REAL AF with Andy Frisella - November 28, 2022


424. Q&AF： Employee To Employer, The Role Of Confidence & The Importance Of Faith

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confidence
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Andy Frisella
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Andy Frisilla
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In this episode of Ask Andys Daddy, Andrey Frisella is joined by his brown handsome chocolate co-host, Dj, and they talk about the holidays and what it's like being a kid on the holidays.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy frisella and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies 0.97
00:00:21.300 the fakeness and delusions modern society welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we have q and
00:00:27.380 af that's where you submit the q's and i give you the afs as always you could submit your questions 0.68
00:00:33.340 to guys email those questions into ask andy daddy for seller.com and i'll answer them right here on
00:00:38.480 the show this is how we do it it could be about anything i specialize in the personal development
00:00:43.020 area but if you want to ask other stuff i'm open to that too this is not the normal podcast okay we
00:00:49.220 have four different shows within the show other times when you tune in you will get cti that is
00:00:55.260 cruise the internet that's where we talk about what's going on in the world we throw some headlines 0.99
00:00:59.360 up on the screen we talk about how full of shit these people are and then we talk about um how 1.00
00:01:04.940 dumb the people are to actually believe them and then we actually talk about how we can all be a 1.00
00:01:09.180 solution to the big problems that these fucking idiots create other times uh we have real talk 1.00
00:01:14.380 that's five to 20 minutes of real talk all right it is what it what it sounds like and then other times 1.00
00:01:19.740 we have full length and full length is similar to an interview style format uh i bring on my
00:01:24.920 successful interesting uh kick-ass friends and we talk about how you could be successful interesting
00:01:30.500 and kick-ass as well there is a fee for the show and the fee is not monetary the fee is very simple
00:01:36.200 we ask that you share the show unlike most podcasts i don't do this to make money i do this to help people 0.74
00:01:42.080 and get the fucking message out i have never taken an advertising dollar for my work here on this show 0.96
00:01:47.460 it costs me money to do this show okay for the traffic that we get on the show i can be making 1.00
00:01:52.820 eight figures a year to do this show and i'm sometimes starting to think i'm a fucking idiot 0.96
00:01:58.640 for not doing that however the reason i don't do it is because i don't want to have to answer to any of 0.94
00:02:04.160 these people and i don't want you guys to believe that i'm being influenced by any of these people
00:02:08.880 what i say on this show are my thoughts and they are real and i stand behind them and i am willing to
00:02:15.400 argue with anyone about where i stand on these issues and i'm also happy to admit i'm wrong
00:02:19.780 sometimes but in exchange for that level of authenticity i ask very simply that you share
00:02:26.640 the show and help us grow it okay that's it that's the fee for the show so when you hear us talk about
00:02:31.100 the fee that's what i'm talking about as always i'm joined by my brown handsome chocolate co-host dj
00:02:40.380 what's up dude what's going on you're not really chocolate though you're like
00:02:44.380 you're like milk chocolate yeah the summer coat's coming off yeah yeah yeah me too man yeah well you
00:02:49.240 got a little secret i'm extra yeah i do
00:02:51.220 why would you tell it my secret bro actually don't don't
00:02:58.760 we should we'll post oh yeah you can't let the secret out
00:03:01.980 you guys cannot know my secret everybody's credit score i'm feeling extra vanilla though
00:03:06.320 i am that's why we gotta go to a hot place bro yeah bro because i can keep my soul all year
00:03:13.040 all year round you know what i'm saying winter time i get a little nerdier i lose my ability to 0.99
00:03:18.180 fucking dance and credit score goes up like it's yeah all kinds of shit man 0.99
00:03:21.720 so what's up dude how was your thanksgiving thanksgiving was good man it was good you know 1.00
00:03:28.260 i did the uh played musical family right like musical chairs bounce around gotta go all over 0.96
