REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 1030. Q&AF： Fighting The ＂Broke Mentality＂, Does Success Change Treatment & Social Media Success Pressure

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and you're listening to the show for the realist say goodbye 0.98

00:00:21.600 to the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys

00:00:25.920 today we have q and af that's where you submit the questions and we give you the answers dj tell 0.63

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00:03:15.040 memorial day little memorial day special for people out there this is being released obviously 0.72

00:03:19.460 yeah um hell yeah man it's a beautiful day sure is yeah sure is a beautiful day on the friday we're

00:03:26.280 recording this for monday that's right well it's all right dude it's cold outside well we're betting

00:03:30.180 it's going to be beautiful while they're listening we are betting wherever it is it's gonna be

00:03:33.460 beautiful you're beautiful well i i don't know about the person that's right you that's right

00:03:38.100 dj but the rest oh no i'm beautiful inside and out big black and beautiful that's right yeah i was 0.99

00:03:43.180 gonna i was gonna i was gonna fuck with you and you're like something about the show is a little 1.00

00:03:46.320 different like oh we're racist that's for tomorrow that's for half of us half of us are but it's not 0.99

00:03:52.720 the half you think that's right that's right uh no man it's a beautiful day guys it's a great day

00:03:58.360 to get better on this beautiful memorial day man that's what memorial day is about yeah so maybe

00:04:03.120 We recognize the men and women who have sacrificed for us

00:04:07.060 to have the opportunity to get better.

00:04:09.320 And when we do not take advantage of that opportunity,

00:04:12.400 we're actually violating the covenant and the agreement

00:04:16.220 and the duty that Memorial Day is all about.

00:04:18.820 That's right.

00:04:19.180 So while you relax today and have a hamburger or a hot dog

00:04:22.520 or whatever it is that you do,

00:04:24.640 remember that your opportunity to get better

00:04:27.660 came with a very serious price for a lot of people.

00:04:32.100 and that's something that we really believe in on this show every day not just on days like today

00:04:39.340 so 100 percent keep that in mind yeah 100 so um let's get better yeah let's do it let's get better

00:04:47.200 guys andy i got three good ones for you question number one andy i am making more money now than i 0.90

00:04:55.520 ever thought i would uh and then your fucking goals are too small start there yeah and it's 0.86

00:05:01.860 weird because i still feel broke mentally i still stress buying things i still panic checking my 0.98

00:05:07.940 bank account i still think one bad month is going to wipe everything out does that ever go away

00:05:13.240 or do people who grew up without money always carry that fear a little bit why do you want

00:05:19.060 that to go away why are you so concerned with that going away you have to understand that

00:05:25.080 that feeling that you have is what is going to secure that you never lose what it is that

00:05:31.440 you're building okay so you have a couple things here number one if you're already making more

00:05:36.540 money than you ever thought you were going to make you need to expand your goals okay because

00:05:40.820 i'm assuming does it say how old they are no okay i'm assuming you're not old yeah okay so 0.69

00:05:46.320 you need to fucking think way bigger and whatever your money you're making now you need to realize 0.83

00:05:52.340 it's probably not that much money okay what they tell us in school about what a lot of money is 0.99

00:05:58.140 is not a lot of money all right when i was in school they used to tell us get your degree and

00:06:03.460 you're going to make 60 000 a year and that was considered a lot of money you're doing good yeah

00:06:09.560 right yeah and back then okay uh yeah you could you could live on that but the reality is is that

00:06:18.300 that's not a lot of money. Okay. And a hundred thousand dollars or $200,000 or $300,000 when

00:06:26.180 you're making 50 sounds like a lot until you start making it and you realize that you're still feel

00:06:32.640 broke. Okay. So whatever it is that you're wanting or whatever you're making now, you need to take

00:06:37.840 that in like 20 times that. Okay. Because that's, you have to understand your money is consistently

00:06:44.060 being devalued over the course of time through inflation uh through you know the printing of

00:06:49.480 more money there's all kinds of things that happen naturally that make it so that whatever

00:06:55.080 you make now when you're 50 it doesn't equal the same right if a guy had a million dollars

00:06:59.240 in the year 19 fucking 90 and he's he's got a million dollars now that million dollars is

00:07:05.180 different today than it was then and you're going to be alive for a long time so what you think is 0.90

00:07:10.100 a lot of money now is not going to be a lot of money in 20, 30 years. You have to understand

00:07:15.000 that. Yeah. All right. So you need to take that goal, project it out to when you're 50, 60, 70,

00:07:21.380 80. And what do you want to live? Okay. And that should be the reflection of the monetary goal

00:07:26.280 that you have now. So it needs to be way bigger. Secondly, let me tell you something, dude,

00:07:32.400 that coming from nothing and having that fear of losing it all is a fucking gift that is a gift 0.95

00:07:41.320 you just don't realize it because it causes you anxiety but it doesn't actually cause you anxiety 0.96

00:07:47.440 it causes you to go hard it causes you to keep working it causes you to keep building and

00:07:54.440 thinking bigger and bigger and bigger and that is the greatest insurance that you're going to have

00:07:59.860 against losing what it is that you have the most of the people that that win at one point in their

00:08:06.000 life end up losing because what happens is is they get comfortable and they stop pressing the gas

00:08:11.700 down and then everybody else catches up or passes them by what you're doing right now if you were to

00:08:17.440 just let off the throttle is going to go away okay so you have to understand that mentality

00:08:24.340 coming from nothing and being hungry and being scared and being afraid of being broke and having 0.99

00:08:31.500 a mentality of fuck dude i mean that is a gift that's a gift and you need to remember that and 0.99

00:08:38.100 never forget it a lot of people don't have that people who come from money will never have that 0.99

00:08:43.680 they never have it that is a different kind of hunger that is a different kind of drive

00:08:49.240 And that is the insurance that you're going to have that you won't be broke.

00:08:53.400 So the fact that you actually have that instead of seeing it like it's something that you

00:08:57.460 want to get rid of, you should say, I'm grateful to have this because I understand it's going

00:09:03.040 to keep me building and moving, okay?

00:09:04.840 There is no finish line for entrepreneurs.

00:09:08.180 It doesn't exist, all right?

