Pearl - May 14, 2026


Women STILL Want Men To Approach Them


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Length

5 minutes

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201.61792

Word count

1,188

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

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Toxicity

4

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Today we re talking about how women still want men to approach them even after they ve learned to be more intentional in their approach, and how to make sure that you re getting the most out of your dating experience.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 definitely i like being approached because it shows that they're taking initiative and i like
00:00:04.700 the attitude did your boyfriend approach you how did you know i actually approached him what up
00:00:10.380 guys welcome to my reaction series today we are talking about how women still want men to approach
00:00:15.860 women have told men do not approach us what they really mean is ugly men don't approach me but
00:00:23.320 chads you're allowed to anyways so regardless uh today we're gonna react to women complaining
00:00:29.800 about how they still want men to approach even after they like bullied like we bullied men out
00:00:36.100 of approaching us and then said can you please approach us anymore so the post me too movement
00:00:41.860 has made men not chase as much you think i think it's made them not try several times i think that's
00:00:48.900 the biggest okay so like if you're playing hard to get you're you're actually not really getting
00:00:54.920 going to be getting that much yeah in terms of like some people have this idea like oh you
00:00:58.500 shouldn't accept like a date right away I'm like who the fuck cares like because I think men have
00:01:04.000 learned just like okay if I ask once and she gives me the vibe she's not interested I'm not 0.92
00:01:08.740 gonna keep bothering her yeah and that's actually good men shouldn't waste their time uh is she
00:01:14.440 interested you just go um you want to go out no there's your answer that's the number one thing
00:01:19.380 I've heard from all my male friends yeah it's like yeah there's no more of this playing hard
00:01:23.340 to get you reject the man they've learned oh i need to respect that because if i don't now i'm
00:01:28.680 crossing over into me too territory i also think that if you are super hard to get the only guys
00:01:34.240 who will pursue you like that are kind of the guys who are in it for the game and that's not
00:01:39.100 the energy that you want to end up with and so being too hard to to get or aloof is just like
00:01:43.900 i don't think that's the move when it comes to intentional dating what up guys have you ever 0.96
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00:02:20.900 first trade yeah um all right here approach you on your walk follow the svc method shoulders back
00:02:28.460 boobs up chin up maintain eye contact and hold if you really want to ensure that he stops you
00:02:35.380 can do this number bling head tilt smile show the carotid artery for him it's giving wow i know her
00:02:43.200 for you i mean a bee could have flown in your eye he'll probably say do i know you and you'll say
00:02:47.680 morning be bold you are the goal and secure the bad goddess i agree that's actually that's actually
00:02:55.440 good advice that's actually good advice okay who's next how did you all meet do you wish that men
00:03:00.000 would approach you more yes definitely definitely i like being approached because it shows that
00:03:05.920 they're taking initiative and i like that attitude did your boyfriend approach you how did you know
00:03:11.360 i actually approached him yes i feel like now it's a lot of like men are more timid i don't i
00:03:17.980 don't want to say timid but like a little more timid and shy oh yeah i agree too i wish they
00:03:22.940 approached us more because i feel like nowadays it's honestly really hard to meet people too
00:03:26.860 people is like through apps now like to join facebook groups dating apps i wish it was like
00:03:31.220 more like whenever everyone just like would approach each other and talk where would a guy
00:03:34.480 approach you that you feel most i was putting myself in areas where i thought i would find
00:03:40.120 like-minded people so like walking on the trail here coffee shops bars that i like probably on
00:03:45.320 the trail um i think gym too if it's a little bit more conversational how did y'all meet yeah um
00:03:54.280 men don't want to get kicked out of places like there's guys that get kicked out of gyms
00:03:58.360 that's that's the issue men get into is i mean you'd have to make it like a day trip in order to
00:04:04.440 approach you know because otherwise you're just going to use you know approach in places you go
00:04:09.800 all the time and you don't want to get kicked out like you like those places would you are creatures
00:04:14.760 of habit so them losing a place is way worse than us losing a place because they love their routine 1.00
00:04:21.720 a man to approach you in public if you're single i know a lot of women do want this like a lot of
00:04:26.440 women want an irl connection or like a meet cute that's not on a dating app i also understand it
00:04:31.240 can feel very confronting and scary and sometimes disrespectful when a man comes up to you in public
00:04:35.560 so for the women who do want that who want to get off of the app who do want men to approach them a
00:04:41.080 lot of men are obviously scared about like crossing boundaries and being creepy so i'm just curious if
00:04:46.280 anyone has any suggestions so i've been a professional all right let's keep going women
00:04:51.720 would like the men to approach me but nowadays it hasn't been happening feels like honestly in
00:04:57.320 daylight i can count i think in my in my you know i'm 29 so my 10-year dating career
00:05:05.560 i can count on two hands the amount of times i've been approached but bar settings are
00:05:10.360 different though and bars you get approached more it's like parties have been switched men
00:05:14.840 i'm not like in daylight are expecting women to approach them and be the first one to make the
00:05:21.240 move i don't know what happened to be honest but i feel like it's the generation does it kind of
00:05:25.640 upset you how it is these days yes it accepts me very much it makes dating very very hard
00:05:31.960 you would wish that guys would approach more i mean the right guy obviously like i don't know
00:05:39.240 yeah so again they say the right guy they mean the hot guy translation so anyways all right
00:05:44.440 guys let me know in the comments what your thoughts are on men approaching women in public
00:05:49.320 look, do you approach and how has it gone for you? Like the video, subscribe, and I'll see you next
00:05:53.240 time.