00:03:33.680 the fucking city but it was cool um you know stuck to my shit got my shit done so that was always good 0.98
00:03:40.280 uh it's always a fun conversation having that having those conversations with family because 0.99
00:03:44.840 like there's some family don't don't really know what's going on it's like you're not eating you
00:03:48.940 know like what are you doing i'm like no i'm i'm sticking to my shit but thanksgiving you could 0.95
00:03:52.520 actually eat pretty decent yeah it's just about exercising some discipline yeah dude you get 0.96
00:03:58.900 yourself some turkey get yourself some salad stay away from the zoo zoos and wham wham yeah bro that's 0.97
00:04:03.280 it man the good shit but yeah no it was cool man what about you what'd you do it was good we went 0.99
00:04:10.720 out to uh we went out to sales and uh we went out on out to his farm and we did thanksgiving out there 0.98
00:04:16.820 it's pretty cool um you know it's weird because you know most people don't understand you know
00:04:22.640 our whole family even though we're a divorced family my mom and dad are divorced everybody
00:04:27.280 still gets together on the holidays and acts like adults or attempts to act like adults and uh
00:04:33.420 but no it was cool man he just got his house redone it's uh it's beautiful i think it's one
00:04:37.980 of the coolest houses i've ever been to in my life uh bro you gotta see it it's fun i haven't had a 0.98
00:04:42.580 chance to get out there yet i see the story it looks fucking awesome bro it's it's like a fucking 0.98
00:04:47.700 crate and barrel fucking catalog like but like i don't know like you you're a restoration like 0.99
00:04:54.160 dude it's just it's fucking perfection like it's fucking perfection yeah perfect size perfect flow 0.99
00:05:00.380 you know when you're you know when you're earlier in the journey of trying to succeed you always think 0.99
00:05:08.000 like big house or a big giant house you have all these visions yeah but like what you learn is like
00:05:12.840 the big house is is not that cool if you don't come from that like i never grew up in a big house
00:05:17.460 he never grew up in a big house so like when i got my first quote unquote big house which is the house
00:05:22.240 i had before the one i have now um which was actually bigger than the one i have now pretty 0.97
00:05:26.700 fucking sweet yeah uh bro it was like living in a fucking walmart like it it was it sucked 0.99
00:05:32.480 you feel right yeah yeah like the first two months i'm like i want to move back to my regular house 0.99
00:05:36.480 and uh and then you get used to it but it was still too big and i i love my house now mainly because
00:05:42.480 of the the historical relevance of the property um and it's beautiful but like bro there's a lot to
00:05:48.160 be said for like just a really normal size home that's done properly like and that's what he's 0.98
00:05:53.900 got out there it's fucking it's really cool that's awesome man yeah well it looks fucking sick 0.92
00:05:57.760 yeah so maybe we could throw a s'mores party or something yeah yeah yeah that's what i was thinking 0.99
00:06:02.200 the whole time man i couldn't wait for the first s'mores party oh shit yeah so what's up we got 0.75
00:06:09.560 something i got some good ones man all right good i got some good ones man let's make some people 0.94
00:06:12.680 better today all right let's do that uh andy question number one uh andy i've been welding
00:06:17.720 for almost 30 years okay every place i have worked i have excelled and i've been one of the best welders
00:06:24.520 there i see the kind of people that uh own some of these businesses and i see the kind of work that
00:06:30.640 they let their other employees put out and although i make decent money for a welder i want to make
00:06:35.780 more uh and i want to uh eventually have my own business my question is am i wrong in assuming that
00:06:42.420 if i am consistently at the top of what i do and i have good values and good intentions
00:06:47.000 uh that i could also have that same in business uh as far as success and top quality and all of that
00:06:54.460 stuff i have the welding skills and i also feel i could provide better service than most places i
00:06:59.800 have work but what am i missing well look man are you out of line in your thinking no you you could be
00:07:08.560 a great business operator no question do you have the skills now to do that absolutely not and that's
00:07:14.380 a mistake most people think most people think that because they have sales skills or they've got