00:09:09.860 The closest thing to a finish line for an entrepreneur is building something with enterprise

00:09:15.140 value on the back end, selling it for, you know, millions and millions, maybe billions of dollars, 0.98

00:09:20.500 and then being fucking miserable the rest of your life. Because dude, people who are entrepreneur 0.94

00:09:25.080 builders, they have to have things to build. Okay. If they don't have things to build and create and

00:09:31.160 become, they're fucking miserable. So this lie that is told about making all this money and 0.99

00:09:36.260 then sitting on the beach with your fucking Corona, that's going to make you miserable. 1.00

00:09:40.020 Okay. You have to understand you are cut from a different cloth than everybody else. Everybody 1.00

00:09:44.360 else is cool sitting around you're not you were gifted with a drive that other people don't have

00:09:50.300 and that's not something that you should be trying to get rid of you have to understand that dude i

00:09:55.480 don't think i've ever heard you explain it like that that that's wild like like the very thing 0.92

00:10:00.720 you're trying to get rid of that that's actually going to be what fucking right bro do you think 0.96

00:10:04.460 why do you think i come in here seven fucking days a week why do you think i flip out over 0.98

00:10:09.460 fucking little bitty things yeah okay because i'm hyper paranoid about losing because i know what 0.99

00:10:15.660 it's like to lose and i've seen other people lose okay so i don't want to fucking lose so i keep 0.99

00:10:21.340 that intent this is the same reason why when people say shit to me like congratulations on 0.96

00:10:26.720 all the success i'm like bro i'm just fucking starting yeah okay and they're like mean it 0.92

00:10:31.020 they're like what are you oh yeah right they think i'm being falsely humble yeah they think i'm like 0.98

00:10:35.620 know dude you don't understand that is who the fuck i am okay i am built to fight that battle 0.98

00:10:42.860 i am built to build i am built to create i am built to to become and i am built to progress 0.99

00:10:48.580 down the pipe and i'm a fucking warrior at it and if a warrior doesn't have a war they don't 0.95

00:10:54.400 have a purpose and if you don't have a purpose you're going to lose and you're going to be 0.99

00:10:58.260 miserable your entire life so you have to understand what you're trying to get rid of

00:11:04.160 is actually a thing that's allowing you to make the more money than you've ever thought you were

00:11:07.820 going to make you try to get rid of it yeah well let me ask you this then right because

00:11:14.620 so so you're in that spot how do you like how do you try to like keep that then when it's like

00:11:22.760 obviously for you like dude it's unrealistic you're not going to lose it all i don't know i've

00:11:26.160 seen people bigger than me lose it all yeah you know what i'm saying but it's just it's not like 0.64

00:11:30.280 a super real fucking concern i don't know it's real enough for me to be worried about it 0.61

00:11:34.100 if it could happen just like i talk about all the time what one man can do another can do 0.97

00:11:38.980 and what can happen to one man can happen to you and that's real shit so there's been people much 0.51

00:11:44.440 bigger than me to fucking lost everything and i'm very aware of that okay i don't still is real for 0.97

00:11:49.360 you yeah huh it's still it's still it's still what do you think yeah you've been around me 0.99

00:11:53.600 every day for the last six years you see me fucking off no no like bro why do you think i 0.98

00:11:59.060 why do you think i do all the shit that i do like why do you think i i why do you think i live the 0.99

00:12:03.900 live hard lifestyle like bro you know people think that i'm some sort of fucking like smart person 1.00

00:12:09.320 i'm a fucking idiot okay i'm just a guy who is smart enough to learn from his mistakes and tough 1.00

00:12:17.200 enough to continue to fucking move down the pipe that is it and i've made every motherfucking 1.00

00:12:21.980 mistake in the world so the reason that i go so hard is because i know what i'm not 0.98

00:12:26.180 and while people may look at the external reality and think oh man he's so smart he's so gifted 0.93

00:12:31.980 every motherfucking thing that you see was earned through a mistake or pain or frustration or getting 0.98

00:12:38.020 my balls kicked in and I don't like that okay so I don't want those things to happen so I try to 1.00

00:12:46.260 keep my shit together you know I keep my fucking my brain tuned I keep my body tuned I do the best 0.99

00:12:52.480 that i can because dude i know that there's other people that are more gifted than me i'm aware of 0.99

00:12:57.920 that okay like i come from the fucking place that y'all come from you know that's why i don't have 0.99

00:13:03.700 any sympathy when you say like oh i come from here motherfucker you don't even understand the 1.00

00:13:10.720 people who do the biggest things in life come from those places because they learn how to fucking 0.99

00:13:14.760 fight when they were young they learn how to overcome when they were young the people who win 0.90

00:13:19.140 they had bad childhoods they had tough stories they had things they had to deal with when they 1.00

00:13:23.920 were younger and that's what's created the fucking monster that you see them as now okay so the shit 1.00

00:13:30.180 that y'all tell yourselves about oh well i come from here so i can't do that that's bullshit 1.00

00:13:35.360 yeah a hundred percent not only is it bullshit you're failing to acknowledge the gift that you 0.99

00:13:43.020 were given to learn how to fight and overcome that other people will never have so you need 1.00

00:13:50.060 to pull your fucking head right out of your ass and understand that if you come from nothing and 1.00

00:13:55.380 you don't have anything you're actually equipped to do much better than the person was gifted 1.00

00:14:01.020 everything yeah 100 dude oh man i love it man let's keep moving dude i got question number two

00:14:06.780 for you, bro. Uh, Andy, I lost about 80 pounds over the last few years. Uh, and it completely

00:14:13.220 changed how people treat me. Yeah, I bet it did. More respect, more attention, people actually

00:14:18.960 listening when I talk now, honestly, it messed with my head a little bit, uh, because it made

00:14:23.980 me realize how differently the world responds to you based on how you carry yourself. Does being

00:14:29.400 successful do the same? Does, does, did success ever make you look at people or relationships

00:14:34.660 differently in a way that you were not expecting does money do the same thing yeah okay look dude

00:14:41.040 there's idealism and then there's realism yeah okay here's the idealism answer the only thing

00:14:49.940 that matters is in your heart all that matters is that you're a good person and that you're nice to

00:14:54.480 people that's right that's all that matters that's all that matters all that matters is that and

00:14:58.700 everybody's the same and everybody's this and everybody's that that is not true is it important

