Pearl - Women Who Tried Dating Higher And FAILED

00:00:00.000 it scares the crap out of them and they don't know what to do and so then they decide like

00:00:04.880 oh shoot i don't actually want this i told that boy you fumbled the biggest okay that is such a

00:00:11.440 cope um if you were that good of a product they would be so excited about what a great deal what

00:00:16.480 a great product but it just means you're not good enough what's up guys welcome to my reaction

00:00:21.040 series so women love sharing chad tyrone brad all the you know the the looks maxed men or whatever

00:00:29.280 so anyways now women get older and we complain that men won't commit but the men were willing

00:00:35.200 to commit when we were younger um or we just shot a little too high so this is a mid girl there

00:00:41.120 like a four five um and she's going to complain about men not wanting to commit about how they

00:00:46.560 don't want to get into also before i start we have private dinners um if you guys want i'm doing a

00:00:51.440 private dinner event new york city and dallas the link to it is in the description um i would love

00:00:56.400 love to meet you it's going to be 20 people tops term committed relationship because they don't

00:01:01.120 want to give up their freedom i just can't help but picture a boy that's trapped inside of a man's

00:01:06.300 body he goes on they always shame men are each other's worst enemies because they will shame men 0.99

00:01:11.700 for being men i mean who are you to dick like to watch another dude's dick you know to basically 0.99

00:01:16.680 shame those men call them children and say that they don't even understand the magnitude of 0.99

00:01:20.940 responsibility that they are avoiding by not being in a long-term relationship at 30 what i have to

00:01:25.980 say is i'm pretty sure that they do that's probably why they're choosing not to be in a relationship

00:01:30.320 i'm really not a fan of this casual shaming that we constantly do with men who are over 30 and have

00:01:35.700 decided for one reason or another that she's kind of base don't want a serious relationship or just

00:01:40.640 that they don't want a serious relationship right now okay i thought she was gonna complain she's

00:01:44.260 flipped me you will see this often online when a woman comes on and she talks about her experience

00:01:48.800 of being single over 30 there will be a bunch of men and women in the comments saying you go girl

00:01:53.680 this is so great. We need more examples of women showing that you can have a fulfilling life over

00:01:58.700 30, even if you're not in a serious relationship. But with men over 30, it's almost like it's the

00:02:02.840 complete opposite. And the thing is, I completely agree. If you're a man who's over 30, and you're 0.77

00:02:06.840 running around manipulating women into thinking that they're going to be in a serious relationship

00:02:10.740 with you, and you're just hooking up with women and lying to them, deceiving them and selling them

00:02:15.020 hopes and dreams. I don't agree with that at all. I'm talking about the men who are being completely

00:02:18.800 honest about not wanting a relationship right now, or just having different priorities in their life

00:02:23.380 right now where they don't want to get married yet or they don't want to have a family or maybe they 0.99

00:02:27.220 just don't want to get married period that also is an option there are women who have no interest 0.97

00:02:31.460 in getting married there are women who have no interest in having children and in the same way 1.00

00:02:35.300 that it should be acceptable for a woman to make that choice it should also be acceptable for a 0.94

00:02:39.620 man to make that choice as well because what you're doing by trying to pressure those men

00:02:43.380 into getting married and having children and taking on all of this responsibility that they

00:02:47.700 don't want to take on in the first place they're most likely going to end up being the deadbeat

00:02:51.780 dads that everybody complains about i know in everybody's perfect fantasy world those men would

00:02:55.940 just step up to the plate and they would end up being these awesome amazing fathers but that's

00:03:00.260 not really true to somebody's heart and what they genuinely want then i don't think they would be

00:03:04.340 a good parent most of the time i get that as a woman being 30 plus and going out into the dating

00:03:09.060 pool and realizing that a lot of men don't want anything serious can be very disheartening but

00:03:13.620 that's just kind of life not everybody is going to want the same things that you want at the end

00:03:17.300 end of the day, nobody's entitled to a relationship. That is my perspective. Yeah. Okay.