00:07:18.660 technical skill of whatever trade they're in that they could go run a business but what you don't
00:07:22.880 understand is that running the business is its own skill set just like your welding is a skill set
00:07:28.580 okay so like just all the time that you put into becoming this amazing welder that makes you know 0.99
00:07:35.540 perfect wells and you know you brag about on the internet look at this weld and shit i see what you 0.92
00:07:39.620 guys do right that same skill level is required to run a successful business and you probably took 0.98
00:07:47.140 years and years and years to develop that skill set and to think just because you understand how to do
00:07:52.780 that skill that you're automatically qualified to do this other skill that's actually what gets a lot of
00:07:57.660 people in trouble in business you see this a lot with lawyers you see this a lot with doctors you
00:08:04.060 see this a lot with all architects professional people uh this is also why doctors are the most 0.99
00:08:10.060 annoying fucking humans on the fucking planet okay they think because they went to school for 12 years 0.99
00:08:14.620 that they know more than you about fucking everything and this is also why many of them are 1.00
00:08:19.700 fucking broke okay because they don't understand that running the business is its own thing so i'm not 0.98
00:08:27.180 saying you can't do that you absolutely can do that but you have to have the perspective of 0.99
00:08:32.880 understanding that you don't have any of those skills yet and you're going to have to learn them
00:08:36.960 so if this is something that you truly want to do you are going to have to invest in learning that
00:08:43.200 skill set and the the you know honestly dude um there's so many resources out there to learn those
00:08:50.300 things now for that are relatively uh inexpensive or even free uh that there's no excuse for you not
00:08:56.960 to start learning those skills now and i wouldn't go jump into uh a new business without having any
00:09:03.760 understanding of the skill set required because dude there's all kinds of things you're going to
00:09:07.060 have to fucking understand you're going to have to understand how to uh get a location you're going 0.92
00:09:12.220 to understand how to negotiate a lease you're going to have to understand how to market you're going to 0.98
00:09:16.000 have to understand how to uh do the books you're going to have to understand how to manage people 0.89
00:09:20.660 none of those things will require what the fuck you do right now okay and those are all very difficult 0.98
00:09:25.740 fucking things especially the managing people part that you know then you're talking about getting 0.99
00:09:29.920 your name like dude it's a whole different animal yeah it's a fucking completely different thing and a 0.99
00:09:34.560 lot of people think because they're good at this that they can run the whole show and 1.00
00:09:38.940 motherfucker you guys have no fucking idea what it takes okay i struggle with it and i'm 24 years into 1.00
00:09:45.180 it it's hard as fuck now i'm not trying to scare you but i am trying to scare you enough that you 1.00
00:09:51.540 will take seriously what i'm saying because if you don't go invest in learning the skills of how to 0.99
00:09:55.860 operate a business you'll get fucking smashed your skill set alone is not good enough to operate a 0.95
00:10:02.820 successful operation so no uh go ahead no you also say too because like you know we talk about this 0.97
00:10:08.980 like even in the the educational like basis people go to these schools and they get this business
00:10:13.800 degree right like there's theory and then there's actual application right so like what what would
00:10:18.500 you say is like the i guess more responsible thing to do when it comes to getting a little bit of both
00:10:23.620 best of both worlds right well yeah that there's also that so i'm glad you asked that because there's 0.95
00:10:28.280 also a flip side to what i just said you can't just go study all the shit and never go right like 0.82
00:10:34.040 you're gonna have to jump in so you have what i would recommend is getting a basic understanding 0.98
00:10:38.280 really humbling yourself and saying okay i don't know any of this shit and the fact that you asked 0.93
00:10:43.520 the question that way you did shows that you're already humble enough to look at that so get yourself 0.98
00:10:49.020 uh in proximity with some people who are running companies um start to learn from them get some
