Pearl - June 03, 2026
Women Spending TOO MUCH MONEY On Pets
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Summary
When Betsy Boyd s cat, Stanley, was diagnosed with stage 4 renal failure, there was never a question about doing everything she could to save him. At a certain point, honestly, if I'm too sick, they can put me down.
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When Betsy Boyd's cat, Stanley, was diagnosed with stage 4 renal failure,
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there was never a question about doing everything she could to save him.
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Nah, again, it's an animal. At a certain point, honestly, if I'm too sick, they can put me down.
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What up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today, we are reacting to women that spend too
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much money on their pets. Okay, so I have a personal experience with this. When I was 21,
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um obviously I drank before I was 21 I lived in Europe when I was 18 so I drank most people in
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America drank before they were 21 and I found out when I was 21 that I could get a dog and um
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I love my dog but idiotically I decided to get a dog and um I got I wanted an English bulldog
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because you don't really have to walk them that much I was like I want like a cat basically that's
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a dog so i got an english bulldog and um i remember telling a guy in the cafeteria that i
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was getting a dog and he was like oh well those are so expensive and i'm like no they're not that
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bad guys i had to move this dog i could i could say i made this mistake i i love my dog but i've
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had to move her countries twice i had a career where i traveled a lot of my 20s um do you know
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expense dog sitters are i don't i have never done the math on this because it would be too painful
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i don't want to know i don't want to know the cost i just went to the vet today because my dog's sick
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you know it's like real rich rich with their dogs and like still sometimes i'm like
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i don't know this is just it's also so weird i don't under i frequently live in the state of
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like i'm having like an existential crisis like how am i here on the ground right and then you've
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got this person paying thousands of dollars you know the dog's gonna die and then it's gonna be
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ill right and it doesn't speak to you I don't know it's just I'm not even kidding so that's my thought
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when I see people and they spend so much money on their animals my sister's got this cat named
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cash and it just like furries around goes everywhere and they clean it and it's like part
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of the family and then you know it's in the hospital I'm just why would you want to spend
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money on something that's this fake thing that I know I don't know that's my we
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like a real rich rich with their dogs and like still sometimes i know that's the thing okay i
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have a dog but i still acknowledge that my dog is a dog and i do not understand these women that
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treat their dogs like a person i'm like guys she's cute she's good and all but she's a dog
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you know i've spent thirty thousand dollars on my dog oh hell no if my dog cost me 30 grand a year
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I haven't done the math, but I know it's not that much.
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I would call it a day, and I'm done with the dogs.
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In the span of me having her, I got her in 2019, 2018, and I would spend $30,000 more.
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Fun fact, when I got her, she's actually from Texas.
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And then about two months into me having her, she decided she was done eating.
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on hunger strike and i took her to the vet and guess what they're like she just has colitis
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okay we go about our merry life give her some medicine and then they call me later that day
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and they're like actually you need some heartworm treatment immediately she has the grown-ups and
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the babies and it's bad it's really bad so heartworm treatment is really really hard on their
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body so i'm like this is really not fun but you know what this dog is my heart and soul it's
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during covid because what happens is i've been to the vets they try to upsell you on all these like
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problems with your dog or whatever um so yeah i mean that's the thing like they just include
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all these tests and whatever and you have to tell them not to do it and they also tell you to take
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your dog to the vet for everything just in case it's always scary because all my vets are women
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um it just seems like all the vets now are women and i'm like i hope they don't kill my dog but i'm
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not i'm not fully confident then one day she's gets real weird and they're like her immune
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system is attacking itself you need to hospitalize her right now or she will die
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ten thousand dollars here you go have the ten grand because whatever
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this dog if she dies i die so we spend ten thousand dollars her immune system we're going
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every single week for blood work she's on prednisone she gets as big as a house but
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she's perfect she's a house hippo we're heart we're negative we moved to florida she is fine
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she is great she is amazing then she tears her acl take her to three orthopedics they get three
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very different answers but the one that i trust the most says to be completely honest i am an
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orthopedic surgeon i wouldn't do the surgery to my dog because here's the thing unless you plan
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on creating them 24 7 she will break her leg because she's she's not gonna chill she's a
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terrorist. Last night, she goes outside in the rain, comes inside, runs and drives herself on
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my couch, jumps off the couch from the top of the couch, won't use her back leg. She's walking like
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this. I'm having a mental breakdown because, again, if that dog dies, I die. Tell me why she comes
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outside earlier to go pee, hardly walking, goes back inside, runs and jumps on the couch.
