let me go back.

00:17:04.440 need to put these headphones back in let me read the chat right now and then we'll get into today's

00:17:20.740 topic i'm sorry i had to derail but this is this is too big of news this is ridiculous

00:17:26.540 this i better see like 10 catholic streamers calling this out it shouldn't just be me all

00:17:36.240 right i'm not even that religious i'm i'm really i'm not i don't want to represent here like it's 0.96

00:17:41.760 not me but i know a bunch of catholic streamers okay i do um no i don't i know like two but

00:17:50.420 but i'm just saying there's a bunch there's a bunch of channels i expect this to be on the board

00:17:56.880 um otherwise i don't want to hear anything i don't

00:18:03.680 doug says you are not lying it should be happy happy house happy spouse

00:18:08.000 roger just signed up for the monthly memberships thank you for coming roger by the way youtube

00:18:14.820 demonetized me and guys sometimes when i call out these women they try to ruin my life 1.00

00:18:21.540 i really view myself as a protected class i can say things you guys can't say you guys think this

00:18:26.580 stuff all the time you haven't seen a guy wife in a home and thought hierarchy of simps i'm sure you

00:18:32.660 have but i i'm in a protective class i can i can say these things

00:18:45.220 but sometimes these women retaliate i don't know what nala's gonna do i don't know if she's gonna 1.00

00:18:48.900 send her simp army after me so it's really important that i can be youtube free and not

00:18:54.260 have to be dependent on an app that pushes me off i gotta get if i get one yearly membership a show

00:19:01.220 i'm youtube free and then i can really say whatever i want then i can then i can when

00:19:06.500 youtube gets on a phone with me i can tell them to f off unless you're watching youtube rap haha

00:19:11.860 i'm so sorry anyways

00:19:18.580 now let's talk about video games so since we're talking about simps the other thing that simps

00:19:24.100 have a tendency to do is they have a tendency to fight for what women want and not in the 0.84

00:19:29.940 best interest of men and their own gender and really even society they do this because they

00:19:35.460 want attention from women they want to get laid or they just want their life to be easier so they 0.93

00:19:41.060 simp you know they don't want to get fired they're like fine don't care simp whatever i'll say what i

00:19:46.580 have to now the other day i did a show about how women don't have hobbies and we looked at a lot

00:19:52.580 of videos of modern women admitting that they're just boring the problem with dating or marrying 0.83

00:19:58.100 one of these women is that for a man they have nothing else to do but complain about what the 1.00

00:20:05.780 man is doing i mean guys how many times have you been in a relationship with a woman and she's 1.00

00:20:11.140 constantly nagging you to get off of your game council stop going to the gym and just to spend

00:20:16.500 more time with her and you ask yourself what is she doing all day why can't she find something

00:20:22.660 to do to just leave me alone for a couple of hours i was looking back at this show and i was

00:20:30.100 thinking about how the number one hobby that women don't like when it comes to their men

00:20:34.740 would be video games no other male hobby is demonized as much as video games 0.99

00:20:40.500 you see entire podcasts of women complaining that their boyfriend's husband or partner spends too

00:20:46.420 much time playing video games and it's crazy these women should be glad that their boyfriend is at 0.99

00:20:51.540 home playing video games instead of out sleeping with other women last year liz wheeler a popular

00:20:58.580 conservative commentator put out a chart that showed the least attractive hobbies that a man

00:21:03.380 can have to women and video games were at the top this started a firestorm online 1.00

00:21:08.660 people argued back and forth in the comments section about whether video games were a good

00:21:13.140 thing or a bad thing she says this is a hundred percent true video games is peak unattractive

00:21:23.460 red flag deal blade deal breaker zone doesn't elon musk play video game

00:21:33.780 oh it's not a real chart well oh let's see the bottom it says there's no source for the

00:21:40.340 reported finding and the percentages are rounded even to the nearest multiple of five which is

00:21:45.620 impossible okay well the point isn't really about the chart the point is the woman nagging right 0.94

00:21:52.100 and so she's saying it's a deal breaker so what i'm hearing from liz wheeler is elon musk is now

00:21:58.740 a deal breaker because he plays video games okay it's weird that so many dudes don't get this

00:22:06.420 imagine i want to see liz wheeler telling elon musk on a podcast that he can't play

00:22:12.100 video games and he's not doing enough imagine okay girl gamer tells women why their men play 1.00

00:22:20.500 video games all day we got why your man is always playing his damn video games dear upset significant 0.99

00:22:31.300 other i am here to tell you why your man seems like all he does is play his damn online video 0.99

00:22:37.220 games from girl to girl let me tell you it's not you i have been online gaming for many years 0.98

00:22:42.820 although my fiance is not much of a gamer and he had a hard time understanding why i could sit and

00:22:47.940 play a single game for hours on end he would wonder if i even cared about him when there was

00:22:53.140 many times in our relationship i would rather play my game than watch a movie and cuddle

00:22:57.300 i can relate to both sides of the story i feel like men are not good at explaining why they enjoy

00:23:03.140 gaming and women aren't good at understanding because they never got an explanation when asked 1.00

00:23:09.300 as a girl and a gamer i'm here to let you know what's inside their brain first off because they

00:23:15.140 game does not mean they don't love you i am going to go into what i love about gaming and hopefully

00:23:20.580 you can understand why your man is so into it too being yourself when i first started gaming i found

00:23:26.180 it as a place i could be myself and i didn't have to be serious and mature all the time

00:23:30.660 i enjoyed talking to and playing with others who are just like me sometimes you need that place

00:23:36.820 where you can go to have fun and it's a good time every time some people like me cannot stand to

00:23:43.060 having to act like an adult 24 7 the competitiveness if you are with someone who loves to compete well

00:23:49.140 there you go nothing is better than chilling out and showing some people who is boss online gaming

00:23:56.020 are so competitive that there's a rush that comes when you're trying to prove what prove you've got

00:24:02.500 what it takes problem solving now i know what you're thinking wtf but seriously most of the

00:24:08.100 the multi-players I know are in I play are involved in lots of strategy I'm

00:24:14.400 always thinking of ways I could have done something better in a match or

00:24:17.860 coming up for a new idea for next time I thought about all these things that

00:24:22.140 work the hair salon and getting my nails done strategy and problem-solving can be

00:24:27.460 so driving it keeps you going back for more gaming friends nothing is better

00:24:31.620 than some gaming friends I have always looked at my gaining from gaming

00:24:34.680 friends as some of the best friends I've ever had I trust these people

00:24:37.980 with my life well my virtual life that is but still I've met some amazing people and have

00:24:42.740 gamed with the same people for 10 plus years with that being said it's hard to retire the 0.99

00:24:47.360 controller so when you have one of your best friends calling you to ask you to f some shit 0.94

00:24:52.460 up with them it's just almost like turning down you turning down a lunch or a coffee date with 0.97

00:24:57.540 your bestie just saying relaxation after a long and stressful day there's nothing better than

00:25:03.480 hopping on your favorite game and focusing on it. It's a way of self-meditation. At least it is to

00:25:10.700 me. I could have the worst days and 99% of the time would feel better after I played my video

00:25:15.400 game for an hour. It's definitely a diversion from the negative things you do in your everyday

00:25:19.980 life. Now, don't get me wrong. I understand if you have a couch potato, no job having gamer boy,

00:25:25.740 but my advice is to then drop his deadbeat ass. But if you have a hardworking man who pays his 1.00

00:25:32.520 bills and enjoys his games let it go it's his hobby his gaming has nothing to do with not loving

00:25:37.920 you I promise a girl gamer now there women hate video games so much that there are stories of 1.00

00:25:46.800 women that had to break up with men that played video games he could clock a hundred hours in a

00:25:58.960 week people are sharing heartbreaking stories about how video games became the breaking point

00:26:04.660 in their relationship immersing yourself in a video game is like no other feeling it's exciting

00:26:11.320 to step into someone's shoes and live a life full of drama thrills and suspense however the fun hobby

00:26:17.840 can turn into an addiction when somebody begins to control lose control over the amount of time

00:26:24.160 that they spend gaming it negatively impacts their self-care schooling and relationships

00:26:29.500 reddit user the god the goddess pluto

00:26:33.180 i'm sure she is stable a woman who broke up with your with someone due to video games what was 0.99

00:26:42.860 your breaking point it was definitely interesting to see the range of stories from people prioritizing

00:26:49.740 gaming over their partner two cases of addiction that were sad for everyone involved one i dated a

00:26:57.340 man who never seemed to have a problem with video games until well into the relationship

00:27:02.460 every day he started choosing games over being intimate or sleeping next to me i left shortly

00:27:07.900 after that i don't want to okay so if your guy let me get this straight if your guy wanted to

00:27:17.580 to play video games over having sex with you that might be a you problem

00:27:24.880 let me continue none of the not the sole reason but definitely started the end of our relationship

00:27:35.600 we were living with his parents while we waited for an apartment I would get up drive an hour to

00:27:39.600 work just to make no money as a server come back exhausted and he would be gaming unemployed

00:27:44.520 obviously he had stopped but he had stocks

00:27:47.160 what if he was like rich and she didn't know it were the stocks okay um I literally begged him

00:27:58.960 just to make the bed for a week straight he would continue to play the game after I was home

00:28:02.640 see this is the thing guys that don't understand women what they'll do is they'll think if they do

00:28:08.120 these things that she'll be happy the guys that have dated a lot they know it doesn't matter he

00:28:13.400 could have made the bed every day it wasn't the bed it was she didn't like something about him

00:28:18.140 or whatever um I came home and I tried to show him the energy that I didn't have he could clock

00:28:24.700 100 hours a week without thinking anything was wrong with it very happy with my current partner

00:28:29.400 Doug in the chat guys if you want your chat read go to the www.theaudacitynetwork.com the link is

00:28:36.480 in the first link in the chat and we have it on both app stores well Doug says well into the 0.95

00:28:43.120 relationship means she got fat and started nagging him from ron dolfo says doug you're a savage

00:28:50.320 he is all right we hadn't gone on a date in weeks we finally had a weekend free where we were both

00:28:57.940 going to be free he said to leave my day open because we were going on a date and he was planning

00:29:02.500 it on the day off i woke up and he said he wanted to sleep in i said fine and five minutes later he

00:29:07.060 said that his friends called him to play a game in three minutes he was ready and heading out

00:29:13.100 of the house he said it would just be a few hours and he left he didn't come back until that night

00:29:18.300 but i was busy he left and i took myself out to breakfast and decided to be done by the time he

00:29:23.260 got home none of his things were in our bedroom he tried to tell me i was exaggerating and blowing

00:29:27.740 things out of proportion i told him fine he should go play friends the games at his friend's house

00:29:32.700 again our lease was ending in the next few weeks so i took the following weekend to find a new place

00:29:38.060 and he was in shock why would you go see a place and sign a lease without me why are you asking

00:29:44.380 that question it's over like i'm just when i'm confused it's why why are you okay i made more

00:29:52.780 money than him so i paid for everything see i don't think it's the video games i think it's

00:29:58.300 the mud like that's they don't say why they're really breaking up with the guy because if a

00:30:04.300 woman likes a man she likes his nerdy hobbies you know like anyways i am going to change i promise

00:30:14.540 you want me to get rid of my gaming system what a simp oh my gosh this is an epidemic 0.64

00:30:23.180 i haven't done anything wrong and i told him we were done we hadn't we hadn't had sex in over a 0.93

00:30:28.140 year oh my god so they didn't have sex in over a year and he was begging for her back why

00:30:38.140 look at the hierarchy i want you guys to be honest it happens it happens to the best of us

00:30:43.180 where when was the last time where were you at in this hierarchy i mean this wasn't a wife but 0.99

00:30:50.300 if they're living together and not sleeping with him i mean it might as well be a wife um 0.99

00:30:55.420 um we hadn't had sex in a year I was tired of feeling single so I wasn't making it official

00:31:02.040 and it wasn't my concern anymore where he lived he tried to make me feel crazy and that he was

00:31:07.020 the victim so I moved out early and blocked him on everything best decision ever Doug is going to

00:31:13.120 say I can guarantee Pearl's never going to say Ronald Dolfel's right just accept it it's not

00:31:19.320 no it's not that's fair Doug my girl was getting a little blessed and she started working out

00:31:24.380 because I lost weight oh wait where did I think I missed something okay Ike said she broke up with

00:31:32.820 him because she found somebody else at work that would make more sense that really would

00:31:38.480 uh Pearl she wanted to nag at him over breakfast and dinner for no reason 0.94

00:31:42.640 she broke up with him but she found somebody else at work she eventually learned uh fritto pie and

00:31:50.420 so i couldn't lose hope well i bought a year from youtube ads so youtube paid you lol thank you t

00:32:01.620 pearl she wanted to rip his soul out and women who do this get kicked out for life 1.00

00:32:07.220 damien says being in emotional bonds is extremely painful for men who are continually

00:32:12.340 who are continually busy with the real cares of life women want total focus to validate their 0.99

00:32:18.420 emotional needs. Men want to. I think he's typing the next part. How many of you would beg for a

00:32:27.680 woman to stay that wasn't sleeping with you? Please put a one. I want a one in the chat if 1.00

00:32:33.780 you've done it. Be honest. Be honest. Please. I don't want. You guys cap sometimes and I don't

00:32:43.040 need that i don't you can put a two if you haven't and i'll allow a three if you've done it before

00:32:51.280 but you've you're reformed you're a reformed simp one said he's done it if she's paying for the bills 0.98

00:32:57.320 that's a little i actually think the ultimate alpha is a guy that gets women to have sex with 0.98

00:33:04.380 them and pay their bills because who else is getting more out of a woman who has more gain 1.00

00:33:11.860 there's too many twos in the chat stop it i i need i need more ones i don't believe you

00:33:20.600 i've seen too much i really have men want to fulfill this need but are limited by the

00:33:28.580 concerns of life rich says i never had that problem never

00:33:32.360 brian on the website says two he's never done it

00:33:37.800 come on none of you were in high school high school girlfriend okay anyways I've had two

00:33:45.960 exes that I felt prioritized video games and twitch streaming over the relationship I love

00:33:51.660 video games too but it has not gotten to the point gotten in the way of spending in real time with

00:33:56.380 people or obligations my first boyfriend won't talk to me when I had put my sick dog down because

00:34:02.320 he was too busy playing video games with his friends.

00:34:08.680 Now, number one, I would argue that social media is more detrimental to women than video 1.00

00:34:16.560 games are to men.

00:34:19.760 And more women go out of real life interactions to go on social media than the other way around. 1.00

00:34:26.040 in a two-year relationship i lost count of how many jobs he lost because he kept showing

00:34:32.400 up late from playing video games all night who are you guys dating

00:34:36.080 okay uh my next boyfriend would often lie about going to bed so he could game with his lady 0.99

00:34:43.280 friends well into the night and he would blow off social occasions with me or my family so he could

00:34:49.120 stick to his stream schedule well okay you guys realize that men don't really want to hang out

00:34:55.640 with our families they're not really dying to go to all these events on the weekends

00:35:03.480 i think that women like this is a working theory i have so you guys you guys we can bounce together 1.00

00:35:10.600 i think that women want a backup plan so what they do is they never like um we need more power 1.00

00:35:18.280 in case the relationship goes south i mean that's kind of what feminism is it's like if you're doing 1.00

00:35:24.200 doing behavior I don't like, I want to be able to leave and go sleep with the guys I

00:35:27.520 do like.