00:15:03.680 to be nice to people yes does it matter to have strong character yes but how strong is your

00:15:10.020 character if you actually aren't the best that you could be okay how good of a person are you

00:15:15.520 actually if you're not actually trying to put your gifts that were given to you by god into the world 0.93

00:15:22.420 okay it's it's a biblical principle the parables of the talents you can fucking read about it dude

00:15:28.240 okay you have an obligation to become the best that you you can be and this idea that you could 0.93

00:15:36.560 sit around and waste your life and some morally posture yourself as this good person that's just 0.99

00:15:42.780 not real it's not true so the idealist people will say shit like all that matters is that you're a 0.99

00:15:48.840 nice person no that matters that's not all that matters okay and the realist answer is 0.97

00:15:55.660 everybody's going to judge you based upon how you carry yourself how you treat people how you look 0.73

00:16:02.320 what kind of money you make how your success is these things fucking matter whether you think

00:16:06.780 it's right or wrong it's just reality when you walk into a room and you are fit it sends a 0.98

00:16:13.700 message it says i have my shit together i could control things that other people can't control 0.86

00:16:20.120 i take my life serious that person automatically gets more respect that person automatically gets 0.99

00:16:26.340 more trust because people know they're not going to fumble the ball on little shit okay so yes the 0.94

00:16:32.800 world treats you massively differently depending on how physically fit you are now when it comes 0.99

00:16:38.340 to money it's the same thing a lot of that shit comes from you know people wanting to get a little 0.97

00:16:44.920 piece of it okay they will treat you different you know there's a lot of people that will treat 1.00

00:16:48.840 you different because they want a little bite of your fucking off your plate that's not the people 0.98

00:16:52.880 i'm talking about okay to be successful it takes other people that are successful to recognize 0.99

00:16:59.780 that you are somewhat successful and that's where the opportunities come from okay not everybody 1.00

00:17:05.480 keeps saying oh well your network is your net worth not if you're a piece of shit that's right 0.99

00:17:10.200 okay it doesn't matter how much you pay it doesn't matter how what room you're in or i got to get in 1.00

00:17:15.200 the right room if you don't have your shit together and you are a big fat motherfucker and 1.00

00:17:19.600 you're not doing things in real life you're still not going to get the opportunities no matter how 1.00

00:17:24.800 hard you try to impress the other people in the room because they're going to see you for what

00:17:29.320 you are you're someone that can't fulfill promises not even to yourself you're someone who's not

00:17:34.800 detail oriented you're not serious about taking things serious people don't trust people like that

00:17:40.640 because it's the truth if you can't keep promises to yourself and you can't hold yourself to a high

00:17:47.980 standard why would any of these other successful people want to do anything business-wise with you

00:17:53.280 and that is required to get to certain levels okay so yes your network is your net worth sort of

00:18:01.120 as long as you like fit in with those people and i don't mean be like those people don't wear the

00:18:06.380 same clothes i mean hold yourself to a high standard i mean taking yourself seriously i mean

00:18:12.260 living what success is supposed to look like and then what happens is is these people up the ladder

00:18:18.560 from you they will recognize this and they'll say you know what i'm worth a billion plus dollars 0.92

00:18:24.480 that guy's only doing you know five hundred thousand dollars a year but look how fucking 0.97

00:18:29.400 much he has his shit together let me help this dude let me do something for this guy let me work 0.96

00:18:34.620 with this guy because they recognize the effort that is being put in not because of what you say 0.99

00:18:39.500 but because of how you look and what you're actually doing and that is real shit yeah and 0.98

00:18:44.440 that goes for business relationships that goes for personal relationships it goes for your friends 0.96

00:18:50.280 it goes for girlfriends boyfriends potential mates like dude here's the one thing i can't understand 1.00

00:18:55.800 is like you see all these fucking dudes out here that don't have their shit together they're 0.99

00:19:00.680 overweight they don't make any money and somehow they feel entitled to like the most beautiful 1.00

00:19:05.760 women that are like the most desire what the fuck who the fuck do you think you are bro they don't 0.99

00:19:11.380 owe you shit they have assets and they're looking to have match with someone who also and your job 1.00

00:19:17.380 as a fucking man is to be a provider and a protector and if you're a sloppy idiot that 1.00

00:19:23.660 plays video games all day and doesn't make any money doesn't have your shit together dude you're 1.00

00:19:27.660 not gonna you're gonna get what you are and really that's that's the bottom line bro that's 0.99

00:19:33.300 the bottom line you are going to get from the world what you are that's it and you've got to 0.99

00:19:42.040 build that first so does it matter yeah it's it doesn't matter a little either it's like fucking 0.97

00:19:50.080 everything dude now i'm not saying you can't be marginally successful being out of shape i was 0.93

00:19:56.160 dude i was about to like okay when i was when i was when i was people don't know that dude

00:20:00.120 most people do not know you you were you was 350 pounds you were awesome when you hear me 0.98

00:20:05.060 fucking talk about when you hear me say hey fat fuck uh understand i could say that because i 0.99

00:20:11.520 know what the fuck it's like i know what it's like to not go to a pool party for 10 fucking 1.00

00:20:15.680 years because i'm embarrassed to take my shirt off i know what it's like to wear the same outfit 0.99

00:20:19.120 every motherfucking day because i thought that it was like fooling everybody into looking that 0.83

00:20:22.360 was slimmer than it was i know what it's like to hate going shopping for clothes i know what it's 0.98

00:20:26.500 like to tug on my clothes all the time because i'm fucking fat i i know what it's like that's 0.99

00:20:31.760 why i know the body positivity movement's all bullshit and now you all know it's bullshit too 0.99

00:20:35.880 because here's the reality all those people preaching it two years ago and i took a zempic 1.00

00:20:39.920 and they've lost 200 pounds so if they were really fucking happy with who the fuck they are then why 1.00

00:20:44.120 did they lose 200 fucking pounds that's right okay they're all full of shit okay you could convince 1.00

00:20:49.240 yourself all you want you could say oh it's not that bad it's not that that's you negotiating 1.00

00:20:54.360 with yourself that's you telling yourself lies and that is the exact reason why people who are

00:21:00.000 ahead of the ahead on the food chain don't want to work with you because you believe your own lies

00:21:06.360 oh that's the worst part that's the worst part dude most people don't know that i remember

