REAL AF with Andy Frisella - November 03, 2021


164. Realizing Unrealized Potential Through Duty


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

166.63043

Word Count

2,044

Sentence Count

29

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

Today we have a real talk about what it means to be an entrepreneur and a citizen of the United States of America and why it s important to have an obligation to build the best life that you can be for this country.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what's up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
00:00:21.540 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
00:00:25.700 have a real talk it's going to be short it's going to be quick before I get into it I want to remind
00:00:30.480 you of the fee all right the fee is very simple the show made you think if it made you laugh if it
00:00:35.780 made you see things from a different perspective it was good info if you think your friends should
00:00:39.380 hear it if you're appreciating the fact that we're putting out all this amazing content to bless your
00:00:44.240 eardrums and make you feel good and make you smarter and make you more money please share the
00:00:49.280 show that's the fee all right now I want to get into something and it's something I think is
00:00:56.280 important a lot of people when they think of America and they think of what's important in America
00:01:04.820 they only think of themselves they think of building a career they think of making money
00:01:11.540 they think of becoming a successful entrepreneur a successful businessman having a nice house having
00:01:17.400 a nice car raising a good family those are the things that matter to most people okay being free
00:01:24.520 to do what it is you want to do and it doesn't matter what religion you are what race you are what
00:01:30.740 country you come from this country is made for everybody to have a chance to be better okay and when
00:01:38.740 most people think of that they think when they're born here or that they come here that it's about them
00:01:44.560 it's about going out executing and winning and that's true it is about you it is about your
00:01:52.080 journey it is about building something great for you but something that's rarely talked about something
00:01:57.780 that is rarely considered is something that I literally think about every day and I think that
00:02:05.640 if you would think about it like I think about it I think it would help you stay motivated I think it
00:02:09.160 would help you stay more disciplined I think it would help you stay sharper okay those of you who
00:02:14.380 follow me you know that almost every day I post this big giant American flag it's in my gym all right
00:02:19.280 and that flag is actually as big as our first retail store that we opened back in 1999 now when I look at
00:02:26.640 that flag I'm not posting that flag for the people who've been elected in office I'm not posting that
00:02:34.620 flag for the media who seems to hate our country and hate us I'm posting that flag for the idea of
00:02:44.120 what this country could be and the idea of what this country should be and the idea of what we should
00:02:51.120 be doing to help enrich that soil that makes up this country okay I look at it different I don't see
00:03:01.120 my success and my drive and my businesses and all of these things I don't see that as a selfish quest
00:03:09.280 I don't see that as oh Andy wants to make this much dollars that's not how I look at it dude
00:03:14.880 here's how I look at it I look at it like this I look at it like this country was made for us to go out
00:03:24.980 and build amazing things this country was made for us to take care of our communities when we build
00:03:32.100 those amazing things this country requires people to go out and produce and create so that our economy
00:03:41.040 can flourish and grow and people can have careers they can buy houses they can have families okay that's the
00:03:48.420 purpose of growing a company here in America all right now when we think of you know us going out
00:03:58.020 and you think of like achieving your goals and all these things you want to do it's real easy to get
00:04:02.480 caught up into what you're going to get okay but what I want you to think about is what is your obligation
00:04:07.960 to this country what are you paying back into the system right because entrepreneurs and successful
00:04:14.680 people have a duty to build great things not just because it creates success for you not just
00:04:22.500 because it creates wealth for you but because it provides unlimited opportunities for people to come
00:04:28.340 and build their dreams within your organization because it solves real problems on the ground level
00:04:33.480 because it makes life better for other Americans I see that as an obligation and the biggest obligation
00:04:41.000 I see when I look at that flag when it comes to being an entrepreneur is and really just being a
00:04:47.160 citizen of this country if I'm being completely honest is this when I look at that flag I realize
00:04:52.060 that lots and lots and lots and lots of people have died for this country and the least that I could do
00:05:00.800 to pay them back is to go out and set a fucking example for what it means to be great in this country
00:05:09.720 and I think that's the biggest obligation that all of us have every single one of you listening
00:05:15.820 every single one of you listening right now that lives here in the United States of America
00:05:20.680 you have an obligation to build the literal best fucking life that you can it's an obligation it's a duty
00:05:30.380 it's a must do just like people serve in the military just like people are supposed to serve when it comes
00:05:37.080 to politics which a lot more regular people are getting into that's great okay but when it comes
00:05:43.040 to your daily life when it comes to building your life out when it comes to your family when it comes
00:05:49.240 to your career when it comes to how you treat people with how you live and what you stand for
00:05:53.500 you have a duty to build that out the very best you can because that's what causes real change