00:35:31.920 And the thing is they have to keep close family ties.

00:35:36.940 And also women have power in groups because women's power tends to be manipulation. 1.00

00:35:42.500 We can manipulate way better than men.

00:35:45.760 And that's like why we like the cities, why men like the country, because they see the

00:35:49.380 problems that come with groups.

00:35:52.440 problems it's it's groups that women are in like you know when it's an all-male group there are 1.00

00:35:57.640 problems but men kind of sort themselves out a little better i mean they'll beat up a guy if

00:36:02.500 he's acting up enough you can't do that with women unfortunately you can't just clock somebody 1.00

00:36:07.480 not that i know it's not legal to do it to a guy either but i mean they're less likely to press

00:36:13.860 charges a woman she's vindictive i mean you you just poke her she's going to the police

00:36:18.340 now anyways I have a working theory that women need their families involved in their marriage 1.00

00:36:28.740 and relationships and they do that to have a backup plan and a way of enforcement to the man

00:36:35.640 because they don't want to listen to the guys so they have to have the dad get involved or the

00:36:39.760 friends get involved or whoever get involved to get what they want because women are too lazy to 1.00

00:36:44.800 learn communication and we want other people to enforce things working theory um i'm going to do

00:36:54.740 a show on this when i flushed it out more but if you guys have thoughts on that topic put them in

00:36:58.820 the comments please um my boyfriend would go to work late in the morning or early afternoon do

00:37:05.520 his job while the boss was there and then as soon as the boss left he started playing video games

00:37:10.080 and wouldn't stop many times i'd call him and tell him i was going to go ahead and eat dinner

00:37:14.020 then call him and say i was going to bed then around midnight i'd call and say please don't

00:37:17.720 miss the last bus he'd wake up in the morning under his desk and look presentable when his

00:37:22.280 boss walked in i finally got fed up and left him rich on the website says one holiday dinner i ate

00:37:30.480 dinner with 40 of her family members of friends in the basement what once

00:37:35.720 okay doug says too many men think you think our alphas are alphas everywhere except in their house 0.96

00:37:45.980 so true they're afraid of their wives it's pathetic oh my god it's i'm like make it end 0.96

00:37:54.460 t carp um says i've talked to my friends about this if their wife isn't sleeping with them they 1.00

00:38:00.880 have to argue that they can't make life comfortable and let it be known and we are talking about alpha

00:38:07.120 men that group where they're in the military they would just i think they would just bow down and

00:38:12.320 never argue with women you have to be able to hold your own in an argument yeah you know it's so 1.00

00:38:19.280 crazy it'll be like military men it'll be like men that are you know there'll be like kickboxers or

00:38:26.720 like men you never would think would allow some like they would never accept that from a man like

00:38:34.240 i've seen men simp that literally beat people up for a living like that is their job and they

00:38:41.760 would never like if a guy said the wrong thing to them they would beat the out of him but

00:38:46.720 they're afraid of a woman i'm like why pretty scary you know at least women are vindictive 1.00

00:38:53.920 i think most men would take a punch in the face over a woman trying to destroy their reputation 1.00

00:38:58.640 for years right i mean put a what let me know what you guys would prefer i'm not saying you 0.95

00:39:04.480 have to pick but if you had to pick getting knocked out like a stone cold knockout but you

00:39:10.080 don't die and you have a no no brain injuries but it hurts like a or two a woman 0.60

00:39:17.840 that you went you dated and it went bad and she went into all of your social circles

00:39:23.800 and tried to ruin your life put one if you take the knockout two 1.00

00:39:29.960 doug says the former ufc fighter john fitch talked about his ex-wife it was nuts she was a psychopath 0.99

00:39:42.680 yeah see all the guys are picking one 0.82

00:39:44.520 yeah okay all right he would play for hours and hours we're talking 8 to 12 hours a day

00:39:53.680 what's your screen time what is your screen time i used to be a gamer and even worked at gamestop

00:39:59.640 when i was in my early 20s he made me hate video games i tried to play with him but he's such a

00:40:04.300 sore loser he would throw tantrums and constantly complain calling the game a cheater saying it was 0.79

00:40:09.120 glitched he would get upset if my character did better or had a superior class set up skills 0.97

00:40:14.160 artifacts compared to his own when i started having dreams about destroying his gaming

00:40:20.000 council with an axe i realized that my current scenario was unhealthy for both of us i realized

00:40:25.920 that my my current boyfriend plays games and is judicial about the time he spends on it and it

00:40:32.720 would and will absolutely turn it off if i express a desire to do wait hold on let me read that again

00:40:43.280 when i started having dreams about destroying his game council with an axe i realized

00:40:47.680 my current scenario was unhealthy for both of us my current boyfriend plays games but

00:40:52.640 is judicial about the time he spends on it and will absolutely turn it off if i express

00:40:58.000 a desire to do something together he wouldn't answer his phone for hours at a time like three

00:41:05.600 to five hours because he was on the game even in the midst of something important happening it all

00:41:10.080 came to a head when i was supposed to meet him somewhere he knew i was on the way driving from

00:41:16.320 an hour away i didn't have the address when i was meeting him and he wasn't responding to

00:41:21.040 any calls or texts because he was on the game i ended up breaking up with him because i couldn't

00:41:24.640 be in a relationship with someone i saw as a child if your main priority seems to be video 0.96

00:41:29.120 games and not the adult human woman in your life you're a child to me okay these women sound nuts 1.00

00:41:36.640 um let me see what else people are saying one everyone's saying one in the chat on the website

00:41:43.760 you guys are missing out the chat on the website's way cooler no offense guys but if you're on the

00:41:51.360 make sure you hit the like button there's 600 of you in here let's make sure there's over 600 likes

00:41:56.800 the like is free um i have a friend that hates trump and he was in the marines for 30 years i

00:42:02.160 I couldn't figure it out.

00:42:03.620 Plus, he lives in Ohio, which is a Republican state.

00:42:07.160 Richard, I've been stone-called, knocked out,

00:42:09.480 and I've been attacked by a scorned woman and both damaged me.

00:42:13.320 Doug says, the things that I disagree with on Trump about,

00:42:18.120 I think he's going to do a good job.

00:42:20.020 Kamala would have been a disaster, T-Carp. 1.00

00:42:22.060 I think most of our dads, mine included,

00:42:24.360 were that 90s Christian dad taught to be a servant leader. 1.00

00:42:27.700 Bullshit. 1.00

00:42:28.140 we are doing what we were taught and waking up after we see 30 to 40 years of that in our culture 1.00

00:42:34.760 I know all right next we're going to talk about women what to do if he's heavily into video games 0.81

00:42:45.560 how many people I wonder do you guys think this woman's going to advise to just let him play 0.87

00:42:52.580 and not try to control what he does

00:42:58.940 Hey Renee, I hope you're doing well. I'm an avid fan and you and David become a cuter

00:43:04.360 couple with every video. Oh, that's a red flag. I mean, she runs it. Usually if they're

00:43:08.860 public facing and they do couples content, usually the woman runs it. You can tell if

00:43:14.840 you watch close enough, but that's usually how it goes. My struggle is this. Recently,

00:43:19.740 I've been a bit estranged from my man because he feels I don't understand his love of video

00:43:24.380 games and wishes I did I do my best to not make him feel controlled letting him play when he wants

00:43:29.700 to what do you mean letting him he's an adult I mean you know it goes both ways the men think

00:43:35.880 they somehow have control like they're like oh I'd never let my woman do that you can't nobody 1.00

00:43:42.940 can they're adults they can do what they want it's just they're single now like that's it okay

00:43:48.860 and with his friends but having him need to see me and appreciate the depth inspiration and heart

00:43:55.680 he feels some games have given or have is going too far for me he even wishes I would play a bit

00:44:02.400 so that I would stop assuming he's doing something shallow and meaningless is it not enough that I

00:44:07.840 can leave him alone when he's playing and not complain after I'm silent I'm not silently seething

00:44:12.580 either I've come to accept his need to play but now I feel controlled and unappreciated simply

00:44:17.700 for not seeing gaming the way he and his buddies do. I am not his buddy. I am a woman and his

00:44:22.980 lover. I have no interest in his games. Is that an adequate way of thinking? And I want to flip

00:44:28.640 it for a second. Do you think she forces him to be a part of her hobbies? Like telling him about

00:44:35.580 celebrity gossip or whatever BS, you know, we follow every day. Should I try harder to understand

00:44:43.340 his hobbies or am I wise and staying out of his interests? I feel many women struggle with men

00:44:48.540 who love video games a lot. I don't know if David loves gaming, but most women I know whose men love

00:44:54.560 it. It is frequently a struggle for her in some way. Would you like me to answer directly or

00:45:00.600 answer it in a post up to you? But I would love to share your insights on how women should handle 0.98

00:45:06.520 men and their love, sometimes obsession with gaming. It can be an extremely delicate subject

00:45:12.680 for men making them put up their defenses easily so it's not easy to deal with the issue thank you

00:45:17.720 for your time renee i appreciate all you do you contributed to helping mike and i stay as strong

00:45:24.180 as we do don't worry we're still madly in love thanks for your email okay all right thanks for

00:45:32.160 your email and yes i can relate to this i laughed when you said he wants you to appreciate the depth

00:45:36.560 and heart that some video games have years ago david used to play video games a lot sometimes

00:45:43.500 until late and he had to wake up at 6 a.m the next day for work i feel it was his way of escaping

00:45:48.980 from his job when he felt trapped in and hated you've obviously struggled with this in the past

00:45:54.140 way before you emailed me what i'm saying is you've struggled to understand why on earth he has to be

00:45:58.820 so involved and distracted by video games and can't give you the deep love you want to you as

00:46:04.000 a woman most video games are not full of depth or heart I understand you see depth in terms of 1.00

00:46:09.660 human interactions and relationships so you'd rather he come over to you and give you his

00:46:13.580 presence and love you deeply you don't know which way is up or down when I first wrote this article

00:46:19.920 10 years ago I was in of belief that the masculine soul video games are a superficial way to meet your

00:46:27.000 needs I think intuitively us women assume that video games are a shallow way of expressing their 1.00

00:46:32.360 masculinity and feeling successful after all you have to turn the game off and get back to real

00:46:37.580 life somehow yet after being married to my game loving husband and having three sons with him

00:46:41.940 I've come to appreciate certain things about video games I will discuss these things very soon but I

00:46:46.920 wanted to first quickly address your need to not be around him when he plays them for a lot of women 1.00

00:46:51.540 we'd rather not be around our men when he plays video games because we'd rather see him doing

00:46:55.820 something more constructive even if our man is already successful and constructive out in the

00:47:01.280 real world. It still hurts to be around him when he is actively playing video games instead of

00:47:06.260 giving you attention, not to mention being asked to play with him. It's a bit like, huh? Who said

00:47:12.300 you can downgrade me to watching you play video games and playing video games with you?

00:47:19.160 David used to ask me to play video games as well, and since I wanted intimacy with him instead,

00:47:23.960 it felt like my needs were being dishonored, so I can relate. However, I can look back over the

00:47:28.900 last 16 years of being with him some of the better times I had with him were when we played video

00:47:33.980 games together only it's just the bond that was nice because I was horrible at them getting good

00:47:39.760 at the game took so much energy out of me I realized that I just didn't come naturally to

00:47:43.940 me as it did to him he loves playing video games with my sons as well and though they don't really

00:47:49.000 spend much time playing games at all whenever they do play games I'm often ushering them off

00:47:54.700 to read a book or go to the playground as soon as I can. But it was when he finally said to me

00:47:59.820 that I understood. I like my boys playing games because it's good practice for them to learn to

00:48:05.240 solve problems. He also mentioned that it helps them read even more outside of the reading they

00:48:10.520 already do because having to read the story in a game or read the instructions in the game gives

00:48:15.940 them an internal motivator to want to read more. So even though I really understood whenever a

00:48:21.260 woman says to me my boyfriend plays video games more than he talks to me I can't stand it I am

00:48:26.760 now unable to help her understand that there's something there's a special something about

00:48:31.420 video games that is super important to the men who love them and it's this to men video games

00:48:36.060 do have depth because it's an avenue through which they get to feel express and access their

00:48:42.560 own masculine identity in other words they were able to kill to solve problems that overcome 0.95

00:48:47.920 challenges inside of the video game in a way that life may not always really readily provide to them

00:48:54.880 in this way it's not different to us women buying dozens of shoes or dresses when we

00:49:00.800 hardly wear any of them we appear to be wasting our money on pointless but though it seems

00:49:08.800 pointless to men it isn't to us because we get to have the option of wearing shoes that best express

00:49:14.800 our mood and the feminine any energy flavor we are feeling on that day so that to us is the type

00:49:21.740 of abundance it may be excessive in the eyes of our boyfriend or husband and he may not appreciate

00:49:26.040 it but and it may become a bit of an addiction to us but i don't believe we should condemn it

00:49:32.240 because in moderation and it may actually allow us to express our feminine energy so now i'm going

00:49:38.800 to help you understand his need for games and i'll give my thoughts on what steps to take

00:49:42.600 video games are an easy way for men to feel successful it's kind of like women emptying 1.00

00:49:49.560 their bank accounts and buy all the clothes and shoes and accessories and makeup they could hardly

00:49:53.700 ever wear in order to feel beautiful and magnify their radiance obviously the best way for women 0.66

00:50:00.960 to magnify her radiance would be to become a woman who radiates love from within no amount of clothing 1.00

00:50:06.120 is ever a replacement for that all the while her man is getting stressed out and feeling

00:50:11.220 disrespected because she's spending out all the money rather than giving him the love and 0.88

00:50:15.540 appreciation he wants which one which would be one of the secrets to actually making her more

00:50:22.100 beautiful to him in his mind anyway are you wondering why my boyfriend wants me to play

00:50:26.560 video games with him it's because that helps him bond to you as men as men bond with each other by

00:50:34.300 overcoming challenges and engaging in a purpose or mission together that's a masculine way of bonding

00:50:38.920 as for why he wants you to play with them it's a classic case of men wanting to think men wanting

00:50:45.320 their women to think more like them so that they can connect and relate more with you 1.00

00:50:49.080 it's no different to women trying to drag their men along shopping with them do you see where 0.99

00:50:54.880 i'm going with this on one hand he wants to feel more connected to you because he feels like you

00:50:58.920 don't understand him on his level so he's trying to make you more like him he feels this will make

00:51:03.320 you understand him develop a connection and a sense of commodity um okay let me read the chat 0.89

00:51:12.220 really quick all right pearl simping isn't a good move for getting married but simping to get sex 1.00

00:51:22.140 works very well thanks for the field report richard crazy kyle pearl real stuff a man who 0.84

00:51:30.960 plays games and has a real stuff a man who plays games and has a child isn't good it's better to

00:51:36.480 play board games with your child to teach them strategies who are you to tell a guy what he can

00:51:44.400 do in his house kyle get out of here okay uh pearl reed not sure if you saw this tick tock trend

00:51:52.240 where women would ask their men how to get into their hobbies and the man's eyes would like light

00:51:58.400 up like a kid on christmas it took a trend for women to care you want to know when i knew i was 1.00

00:52:06.640 going to marry my wife she bought me a 700 ps3 back in the day and then she said go buy that ps5

00:52:14.240 you work so hard for your family you deserve it okay let me get to the all right now she said how

00:52:24.480 how to deal with it when your boyfriend plays video games for hours. Sit with him for 10 to 15

00:52:31.140 minutes and watch his game. What's the point of this? The point is to see him overcome an opponent.