00:21:11.960 i think we were in california doing that talk you remember that guy that stood up 0.78

00:21:15.820 and uh you know he fucking stands up and he goes he goes he's he's at least 350 at least at least 0.96

00:21:23.980 yeah at least i would say i'm giving him some fucking credit yeah he stands up and he's like 0.99

00:21:28.580 yo man i'm i'm the you know i'm just like you dude i got the same mentality and this and that 0.97

00:21:35.020 i'm killing it you know and i looked at him and i'm like okay there's thousands and i said this

00:21:41.020 i said there's thousands of people in this room do you really want me to address that right now 1.00

00:21:44.860 yeah yeah i said well you're fucking full of shit you're fucking 300 and fucking 80 pounds bro 1.00

00:21:50.320 you ain't nothing like me you might think you are but you're fucking not you might want to be but 1.00

00:21:54.920 you're fucking not because you have not fucking earned it that is the truth and people say well 0.99

00:21:59.640 no one's better than anybody else that is another fucking lie okay there are people that are better 1.00

00:22:05.360 that's reality dude okay and we can lie to ourselves and say oh you know and we can argue 0.98

00:22:11.880 whether it's right or wrong

00:22:13.080 but that's not what we're talking about

00:22:15.420 we're talking about what is it isn't

00:22:16.860 and what is is that people will treat you

00:22:19.600 entirely different based upon

00:22:21.520 your physical appearance

00:22:23.320 based upon how successful you are 0.99

00:22:25.700 based upon all this other shit 0.99

00:22:27.500 when your mom told you when you were 1.00

00:22:29.640 fucking nine years old that all that matters 1.00

00:22:31.460 on the inside that's a lie 1.00

00:22:33.260 that's a lie how'd that work out

00:22:35.540 for you bro

00:22:36.180 did all the girls appreciate that

00:22:39.420 how'd that work out for you

00:22:41.880 I'm not saying it doesn't matter.

00:22:43.680 I'm saying there's other things that matter too.

00:22:45.940 As well, yeah.

00:22:46.740 So make no mistake,

00:22:48.600 being a good person is the fundamental foundation 1.00

00:22:50.760 of all of this shit 0.99

00:22:51.720 because you could be fit, 1.00

00:22:53.300 you could make money, 1.00

00:22:54.080 and you could be a shithead 1.00

00:22:55.320 and you still won't get ahead, okay? 1.00

00:22:57.920 And that's another common belief that's total bullshit. 1.00

00:23:01.480 All these guys at the top, 1.00

00:23:03.020 they're all a bunch of fucking blah, blah, blah. 0.99

00:23:04.800 That's just lies that broke people say about these people, okay? 1.00

00:23:08.160 The most successful people I know

00:23:09.980 are also the best people I know.

00:23:11.880 That's the truth.

00:23:12.400 Like just good people.

00:23:13.200 They're good people.

00:23:14.020 They do the right thing.

00:23:15.280 You can't have 500, 1,000, 2,000, 10,000 people

00:23:19.600 that want to follow you or work for you 1.00

00:23:21.180 when you're a fucking piece of shit. 1.00

00:23:22.800 It won't work. 1.00

00:23:23.820 Okay?

00:23:24.380 So yes, your mom was correct. 0.98

00:23:27.000 Being a good person is the fundamental fucking foundation 0.98

00:23:29.340 for all of it. 0.97

00:23:30.320 But there's a lot more that matters than just that.

00:23:32.420 That's not going to get you where you want to go.

00:23:34.260 You got to be the whole package.

00:23:36.240 So do people treat you different? 0.99

00:23:37.820 Fucking A. 0.99

00:23:38.820 Way different. 0.99

00:23:39.700 It's not even close.

00:23:40.620 it's not even in the same ballpark it is literally alpha and omega difference okay it's a and z

00:23:46.300 it's life and death it's that much difference polar fucking opposite okay and i know because 0.98

00:23:53.340 i lived it all right so when you hear me say this shit understand like when i was fat nobody was 0.98

00:24:00.060 fucking wanting to work with me nobody was taking me seriously and i used to get pissed until one 0.92

00:24:04.620 day i realized they were right and i fixed it yeah and you and like for context you were you 0.97

00:24:12.980 were you were pretty like you were doing okay even when you were big though right or to that

00:24:16.620 point right 100 million dollar business yeah that's crazy so i'm just saying but the rest 0.85

00:24:22.000 of my life was fucked up i wasn't a good leader i wasn't i was dude like look dude 0.73

00:24:27.180 whatever it is you're doing right now can only be amplified by those things 0.98

00:24:33.800 and there will come a ceiling that you get to unless you're just absurdly family wealthy 0.99

00:24:40.700 and it doesn't matter okay like you take a guy like pritzker who's the fuck the governor of 0.98

00:24:46.540 illinois okay he's blood money he's 400 pounds okay i think he's lost a little weight which i 0.98

00:24:52.960 give him credit for i'm not a political fan of him at all i you know i think he has lost a little

00:24:58.460 bit of weight good for him but he could not have gotten that position unless he would have had that

00:25:04.360 family backing it's not based around who he actually is it's based around what he brings to

00:25:09.420 the table and he brings enough leverage to the table monetarily that it got him far it got him

00:25:14.700 pretty far but guess what that ain't you it ain't ever going to be you so we can argue about what's

00:25:21.320 right or wrong or what is or isn't or we can just address the reality in the bottom line of what it's

00:25:25.760 going to take for you what it's going to take for you just like what it's taking for me is to take 0.98

00:25:30.660 every motherfucking detail seriously every single one you are not good enough to beat these other 1.00

00:25:35.980 people at half your game you're just not i'm fucking not and i'll beat the fuck out of you 1.00

00:25:40.360 okay that's right in business that's right you know what i'm saying no it's real so 0.98

00:25:45.060 yeah dude it's like dude it's a thing that like nobody really just wants to admit it to you like

00:25:51.120 like i'm speaking to the person listening like you treat people differently you know you do

00:25:54.880 you know you do just from how they look how they like you treat them differently but nobody wants

00:25:59.780 to admit right like nobody wants to admit that because it doesn't sound nice that's because

00:26:02.920 they're idealists yeah this show is called real af it's not called ideal af this is this is this 0.99

