Pearl - September 29, 2026


“Women Use ‘BOUNDARIES’ to Avoid ACCOUNTABILITY” @JustPearlyThings

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Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

151.38

Word count

328

Sentence count

21

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

sentences flagged


Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Here are some examples of therapy speak.
00:00:02.460 I'm not ghosting you.
00:00:03.640 I'm honoring my nervous system's need for safety.
00:00:07.300 Your feedback triggered my abandonment wound,
00:00:09.560 so I had to disengage to protect my inner child.
00:00:13.800 Notice what both of these do.
00:00:15.360 Both of these are attacks on you as a person.
00:00:19.580 But what do they also do?
00:00:21.500 They also excuse the poor, dare I say, unethical behavior of the person.
00:00:28.340 the actual person who's doing the gaslighting is a gas lighter the person accusing you of toxic
00:00:36.020 narcissistic abuse is in fact toxically no and that's the thing and that's the problem is the
00:00:42.460 person that the chill person that has no drama never is the one bitching so you know it's always 0.80
00:00:52.600 the the one complaining all the time about everyone that's the real problem abusing you 1.00
00:00:57.060 verbally. Every accusation is projection with a manipulator. Every insult is a confession.
00:01:07.620 We're turning to some examples here. I can't hold space for that conversation right now.
00:01:11.700 It's too heavy for my mental load to bear. Oh dear. We're not incompatible. We have different
00:01:16.520 attachment styles that aren't aligned. Oh, it's so good. These are weapons of mass verbal
00:01:21.820 destruction it's not a lie it's a trauma response i haven't processed yet i need to work on my it's
00:01:28.640 not a lie it's not a transit trauma response i haven't processed people pleasing before i can
00:01:34.620 show up authentically bonus if you say i need to do the work there's a netbook by what nicole
00:01:40.720 para called the work something like that that is one of the books that popularized therapy speak
00:01:45.920 by the way. You might recall that meme, I believe it's from The Simpsons, where the individual is
00:01:53.280 looking downcast, thinking, is this the problem? Could I be the problem? No, it's literally everyone
00:01:59.760 but me. Therapy speak results in an accountability-free zone. It's a complete ejection of
00:02:05.820 and therefore rejection of responsibility in any relationship.