00:10:55.280 ideas on how this would apply to your welding business and when you feel like you have a pretty
00:10:59.360 good understanding now i'm not saying you got to be an expert but you just got to understand what 0.97
00:11:04.640 what's all involved then jump in and you're gonna learn most of the shit that you're you're going 0.78
00:11:09.060 to need uh as you go because yes 100 so like definitely i'm glad you asked that because i don't want 0.91
00:11:15.860 to scare people like dude you know when i jumped into my business i i didn't i knew remember i had
00:11:22.940 failed eight businesses before i started supplement super stores my first successful business so like
00:11:27.940 there there's a you're going to learn most of the things on the job but you also want to have
00:11:33.200 a basic understanding for sure yeah 100 man uh and the question number two this actually kind of
00:11:39.440 rolls right into uh right off of that first question though but but how important of a role
00:11:44.480 is confidence uh in becoming successful and then why does it get confused with arrogance uh far too
00:11:50.480 often well it gets confused with arrogance because most people have zero confidence damn yeah most 0.97
00:11:56.520 people have zero fucking confidence so they see anybody with confidence and they say that 0.99
00:12:00.660 motherfucker's arrogant he's full of himself he's this he's that he's this and let's be real dude 1.00
00:12:04.980 none of those people are fucking winning not not a single fucking one and every single one of them 1.00
00:12:09.620 lives in fear and every single one of them lives with zero confidence and thinking they're fucking 1.00
00:12:13.160 shit they know they're a fucking fraud because they are a fucking fraud it's real easy to sit on the 1.00
00:12:17.840 sidelines and criticize people who aren't in the game right and you should pay no mind to anybody 1.00
00:12:22.700 who isn't in the game when they're criticizing you because that's just the nature of people that don't play
00:12:27.420 you think of it like a football stadium there's 22 fucking players on the field there's a hundred 0.94
00:12:31.980 thousand in the stands it's the same in life it's the same in business there's 22 people out of 0.99
00:12:36.660 everyone 100 000 that have real confidence and anybody who fucking looks at them from the outside 0.83
00:12:41.260 is going to criticize them and see them as arrogant because they have nothing so you know you have to 0.98
00:12:47.740 understand that this is just the way it is like these people on the internet who just fucking decide to 0.97
00:12:52.260 pick on people all the time and pick them apart and fucking point it in this and that look dude 0.95
00:12:57.380 they're losing like they are losing they're not they're not as good as you they're they don't 1.00
00:13:03.780 have any confidence they feel like shit they're frustrated they're angry they're scared little 1.00
00:13:07.960 fucking children and that's the reality and they can huff and puff and be as loud as they want this 1.00
00:13:13.440 is why cancel culture is such a popular thing because it gives loser motherfuckers power over people 1.00
00:13:18.280 who are actually doing shit yeah right perceive power right right and and dude this is this is the 0.98
00:13:23.740 game so the reason most people look at people who have any confidence at all and say oh that guy's 0.99
00:13:28.460 fucking full of himself is because they have fucking nothing and they know they're nothing 0.96
00:13:33.100 and that's a really sad existence if you really think about it so i would pay those people no mind 1.00
00:13:38.000 i wouldn't even worry about what they think the minute you start worrying about what the fuck they 0.93
00:13:41.620 think you're going to hesitate you're going to adjust your game you're going to start doing things 0.96
00:13:45.860 that are out of the line of what you would want to do because you're afraid of what some person
00:13:49.860 might say that you'll never fucking meet in real life right and if you did meet them you'd look at 1.00
00:13:54.000 them like the motherfucker you see in line in front of you at the gas station getting coffee buying 15 1.00
00:13:58.200 lottery tickets and you're like how the fuck does this person even live like how the fuck did this 1.00
00:14:03.520 person get out of bed today and get dressed and like operate like when was the last time they took 0.99
00:14:08.480 a fucking shower those are the people that contribute to cancel culture and criticism and calling people 0.99
