214. Q&AF： Spreading The Message, Restarting #75HARD & Cultivating Leaders
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Summary
In this episode of The Realest, DJ and I answer your questions from Q and AF and talk about the future of the country and the time where we have to choose a side. We also talk about how people need to stop riding the fence and pick a side, because the time is coming where people are going to have to stand with one side or the other.
Transcript
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What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realest, say goodbye to
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the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality.
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Guys, today we have Q and AF, this is where I get asked questions and I give you the AF answer
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You better laugh at DJ, otherwise you're truly racist.
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If you laugh at my shit, you're definitely, you're all right.
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If you don't laugh at me, there's no s'mores for you.
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I think the time is coming real soon where people are really going to have to pick a side.
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You know, do they stand with tyranny and wearing a mask and getting forced vaccines and getting
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You know, more restrictive freedom, higher taxes, cities in chaos.
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You're going to have to decide if you stand with that or if you stand with fucking freedom.
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You know, there's going to be no middle ground.
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But what I'm saying is, is like a lot of people riding the fence, dude, and that's just not
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And people are, you know, now who got the three shots, I'm getting blasted.
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I'm getting, dude, literally dozens and dozens and dozens of emails every day of people totally
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Like, because they're like Jordan Peterson, right?
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Who got the vaccine because he just wanted to be left the fuck alone.
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And, you know, they did everything they were supposed to do for this whole two years.
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And now they're realizing, holy fuck, we got fucking lied to.
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Like, no matter where you fall on the political spectrum, because I know there's a lot of
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people here that just, you know, you're maybe not necessarily where I'm at.
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But you are going to have to choose what side you're on.
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And you're not going to be able to agree with everything on each side.
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And I think it's an important delineation to make right now because you need to ask yourself,
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Do you want what's happening now and what's been happening the last two years?
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Do you want actual reform in these inner cities?
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Because those are going to happen by people with freedom, not by these fucking old fucks.
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And dude, you guys have really got to make a choice, dude.
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Like this shit of like, keep it quiet to keep peace and this and that.
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I'm telling you, a stronger side is going to win.
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And the stronger side is the 80% that think fucking pro-freedom.
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So, you know, for those of you who are still trying to like, wiggle your way through this, it's not going to happen, dude.
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Biden's on TV yesterday talking about changing the fucking rules of the voting.
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So, like the filibuster so that they can push through voting.
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Which is so stupid because they fucking use it when the other side has the majority in the fucking house and shit too.
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So, it's like, you guys use the same shit and now you complain about it because you're not the one able to use it.
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Yeah, dude, he was yelling at the whole fucking time.
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This is an establishment thing where all of these politicians on both sides are bribed and laced and fucking bought and paid for by these big companies.
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And until you want this corporate shit out of our government, which it needs to be, that means you got to vote out every single existing politician that's out there.
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And we got to put new people in who are real citizens, who have real beliefs and real ideas, who have built real shit in real life.
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And guys, it'd be so easy to just get up here and ask Andy, okay, how do you be a fucking baller?
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But the real issue is none of that shit matters if we don't have the fucking freedom.
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And so it's like, I mean, that shit has to be addressed.
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Listen, dude, if you're 20 years old right now and you're listening to this show about how to become, you want to become successful, you have zero chance to become successful under what's currently happening.
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It's funny, Andy, because that's actually, I have a question that's actually based off of what we just got finished talking about.
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You know, but, but, you know, I've been with you for two years.
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And you've had a multiple, a few times where you come out and say, you know, I'm fucking tired of this shit.
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I'm, I'm tired of having to keep saying, I fucking told you so.
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Well, I don't ever get tired of saying I told you so.
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Well, I mean, yeah, but you know, but you know what I'm saying?
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Listen, what I am tired of is like this anxiety and stress and fucking frustration that these people keep stirring into our society.
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They're abusing the fuck out of our entire population nonstop.
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So can you, can you tell the people listening what, what, what makes you keep going?
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Like what makes you keep spreading the message?
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Because I recognize the importance of the message, bro.
