REAL AF with Andy Frisella - November 19, 2022


418. Q&AF： Cancer Inside Culture, Success Standards & Career Gender Dichotomy

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Andy Frisella
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Andy Priscilla Headshot Disney Keith Steve Alex Matt
417. Andy & DJ CTI： National Greatness Agenda 2024, Republicans Win The House & Sam Bankman-Fried Extradited From Bahamas 419. Q&AF： Expanding Your Product Line, Positively Moving On From A Company & Working Towards Premium Pricing

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In this episode of The Realist, DJ and Andy talk about how they met, how they got together, and how to get your shit together. Also, Andy talks about his birthday and what he's been up to the past week.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realist, say goodbye to 0.99
00:00:21.240 the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality. 0.80
00:00:25.160 Guys, today we have Q and AF, that's where you submit the Q's and I give you the AF's. 0.94
00:00:30.500 As always, you can submit your Q's to...
00:00:34.260 Guys, email those questions in to askandy at andyfriscilla.com.
00:00:37.940 And that's DJ.
00:00:38.800 What's going on guys?
00:00:39.540 DJ is my handsome co-host.
00:00:41.700 What's your Instagram DJ so these dudes can follow you?
00:00:44.600 I got them on IG at officially djohnson.
00:00:47.980 You guys give DJ a follow.
00:00:49.420 Appreciate that.
00:00:50.140 All right.
00:00:50.440 Now, if you're new to the show, which some of you always are, this is not your normal
00:00:56.780 podcast where we just do business development.
00:00:59.200 This is a mix of business development, personal development, domestic extremism, and all kinds 0.99
00:01:06.560 of motivational shit. 0.86
00:01:07.620 So you're going to have all kinds of different topics on this show or different formats for 0.99
00:01:11.260 the show.
00:01:11.960 Other times when you tune in, it will be cruise the internet.
00:01:14.660 That's where we throw up three topics on the screen. 0.99
00:01:17.900 We talk about how ridiculous they are, who wrote them, and how come they're so fucking 1.00
00:01:23.560 stupid. 1.00
00:01:24.880 And we do so with a sense of humor. 1.00
00:01:27.100 And if you don't have humor, don't listen to the show.
00:01:29.460 I don't like people without humor.
00:01:31.460 Then sometimes we have real talk.
00:01:33.100 Real talk is five to 20 minutes of real talk.
00:01:36.480 That's just something I think needs to be said.
00:01:38.720 Then sometimes we have full length.
00:01:40.320 Full length is similar to like an interview maybe that you've listened to on one of the
00:01:44.820 40 million other podcasts out there, except I'm not really good at it.
00:01:48.780 And I interrupt people a whole lot. 0.98
00:01:51.640 And yeah, so that's the, that's the fucking, that's the way we do it here. 0.94
00:01:56.740 Um, I will say with this unique way of doing things, uh, you will get tremendous value. 0.97
00:02:04.620 You will learn the truth in society.
00:02:07.080 You will learn the truth about winning. 0.98
00:02:08.840 You will learn the truth about getting your shit together and you will learn how to be 0.97
00:02:12.980 a better functioning, more complete, higher performing human. 0.99
00:02:16.780 And for that, we have a fee and the fee is very simple.
00:02:21.000 I don't run ads on the show for one specific reason.
00:02:26.620 Well, there's two specific reasons.
00:02:28.380 One, I think it's annoying, but two, I don't want to have to answer to anybody bitching about
00:02:33.260 anything I say.
00:02:34.120 So it allows me to say what I want to say without any interference.
00:02:38.320 And in return, I ask for something for you.
00:02:41.140 This is very simple.
00:02:42.740 Whenever you get value from a show, I appreciate if you shared the show.
00:02:48.340 Okay.
00:02:48.820 Now, a lot of you guys are very lazy about sharing the show.
00:02:52.880 I'm just going to be honest with you.
00:02:54.700 Okay.
00:02:55.420 You share the show one every 40 episodes, one every 50 episodes. 0.98
00:02:59.940 You don't share the shows where I say some polarizing shit, even though you might agree 0.98
00:03:04.220 that it's true. 0.99
00:03:05.880 Okay.
00:03:06.400 If you go back and listen to the show from 2019, had you all shared the show, we wouldn't 0.97
00:03:10.780 even be in the situation that we're fucking in right now. 0.95
00:03:13.080 And I got receipts to prove it. 1.00
00:03:14.640 So if you listen to the show and you don't share the show, you're a fucking hoe. 1.00
00:03:20.720 Yeah. 1.00
00:03:21.460 All right.
00:03:22.600 For those of you that share the show, thank you very much.
00:03:25.120 Now, don't be a hoe. 1.00
00:03:26.960 Yeah.
00:03:27.060 Don't be a hoe. 1.00
00:03:27.660 Share the show.
00:03:28.140 That's right.
00:03:29.500 All right, man.
00:03:30.200 So what's happening?
00:03:31.380 Oh, you know, I got some good ones for you.
00:03:32.960 Yeah.
00:03:33.460 What's going on with you, dude?
00:03:35.340 You're closing in on 75 hard here, huh?
00:03:38.140 We on day 71?
00:03:39.300 Yeah, no.
00:03:40.340 Today is day 73.
00:03:43.420 My last day is Saturday.
00:03:45.120 Huh?
00:03:45.620 Really?
00:03:45.960 My last day is Saturday, yeah.
00:03:46.740 But I'm going to go right into phase one.
00:03:48.200 There's no sense of stopping the freight train. 1.00
00:03:50.040 You're fucking killing it, dude. 1.00
00:03:51.360 Yeah. 1.00
00:03:51.600 Well, I mean, I got a long way to go.
00:03:53.200 Where'd you start at?
00:03:54.500 So this round, I started at 318.
00:03:57.340 Well, when you and I met, you were 350-something.
00:03:59.120 I was like 355.
00:04:01.120 Yeah.
00:04:01.400 I mean, I damn near 360, bro.
00:04:02.940 Yeah. 1.00
00:04:03.100 Half of that was your fucking hair, bro. 1.00
00:04:04.880 That's true. 1.00
00:04:05.480 Yeah.
00:04:06.180 The hair you were trying to keep.
00:04:07.260 Well, I just finally fired it, so it's still there.
00:04:10.600 So 350 down to 300?
00:04:14.440 I know I'm below 300.
00:04:16.220 No, no, no.
00:04:16.600 What I'm saying is you went from 350 to 300 that first year.
00:04:20.260 Then you got off a little track where you got back up to about what?
00:04:23.680 310, 315?
00:04:24.980 318.
00:04:25.520 318?
00:04:26.040 Was the start of this round.
00:04:27.600 And now you're sub.
00:04:28.840 You're in the 80s?
00:04:29.520 I got to be at least.
00:04:30.700 I don't know.
00:04:30.940 I think you got to be in the 280s.
00:04:32.460 Yeah.
00:04:32.800 I mean, that's kind of how I feel, too.
00:04:34.140 I know I am.
00:04:35.100 I haven't been looking at the scale.
00:04:35.640 When you told me you were 290, you look significantly thinner.
00:04:40.780 Yeah.
00:04:41.120 And that was about three weeks ago.
00:04:42.620 Three weeks ago, yeah.
00:04:43.460 I mean, everything's re-comping.
00:04:44.820 I will say that, though.
00:04:46.340 You getting some veins?
00:04:47.280 Yeah, getting the veins are coming in.
00:04:49.200 I know you'd be running around your house in your underwear flexing on Alex.
00:04:51.820 Well, that was before.
00:04:53.520 Anyway, I mean, that's not nothing new.
00:04:56.300 No, man.
00:04:56.800 It feels good.
00:04:57.280 I do feel like I'm in a good place with momentum built up.