00:06:02.040 real change in this country will not happen until the individual changes and embraces the opportunity
00:06:08.740 that our country affords every single person that comes here and if it doesn't afford every single
00:06:14.820 person that comes here the same opportunity then we work to make that happen okay that's something that
00:06:21.800 we should all be committed to but when you guys go out there and you point your finger at all these
00:06:27.840 people who aren't doing shit and you're fucking 100 pounds overweight your business is half-assed
00:06:34.580 your career is half-assed you're half-assed than it to fucking work you're a shitty fucking family
00:06:39.720 person uh you're a shitty partner you're a shitty parent okay and you point the finger at all these
00:06:45.560 blue hair people and shit that you say you don't like guess what motherfucker you ain't any better
00:06:49.840 than them you ain't any better okay because our biggest problem in this country is not this person
00:06:58.640 or that person or these people or that people it's this it's that the people who actually believe in
00:07:06.400 america who actually believe in this country who believe that this is a country that should be could be
00:07:14.100 and will be great and inclusive to people from literally fucking everywhere getting along for the
00:07:21.300 common good those people who believe that idea those people who believe in what i call real america
00:07:27.940 okay you're leaving a lot on the motherfucking table and that unrealized potential from that group of
00:07:35.180 people is what's creating the fucking problem here all right we have a big group of people who believe in
00:07:41.240 all the things this country should stand for freedom okay doing the right thing equality of
00:07:47.500 opportunity hard work sacrifice reward kindness for your neighbor service to the country we have all
00:07:57.700 kinds of people who believe in that but those people that group is leaving so much on the fucking table
00:08:03.700 mainly because you're waiting around for someone else to come around and fix it and what we have here
00:08:09.440 is a degradation of societal values that have regressed over time to where we have become
00:08:17.800 complacent to being fucking average motherfuckers what was the last thing you did that was fucking great
00:08:24.660 how's your bank account what's your fitness look like how's your family life do you talk to your
00:08:32.340 neighbors about getting better or do you talk about the fucking football game
00:08:35.380 we have a duty to this country and to all the people who have sacrificed literally fucking
00:08:42.200 everything to be the best that we can and that's the difference people ask andy how do you stay
00:08:48.440 motivated andy how do you stay going after 23 years of business what keeps you going because i have an
00:08:54.740 obligation to keep going many people came before me including people in my family who have fucking died for
00:09:02.980 this country i have an obligation to show up i have an obligation to do the best i can do i always
00:09:10.080 execute perfectly no but i at least fucking try the hardest i can and that's our fucking problem right
00:09:16.200 now so when you sit there and you think about what it is you can do the best motherfucking thing you can
00:09:22.960 do is to start realizing the unrealized potential in yourself because it sets an example not just for your
00:09:29.460 kids not just for your spouse but it sets an example for your neighbor and when your one neighbor
00:09:34.540 catches it their neighbor catches it and when their neighbor catches it soon you got a group that's
00:09:38.640 caught it then you got a community that's caught it then you got a city that's caught it now you
00:09:42.980 got a fucking state that's caught it and after you get some states that have caught it guess what now
00:09:48.100 we've got a country that's caught it we have a culture problem in this country and the culture is
00:09:54.740 mediocrity and it's spoon fed to us from every single fucking outlet that we have available to
00:10:01.740 us to consume content, whether that be social media, whether that be traditional media,
00:10:07.600 whether it be commercials, whether it be movies, we are fed mediocrity 24 seven. Why is that?
00:10:17.520 It's because of all the shit I just told you. It's because of all the unrealized potential
00:10:22.820 that they want us to have. Because the less we realize our potential, the more they can realize
00:10:30.780 their potential. You have an obligation to be fucking great being a citizen of this country.
00:10:38.120 You have an obligation to do the best that you can. You have an obligation to be better than you
00:10:43.300 were fucking yesterday. That's the difference. So when you ask me what the difference is between
00:10:50.960 myself and how other people look at it or why I keep going or what I keep doing or what the fuck,
00:10:56.940 why I'm crazy and fanatical about this, because it's a fucking duty for me. It's a fucking obligation
00:11:02.760 for me. And I feel like a fucking bitch if I don't at least try to fulfill it. I don't want to be the
00:11:09.200 person who's laying on their bed at however many years old fucking saying, God, dude, I could have
00:11:15.060 done all these things, but I didn't. I don't want to be that person. When it's time for me to go,
00:11:22.060 I want to be the person that everybody says, fuck, dude, that guy squeezed it all out, man.
00:11:26.360 That guy fucking left it all on the field. He was a great fucking American. That's what I want to be
00:11:30.880 known as. I want to be known as a great fucking American. And every single one of you can be known
00:11:36.500 for that same motherfucking thing. Every one of you. Because it's not about how much money you make.
00:11:42.000 It's not about where you end up. It's about the example you set for everybody else around you
00:11:47.780 and what you contribute to when it comes to our American culture. So when you ask me what it is
00:11:53.220 that makes me different, nothing makes me different. It's just how I see things.
00:12:12.000 Thank you.
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