00:26:09.000 is the truth and this is not another podcaster that says oh you know you're enough no the fuck 0.99

00:26:15.280 you aren't not enough you're fucking you can't you could be but you ain't right now and that's 1.00

00:26:20.320 what you got to realize okay you are a raw fucking piece of granite that has not been chiseled out 1.00

00:26:26.940 yet and you need to get the fucking hammering so that you could chisel out what the fuck you're 0.99

00:26:30.780 trying to create and then once that thing is sculpted people appreciate it nobody appreciates 0.99

00:26:35.600 a big block of granite when it's just sitting there it's just nobody comes in and says nobody

00:26:39.680 comes in and says there's a there's look at this that sculpture of david is just as beautiful as 0.93

00:26:48.100 that block of granite there's not a fucking single person in history that's ever said that

00:26:52.700 so you think you're gonna be the first one now do you have the ability to do that sure are you doing 0.90

00:27:00.700 it maybe have you done it to your maximum ability probably not and if you want to be what it is you

00:27:08.200 say you want to be you would become that i love it dude i love it man guys andy our third and

00:27:15.000 final question. I got a young buck here. Question number three, Andy, I believe social media has

00:27:22.980 completely messed up my perception of success. I'm 23 and every day I see people my age claiming

00:27:30.380 they're millionaires. They're buying watches, they're buying cars, buying houses. Meanwhile,

00:27:34.940 I'm trying to figure out my career and pay my rent on time. Realistically, I know comparison

00:27:40.440 and it's stupid, but it still gets in my head. So how do you recommend I stay focused on the 0.86

00:27:46.240 real world when the internet constantly makes me feel behind? Okay. There's a couple of things here.

00:27:51.300 Number one, you have to understand you're not wrong. Okay. I have watched the internet evolve.

00:28:02.120 All right. When I started on social media in 2012, you had a few entrepreneurs that were

00:28:08.860 giving good advice that had actually built real things like what i mean by real things is like 0.92

00:28:13.360 you could see them you could order their product they were like they had real shit real businesses 0.65

00:28:18.240 okay now this has evolved into a big horse and pony show and these kids what they do 0.94

00:28:30.920 is they go out they create some sort of hustle and then they take all that money and they go 0.96

00:28:37.780 lease a fucking lamborghini for or whatever for you know a 12-year interest only lease 0.75

00:28:47.140 trying to posture so that you the actual guy will look at them and say i'm gonna buy whatever 0.99

00:28:53.940 they're selling they must be doing something right yeah this has completely fucked the perception of 0.98

00:29:01.540 what entrepreneurship is actually about entrepreneurship is the hardest fucking job 0.99

00:29:07.040 you will ever choose in your entire life. 0.97

00:29:09.600 And when you see some kid out there saying,

00:29:11.940 I'm the guy that got this at 23, how did you get it?

00:29:16.560 Where's your company?

00:29:18.080 Where's your employees?

00:29:19.760 What do you ship?

00:29:21.020 What service do you offer?

00:29:22.640 Can I talk to your customers?

00:29:24.420 Where are they?

00:29:25.560 Who are they? 1.00

00:29:26.840 Okay, and you have to learn to vet this shit out 0.99

00:29:29.380 because it doesn't take a whole bunch of selling widgets 1.00

00:29:33.200 or bullshit to afford a three thousand dollar a month lease to then pretend to be successful 0.93

00:29:40.040 okay you have to know the difference and if you lack the discernment to be able to tell the 0.97

00:29:46.420 difference you're you're not going to be successful anyway because you don't have enough

00:29:50.060 intelligence to do it that's just the truth like there's a bare minimum there is a bare minimum

00:29:53.940 intelligence that's required and being able to to do due diligence to understand if someone is real

00:30:00.280 or not that's one of them and and dude part of the problem is we want to believe that story yeah

00:30:06.480 okay especially when we're 19 20 21 22 we want to believe it we want to believe that we can be the

00:30:12.740 guy who's on a yacht uh you know and and driving a fucking uh a bugatti when they're 24 years old 0.69

00:30:21.620 we want to because that sounds fucking awesome man you can do it bro when i was 24 someone was 0.98

00:30:26.220 saying oh dude you could drive a book i for sure would have bought their shit because i'm like how 0.98

00:30:29.520 the fuck did they do it so you lack the perspective to understand what it's actually about and this is 0.99

00:30:35.540 a big problem and what it does is it creates this this issue where a lot of people who are not cut 0.99

00:30:44.460 out for the lane of entrepreneurship start believing that that's the right lane for them 0.97

00:30:50.440 to be in but they're not built for it bro it's hard as fuck it takes everything you got you have 0.92

00:30:57.860 to be willing to give things up you're going to lose relationships you're going to lose friends 1.00

00:31:02.760 you're going to lose fucking a lot of shit to be successful you're going to pass up on a lot of 0.99

00:31:08.600 shit and you're going to have to do that for a really long time and that entire time that you're 0.99

00:31:13.260 doing it you're going to have to wonder if it's ever going to work out very few people are actually 0.99

00:31:18.660 set up to just hammer and hammer and hammer and hammer and never know if it's actually going to

00:31:25.260 materialize. That is a fucking special kind of person. That's a special kind of mental toughness 1.00

00:31:30.940 and not everybody's equipped for that. And not everybody wants to give up their weekends and

00:31:36.440 their nights and their dinners, nor should they, nor should they. There's nothing wrong with earning

00:31:43.320 an honest living and having a balanced life that makes you happy. You don't have to be this. You

00:31:50.560 don't have to but for the ones that really want it you have to be able to discern what's real and

00:31:56.460 what's fake and there's so much fake out here that it's almost impossible for them to tell

00:32:01.980 because these people are good at faking it and you lack the perspective that someone like me

00:32:07.820 who's built really fucking massive things in real life has from looking back down the mountain okay

00:32:15.360 like when you're at the bottom of the mountain and you see someone that is you know a quarter 0.98

00:32:20.040 the way up and you're like fuck how'd he get there so fast well you didn't see the helicopter 1.00

00:32:24.340 come over and drop him the fuck off or that it's a green screen yeah yes you didn't see that shit 0.99

00:32:29.860 dude so you have to realize that like literally 99 of these people on the internet are full of 1.00

00:32:36.720 fucking shit i real talk full stop 99 if you can't see their company and you can't order their 0.99

