Pearl - September 29, 2026


Women REGRET Divorcing Their Husbands

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Tequila
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Length

9 minutes

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183.31

Word count

1,705

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Misogyny

6

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

12

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00:00:00 Today, we're watching something that never happens, which is a woman admitting she's wrong, allegedly.
00:00:05 So, we looked up some TikToks with women talking about regretting divorcing their husbands.
00:00:10 Let's see what the ladies have to say, but before I start, make sure you like the video and subscribe to the channel.
00:00:14 And also, I'm doing an event Friday, Tacos and Tequila, a private event, 10 people or less.
00:00:18 We get to hang out and get tacos and tequila.
00:00:21 And then Saturday, we're going to go to a gun range UFC fight.
00:00:25 UFC fighter is going to teach class.
00:00:27 That's Friday, Saturday.
00:00:28 if you want both days get the vip much as i've divorced i would never never ever advise anybody
00:00:36 to go through divorce you know life after divorce as a woman um i would honestly sit here and say
00:00:45 as much as i've made the decision and the choice to divorce my husband then i also regret it
00:00:55 i don't regret it because i i i still loved him but i regret it because i feel like
00:01:02 i denied my children the right and the opportunity to have what people call a normal family
00:01:09 now today i'm sitting with kids who are in the statistic of divorce so as much as i've divorced
00:01:15 i would never never ever advise anybody to go through divorce so as much damn yeah all right
00:01:24 this is what i mean you know a lot of times we think the grass is greener on the other side um
00:01:29 and it's not at all so i think this woman's reading a story time so let's see i regret 1.00
00:01:34 listening to my friends and divorcing my husband that brought me to that's another thing women the
00:01:40 streets are fun so women love the streets also um i was thinking more about this community thing
00:01:48 because they always say women don't have a tribe and they don't have community and i keep thinking
00:01:51 how much community do you need you get your church community if you want it you get your house
00:01:56 community like if anything i think women have too much community so we don't build communities
00:02:01 at home we build communities out in the world you know what i mean so anyways um the problem
00:02:06 with the big friend group is when the divorce happens they're all going they're going to
00:02:10 story time i got married to a man and this man in question is a very good man when i said very good
00:02:18 man he is a very good man and the family that i came from they are not well to do you know but
00:02:26 god bless me with this man who takes good care of me he rented a flat for me here in nigeria
00:02:34 and furnished it very well he also bought a car for me i already have two children a boy and a
00:02:41 girl for him and he also hired a house help that he is also paying a monthly basis to help me
00:02:48 so i am living a comfortable life here in nigeria and he is in germany so while the marriage was
00:02:57 going on i started thinking about going to germany to stay with him you know i feel like
00:03:04 he needs to bring me there because to me he is doing well he is doing very well
00:03:10 because the kind of money that he is giving to me on monthly basis i was thinking that he has
00:03:17 too much you know that was how i started disturbing him telling him that oh i wanted to come and take
00:03:24 me and my and the children to germany we need to be closer we need to be together and all of that
00:03:30 at first my husband told me that i will not like it here in germany that he makes sure that we are
00:03:37 living a comfortable life in nigeria that if i come to germany it will not be as comfortable as 0.91
00:03:44 that i did not understand it i told my husband they are you cannot convince me that someone
00:03:50 that is living in nigeria is living more comfortable than you that is in germany that is even giving us
00:03:56 the money so i was able to convince him to bring me and the kids to germany which he did because
00:04:05 at some point i started accusing him of maybe you have a woman there maybe there is someone you
00:04:10 don't want us to meet this is that the comments are saying if a man loves her he should give her
00:04:14 a second chance you know he told me that what i mean no he knows what he's telling me that i am
00:04:20 more comfortable i will be more comfortable here in nigeria than day on he doesn't want her nagging
00:04:25 till the pressure became so much and he decided to process our paper so when our papers uh was ready
