418. Q&AF： Cancer Inside Culture, Success Standards & Career Gender Dichotomy
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In this episode of The Realist, DJ and Andy talk about how they met, how they got together, and how to get your shit together. Also, Andy talks about his birthday and what he's been up to the past week.
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What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realist, say goodbye to
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the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality.
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Guys, today we have Q and AF, that's where you submit the Q's and I give you the AF's.
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Guys, email those questions in to askandy at andyfriscilla.com.
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What's your Instagram DJ so these dudes can follow you?
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Now, if you're new to the show, which some of you always are, this is not your normal
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This is a mix of business development, personal development, domestic extremism, and all kinds
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So you're going to have all kinds of different topics on this show or different formats for
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Other times when you tune in, it will be cruise the internet.
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That's where we throw up three topics on the screen.
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We talk about how ridiculous they are, who wrote them, and how come they're so fucking
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And if you don't have humor, don't listen to the show.
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That's just something I think needs to be said.
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Full length is similar to like an interview maybe that you've listened to on one of the
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40 million other podcasts out there, except I'm not really good at it.
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And yeah, so that's the, that's the fucking, that's the way we do it here.
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Um, I will say with this unique way of doing things, uh, you will get tremendous value.
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You will learn the truth about getting your shit together and you will learn how to be
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a better functioning, more complete, higher performing human.
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And for that, we have a fee and the fee is very simple.
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I don't run ads on the show for one specific reason.
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One, I think it's annoying, but two, I don't want to have to answer to anybody bitching about
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So it allows me to say what I want to say without any interference.
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Whenever you get value from a show, I appreciate if you shared the show.
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Now, a lot of you guys are very lazy about sharing the show.
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You share the show one every 40 episodes, one every 50 episodes.
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You don't share the shows where I say some polarizing shit, even though you might agree
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If you go back and listen to the show from 2019, had you all shared the show, we wouldn't
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even be in the situation that we're fucking in right now.
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So if you listen to the show and you don't share the show, you're a fucking hoe.
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For those of you that share the show, thank you very much.
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There's no sense of stopping the freight train.
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Well, when you and I met, you were 350-something.
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Well, I just finally fired it, so it's still there.
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What I'm saying is you went from 350 to 300 that first year.
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Then you got off a little track where you got back up to about what?
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When you told me you were 290, you look significantly thinner.
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I know you'd be running around your house in your underwear flexing on Alex.
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I do feel like I'm in a good place with momentum built up.
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So I'm going to go right into phase one, and we'll see how it goes.
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Bro, you know, I think that's a huge key in anything in life is when you have the momentum
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to be able to recognize you have it and then continue to move with it.
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You know, a lot of people, when they get that momentum, they mistake it, and they think
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Like, I have the power, like fucking He-Man shit, right?
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And when you decide that you're all, you know, you let your ego get in front of you, and you
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start thinking you're badass and shit, and then you stop, you realize real quick that
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And I think that's a huge lesson that the Live Hard program teaches.
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It makes high-performance humans out of you at episode 208, free.
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I could make millions of dollars selling a motherfucking program.
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And it's like, it's funny, man, because we've had a couple of, like, you know, if you guys
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are familiar with the Live Hard, you call them test days, right?
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I mean, bro, 10, 12 times I've seen you through this cycle out at fucking one in the morning.
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But, like, the thing is, like, I just had to turn it into, like, a fucking game.
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You know, like, now, it's like when I'm, like, looking ahead, like, I got to go out
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It's like, I'm already trying to fucking plan it out.
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Yeah, but don't you think that's one of the biggest things it teaches, bro, is time management?
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Yeah, bro, because everybody's, oh, you know, I got so much going on.
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I think the biggest thing I hear from people about that program is.
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And if they're being, this is if they're being honest.
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Usually what people will say is, bro, I was totally lying to myself about how busy I was.
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It's kind of like the same shit people say about kids.
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I think the worst day, though, is when we went to Utah.
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Bro, that driveway made me sweat driving up it.
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You know, getting ready to flex on motherfuckers.
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You know, like I've been a little quiet the last year because like, dude, when I'm not at my best, I don't feel as strong and as powerful as I normally do.
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So like, I'm starting to come back to my natural state, which is fucking baddest motherfucker on the planet.