00:14:14.280 arrogant and if you really think of it like that and you like see these people for what the fuck 0.99
00:14:18.920 they are because in real life if that person that you're talking about uh or that we're talking 1.00
00:14:23.620 about here was getting coffee in front of you and turned around and said hey you're fucking full of 0.98
00:14:28.260 yourself you laugh in their fucking face yeah right thanks so that's that's how i look at it so that's 0.99
00:14:33.860 how you have to look at it like dude this is why i don't engage with people like i'm like bro look 1.00
00:14:38.120 at you and then look at me right look at your life and look at my life you can't say a goddamn thing 0.98
00:14:43.620 to me bro there's nothing you could say that'll fucking hurt me you know what i mean absolutely bro 0.98
00:14:48.500 so you have to understand the reality of the world the reality of the world is most people are taught 0.93
00:14:53.360 to be nothing they are taught to be worker bees that never develop any sort of identity any sort 0.80
00:15:02.560 of confidence they never even sort of explore or become that badass version of themselves that they
00:15:09.940 hold in their heart that they know they could be if they actually tried right and it makes them 0.96
00:15:14.360 bitter so like bro have empathy for those people like and and leave them alone who fucking cares 0.95
00:15:18.860 what they say so i would leave that alone uh how important is it it's super important this is but 0.94
00:15:24.280 you have to understand people aren't born with confidence you know i used to think my whole life
00:15:29.020 that people had confidence or they didn't have confidence or they had discipline and they didn't
00:15:33.880 have this born with it right yeah and it's not you have to develop those things and the way you
00:15:38.520 develop those things is by setting out things that you say you're going to do and then doing
00:15:43.220 them consistently over the course of the time and as the more that you do them the more your
00:15:47.300 confidence will build the more uh your your skills and all these areas will build this is why i built
00:15:52.260 the 75 hard live hard program episode 208 it's fucking free the reason i make it free is because 0.94
00:15:58.220 you fucking need it okay and if you want to know how to build confidence and you do that program at 0.87
00:16:03.460 least the first part for 75 days you're going to understand exactly how to build confidence for the rest of 0.98
00:16:08.820 your life it will be invaluable lesson for you i'd highly recommend doing it but in terms of how
00:16:14.960 important it is it's everything because business is hard life is hard and there's going to be times
00:16:21.300 when nobody fucking believes in you there's going to be actually that's going to be most of the time 0.88
00:16:25.160 damn yeah it's going to be most of the time most people are not going to believe in whatever it is 0.99
00:16:30.480 you're trying to do they're not going to believe in your dreams they're not going to believe in your 0.99
00:16:34.100 fucking mission they're not going to believe in it until it's already fucking done and that means 0.98
00:16:38.100 that you have to have the confidence to push through the whole entire time until you get the 0.99
00:16:43.280 end result the end result where people are finally like fuck all right you got a job for me dude right 0.99
00:16:49.320 right like it has to go that far for these people to admit that they were fucking wrong about you so 0.97
00:16:55.740 like you're going to be operating basically self-sustaining with a very small support system 0.91
00:17:00.180 your entire career until you get to a point that it's un-fucking-deniable and by the time it becomes
00:17:05.880 undeniable by the time it becomes uh very obvious to the entire world that you're doing what it is
00:17:11.920 you set out to do and you're doing it well you you're not going to need the approval of these 0.98
00:17:16.340 other motherfuckers anyway so why do you even care at all you know what i mean like you're not even 0.99
00:17:20.980 going to care like dude when motherfuckers come to me now that 20 years ago they were like telling me 1.00
00:17:25.840 get a real job and shit and now they're like saying oh man i'm so proud of you you think i don't 0.99
00:17:30.560 remember what the fuck they said to me dude like i remember exactly what you fucking said bro like i 0.99
00:17:35.680 could fucking pull it out of my fucking photogenic or uh my photographic memory and fucking replay it 0.99