00:32:45.160 product and you can't talk to their customers or they don't have a service or they don't you can't 1.00

00:32:50.740 recognize the businesses or they won't tell you the businesses or they like that's all red flag 0.97

00:32:56.040 shit that you have to fucking understand every if let me ask you this if you had real businesses 0.98

00:33:03.260 and you had this massive portfolio of small businesses and shit and all these things going 1.00

00:33:08.980 on and you were actually trying to wouldn't you tell what would be the reason you wouldn't tell 0.67

00:33:13.800 people that if that's what you're trying to help people do why would you hide that yeah there's no

00:33:18.960 reason for it you would be showing people you would be going into the businesses you would say

00:33:23.080 here's this business that i'm partners in we're doing this and this and this here's this business

00:33:27.500 that we're doing we're doing this and this and this here's this person that i helped they did

00:33:31.200 they went from here to here and that person would say yeah i did it like there would be real world

00:33:35.860 evidence you'd be able to go order their products you'd be able to read their reviews this you have 0.99

00:33:40.360 to verify this shit okay if you can't do that they're fucking lying because if they were doing 0.99

00:33:47.460 it it would be an asset and a marketing advantage for them to show that shit so understand that 0.99

00:33:53.660 there's all these people out here that are selling digital coaching that are saying oh i made all 0.99

00:34:00.720 this money doing this and this and this and this and they got like they might have a couple cars

00:34:05.480 they might have all right but their businesses what what are the names of them where are they

00:34:11.780 how come you're never shooting how come if you've how come if you have these things why are you 0.96

00:34:16.840 shooting content in your front fucking yard yeah why aren't you like why we never see you in your 0.99

00:34:21.440 office why we never see you you see what i'm saying like why because they're lying okay and 1.00

00:34:29.840 they're making all of their money selling you something that they never actually did okay so 0.52

00:34:35.340 keep that in mind now what you have to understand is that there's a that's the bullshit the reality 0.99

00:34:42.080 is that you are going to have to be prepared to run the motherfucking gauntlet and guess what 0.99

00:34:50.540 the gauntlet never fucking ends it's not something there's an end to you're not going to get to the 0.98

00:34:56.240 end of it there's no light at the tunnel bro it's a constant fight that's the path you're choosing 0.97

00:35:00.740 you are choosing a path of a constant battle that's going to last your entire life and what

00:35:05.680 you're going to get out of it is a lifestyle and an experience that other people will never have

00:35:11.080 and we can argue what's better or not but that's the reality all right you're not going to have to

00:35:17.080 worry about paying for dinners you're not going to have to worry about where you go to vacation

00:35:20.920 you're not going to have to worry about which car you want to drive you're not going to have to

00:35:24.220 worry about making mortgage payments those people are going to have to worry about them but they

00:35:29.280 are going to have things that you don't have they are going to have their weekends they are going

00:35:34.200 to have their nights with their families they are going to have other things that you just won't be 0.98

00:35:38.600 able to have in the same capacity so we got to understand the reality before you fucking sign up 0.95

00:35:44.280 for it okay and your question was i always feel like i'm behind well yeah man because you're 0.99

00:35:51.420 consuming internet bullshit yeah okay you know how many motherfuckers out here are out here 0.99

00:35:58.100 building real careers doing real shit and real companies that are becoming very successful 1.00

00:36:05.280 that probably feel like they're way behind because these other people are lying 0.81

00:36:11.120 like dude it's a big problem yeah you know and and you just have to remind yourself dude that 0.98

00:36:16.900 it's just not real you know it's just not real shit okay i've been doing this long enough okay 0.93

00:36:24.540 in the personal development game there's i couldn't really go any higher that's the truth 0.96

00:36:30.620 okay i got to the point where i got tired of doing it that's when i switched off msco in 2020

00:36:36.600 like it's like i i won that game you know what i'm saying i

00:36:42.600 i just don't 1.00

00:36:48.160 that's a whole nother thing because now it created a vacuum for all this stupid shit 1.00

00:36:55.500 you guys got to understand man there's nothing wrong with with with building something real 1.00

00:37:03.900 and it taking a long time that's actually how it goes okay and all these people who are telling 0.96

00:37:09.260 you different and then saying buy my shit they're making all their money off buy my shit okay it's 0.99

00:37:15.740 a fucking act yeah it's a fucking character and if you're out there and you're working hard and 0.99

00:37:23.740 you're working smart and you're genuinely building something i can promise you this is not going to 1.00

00:37:29.700 look like bugatti's in three fucking years it's fucking not do not let these liars make you feel 0.99

00:37:37.740 like you're doing it wrong because it's hard for you do not make let these people make you feel 0.99

00:37:43.980 like you're doing it wrong because it's taking longer than it maybe took them because they're

00:37:48.460 you're already way ahead of them because you're building something fucking real okay easy come 0.83

00:37:54.120 easy going dude i was just about to fucking say that dude it's it's an appearance fast money 0.88

00:37:59.760 comes fast money goes you want a foundation for your whole entire life that's going to create 0.91

00:38:05.140 generational wealth to the point where when you know you're my age you know i don't have to i

00:38:11.320 don't have to do anything like i don't have to do anything i could never show up here again

00:38:17.220 and it doesn't matter how much inflation happens i'm going to be living the same life 0.95

00:38:23.420 but again i'm built for the motherfucking game i've been doing this so long that i'm it's i'm 0.98

00:38:31.440 addicted to it and you go oh that's not healthy well it's not healthy for you because i'll tell 0.99

00:38:36.400 you what's not healthy for me is not doing it because every motherfucking time i've tried to 0.98

00:38:40.980 relax and be a normal person you know what happens i end up sitting on the couch thinking 1.00

00:38:44.860 fuck dude i'm gonna fucking kill myself this is fucking horrible and i don't say that figuratively 1.00

00:38:49.920 i mean literally so for me i have to fight i have to go and if you're really built for it 1.00

00:38:57.020 you understand exactly what i'm saying and if you're not built for it it sounds fucking crazy

00:39:00.920 okay but if you are built for it and you try to live like everybody else you're going to be 0.98

00:39:06.420 fucking miserable so don't let these people talk you into like you know oh you got to relax or you 1.00