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Um, you know, get, you know, this whole year, dude, has been a big test for me.
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You know, the last 12 months, we're, we're what?
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One month out from my surgery, um, from a year anniversary of the surgery.
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Um, I injured my shoulder at, at the, at, at the best physique and the best mental space I'd ever been in.
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Um, I had to watch my body fucking deteriorate away after all of that work, which was literal years of dedicated work, three fucking full years of almost no fucking cheating.
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Then on top of it, I had to deal with, you know, what's going on in the fucking world.
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And then I had to deal with those effects that it had on our ability to execute business, you know, which in all of my businesses, which is changing things.
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Um, but honestly, bro, like the main thing like that I feel right now that I think I feel so good about is, um, that getting off those antidepressants.
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Like I was thinking about this this morning, man.
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You know, for those of you that don't know, uh, I was on antidepressants for 10 fucking years and for the last three years watching what they did with COVID watching what they've done with the pharmaceutical industry and just kind of learning more and more and seeing more and more of how all these things operate and how these elite motherfuckers across the world will actually make people sick or make people believe they're sick to sell them a cure.
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Um, once I realized that that was happening, bro, I was just like, yeah, fuck them.
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You know, like I was like, fuck, they fucking got me.
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Once I realized that they were fucking getting us with porn, I stopped fucking with it.
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Um, and, uh, you know, but getting off those antidepressants, that was real shit, dude.
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And like, you know, I'm finally, that was what about August 1st when I started getting off of them.
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So August, September, October, you know, it's been a hundred something days.
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I finally feel fucking like really fucking good.
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And dude, the, the, the first 60 days of getting off of that shit.
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And by the way, if you're somebody that wants to get off of that stuff, um, you, you need to do it with a doctor's guidance because it's very, very difficult to do.
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And you're going to have to prepare yourself for at least 60 days of more anxiety than you probably ever had before you started taking the pills, more depressive thoughts and suicidal thoughts than you ever had before you started taking the pills.
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And I personally believe that's entirely intentional of them.
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Um, but yeah, so like today, you know, like when I woke up today, it was weird, kind of popped in my head.
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I'm like, motherfucker, you just did something that most people can't fucking do.
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Um, so all in all, dude, like fucking health is getting better.
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Mental health is fucking getting back to that bulletproof, uh, place that I like to be.
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I'm not far off from where I was when I got hurt.
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I'm about 10 pounds too heavy, but I'm still trying to put muscle on.
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Excited about this fucking, the relaunch of MFCEO project.
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Excited about, um, basically consolidating all the winners in our network to this new, this new program that we're getting ready to launch.
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How do you think those people that like, you know, watch you and then they haven't really seen much come out, you know what I'm saying?
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And they're fucking like wondering like, man, what the fuck's going over there, going on over there.
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Well, you got to remember the last time I, the last time I posted real content about my life was in 2000 fucking 19.
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You know, my life has changed so much from, from now to then.
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Um, and also my, my ability, my, what I've learned has changed so much from now to then.
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So what I have to offer is much, as much better.
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Uh, and, and quite honestly, I was the best in the world when I stopped doing it.
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And, you know, I thought long and hard, you know, you and I, I mean, fuck dude, there's not a day that goes by that you and I don't talk about how we can make a better impact to what's going on.
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And what I've really figured out, especially with this last election cycle where there was clearly fucking bullshit happening still.
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Um, what I've learned is that like what we need to do as a, as people is to become people who are not consuming the products that they are offering, you know, because if there's no customers, there's no fucking demand.
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So the reality of how we get them to change what the fuck they're doing is by becoming so independent and so strong and so, uh, you know, removed from their little fucking matrix in terms of our physical health, our own education, uh, our finances, our standards and all these things.
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Like for some reason, dude, the media and politicians have convinced people that they direct traffic when in reality, it's all of us collectively as individuals that direct traffic.
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So what, what can I do to make the biggest impact is something that I've struggled with.
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And, you know, people say, well, run for office.
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Run for office in a fucking broken system where they're going to ruin my fucking life for running for office.
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Once we burn the system down and we have a fucking new one that isn't fucking totally corrupt.