00:05:00.280 There's no point of fucking that up.
00:05:01.740 Yeah.
00:05:01.820 You talk about that a lot.
00:05:02.860 Don't fuck up the momentum once you got it.
00:05:04.800 Yeah. 1.00
00:05:05.160 Because it's hard to get that shit back up. 0.99
00:05:06.300 Yeah. 1.00
00:05:06.660 You know?
00:05:07.020 So I'm going to go right into phase one, and we'll see how it goes.
00:05:10.140 Yeah.
00:05:10.560 Bro, you know, I think that's a huge key in anything in life is when you have the momentum
00:05:14.880 to be able to recognize you have it and then continue to move with it.
00:05:18.380 Yeah.
00:05:18.800 You know, a lot of people, when they get that momentum, they mistake it, and they think
00:05:21.800 that it's like power. 1.00
00:05:22.620 Like, I have the power, like fucking He-Man shit, right? 1.00
00:05:25.500 Right, right. 1.00
00:05:26.000 Motherfucker, it ain't you. 1.00
00:05:26.960 It's the momentum you created. 1.00
00:05:28.500 And when you decide that you're all, you know, you let your ego get in front of you, and you 0.98
00:05:32.160 start thinking you're badass and shit, and then you stop, you realize real quick that 0.97
00:05:36.560 it was just that momentum pushing you forward. 0.99
00:05:38.560 And I think that's a huge lesson that the Live Hard program teaches.
00:05:42.620 You guys can get that for free, by the way.
00:05:44.800 It makes high-performance humans out of you at episode 208, free. 0.99
00:05:50.600 It's fucking free. 1.00
00:05:51.580 I could make millions of dollars selling a motherfucking program. 1.00
00:05:54.060 Yeah. 1.00
00:05:54.320 It's fucking free. 0.99
00:05:55.440 Yeah. 0.97
00:05:55.740 And it's like, it's funny, man, because we've had a couple of, like, you know, if you guys
00:06:01.980 are familiar with the Live Hard, you call them test days, right?
00:06:04.440 Yeah.
00:06:04.620 We've had a few.
00:06:05.580 Yeah.
00:06:05.940 You know, where it's like, you know.
00:06:06.880 I mean, bro, you've been how many out there? 0.98
00:06:08.980 I mean, bro, 10, 12 times I've seen you through this cycle out at fucking one in the morning. 0.98
00:06:13.060 Oh, yeah. 0.99
00:06:13.520 Yeah.
00:06:13.700 Oh, yeah. 0.99
00:06:14.100 But, like, the thing is, like, I just had to turn it into, like, a fucking game. 0.83
00:06:17.800 You know, like, now, it's like when I'm, like, looking ahead, like, I got to go out 0.97
00:06:21.140 of town Saturday.
00:06:22.860 I got to go out of town. 0.98
00:06:23.840 It's like, I'm already trying to fucking plan it out. 0.95
00:06:26.040 Okay, cool. 0.98
00:06:26.720 Like, all right. 0.99
00:06:27.260 Let's fucking get it then. 0.98
00:06:28.360 You know what I'm saying? 0.97
00:06:28.880 Yeah, but don't you think that's one of the biggest things it teaches, bro, is time management?
00:06:32.560 Yeah, bro, because everybody's, oh, you know, I got so much going on.
00:06:35.100 How would I have the time? 0.99
00:06:35.960 You got the fucking time. 0.99
00:06:37.340 I think the biggest thing I hear from people about that program is. 1.00
00:06:44.020 And if they're being, this is if they're being honest.
00:06:48.120 Usually what people will say is, bro, I was totally lying to myself about how busy I was. 0.99
00:06:52.680 Fuck, yeah. 1.00
00:06:53.380 It's kind of like the same shit people say about kids. 1.00
00:06:55.780 The same thing. 1.00
00:06:56.400 I mean, same thing people say about food.
00:06:58.120 Yeah.
00:06:58.300 And everything.
00:06:59.380 Yeah.
00:07:00.320 What do you mean?
00:07:00.880 It's the lies.
00:07:01.920 It's the lies we tell ourselves.
00:07:02.940 Oh, yeah.
00:07:04.080 You know?
00:07:04.940 I think the worst day, though, is when we went to Utah. 0.99
00:07:08.180 Yeah, dude, I fucking. 1.00
00:07:09.180 That fucking Keith's driveway. 1.00
00:07:10.700 Bro. 1.00
00:07:11.720 Bro, that fucking drive. 1.00
00:07:12.860 My ass still hurts. 1.00
00:07:13.460 Bro, that driveway made me sweat driving up it. 1.00
00:07:15.480 Bro. 1.00
00:07:16.040 I did a fucking. 1.00
00:07:17.120 It took me. 0.99
00:07:17.940 It was seven times.
00:07:19.220 Yeah. 0.99
00:07:19.480 And that was after a long ass fucking death. 0.99
00:07:20.920 Bro. 1.00
00:07:21.620 Miserable.
00:07:22.340 But I got it done.
00:07:23.140 Yeah.
00:07:23.300 And so it was rewarding.
00:07:24.160 But yeah, it's all good, man.
00:07:26.500 Cool.
00:07:27.420 Everything with you?
00:07:29.900 Yeah.
00:07:30.640 You know, I mean, dude, look, I feel good.
00:07:34.740 My body's coming back.
00:07:37.040 Muscles coming back on.
00:07:38.620 Yeah. 1.00
00:07:39.040 You know, getting ready to flex on motherfuckers. 0.99
00:07:42.940 You know, like I've been a little quiet the last year because like, dude, when I'm not at my best, I don't feel as strong and as powerful as I normally do. 0.99
00:07:50.200 You know, it makes me a little timid.
00:07:51.760 Um, and that's not my natural state. 1.00
00:07:54.980 So like, I'm starting to come back to my natural state, which is fucking baddest motherfucker on the planet. 0.99
00:07:59.780 Yeah. 0.99
00:08:00.220 And I like that.
00:08:01.220 Feels good.
00:08:02.500 Um, you know, get, you know, this whole year, dude, has been a big test for me.
00:08:07.760 You know, the last 12 months, we're, we're what?
00:08:10.200 Today's November 17th.
00:08:12.280 One month out from.
00:08:13.540 Yeah.
00:08:13.560 One month out from my surgery, um, from a year anniversary of the surgery.
00:08:17.660 And, um, yeah, dude, it's, uh.
00:08:21.760 It's been a test, bro.
00:08:23.300 You know, I had total shoulder reconstruction.
00:08:25.700 Um, I injured my shoulder at, at the, at, at the best physique and the best mental space I'd ever been in. 0.95
00:08:33.180 Um, I had to watch my body fucking deteriorate away after all of that work, which was literal years of dedicated work, three fucking full years of almost no fucking cheating. 0.67
00:08:45.320 Um, you know, I, I had to deal with that. 0.99
00:08:51.580 Then on top of it, I had to deal with, you know, what's going on in the fucking world. 0.66
00:08:55.540 And then I had to deal with those effects that it had on our ability to execute business, you know, which in all of my businesses, which is changing things. 0.92
00:09:03.620 Um, but honestly, bro, like the main thing like that I feel right now that I think I feel so good about is, um, that getting off those antidepressants.
00:09:17.000 Like I was thinking about this this morning, man.
