REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 19. Real Talk： The #1 Thing That Really Divides Us

00:00:00.000 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living 1.00

00:00:04.680 spoke it till existence mo changed to 50 got mo cost than did i only weigh 180 but my watch

00:00:11.720 cost 250 what's up guys it's andy frisella and this is the show for the realists say goodbye

00:00:17.120 to the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and there's a lot of them right now

00:00:21.840 and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we have one of my real talk episodes as you know 0.59

00:00:29.200 these are short episodes it's gonna punch you in the face i'm gonna pick you up off the floor i'm 0.99

00:00:33.860 gonna dust you off i'm gonna send you back into the game this is how these go i need you to know

00:00:38.940 if this is your first time listening i'm not a quote unquote motivational speaker i'm an entrepreneur

00:00:45.200 i'm a teacher i'm somebody who works to bring people the information they need to get better

00:00:52.040 so this isn't going to be some rah rah you're a super winner uh positivity fluff job that's not

00:00:59.140 what this is that's not what the show is that's not what i am and if that's what you're looking

00:01:03.700 for you're in the wrong spot i want to change the way you live and that starts in your mind and to

00:01:10.920 to change your mind you've got to change the way that you think okay so guys getting started here

00:01:17.860 i have a very simple question for you what is it that really divides us as americans and citizens

00:01:27.380 of the world i mean everywhere we look right now everybody's always talking about how america is

00:01:34.020 deeply divided whether or not you're american or not that's what people are saying and i want you to

00:01:39.940 really think about what that question means what is it that really divides us the truth is i think most

00:01:47.640 people are absolutely wrong about what divides us i really do i think that they are dead wrong a lot of

00:01:55.120 people think it's politics that divides us now there's no question that politics in america generally fall

00:02:02.760 into two groups democrat or republican liberal conservative left right okay but there's far more people in the

00:02:12.640 spectrum than just two options all right there's people that fall everywhere in between those two

00:02:18.480 options and that never gets discussed but coming to the topic of division do you really think that the

00:02:26.420 average person or the average people of this country really hate other people because they disagree with

00:02:33.040 them politically do you because i don't okay i have friends from all different political views in all

00:02:40.560 different cultures okay and there's nothing wrong with having different opinions people see life through

00:02:47.400 different sets of lenses they get a different perspective depending on how they grew up depending

00:02:53.480 on what schools they went to depending on where they grew up depending on a lot of different things and

00:02:59.720 this is something that really gets lost amongst people everybody has a unique perspective and they base their

00:03:06.720 opinions based around that perspective and it's nothing that should divide us under any circumstances and i

00:03:14.580 don't think that it does all right and that moves us on to the next topic what about race are america's 0.84

00:03:21.120 really divided on race i'm not talking about whether racism is still a real problem in america or the world

00:03:26.900 because it is in certain circumstances i'm talking about whether the average person in the united states

00:03:33.700 hates someone because they are black or hates someone because they are latino or hates someone

00:03:41.240 because they are asian like my boy dave i'm talking about whether or not the average person in america

00:03:47.920 refuses to be friends with a person of another race or refuses to do business with them because they're 0.97

00:03:53.980 red yellow black white brown yellow blah blah blah whatever it doesn't matter i don't believe that's true

00:04:00.720 i really don't i don't observe it anywhere i go i could tell you for a fact that i'm not like that and i can also

00:04:07.320 tell you that every single business owner i know and i know a lot of them are also not like that all right

00:04:13.160 race never plays a role and is even a conversation about how i particularly choose my friends i don't even

00:04:21.260 think about it i don't even think about it and i don't know any people that do i just don't you know

00:04:27.980 i don't see any companies out there that where race comes into their hiring practices i don't see

00:04:34.640 uh many companies out there that are not hiring people just because they are from a certain

00:04:40.060 uh cultural background i just don't see it okay does it happen yeah it does happen but it's not what

00:04:48.000 people are making us think okay we've grown up in a society now for the last 10 or so years 12 years

00:04:55.920 where you can't even tell jokes to each other anymore the world is so politically correct that

00:05:01.420 if you joke around with someone of a different race everybody looks around like fuck dude was that

00:05:06.200 out of line or did i accidentally say something racist like dude this is fucking ridiculous it is 0.94

00:05:12.160 ridiculous okay kidding around and joking around with your friends no matter what the fuck color they 0.99

00:05:17.620 are is what shows them that they are family we all operate that way most of us so why has it become

00:05:26.740 something that we can't even fucking joke about guys the bottom line here is i think we're being lied 0.87

00:05:32.620 to i think people some people at least in the media want to talk about how divided we are by race but it's

00:05:40.280 not as bad as what they say it is the vast majority of us that's you listening to do not hate someone

00:05:47.840 from another race we don't think of it as it's us against them i don't you don't and most of the other 1.00

00:05:55.000 people don't either the reality is guys most of the things we're told divide us as americans don't

00:06:01.000 really divide us when you consider it all the politics the race the religion the sexual orientation

00:06:07.120 whatever it is okay they're not the things that divide us they just aren't are there extremists

00:06:15.420 who hate and judge and shut themselves off from anyone who is different than them fuck yeah there 0.87

