REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 29, 2022


223. Pressure To Productivity


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12 minutes

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2,219

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In this episode of the Realist, Andy Priscilla talks about the dangers of being comfortable in the easy way to get to where you want to be, and how to develop the skills needed to get there.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realist say goodbye to the lies
00:00:21.400 the fitness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today
00:00:26.100 we have a real talk okay this is basically where i turn on the mic and i say what's on my fucking 0.97
00:00:32.960 mind all right and that's what i'm gonna do for you guys today but before i do that um i'd like to
00:00:38.200 remind you of the fee okay the fee is very simple if it made you think if it taught you something
00:00:43.460 if it made you laugh if it gave you a new perspective if you thought it was good do us a
00:00:48.000 favor and share the show man you know one of my biggest regrets over this last two years has been
00:00:53.400 that i didn't work hard enough to grow my platform and i sort of took it um you know as a as an extra
00:01:00.860 thing that i do with my life as a and not as important as i should have and i feel like dude
00:01:06.000 had i had a bigger platform um i could have maybe influenced a lot more of this bullshit that's been
00:01:12.440 going on for the last two years that has invaded our lives and made it annoying as fuck but that's 0.90
00:01:20.320 neither here nor there that's why i asked for you guys to share the show and help me grow the show
00:01:23.780 okay uh look today i want to i want to talk about something that has been on my mind lately as i
00:01:30.260 observe the current climate in terms of um you know what's socially acceptable when it comes to success
00:01:36.840 and what people try to do we live in this world right now you know where society has conditioned all
00:01:44.080 of us to seek comfort all right fast easy automatic free low stress relax heal take your time no big
00:01:55.120 deal everything's okay and the problem with that is that it's all about instant gratification okay and
00:02:04.380 we're grooming society is grooming our citizens and you to look at life as if it's no big deal
00:02:13.280 as if everything should be easy as if everything should be quick and fast and uh you should get
00:02:20.200 the benefits today and that's just not reality and the problem with this guys is that we constantly
00:02:25.860 find ourselves looking for the easiest way to get somewhere and what that does is it and this is what
00:02:32.980 i want this is the point that i want to get across to you guys okay what it does is it makes us seek
00:02:39.160 comfort over seeking pressure all right you cannot develop the skills that you're going to need to
00:02:47.180 build the life that you want without being comfortable being uncomfortable in the pressure
00:02:52.700 all right the pressure that comes from you trying to do great things and you trying to become great and
00:02:59.980 you trying to uh build a great life is what actually is going to force you to develop the skills needed
00:03:07.240 to build those things okay so the danger here when you hear these things over and over and over and
00:03:14.440 over again about you know free easy fast uh no no effort etc etc etc the reason that you hear this shit 0.87
00:03:22.940 is because they can't sell you this hey guess what it's going to be hard as fuck it's going to take a 0.66
00:03:30.860 long fucking time and you're probably going to want to quit every motherfucking day for the next 10 years 0.96
00:03:35.820 they can't sell you that all right no one can write a program and say hey here's a program for 997
00:03:43.160 and it's called hard as fuck no one can sell that to you so you have to be aware and you have to be 0.65
00:03:50.080 smart that there's a lot of people who have hijacked the reality of what it takes to succeed
00:03:57.020 for their own benefit in their own pocketbooks and this is bad for you all right the whole reason i ever
00:04:03.960 started started doing this show was because i knew that i had learned things that other people
00:04:09.300 weren't privileged enough to learn because i had a father who happened to be an entrepreneur he taught
00:04:15.240 me a lot of different things growing up and one of the things that he taught me that has been the most
00:04:20.320 important thing i think in terms of my personal success that i want to share with you is to embrace
00:04:26.220 the pressure all right pressure creates diamonds that's what you have to understand if you constantly
00:04:35.320 work to avoid the pressure to avoid the conflict to avoid the serious problems that are in your life
00:04:41.900 you could never actually do the critical thinking necessary in order for you to come up with the
00:04:47.460 solutions to those problems and in the solutions to those problems is the skill set that you start to
00:04:54.100 develop that allows you to address things at a better rate moving forward so for those of you
00:05:00.740 guys who are young and those of you guys who are young in the game and you constantly find yourself
00:05:06.580 looking at things and saying man that is a huge problem right you're standing now at the bottom of
00:05:12.380 this mountain and you're looking at the top you're like fuck dude i don't have any sales i don't know how 0.93
00:05:16.820 i'm going to build this business i don't know how i'm going to get fit i don't know how i'm going to do
00:05:20.620 this and you're looking at the top of the mountain there's only one answer to that guys and it's real
00:05:24.540 simple it's one step at a time if you're willing to accept that and you're willing to understand that
00:05:31.140 and you're willing to go on that journey you are so far ahead of most people because most people just
00:05:36.780 look at the mountain and they keep fucking walking and they say that's for someone else or that's too 0.92
00:05:42.720 hard or that's going to take too much time or that's and then what they do is they go try to find
00:05:47.660 a fake mountain and you know that has an escalator and stand on the top of it take a picture and post
00:05:52.460 on fucking instagram and act like they made it that's not real shit okay so for those of you guys 0.94
