Pearl - Women REGRET Divorcing Their Husbands

00:00:00.000 Today, we're watching something that never happens, which is a woman admitting she's wrong, allegedly.

00:00:05.080 So, we looked up some TikToks with women talking about regretting divorcing their husbands.

00:00:10.000 Let's see what the ladies have to say, but before I start, make sure you like the video and subscribe to the channel.

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00:00:28.540 if you want both days get the vip much as i've divorced i would never never ever advise anybody

00:00:36.620 to go through divorce you know life after divorce as a woman um i would honestly sit here and say

00:00:45.820 as much as i've made the decision and the choice to divorce my husband then i also regret it

00:00:55.100 i don't regret it because i i i still loved him but i regret it because i feel like

00:01:02.220 i denied my children the right and the opportunity to have what people call a normal family

00:01:09.180 now today i'm sitting with kids who are in the statistic of divorce so as much as i've divorced

00:01:15.100 i would never never ever advise anybody to go through divorce so as much damn yeah all right

00:01:24.700 this is what i mean you know a lot of times we think the grass is greener on the other side um

00:01:29.420 and it's not at all so i think this woman's reading a story time so let's see i regret 1.00

00:01:34.620 listening to my friends and divorcing my husband that brought me to that's another thing women the

00:01:40.220 streets are fun so women love the streets also um i was thinking more about this community thing

00:01:48.060 because they always say women don't have a tribe and they don't have community and i keep thinking

00:01:51.820 how much community do you need you get your church community if you want it you get your house

00:01:56.060 community like if anything i think women have too much community so we don't build communities

00:02:01.180 at home we build communities out in the world you know what i mean so anyways um the problem

00:02:06.540 with the big friend group is when the divorce happens they're all going they're going to

00:02:10.460 story time i got married to a man and this man in question is a very good man when i said very good

00:02:18.620 man he is a very good man and the family that i came from they are not well to do you know but

00:02:26.620 god bless me with this man who takes good care of me he rented a flat for me here in nigeria

00:02:34.220 and furnished it very well he also bought a car for me i already have two children a boy and a

00:02:41.180 girl for him and he also hired a house help that he is also paying a monthly basis to help me

00:02:48.860 so i am living a comfortable life here in nigeria and he is in germany so while the marriage was

00:02:57.420 going on i started thinking about going to germany to stay with him you know i feel like

00:03:04.780 he needs to bring me there because to me he is doing well he is doing very well

00:03:10.060 because the kind of money that he is giving to me on monthly basis i was thinking that he has

00:03:17.820 too much you know that was how i started disturbing him telling him that oh i wanted to come and take

00:03:24.620 me and my and the children to germany we need to be closer we need to be together and all of that

00:03:30.220 at first my husband told me that i will not like it here in germany that he makes sure that we are

00:03:37.820 living a comfortable life in nigeria that if i come to germany it will not be as comfortable as 0.91

00:03:44.220 that i did not understand it i told my husband they are you cannot convince me that someone

00:03:50.860 that is living in nigeria is living more comfortable than you that is in germany that is even giving us

00:03:56.220 the money so i was able to convince him to bring me and the kids to germany which he did because

00:04:05.500 at some point i started accusing him of maybe you have a woman there maybe there is someone you

00:04:10.620 don't want us to meet this is that the comments are saying if a man loves her he should give her

00:04:14.700 a second chance you know he told me that what i mean no he knows what he's telling me that i am

00:04:20.460 more comfortable i will be more comfortable here in nigeria than day on he doesn't want her nagging

00:04:25.500 till the pressure became so much and he decided to process our paper so when our papers uh was ready

00:04:35.660 we traveled to germany i told my friends we are going to germany in other kind of stuff

00:04:40.700 so when we finally arrived where my husband is living in germany i was highly disappointed

00:04:47.180 to tell you the truth that is not what i expected my husband lived in two rooms and power but these

00:04:54.200 two rooms and power is not furnished one bit you only okay so then she goes there and divorces him