00:17:41.800 you know and i don't care because like i'm good but let's not make any you know delusions about how 0.99
00:17:50.300 this works nobody believes in you until after it's fucking done okay so stop worrying about who the 0.98
00:17:55.860 fuck believes in you in the beginning the reason nobody fucking believes in you in the beginning 0.99
00:17:59.160 you haven't done shit it's also why you don't believe in you yeah and dude exactly and that's 0.99
00:18:05.940 why doing things like 75 hard live hard are the fastest way to grow your confidence to a maximal 0.73
00:18:12.000 level because it's the shortest amount of time that you could squeeze this whole process into
00:18:16.440 yeah it's very fucking hard it's very difficult but when you get done you're going to feel like a 0.96
00:18:21.140 fucking animal and now more importantly than feeling like an animal you're going to understand what it 0.95
00:18:26.800 takes to actually raise your confidence when you need your confidence raised you're going to be 1.00
00:18:31.020 able to self-assess and say you know what man i'm off my game you know what i'm going to do i'm going 0.94
00:18:35.000 to do a fucking round of 75 hard and it's two and a half months you're the fucking best you've ever 0.97
00:18:39.840 fucking been and that is the shortest amount of time in my opinion that you can get from zero to 0.99
00:18:45.300 fucking hero when it comes to your confidence your discipline your self-belief your gratitude your grit 0.99
00:18:49.800 all these things that you develop over the course of that time it's it's 75 days is fucking tiny 0.99
00:18:55.700 amount of time to get what you get out of that so uh one it's very it's very important it's everything 0.99
00:19:02.440 two you got to build it three fuck what everybody else says because they don't have shit those people 1.00
00:19:07.600 cry in the fucking corner when you ain't looking you know they're sitting there thinking why the 1.00
00:19:11.520 fuck is their life why is his life look like this and my life look like that well motherfucker you 1.00
00:19:15.460 don't work like me you don't do shit like me you don't eat like me you don't train like me you don't 1.00
00:19:20.360 fucking talk like me you don't practice like me you don't do any of the shit i do and you you 1.00
00:19:24.180 certainly haven't done it for 20 fucking plus years so fuck you i don't care what you say and that's the 1.00
00:19:29.600 attitude you gotta have because people will not hesitate to take shots and throw little fucking 1.00
00:19:35.620 arrows at you every chance they get every time a successful person stumbles everybody wants to pile on 1.00
00:19:40.960 and it's because those people are sad miserable little fucks and this is why cancel 0.99
00:19:45.380 culture is such a problem like dude i don't give a fuck if you're on the left or the right 1.00
00:19:49.700 if you cancel motherfuckers and pile on because you don't agree with something that someone did or said 1.00
00:19:54.960 or this or that you're a fucking weak ass little bitch period i have zero respect for it this is 1.00
00:20:00.300 why i don't really participate in it uh either way yeah yeah and it's hard because it you know right 1.00
00:20:05.920 now in society i think it's necessary to send a message to certain companies like disney and these
00:20:10.400 other companies that are sexualizing children and pushing this woke agenda but i look at that
00:20:15.040 not as cancel culture just as the reallocation the conscious reallocation of where i'm going to
00:20:19.200 spend my money yeah you know what i mean i don't i don't need to jump on the internet and talk mad
00:20:23.820 shit and all this stuff and i certainly don't do it to little companies like you know like these people 1.00
00:20:29.860 that like you you motherfucking idiots that cancel your local fucking entrepreneur you understand that 1.00
00:20:35.160 you're just fucking taking jobs out of your community you're hurting people you're hurting your 1.00
00:20:38.700 fucking friend you're hurting your neighbor you're hurting your fucking cousin you're hurting your aunt 1.00
00:20:42.480 you're hurting all kinds of people that are just like you in your own fucking town you're too fucking 1.00
00:20:45.900 stupid to realize it cancel culture is the weakest shit ever and it comes from most motherfuckers have 1.00
00:20:50.340 zero confidence they have zero understanding of what it takes to build anything they have zero 1.00
00:20:55.120 understanding of what it takes to persevere through anything hard and they have zero understanding 1.00
