Pearl - Women Lie About Abuse More Than You Think Here’s What You Need to Know @ItsComplicatedChannel

00:00:00.000 there anything at this point that you know comes as a surprise to you or are you still learning

00:00:03.840 new things or no nothing's a surprise anymore i'd say the biggest surprise to me was how much women

00:00:10.240 lie about abuse i did not realize that because that i figured out when i was doing interviews

00:00:16.160 and it was like every other show i was abused i was abused and then guys like you were saying

00:00:21.840 like people put in the chat like questions to ask that i never would have thought you know because

00:00:27.040 because when a girl's crying or like telling a really sob story like about her abuse your first

00:00:32.340 instinct is not to say well did you file a police report did you do this did you do that yeah that's

00:00:37.320 not your you know as like a human you don't really want to do that and and how dare you because

00:00:42.100 you're supposed to automatically believe all women you can't if you ask any questions now all of a

00:00:46.780 sudden you're victim blaming right yeah but i would just say in general even if it's a guy like

00:00:51.700 if he's telling me an abuse story my my just as a person I'm not now I do but back then that was

00:00:58.120 not my like initial reaction to just not believe like you know but and it's kind of awkward right

Pearl - June 27, 2025