00:52:37.060 If you can even pick up what he does, you have to look carefully. If I ever do this, sometimes I

00:52:42.500 miss his victory moment because I don't get the game. Oh my God, I relate to that. As a woman,

00:52:49.060 I'm not really into these kinds of things. He just wants you to appreciate his success. Yes,

00:52:52.980 they're superficial but fighting it won't help you get closer and when he shoots someone dead

00:52:58.120 or whatever triumph he overcomes just say something like whoa that's so cool or well done

00:53:03.540 okay it will make him feel appreciated and understood because his own woman is the one

00:53:09.740 who recognizes his victories however fake they feel to you and don't sit there for hours doing

00:53:15.060 it you don't want to dishonor your own needs as a woman that's not good for you either it also does 0.99

00:53:20.180 nothing for the growth of the relationship after 15 minutes or so are up don't obviously don't

00:53:26.880 don't obsessively um this time you want to be genuine about it and really put yourself in his

00:53:34.240 shoes then get up and say you know what i'm going to read a book i'm going to go call a girlfriend

00:53:38.140 now because i feel a bit lonely if he tries to get you to say say you don't have to keep staying

00:53:42.960 you should just you should still be free to honor your own need for intimacy especially since it's

00:53:48.440 good for your relationship to fill up your soul for you the best way you know how here's your

00:53:54.840 second option when he says come play with me you'll appreciate the depth and heart of the game

00:53:59.680 i do what i do very often when these high tension situations pop up i turn around and be playful

00:54:06.760 and say oh yeah come shopping with me and my girlfriends for the day we can buy some pretty

00:54:12.100 dresses and a look and look a wide array of soaps and maybe even shoes and I do this just to break

00:54:19.100 the pattern and make them go huh it changes the state it gives the their brain a jiggle in a fun

00:54:24.340 way and it breaks the pattern of him trying to get you to do guy things well now I'm gonna react

00:54:36.380 to a couple podcasters with their thoughts on this i actually usually like this couple but they

00:54:44.040 are simping right here this is simping i talk about the video game thing uh we're at two hours

00:54:49.180 already on this wow but there's gonna be things cut out so it'll be under two hours as of right

00:54:53.720 this second uh probably but i want to talk about the video game thing a little bit okay

00:54:59.260 the one of the emails was talking about the dude playing video games he used to play video games

00:55:06.080 as a form of escape i don't remember who i was watching or listening to the conversation of

00:55:11.760 drugs got brought up and how people are an addict and people who take drugs to escape their reality

00:55:17.200 they're addicts you know do they do oh my gosh she's about to call video games the same

00:55:25.200 have you met an addict

00:55:30.480 like men can play video games and keep a job and they can do it

00:55:33.920 it and one of my brothers used to play a lot like a lot a lot like it was it could have been a part

00:55:40.260 time job and he had a full-time job he was productive had a relative who was an alcoholic

00:55:49.420 very different do that they then brought up the video game thing and said that people who play

00:55:57.100 video games for 6 10 you know 12 hours a day or do it every single day are doing it to what's the

00:56:03.560 women's screen time what's your screen time escape something in their life and we see people on 1.00

00:56:09.560 tiktok constantly saying that my husband just plays video games all day long he comes home and

00:56:14.700 gets right on his console and plays video games with his friends and doesn't do anything around

00:56:17.820 the house that is a form of escapism he's trying to escape his reality there's a scenario in that

00:56:23.660 when you really think about it like he's not happy with his life right and he's choosing to play video

00:56:27.980 games and a fulfill an addiction than to actually sit down and there's a difference between having

00:56:33.560 a hobby and having an addiction right you know we're hobby photographers photographers we go out

00:56:38.280 and do photography once or twice a week for an hour or two at a time together if i was gone eight

00:56:44.700 hours a day with my camera while you were here doing but they're not questioning the women why 1.00

00:56:48.280 they're so addicted to tiktok they're putting that on there nothing and it was just me leaving

00:56:52.660 what i mean it's a play pretend world this whole world is like it's just endless simping god even

00:56:59.060 them and i actually like this couple i've seen a couple clips but how it's a simpidemic you

00:57:06.580 constantly it's me leaving you right it's no different than somebody coming home from work

00:57:10.500 and getting on a console and ignoring your family male or female because you want to escape the life

00:57:16.180 that you've built for yourself when i heard that it clicked so like now i really hate video games

00:57:22.660 yeah and and i understand that like i don't hate it in that it can be a hobby for some people i we

00:57:28.180 have we have a playstation 5 and an xbox here like and we have gaming computers but we get like maybe

00:57:33.860 an hour a month where we sit down and play video games it's just not it's too time consuming and

00:57:39.060 like not beneficial to us right for people who need that release fine it's a hobby if that's

00:57:46.660 really what you enjoy doing i i get it but when you are doing it for eight hours a day or that's

00:57:51.220 all you do in your free time and you're neglecting your family you really need to stop and think

00:57:54.700 about what you're doing and if you're escaping your family by playing video games you probably

00:57:59.080 shouldn't be with your family anymore right maybe you need to go to therapy maybe you need to find

00:58:03.780 and you know sometimes kids are annoying have you guys ever been around like i like kids are cute

00:58:10.520 but sometimes the dad wants a break because the kids are screaming or running i mean

00:58:16.980 i don't think it's that big of a deal you know your intimacy again or try to reconcile with your

00:58:23.060 woman or your partner or whatever the case may be but if you're spending more time playing video

00:58:27.680 games and you are spending time with your kids you're not being a father i don't know i thought

00:58:32.880 about that a lot and like i understand the addiction aspect of it but i never correlated

00:58:36.280 the escapism of it no i get that that's how i was able to like gauge my growth as a human being

00:58:40.920 i used to play skyrim eight to ten hours a day and it's because i hated my life i didn't want 0.83

00:58:46.600 to be in my life anymore so it was escapism and once i started processing my bullshit and actually 0.63

00:58:52.040 enjoying things in life and being excited about the small things like you said i haven't turned

00:58:56.840 that xbox on in a month yeah that's how i was able to gauge my own growth is when i started

00:59:01.560 when i stopped turning to video games to escape what was going on and just started facing that 0.88

00:59:06.120 shit head-on process doug says nine out of ten times if a guy plays video games a lot it's 0.93

00:59:11.320 because his wife is awful to him i think my things and just enjoying life i don't really 0.98

00:59:17.680 enjoy video games yeah like i used to i used to play destiny all the time but my friends were on

00:59:21.980 there and like i enjoyed destiny destiny it was it was one of those things at the time my ex played

00:59:27.260 so like we all oh hell no in my house there's no screaming aloud so if you're having a hissy fit 0.99

00:59:32.920 and you're screaming you go straight to your damn room and don't ever come back out until you start 0.99

00:59:38.300 acting normal okay well sometimes there's a baby in the car i'm just saying i'll play together it 0.99

00:59:44.960 was it was a community that we had but it wasn't like we were neglecting our lives to play video

00:59:50.380 games so if you have a scenario where you're a gaming couple and that's the hobby that you guys

00:59:56.020 have and you guys are fucking murking people on call of duty together you are spending quality 0.98

01:00:00.120 time in that aspect you both see that as quality time together right but if one person's miserable 0.98

01:00:05.240 and the other person's playing video games it's you really need to look at the scenario and try

01:00:09.920 to ascertain what's going on in your life that you're trying to escape i got nothing else to

01:00:14.620 say yeah okay whatever um woman quiets the toxic voice in her head when she sees her man play video 1.00

01:00:23.860 games my boyfriend loves to play video games and when he gets into his video games like sometimes

01:00:29.220 like he's you know playing for like three hours at a time and like i don't hear from him and i know

01:00:34.180 he's just probably playing video games or maybe he went to go do some laundry or like clean the

01:00:37.380 house or like whatever i don't know but like that intrusive thought comes in and it's like

01:00:42.340 he's cheating on you and i was like is he do we really think that that's plausible like no let's

01:00:48.260 be for real he's playing video games everything is fine you don't need to worry about this 1.00

01:00:53.620 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

01:00:58.240 Woman gives advice as to what to do with a guy that plays video games for hours or has a hobby. 1.00

01:01:04.880 What to do if the guy you're dating is addicted to video games and he's not giving you the attention that you want.

01:01:09.720 Let's talk about it.

01:01:11.080 Hi, my name is Gina DeBellis.

01:01:12.380 I'm a retired sergeant from the New York City Police Department.

01:01:14.620 I retired with almost 27 years on the job.

01:01:16.900 I have worked with thousands and thousands of men and I've interviewed hundreds of others for a book that I'm writing and a website I'm building.

01:01:22.360 wind I hate wind so let's talk about it um so this is going to be a video for the girl whose

01:01:29.120 boyfriend is always working on his car like he has like a classic car thing the girl whose

01:01:33.900 boyfriend is always fishing and the girl whose boyfriend is always playing video games all three

01:01:38.620 of you have similar problems and I'm sure it applies to other people so let's talk about it

01:01:42.440 when you met this guy that guy that you met in the beginning that was not your boyfriend that

01:01:47.880 was someone he was kind of portraying to be to kind of like woo you that was like his the wooing

01:01:54.080 guy he disappears after a little while and the guy that you get you know three four six months

01:01:59.960 into the relationship that is your boyfriend so please understand that guy in the beginning

01:02:04.640 he's not your boyfriend the guy six seven months later four five months later that is your boyfriend

01:02:09.840 so if he's not giving you the time and energy and effort that you want please understand you're

01:02:17.740 not going to change this man i have worked with men for so many years like i ran a detective squad

01:02:23.900 in brooklyn for 10 years before i retired like that's actually where i retired out of and i am

01:02:28.220 telling you you are not going to change a guy you're not going to change him so if he's spending

01:02:33.740 all of his time playing video games or working on his car likes to go fish you know that's what you 0.96

01:02:39.740 have that's what he is so for you to scream and yell and bitch and complain it's kind of like 0.99

01:02:46.620 you knew kind of what he was after a little while no one can keep up that you know that constant

01:02:53.580 you know energy of the beginning that's the beginning that's why it's called the honeymoon

01:02:57.260 period because it's the beginning it's long term it's how they are long term so if you're

01:03:03.660 not happy with the fact that he's always doing whatever activity he's doing you have to ask

01:03:09.020 yourself is this the relationship i want we're never going to get that to change it for you to

01:03:14.140 be complaining and losing your mind over it what you really might need to do is take a step back

01:03:19.020 and say is this the relationship i want because the person that you have is the person he is so

01:03:25.740 if you don't want a guy who's going to play video games all the time you what do you think you're

01:03:30.380 going to complain to him and he's going to stop no he's going to ignore you and he's still going

01:03:35.260 to play video games this is the man he is now will they change for another woman usually not 0.71

01:03:40.460 not, I'm sorry, they won't. Oh, well, the thing meets the right guard. No, men are who they are.

01:03:46.480 You get what you get. So if you don't like what you get, I suggest you get something different

01:03:50.420 or you accept them for the man that they are. But more than likely, when you meet a man,

01:03:55.900 if that's what he does, plays video games, works on his car, fishes, hunts, whatever his thing is,

01:04:02.020 that's who he is. So just try to accept him for who he is or just decide if that's not the right

01:04:06.000 relationship for you so i know that's probably not what you wanted to hear i hope this helped

01:04:10.780 take care and be well thank you for all the questions and comments and messages i love them

01:04:15.880 keep them coming okay bye-bye yeah that's right that's correct um that's the other thing it's

01:04:25.880 like what if you got him playing video games why would he change okay renal dolfo says i love how 0.99

01:04:35.920 patrice o'neill simplified that if women had no pussy what would they do to keep a man all the 1.00

01:04:42.340 answers were sexual but no female said tell better stories learn pool and play games crazy kyle here's 0.99

01:04:51.320 a thought i don't like girl streamers because they ruin the fun t carp as a dad of girl two girls i 0.87

01:04:58.300 gamed last night two hours after i got home i don't do it all the time but it's a balance

01:05:02.520 it's oh wait hold on I scrolled it

01:05:07.520 it's known that dad plays for when it's my time it's my time Kyle says to Doug and Pearl there's

01:05:17.420 only one game I could play that is and that is death standing pretty much delivering packages 0.75

01:05:22.760 also my career in life t-cart modern women just sound like they want to date other women or gay 1.00

01:05:28.860 dudes man doesn't have to change for a bitch just used it to get bitches okay i do men really change 1.00

01:05:39.820 at four to six months or do you know or do you just forget how lonely you were four to six months ago 0.99

01:05:48.060 that's a good question all right guys guy simps for women and says why men are addicted to video

01:05:55.100 games. Can I explain why men play video games 24-7? I can explain that the video game gives the man

01:06:03.100 a false sense of security about who he is. I believe that a lot of men that do this

01:06:10.560 you know kind of feel as though they don't live up to society's standards but in the video game

01:06:17.820 they can be whoever they want to be. They can be as good as they want to be. They can be everything

01:06:23.280 that they're not in real life in virtual reality. And I think it stems a lot from, especially men

01:06:30.720 these days, I think it stems a lot from social media, right? So think about social media.

01:06:35.180 You go to Facebook, pick a random guy on your Facebook, anybody, whether you know him or not.

01:06:39.880 Now you tell me how many posts has that guy made about who he really is, you know? How many

01:06:45.280 stressful posts has he made? How many posts has he made about how he doesn't have it together,

01:06:50.920 how he's not always traveling how he's not always dressed perfectly or the doc guys don't post at

01:06:57.080 all what are you talking about this should be to women my god picture tell me when his hair's

01:07:05.000 messed up tell me about the real life scenarios about who he really is i mean you can't do it

01:07:11.000 you can't do it because but these men don't care about social media they care about real life men

01:07:17.480 live through their video game because they can be as good as their little thumbs make them right

01:07:23.880 and they don't have to address any real issues of of real life that's that's my philosophy

01:07:33.640 so we're gonna do a call in today and

01:07:39.800 i want to hear from you guys you know maybe i'm wrong maybe the men shouldn't play video games

01:07:44.760 games what has your experience been with video games in relationships and do you think it's

01:07:52.020 good or bad so we're going to put a zoom link in the chat and I'm going to go through the

01:08:00.180 rules for calling in women I want to hear from you too maybe you have a strong opinion

01:08:09.660 um but I need to go through some rules so the first thing is I do need you guys's camera on

01:08:15.400 We've had some weird people call in before.