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when this dog goes one day you need to take me to therapy okay
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i can't make this shit up i would spend 30 000 more dollars yeah um and then they're gonna ask
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you to pay like you gotta remember women get dogs and then ask you to pay off their college debt
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it's like well why'd you get a dog you know when betsy boyd's cat stanley was diagnosed with stage
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for renal failure there was never a question about doing everything she could to save him
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nah again it's a it's an animal um at a certain point honestly if i'm too sick they can put me
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down like if it costs two hundred thousand dollars or like half a mil like if i if you're
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gonna put everybody in debt around you trying to save your life just put me down i'll just call it
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a day hopefully like make it better you know the next time around happy birthday stanley
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oh my god you don't look a day over five but you're 18 today to help her 18 year old feline
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betsy spent 19 000 on a kidney transplant for him while the decision to spend 41 percent of
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her salary on the surgery didn't come lightly she doesn't regret it at all according to her
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he makes eye contact and understands how to read emotions comforting her when she's sad or giving
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her space when needed. While there has been some backlash about her spending Betsy told radio.com
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that she's normally very careful with her money but that Stan is her best friend and she'll never
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have a relationship with anyone else like theirs. She said there has also been some lovely comments
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acknowledging that's life in 2018. Their friendship may seem unconventional but for Betsy
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it's positively perfect. Yeah again my dog cost me 10k in the first year. I'm telling you not to
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get a dog because it's too expensive. It's probably too expensive. In the first year of owning her I
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spent approximately ten thousand dollars. I don't know what I spent. I spent so much time getting
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my dog overseas there's so much paperwork oh my gosh oh I had to do it both ways I'm like
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I brought her in the airport and my dog is potty trained but the airport's just kind of a long time
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and I remember she pooped oh I'm glad I wasn't peeing because the poop's easier but she pooped
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in the middle of the airport and I'm like Billy we are not doing this right now I'm like no no
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was so embarrassing oh my god i did not have to be able to manage her some of that was her spay
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and the vet bills and the vaccinations and all of that stuff also opted for e-collar training which
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cost me two thousand dollars my dog was already spaded when i got i got my dog on craigslist so
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she was kind of she was like 500 bucks but she's a pure english bulldog so it's pretty
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pretty good deal the biggest expense for me was that she had such bad urinary tract problems when
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I got her as a puppy she soiled the entire living room carpeting area in the house that I was living
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in at the time to the point that it soaked down to the subfloor I had to have all of that material
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replaced I was not prepared for that amount of money to be invested in something that was not
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me so I have to account for her now should not underestimate people tell you how expensive it is
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to own a dog if you have someone in your life telling you not to get a dog because it's too
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expensive it's probably too expensive in the first year of owning her I spent approximately ten
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thousand dollars that i did not have to be able to manage her some of that was her spay and the
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vet bills and the vaccinations and all of that stuff also opted for e-collar training which cost
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me two thousand dollars biggest expense for me was that she had such bad urinary tract problems
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when i got her as a puppy she soiled the entire living room carpeting area in the house that i
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was living in at the time to the point that it soaked down to the subfloor i had to have all of
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that material replaced i was not prepared for that amount of money to be invested in something that
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was not me so i have to account for her now should not underestimate people tell you how expensive it
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is yeah it is really expensive all right let's see okay you can't complain about isn't it crazy
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that women are so lazy to walk our dogs we get daycare series every month right what i mean i'm
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saying all the new um millionaires and billionaires are going to be like selling stupid stuff to women
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guys i'm telling you open like a dog daycare i believe there's money in it 30 bucks a day
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I know how much money I spent on my dog that month, and the series only keeps getting worse
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with time. I thought the first one was bad, and every month has increased since. We had quite a
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few unexpected expenses this month, so this one's going to be a doozy. Let's get into it. So first
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of all, my boyfriend ended up having knee surgery this month, so every time I go to work, Winston
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does have to go to daycare because he's literally on crutches and cannot walk. So Winston went eight
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times which came out to $240. We also had some allergy issues come up this month and a vet visit
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which we will get into but we ended up needing to buy Winston a prescription dog food that was
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$150. I stopped up on some bully sticks because we have an upcoming trip with Winston. Want to
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make sure that he is entertained. That came out to $25. I was pretty frugal here so I found three
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tug toys at the Goodwill for $6. That was a steal and I also grabbed some more toys for that upcoming
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trip we have came out to 28 at pet smart so we're looking at like 35 for the toys now this
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miscellaneous section is always where i expose myself this is where it's the unnecessary stuff
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i bought a new treat pouch which i absolutely love it came out to 42 35 bought myself a poopy
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loop if you haven't seen them look up whoop and wonder they're freaking adorable and they're
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awesome for holding your dog's poop while you're on a walk that came out to 10 83 we ran out of
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poop bags we bought a huge pack on amazon came out to 14 and then we also bought winston a life
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jacket for the summer, which came out to $38. So this section was a little over $100 of kind of
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necessary, kind of not necessary stuff. So this is the category that gets me every month. We have
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not had a single month without a vet visit in like four or five months. So this month's was $259 on
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top of the $150 prescription dog food we had to buy. Also got Winston's nails trimmed, which we
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don't have to do very often, but it came out to- Head insurance. Oh, hell no. Ellie, I'm sorry,
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you're a dog if something happened you're if it's too expensive i'm not getting pet insurance
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oh he also started showing signs of having an ear infection we bought zymox off of amazon if
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you've never tried it and you have a dog that's prone to ear infections lifesaver we definitely
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saved a vet visit there and his ear infection's gone and then our monthly pet insurance comes
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out to $43 a month. So this section was like $350. Painful. Yeah, again, women are spending
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money that would previously have been spent on children, on dogs. Expensive things I bought for
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my dog and whether or not they were worth it. You in a dog bed. She got an orthopedic bed for her
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dog. 5 out of 10. Oh my gosh. Aesthetic dog crate, 10 out of 10. So cute and worth it. I've had it
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for three years now. It looks as good as new. It looks so cute in my living room. Yeah, maybe.
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Actually, I could see the appeal for that because dog crates take up a lot of space.
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I mean, I just have a normal one. Okay, let's see what's next.
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9 out of 10 if your dog has chronic joint pain these dogs are living better lives than most
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people custom long leashes okay a pet friendly couch I love the way the couch $2,000
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uh three three one three three it's like around three three three thousand three hundred dollars
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wow you know it's crazy women won't buy men dinner or buy men anything but they'll best
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spend three grand on their dog that's incredible all right guys let me know what you think in the
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comments i love you thanks for watching like the video and i'll see you next time