00:09:18.940 You know, for those of you that don't know, uh, I was on antidepressants for 10 fucking years and for the last three years watching what they did with COVID watching what they've done with the pharmaceutical industry and just kind of learning more and more and seeing more and more of how all these things operate and how these elite motherfuckers across the world will actually make people sick or make people believe they're sick to sell them a cure. 1.00
00:09:45.220 Um, once I realized that that was happening, bro, I was just like, yeah, fuck them. 1.00
00:09:51.820 You know, like I was like, fuck, they fucking got me. 1.00
00:09:54.100 Same thing with porn. 1.00
00:09:55.120 Once I realized that they were fucking getting us with porn, I stopped fucking with it. 1.00
00:09:59.260 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:10:00.600 Um, and, uh, you know, but getting off those antidepressants, that was real shit, dude. 0.98
00:10:05.880 And like, you know, I'm finally, that was what about August 1st when I started getting off of them. 0.81
00:10:12.300 So August, September, October, you know, it's been a hundred something days. 0.94
00:10:18.960 I finally feel fucking like really fucking good. 0.99
00:10:22.900 And dude, the, the, the first 60 days of getting off of that shit. 0.99
00:10:27.100 And by the way, if you're somebody that wants to get off of that stuff, um, you, you need to do it with a doctor's guidance because it's very, very difficult to do. 0.98
00:10:35.780 And you're going to have to prepare yourself for at least 60 days of more anxiety than you probably ever had before you started taking the pills, more depressive thoughts and suicidal thoughts than you ever had before you started taking the pills. 0.99
00:10:49.900 I mean, they made the shit. 1.00
00:10:51.460 So they make the shit so hard to come off of. 1.00
00:10:54.460 And I personally believe that's entirely intentional of them. 0.99
00:10:57.980 Um, but yeah, so like today, you know, like when I woke up today, it was weird, kind of popped in my head. 1.00
00:11:04.720 I'm like, motherfucker, you just did something that most people can't fucking do. 0.99
00:11:07.600 And that made me feel pretty good. 1.00
00:11:09.520 No. 0.99
00:11:10.020 Um, so all in all, dude, like fucking health is getting better. 0.99
00:11:14.360 Mental health is fucking getting back to that bulletproof, uh, place that I like to be. 0.98
00:11:19.240 My physical standards are getting back. 0.98
00:11:21.500 I'm not far off from where I was when I got hurt.
00:11:23.560 I'm about 10 pounds too heavy, but I'm still trying to put muscle on.
00:11:26.920 I'm not trying to be lean right now. 0.87
00:11:28.680 Um, but yeah, feeling fucking good. 0.96
00:11:31.380 Excited about this fucking, the relaunch of MFCEO project. 0.97
00:11:34.940 Excited about, um, basically consolidating all the winners in our network to this new, this new program that we're getting ready to launch. 0.97
00:11:42.860 This new platform.
00:11:43.980 So yeah, dude, I'm excited, man.
00:11:45.560 Yeah. 0.84
00:11:45.880 Feel fucking good. 0.95
00:11:46.820 How do you think those people that like, you know, watch you and then they haven't really seen much come out, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:11:52.040 And they're fucking like wondering like, man, what the fuck's going over there, going on over there. 0.98
00:11:55.820 And all of a sudden, boom. 0.99
00:11:56.840 Well, you got to remember the last time I, the last time I posted real content about my life was in 2000 fucking 19. 0.76
00:12:03.580 You know, my life has changed so much from, from now to then.
00:12:07.500 Um, and also my, my ability, my, what I've learned has changed so much from now to then.
00:12:12.680 So what I have to offer is much, as much better.
00:12:15.200 Uh, and, and quite honestly, I was the best in the world when I stopped doing it.
00:12:18.860 So, um, I'm really excited, dude. 0.91
00:12:22.040 And, you know, I thought long and hard, you know, you and I, I mean, fuck dude, there's not a day that goes by that you and I don't talk about how we can make a better impact to what's going on. 0.99
00:12:29.820 And what I've really figured out, especially with this last election cycle where there was clearly fucking bullshit happening still. 0.99
00:12:36.020 Um, not bullshit, just straight up fraud. 0.99
00:12:40.140 Yeah. 0.99
00:12:40.540 Okay. 0.90
00:12:41.280 Um, what I've learned is that like what we need to do as a, as people is to become people who are not consuming the products that they are offering, you know, because if there's no customers, there's no fucking demand.
00:12:56.380 If there's no demand, they have to change.
00:12:57.860 So the reality of how we get them to change what the fuck they're doing is by becoming so independent and so strong and so, uh, you know, removed from their little fucking matrix in terms of our physical health, our own education, uh, our finances, our standards and all these things. 0.90
00:13:18.860 Like for some reason, dude, the media and politicians have convinced people that they direct traffic when in reality, it's all of us collectively as individuals that direct traffic. 0.94
00:13:30.560 So what, what can I do to make the biggest impact is something that I've struggled with.
00:13:35.700 And, you know, people say, well, run for office.
00:13:38.040 Yeah.
00:13:38.240 Okay. 1.00
00:13:38.480 Run for office in a fucking broken system where they're going to ruin my fucking life for running for office. 1.00
00:13:43.420 So you have to play that game. 1.00
00:13:44.120 I run for office. 1.00
00:13:44.880 Once we burn the system down and we have a fucking new one that isn't fucking totally corrupt. 0.99
00:13:48.860 I run, I'll lead us then. 0.99
00:13:50.720 Okay.
00:13:51.200 But that's, that's not happening right now. 0.77
00:13:53.280 Um, so I think right now, the biggest thing that I can do to serve people is to help these young people who are, you know, both young in the game, but also young, uh, literally learn the reality of what it takes to become higher achieving, higher producing, higher income, more successful, mentally harder, uh, and just better fucking people. 0.89
00:14:15.740 Yeah. 0.90
00:14:16.140 And they're not being taught that, you know, for the last 20 years, people have been taught how to be mediocre, how to, how to fucking be soft intentionally so that the system can fucking milk everything out of them. 0.99
00:14:28.440 And, you know, people are starting to realize, especially parents, like there's parents right now of 13, 14, 15, 16 year old kids who are realizing, Holy fuck, dude, my kids are totally fucked because of the education system. 0.99
00:14:42.260 Um, and they're looking for alternatives. 0.99
00:14:44.480 Well, I'm going to be that alternative.
00:14:46.420 Okay. 0.99
00:14:46.780 You might not like how I say it, but I can promise you, your fucking kids are going to hear the truth and they're going to learn the real shit of what it's going to take to win in the real world. 0.99
00:14:54.820 And so I'm excited about what, what I'm doing, because I think that's what I'm equipped to do best. 0.98
00:14:59.720 And I think that's what can create the biggest impact is bringing these next generation kids up to par with what it means to be a free American that actually understands how to fucking win in this country and, and, and also how to serve through winning.
00:15:14.820 So yeah, man, I don't know.
00:15:17.120 All in all, I'm excited.
00:15:18.140 I feel pretty good.
00:15:19.060 Yeah. 0.94
00:15:19.580 I'm fucking excited. 0.88
00:15:20.860 Yeah. 0.97
00:15:21.380 You excited to see, man.
00:15:22.440 Yeah.
00:15:22.780 It's going to be cool.
00:15:24.820 Well, let's make, uh, let's make some people better today.
00:15:27.020 Yeah, let's do it.
00:15:28.300 Uh, any question number one, I was recently promoted to director of a company.
00:15:32.860 There's a manager in the organization who is blatantly eroding the culture.
00:15:37.580 He's incredibly inconsistent.
00:15:39.280 Sometimes he's great and has values.
00:15:41.480 And other times he's just straight up off.
00:15:43.220 He has mood swings and sucks energy out of people in the organization.
00:15:46.540 He's been challenged on this before, but he isn't changing.
00:15:49.960 The skills he has are at a shortage in our industry and removing him would be risky.
00:15:54.440 Is there any advice on how to proceed?
00:15:59.520 Well, my, if this person who's asking the question was sitting here, what I would say
00:16:03.640 to him is, do you want a hundred of those people?
00:16:06.600 Oh man.