01:08:20.380 We really have, and it scarred me for life.

01:08:23.240 So you guys can thank them because now forever I need all your cameras on.

01:08:28.400 I do.

01:08:29.240 Camera on, I want you guys to put down the phone and make sure YouTube is not playing in the background.

01:08:38.500 And you can opt out of being on camera.

01:08:41.140 So to start, we're not going to put you guys on camera.

01:08:44.760 um but i'll ask you for your permission and um you can say no and that's fine we just won't put

01:08:51.880 you on the screen but i do need to see that you're a person i've had some i've had some weird look

01:08:59.560 guys one person played porn on screen and i'll never recover i'll never i saw things you know

01:09:09.080 um have a statement ready and please try to stay on topic um

01:09:15.560 I don't I I really don't like cutting people off it's really uh I need to get better at it on this

01:09:24.000 show but we try to keep people limited so we can get more people in my next rule is you don't get

01:09:30.920 to over talk me so I understand we get passionate sometimes we have a back and forth totally fine

01:09:38.360 we can but i do have to keep the show running i really we haven't really had issues in that

01:09:43.800 department for the most part but the biggest thing is camera on um do we have the yeah we

01:09:50.600 have the link in the chat i see it and we have larry on the call welcome to the show um are you

01:09:59.080 okay to be on camera yeah i'm fine i'm uh greetings from prog how are you girl i'm good how are you

01:10:06.040 you uh late at night i'm up late so oh yeah what are your thoughts on the topic what is your

01:10:13.480 experience been with video games and dating well well first of all i've been married for 12 years

01:10:19.440 three kids okay all of this stuff i'm a retired marine so video games was never really a big

01:10:25.800 thing for me i always how i always had them but use them as escapism um it's something you can

01:10:31.140 just shut off with and when the kids go to sleep as a cat but my wife's always been supportive 0.99

01:10:35.260 but i've never gone crazy with it i mean it's never been an addiction i what i wanted to

01:10:41.380 comment on it was um at a younger age i have three kids and they constantly want video games

01:10:47.300 and um especially my two boys and we're constantly like it's always going to be there guys we don't

01:10:53.140 want them to stunt their growth and get that they're very addicting they're very um

01:10:58.340 uh it can they can get enclosed in it and not in uh it's horrible for their social standings for

01:11:08.100 their uh hand-eye coordination that kind of stuff and you get hooked on an earlier age

01:11:12.260 i think it um it affects your in it you're the favorite your ability to control when you're an

01:11:17.740 adult i think that's what the problem is how old are your kids i have two boys that are 10 and 8

01:11:24.740 and a three-year-old baby girl is it hard um balancing the technology with them because i'm

01:11:32.580 assuming a lot of kids in their yes a lot of kids in their class have to have it i'm assuming or

01:11:37.380 maybe they don't yet they're actually no no they're actually in a montessori school which is very good

01:11:42.700 and the fact they don't they don't have they don't lean a lot on technology um which we agreed upon

01:11:48.620 but as far as their friends and everything else yeah that because they're exposed to a lot of

01:11:54.140 technology and a lot of internet stuff that uh we want to kind of sift on for as long as we can

01:11:59.480 do most of them like do their friends have cell phones i'm just curious how young the

01:12:07.360 kids are getting it now oh yes uh especially my 10 year old son all of his friends have

01:12:15.200 cell phones it seems like i think at least eight out of ten what about the eight-year-old do they 0.95

01:12:20.180 two or no uh it's more than half holy shit more than half of eight-year-olds have a is it a smart

01:12:26.400 cell phones i was i wouldn't say cell phones but they more than half definitely have some sort of 0.96

01:12:30.780 tablet or ipad or something like that holy crap wow yeah it's it's it's very bad and you see it

01:12:37.720 now and oh and uh i'm actually just starting college i've been in the marine corps for 20

01:12:42.320 years and i'm starting college with all these 19 20 year old kids and half of them have no social

01:12:46.880 skills they're so hesitant to talk to people they don't know how to interact because all they've

01:12:54.660 ever done has been attached to a screen okay well makes sense larry can't fight you on that one it's

01:13:01.720 a good point anyway no i've followed you a few years um i think you're very level-headed i like

01:13:08.320 your i like your debating tactics and uh keep up good work thanks larry for calling in calling

01:13:13.620 anytime and thank you for your service bye

01:13:22.340 did he just say his hair is messed up i wish i had hair

01:13:26.820 i know they don't appreciate what they have huh sorry i don't think women when do we lose hair 1.00

01:13:35.220 oh my god i don't want to think about that oh my goodness i don't want to think about it

01:13:41.860 phil what's going on are you good to be on camera sure can you hear me yeah i can are you good did

01:13:48.820 you say yeah you are fine well so what do you think of the video games or sorry what do you

01:13:54.580 think of the topic how has video games affected your relationships well i kind of think it affects

01:14:02.100 everything in our lives not just relationships and it's you know we used to call them time vampires

01:14:08.980 right it would take away just time that you can maybe be doing something else more productive

01:14:14.340 but at the same time you have to you know have some recreation and especially like in winter

01:14:18.740 when you really can't get out and do anything uh one of those comments you were reading in the

01:14:24.340 story was just trying to do things that maybe perhaps are mutually fulfilling versus uh but

01:14:31.460 first you know pearl i gotta tell you i'm i'm so upset that you said you're engaged i'm really

01:14:35.780 depressed i maybe you can help me with that i don't know i mean just oh okay just kidding

01:14:43.300 but i'm saying when you get into relationships obviously there's more intense issues going on so

01:14:49.380 you can understand why anything not just game gaming i mean you have a friend you know you're

01:14:55.060 spending too much time with your friend and they get upset or even men might get upset that the

01:15:00.660 women are this is pretty common right that empty nest thing yeah where you would remember you 1.00

01:15:05.940 mentioned about when they women get the kids get to about age four now they're getting bored and 0.89

01:15:12.180 their focus is now they got all this free time and they they go get divorced you know they tend to be

01:15:17.940 get dissatisfied at that point so i mean i think just in general video games have a pluses and

01:15:24.020 minuses and uh i myself i you know when i was younger i spent way too much time playing video

01:15:30.340 games and this kind of was in the early advent of them so they were pretty low uh low grade but

01:15:36.900 they were still addicting you know incredible i mean the only thing i do now is maybe play a little

01:15:41.140 solitaire because you could just kill it and who cares but most of these games you got to play

01:15:47.300 hours and hours and save it in hours you know weeks and then they talk about each oh did you

01:15:52.580 conquer this game and it's like you know it's just i don't know i think i think the point is more

01:15:57.540 that women waste hours and hours on doing like they have time wasters too but men don't nag them 1.00

01:16:03.620 about it no i agree i but you know i think there is a uh a neediness there for for women that 1.00

01:16:11.860 aren't so much there for men for that interactive behavior where men are like just they love to

01:16:19.060 think of their wives or girlfriends as friends just that you hang out with but that's women 1.00

01:16:24.420 actually need more than that i'm not you know poo-pooing women i'm just saying that's the 1.00

01:16:29.380 nature of women is they they need that closer relationship that you know a lot of times men 1.00

01:16:35.300 have a difficult time providing them yeah like you mentioned earlier about it they came in their

01:16:40.180 families close and a more of a community kind of feel to everything where men men don't want that

01:16:46.020 we want to just be left alone you know and do our own thing yeah yeah i could tell you i'm sorry

01:16:52.980 that's okay thank you for calling um phil it's a pleasure having you on as always thanks pearls

01:16:59.700 good to see you good to see you i'm gonna read bye i'm gonna read the chat while we get to the next

01:17:05.540 caller fazelle says i'm not usually a fan of blue collar however your outfit looks absolutely

01:17:12.660 outstanding you pull it off effortless oh you talked about this i thought you meant the blue

01:17:18.740 collar thank you fazel he said he's not simping okay okay um no i'm kidding the there's no video

01:17:31.220 game that can waste a man's time more than social media waste a woman's time hey women will divorce 1.00

01:17:36.180 women will break up their whole family for social media i've never seen a guy 1.00

01:17:40.820 break up his whole family for a league of legends but women will get on tick tock 1.00

01:17:45.460 break up their whole family over tick tock and then admit it at least lie

01:17:53.300 like that's the thing like they could they could lie i mean you know some there i i am against

01:17:58.740 lying but there's some lying that's kind of being nice you know what i mean like it's kind of like

01:18:05.300 when men cheat and they lie to spare the woman's feelings and everyone's like be honest be honest

01:18:10.980 be honest but if she's gonna stay anyway and then you have to like argue with her for two weeks you

01:18:16.420 might as well just lie you know the women it's like if you're gonna divorce him and it's gonna 1.00

01:18:22.820 be for a stupid reason you could just tell everyone that he that it was like a they're not 1.00

01:18:30.100 abuse but like you're making it worse by telling everyone that you divorced him for a stupid reason 1.00

01:18:36.820 going around the town anyways um crazy kyle says women waste time by watching lifetime back in the 1.00

01:18:44.900 day how did i know because my mother used to watch and i would be forced to or i would watch it with

01:18:49.940 my mom pearl i've spent thousands on video games and thousands of hours playing them nowadays i

01:18:55.700 just see them as a waste of time it's okay bennett but now we have we have chris on the line chris are

01:19:01.380 you good to be on camera yeah okay welcome to the show chris what are your thoughts how have video

01:19:07.780 games impacted your relationships yeah a long time no see can you hear me okay yeah i can hear you

01:19:15.060 all right fantastic um before i get to that can i answer a question that you had earlier you can

01:19:19.540 tell me no but it's about why macho men you know those tough guys are actually scared of women and

01:19:25.700 i can tie it into the video games the hierarchy of something did you see it no sorry it's okay

01:19:32.100 i just started a master's degree so i got in late on your episode it's okay tell me

01:19:37.380 okay so being a united states marine raw simplify um women actually study the rank structure and the 1.00

01:19:45.780 format of military life and especially from the lens of the united states marine corps if somebody

01:19:50.260 has an issue and they want it taken care of to the degree where they actually mess with a man's life 0.99

01:19:55.380 or a man's career they will actually go to the chain of command with that issue and they will 0.93

01:20:01.780 even go so far as to articulate what level of an issue it is because we all know garbage rolls

01:20:07.140 downhill depending on what level of the hierarchy you're bringing it to right so if it's like the

01:20:12.180 company first sergeant for example just somebody high ranking and then it goes through all these

01:20:16.580 different filters until it gets to you depending on your rank and then now you have the weight of

01:20:21.540 so many people on your shoulders when it could have been handled behind closed doors it could

01:20:25.220 have been handled in the family environment um so it's an absolute stressful situation i'll spare

01:20:31.460 you the details on how i've experienced it needless to say how this ties into the video game issue

01:20:37.260 I've heard and found credible sources to suggest this.

01:20:42.520 I won't give them to you right now.

01:20:44.260 The biggest three complaints of what women have, why men don't pay attention to them, they pay attention to these other things. 0.54

01:20:51.000 The top three that I've discovered were porn.

01:20:54.080 I don't know if you're allowed to say that now on social media, so I'm just changing it.

01:20:57.960 I want to protect your brand.

01:20:59.800 Corn, video games, and alcohol.

01:21:02.220 um regardless of the order not important but clearly it's in the top three

01:21:06.800 um my point on video games is that it's it's amazing how many people in modern day are trying

01:21:17.420 to demonize it to the extreme some of the examples that you saw on later in your podcast uh some of

01:21:23.520 the video content before you got to q a was about demonizing it to the degree of looking at it from

01:21:29.500 the lens of such an extreme problem where somebody can't turn it off for hours on end um or they have

01:21:35.800 to like get to a save point which i i get it but like if your family's immediately injured and like

01:21:41.260 they need medical attention or something something equally extreme can you peel yourself away from it

01:21:46.220 if the answer is yes it's probably not that much of an addiction or a problem um so i get where

01:21:51.620 some people are what's the word um over flaring it over embellishing it to the degree where they

01:21:59.780 say you know what this is such an extreme it's such a a pandemic at that point that we need to

01:22:05.340 do something about it but at the same time you can say that about anything i had the same thing

01:22:10.960 with drumming before i left for the marine corps um i was doing that 24 7 you could call that an

01:22:16.780 addiction, but I could drop it at any point to go help somebody, like help my mom with making

01:22:22.220 dinner for the holiday or something, like whatever it was. So I think there's a fine line that needs

01:22:27.400 to be addressed in this conversation that unfortunately I haven't seen. And I'm not

01:22:32.120 saying like you haven't addressed, I'm seeing in all these other examples, people are always

01:22:36.040 driving to one side or the other, either it's too much or it's not enough, as opposed to just

01:22:41.280 saying, okay, let's talk about the three lenses. It's too much, it's not enough, or maybe it's just

01:22:45.000 in the middle where it's a healthy balance of hobby versus addiction yeah so um i i don't think

01:22:51.300 it's a bad thing but i i think too much of anything is a bad thing and that could include fishing that

01:22:57.000 could include you know any other hobby under the sun i just wish more people would handle this with

01:23:03.280 a little bit more i guess care and responsibility in the public dialogue but i think you're doing

01:23:09.120 great things here and i appreciate your level-headed conversation and all you're doing

01:23:12.640 no that's a great point because um it's not like most people men can't keep a stable job and play

01:23:19.820 video games like most men i've seen that play them a lot it's just something they do they might stay

01:23:24.000 up too late and miss out on sleep but they still get up and do their job would you agree absolutely

01:23:31.720 yeah oh 100 percent um my oldest brother is a huge fan of video games been playing it all his

01:23:37.380 life but he still functions he's still got two degrees yeah in um graphic arts and design and

01:23:43.240 stuff so i'm convinced there is a healthy balance to it i just wish more people would address

01:23:48.140 that elephant that doesn't even make it into the room to be conversed about yeah well that's a

01:23:53.060 great point chris i appreciate you calling in calling anytime thank you so much have a good

01:23:58.020 one you too i'm gonna read the comments guys i'm reading the comments on the website between

01:24:03.520 callers so if you have a comment about what the caller's saying i read them off of the audacity

01:24:08.960 network.com first link is in the chat um 80 bucks a year and um you get unlimited comments

01:24:20.160 pearl there are games out there that have a good storyline that help the imagination but these new

01:24:24.880 games they're all woke i have heard about the ladies ruining video games i have this is i i 0.83

01:24:31.120 have a life cycle of men's hobbies where men make something cool not all youtube not all but they

01:24:38.160 make something cool then women say oh that's cool let me join and the men are like oh hot women here

01:24:43.440 you go come on in and then the women say don't enjoy it like that and then they ruin it and make 1.00

01:24:48.560 it woke especially if the women are too hot in the games they say make them uglier i don't know is that 1.00

01:24:54.720 that what's going on i don't play video games but i've seen that in like media and like movies and

01:25:01.120 such so um welcome to the show carlos are you good to be on camera yeah i'm good i'm good welcome to

01:25:09.780 the show what are your thoughts how have video games affected your relationships well first of

01:25:15.940 all nice to meet you i've been following your show for a while it's it's nice to have a nice

01:25:20.080 a catholic woman that you know refreshes like uh the image of a woman right because i feel like a

01:25:26.860 lot of guys are very you know uh distrustful thing um but yeah regarding video games you know

01:25:33.700 um i i'm i think i have a bit of like a balanced perspective because i grew up in cuba where there

01:25:40.020 were no video games or barely any so i got to play like around and you know climb trees and

01:25:45.520 we used to like have like uh seasons for different like games we'd play with you know kids in the

01:25:50.380 neighborhood like we'd have like dart season like little like ball like season and stuff like that

01:25:55.900 um and then i came here and there's a different culture right you're more isolated um and i think

01:26:03.080 my main sort of like position right now with gaming is is um you know because i did have that

01:26:10.440 experience when I was younger, is, oh, what's going on here is the only place where there's

01:26:16.340 this alignment of the myth of a man's purpose, right, to take on these challenges and hone

01:26:22.660 your skill, and a positive feedback is sometimes only found in video games.