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Um, so I think right now, the biggest thing that I can do to serve people is to help these young people who are, you know, both young in the game, but also young, uh, literally learn the reality of what it takes to become higher achieving, higher producing, higher income, more successful, mentally harder, uh, and just better fucking people.
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And they're not being taught that, you know, for the last 20 years, people have been taught how to be mediocre, how to, how to fucking be soft intentionally so that the system can fucking milk everything out of them.
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And, you know, people are starting to realize, especially parents, like there's parents right now of 13, 14, 15, 16 year old kids who are realizing, Holy fuck, dude, my kids are totally fucked because of the education system.
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You might not like how I say it, but I can promise you, your fucking kids are going to hear the truth and they're going to learn the real shit of what it's going to take to win in the real world.
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And so I'm excited about what, what I'm doing, because I think that's what I'm equipped to do best.
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And I think that's what can create the biggest impact is bringing these next generation kids up to par with what it means to be a free American that actually understands how to fucking win in this country and, and, and also how to serve through winning.
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Well, let's make, uh, let's make some people better today.
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Uh, any question number one, I was recently promoted to director of a company.
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There's a manager in the organization who is blatantly eroding the culture.
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He has mood swings and sucks energy out of people in the organization.
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He's been challenged on this before, but he isn't changing.
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The skills he has are at a shortage in our industry and removing him would be risky.
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Well, my, if this person who's asking the question was sitting here, what I would say
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to him is, do you want a hundred of those people?
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Do you want, do you want, do you want, here's your options.
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Do you want zero of those people or do you want all of those people?
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And if you don't cut it the fuck out, you're going to get more of it.
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Um, what skills that person has when they're intentionally undermining the culture that
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So, you know, that's the reality, you know, ask yourself when you see someone in your system,
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Who's bucking what you want to do and who thinks that they have a better way.
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I look at them and I say, okay, well, do I want more of those people?
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Usually I have a conversation that maybe I'll have a second conversation.
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And then the third conversation will be, uh, see you fuck later.
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Um, and I don't say that in a negative way, like, you know, go, go do something else.
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But, um, the reality is, is if you have someone in your system who, uh, is undermining you,
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who is playing their own game, who is deciding that, uh, they control shit because they're good
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Um, let them go build their own thing and you, you fix it, stay your culture, stay your course.
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And, and a lot of people will ruin their companies because they can't make that decision.
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They're afraid to, uh, you know, because probably that guy, probably his skills is probably that
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Um, and you think, oh, well, if we cut this guy out, we're going to lose these sales.
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Maybe you might for, you might go down for a little bit, but in a year from now, where
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It needs to be addressed as soon as you fucking recognize it.
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And the sooner you recognize it and unless you let them go down that road, the more chances
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But this, this kind of situation where this person is already saying like, I've already addressed
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this and you know, they continue to do whatever, like cut them the fuck loose, man.
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It's, it's, it's, it's really hard right now in the real world.
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There's still a level of entitlement amongst employees where they believe that there's unlimited
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opportunities outside of the one they currently had.
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And we should go ask the 120,000 tech employees that have been laid off in the last 10 days.
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And what people don't realize is that, you know, when the dot-com bubble burst in, in
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the late nineties, early two thousands, there were 107,000 layoffs.
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There's been 120,000 layoffs in the last 10 days and it's going to get way worse.
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So if people, if people can't recognize that within your organization right now, they're going
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to learn a really difficult lesson because right now the opportunities that existed a
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year ago where everybody's saying, Oh, fuck you.
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You know, I don't, you know, I don't really like the way you do things.
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Cause I mean, bro, I mean, you know, fucking culture.
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What, what would you say is like the, should be the end goal for like solid culture in a,
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Well, I think that's different for the, for whoever, whatever company, I think it's, I
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You know, um, if you ask me what my personal opinion is, it's see culture is designed to
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create an authentic experience and an authentic company because people don't buy from brand
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They buy from the name plus the people that represent the name, right?
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So you, when you ask me what a good culture design would be, it would be one that represents
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what you believe this country should actually be about inside your walls.
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It means, uh, you know, basically doing everything at a high level of excellence.
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Um, which to me, and I could go on and on and on, but basically those are the things that
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I've always believed this country should be about.
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I, you know, that's why whenever we have a guest that comes in on the show, what the
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fucking, every single one of them say, holy shit, dude, when you walk in here, it feels
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Well, it feels different because, uh, it is different because we don't fucking play
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with this fucking bullshit out there in the real world.