00:05:58.920 who are out there right now and you hear people in your life telling you oh you need to take it easy
00:06:04.040 oh you need to do this oh you need to not worry about this or you need to not concern yourself with
00:06:09.240 that or you're working too hard or what you know what do you think you're too good for us all this
00:06:12.980 shit that we hear when we set out on a journey that is abnormal to the rest of the world we are
00:06:19.140 always going to question ourselves and what i want you to take from me and what i want you to take from
00:06:25.780 this show is that those people i could tell you from experience that tell you that will be the same
00:06:32.320 motherfuckers that are asking you for a job 10 years down the road okay you have to remember that 0.72
00:06:38.920 you have to understand that okay so don't be afraid of solving problems don't have anxiety about
00:06:47.200 pressure welcome pressure start to take the pressure that you feel from what it is you want
00:06:53.380 to do and turn that into productive action all right let it move you let it push you let it be the thing
00:07:00.600 that makes you get where you want to go when everybody else is just taking it easy eating motherfucking 0.85
00:07:06.340 bonbons watching fucking bullshit on tv okay so guys recognize that that message that you hear 0.89
00:07:14.900 of easy fast convenient quick etc instant you know overnight million those are all stories for the
00:07:23.560 fucking sheep are you a sheep no you're not a sheep or you wouldn't be listening to this fucking show 1.00
00:07:29.940 because as far as i know i'm one of the only people out there if not the only one no i'm not the only
00:07:34.540 one there's a couple others that are actually telling you this is going to be hard as fuck 0.72
00:07:38.840 okay let the sheep believe all that shit let them buy those programs let them go to those seminars 0.92
00:07:44.780 let them you know do what they're going to do and don't concern yourself with where they are because
00:07:50.060 they are going to pretend to be way ahead of you when in reality you're chipping away chipping away
00:07:54.280 chipping away building a real foundation that you'll be able to stand tall and stand proud
00:07:59.360 and stand profitable on all right so stop paying attention to the sheep messaging and start
00:08:08.820 understanding that if you want to build a championship life if you want to build a life
00:08:13.760 that at the end of you're going to be completely and utterly fulfilled and happy and excited that you
00:08:20.560 fucking executed upon and proud that you built that you have to understand that that easy quick 0.74
00:08:28.420 nonsense is made for the fucking sheep and the sheep never fucking win all right so here's a piece 0.94
00:08:35.900 of advice for you when you see all these people running one direction run the other direction okay when
00:08:42.500 you see everybody going for the new shiny thing go to the old thing all right these are rules that have
00:08:49.020 served me well these are rules that have helped me win these are rules that have literally built the life
00:08:55.440 that i am really proud of especially for only being added for 20 something years okay we've done things
00:09:01.460 that 50 year old companies haven't done the only way i've been able to achieve that guys is by embracing
00:09:07.480 the pressure by understanding that it's not for everybody understanding that that pressure that i'm
00:09:13.980 feeling day in and day out over time over years is the thing that has given me the skills that allow me
00:09:21.520 to operate at a competitive advantage now all right so stop buying the bullshit stop believing hype
00:09:28.080 it's gonna you're gonna have to pay your dues it's gonna take time and it's gonna be hard as fuck 0.80
00:09:33.100 if you could accept that if you could understand that there is nothing out here there's nothing
00:09:39.480 nothing out here that can stop you from getting where you want to go guys and on the way on this
00:09:45.980 journey that you've chosen for your life you are going to see people who are somehow mystically
00:09:52.460 further ahead than you and you're going to see them and you're going to think man they got lucky or man
00:09:57.720 you know they had rich parents or man you know what they have i had all that same thoughts i had all
00:10:03.960 those same feelings growing through my business okay i was always bitter that everybody else who i knew
00:10:10.280 i worked harder than was ahead of me that was bitter as fuck about it but here's the thing that you need to know 0.76
00:10:17.460 that time when you're struggling when you're grinding and you see all these people seemingly win quick and easy and fast
00:10:24.780 they're not building any real skills there will come a day when you not only catch these people
00:10:30.940 but you beat their fucking asses in a competition because you went through this hard time that develops 0.95
00:10:38.960 all the skills that you're going to need so don't look at these people and think they're lucky they are not
00:10:44.980 lucky they don't even know what they're doing and they're going through life pretending to be successful
00:10:51.160 making you feel like shit when you're actually the one out here building real skills that will stop their
00:10:58.100 motherfucking throats at the end of the day so stop looking at the pressure as a bad thing and start 0.99
00:11:04.620 jumping right in the middle of it when you have the opportunity this goes for if you own a business
00:11:08.940 it goes for if you work in a business it goes for any situation in life because people that are willing
00:11:14.440 to adjust and adapt to the pressure and then solve the problems within the pressure because that's
00:11:19.040 what creates pressure right there's problems that need to be solved and there's a timeline and then
00:11:24.140 there's some urgency and a lot of people don't like that because they think it's uncomfortable
00:11:27.680 real champions that's their time to shine this is why we see hall of fame quarterbacks time after
00:11:35.300 time after time after time win games with 13 seconds left to go all right it's the pressure
00:11:42.660 where champions thrive and if you want a championship life you are going to have to get comfortable
00:11:48.900 jumping into the pressure when every other motherfucker jumps out 1.00
00:11:52.560 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in the 1.00
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