00:06:20.940 are there's a lot of them those people are fucking ignorant okay i agree but every single day in this

00:06:26.780 country there are millions and millions and millions of people who are very very different who still get

00:06:32.940 along very very well they hold extremely different political views and they're still good friends

00:06:40.240 there are people of different races who work for the same company and they still crush it in business 1.00

00:06:46.260 together and have a great time doing it there are gay atheists who would love to have a beer with

00:06:52.080 christian republicans there are white baby boomers out there who wouldn't think twice about pulling over 1.00

00:06:58.560 and helping a young black kid change a tire on his car it happens every day in america and it's never

00:07:05.680 talked about every single day it's not the exception these aren't the things that should be celebrated as

00:07:12.640 the exception this is the norm but we're being lied to and we've been lied to about what divides us and

00:07:20.080 you want to know why i'll tell you why we are told that we are divided by race religion politics or

00:07:25.840 whatever because in each race and in each religion and each political party there are winners there

00:07:33.420 are exceptional people there are people who are happy and successful because they always do the

00:07:38.800 right thing they don't whine about their problems they are grateful for their life they create

00:07:44.060 opportunities for themselves they do everything they can to make the most of their lives and they

00:07:49.100 impact the people around them in a positive way the bottom line here is they're good people

00:07:54.960 they're hard-working people who make the world a better place and here's the reality about that

00:08:00.360 the people who want to control and manipulate us some of the media some of the politicians certain

00:08:07.260 people in positions of power and influence they don't want us to get along they don't want it they

00:08:13.920 know if all the truly exceptional people got together out there and we started working together

00:08:19.480 something amazing would happen if we started building friendships if we started creating

00:08:25.060 closer communities and stronger businesses together they won't be able to stop us can you see what i'm

00:08:33.540 saying here what would happen if all the truly exceptional people in this country rejected the lies

00:08:40.580 about being divided by race religion sexual orientation or whatever else and we would come together and

00:08:48.080 fucking dominate it would start another american revolution not the kind with guns and people 0.73

00:08:54.680 dying but a cultural revolution that would create a better way of life for all of us guys i'm telling

00:09:02.300 you right now we are lied to about what divides us we are divided i don't argue that but it's not by what

00:09:10.300 everybody thinks it's not what we're being told divides us the reality is there is really only one

00:09:17.080 thing that divides americans and it doesn't just divide americans it divides the whole human race and

00:09:24.720 that issue is excellence okay and i want you to stick by me here because you might be scratching your

00:09:30.700 head there's two groups in america and in the world one group is full of whiners and excuse makers

00:09:37.980 there are members of this group from every race every religion every political party you name it

00:09:44.240 they are ungrateful they are entitled they experience a lot of pain some sort of adversity

00:09:49.820 so they think the world owes them something they think the government owes them everything and no

00:09:56.260 matter how patient people are with them no matter how many opportunities they are given they do nothing

00:10:02.800 and they waste their lives the other group is totally different there are people in this group that were

00:10:08.640 born into poverty and they rise to become millionaires and successful pillars of their community they are

00:10:16.680 born with birth defects disease or handicaps and from the moment they are born life punches them right 1.00

00:10:23.640 in the fucking mouth but they don't use any of that adversity as an excuse they are grateful for their life 0.97

00:10:30.160 they work hard they're innovators entrepreneurs athletes blue collar workers and billionaires and they come

00:10:37.800 from all races all religion all political parties no matter how different they are they have one

00:10:44.420 thing in common they win do you guys comprehend what i'm saying here there's only one thing that

00:10:53.380 really divides humanity and it's a commitment to excellence there are victims and then there are the

00:10:59.700 victorious there are losers and then there are the winners i don't care what neighborhood you're from

00:11:05.140 who your parents were what state you come from where you grew up it doesn't matter don't let people 1.00

00:11:11.900 lie to you about what divides us don't let the national media do it and don't let the politicians do it

00:11:19.380 and don't elect leaders who promote this shit of entitlement laziness jealousy or whining instead 0.59

00:11:26.620 rally around the leaders in the world who promote the mindset and the lifestyle of committing to

00:11:32.900 excellence get close to the people in your life who take personal responsibility for making the most

00:11:39.400 of their lives for working as hard as they can for treating people well and being productive

00:11:45.220 contributing members of the society guys the bottom line is this what if we stopped buying the lies that

00:11:53.620 were sold about being divided what if we stopped allowing the powers that be to separate us into black 0.74

00:12:00.660 white gay straight christian atheist rich or poor okay and we locked arms with anyone as long as they were

00:12:08.300 committed to being exceptional and pursuing their own true potential what if we united to win i guarantee

00:12:17.980 you the country and the culture that does this is going to have the strongest economy the healthiest

00:12:24.860 families the closest communities the best culture the most unbeatable military the highest production

00:12:31.980 and it will also be the happiest it would literally create the greatest country on earth so let's

00:12:41.220 fucking do it told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living down 1.00

00:12:46.940 spoke it till existence

00:12:48.100 while i i'm from where you can't trust so welcome

00:12:50.500 you

REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 09, 2020

19. Real Talk： The #1 Thing That Really Divides Us

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