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Uh, that, you know, the fucking woke nonsense that all of you motherfuckers know isn't even
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true that you're afraid to say anything about because you might get reprimanded or fired.
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If you're, if you work for one of those companies, come work for me.
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Like, and that's, that's the correction that's happening right now too.
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People are not buying anymore from companies like that.
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People are not going to buy from companies that shove fucking racism, that shove fucking
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trans shit, that, that shove, dude, we're tired of having it shoved in our fucking faces.
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That means we're tired of having it shoved in our faces every motherfucking turn.
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The mere fact that our government is so present in our lives that it, that it, that it, that
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it, it affects our sports and it affects our fucking bro.
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There's no escaping this social bullshit that is being jammed down our fucking throats.
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You can't even watch a fucking commercial anymore where there's even a regular family, meaning
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Like whether it be black or white or fucking Asian, it's always got to be this mixed shit
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Like, bro, they're, they're pushing this shit down our throats so hard that people are
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Everybody here in this company and around me, my friends, we believe in fucking leave
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The problem is those people won't leave us alone because they don't believe in that.
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Well, they're going to, they're going to fuck around and find out, you know what I'm
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I told bro, who said this by the way, who told, who told all of you listening to the show
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who told you fucking two and a half years ago that the trend was going to swing towards
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pro freedom made in America, pro American job companies who fucking told you that I told
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you to get out in front of it and your fucking pussies.
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So it's whatever, man, keep not listening to me and losing fucking money and your freedoms
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Like, dude, it's just like, I'm like, guys, if you would just stand the fuck up and be
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patriotic Americans like y'all fucking are behind closed doors, uh, you'd actually grow
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and they've got the, the, the society has used all this technology, the media, the bots
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to, to make people, uh, political correctness, silent majority, fucking, uh, what else am
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All kinds of other things to make people literally a freak cancel culture to make people afraid
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What's the easiest way to stand out, bro, to do the opposite of whatever the fuck they
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The companies that are kicking ass, the companies that are winning are all the business is transitioning
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away from these big giant companies back down to small and medium American owned companies
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like my companies or like other people's companies that have been, that have been out
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I told you it was a great thing to stand up for people.
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Maybe you should start reflecting that in your culture of your company because people
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will not only love your company, but they'll love to work at your company.
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I feel like you would agree that it's safe to say that there's a direct correlation between
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And so my question is, how do you ensure that those higher standards don't start to fall when
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Well, that's a good question because that's exactly what happens every time.
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In the beginning, when you have nothing, it's very easy to be aggressive.
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As you start to get a little more comfortable, you stop being as aggressive.
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As you get more comfortable into that success, I'm making money.
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You stop playing aggressive and you start playing not to lose the shit that you have.
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If you understand football, this is the difference between running an aggressive defense that you're
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fucking getting after it and then running the prevent defense when you're ahead by two
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And what usually happens when people start running the prevent defense when they're
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Because if you're not playing to win, you're not going to win.
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And if you're playing to fucking not lose, you will get beat by someone who's playing
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And so you have to figure out how to cultivate that same urgency when you are comfortable and
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This is one of the most common questions that I get personally from other people is how
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the fuck do you show up every day the way that you do and go after it the way that you
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It's a mentality that I talk about and teach about and have taught for many, many years.
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In the beginning, when you're broke, do you have an option whether or not to get the fuck
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Now, when you're on the other end of that and you've got a hundred million dollars fucking
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in your bank account, how do you keep that mentality?
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And I think of it, I think two different things to help me with my zero option mentality.
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I think one, if I don't get up and do what I got to do, it's only a matter of time before
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Before I was fucking who I am today, before I started this company and these other companies
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and done all this shit and fucking podcasts and all this fucking shit, I did concrete work,
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Two of the hardest jobs physically that there are.
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When you paint stripes on parking lots, you have to push around a striper, which weighs
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three to 400 pounds because it's filled with fucking paint across a parking lot.