00:16:07.480 Yeah. 1.00
00:16:07.800 Fuck. 1.00
00:16:09.000 Right. 1.00
00:16:09.480 Do you want, do you want, do you want, here's your options.
00:16:12.160 Do you want zero of those people or do you want all of those people?
00:16:16.660 Because cancer spreads. 0.99
00:16:18.500 And if you don't cut it the fuck out, you're going to get more of it. 0.99
00:16:21.920 Just like when it gets in your body. 0.98
00:16:23.980 So it really is irrelevant culturally.
00:16:26.820 Um, what skills that person has when they're intentionally undermining the culture that
00:16:35.520 you're setting in place.
00:16:37.020 So, you know, that's the reality, you know, ask yourself when you see someone in your system,
00:16:42.800 who's bucking the culture.
00:16:44.700 Okay.
00:16:45.080 Who's bucking what you want to do and who thinks that they have a better way.
00:16:48.840 And this is undermining everything you do.
00:16:51.520 Okay.
00:16:52.080 And this is how I look at it.
00:16:53.500 I look at them and I say, okay, well, do I want more of those people?
00:16:58.080 The answer is always no.
00:16:59.580 Right.
00:17:00.160 Okay.
00:17:00.700 So what do I do?
00:17:02.820 Usually I have a conversation that maybe I'll have a second conversation. 1.00
00:17:06.760 And then the third conversation will be, uh, see you fuck later. 1.00
00:17:10.720 Right. 0.99
00:17:11.080 Um, and I don't say that in a negative way, like, you know, go, go do something else.
00:17:15.920 Go, go build your own thing.
00:17:17.320 But, um, the reality is, is if you have someone in your system who, uh, is undermining you, 0.99
00:17:25.340 who is playing their own game, who is deciding that, uh, they control shit because they're good 0.99
00:17:32.580 at something else. 0.99
00:17:33.440 Right.
00:17:34.320 Um, let them go build their own thing and you, you fix it, stay your culture, stay your course.
00:17:41.080 You know what I'm saying?
00:17:42.020 Absolutely.
00:17:42.940 Um, it's as simple as that.
00:17:45.680 And, and a lot of people will ruin their companies because they can't make that decision.
00:17:50.580 They can't make that change.
00:17:51.880 They're afraid to, uh, you know, because probably that guy, probably his skills is probably that 1.00
00:17:59.020 he sells a lot of shit. 1.00
00:18:00.160 Right. 1.00
00:18:00.800 Okay.
00:18:01.080 That's probably performing.
00:18:02.120 Yeah.
00:18:02.220 That's probably what it is.
00:18:03.540 Um, and you think, oh, well, if we cut this guy out, we're going to lose these sales.
00:18:08.440 Yeah.
00:18:08.880 Maybe you might for, you might go down for a little bit, but in a year from now, where
00:18:14.280 will you be?
00:18:14.840 Yeah.
00:18:15.720 You know, negative culture is bad, bro.
00:18:17.840 It's real bad. 0.99
00:18:18.800 It needs to be addressed as soon as you fucking recognize it. 0.99
00:18:21.140 Yeah. 0.99
00:18:21.400 And the sooner you recognize it and unless you let them go down that road, the more chances
00:18:26.020 are you can salvage that person.
00:18:28.240 But this, this kind of situation where this person is already saying like, I've already addressed 0.99
00:18:33.060 this and you know, they continue to do whatever, like cut them the fuck loose, man.
00:18:38.840 It's, it's, it's, it's really hard right now in the real world.
00:18:41.560 There's still a level of entitlement amongst employees where they believe that there's unlimited
00:18:46.980 opportunities outside of the one they currently had.
00:18:49.460 Yeah.
00:18:49.920 And we should go ask the 120,000 tech employees that have been laid off in the last 10 days.
00:18:57.400 If they think that's true anymore.
00:18:58.660 Right.
00:19:00.120 Or Amazon.
00:19:01.120 Yeah. 1.00
00:19:01.600 Fucking FedEx or. 1.00
00:19:03.480 Yeah. 0.99
00:19:04.020 And what people don't realize is that, you know, when the dot-com bubble burst in, in
00:19:09.040 the late nineties, early two thousands, there were 107,000 layoffs.
00:19:13.540 There's been 120,000 layoffs in the last 10 days and it's going to get way worse.
00:19:19.960 Okay.
00:19:20.660 So if people, if people can't recognize that within your organization right now, they're going
00:19:25.920 to learn a really difficult lesson because right now the opportunities that existed a 1.00
00:19:30.400 year ago where everybody's saying, Oh, fuck you. 1.00
00:19:32.840 You know, I don't, you know, I don't really like the way you do things. 1.00
00:19:35.760 I'm going to go do this and this and this.
00:19:37.740 All right.
00:19:39.780 Yeah.
00:19:40.800 Let me, let me ask you this, Andy.
00:19:42.200 What? 1.00
00:19:42.560 Cause I mean, bro, I mean, you know, fucking culture. 0.99
00:19:45.160 What, what would you say is like the, should be the end goal for like solid culture in a, 0.98
00:19:52.160 in a, in a business and a company?
00:19:53.500 Well, I think that's different for the, for whoever, whatever company, I think it's, I
00:19:58.760 think it's always different.
00:20:00.260 You know, um, if you ask me what my personal opinion is, it's see culture is designed to
00:20:07.600 create an authentic experience and an authentic company because people don't buy from brand
00:20:12.980 names anymore.
00:20:13.780 They buy from the name plus the people that represent the name, right?
00:20:19.000 We see this in the stock market right now.
00:20:21.240 What's Disney doing?
00:20:22.340 Thinking.
00:20:22.560 Okay. 1.00
00:20:23.220 What's fucking Facebook doing? 1.00
00:20:24.660 Thinking. 1.00
00:20:25.180 What's fucking everybody doing? 1.00
00:20:26.680 Who's embraced the woke shit. 1.00
00:20:28.060 Thinking. 1.00
00:20:28.600 They're getting their asses beat. 0.99
00:20:30.720 So you, when you ask me what a good culture design would be, it would be one that represents 0.99
00:20:36.540 what you believe this country should actually be about inside your walls.
00:20:40.760 For me, that means freedom.
00:20:43.440 That means freedom of, of thought.
00:20:46.000 That means, uh, the freedom of opinion.
00:20:48.120 That means, uh, the opportunity for growth.
00:20:51.240 That means lifting each other up.
00:20:53.300 That means taking care of each other.
00:20:55.000 It means, uh, you know, basically doing everything at a high level of excellence.
00:21:00.180 Um, which to me, and I could go on and on and on, but basically those are the things that
00:21:04.900 I've always believed this country should be about.
00:21:06.980 So that's how I design my cultures.
00:21:09.820 I, you know, that's why whenever we have a guest that comes in on the show, what the 0.99
00:21:12.980 fucking, every single one of them say, holy shit, dude, when you walk in here, it feels 0.99
00:21:16.940 different. 1.00
00:21:17.400 Just feel it.
00:21:18.100 Yeah. 0.97
00:21:18.280 Well, it feels different because, uh, it is different because we don't fucking play 1.00
00:21:23.340 with this fucking bullshit out there in the real world. 1.00
00:21:26.380 Uh, that, you know, the fucking woke nonsense that all of you motherfuckers know isn't even 1.00
00:21:32.280 true that you're afraid to say anything about because you might get reprimanded or fired. 0.99
00:21:37.240 If you're, if you work for one of those companies, come work for me.
00:21:39.740 Right. 0.99
00:21:40.500 You're gonna fucking love it. 0.98
00:21:41.740 You know what I'm saying? 0.95
00:21:43.120 Like, and that's, that's the correction that's happening right now too.
00:21:46.280 It has to do with that woke culture.