00:20:59.380 that constantly in business there's shit that gets fucked up every single day and now we live in 1.00
00:21:04.600 this environment where everything's transparent and everything's open and motherfuckers that ain't 1.00
00:21:08.520 ever fucking sold a goddamn snow cone got something to say about somebody's business fuck you dude you 1.00
00:21:14.940 know what i'm saying i don't respect anybody like that i zero respect it's weak ass shit it is man 1.00
00:21:21.380 well guys our third and final question uh andy question number three do you or have you ever left 0.99
00:21:30.320 anything up to chance or fate uh i know you're connected heavily with universe and karmic energy
00:21:36.440 but i got a vip car for that shit yeah but do you draw a line there 0.82
00:21:40.120 uh yeah i mean like dude look it's not like i could see into the future right you know i mean 0.97
00:21:48.120 contrary i don't know evidence they say um but yeah i think faith is a very important component
00:21:55.740 to the whole process like you have to have enough trust that if you're doing what you need to do and
00:22:02.260 you're moving that direction that the result will ultimately materialize so you know and also you
00:22:07.740 have to be loose in the expectation of what your result may be like you know like when i used to
00:22:13.760 visualize myself being on stage and shit i wanted to be a rapper okay right like but i but i didn't 0.79
00:22:19.940 that's how you visualize yeah so i didn't end up being a rapper i ended up being a world-class speaker 0.99
00:22:24.040 right it's literally almost the same shit stage like i go on the stage fucking people cheer i get 1.00
00:22:29.200 paid lots of money i buy cool cars i roll around fucking be a badass pimp motherfucker right like 1.00
00:22:35.000 it's the same thing it's just the result's a little bit different you get what i'm saying 0.99
00:22:38.360 absolutely so we got to be open with what the result how it serves us and i understand that and so
00:22:44.720 you know that's an element of faith you've got it you've got to understand that if you're doing
00:22:49.600 the things that need to be done you're doing them consistently you're doing them without fail and
00:22:53.540 you consistently do them over the course of time the result is going to produce and you also have to
00:22:57.320 understand that the result may not be exactly what you want but it's going to be fucking close 0.97
00:23:01.220 and so that's how i balance that you know i i definitely um i mean fuck dude none of us are in 0.98
00:23:08.100 control like we don't we don't have control it's a it's a fucking illusion yeah you know what i mean 0.98
00:23:12.300 like that's a nice thing to we believe we have because it gives us uh a peace right like we're not 0.90
00:23:21.500 panicked we're not freaking out because we're uncertain like humans have to have a certain level of
00:23:26.360 certainty even if they don't so they will convince themselves that this you know is okay or this
00:23:34.060 result is going to happen uh or that i'm in control of this situation when in reality bro you have 0.93
00:23:39.360 fucking zero control and all you could do is control what you do and control your steps and your actions 0.94
00:23:44.960 that move in the direction of where you want to go with the understanding that if you do that long 0.99
00:23:49.080 enough the result will occur and and it's been my experience from you know my own personal life
00:23:55.900 literally in every single situation whether it be business fitness or relationships or anything else
00:24:01.480 and also my experience in literally coaching more successful entrepreneurs than maybe fucking anybody 0.83
00:24:08.180 okay uh with the exception of maybe i don't know i don't even know who okay maybe tony robbins like
00:24:13.960 something like that but like i mean he doesn't you know i'm just saying like i have a lot of
00:24:19.380 experience here i'm not saying that to brag it's just fucking fact and so it's been my experience that 0.91
00:24:25.100 it's the same for everybody like we don't have control but if we move the direction and we visualize 0.65
00:24:29.720 where we're going and we see the result in our mind and we continue to move that way that result
00:24:33.960 will materialize in some sort of way uh whether you know it be exactly or very close to what it is that
00:24:39.700 you want that's right where would you say that people fuck up with this thing right like leaving 0.69