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And you either do this in the middle of the night when there's no cars around so you can
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line out the lot and do it, or you do it in the middle of the day, which is even worse
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because it's a hundred fucking degrees outside and you're getting killed on the middle of
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The other thing that sucks is carrying concrete forms in and out of a fucking hole all fucking
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So what I do is I convince myself that if I don't show up and give everything I got, then
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So I cultivate a mentality in my own being that if I don't do these things, I'm going
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And then the other thing that I do is I remember that if I don't get up and do my work and
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do my job and do the best I can, that you guys, the people in this room and the people
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out there and all these people that depend on their careers and the number of projects
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that we have going on, they're going to suffer.
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So if you think about it like that, if you're a true leader that actually serves the people
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that work for you, you shouldn't have a problem of getting lazy.
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It's only when you're thinking about how well off you are that you can allow yourself to
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So if you can't figure out how to care about these other people, which should be enough
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for you to get the fuck out of bed and go kick ass, then you should at least remember
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that what you will be doing in a short amount of time, if you don't, you'll be back to doing
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whatever it was you did before you started the project that you're on now.
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You know, I've seen it happen a hundred times or more.
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You guys who are out there, how many people do you know that got something going, got it
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And then all of a sudden you hear from a while and you say, Steve, what's happening, bro?
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Well, bro, I just saw you at the fucking, I just saw you, you were on a fucking yacht
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So you have to be able to cultivate a zero option mentality, even when you are comfortable
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financially, because that's, what's going to keep you from never being uncomfortable
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Andy, our third and final question, question number three.
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Andy, my sister and I run a small boutique construction interior design company.
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Usually I, the man, handle the conversations with our contractors and crews, but it's hard
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to communicate the intricacies that my sisters once communicated.
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I tell her to just do it and she declines because she fears lack of respect for men.
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Should I be working on my communication with her or should she be working on her fears with
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You know, I get this question a lot from women.
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I was about to, we just, yeah, we just had, yeah.
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Like I just spoke at Emily's women in business event and I had this question, I think three
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Is this a good, is this a good, like, is that a good like sign that maybe the men in society
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I mean, first of all, let's dispel the myth that there's a man's world.
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No good men, men that work hard their whole lives, who make hundreds of thousands of dollars
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a year, who are great fucking dads to their kids who do all these things are still shit
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Men are the fucking scum of society and they have been for the last fucking 10 years.
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So don't come at me with this is a man's fucking world.
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It's 10 times harder for a fucking man to do fucking anything, get any fucking respect
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Man, quality, man want quality women, quality women want quality men.
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The problem on both sides of the equation is men have lowered their standards because
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they'd rather just fucking not deal with bullshit from women.
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They'd rather make a couple bucks and jerk off to porn and not deal with y'all shit.
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Then you got women who are so desperate for fucking men's attention.
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The good men that they think that being naked all over the fucking internet and doing all
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this fucking bullshit somehow attracts and then they're mad when they can't get a fucking
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Like I could talk about this for a long fucking time.
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Both men and women right now that the quality of the average men and women is fucking trash.
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You men need to nut the fuck up, dude, and go out and get in fucking shape, get your fucking
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money together and start fucking figuring out how to fucking win and you won't have the
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And if women, you stop beating the shit out of every fucking dude that isn't fucking Prince
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And you stop fucking selling your shit all over the fucking world, trying to pretend like
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Don't complain when those fucking men will not fucking marry you.
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And to answer the question, if you are a strong woman leader, you will have no problem getting
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That's a fucking fake self-imposed limitation that women have.
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We have made enough progress in this fucking world where there are plenty of strong women
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leaders that completely run shit all over the place.
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That's a mental hang up that you tell yourself because you think we're living in 19 fucking
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The reason that men aren't assertive, the reason that men don't ask you on dates, the
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reason that men don't do the shit you want to do is because your motherfuckers make fun
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How many times do we see on Instagram a fucking girl taking a screenshot of something some
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dude said to her and fucking posting her story, making fun of them?
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And I'm not talking about like, hey, baby, let me see your butt.
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I'm talking about like, you know, a dude like a dude genuinely like trying to get to know
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We talk about this because it's fucking bullshit and I get tired of hearing it.
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Well, yeah, because you're out entertaining every other fucking man on the planet.
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You want attention from every man on the internet over the attention that you get from the man
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A good man will get up and walk the fuck out over that shit.
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I don't give a fuck that you can fucking tell yourself whatever the fuck you want.