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Like, dude, we have a very special thing here in this country, this freedom.
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Most of you guys listening have not traveled the world, bro.
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You don't know what the fuck it's like anywhere else.
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And we are the only place on earth that it's like this.
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They, they think that like, if they just bury their head, someone else will take care of it.
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We've got a bunch of crooked people who are lining their own pockets, who are, uh, tyrannically
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suppressing the citizens of this country who work hard, who deserve better leadership.
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And you guys think, oh, well, how are they stealing our tax?
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Um, they bill out $5,000 for a motherfucking toilet seat.
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And like, dude, we have, but only with billions of dollars.
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They're, they're teaching us to be fat, broke, lazy, uh, chained to these devices.
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Uh, they've got us convinced now that it's okay to be fat.
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They got us convinced now that it's okay to, you know, call a man, a woman and a woman, a man.
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Like, bro, they are trying to, to remove the teeth from the people that they intend to rule over.
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This is a fucking, this is a kingdom or a dictatorship.
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Bro, this motherfucker went into office and signed what?
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You pass those laws through the congressional system.
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So the reason that I am so passionate about it is because I've been treated very well by this country.
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I've been someone and lived that American dream that we've all heard about.
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You know, where you could start something from nothing and build it into something amazing.
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And I've lived that story for the last 23 fucking years.
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I know what is, but like, dude, these people are removing those things from our society and
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they're conditioning people instead of having a hard mental attitude and a winner's attitude,
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which is what America is all about all the time.
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It has been for the history of the fucking country.
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To have this mediocre, soft fucking pussy mentality.
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And dude, we just can't, we can't operate that way.
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It's going to start with the individual, right?
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The individual has like, dude, imagine if all the men in this country could go out right now
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and put 40 pounds on their back and fucking ruck 10 miles.
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How much more productive would our entire fucking country be?
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Like, dude, how much better would the family units be?
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Like, dude, we have been conditioned to be slaves to this fucking system that they have built.
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I was as guilty of living inside of it as everybody else.
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You know, I used to be the guy who fucking drank Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday,
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and didn't give a fuck about my fitness and didn't give a fuck about my health and didn't,
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you know, just wanted to serve my, I was that guy.
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But dude, after observing all these things and having the life experience that I've had,
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I can see very clearly what the fucking agenda is now.
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They fucking tell us, they put chemicals in our water.
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Dude, they do all these things to intentionally suppress the potential of our population
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Because dude, if we don't stop it, bro, we're going to be in a true slave society.
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And I'm passionate about it because all of you motherfuckers listening deserve an opportunity.
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And you all have it if you keep going down this road.
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Now, whether or not you want to take advantage of the opportunities of this country,
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But for the people that do, they deserve the opportunity.
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And we do not have that right now because the government is taking away the rights and
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the freedoms and the ability for even companies to form and be profitable because of the policies
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Like, the tax code is so fucked up that it makes it almost impossible for a small company
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Ask any small business owner who gets their first tax bill.
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And I had a guy tell me something that was very profound.
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He said, you know, it's a privilege to pay that much taxes.
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We need to pay fucking, all of us need to pay the same rate.
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And if everybody fucking paid it, we'd have way more money than what the fuck we have now.
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Whether you make $100 million or you make $100.
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And like, dude, this government spending that's out of control, you know, these people, this
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We need people in office to represent the fucking people.
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And I think I'm motherfucking saying we need to tax them more.
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That's no different than being a fucking slave.
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And the reality is, too, it's like, I mean, when you think about that, it's like the average
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business owner, okay, you start raising them taxes, they're not going to lose anything.
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Their employees are going to feel the fucking effects of it.
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Yeah, to a point, to a point, but it gets to a point where you can't operate.
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And like, dude, that's what people don't understand.
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And so like, you know, the reason I talk about it and the reason I keep going is because
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Like, I'm sitting here watching the same shit you're all watching.
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You know, I'm thinking the same shit you're thinking.
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Where the fuck are these people that are supposed to represent us?
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Where are these people that we elected to protect us?