01:26:28.180 Because growing up, just saying things that you know are true, for whatever cultural reason,

01:26:35.320 you get a punishment.

01:26:36.600 And I think Jordan Peterson talks about that, how if you really want to mess somebody up,

01:26:40.720 you punish them when they do something good and you reward them when they do something bad.

01:26:44.600 And I think people get caught in these weird loops.

01:26:50.000 And I think it also has to do with self-consciousness, like feeling like you've made a mistake.

01:26:57.380 And maybe, again, I come from a more of a Hispanic background,

01:27:02.860 So there's a little bit more of like a tolerance, right?

01:27:07.480 And what I've noticed is I think more people would be more comfortable outside.

01:27:16.500 Maybe more kids would be more comfortable outside if they didn't feel self-conscious.

01:27:20.820 I think we've lost like the rules around like just having a good time in public.

01:27:27.640 And I think a lot of men just feel like I can never be myself because the second that

01:27:33.220 I like, like a part of that part of my brain shuts off that tells me that I'm self conscious.

01:27:39.200 Immediately someone or someone like that is highly self conscious or that like doesn't

01:27:43.160 want someone else to have fun, right, which tends to be the case, just interjects, right.

01:27:50.580 And tries to make yourself conscious and women do this a lot, which is another psychological 1.00

01:27:55.320 fact, right.

01:27:57.460 And so I think, you know, I've been going to church recently a lot, and I love it because

01:28:02.220 I get to, like, feel like a man and not feel self-conscious and feel like, yes, I know

01:28:10.080 that, I prefer that a man is the head of the household. 0.88

01:28:14.100 Oh, my God, I don't have to feel self-conscious here.

01:28:16.560 I don't have to play some game and walk on eggshells.

01:28:19.340 So I think the solution for all this, like, escapism would be a cultural shift or, like,

01:28:27.460 And that could happen, maybe just men have to do it themselves, just find spaces where

01:28:33.400 there's not so much like judgment and self consciousness. And I think that's going to

01:28:38.660 have to include certain rules, which is like excluding women. I know in the manosphere, 1.00

01:28:43.480 that's kind of like a thing where you just exclude women, because I've noticed women a lot will try 1.00

01:28:49.300 to get a man, but they'll never say they want that man. And they'll like, sort of learn how to

01:28:53.260 mimic certain like male behaviors to be like oh I can hang but a lot of what a man is and a lot of

01:28:59.980 male bonding is like problem solving and talking about the atrocities of the world and I noticed 0.99

01:29:05.620 that when that when that subject or that subject matter is included women tend to flake and I think 1.00

01:29:14.860 a lot of women have been like convinced like just from all this propaganda you know social media 1.00

01:29:19.740 to just think that if like a man is not giving you this like perfect image then that's not a

01:29:26.540 good man he's like a loser or something whereas most men that do that either i don't want to

01:29:35.380 have something sketchy going on or are just lying to them right yeah which you can just do you know 0.57

01:29:42.420 it's up to you but i don't know what what's your thoughts i don't know that's kind of my take yeah

01:29:46.920 on which part well on i guess uh i guess initially it's uh like the self-consciousness aspect right

01:29:57.320 of like it's like the second that you calm calm down and you kind of start being yourself in public

01:30:03.880 um because there's so much media uh i think this is like like there's like no cultural

01:30:10.280 sort of like understanding and yeah it's a self-consciousness thing right where you kind

01:30:15.400 of realize like oh i can't be like this here because it's a problem yeah well women can't 1.00

01:30:19.720 take how men talk when we're not around and they get offended and so that's essentially what you

01:30:25.480 guys have your spaces where you can be more of yourselves and like speak a different way that

01:30:30.680 like more direct and women can't take it so they go into those spaces because you guys usually 1.00

01:30:36.360 you guys make cool stuff and so we want to be a part of it and then we tone police that's like

01:30:42.120 how it tends to go yeah yeah i've had experiences like that where you're trying to bond with a man

01:30:47.480 and a woman interjects to defend the guy because she thinks you insulted him but then 1.00

01:30:52.280 that's how guys bond you kind of just bust each other's balls and like you get along 0.59

01:30:56.040 yeah i saw so much i saw a video of a plumber a female plumber and to start the way their 0.73

01:31:01.960 initiation is to like i don't i don't understand this but they send the person who starts like on

01:31:07.880 their first day to the store to get something that's not there and the shop owner looks at 0.71

01:31:12.520 them stupid but that's how they initiate anyone and she started crying and putting it on tick tock 0.94

01:31:17.560 but she went into the guy's spaces and the way that they initiate is to kind of like hazing 1.00

01:31:22.680 essentially and men kind of know that's something that you go through like my brother he was in a

01:31:28.360 frat and i was there when they were doing the hazing and for me i was like i cannot believe

01:31:33.480 they're doing this to each other but they they're like best friends to this day so they just don't

01:31:38.920 yeah you know so i i've seen that too yeah yeah and the whole thing of that is also just like are

01:31:44.840 you are you self-conscious because like if you're gonna make a change in the world you're gonna do

01:31:49.080 things that a lot of people are not gonna like but you have to just know that's the right thing

01:31:53.720 right and that's a big part and for women for some reason you know i'm not you know maybe conservative

01:31:58.920 women i don't like that but um i don't know i don't know what's going on with that i don't

01:32:03.400 know why there's such a because we're just trying to make the world like a better place to chill 0.76

01:32:07.400 in general so conservative thank you conservative women are worse be careful 1.00

01:32:12.600 thanks for calling it yeah thanks for calling it okay um all right i'm gonna read the look i 0.98

01:32:23.000 I actually have a working theory as to why the conservative women are actually worse 1.00

01:32:29.020 than liberal women. 0.99

01:32:30.780 Hear me out.

01:32:33.240 Now there was a point when I was doing my interviews where I'd interviewed a thousand

01:32:37.440 people and I had to retroactively look back. 0.97

01:32:42.020 Which women were the nicest to me out of these thousand and which ones were the bitchiest? 1.00

01:32:46.120 Now to be fair, my number one draft pick has to be the ghetto, the ghetto women. 1.00

01:32:52.960 that's got to be number one they i mean when a woman on your show and people are going to make 1.00

01:32:59.100 that a race thing it's not it's not even the the woman who threatened to catch a body and i i thought

01:33:06.060 it was like a body count but like a real body she was white so this is that ghetto transcends race 1.00

01:33:12.460 that's number one someone's gonna clip that i'm gonna get in trouble i don't care anymore guys

01:33:16.800 do it do it whatever my number two draft pick it's going to be conservative women and i had 1.00

01:33:24.240 to think about why and i was like why are the conservative women so uptight and and i came 0.96

01:33:29.920 to a conclusion recently it's because so they go to church right and most churches they only demonize

01:33:37.680 sins that male do men do they don't demonize they don't talk i've never heard to this day

01:33:43.920 i have never heard a sermon on wives being not real women same way they say if a man doesn't

01:33:50.640 work he's not a real man you're not providing i've never heard one about women not sorry 0.95

01:33:55.920 having sex but women do that all the time i've never heard a sermon ever and so what i realize 0.94

01:34:03.680 is they go to church and they're never told they ain't they're they're only told 0.95

01:34:08.560 that the men need to wait for you don't let the men pressure you they're never told 1.00

01:34:13.920 you guys are whores like put it put your clothes like stop being whores and you're a bad woman if 1.00

01:34:19.980 you do that so what they do is they go to church and they get all of the ego like the virtue 1.00

01:34:26.740 signaling so they can put on crosses they can put a bible verse in their bio they can take pictures

01:34:33.800 praying and so they get all of the good person points but they don't have to do any of the work

01:34:39.840 so they have a bigger ego because the liberal women are like well I guess I'm a bad person and 1.00

01:34:46.000 they let you know up front they say you know what I am bad I am a whore and the men are like well 0.98

01:34:53.880 we can work with this and I have to happen to think I was like why are the worst women I've met 1.00

01:35:00.660 like why are why are the worst divorce stories I've seen I mean other than the liberal women 1.00

01:35:06.760 that transition so to be fair like i've seen both but some of the worst ones were conservative women 1.00

01:35:13.080 i mean hillary crowder was going to all of steven's work colleagues and calling him an abuser

01:35:19.160 and i thought their ego was tied into being a good person and so anything that they've done

01:35:27.240 that makes them a bad person they don't want the man to say so they got to destroy him or the

01:35:32.200 liberal woman at times she's like i'm a bad person anyway so if she gets divorced no one's surprised 1.00

01:35:38.520 she's like well i'm a whore that's that's my analysis now you guys could disagree with me 0.99

01:35:45.720 you're totally welcome but the conservative women they're almost worse because now like 1.00

01:35:51.640 the nala woman she's like a new conservative woman now she's gonna go around and tell everyone else 1.00

01:35:57.480 like me how i'm not a real kid i'm not good enough when the did porn 0.97

01:36:05.400 at least when she was a porn star she's like yup i am a porn star i preferred her before i really 1.00

01:36:12.120 did they're like would you rather she did porn yes i would rather her do porn than grift religion 0.91

01:36:20.920 yeah like at least admit they're like isn't it better that she stopped no 0.98

01:36:24.600 it is not better to have her put a jesus cross on do sexual things 1.00

01:36:31.800 with the jesus cross on you you might as well and then speak like talk about the bible like 1.00

01:36:40.260 she knows what she's talking about with slutty clothes on you might as go be a porn star that's 1.00

01:36:46.160 what you obviously want to do could you stop pretending you don't want to go do it but then 0.99

01:36:53.260 she's like, well, if I'm saved, then that means you have to stop your behavior. What am I doing,

01:36:57.500 Nala? What am I doing? You got tag-teamed on camera. Anyways, that's the equivalent. The 0.98

01:37:05.860 only difference is the older Christian women have more of an ego. Their shit's not on camera, 1.00

01:37:11.080 so they can pretend it didn't happen. The older women, they come in and they say, 1.00

01:37:18.020 we didn't do that back in the day bullshit i heard about woodstock i heard about the 70s 0.76

01:37:26.040 there was a woman there's that that woman that goes around on the college campuses and she said 1.00

01:37:30.960 i was a hoe like that old lady i don't know if you guys have seen her but she said back in the 60s 1.00

01:37:36.660 they were hoeing on campus but all all of you guys as mothers and you guys are simps because 0.99

01:37:42.600 think your moms are telling the truth simps she's lying to they're all lying unless okay

01:37:50.360 if your mom got married at 18 she might not have done anything now these girls are starting at 14 1.00

01:37:59.320 get out of here but that's that's why they're worse okay that's why in my experience it's

01:38:07.240 unless they go down the trans route the lefty ladies those have to be the number one you know 1.00

01:38:13.080 it's gonna go the ghetto ladies the pro trans the ones that want to transition the kids then 1.00

01:38:18.040 the tradcon women i don't know let me know your thought i'm gonna make a hierarchy of how 1.00

01:38:23.000 the woman is okay i'm sorry about that rant guys we're gonna get back to the callers welcome to the

01:38:30.200 show oh my gosh what teriyak teriyak thank you i'm not good at pronouncing no problem no problem

01:38:37.960 are you good to be on camera yeah so what do you think of the topic um on video games how has that

01:38:46.440 affected your relationships yeah so for me like personally what i was saying is that like

01:38:52.360 fundamentally no matter what the guy does the long as he's happy without her if it doesn't involve

01:38:58.120 her she somehow finds an issue with it you know i'm saying and i think it's like that deep inner

01:39:03.320 thing it's like if he can be happy without me he doesn't need me as much and it kind of plays on

01:39:07.340 them in terms of that role uh because like how many times like would we bring up like video games

01:39:11.620 and all this kind of stuff we never address like how much time women spend on social media never 1.00

01:39:16.820 exactly you know what i mean and it's like we look at like we can point to like elon musk as

01:39:22.480 an example like he's like a multi-billionaire has all these uh companies all the stuff and then he's

01:39:26.860 also one of the top ranked diablo players in the world so if he can spend time to play video games

01:39:33.080 you know what i mean but it's and and then often like when you see the argument it's always like

01:39:37.180 oh if he's spending eight hours a day on video games but it's like like at that point it's like

01:39:41.300 an addiction you know i mean we're just talking about a hobby not an addiction you know i mean

01:39:44.820 but it's always this kind of thing like an excuse to blame the man um and then also like i said like

01:39:50.140 you can you like some people say oh you just find a better hobby and all that but i i just point

01:39:54.660 them towards twitch which was supposed to be a gaming website where a bunch of nurses went on 0.83

01:39:59.680 streaming and playing a game and it was like a website for nerds buy nerds kind of thing and

01:40:04.600 what happened all these only fans chick all these e-thoughts came on and they basically turned it

01:40:09.240 into a software porn website essentially so like i said it's to me it's just like another excuse

01:40:15.040 for women to just be mad at their husbands essentially what do you think is the average 0.60

01:40:19.460 screen time for women

01:40:21.000 I have it here

01:40:25.300 guess what the average screen time for women is 1.00

01:40:27.580 a day

01:40:28.320 like how many hours a day

01:40:29.980 on their phone

01:40:31.120 I want to be conservative

01:40:35.640 and say 4 or 5 hours

01:40:37.780 maybe 7 and a half

01:40:39.480 you know what I mean

01:40:42.640 and then we're saying that the guys were spending

01:40:44.380 8 hours a day

01:40:46.880 video games

01:40:47.840 yeah i mean that's a young woman that's gen z but let's see oh i know it's actually pretty 0.96

01:40:53.180 bad when you go higher it's 25 to 34 seven hours still six and a half 35 45 and up it's six hours

01:41:00.580 yeah well i agree with you well thank you for calling in a pleasure as always

01:41:07.880 pleasure as always i want one more i'm going to read the pearl the purpose isn't to bond with

01:41:15.060 the greenhorn. We aren't making friends. We're humbling the guy, letting him know that we're

01:41:20.140 more than him and testing his mettle. Okay, Dane. If you're working in a shipyard, you send the new

01:41:27.060 guy to work or get something in the bowling alley. Oh, wait. Oh, I'm reading these out of order.