00:05:00.160 all right this lady's got to get to the point okay who's next are you so you regretted it and 1.00

00:05:04.740 you're fat that's the problem she's fat so this woman's gonna have a better divorce experience 1.00

00:05:09.200 because she could still talk to some chads you know they'll still do it chad stop gaslighting 1.00

00:05:15.160 you're still going to do this bitch on a slow Tuesday, right? She doesn't get the Friday night 1.00

00:05:19.020 slot anymore. And I'll never forget what my ex said to me. He looked me right in the eyes and

00:05:24.700 he said, you're going to regret this. You're going to get six months down the road and you're going

00:05:30.820 to regret divorcing me. And you know what? He's right. I did have regrets, but probably not the

00:05:38.140 kind of regret oh my god we just can't do it we can never admit when we're wrong oh my god thought

00:05:45.600 I would and while I don't think it's healthy to dwell on them okay she's saying I don't think

00:05:51.300 it's healthy to admit I was wrong I do think it's healthy to recognize them and learn from them so

00:05:58.080 that we don't repeat them so with that being said here's what my regrets actually looked like okay

00:06:04.200 dear i regret not listening to my intuition i regret oh my god this is the therapy speak

00:06:10.760 this is the therapy speak we're talking about where women like yeah i regret not listening

00:06:17.880 to my intuition really how long can your intuition sorry how long can your intuition lead you awry

00:06:26.120 like you you got married i mean that's a pretty how long did you ignore that like hey everyone

00:06:32.200 it's that intuition you know what i mean hold on all right gaslighting myself i regret not giving

00:06:39.240 myself enough credit i regret doing what i thought was best for everybody else but me i regret not

00:06:47.200 making my happiness and well-being more of a priority and lastly i regret not being strong 0.85

00:06:53.460 enough to leave sooner and though making the decision to get divorced was the all right bitch

00:06:59.940 here i thought maybe a woman learned something why would you all right i regret the day when i 0.90

00:07:04.680 divorced my husband i swear single life no day is you since when i divorced my husband i never

00:07:10.600 get rest of my life not so stressed that they go through some of the two is my husband they help me

00:07:15.760 they make 100 days easy for me since when we divorce like namibam i said they do everything

00:07:20.860 they carry children go school they do everything if anybody tell you say single life very easy

00:07:25.460 no mind the person you know he's at all so guys before you go blame me make i explain to me how

00:07:30.820 everything takes that so five years ago then my husband carried me from nigeria conjuring from

00:07:36.800 germany i get two children for nigeria before i come germany when i come germany you can't see

00:07:41.980 the life of my husband they live it is totally different from the life yeah okay so then you 0.99

00:07:46.340 divorced his ass women man let's see if there's anyone else on youtube that regrets self-love 0.99

00:07:52.600 the court notified me that my final decree of divorce has been approved by the judge 1.00

00:07:59.560 i know that it sucks being alone i come home and i'm alone i go everywhere alone i don't

00:08:06.260 hardly talk to him anymore i don't blame him i filed for the divorce so i'm sure people are

00:08:13.620 wondering well you filed why are you so upset why are you crying yes exactly there's a guy

00:08:20.480 reacting to this too yeah we we do just because you make a decision that you think is going to

00:08:25.440 end up making things better does it mean that you have to give up the fact that you love that person

00:08:30.400 or that you did it because oh my god we are addicted to bad decisions trying whatever

00:08:36.880 i've never met anybody like him and i've never loved anybody like him either

00:08:41.960 but i don't want a divorce dude what she just wanted a little spice a little drama in her life 0.99

00:08:48.560 she just wanted a little drama you know what i mean fuck we're like let me just ruin the kids 0.91

00:08:53.660 and ruin everything for a little spice i still am very much in love with my husband what what are 0.99

00:09:02.340 you talking about i loved him here all right yeah see this is men they're like what women i mean you

00:09:07.340 can't take our bad decisions personally so anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments if

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Pearl - September 29, 2026

Women REGRET Divorcing Their Husbands

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