227. Q&AF： Zero Compromises, Making It Harder & Life After #75HARD
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Summary
In this episode of The Realists, we discuss the concept of zero compromise and why it's one of the most important things you can do to improve your life. We also discuss why compromise is a superpower and why you should never compromise on your goals.
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What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realists, say goodbye
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to the lies, the fakes, and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality.
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Guys, today we have Q and AF. You give me the Qs and I give you the AFs. Now, how do they submit the Qs?
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You can submit the Qs, email them in to askandy at eddyfriscilla.com. There you go.
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Joe, when are we going to make a rap album, bro?
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Let's get it, bro. I got a multi-platinum record-producing audio producer, Rector here.
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No, it can't be no mayonnaise. You wouldn't give no mayonnaise off, so it'd be fine.
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Yeah. So I got three hard questions on 75 hard.
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What's that restaurant with all the shit on the walls?
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I work with a bunch of people that don't know shit about movies.
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Can you just explain why that is so fucking important for people?
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It's super simple because once you compromise once, the second compromise is that much easier.
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Then you don't know what the fuck's going on, right?
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And what you just decided to do means nothing anymore.
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The whole problem with people in general is that they are so conditioned to listen to their own bitch voice about the corners they should cut that they aren't even aware that they're cutting them.
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And then before they know it, they've not, you know, it's 45 minutes of cardio, then it's 40 minutes.
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So, when you're pursuing what it is that you're trying to pursue, every single compromise is literally exponentially more damaging than what it is in the moment for that reason.
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Because what it's doing is conditioning your behavior.
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It's conditioning you to look for the quicker, faster, more simple, more convenient solution, which, if you truly think about, is the reason that you are dissatisfied in whatever areas that you're dissatisfied with, okay?
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If you're dissatisfied with your money, it's because you compromise there.
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If you're dissatisfied with your body, it's because you compromise there.
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If you're dissatisfied with your relationship, it's because you compromise there.
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So, compromising really is the slippery slope that we all think and talk about when it comes to, oh, I got off track, right?
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So, how do we overcompensate for that or how do we fix that in ourselves?
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Because when you become someone who is unwilling to compromise on their goals, whatever they may be, how can anything in life or any circumstance ever stop you?
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We went outside yesterday and did it in a foot of snow, bro.
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So, DJ and I did cardio yesterday in a foot of fucking snow.
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It took us twice as long as it would normally take, but we did it, all right?
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Sometimes when you do the extremely hard shit, it reminds you that you have to do extremely hard shit to get focused on your goals, all right?
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But compromising, man, whether it be in any area of life, is literally the first step to you becoming like everybody else, all right?
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So, when you do it once, the second time it's easier, the second time it's easier, the second time it's easier.
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Think of something that, you know, you've compromised on.
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Like that first little bite of, you know, you walk, oh, I'm on a diet at a holiday party.
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You get that one fucking bite of whatever, and then all of a sudden, 10 minutes later, you're back.
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And then 10 minutes later, you're like, fuck it.
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So for us to defeat that part of our nature as humans, we have to be conscious about not compromising ever.
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And when you not compromise ever for a long enough period of time, 75 days, it becomes part of who you are, all right?
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And when non-compromising becomes part of who you are when it comes to your personal standards, you are literally fucking unstoppable in anything that you decide to pursue.
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I killed 75 hard back in November, and I'm now on my second round of it.
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It literally untapped a lot in me, and I'm pissed that I didn't do it sooner.
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I'm now trying to find ways to make it, quote-unquote, harder, okay?
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Do you have any other tips on making it, quote-unquote, harder?
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Like, if you are doing it properly with the proper intent, you should be looking for ways to challenge yourself throughout the program.
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Now, I'm not talking about doing extreme shit that's going to get you hurt or going to get you sick or going to get you fucked up.
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I'm just talking about raising your intensity level.
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Like, if you're, you know, a lot of people, they say, oh, enjoy your walk.
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When DJ and I are doing cardio outside, like, you see us walking.
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That's because you can't see us jog or you can't see us make things harder.
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So, you have to understand, there's all kinds of ways to test yourself.
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Sometimes it's as little as, like, what we did yesterday, bro.
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We were about 15 minutes in and we were only, like, fucking five minutes of where we would have normally been.
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But the point is, is that when you challenge yourself in that way, you remind yourself of what you're truly capable of.
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Testing yourself can be as simple as maybe you run the poles.
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Like, a thing that I do when I'm alone is, like, I'll run to a spot.
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And I say, okay, I'm going to run to that spot.
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And then when I start walking, I pick a spot, right?
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Or I go, like, around my house where I'll go up and down this fucking giant-ass motherfucking hill.
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The key to getting the most out of this program is to recognize when what you're doing isn't really testing and you're sort of cruising.
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When you start to feel like you're cruising and this is easy, that's an indicator of where you want to bring up the intensity, okay?