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This ain't called ideal AF or maybe AF or the way it should be AF.
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A quality man who makes quality money, who has his shit together, does not want his fucking
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woman being viewed by every other motherfucking man.
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You ask any fucking one of them, they'll tell you.
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So, oh, well, I'm making fucking blah, blah, blah on OnlyFans.
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A quality man don't care because he's making his own shit.
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But don't fucking say that men are the problem.
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This culture that fucking castrates men in every possible fucking fashion is the fucking
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Oh, Matt, I'm toxically masculine because I speak the truth and I stand for what's right
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and I stand up to motherfucking bullies and I punch them in the fucking face and I make
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So, I mean, do you believe that she should just focus on increasing her leadership skills
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Because it doesn't really sound like there's this like gender complex thing.
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It sounds like you need to just be a fucking leader and forget if you are a man or a woman
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and understand that we all have equality in the fucking job place and respect.
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And if you say something to a man and he doesn't do the direct, he doesn't follow the directions
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that you follow, guess what you get to do when you're a fucking owner of the company?
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Like, I don't understand how hard this is to fucking grasp.
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They don't do what the fuck you say, man or woman.
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They don't do it the way you like it, man or woman.
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I don't understand how to make this any more simple.
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Stop letting your warped view of how the world is affect your ability to lead whoever
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the fuck it is that you need to lead because at the end of the day, the right people, man
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or woman, are going to execute because they want to do a great job.
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People who want to do a great job, regardless if they have a penis or if they have a vagina,
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So stop looking at it as these fucking hangups of men, women, this, that.
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You guys overcomplicate the whole fucking thing.
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What's likely happening here and what likely happens in this scenario every motherfucking
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time is that this woman has told herself a story about leading that becomes a self-fulfilling
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You don't think the motherfuckers will follow you so you don't assert yourself in a leadership
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And because you don't assert yourself in a strong leadership role, they don't follow
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If you don't have that ability to understand what I just said, you don't belong to fucking
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People who cater to these things, people who can't get over these things, business is going
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to become very, very, very difficult for a period of time moving forward.
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Understand that if you don't muster up the courage to lead your team the way that you
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need to lead it, whether you're a man or a woman and whether they're men or women, you're
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But I don't want to hear about this man's world shit anymore.
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Don't fucking come with me with that because it ain't that way.
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You can charge a lot more than five bucks, bro.
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Dude, it's just like I get so tired of hearing it.
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Like, bro, I see on the internet like people talking about narcissists and fucking victimhood
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That's why there ain't no good nothing out there because you've all accept a lower standard
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You women who complain about dudes not taking you on a date are not holding the line and
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forcing dudes to actually come to that to take you out.
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You say, oh, everybody wants to Netflix and chill.
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Yeah, that's because you're Netflix and chilling.
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Like dudes who saying, oh, there's no good women while they're fucking simping out for
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these women who offer nothing except their bodies.
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And women have learned this behavior that that's all they have to offer to have a life.
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So when you have a learned behavior on one side that is enforced by the other side, you
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It's fucking incredibly frustrating for me to watch, dude, because one of the biggest
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things that I get from you guys is you either get the men saying there's no good women or
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And if you're not high value, what makes you think that you deserve high value in return?
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Your body and your fucking big titties and your fat ass ain't enough to attract a quality
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It might be enough for a man that doesn't give a fuck about you.
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They get attention from these dudes that get them believing that that's what they got
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Ultimately, it comes from women because women, women are the ones most men never get to
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the level where they're the ones that choose who they fuck.
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Very few men, very few men on this planet walk around with unlimited options of who they
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You have to be, you have to have all your shit in line.
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There's one out of every fucking 10,000 men are like that.
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Women, on the other hand, have controlled that since they were, they hit puberty since
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women have been 13 years old and they started to get some boobies.
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They have had every dude they've ever known trying to fuck them.
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You women need to start restricting that and stop fucking dudes because you think they're
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going to fucking, you know, like you can't find another dude, you know, Oh, I can't find
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So, you know, I'll deal with this guy, but I know he's a fucking piece of shit, but I'll
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If women would raise their standards, men would raise their standards.
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And you men out there that, that have trouble meeting women, go out and get yourself a fucking
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Go out and get your life together and then see what kind of problems you have with women.