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Where are all these people that took the oath and made a pledge to freedom in the Constitution?
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Well, they don't exist because every single politician that's in office, Republican or
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Democrat, is getting money from corporations and that pays for their fucking life.
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And they're not willing to give that up to make it okay for everybody else.
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All fucking incumbents, all fucking establishment politicians, career politicians got to be
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voted out on both fucking sides from top to fucking bottom, period, worldwide.
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And we can get some actual people that represent the real people to make a system.
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Well, you know, you'll have the 16, 19 people fucking argue that shit.
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And we have a lot of things that have happened that we've worked through and progressed through.
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And we have to recognize where we are now, not where we were fucking 200 years ago.
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And we got to look at each other and say, hey, motherfucker, you ain't no different than me.
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Let's make this so everybody can fucking at least have the opportunity to fucking win.
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We're always thinking about where we're going to be in 200 years from now.
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And like, dude, this one world government and all this shit these people are trying to do,
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Like, dude, and I don't see, where are the other fucking big leaders fucking speaking up,
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And I hope everybody's paying attention to them.
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History's going to remember who the fuck said what the fuck was going on.
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Regardless of if the people, the history will always remember.
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And I hope the people listening will stand up for me and remember that.
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Like, that's the importance of what we're dealing with right now.
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There's going to be a major fucking conflict if we don't unify.
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And the people on the losing side are going to get fucking annihilated.
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It ain't the pro-freedom, pro-2A, conservative Americans that are going to get fucking wiped out.
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And we got to get on the same page and realize that it ain't left and right.
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Bro, you put me in that fucking office, I would fix that motherfucking shit in a fucking week.
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And I tell everybody, I go to that presser and those reporters that ask that shit, I say,
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These people need to be put in their fucking place.
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Hey, you're sitting here, like, people dog on Trump, bro.
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Bro, you put a fucking South County Hoosier like me in there, bro.
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Did you say that you were going to strangle Dr. Fauci with your penis?
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Like, all this chatter of, like, racism and misogyny.
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This is all distractive talk for all of us to fucking fight each other so that they can
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And, like, dude, if you're sick of it, fucking join me in fucking saying you're sick of it.
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Like, don't let me just be the talking mouthpiece of this shit.
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We have a beautiful country, dude, with an amazing system in place that works when we
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get the lobbyists and the financial interests out of the game.
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Like, if we, dude, what made America great for so long was that people would run for
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office and then when they were done with office, they'd go back to their life.
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And so, dude, that's what we should be calling on our leaders to do.
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Our smartest, best, and brightest are not in politics right now.
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Where are these business leaders stepping up and fucking saying, hey, I'm going to go
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They're so fucking selfish that they won't even talk about it.
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Like, you could sit there and listen to this and think I'm wrong and my ideas are bad and
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you could think whatever the fuck you want, but I hope you have at least enough respect
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to know that I care enough about this country to say some shit when shit is fucked up.
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Whether you agree with those points or not, because most of these people don't care.
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They stick their head in their fucking Xbox or in their social media or in their fucking
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porn and they fucking do that shit and they want someone else to come and fucking
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All right, switching, switching gears just a little bit, Andy.
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This person wrote in, they said, Andy is starting 75 hard the first time and not finishing it
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the first time the same as attempting it on the second attempt or third attempt and succeeding.
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So this person says on my third attempt, I succeeded, but I feel like my boss voice is
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kicking my ass because I didn't succeed on the first attempt.
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Did you fucking fall down when you learned to walk?
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Like, of course, you're going to fucking struggle sometimes.
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Of course, you're going to have things you didn't plan on happening.
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That's why you're supposed to start it over the day after you fucking fail.
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Some of you guys fail and then you plan it for 30 days later or 40 days later or when
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If you fucking fail, you start over the next day.
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And a lot of people don't do that shit and they don't understand the program.
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But if you actually start it over every motherfucking time the next day, eventually you stick it
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So, dude, listen, I understand what the person's asking there and I value the question.
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I appreciate they asked, but like, dude, come on, man, you fucking completed it.