00:39:12.820 got to do this or you got to do this or you know you got trauma or relax or fuck bro that's for you 1.00

00:39:18.480 this is what i do and the world fucking requires people like that what if there wasn't a bunch of 1.00

00:39:25.820 crazy psycho motherfuckers that were addicted to building shit do you what the world would look 1.00

00:39:30.080 like okay the world needs fucking people who are willing to fight people who are relentless people 1.00

00:39:36.040 who never give up people who are addicted to the game all the great shit that's ever been built 1.00

00:39:40.860 that you utilize every single day the places you go to eat the clothes you wear the fucking cars 0.99

00:39:45.020 your drugs they're all built by people like that bro all of it okay so if you're one of those people 0.99

00:39:50.840 and everybody's telling you're one of those people it's probably a good thing no all right no but you 0.99

00:39:56.180 got to understand dude they're speaking a different language than you all right all that shit you see 0.99

00:40:03.540 on the internet that's for other people all that feel good shit that's for other people all that 1.00

00:40:09.760 shit, all that idealistic bullshit, that's for people to feel better about not pursuing what 1.00

00:40:19.380 they know they're supposed to pursue. The reason they're depressed, the reason they have anxiety, 1.00

00:40:24.120 the reason they're unfulfilled, it has nothing to do with how much they've done. It has to do with

00:40:29.520 what they know they should have done, but chose not to do. And there's wrestling with it on the

00:40:33.240 inside. And if they would have applied themselves or if they start now, that would change. Okay.

00:40:39.280 It's really hard to be depressed

00:40:40.940 when you have big goals and big dreams

00:40:42.780 that you're working on every day. 0.97

00:40:44.060 Really fucking hard. 0.98

00:40:45.360 All right? 0.97

00:40:47.380 So, I know I said a lot there,

00:40:49.760 but at the end of the day, 1.00

00:40:52.080 fuck these motherfuckers on the internet. 1.00

00:40:54.140 They're a bunch of liars. 1.00

00:40:55.720 98% of them are liars. 1.00

00:40:57.540 If they can't show you their fucking receipts, 1.00

00:40:59.340 they're lying. 1.00

00:40:59.960 Period.

00:41:00.400 Because if they could show you their receipts, 0.99

00:41:03.400 they'd fucking show them 0.99

00:41:04.360 because it would help them do what they're doing. 0.99

00:41:07.380 Or you would just know. 1.00

00:41:08.500 you would know those names of those companies you yeah yeah come on dude it's bullshit yeah 0.98

00:41:14.260 yeah okay now now are there's people now are there people that have specialized skill sets 0.94

00:41:21.000 that know that know how to help and do can sell around those things absolutely absolutely but

00:41:27.440 those people are also wealthy for real because they've utilized those skill sets to build that 0.92

00:41:32.400 wealth all right so you have to be able to discern all this shit but i'm going to tell you right now 0.97

00:41:38.500 i've been around this a long time dude 0.87

00:41:43.580 and i'm just being real okay most most of it and i'm not talking about 80 i'm talking 0.96

00:41:51.300 upper 90 is total smoke and mirrors that's it so you can't let it fucking you can't let it make 0.92

00:42:00.300 you think that it's real it's like it's like comparing oh and by the way there's another 0.89

00:42:06.740 part to that question he said something about comparing what do you say in there he said 0.98

00:42:12.380 realistically i know comparison is stupid no it's not stupid that's the point that was what i was 0.98

00:42:16.620 going to say that was the point comparison is a fucking amazing thing if you're comparing to the 0.99

00:42:21.980 right people that's right okay you are in a competition you can pretend you're not people 0.70

00:42:29.540 can say you're not everybody can act like it's wrong but the truth of the matter is you are in

00:42:35.400 a competition you are trying to do something that only a certain amount of people get to do

00:42:39.680 and you're trying to do it at a level that only a certain amount of people ever get to get at 0.99

00:42:43.760 and that means it's a fucking competition for who the fuck gets there this whole idea that 0.98

00:42:49.360 everybody can do it it's not true because there's other people in your lane doing the same thing 0.99

00:42:54.300 that you and there's only so much market share and you have to own that market share to get to

00:43:00.000 that result and if you don't you won't so it is a competition a fucking very real one probably the 0.98

00:43:05.820 fiercest toughest most brutal competition you could ever sign up for it's harder than fucking 0.99

00:43:12.180 anything and this idea that it's not a competition is total shit that's what people tell people 0.99

00:43:19.440 who have given up on all their shit and want to feel good about it that's why i say a lot of these 0.99

00:43:24.420 people are predatory they know what they're saying what's a what's what's a bigger market to sell to 0.99

00:43:30.700 the two percent of entrepreneurs that are actually successful out of the eight percent of the total 0.95

00:43:39.060 population eight percent of the fucking eight percent of the population eight ten percent of 0.88

00:43:43.560 entrepreneurs two percent are fucking successful of that eight okay what's a bigger market 0.98

00:43:49.560 that 10 or that 90 that feel bad about their life going the way that they want to go and you 0.95

00:43:57.660 could sell them things that make them feel better that don't know any better these people 0.97

00:44:01.220 are salesmen they like when you hear all this feel good shit about inner peace and all this 0.99

00:44:06.800 fucking shit that's for them i'm gonna tell you something dude you're signing up for the 0.99

00:44:12.900 hardest battle ever it's very rare that you get inner peace okay you don't get to sit around and 1.00

00:44:17.380 rub fucking bowls you know what i'm saying like that ain't the fucking life you're signing up 1.00

00:44:22.000 crystals you can shove up you're signing up for fucking hard-ass shit you're signing up for 2 a.m 1.00

00:44:26.260 phone calls you're signing up for getting out of bed at fucking four o'clock in the morning you're 1.00

00:44:30.180 signing up for getting your balls kicked in every motherfucking day you're signing up for losing 1.00

00:44:34.120 money over and over and over and over and over again you're signing up for losing girlfriends 1.00

00:44:37.780 losing boyfriends losing friends losing relationships missing out on all cool shit quote 1.00

00:44:42.340 unquote that's what the fuck you're signing up for that is the path but then again the reward 0.99

00:44:48.300 is much different than what they get okay and and dude what they get they should just appreciate it 0.99

00:44:55.100 like if you're one of these people who's not in that 90 or not in that 10 bro live your life