00:21:47.540 Yeah, that's real.
00:21:48.620 People are not buying anymore from companies like that. 1.00
00:21:50.940 People are not going to buy from companies that shove fucking racism, that shove fucking 1.00
00:21:56.620 trans shit, that, that shove, dude, we're tired of having it shoved in our fucking faces. 1.00
00:22:03.040 That doesn't mean we're fucking bigots. 1.00
00:22:04.980 That means we're tired of having it shoved in our faces every motherfucking turn. 0.99
00:22:09.120 And that's not just me as a white dude. 0.99
00:22:12.200 Black people are tired of it. 1.00
00:22:13.860 Fucking gay people are tired of it. 1.00
00:22:15.800 Fucking everybody's tired of it. 1.00
00:22:17.540 The mere fact that our government is so present in our lives that it, that it, that it, that 0.99
00:22:24.060 it, it affects our sports and it affects our fucking bro. 1.00
00:22:29.020 There's no escaping this social bullshit that is being jammed down our fucking throats. 1.00
00:22:34.020 You can't even watch a fucking commercial anymore where there's even a regular family, meaning 1.00
00:22:39.680 a family of all the same race, right? 1.00
00:22:42.540 Like whether it be black or white or fucking Asian, it's always got to be this mixed shit 1.00
00:22:46.760 of like 15 different fucking, you know, bro. 1.00
00:22:49.500 How many families, you know, like that? 1.00
00:22:51.240 None.
00:22:51.900 Me neither.
00:22:52.460 Yeah.
00:22:52.600 None. 0.99
00:22:52.840 Like, bro, they're, they're pushing this shit down our throats so hard that people are 1.00
00:22:59.580 rejecting it. 1.00
00:23:00.320 That doesn't mean they're bigots. 0.99
00:23:02.160 Everybody here in this company and around me, my friends, we believe in fucking leave 1.00
00:23:06.100 me to fuck alone. 1.00
00:23:06.940 Do what you want. 1.00
00:23:07.560 The problem is those people won't leave us alone because they don't believe in that. 0.99
00:23:11.920 Well, they're going to, they're going to fuck around and find out, you know what I'm 1.00
00:23:16.420 saying? 1.00
00:23:17.020 Because dude, the stock prices show the fuck. 1.00
00:23:20.080 You can't lie about the numbers. 1.00
00:23:21.620 I told bro, who said this by the way, who told, who told all of you listening to the show 0.92
00:23:28.380 who told you fucking two and a half years ago that the trend was going to swing towards 0.98
00:23:33.980 pro freedom made in America, pro American job companies who fucking told you that I told 1.00
00:23:42.020 you to get out in front of it and your fucking pussies. 1.00
00:23:45.020 Didn't I did guess what? 1.00
00:23:50.960 So it's whatever, man, keep not listening to me and losing fucking money and your freedoms 1.00
00:23:56.100 and your fucking shit. 1.00
00:23:57.260 Like, dude, it's just like, I'm like, guys, if you would just stand the fuck up and be 1.00
00:24:03.180 patriotic Americans like y'all fucking are behind closed doors, uh, you'd actually grow 0.97
00:24:08.160 and they've got the, the, the society has used all this technology, the media, the bots 0.99
00:24:14.000 to, to make people, uh, political correctness, silent majority, fucking, uh, what else am 0.98
00:24:19.800 I missing? 0.98
00:24:20.180 All kinds of other things to make people literally a freak cancel culture to make people afraid 0.99
00:24:26.420 to fucking love this country. 0.99
00:24:28.500 Yeah. 1.00
00:24:30.180 That's crazy. 0.99
00:24:33.180 What's the easiest way to stand out, bro, to do the opposite of whatever the fuck they 1.00
00:24:39.080 tell you to do. 0.99
00:24:40.320 And we're seeing it, bro.
00:24:41.700 The companies that are kicking ass, the companies that are winning are all the business is transitioning 1.00
00:24:47.340 away from these big giant companies back down to small and medium American owned companies
00:24:53.220 like my companies or like other people's companies that have been, that have been out
00:24:56.920 here in the front.
00:24:57.520 I told you it was a great thing to stand up for people.
00:25:01.500 People hate bullies.
00:25:02.800 They love people to stand up to bullies.
00:25:05.520 Maybe you should start reflecting that in your culture of your company because people
00:25:09.560 will not only love your company, but they'll love to work at your company.
00:25:12.580 You see what I'm saying?
00:25:13.580 Absolutely.
00:25:17.660 Andy, question number two.
00:25:18.820 I feel like you would agree that it's safe to say that there's a direct correlation between
00:25:24.220 higher standards and success and money.
00:25:27.080 And so my question is, how do you ensure that those higher standards don't start to fall when
00:25:33.720 you start seeing the success and money?
00:25:37.600 Well, that's a good question because that's exactly what happens every time.
00:25:40.420 All right.
00:25:41.680 In the beginning, when you have nothing, it's very easy to be aggressive.
00:25:45.640 As you start to get a little more comfortable, you stop being as aggressive.
00:25:49.580 As you get more comfortable into that success, I'm making money. 1.00
00:25:53.660 You stop playing aggressive and you start playing not to lose the shit that you have. 1.00
00:25:57.800 Okay. 1.00
00:25:58.240 And that's a completely different game.
00:25:59.980 If you understand football, this is the difference between running an aggressive defense that you're 0.56
00:26:05.220 fucking getting after it and then running the prevent defense when you're ahead by two 0.94
00:26:09.680 touchdowns. 0.99
00:26:10.360 And what usually happens when people start running the prevent defense when they're
00:26:14.180 ahead by two touchdowns?
00:26:15.420 Yeah.
00:26:15.600 Patriots and Falcons.
00:26:16.760 What was that?
00:26:17.100 Two thousand?
00:26:18.080 Bro, it almost always happens.
00:26:20.720 Yeah.
00:26:20.960 They end up losing the game.
00:26:22.340 Okay.
00:26:22.740 Because if you're not playing to win, you're not going to win. 0.98
00:26:25.540 And if you're playing to fucking not lose, you will get beat by someone who's playing 0.98
00:26:30.260 to win. 0.98
00:26:31.220 And so you have to figure out how to cultivate that same urgency when you are comfortable and
00:26:38.660 you are ahead.
00:26:39.820 This is one of the most common questions that I get personally from other people is how 0.99
00:26:45.020 the fuck do you show up every day the way that you do and go after it the way that you 0.98
00:26:49.500 do when you are where you are? 1.00
00:26:51.480 Yeah.
00:26:51.680 It's very simple.
00:26:52.760 It's a mentality that I talk about and teach about and have taught for many, many years.
00:26:57.660 It's called zero options mentality. 0.99
00:26:59.580 In the beginning, when you're broke, do you have an option whether or not to get the fuck 0.74
00:27:04.140 up and go to battle?
00:27:04.820 No, you have zero option. 0.98
00:27:07.680 Now, when you're on the other end of that and you've got a hundred million dollars fucking 0.94
00:27:11.980 in your bank account, how do you keep that mentality? 0.96
00:27:14.920 Well, you have to manufacture it.
00:27:17.260 You have to remember.
00:27:18.320 And what I do is I remember this.
00:27:21.780 And I think of it, I think two different things to help me with my zero option mentality.
00:27:25.840 I think one, if I don't get up and do what I got to do, it's only a matter of time before
00:27:30.600 I'm actually digging ditches, okay?
00:27:33.080 Real talk. 0.70
00:27:34.160 Before I was fucking who I am today, before I started this company and these other companies 0.99
00:27:39.220 and done all this shit and fucking podcasts and all this fucking shit, I did concrete work, 0.99
00:27:44.740 okay? 1.00
00:27:45.640 And I painted stripes on parking lots.