01:41:32.360 Sorry, Dane. You send the new guy to get a beam stretcher or sky hook. If you're working in a

01:41:37.280 shipyard, you send the new guy to get a work or get something from the bowling alley. The purpose

01:41:42.120 isn't to bond with that greenhorn we ain't making friends we're humbling the guy and letting him 0.99

01:41:48.200 know that we are more than him and testing his mettle bon goon says i've been shooting the crap 0.95

01:41:54.280 in twitter spaces um fazelle says hooray jarhead pearl i saw oh wait i've read that already crazy 0.89

01:42:03.400 cow there are games out there though i brought that okay you know what there's one other thing i

01:42:09.400 wanted i want to ask you guys in the chat and i was just had this poll the other day

01:42:18.760 there was a billionaire on the titanic right i always hear that like men should sacrifice

01:42:25.000 for women and children if elon musk and grimes were on a boat

01:42:32.440 don't you think we should save elon musk and let grimes and the kid go we can make another 1.00

01:42:37.720 elon can have another kid grimes is a crazy woman right 1.00

01:42:45.720 we can't get another elon musk like that would affect the country for the next 50 years 1.00

01:42:52.680 anyways these are just random pearl thoughts fazelle says uh there's nothing wrong with

01:42:58.040 playing video games it's just these are attention seekers von goon says no way elon has got time to

01:43:05.400 grind that character lol he's an efficient guy okay welcome to the show tony are you good to be

01:43:13.480 on camera uh yeah sure can you hear me yeah i can hear you so what do you think of the topic how

01:43:20.200 has video games affected your relationships um well i just think it's just like a it's just a

01:43:28.360 male space that to escape from because there's no other place that men can go to nowadays and um i

01:43:37.080 mean the only things that i can think of that have a male space are like brazilian jujitsu

01:43:42.280 and video games so um that's that's what i think that's what gravitates men towards

01:43:51.720 playing video games right this is just it's just so messed up man like what are you supposed to do

01:43:56.280 like you want to start a family you want to get married well have fun getting divorced or you

01:44:02.560 know what i mean like it's fucked up there's nothing uh sorry about the swearing but um 0.96

01:44:09.360 there's not a lot of safe places men can go to yeah what do you think about women that nag video 1.00

01:44:17.000 games and say the men aren't productive enough they're just doing it for themselves at the end 0.94

01:44:23.900 of the day like they're on social media what like you said like eight hours a day yeah so like

01:44:28.480 what's the difference between social media and video games and like i don't even think most men

01:44:33.640 play eight hours a day yeah i think like maybe on like a weekend we might play yeah sure like

01:44:39.600 there's some cool like games where men can bond like there's like military sim games and stuff

01:44:43.680 like that that i play every once in a while and it's just like a bunch of guys and you know what

01:44:49.020 mean like we can just say and do whatever the we want we don't need to you know um a man spends

01:44:56.220 video games a single session one to two hours on average yeah so well well thank you that's a very

01:45:06.780 good point tony thanks for calling in oh yeah no problem and i just want to say like nala and like

01:45:13.660 that whole situation there it's just like conservatives love her because like they just

01:45:18.780 it just gives them an excuse to promote their religion like that's all it is like like porn

01:45:23.820 star turned uh christian and jesus saved her and like look how great jesus is right and that's like

01:45:31.980 the only thing that's why they love her so much yeah they want at the end of the day it's all about

01:45:36.780 yeah they want to be right so bad yeah and they just want to you know make the moolah yeah well

01:45:45.260 thanks for calling in tony calling anytime it's a pleasure thank you conservatives that 0.93

01:45:52.220 support nala are ridiculous is what doug says in the chat look guys i understand getting bamboozled

01:46:01.660 once look i i gave britney runner way too fair of an interview at the time i mean to be fair 0.87

01:46:07.740 i did let her hang herself i really did but going back at the time i was so busy i wish i could

01:46:15.100 people could understand at that point i was doing like two or three pieces of content a day i was

01:46:20.060 stressed out however um and it was it was just me scripting them but you know i understand getting

01:46:29.900 bamboozled once but michael i've i've done whole streams giving you receipts this is getting

01:46:35.660 ridiculous um next on the show we got oh my gosh it's small in the corner rodolfo rodolfo am i

01:46:44.620 saying it right are you good to be on camera yeah yeah i'm outside so i don't have the best lighting

01:46:50.060 that's okay where are you at it looks very nice it's like uh very spacious i'm in texas

01:46:56.780 um in my backyard is it warm there no i mean we had that cold week so it's like 40 50 degrees

01:47:05.820 right now it's pretty nice i'm from chicago you know so um what do you think of the topic how have

01:47:15.420 um how have video games affected your relationships

01:47:20.620 um so a lot of the girls i dated they really didn't care but the last two 1.00

01:47:26.780 The one girl was into Skyrim a lot, and she bought me an Xbox One,

01:47:30.760 but I was a Sim back then.

01:47:34.140 She was a single mom.

01:47:36.000 So, you know, after a year, I was like, you know what?

01:47:38.500 I really don't want to live this life.

01:47:40.580 So I gave her back the Xbox, and I broke up and whatnot.

01:47:43.660 But the girl I'm dating now, she loves playing video games. 1.00

01:47:48.540 And, you know, me too, right?

01:47:49.940 I grew up with Pokemon, Game Boy Advance, and all that stuff.

01:47:54.100 So it's been a lot of fun.

01:47:56.080 we get a it's nice knowing that she can understand where i'm coming from and not like uh somebody

01:48:02.160 outside looking in kind of situation would you say that's a plus for you like dating her like

01:48:07.920 would you say it's like something that drew you in when you were deciding to date her or not or no

01:48:12.800 um yeah it was a plus yeah yeah because um like it doesn't like i had to go through an evolution

01:48:25.220 process or whatever but i remember thinking like why would i want a girl that's super hot and fit

01:48:30.820 and athletic if i'm not going to the gym you're like i'm not going to be able to catch up to her

01:48:35.620 level so this girl if she plays video games well she's on my level you know she can understand why 1.00

01:48:41.700 i love shooting people and you know in in minecraft uh as they say yeah well but oh well

01:48:50.740 sorry um well i was gonna i caught the last bit of the last guy i'm only on my phone so i can't

01:48:55.700 watch your your stream at the same time but i wanted to say that i think the other guy mentioned

01:49:01.940 it but i think the reason why conservatives and a lot of other people are attacking games is because

01:49:07.780 it's the last bastion where men could be men because you know it used to be that where you

01:49:13.140 went to a mechanic shop you could you know have pin-up dolls and tell dirty jokes and things like

01:49:19.780 that but they took that away they took comedians away they took funny radio stations away they took

01:49:25.300 youtube away they took everything away where men could be men they're even taking away the gym

01:49:29.940 like you can't even work out without a girl assault accusing you of sexually assaulting them

01:49:35.060 so uh but it's like christianity everybody attacks it because it's so easy because the christians

01:49:41.300 don't fight back but nobody ever attacks buddha or you know muslims or anything like that because 0.86

01:49:46.580 they're cowards basically but that's why the conservatives love to jump on video games and 0.97

01:49:52.560 anime and stuff like that because they want to please the women more than they just want to 0.93

01:49:56.740 leave men alone yeah that's a great point that's a really good point yeah but hopefully i'm not

01:50:04.460 being too boring right now but no you're good um thanks for calling in that was a really great

01:50:10.260 point yeah no problem hey love your stuff you're doing god's work and uh keep up the good fight

01:50:15.180 thank you yeah no problem enjoy the warmth because i don't have it here okay let's see there is um

01:50:25.640 i'm single and i've stopped playing video games this is the wrong show for me joel says my husband

01:50:31.720 plays video games on his day off i learned his favorite video game so i could appreciate its

01:50:37.700 difficulty and talk about it knowledgeably when he plays i hang out or do my own thing in proximity

01:50:43.740 Dane says, the problem with video games is it's not productive.

01:50:46.720 It doesn't produce anything that builds society.

01:50:49.640 Nothing wrong with having some downtime when it's a huge part of your life.

01:50:53.600 Feminine.

01:50:54.860 I screw off, too.

01:50:56.660 But when my nonproductive time is so much of my life that it's part of my identity,

01:51:00.980 then I'm acting like a woman.

01:51:01.960 Dane, the average session is one to two hours.

01:51:06.800 Where are you? 1.00

01:51:08.960 Fazal says, God can't help himself with these bitches. 1.00

01:51:12.820 oh you guys are cracking me up crazy men are so much funnier than women 1.00

01:51:19.060 you know i think i'm funny for a woman for a woman no youtube not all not all but

01:51:26.220 even the average guy will be funnier than me like by a lot you know okay

01:51:33.080 pearl women are indian givers lol dane i'm old when video games games came out in the 80s they 1.00

01:51:40.640 were child toys as boys grew up into manhood they took on more mature and productive hobbies so to

01:51:45.700 me they're symbols of immaturity these guys are whining about women taking away their spaces sound 0.86

01:51:51.380 weak because they keep running to the next place instead of standing up and telling the woman to

01:51:56.040 have a seat and hush dane how okay i want to play this out i want you to think about this

01:52:01.980 so if they go to the gym right and the women come in they're like let me in the gym and the men are 0.98

01:52:08.240 like okay the average guy doesn't have the power to kick women out of the gym the average men don't

01:52:16.080 have like i went to a gun range and there's like um a female gun sport like most men you could say

01:52:22.920 the met the business owners are simping but the men don't spend money like women like do you guys 0.99

01:52:28.320 know how many membership i'm gonna like pretend pander right now i'm gonna pretend do you know

01:52:32.880 how much money i could have if i just said you know what let me let me just let me just tell you

01:52:37.780 how I can make him I could have made a million dollars you know what women he just does not 1.00

01:52:45.720 appreciate you you are a queen thank god you dumped his ass because really he didn't know 0.99

01:52:53.240 what he had until you left him but you know luckily I can help you guys out have your post 0.98

01:53:00.700 breakup glow up here's my thing I'm selling or here's my community that I'm gonna sell to help

01:53:07.600 women level up in their love lives or or god it's so easy or here you know what the real diet and 1.00

01:53:14.880 fitness is going to be too hard for you ladies so i'm going to sell you some other like fitness 1.00

01:53:20.660 class that's not too much i could sell fitness classes to help you get over your man

01:53:25.880 you deserve the best here's the media with the guy that the girl that's average dating 1.00

01:53:33.240 the guy out of her league boom i could be a billionaire but i chose to be honest what an l

01:53:41.800 sorry guys okay okay um crazy kyle i go to the gym to be filmed being a straight 1.00

01:53:48.840 asshole to these tick tock losers they have dollar bills they could join together tell the 0.99

01:53:55.400 owners to stop that simp they could start their own gyms they could buy equipment for their homes 1.00

01:54:00.600 but you got dane you got to think about this okay so let's say let's say the men get together and

01:54:06.760 say we want our own gym it's gonna go freaking out of business because you know what would happen

01:54:11.160 they would say this is the price for memberships and all the men would say f that i can work out

01:54:15.960 at home then he can make it triple he can say like male gyms are like 20 bucks a month how much do 0.90

01:54:23.080 you guys pay for your gym female they can charge 150 plus a pop so they say ladies 150 200 for a 1.00

01:54:33.640 yoga session and then he can make you guys got to think about 80 percent of consumer buying

01:54:40.360 decisions so you can make two dollars or you could make eight dollars what are they you're like

01:54:49.080 Like, and then you're going to tell them, I know you have to pay a ridiculous amount for a gym

01:54:54.300 because these women are driving up the prices. Sorry, Dane. I don't think the average, one, 1.00

01:55:01.540 the average man doesn't have too much power. Two, the average man doesn't care that much. He's like,

01:55:05.920 I don't care. I'm just going to go work out at home. That's too much work. You want him to

01:55:10.840 organize a gym protest these men have jobs they're not women like they do things at work 0.98

01:55:20.440 he doesn't have time to go oh let me just let me just organize a protest like we need a male 1.00

01:55:27.720 only gym let me fight these gym owners the guys say you win i'm going home i'll get i'll get um

01:55:34.120 I'll make a home gym I'll do some push-ups good enough Dane when these men get together crying 0.96

01:55:40.780 about how these women are driving them out of their own gyms they sound like women they're not 1.00

01:55:45.100 crying nobody on here was crying I didn't see anyone crying Dane can you can you let the men

01:55:52.880 like talk about their problem they're not even Dane you're simping again we've talked about this

01:55:59.380 problem with you we've talked about this i'm gonna have to call you again okay fazelle wants to know

01:56:06.660 what my favorite gun is i've only gone shooting like twice i the one they gave me i don't shoot

01:56:12.260 much i've just been because um we had a guy in town what happened to that vlog i just remembered

01:56:22.660 a vlog i forgot about where did it go okay well p damian marketing is always directed to personal

01:56:32.420 insecurities see y'all later work is calling i think i read all the chats i'll go to the next

01:56:38.180 caller we got is it brighton it's very small in the corner are you good to be on camera

01:56:45.380 yep so what is your thought on the topic um do you think that or how have video games affected

01:56:53.360 your relationships um not very much honestly can you hear me yeah so it hasn't really been

01:57:01.840 a problem for you no um honestly it's i just play like two hours a day after i'm done with

01:57:10.060 all my crap you know and then you know she's in bed and that's about it nice yeah so it's all 0.71

01:57:22.460 about balance and moderation really so you're pro video games you can have happy relationships 0.98

01:57:28.660 with video if you balance it right yeah yeah what when do you think it's a problem like how many

01:57:36.080 hours a day is like what would you if you had a friend and he said i played this much every day

01:57:42.340 when would you say do what would you say the problem starts okay um

01:57:49.580 when it interrupts what you have to do okay make sense yeah so when it's impacting your job or

01:58:01.180 like taking care of your family or something yeah or even the relationship itself yes that's when it

01:58:07.820 interrupts it like if you can do it in a healthy way go all out but if you can't

01:58:17.100 better go back on it got it well thank you very much brighton i appreciate you calling in

01:58:26.140 i appreciate you guys too doug says you don't follow the trends or per way hold on pearl 0.71

01:58:36.040 calling these whiners to calling these whiners to suck it up and take care of their own lives 1.00