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Like a lot of motherfuckers, they go out and run a marathon or try an Ironman the first
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So like, dude, harden the fuck up and give yourself a fucking clap and say, dude, I'll
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Listen, dude, I was thinking about this the other day.
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Like I have done so much dumb shit in my life, like so much dumb shit that when I think
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back, it like embarrasses me of like how I behaved or, you know, like things I said
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And I think back and like, you know how, like you always remember your worst moments, right?
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And like, you like overly, like you, dude, you guys cannot do that.
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You've got to critically think and forgive yourself for who you used to be, right?
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So like, how, why would you beat yourself up over who you were three fucking years ago
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And most people spend their whole lives doing that.
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They, you know, they, they remember, they remember back to some time like in fucking,
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you know, third grade where someone pantsed them in the locker in the fucking cafeteria,
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And they spend their whole life going to therapy and trying to get over the trauma and all
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So you got to fucking let yourself go for the dumb shit that you've done.
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Like if you were not, you know, not proud of some of the things that you've done, like
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every single person on the earth is, you, you should address those things, make the
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changes, make it right with whoever the fuck you, whatever happened and move the fuck
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So to this person, dude, no, you, you, you failed that when you were a weaker person.
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Andy, our third and final question for you to wrap this, uh, this, this episode up,
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How do you prepare an employee for a new leadership position?
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Well, they should be preparing on their own ahead of time.
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If you're not preparing for that next role, you're not, you're not doing your job.
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You know, part of being an employee where you're at is preparing for the next role, not
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So if you're, if you see leadership down the road for you, you should be fucking working
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towards learning some leadership skills in your own time.
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Uh, usually by the time I put them in a leadership position, they're already a peer leader, meaning
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they're leading people that are on the same level as them already.
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And like, dude, that's what you should be looking for.
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Who's, who are the people who are natural peer leaders?
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Who are the people that work to become a peer leader?
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And those are the people that will progress that next level where they're an actual leader
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So, you know, there's all kinds of things you can do.
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There's all kinds of, of, uh, you know, things that YouTube videos, there's all kinds of
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Uh, Jocko writes some amazing books on leadership.
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I think he's got the best books on leadership out there.
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Uh, you know, there's typical books like Lombardi rules and things like that.
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It's, you gotta be able to do what the fuck you ask of your people and be willing to do it.
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And do it at a higher standard than what they're going to do it at.
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And that's where, if you do that, you'll lead everybody.
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It's not a rah, rah, use my voice, blah, blah, blah.
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Really, if you take everything else out of the equation, that's what really drives leadership.
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So you're either living it or you fucking aren't.
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And if you're not living it, you're not going to be an effective leader.
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And if you are living it, it doesn't matter what you say, you'll be an effective leader.
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You guys try to design all this special language and, you know, dance around people's feelings.
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And, you know, all these things that, you know, people talk about whenever they talk
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But the reality is most of it is just doing what the fuck you're asking them to do at
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a higher level where they can learn and improve and become better themselves and holding that
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It's real easy to hold that standard to other people.
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And then they don't resent you when you hold them to it.
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Um, but I mean, you know, if you see leadership down the pipe for one of your employees, you
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I'll be like, we have a library here, free fucking books.
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Like you should be cultivating a culture of personal development within your company at
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You know, and, and you have like, like from the moment that employee walks in the door
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a hundred percent and, and, and you have to let your employees know, like, dude, it's
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your responsibility to improve yourself along with what you do for what you're getting paid
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Because dude, you're not getting, you're, you're not really working for your paycheck.
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You shouldn't be, you shouldn't be working for your paycheck that you get.
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You know, that next raise, how am I going to get there?
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And, you know, part of it is because where there's mystery, uh, there's dollars, right?
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Like people could sell different leadership ideas and make it seem mystical and this and
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And it's, I saw it to you for $997, but like, dude, the reality is most of leadership
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is having a little bit of courage, uh, taking reps, uh, holding a standard for
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yourself and then, you know, having conversations when other people aren't living up to them.
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