00:45:02.000 do well enough to live your life and enjoy your life don't agonize yourself into thinking that

00:45:08.100 you need to be an entrepreneur that you got to make all this money or this or that bro you you

00:45:14.400 have a gift too yeah and by the way that's most people and you know what those people usually if

00:45:21.620 they don't antagonize themselves with these fake dreams about who they aren't are actually the 0.98

00:45:28.380 happier people okay well don't you want to be happy and i am happy because my fucking what i 0.97

00:45:35.860 do makes me happy you don't understand that that's right like you're thinking what makes you 0.99

00:45:42.300 happy makes me happy that is not the same thing bro if i said if i went home every day fucking 0.93

00:45:47.100 four o'clock and sat around and then every weekend i didn't have shit to do i would be 0.95

00:45:52.040 fucking miserable it lasts a couple of days oh dude for me at this point in my life i can't even 0.97

00:45:57.000 do it for a day yeah andy why aren't you going on two-week vacations because bro that's i can't 0.99

00:46:02.220 do that I'm not into that that doesn't make me fucking happy that doesn't make I'm a builder 0.68

00:46:07.200 I'm a creator I want to be in the fucking fight that's what makes me fucking happy I'm wired that 0.96

00:46:11.380 way all right you're wired a different way that's fucking totally cool man okay but like this whole 0.99

00:46:18.120 thing like this is why like people that are wired the other way they always say well you should do 0.71

00:46:23.360 this and this and this and you know but you're not you don't seem to be happy yeah because you

00:46:27.100 don't understand what makes me happy it is inconceivable to you that someone would be happy 0.99

00:46:31.740 living in that kind of a battle but if we didn't have people like that what the fuck would the

00:46:37.600 world look like so if you're one of those people you have to realize that you are a very important 0.99

00:46:42.280 person in society that provides a ton of value for people and they're gonna fucking think you're 0.56

00:46:46.740 crazy for doing it but they're gonna benefit from it so it's like be what you are dude you 0.64

00:46:54.100 know what i'm saying yeah there's nothing wrong with with either way but you got to know what you 0.99

00:46:59.280 are and you got to be true to yourself otherwise you're going to fucking be miserable yeah father 0.89

00:47:03.820 that's the that's the you can be extremely successful as an entrepreneur oh dude extremely 0.97

00:47:08.160 dude listen the happiest people are very effective entrepreneurs yeah are people who are part of an

00:47:13.460 organization who come in who kick ass who are very skilled they get paid very well because they

00:47:18.660 provide value and then they still get to have the benefits of going home enjoying their family

00:47:25.940 going on vacations and doing the things that normal people do and they love that that those

00:47:32.340 are the actually the happiest people because they get enough financial freedom to live their life

00:47:37.300 there's i actually like real talk dude

00:47:41.060 i wish i was one of those people a lot of times i just i'm just not

00:47:47.960 and i tried to be one of those people i had a very i had a person that i respect a whole lot

00:47:53.580 who's a good friend of mine one time tried to convince me that i needed to like

00:47:58.040 chill out and relax and you know this and i tried to do that bro and i went through the hardest

00:48:04.540 darkest time of my entire life like where i got literally suicidal about it and i felt like bro 0.57

00:48:11.900 what the fuck is wrong with me and i was sitting with my other friend zoltan and we were sitting 0.54

00:48:17.080 in uh my my cigar lounge having this amazing conversation i was explaining this to him he's 0.97

00:48:21.580 like and you know the guy's so smart and uh so simple too yeah he's like uh did you ever think

00:48:27.880 that you know uh you're built for the fight like did you ever realize that people like he's telling 0.99

00:48:32.780 me what i'm telling you and what once that clicked i was like oh game on motherfucker yeah that's 1.00

00:48:38.740 right this is what the fuck i am that's right you know it's like it's like trying to be a fish 1.00

00:48:43.500 and climbing a tree like the shit doesn't fishes swim that's right you know what i'm saying like 1.00

00:48:49.440 go swim yeah go swim you know and and fucking uh raccoons climb trees or whatever man i'm one of 0.99

00:48:55.280 them you know i'm not the same as you yeah and there are different kinds of human beings so 0.88

00:48:59.880 you got to know what you are and you got to go on that path and you got to choose wisely now in the

00:49:05.040 beginning you have a lot of doubt because right now there's a lot of young people listening like 1.00

00:49:10.900 Oh, fuck. 0.99

00:49:11.820 Which one am I? 1.00

00:49:12.780 Yeah, that's right.

00:49:13.200 How do I know then?

00:49:13.860 How do I know?

00:49:14.880 Here's how you know.

00:49:17.060 Are you willing to have that life that they have?

00:49:20.840 That's it.

00:49:22.280 Are you willing to have what everybody else has?

00:49:26.320 Does that appeal to you?

00:49:27.360 Is that what you want?

00:49:28.660 If that's not what you want and you want more,

00:49:30.860 you're never going to be happy with that.

00:49:34.460 There's a secret sauce, dog.

00:49:36.140 That's it.

00:49:37.000 I love it, dude.

00:49:37.900 I love it, man.

00:49:38.860 Beautiful Memorial Day man

00:49:41.000 Guys Andy

00:49:42.100 That was three

00:49:43.020 Alright

00:49:43.620 Alright guys

00:49:44.660 We will see you tomorrow

00:49:45.720 With CTI 1.00

00:49:46.700 Don't be a hoe 1.00

00:49:48.060 Share this show 1.00

00:49:48.880 Went from sleeping

00:49:50.300 On the floor

00:49:51.160 Now my jewelry box froze 1.00

00:49:52.840 Fuck a bowl 1.00

00:49:53.660 Fuck a stove 1.00

00:49:54.480 Counted millions 1.00

00:49:55.360 In the cold 1.00

00:49:56.180 Bad bitch 1.00

00:49:57.020 Booted swole 1.00

00:49:57.860 Got her on bankroll 1.00

00:49:59.480 Can't fold 1.00

00:50:00.340 Doesn't know 0.75

00:50:01.160 Headshot

00:50:01.960 Case closed

00:50:02.900 close

REAL AF with Andy Frisella - May 25, 2026

1030. Q&AF： Fighting The ＂Broke Mentality＂, Does Success Change Treatment & Social Media Success Pressure

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