01:58:41.380 ain't simping or white knighting i'm not protecting women or making excuses for them 0.99

01:58:47.160 dane i'm talking about what happens in society the men they don't even fight it like the men

01:58:53.660 are just like you want to ruin our video games keep them we'll go do something else they're like

01:58:59.700 you want our gyms you can have it you want the children fine they do fight that but that's the

01:59:06.720 men it's like the younger men aren't really fighting as like how do I put it the older men

01:59:12.620 were sold a bill of goods right so the older men were lied to like they thought they were going to

01:59:18.460 get one thing but the younger men are like no i've seen three of my aunts divorce

01:59:25.500 i've seen that guy divorce the younger men are like i'm just not even going to date this is too

01:59:32.300 much work or or you know they say yeah the younger men are wising up but they're not really

01:59:41.180 complaining they just are like i'll go do something else all right women will set up 1.00

01:59:48.060 camera all right doug says you don't follow the trends women will set cameras up in the gym

01:59:52.940 they will try to record men and look at them and post the video and accuse the man of being a

01:59:56.540 predator you got to go to the gym dane says one guy i worked with spent 20 hours a day playing

02:00:01.100 video games online he had a wife and a child and they struggled financially that's enough time for

02:00:06.140 a part-time job well he might have had a problem you know i don't think that's the norm though

02:00:13.100 young men just don't let it become an obsession I think more than two to three hours a day as much

02:00:21.460 Doug it's not men crying it's men acknowledging that the women are opportunists and trying to

02:00:26.720 get clout on social media tell me everything you know about what I follow or don't follow

02:00:31.740 stop casting men as victims and we built civilization you guys are arguing in the chat

02:00:37.760 pro correct they don't even fight it we chopped down the wilderness and killed

02:00:42.460 the wild beasts but the men can't even stand up to women okay but this is how it goes you have to 0.91

02:00:49.860 think the guys have to look at the fight and think if they're gonna win okay let me you know my old

02:00:57.760 gym in london was a perfect example of what happened my old gym so they had women they were 1.00

02:01:06.560 bodybuilding gym and they had women you know um join it and it used to be an all-male gym it used

02:01:14.640 to be all male they were perfectly happy and then the owner wanted to make more money so he let women 0.95

02:01:20.080 in now if one guy starts fighting it there's going to be all these other guys fighting him

02:01:25.040 to protect the women there it's too much work like it's just like he's not gonna win so pearl reed

02:01:33.600 dane s-i-m-p-i-n-g stop simping you know dane is dane's not a normal simp but he has a little

02:01:41.440 bit of synth in him i gotta sorry dane fizzle i bet my left nut that if men ended up in hell

02:01:48.400 women would follow us out of jealousy oh that's so funny okay dane that's not the norm again two

02:01:58.240 hours like the body counts triple that number and that'll be the real number 100 true they would

02:02:03.600 follow men to hell and then try to kick them out but what's andrew tate's opinions on video games

02:02:08.480 that's the opinion i'll form on them bennett you gotta think for yourself don't look at andrew or 0.74

02:02:12.960 me you know don't look at anyone all right anyways next on the show we got daniel welcome to the show

02:02:20.000 are you good to be on camera yeah i'm good to be on camera no problem there what's your thoughts

02:02:25.280 on video games oh video games i i don't really have a huge issue with it i think the thing when

02:02:32.360 women really complain about video games i think they're actually complaining about computer time 1.00

02:02:36.020 and i don't think they really realize that like when a guy plays a video game he's actually just

02:02:42.100 on discord or something else chatting up with his friends or he's sharing youtube videos or

02:02:47.460 they're watching history channel stuff and so it's like i think they think that because you're in

02:02:52.660 front of a computer you're just always playing a video game and it's like with what that other guy

02:02:58.180 said earlier too like with mil sims like military sims and stuff like that yeah um that's that's a

02:03:03.560 real way people bond like on on rising thunder rising storm whatever else it is or like uh

02:03:08.920 arma or other things like that i don't play those as much and then there's also another comment that

02:03:14.100 somebody made earlier in your stream which was like oh go play board games with your kids and

02:03:19.260 it's like dude when my kids come up here they sit on my lap and i'll show them a 4x game and a 4x

02:03:24.080 game is far more challenging and tactical and strategic than playing chess like and i play

02:03:30.600 chess but it's like yeah it's like i can teach them that or at the same time i can show them

02:03:35.320 history on on some of these maps or other things like that too historical uh events there's plenty

02:03:41.460 of games that deal with that and so it's like these people think it's like uh it is an escapism

02:03:47.860 Just like, you know, any hobby is, right? But it's not negative to the extent that people think it is unless you have an extreme addiction and you're neglecting specific other things.

02:04:00.760 But the problem is I think women tend to believe that any attention that's not towards them is neglect, right?

02:04:10.620 In extreme ways because of the social media addictions today, the self-love cults today, and a lot of other problems.

02:04:17.940 And I think that really leads into a lot of the significant issues.

02:04:22.520 But it's like, dude, no, my kids will come up here.

02:04:24.700 I'll have them play games with me, you know.

02:04:26.620 My wife, very early on when we had just gotten married, I mean, she was like, should I buy a computer to play with you?

02:04:33.640 Because she was trying to, of course, spend time with me.

02:04:35.840 And I was like, up to you, but I don't mind that, you know.

02:04:39.600 And it's, it's, it's definitely something you can bond with and it's not just fucking, sorry, sorry for the language, but it's, it's not just mindless MMOs that people play all the time.

02:04:50.640 A lot of it is strategic and tactical and, and historical and, and story driven and like things that make you have your mind think critically.

02:05:01.240 And, you know, I still get up in the morning and I go to the gym and I still work out.

02:05:05.640 I still do all that stuff, you know?

02:05:07.140 And it's like it's just it's the solipsism today among women. 1.00

02:05:12.460 And I think it goes to something you said earlier, which was that there really is nobody holding them accountable anymore for their solipsism and their kind of very egocentric mindset.

02:05:25.220 And the problem is, is that children have egocentric mindsets.

02:05:28.540 And so this egocentric solipsism is is childish at best.

02:05:33.020 Like, that's the real childish behavior, thinking that you yourself deserve all the attention of the world and that there aren't more important things at stake, whether it's socially, whether it's culturally, or whether it's your own children.

02:05:49.640 Yeah.

02:05:51.060 When do you think it – do you know anyone where it's become a problem, video games?

02:05:56.660 Yes, I do.

02:05:58.320 I do know that.

02:05:59.440 um and i think what i tend to observe when it becomes a problem is usually when the individual

02:06:08.860 can't even hold down a job right but most men are holding down jobs while while playing video games 0.99

02:06:15.580 or whatever else it is it's more of like an excessiveness where they become some sort of

02:06:20.160 like incel you know like they're living in their mom's basement which is where that whole thing

02:06:24.280 comes from because i mean i saw people like that when i was growing up at a young age too like

02:06:28.480 my brother used to take me to his his girlfriend's house when i was like 14 all the time you know

02:06:33.240 we'd walk there and uh he had the she had this cousin that like literally just sat in his room

02:06:38.780 and like you could see like the the oil on his face and the sweat and everything else like that

02:06:44.940 all the time it was just it was nasty but it you know i could also see that that guy had some

02:06:51.220 significant other issues going on in his life as well um and he didn't really have a wife or kids

02:06:57.720 or anything like that so it's not like he was going to achieve any of those things anyways

02:07:01.240 to be honest this it's out of the five smartest people i know i'd say like three or four of them

02:07:09.200 play video games that are guys yeah yeah like it's almost a very high iq uh some of them i

02:07:16.060 i don't really know games like that but i think some of them you have to be pretty high iq to be

02:07:20.340 good at that that's very true yeah i don't i don't know the difference i couldn't tell you but i've

02:07:29.020 just noticed like even with my brothers like one of my brothers is really smart and some of the

02:07:34.140 games i've seen him like play or just look very complicated to me paradox games and 4x games 4x

02:07:41.200 games are like grand strategy games where like you're you're managing all sorts of economic and

02:07:46.440 diplomatic tie things while also managing military type things and governing all sorts of stuff and

02:07:52.140 it's like yeah yeah no forex games and paradox games are a very big thing too that a lot of men

02:07:57.740 play so yeah well you made some great points daniel thank you for calling in yeah thank you

02:08:05.680 pearl thank you look i have such i have such smart viewers i think you guys are all so smart

02:08:12.360 um let me get to the next like the pearl reed dane so i read that already

02:08:19.720 okay um pearl that's not the norm again two hours it's like body counts triple that number okay

02:08:25.880 let's say it's six hours and he plays six seven eight nine ten eleven twelve six to twelve that

02:08:31.720 night you could say it's a bit excessive but i mean you could still do that and hold a job

02:08:38.120 like you could off work play go to work um okay then Doug 100% true wait wait

02:08:47.960 Dane you're talking to a man who is a part of the feminine lower Protestants 0.99

02:08:53.360 who has spent over three decades dealing with these women scorning me but I 0.97

02:08:58.120 didn't relent I need to hear these stories Dane T carp says God created the

02:09:07.280 perfect place. Everything's amazing in the Garden of Eden. And Eve still wasn't satisfied. So men,

02:09:12.860 you can't make her happy. God literally couldn't. The problem with these guys who cry about women

02:09:21.320 ruining them, ruining their spaces, is that they're too worried about the women talking

02:09:25.780 bad about them. So they don't stand up to them. P. Damien, you could cheat easily like sweet

02:09:35.400 charity and of all the bad bastards the world despises springing surprises and newer disguises 0.98

02:09:41.320 you could cheat easily like all charity don't know what that means but okay daniel signed up 0.90

02:09:46.680 for the one-year support to pearl and common sense thinking thanks daniel i appreciate thank

02:09:53.880 you so much look at every yearly membership sponsors a show now not every show we've gotten

02:10:01.400 a yearly membership but it would be nice to get a yearly one every show i want to get three or eight

02:10:07.480 ten dollar a month ones then guys then if you think i'm off the chain now i'll even go further

02:10:14.360 there's some things that i i draw back i have to say youtube please don't demonetize me like a

02:10:19.160 little but i don't want to get kicked off of youtube you know so when i do that but if i

02:10:26.040 was youtube free then i'd say f you you know you know a crowder he does that he got enough

02:10:31.720 memberships on his website i'm just telling you guys the challenges i face here it's not

02:10:36.840 some of these women really try to ruin my life i mean they call me a pedophile you know how crazy 1.00

02:10:41.560 is that i'm like hey go watch your kids the woman's like pedophile i'm like what the is wrong 1.00

02:10:46.280 with you i'm like hey stop arguing with me could you watch your children she's like leave my kids 1.00

02:10:52.520 out of this I'm like what the fuck if they are willing to throw that insult think about what 0.99

02:10:57.800 else they're willing to do um Pearl I had a bachelor's in theology but the reason I've never 0.99

02:11:04.520 held a full-time job in the church is because women run the church and I won't submit to them 1.00

02:11:09.980 I'm not a simper white knight telling weak punk whining men to stop crying and take responsibility 0.98

02:11:15.120 for their lot in life and tell the women to shut the hell up and know their role is not simping 1.00

02:11:19.940 that's all i'm saying they go to call of duty and feel all the powerful and tactical

02:11:24.740 and they can't put these women in their places because they're afraid the woman might complain 1.00

02:11:30.900 doug there was a guy that was a professional nba 2k player he made over 400k you're playing that

02:11:36.420 game his girl deleted his players because she wanted him to spend more time with her

02:11:41.220 if he worked eight hours a day and six on video games then how does he have time to train his

02:11:45.300 sons into men it's probably for a guy that doesn't have kids dane i mean that's what okay she has a 1.00

02:11:52.980 camera set to film his reaction he got pissed because she took away his way away his way to

02:11:58.500 make a living she had no idea how he made his money and he paid all of the bills six hours a

02:12:03.540 day seven days a week is 42 hours that's a full time okay full time i'll read the rest of your

02:12:09.140 sympathy but it's only because you're paying me i'll be honest and i'm still gonna say that you're

02:12:15.220 a simp i'm still gonna do it dane simp simp simp dane is s-i-m-p-i-n-g relaxing and having his own

02:12:25.300 space to socialize isn't his purpose and providing to us t-cart pearl is simping for youtube i do i

02:12:33.060 have to they put they put the the metaphoric gun to my they're like we'll delete your channel but

02:12:40.580 you need to simp a little bit and i'm like i mean i know how you guys feel you know they

02:12:46.420 they treat me like you guys because i talk about this stuff and and

02:12:54.660 i could tell you guys stories of the you know once i got yelled at

02:13:01.220 i'm not gonna tell this story i'm gonna hold that one but men who are successful on the level of

02:13:06.980 of your dad don't play six hours of video games again do we need more men like your dad or the 0.87

02:13:11.680 ones we see now I don't think most men are capable of being my dad I'm not even trying to be rude 0.84

02:13:16.260 I'm his daughter and I'm not capable of being my dad my dad probably looks at me like a lazy

02:13:22.880 kid do you know what I mean like like Dane I understand the sentiment but men like my dad

02:13:30.960 they're born do you know what I mean they're just one of those guys that they don't rest

02:13:36.340 and no matter how much the normal guy tries to be elon he is not going to be elon musk i'm sorry

02:13:43.400 um okay dane how is it simple now we're going to go back and forth dane now we're going to argue

02:13:51.200 in the chat you know i have a i have a job i do i'm supposed to okay how is it simping to tell

02:13:57.440 men to stand up and do what only men can do that's like telling women to stop taking birth control 0.80

02:14:02.700 i do tell women well i have nuanced stuff on on birth control i have a nuanced opinion

02:14:12.060 i used to think we should ban it and i still do sometimes but

02:14:15.900 then i see the women that have kids and i'm like that woman should not have a kid 1.00

02:14:20.300 oh hell no and i know i know the pro-lifers what they'll say is well every

02:14:25.580 everyone should have a right to life and i'm like yeah but if we could prevent

02:14:28.860 I mean I think Ted Bundy was born to a single mother if we could prevent 1.00

02:14:34.420 I think it was a net a net loss to society like you know like preventing that if his mom took

02:14:42.980 birth control then there wouldn't have been like 20 murders now I know what you're thinking you're

02:14:48.900 like Pearl the pro-lifers is what they'll say they'll be like well well but what's the argument

02:14:56.540 they give me and and i'm not even pro-abortion i'm really not but oh they're like we can't know

02:15:01.820 which ones are going to end up crackheads and which ones aren't i'm like well i think there's

02:15:06.300 a couple clues we can tune in on like i think if we saw most of the parenting now i don't think men

02:15:15.740 have total control right i mean i've seen enough only fans models and porn stars with good parents 0.55

02:15:21.900 to say you know what some of these women just want to be whores but i can tell you who is going to be 1.00

02:15:28.300 a terrible mother like terrible god awful terrible mom and i think you guys can too 0.98

02:15:36.060 i mean there's some people i'm like you need to get your you need to there's a reason they had