00:27:47.980 Two of the hardest jobs physically that there are.
00:27:51.540 When you paint stripes on parking lots, you have to push around a striper, which weighs 0.98
00:27:55.320 three to 400 pounds because it's filled with fucking paint across a parking lot. 0.97
00:27:59.260 And you either do this in the middle of the night when there's no cars around so you can 0.98
00:28:03.300 line out the lot and do it, or you do it in the middle of the day, which is even worse 0.96
00:28:07.720 because it's a hundred fucking degrees outside and you're getting killed on the middle of 0.99
00:28:11.740 fucking blacktop. 1.00
00:28:12.680 It sucks, okay? 1.00
00:28:15.260 The other thing that sucks is carrying concrete forms in and out of a fucking hole all fucking 1.00
00:28:20.880 day, which is what I did, okay? 0.99
00:28:23.120 So what I do is I convince myself that if I don't show up and give everything I got, then
00:28:26.540 I'm going to go back to that.
00:28:27.420 And guess what?
00:28:27.880 I don't want to do that.
00:28:30.000 So I cultivate a mentality in my own being that if I don't do these things, I'm going
00:28:37.720 to suffer.
00:28:38.380 And then the other thing that I do is I remember that if I don't get up and do my work and
00:28:45.000 do my job and do the best I can, that you guys, the people in this room and the people
00:28:50.240 out there and all these people that depend on their careers and the number of projects
00:28:55.140 that we have going on, they're going to suffer.
00:28:57.920 So if you think about it like that, if you're a true leader that actually serves the people
00:29:03.700 that work for you, you shouldn't have a problem of getting lazy.
00:29:07.620 It's only when you're thinking about yourself.
00:29:09.540 It's only when you're thinking about how well off you are that you can allow yourself to
00:29:14.900 get lazy.
00:29:15.760 So if you can't figure out how to care about these other people, which should be enough 1.00
00:29:23.360 for you to get the fuck out of bed and go kick ass, then you should at least remember 0.99
00:29:27.440 that what you will be doing in a short amount of time, if you don't, you'll be back to doing 0.99
00:29:32.520 whatever it was you did before you started the project that you're on now. 0.99
00:29:36.500 And that's real shit. 0.99
00:29:38.120 You know, I've seen it happen a hundred times or more. 1.00
00:29:42.080 You guys who are out there, how many people do you know that got something going, got it
00:29:48.300 going pretty good for a little bit.
00:29:49.740 And then all of a sudden you hear from a while and you say, Steve, what's happening, bro?
00:29:53.160 Oh man, you know, lost my business.
00:29:55.940 You know, things went south, blah, blah, blah. 1.00
00:29:57.960 Well, bro, I just saw you at the fucking, I just saw you, you were on a fucking yacht 1.00
00:30:02.780 out in the fucking middle. 1.00
00:30:04.020 You see what I'm saying? 1.00
00:30:05.140 Like, this is how that happens.
00:30:06.980 It happens very fast too.
00:30:09.060 So you have to be able to cultivate a zero option mentality, even when you are comfortable
00:30:15.220 financially, because that's, what's going to keep you from never being uncomfortable
00:30:18.980 financially again.
00:30:20.940 Love it.
00:30:21.700 Yep.
00:30:23.740 Andy, our third and final question, question number three.
00:30:26.360 Andy, my sister and I run a small boutique construction interior design company.
00:30:32.080 Usually I, the man, handle the conversations with our contractors and crews, but it's hard
00:30:37.660 to communicate the intricacies that my sisters once communicated.
00:30:42.200 I tell her to just do it and she declines because she fears lack of respect for men.
00:30:46.980 Should I be working on my communication with her or should she be working on her fears with
00:30:51.420 them?
00:30:53.060 You know, I get this question a lot from women. 0.98
00:30:55.160 I was about to, we just, yeah, we just had, yeah.
00:30:57.220 Like I just spoke at Emily's women in business event and I had this question, I think three
00:31:02.220 times.
00:31:02.780 Is this a good, is this a good, like, is that a good like sign that maybe the men in society
00:31:07.720 is starting to, no, I don't know.
00:31:09.480 No.
00:31:10.120 I mean, first of all, let's dispel the myth that there's a man's world.
00:31:13.240 Cause that's what I keep hearing.
00:31:14.700 I'm going to lead in a man's world. 1.00
00:31:16.520 Motherfucker. 1.00
00:31:16.960 It ain't a man's world. 1.00
00:31:17.940 The fuck you talking about? 1.00
00:31:19.260 That was 19 fucking 55. 1.00
00:31:21.260 It was a man's fucking world. 1.00
00:31:22.320 Now men can't do shit. 1.00
00:31:24.780 Okay. 1.00
00:31:25.560 Men are fucking pieces of shit. 1.00
00:31:27.480 No good men, men that work hard their whole lives, who make hundreds of thousands of dollars 1.00
00:31:32.760 a year, who are great fucking dads to their kids who do all these things are still shit 1.00
00:31:37.660 on by their fucking wives. 1.00
00:31:38.920 Cause it's not enough. 1.00
00:31:41.140 All right.
00:31:41.960 So let's be real.
00:31:43.180 Women get opportunities bigger than men.
00:31:45.680 They get opportunities faster than men. 1.00
00:31:47.740 Men are the fucking scum of society and they have been for the last fucking 10 years. 1.00
00:31:52.220 So don't come at me with this is a man's fucking world. 1.00
00:31:54.800 It's 10 times harder for a fucking man to do fucking anything, get any fucking respect 1.00
00:32:00.080 right now. 1.00
00:32:00.940 And that's a big fucking problem. 0.98
00:32:02.840 Thanks. 1.00
00:32:03.460 It's fucking facts. 0.99
00:32:04.620 Thanks. 0.99
00:32:05.020 Yeah.
00:32:05.620 Man, quality, man want quality women, quality women want quality men. 0.98
00:32:10.740 The problem on both sides of the equation is men have lowered their standards because 1.00
00:32:16.040 they'd rather just fucking not deal with bullshit from women. 1.00
00:32:19.440 They'd rather fucking watch Netflix. 1.00
00:32:21.420 They'd rather make a couple bucks and jerk off to porn and not deal with y'all shit. 1.00
00:32:26.120 Okay. 1.00
00:32:26.320 That's the first fucking thing. 1.00
00:32:27.780 Then you got women who are so desperate for fucking men's attention. 1.00
00:32:32.200 The good men that they think that being naked all over the fucking internet and doing all 1.00
00:32:36.940 this fucking bullshit somehow attracts and then they're mad when they can't get a fucking 1.00
00:32:41.400 quality man. 1.00
00:32:42.300 When it don't work.
00:32:42.940 Yeah.
00:32:44.800 Well, we got a lot of work to do.
00:32:46.160 Yeah.
00:32:46.560 That's a lot.
00:32:47.080 We really do.
00:32:47.740 Yeah. 0.99
00:32:48.020 Like I could talk about this for a long fucking time. 0.99
00:32:50.560 Okay. 1.00
00:32:51.740 Both men and women right now that the quality of the average men and women is fucking trash. 0.99
00:32:56.980 It's both sides. 1.00
00:32:58.820 You men need to nut the fuck up, dude, and go out and get in fucking shape, get your fucking 0.99
00:33:04.180 money together and start fucking figuring out how to fucking win and you won't have the 1.00
00:33:08.100 problems you have with women. 1.00
00:33:09.900 And if women, you stop beating the shit out of every fucking dude that isn't fucking Prince 1.00
00:33:15.200 Charming. 1.00
00:33:16.540 Okay. 1.00
00:33:17.060 And you stop fucking selling your shit all over the fucking world, trying to pretend like 1.00
00:33:21.720 it's fucking quality work. 1.00
00:33:24.280 Don't complain when those fucking men will not fucking marry you. 1.00
00:33:27.800 Don't complain because they won't. 1.00
00:33:30.920 They won't. 1.00
00:33:34.180 Raise your fucking standards. 1.00
00:33:35.780 It's not a fucking man's world. 1.00
00:33:37.500 It's a fucked up world. 1.00
00:33:39.240 And to answer the question, if you are a strong woman leader, you will have no problem getting 1.00
00:33:45.040 respect from men.