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So, the more intensity that you add in, the more difficult that you make it on yourself.
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And by the way, there's a mental aspect to this too.
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Because what you're actually doing is you're training yourself in your mind to challenge yourself when a challenge appears.
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And by the way, when a challenge appears is almost always the biggest opportunity because nobody wants to address the challenges.
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So, you're conditioning yourself to recognize challenging and difficult opportunities in the real world and saying, you know what?
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By the way, that's where part of my Fix America comes from.
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It's the biggest fucking challenge I could possibly comprehend.
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So, I'm passionate about it because I've conditioned myself to look for the biggest fucking problems there are and work to solve them.
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It's going to affect your importance to your existence.
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So, it all starts with just learning and recognizing when you're coasting and when to up the intensity.
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Andy, if you had to sum up all the benefits of something, $75,000, right?
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What would be the number one takeaway that you want people to get from $75,000?
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Dude, to have complete and total confidence in self.
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The biggest thing the world lacks is fucking confidence.
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Everybody's told to be satisfied with a normal life.
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And hence, the reason that the entire world is run by a very small select few people and everybody else kind of takes what they can get.
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So, you have to understand that having total confidence in yourself is basically you being able to look in the mirror and say,
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And then, knowing it's you, I'm not saying be cocky.
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I'm saying knowing that no one can fuck with you.
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Bro, there ain't a motherfucker on this planet that can fuck with me.
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And you may think you can, but I don't think you can.
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I don't go through life with wondering if I'm good enough.
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Now, occasionally, those thoughts will creep in, right?
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But then, I do something hard like we did yesterday and I'm like, no, actually, I am that.
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And, bro, that's a huge deal because that unlocks power.
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It's also inspiring to the people around you because it's so rare.
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A lot of people think they're confident, but they aren't really.
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Most people are suffering in silence and putting out a confident image.
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They're not actually truly believers of their own ability, okay?
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So, when you can take control over things that you normally wouldn't be able to control
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or haven't been able to control in your entire life, a.k.a. exercise, a.k.a. food, a.k.a. alcohol,
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a.k.a. putting in quality shit into your brain.
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All these things that we talk about that the program includes, when you become more powerful
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I can remember being someone who could not go more than three days on a diet.
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I couldn't go out to eat because I would have no, I couldn't even have the discipline to order
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off the fucking menu anywhere I went something healthy.
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I'd look at the other shit and I'd be like, I got to have it.
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And then later I'd be like, what the fuck did I do that for?
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And being powerful comes from keeping the commitments that you make to yourself to a
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point long enough to where you know there's no fucking doubt in that power.
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You can't, this is, that's why I say it's not a fucking challenge.
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This is a fucking program to mentally calibrate yourself to be extremely powerful.
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It'll be the best shape you've ever been in because you're not compromising and you're
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But if you go at this shit with the right intent, you challenge yourself, you obey the
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When you finish this shit, you will be the most powerful version of yourself that's ever
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Think of what you could do if you were complete control of your environment at all times.
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Now we can't always be in control, aka the weather might be shitty and the weather could
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The weather could represent a bank not financing you or a spouse leaving you or a business failing,
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The weather's bad, but guess what tomorrow brings?
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We have to learn to operate inside of all these bad weather situations where the circumstances
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are not ideal so that we can move forward regardless of what's happening in the world.
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And that's something that most people do not have.
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Most people do not have what I'm talking about.
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They look at people like me or they look at people that have these things and they think
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I could never have that because he was probably born with that or he has that in his heart
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No, these are fucking skills that you have to make investments in for them to develop.
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It's no different than learning how to play a guitar.
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It's no different than learning a fucking how to build a house.
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If you put the time and effort to develop these skills, these skills will materialize and make
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So that's what I want people to understand about the program.
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It's not like so many people just totally fucking goes over their head what they're
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If you're looking to lose weight and that's all you give a fuck about, there's easier
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But none of those ways will develop the entire fucking, will fix the entire fucking cause
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of the problem that you were overweight with in the first place, which is that you have
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And you think that you just got the shitty end of the stick because of the way you were
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They're just skills that no one teaches you how to develop.
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And by the way, conspiracy theorist time, which ain't really conspiracy theorist, AKA the
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They don't want you to know that these are skills.
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They don't want you to develop these things I'm talking about.
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Why do you think every motherfucking media piece on 75 hard is negative?
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Because they do not want you knowing this because once you know this, you become an independent,
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powerful being, which is impossible to fucking control.
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And guys, if you want to hear more about the 75 hard program, by the way, it's free.
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If I was anybody else on this fucking planet, I'd be charging and fucking doing all this.
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It explains 75 hard and the live hard program for free.
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If you want to read about it and go to 75 hard.com.
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If you want to get in-depth knowledge about it, like down to the details, which is the
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It's not always in stock because we sell the fuck out of it.