02:15:40.300 nuns but i'm not going to expect these women nowadays to do that i mean they're not going to 1.00

02:15:44.620 do it i almost think maybe we should give you know there's certain women i think we should give like 0.98

02:15:51.180 a tax incentive to get a hysterectomy or whatever they call it like we should certain women i'm 1.00

02:15:58.700 like if you've been on benefits for seven years and and i'm not talking about like a married woman

02:16:06.300 that maybe they i don't know but if you have made like x y and z we could go back and forth about

02:16:13.020 the decisions right and i'm not saying there's people that are low income that are smart they

02:16:18.780 make good decisions you don't like they're just low income but i'm talking about people that are

02:16:23.900 outright irresponsible like i saw i the other day i saw a clip of this guy who said he couldn't

02:16:31.500 afford food with his family and so he brought them into a store to eat like they would literally like

02:16:38.700 he said i'm gonna we're gonna eat in the store today i don't think he should reproduce i don't 0.97

02:16:44.460 think either of those parents should reproduce like it's like x y and z but i'm also not on

02:16:50.540 the government forcing that but i'd be okay with like a tax incentive but i mean to be fair though

02:16:57.020 luckily most of those women i mean they're not going to be mothers anyway so luckily dane said 0.99

02:17:03.900 i've lost my voice or i'd call in i'm telling men to stop neglect oh nice excuse dane they're a

02:17:09.900 purpose for entertainment just like i'm telling women to stop neglecting their purpose by using 1.00

02:17:14.300 birth control curveballs gaming is more effective than binge watching pearl defending men now we're 0.81

02:17:21.100 gonna keep going back and forth dan we're fighting like a married couple

02:17:27.900 with my chat you see how this is okay defending men wasting time on video games is like women who 1.00

02:17:33.100 defend women who want abortion abortion and birth control both groups are neglecting their design

02:17:38.060 purpose so they can have fun look at i got to defend some women on birth control because i 0.88

02:17:44.300 mean you've seen them some of these women should not reproduce god like god help those have you 1.00

02:17:51.100 ever seen someone have a kid and you just think god help those children like god help them please

02:17:57.820 god spare these kids some sort of miracle okay so are the guys hating on the video gamers for

02:18:04.380 playing more than two hours a gay this stream has lasted two hours does this count as the same no 0.75

02:18:13.020 stop it t car okay um diesel diesel water welcome to the show are you ready are you cool to be on

02:18:20.460 camera uh yes can you hear me yeah i can hear you what are your thoughts on video games okay so

02:18:28.540 video games i haven't played them in a long time i have a collection of it like 100 games and i

02:18:35.060 play it for like an hour and then i get bored and then i don't play anymore but i like to go back

02:18:42.040 to what you were saying with the uh abortion and how people shouldn't be how some people shouldn't

02:18:52.500 be parents i think that's a good topic to be on if you're going to be on your video game all the

02:18:57.320 time and your kid's going to come up to you and be like hey dad look what i got and you're like

02:19:01.320 shut up go away i'm playing a game then no you shouldn't have a kid or you shouldn't play video 0.98

02:19:06.440 games those are your choices um i don't know what else you think well i guess it it depends to what 0.94

02:19:16.460 extent because i think sometimes guys need time to decompress after work and if you know if a guy's

02:19:23.420 paying the bills and you just want some time to decompress what's the big deal if he tells his kid

02:19:27.420 to woman watch this kid and that that's a perfect two-parent household yeah one's busy the other 1.00

02:19:38.080 one takes care of it but like what is it 70 percent of households are not two-parent these

02:19:43.060 days but women don't really work they just go pretend to work okay i'm not a woman i can't say 0.95

02:19:49.880 that and me personally i'm on disability so i can't work but so you know yeah i have no room to talk

02:20:00.400 on that okay so your thought is if you put the kid the video games over your kids though that's

02:20:08.060 that's when it's a problem and you're neglecting your duties as it like the dude before said

02:20:13.320 neglecting uh responsibility shirking responsibilities if you have a girlfriend

02:20:19.400 and your girlfriend wants to go out but you're busy playing a video game and you choose to choose

02:20:25.720 the video game over here you're probably going to be single so that's just a fact but then we

02:20:32.220 can go back to the uh they never used to take it they never used to have date nights in the old

02:20:38.000 days you know they never had a lot they're on a farm like that was history well that's because

02:20:46.140 they spent all their time together and actually loved each other instead of i'm going to use you

02:20:52.580 for money or i'm going to use you for sex or i'm going to use you for fame or whatever the purpose 0.97

02:20:57.920 may be yeah there was a connection back then that video games and social media and propaganda have

02:21:06.260 completely depleted to the point where people don't even understand how to have a personal

02:21:11.540 connection anymore i don't know i just think he's not cheating and if he's like a good guy

02:21:18.420 he's contributing and he wants to play video games over a date now i don't think it's that big of a

02:21:24.100 deal okay okay once in a while i would agree like how often how often like once you're married how

02:21:32.500 often do you need date nights or like living together or something okay what about dating

02:21:38.740 though when you first meet a chick and you get you get her number you call her you go on a couple

02:21:43.860 dates you're like oh this is great and then you get into a place together and she finds out that

02:21:48.700 you spend all your time on playing video games or whatever and you no longer take her out it's like

02:21:55.840 a chick getting married and then not having sex with you anymore no i don't really think it's the

02:22:02.140 same what i don't really when when you get married or let me rephrase that when i got married 0.99

02:22:09.740 my wife we had sex like once every six months that's brutal we had sex that's brutal that's 1.00

02:22:16.560 brutal and so you spend all your time with the dude or chick because chicks are gamers too 1.00

02:22:22.480 you spend all your time with the gamer and then you move in and find out that they're a gamer you

02:22:28.560 never knew that they spent all the time away from me playing video games and then you move in

02:22:35.240 together and one or the other plays video games all the time and ignores you then you're gonna

02:22:41.040 end up single well yeah but the average woman spending like eight hours a day on her phone 1.00

02:22:47.580 but the men aren't dumping them over it they should they're like yeah and on that note i

02:22:57.820 want to clarify what simping is apparently i'm out of the lingo and what is simping exactly it's

02:23:04.300 putting women on a pedestal uh okay yeah that's a that's a big problem well thanks for calling in

02:23:13.900 i appreciate the perspective thank you have a good one all right next in the chat um

02:23:23.180 um I'm not our okay

02:23:26.480 oh my gosh you guys

02:23:35.600 okay Dane

02:23:38.900 Dane we're gonna have beef if we gotta go back and forth all this time um how is it simping to men

02:23:47.260 tell men to stand down and only do what men can do oh wait I read that Von Goon when is the

02:23:53.000 simp song getting laid down in the studio i don't stop simping i could do like you know how that

02:24:02.720 fergie song was like f like what was it it was the fergie song where she said um glamorous

02:24:09.440 hey i could do that with simping all right um dane defending men wasting okay

02:24:16.740 wrote a hobby is pearl reed forget to say that the only reason men's gaming is an issue is because

02:24:22.760 it gives women a chance to be victims men and women's female habits have been there but now it 1.00

02:24:28.120 can be used for clout dain i'm old but my understanding is that letting women control 1.00

02:24:32.760 you will get you laid and oh yeah i mean that's probably a better definition i was just it was

02:24:37.800 just off the off the dome my understanding is that simping is letting women control you and hoping 1.00

02:24:43.720 you'll get laid and white knight is defending women's bad behavior hoping to get laid 0.89

02:24:47.320 this ain't none of that you win dane you win

02:24:53.280 well no no actually no you don't win because i'm a woman i've thought a way i found a way to argue

02:24:59.180 so no white you're right now you're defending women nagging on men's video games you might 0.90

02:25:07.100 not be hoping to get laid because you're married but it just seems it screams white night sorry

02:25:14.620 not sorry that's basically the same type of excuses that women use for weak behaviors well 1.00

02:25:19.360 it's better than such and such you and other crying about women invading your spaces have

02:25:24.760 a victim mentality your argument that wasting time is better than getting shot or some other

02:25:29.600 tragic and unhealthy act is the same tactic woman used to avoid the truth of my arguments 1.00

02:25:35.780 I mean I'm just saying not every hobby has got to be that bad I mean no one's going to be productive

02:25:43.780 24 hours a day except my dad he really is i don't okay pearl i'm gonna make a book called lord of 0.83

02:25:49.940 the bitches kind of like lord of the flies how many hours do women spend reading romance novels 1.00

02:25:56.660 daniel my dad is the most stoic individual no complaining and built like an empire 0.99

02:26:00.740 so pearl go and make it happen and build your empire hardship and you'll make you'll make it 0.55

02:26:05.220 happen thank you i'm trying i mean i'm i'm doing what i can you know this is the question of alpha

02:26:12.180 or beta come into play men escaping their families with six hours a day and crying about how women 0.99

02:26:17.020 run them out beta man up and lead that okay ronaldo there isn't an argument i'm trying to relax

02:26:24.300 and have fun i'm gonna relax and no one's gonna tell me what to do pearl women spending eight 0.99

02:26:29.280 hours a day on their phone doesn't justify men wasting productive time gaming i'm not women 0.88

02:26:33.620 woman i'm like i or i'm not pedestalizing women i'm not i ain't simping beef beef beef you know

02:26:40.600 I love what you do but come on ignoring the weak men needs to happen to these women were raised by

02:26:46.220 women think about that fazelle love is like a fart if you add a little bit of pressure it turns 1.00

02:26:51.380 into shit thank you for that fazelle then at working lifting marital arts studying a useful 0.99

02:26:58.600 subject and going to sleep at a decent time in some man's needs do all that and you won't have 1.00

02:27:03.860 time for or think about video games pearl I'm not defending a nagging woman when we are married 1.00

02:27:10.360 would start nagging me and i'd call her down it's been 35 years i know how to handle a crazy woman 1.00

02:27:15.480 ain't a simp here okay i have one more caller guys this is my last caller today ronaldo you

02:27:22.840 did not get blocked you're still there all right welcome sean are you good to be on camera uh yeah

02:27:29.400 i'm good to be on camera hey pearl hey what are your thoughts on video games uh yeah i mean my

02:27:35.160 thoughts are that you know it helps stimulate the mind you know for sure and you know i know

02:27:39.800 know a lot of folks that are like kind of high-end professions so like surgeons traders things like

02:27:44.800 that it kind of helps them with their profession because they have to be able to think fast and

02:27:48.580 actually have like good manual dexterity so it certainly is helpful from that standpoint as well

02:27:53.960 uh but not everyone works that kind of job right so you have some people who work in the amazon

02:27:59.160 warehouse right and they probably get cussed out at you know they don't really have a good

02:28:03.720 experience at work being able to escape from that and you know kind of be the hero of the story and

02:28:09.000 some sort of role-playing game that they're playing you know that kind of gives them a break

02:28:12.700 from you know the crap that comes with life right yeah so i think it's a net positive as far as you

02:28:19.240 know women who kind of complain about it uh i don't personally get any complaints but i have a lot of 0.96

02:28:23.660 friends who do usually when i see it it's because the girl is kind of upset at that guy for something

02:28:30.800 else it's not really the video games per se it's you know she feels like she's competing with his

02:28:36.520 time for attention because he's playing a few hours of video games instead of going for a walk

02:28:42.200 with her or giving her some sort of one-on-one attention for her to kind of complain things like

02:28:46.540 that or i would say it's because you know something else that she's comparing him to like there might

02:28:52.460 be other guys in the neighborhood or at her church who are highly successful and he's maybe

02:28:57.920 making 50k a year or something like that and she's kind of looking down on that and she's thinking

02:29:02.120 well he could be doing better i see all these guys doing better right well maybe if he took

02:29:06.300 those two to three hours of playing video games maybe he could be making more money maybe we could

02:29:10.640 go on better trips we're not always worried about finances things like that is where i see the

02:29:15.740 complaints really coming in but they're not really voiced directly in that way right no one's really 0.78

02:29:20.300 going to tell you hey i'm mad at you because you're broke or i'm mad at you because you're fat 0.97

02:29:24.580 because you could have spent those two hours at the gym or something like that they're going to

02:29:27.680 say why are you always playing video games it's going to be very passive aggressive that's what

02:29:31.900 i've kind of noticed yeah that actually makes a lot of sense she's seeing she's seeing all the

02:29:36.780 other husbands getting promoted at work and she's like with that yeah i mean if a guy's making 500 1.00

02:29:42.100 a year or a million dollars a year and he plays four hours of video games a day he's not going

02:29:46.800 to get any complaints right but if he's making like 40 50k he's only you know paying 50 of the

02:29:52.260 bills stuff like that that's where she's going to start getting upset because she's going to be like 1.00

02:29:56.740 hey you know becky down the street her husband takes care of everything takes care of the 1.00

02:30:00.720 mortgage, the utilities, the trips, this, that, and the other, you know, she's not having to pay

02:30:05.240 anything. And I got to do my 50% because, you know, he doesn't want to move up or he doesn't

02:30:10.420 want to get promoted or whatever it might be. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. That's a really

02:30:15.240 good point, Sean. Thank you. Thank you very much for calling in. You're my last caller today.

02:30:22.340 Thanks, Pearl. Call in any time. Okay. See you. Okay. I'm going to read. All right,

02:30:28.700 Dana, I'm going to read the rest of your comments.

02:30:34.220 Only because you're on my website.

02:30:35.880 Guys, you got to join.

02:30:36.900 Even if he's trying to roast me. 0.97

02:30:39.900 Weak.

02:30:41.240 I'll read them.

02:30:42.260 You know what I mean?

02:30:43.320 Pearl, I'm a combat veteran of the World War de-a-dry. 0.96

02:30:47.440 And believe me, if I were a weak-ass simp or white knight, we wouldn't be married. 0.97

02:30:55.140 Relax, man. 0.99

02:30:56.160 It seems like you're having a Vietnamese flashback.

02:30:58.580 and you may need to sign back up and get a purple heart, my man.

02:31:02.540 Dane, look, I waste my time in different ways,

02:31:04.840 but I'm man enough to look at that weakness.

02:31:07.100 And since I'm a man, work to improve myself to be more responsible

02:31:10.160 and a better example to my sons.

02:31:13.600 Damien, why did God create yeast infections? 1.00

02:31:17.360 So women can know what it's like to live with an irritated cunt, okay. 1.00

02:31:24.580 Stop the tone policing. 1.00

02:31:25.940 We have plenty of women do that, crazy Kyle. 1.00

02:31:28.580 trust me no woman in my life would say that i'm a simp or a white knight 0.75

02:31:32.540 okay okay all right dane you win

02:31:37.680 okay um thank you guys so much for watching please like the video on your way out and

02:31:46.260 subscribe to the channel ring that notification bell and um i'll see you guys i'll see you guys

02:31:53.280 next week all right bye

02:31:58.580 Thank you.

Pearl - February 01, 2025

Women Hate When Men Play Video Games (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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