00:33:46.380 Zero. 1.00
00:33:47.560 That's a fucking fake self-imposed limitation that women have. 1.00
00:33:53.020 You can't lead men. 1.00
00:33:54.040 We have made enough progress in this fucking world where there are plenty of strong women 1.00
00:33:58.740 leaders that completely run shit all over the place. 1.00
00:34:02.740 That's a mental hang up that you tell yourself because you think we're living in 19 fucking 1.00
00:34:07.600 50 men. 0.97
00:34:09.540 The reason that men aren't assertive, the reason that men don't ask you on dates, the 1.00
00:34:14.160 reason that men don't do the shit you want to do is because your motherfuckers make fun 1.00
00:34:18.140 of them about every fucking time they try. 1.00
00:34:19.640 How many times do we see on Instagram a fucking girl taking a screenshot of something some 1.00
00:34:26.160 dude said to her and fucking posting her story, making fun of them? 1.00
00:34:30.760 And I'm not talking about like, hey, baby, let me see your butt. 1.00
00:34:33.960 Right. 0.89
00:34:34.260 I'm talking about like, you know, a dude like a dude genuinely like trying to get to know 1.00
00:34:38.820 you and you fucking shit on. 1.00
00:34:40.240 This should be a whole fucking episode. 1.00
00:34:44.280 We talk about this because it's fucking bullshit and I get tired of hearing it. 1.00
00:34:48.960 Oh, there's no good men. 1.00
00:34:50.420 Well, yeah, because you're out entertaining every other fucking man on the planet. 0.99
00:34:54.660 You want attention forever. 0.99
00:34:56.380 You want attention from every man on the internet over the attention that you get from the man 1.00
00:35:00.960 at your fucking home. 1.00
00:35:01.760 You ain't going to have a good man like that. 1.00
00:35:07.140 A good man will get up and walk the fuck out over that shit. 1.00
00:35:11.220 Oh, you don't appreciate my body, my block. 1.00
00:35:13.980 I don't give a fuck that you can fucking tell yourself whatever the fuck you want. 1.00
00:35:16.940 I'm telling you the truth. 1.00
00:35:20.900 You can you can.
00:35:21.840 This is called real AF.
00:35:22.920 This ain't called ideal AF or maybe AF or the way it should be AF.
00:35:26.800 I hope AF.
00:35:27.500 Yeah, it's called what it is AF.
00:35:29.400 And what it is is this. 1.00
00:35:30.620 A quality man who makes quality money, who has his shit together, does not want his fucking 1.00
00:35:36.360 woman being viewed by every other motherfucking man. 1.00
00:35:39.820 That is fucking fact. 1.00
00:35:41.100 You ask any fucking one of them, they'll tell you. 1.00
00:35:44.400 It's a fact. 1.00
00:35:45.260 Yeah. 0.98
00:35:46.000 So, oh, well, I'm making fucking blah, blah, blah on OnlyFans. 0.98
00:35:49.960 Yeah, cool. 0.99
00:35:51.020 I don't care.
00:35:51.820 Right. 1.00
00:35:52.600 A quality man don't care because he's making his own shit. 0.99
00:35:57.720 That's what you got to do to pay your bills. 0.99
00:35:59.340 I get it. 0.99
00:35:59.920 But don't fucking say that men are the problem. 1.00
00:36:02.860 They're not the fucking problem. 1.00
00:36:04.700 This culture that fucking castrates men in every possible fucking fashion is the fucking 1.00
00:36:10.980 problem. 1.00
00:36:11.980 Oh, Matt, I'm toxically masculine because I speak the truth and I stand for what's right 1.00
00:36:18.120 and I stand up to motherfucking bullies and I punch them in the fucking face and I make 1.00
00:36:23.780 a lot of fucking money. 1.00
00:36:24.800 super toxic. 1.00
00:36:27.220 Yeah. 0.99
00:36:28.620 Until they fucking need it. 0.99
00:36:29.640 Sounds terrible. 0.99
00:36:30.420 Yeah.
00:36:31.020 Yeah.
00:36:31.620 Until they need someone to stand up for them.
00:36:33.440 Exactly.
00:36:34.620 Exactly. 0.96
00:36:35.100 I'm fucking tired of it, dude. 0.96
00:36:36.480 That's real. 0.98
00:36:37.320 That's real.
00:36:37.780 So, I mean, do you believe that she should just focus on increasing her leadership skills
00:36:42.320 then?
00:36:42.780 Because it doesn't really sound like there's this like gender complex thing. 0.99
00:36:46.220 It sounds like you need to just be a fucking leader and forget if you are a man or a woman 0.99
00:36:53.300 and understand that we all have equality in the fucking job place and respect. 0.99
00:36:58.420 And if you say something to a man and he doesn't do the direct, he doesn't follow the directions 0.98
00:37:04.720 that you follow, guess what you get to do when you're a fucking owner of the company? 0.98
00:37:09.960 What do you get to do? 0.99
00:37:12.160 You're fired.
00:37:13.060 That's right. 0.99
00:37:15.660 Like, I don't understand how hard this is to fucking grasp. 0.98
00:37:18.800 This person works for you, man or woman. 1.00
00:37:24.580 They don't do what the fuck you say, man or woman. 1.00
00:37:28.080 They don't do it the way you like it, man or woman. 0.99
00:37:32.000 What do you have the option to do?
00:37:35.880 It's very simple.
00:37:37.300 I don't understand how to make this any more simple.
00:37:40.620 Stop letting your warped view of how the world is affect your ability to lead whoever 0.96
00:37:46.820 the fuck it is that you need to lead because at the end of the day, the right people, man 0.97
00:37:51.400 or woman, are going to execute because they want to do a great job. 1.00
00:37:57.120 People who want to do a great job, regardless if they have a penis or if they have a vagina, 1.00
00:38:02.300 are valuable. 0.99
00:38:04.040 Okay? 0.99
00:38:04.300 So stop looking at it as these fucking hangups of men, women, this, that. 1.00
00:38:08.980 You guys overcomplicate the whole fucking thing. 1.00
00:38:11.720 It's really simple. 1.00
00:38:12.820 What's likely happening here and what likely happens in this scenario every motherfucking 0.97
00:38:17.900 time is that this woman has told herself a story about leading that becomes a self-fulfilling 0.97
00:38:25.540 prophecy. 0.99
00:38:26.420 You don't think the motherfuckers will follow you so you don't assert yourself in a leadership 1.00
00:38:30.740 role. 1.00
00:38:31.540 And because you don't assert yourself in a strong leadership role, they don't follow
00:38:36.140 you.
00:38:36.480 Then they're misogynist.
00:38:38.180 Right.
00:38:38.280 Then it's them. 1.00
00:38:40.860 That's what happens all every fucking time. 0.99
00:38:44.720 I'm tired of hearing it. 1.00
00:38:47.340 Like fucking lead or don't lead. 1.00
00:38:49.260 If you don't have that ability to understand what I just said, you don't belong to fucking 1.00
00:38:53.100 business. 1.00
00:38:54.480 It's real shit. 1.00
00:38:56.460 People who cater to these things, people who can't get over these things, business is going 0.99
00:39:03.420 to become very, very, very difficult for a period of time moving forward.