00:03:21.560 That does not want to be with you. We'll tell you that he's not ready to commit to you.

00:03:25.420 He will blame it on extra. Yeah. It's just, you're not good enough. You know, if you were

00:03:29.160 perfect in every way, then he would probably commit. What's up guys doing this job. We

00:03:35.120 constantly face demonetization, harassment, and people interfering with the interviews.

00:03:40.220 Unfortunately, this drives up the cost. I was demonetized for two years and we need your help

00:03:46.000 to fundraise for the channel there is a link in the description where you can actually donate

00:03:51.040 directly to me and my platform or you can buy a ticket to our private event which is capped at

00:03:57.740 10 to 20 people and it's a private dinner where you get to hang out with me Doug MPA and a few

00:04:03.320 other friends of the channel I can't wait to see you guys there and I'll see you next time

00:04:07.120 but it's okay we gotta normalize saying that we're just not good enough sometimes it's not you

00:04:13.260 it's somebody else not you it's anybody else all circumstances how he wants to focus on his career

00:04:18.180 how he has other priorities but a man that truly wants to be with you will rise to the occasion he

00:04:24.020 will become the man that he needs to be regardless of his external circumstances so that he can be

00:04:29.380 with you a divine masculine man that desires you is not going to let you get away this is why you

00:04:33.580 often see women not getting committed to by men that say that they're not ready to commit

00:04:37.220 and then they're in a relationship a few months later probably with a woman that made sure

00:04:42.820 that if he doesn't rise to the occasion she's gone so the only way that it can work with a

00:04:47.660 man that's not willing to commit to you right now is if you are his last resort you choose

00:04:51.800 yeah or or sometimes women nag him into it but do you want to be with somebody that you had to 0.84

00:05:00.920 it's kind of like the women that drag their husbands down the aisle do you want to be with

00:05:03.960 someone who doesn't want to marry you really says that he thought he was ready for a commitment

00:05:09.900 and he's not and that seems to be the sometimes they change their mind but other times uh you do

00:05:17.060 something so insufferable that they initially wanted to be with you and then they said

00:05:20.880 no nada and thread in the dating world like men who say they want commitment women say that they

00:05:29.260 want a nice guy and that's a lie my my rule guys uh you can you can be honest with us if we don't

00:05:37.280 wear makeup because then if we're being honest then you can be honest but if we're wearing makeup 0.98

00:05:42.000 then you know and then they turn out and they don't want it when the woman actually is a woman 0.84

00:05:48.880 that is like wifey material it scares the crap out of them and they don't know what to do and

00:05:55.260 so then they decide like oh shoot i don't actually want this i told that boy you fumbled the biggest

00:06:02.980 okay that is such a cope um if you were that good of a product they would be so excited about what

00:06:10.900 a great deal what a great product but it just means you're not good enough or not what they're

00:06:15.140 looking for right how you've ever had in your entire life and f you he literally he literally

00:06:24.500 said is that all right let's see who's next see these are all mids so i just got off the phone

00:06:31.380 with one of my girlfriends she was dating this guy for probably a little under two months she

00:06:37.620 had a great time with him she said he's a great guy fun funny they saw each other quite often

00:06:44.420 during those weeks that they were together probably four times a week and they had conversations he

00:06:51.220 said he wanted a relationship he was divorced with a couple of grown kids he was in his 50s

00:06:56.900 and she waited to get physical with him seven weeks into it i think and then the next day he

00:07:04.640 calls her and tells her he doesn't want a relationship okay ladies here's my theory

00:07:09.720 forget these divorced men because they just want pen pals and playmates they don't want anything 0.83

00:07:17.420 more they do not want to commit they will tell you get to you right um if you were hot and 22

00:07:22.860 they would be there would be a line whoops there would be a line of men willing to but it's it's

00:07:29.340 never i need to get better it's that the men just are wrong for wanting what they want they don't

00:07:34.820 want anything more they do not want to commit they will tell you anything you want to hear to get you

00:07:41.020 in bed so this is my theory look for the widowers because those men unfortunately lost their

00:07:51.020 partner. That's actually not bad advice. And they're used to being married. They're used to

00:07:57.220 being in a relationship. These divorce guys are bitter. They've given away half their money

00:08:03.800 and they're not doing it again. They don't want it. They're not interested. They just want to play

00:08:09.840 and get laid. So I know a couple of people that found widowers and they wanted to commit.