00:04:35 we traveled to germany i told my friends we are going to germany in other kind of stuff
00:04:40 so when we finally arrived where my husband is living in germany i was highly disappointed
00:04:47 to tell you the truth that is not what i expected my husband lived in two rooms and power but these
00:04:54 two rooms and power is not furnished one bit you only okay so then she goes there and divorces him
00:05:00 all right this lady's got to get to the point okay who's next are you so you regretted it and 1.00
00:05:04 you're fat that's the problem she's fat so this woman's gonna have a better divorce experience 1.00
00:05:09 because she could still talk to some chads you know they'll still do it chad stop gaslighting 1.00
00:05:15 you're still going to do this bitch on a slow Tuesday, right? She doesn't get the Friday night 1.00
00:05:19 slot anymore. And I'll never forget what my ex said to me. He looked me right in the eyes and
00:05:24 he said, you're going to regret this. You're going to get six months down the road and you're going
00:05:30 to regret divorcing me. And you know what? He's right. I did have regrets, but probably not the
00:05:38 kind of regret oh my god we just can't do it we can never admit when we're wrong oh my god thought
00:05:45 I would and while I don't think it's healthy to dwell on them okay she's saying I don't think
00:05:51 it's healthy to admit I was wrong I do think it's healthy to recognize them and learn from them so
00:05:58 that we don't repeat them so with that being said here's what my regrets actually looked like okay
00:06:04 dear i regret not listening to my intuition i regret oh my god this is the therapy speak
00:06:10 this is the therapy speak we're talking about where women like yeah i regret not listening
00:06:17 to my intuition really how long can your intuition sorry how long can your intuition lead you awry
00:06:26 like you you got married i mean that's a pretty how long did you ignore that like hey everyone
00:06:32 it's that intuition you know what i mean hold on all right gaslighting myself i regret not giving
00:06:39 myself enough credit i regret doing what i thought was best for everybody else but me i regret not
00:06:47 making my happiness and well-being more of a priority and lastly i regret not being strong 0.85
00:06:53 enough to leave sooner and though making the decision to get divorced was the all right bitch
00:06:59 here i thought maybe a woman learned something why would you all right i regret the day when i 0.90
00:07:04 divorced my husband i swear single life no day is you since when i divorced my husband i never
00:07:10 get rest of my life not so stressed that they go through some of the two is my husband they help me
00:07:15 they make 100 days easy for me since when we divorce like namibam i said they do everything
00:07:20 they carry children go school they do everything if anybody tell you say single life very easy
00:07:25 no mind the person you know he's at all so guys before you go blame me make i explain to me how
00:07:30 everything takes that so five years ago then my husband carried me from nigeria conjuring from
00:07:36 germany i get two children for nigeria before i come germany when i come germany you can't see
00:07:41 the life of my husband they live it is totally different from the life yeah okay so then you 0.99
00:07:46 divorced his ass women man let's see if there's anyone else on youtube that regrets self-love 0.99
00:07:52 the court notified me that my final decree of divorce has been approved by the judge 1.00
00:07:59 i know that it sucks being alone i come home and i'm alone i go everywhere alone i don't
00:08:06 hardly talk to him anymore i don't blame him i filed for the divorce so i'm sure people are
00:08:13 wondering well you filed why are you so upset why are you crying yes exactly there's a guy
00:08:20 reacting to this too yeah we we do just because you make a decision that you think is going to
00:08:25 end up making things better does it mean that you have to give up the fact that you love that person
00:08:30 or that you did it because oh my god we are addicted to bad decisions trying whatever
00:08:36 i've never met anybody like him and i've never loved anybody like him either
00:08:41 but i don't want a divorce dude what she just wanted a little spice a little drama in her life 0.99
00:08:48 she just wanted a little drama you know what i mean fuck we're like let me just ruin the kids 0.91
00:08:53 and ruin everything for a little spice i still am very much in love with my husband what what are 0.99
00:09:02 you talking about i loved him here all right yeah see this is men they're like what women i mean you
00:09:07 can't take our bad decisions personally so anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments if
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