00:39:09.460 Understand that if you don't muster up the courage to lead your team the way that you
00:39:13.560 need to lead it, whether you're a man or a woman and whether they're men or women, you're
00:39:18.060 going to lose.
00:39:19.400 And it should come down to just that. 0.99
00:39:22.140 But I don't want to hear about this man's world shit anymore. 0.99
00:39:24.900 Don't fucking come with me with that because it ain't that way. 0.99
00:39:27.340 It just ain't. 0.96
00:39:29.000 Well, guys, Andy, that's three.
00:39:31.500 Go pay the fee.
00:39:32.120 No, subscribe to my feet pics.
00:39:35.920 I'm going to start my only calves.
00:39:37.340 You can charge a lot more than five bucks, bro.
00:39:39.060 Yeah. 1.00
00:39:40.140 Fuck. 1.00
00:39:41.920 Dude, it's just like I get so tired of hearing it. 1.00
00:39:45.180 Like, bro, I see on the internet like people talking about narcissists and fucking victimhood 1.00
00:39:50.940 and fucking no good men and no good women. 1.00
00:39:54.000 No, y'all suck. 1.00
00:39:56.060 Y'all suck. 1.00
00:39:57.680 That's why there ain't no good nothing out there because you've all accept a lower standard 1.00
00:40:01.800 from everybody else as a passable standard.
00:40:05.020 You are what you accept.
00:40:05.660 You women who complain about dudes not taking you on a date are not holding the line and 1.00
00:40:11.800 forcing dudes to actually come to that to take you out.
00:40:16.540 You say, oh, everybody wants to Netflix and chill.
00:40:19.140 Yeah, that's because you're Netflix and chilling.
00:40:21.640 You're creating the acceptable standard.
00:40:26.600 It makes sense to me.
00:40:28.340 No, it makes sense to everybody. 0.98
00:40:31.460 Like dudes who saying, oh, there's no good women while they're fucking simping out for 0.98
00:40:37.200 these women who offer nothing except their bodies. 1.00
00:40:39.620 And women have learned this behavior that that's all they have to offer to have a life. 1.00
00:40:50.320 So when you have a learned behavior on one side that is enforced by the other side, you
00:40:55.260 can't be mad at the way it turns out.
00:40:57.580 It's fucking incredibly frustrating for me to watch, dude, because one of the biggest 0.97
00:41:03.340 things that I get from you guys is you either get the men saying there's no good women or 0.98
00:41:08.200 I got the women saying there's no good men.
00:41:10.860 Well, all of y'all should look in the mirror.
00:41:13.920 What do you bring to the table?
00:41:16.360 Men, what do you bring to the table?
00:41:18.400 Do you bring a great career to the table? 1.00
00:41:20.440 Are you a fucking fat as fuck? 1.00
00:41:22.040 Are you actually in shape? 1.00
00:41:23.700 Are you intelligent? 1.00
00:41:25.060 Are you watching fucking cartoons? 1.00
00:41:26.780 Are you playing call of duty all fucking day? 1.00
00:41:29.680 What are you doing? 0.99
00:41:31.020 Are you high value yourself?
00:41:32.760 And if you're not high value, what makes you think that you deserve high value in return?
00:41:37.900 And that goes for the women exactly the same. 1.00
00:41:40.580 Your body and your fucking big titties and your fat ass ain't enough to attract a quality 1.00
00:41:46.840 man. 1.00
00:41:48.440 It ain't enough. 0.99
00:41:49.860 It might be enough for a man that doesn't give a fuck about you. 0.99
00:41:53.360 A quick hit. 0.99
00:41:54.700 Yeah.
00:41:54.940 Like, and that's, that's what gets them right.
00:41:57.880 They get attention from these dudes that get them believing that that's what they got
00:42:02.960 to do.
00:42:03.400 And it's sad, bro. 0.99
00:42:04.600 It's fucking sad, bro. 1.00
00:42:06.240 It's a fucked up cycle. 1.00
00:42:07.400 It is. 0.99
00:42:08.020 That's exactly what it is, dude. 0.99
00:42:09.360 It's a fucked up cycle. 1.00
00:42:10.720 Women, you got to stop fucking losers and men. 1.00
00:42:14.520 You need to get fucking better. 1.00
00:42:16.180 Real talk. 0.99
00:42:17.140 Yeah.
00:42:17.780 Those goes.
00:42:18.540 That'll correct something.
00:42:19.700 That'll correct. 1.00
00:42:20.260 Stop fucking with. 1.00
00:42:20.940 Ultimately, it comes from women because women, women are the ones most men never get to 1.00
00:42:26.460 the level where they're the ones that choose who they fuck. 1.00
00:42:28.900 Very, very few men get to that level. 0.94
00:42:31.640 Okay.
00:42:33.420 It's true.
00:42:34.280 Yeah.
00:42:34.500 Very few men, very few men on this planet walk around with unlimited options of who they 0.99
00:42:38.820 fuck. 1.00
00:42:39.200 You have to be, you have to have all your shit in line. 1.00
00:42:41.800 Okay. 0.99
00:42:42.520 You got to look right.
00:42:43.740 You got to earn right. 0.99
00:42:44.900 You got to fucking talk right. 1.00
00:42:46.440 You got to be the fucking man. 1.00
00:42:47.960 There's one out of every fucking 10,000 men are like that. 1.00
00:42:50.780 You know, okay. 0.99
00:42:52.760 Women, on the other hand, have controlled that since they were, they hit puberty since 1.00
00:42:57.780 women have been 13 years old and they started to get some boobies. 1.00
00:43:00.860 They have had every dude they've ever known trying to fuck them. 1.00
00:43:04.080 Okay. 0.99
00:43:05.320 And they've, they've grown up with that power. 0.99
00:43:08.140 You women need to start restricting that and stop fucking dudes because you think they're 1.00
00:43:14.600 going to fucking, you know, like you can't find another dude, you know, Oh, I can't find 1.00
00:43:20.080 any good men. 1.00
00:43:20.680 So, you know, I'll deal with this guy, but I know he's a fucking piece of shit, but I'll 1.00
00:43:24.220 still deal with them. 1.00
00:43:26.840 Do you see what I'm saying? 1.00
00:43:28.060 Fucked up. 0.99
00:43:28.500 Yeah. 1.00
00:43:28.700 If women would raise their standards, men would raise their standards. 1.00
00:43:32.440 They would have no choice.
00:43:33.700 There you go. 1.00
00:43:35.320 And you men out there that, that have trouble meeting women, go out and get yourself a fucking 0.99
00:43:40.080 nice earning career. 1.00
00:43:41.200 Go out and get your fat ass in shape. 1.00
00:43:43.200 Go out and get your life together and then see what kind of problems you have with women. 1.00
00:43:47.260 Cause you won't have any. 0.99
00:43:51.040 I'm fucking tired of seeing it, dude. 0.92
00:43:53.500 I love it. 0.71
00:43:54.940 Yeah.
00:43:55.340 Well, I know a lot of people won't. 0.98
00:43:57.560 I don't really fucking care. 0.94
00:43:59.560 But guys, Andy, that is three. 0.97
00:44:01.720 So go pay the fee.
00:44:02.440 Yep.
00:44:03.520 Went from sleeping on the floor.
00:44:05.460 Now my jewelry box froze. 1.00
00:44:07.180 Fuck a bowl. 1.00
00:44:07.980 Fuck a stove. 1.00
00:44:08.840 Counted millions in the cold. 1.00
00:44:10.520 Bad bitch. 1.00
00:44:11.340 Booty swole. 1.00
00:44:12.180 Got her on bankroll.
00:44:13.820 Can't fold.
00:44:14.700 That's a no.
00:44:15.500 Headshot.
00:44:16.340 Case closed.
00:44:17.000 Close.
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