00:08:17.200 they got married the divorce guys now they just want to play so that's my yeah okay let's go

00:08:26.520 not want to commit but he doesn't want to lose access to you either that's a loser's game the

00:08:33.600 access that man has to you should be a direct reflection of how he's behaving his words how

00:08:41.700 he's moving his consistency all those things need to be in play in order for him to have access to

00:08:48.320 you if you're just giving him access and he's doing whatever he does coming and going as he

00:08:53.380 pleases girl you are giving away the milk for free and you know what they say about that nobody's

00:08:59.100 gonna buy the cap if that means yeah um well the milk for free doesn't work anymore there's too

00:09:04.600 many you know you're charging for milk without everything it's free everywhere else and you're

00:09:09.700 charge and good luck men not wanting commitment it's just like so much easier to not be committed

00:09:17.460 to anything it's just easier and i think that men want to take the easy way i think they like the

00:09:23.740 idea of love and the concept of love but the reality is they are not about to put in the work

00:09:29.440 to get to love and to stop themselves because it's a lot of work nobody wants to put in effort

00:09:34.400 nobody wants to put in work and that's just my that's just my opinion they finally put in the

00:09:37.860 work and they realize that there's other options out there their eyes are still lingering that's

00:09:42.300 why they don't want to put in the work because they know that there's always somebody behind

00:09:45.420 door number two so until a man is ready for commitment then he will look for love i think

00:09:50.480 what's stopping men from love is that they don't want commitment they don't want expectations they

00:09:53.500 don't want they don't want they don't want to do anything call me crazy yeah no that's true

00:09:58.460 okay i or you're just not good enough times because i'll think when i'm talking okay when

00:10:04.540 they fake future with me um that just means i banged a guy out of my league and he doesn't want

00:10:10.020 me and he whispered sweet nothings into my ear to get into my pants and then changed his mind

00:10:15.540 to a guy for example that like he means what he says when he says like he wants to have a future

00:10:20.960 with me and then it's like usually a lie um and and it makes me sad because i really want to

00:10:33.120 believe people are people of their word but like they're usually not what i don't understand is

00:10:38.220 like i know when i'm horned up and i've never had the urge to say some lies or something like that

00:10:44.720 when i'm yeah because you don't have to because men have to lie to get in your pants no i'm never

00:10:49.200 gonna say like oh i think we should have a future together and i want you to like have my kids and

00:10:53.940 stuff like that i wouldn't say that to someone if i genuinely didn't mean it but some people say 0.98

00:10:59.240 this shit to them first date second date they'll say that shit and it's like not cool and like i 0.98

00:11:04.860 don't want to be like this like fantasy machine sometimes where like people project harmful things 0.99

00:11:11.960 onto me and then like i actually respond back and i take them seriously because like i want to

00:11:16.860 generally just be treated like a person but i'm treated like a phenomenon sometimes and it's

00:11:23.020 really hurtful and then like i feel like the fantasy kind of dies out for a lot of men when

00:11:28.540 they find out i'm actually very intelligent and intelligent usually when they say that it 0.69

00:11:35.040 means argumentative know what they're doing i'm not stupid all right all right ladies well eat

00:11:44.520 that l you know we all got to do it sometimes so if you guys want like the video on your way

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Pearl - August 06, 2026

Women Who Tried Dating Higher And FAILED

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