00:24:45.140 too much up to fucking chance well bro that's a cop-out that's cop-out yeah like look dude we talk 0.94
00:24:50.240 about this on the mfceo project a lot um you know because vaughn's a pastor so like we talk about 0.98
00:24:55.980 you know we talk about a lot of biblical principles and and godly principles and things like that
00:25:03.520 spirituality and i think a lot of people hide behind that i think a lot of people a lot of people
00:25:08.900 like say oh i'm putting in god's hands jesus take the wheel yeah but bro jesus take the wheel 0.92
00:25:13.740 is not what the fuck jesus wants you to do that's what you got to understand like if you you have to 0.98
00:25:19.120 look at it like your own son or your own kid like bro if you looked at your own kid and you say hey 1.00
00:25:23.560 why are you such a lazy piece of shit and your kid says well it's going to work out the way it's going 1.00
00:25:27.620 to work out no matter what are you going to fucking think that kid's doing the right thing or the wrong 1.00
00:25:31.380 thing you're going to think they're doing the wrong thing and the goal i believe is that you are 0.58
00:25:36.420 supposed to do your part and that god will do the other part and and so there's a there's a you know 0.99
00:25:42.580 there's there's an equation there with multiple elements involved and so i think most people fuck 0.64
00:25:48.460 it up because they hide behind the idea that nothing's in my control and that's that's a way 0.92
00:25:54.360 for them to cop out of having to do anything fucking difficult so they can sit there on their 1.00
00:25:58.140 fat fucking ass and watch fucking netflix and eat fucking bullshit and take a check from the 1.00
00:26:01.680 government and be a lazy little piece of shit that is too stupid to understand that the entire 1.00
00:26:07.120 fucking system is profiting off of your fucking sloth fat ass doing exactly that yeah like you're 1.00
00:26:12.480 doing exactly what the fuck they want you to do and you're wasting your entire life and you're going 1.00
00:26:16.660 to get to the end of your life and you're going to say fuck i didn't do fucking anything and bro there 0.99
00:26:21.660 ain't nothing worse than that nothing i've been fortunate enough to have two very distinct close 0.99
00:26:27.820 calls with death i talk about you know once when i got stabbed once when i had uh they thought i had 0.89
00:26:33.180 a tumor in my brain both times i had to question like fuck dude am i living right am i doing the 0.98
00:26:40.340 right thing like if i were to fucking actually kick it here what would i say about my life and both 0.99
00:26:44.260 times i was highly disappointed which motivated me to be better and motivated me to be more 0.92
00:26:48.580 motivated me to do more work and so you know you have to be real dude like this is why people
00:26:54.280 with humility that humility the humility thing irritates the fuck out of me like a lot of you 0.99
00:26:58.780 motherfuckers you think you're so fucking noble sitting there talking about how humble you are 1.00
00:27:02.860 when you haven't fucking done anything well it's real easy to be fucking humble when you haven't 1.00
00:27:06.820 done anything it's not even humility humility is a discipline so and for humility to be properly 0.98
00:27:15.540 exercised that takes into the understanding that you have to be great at something you have to
00:27:22.420 already be great then you could be humble you don't get to be humble without being great
00:27:26.560 you understand what i'm saying like bro you could if you sit there and you say oh i don't want all 1.00
00:27:31.920 that shit because you know i'm just a humble person no you're a fucking loser you're fucking lazy and 1.00
00:27:38.560 you're too afraid to do anything and you're fucking pointing fingers as people who are actually 1.00
00:27:41.960 exercising their god-given potential to be fucking better because you're a fucking hater and you're 1.00
00:27:47.420 scared and you're afraid to do the fucking work there's nothing noble in that at all 0.99
00:27:52.020 you're not setting a good example for anybody around you you're going to regret your entire 1.00
00:27:56.260 life and you're sitting there on your fucking bar stool talking about well i don't need much 1.00
00:28:00.940 because i'm fucking humble no you're a fucking loser because you have to be great to be humble 1.00
00:28:06.820 you have to be fucking amazing to be humble what do you have to be humble about you see what i'm 1.00
00:28:13.380 saying yeah people don't get it dude it's i am buying your shit dude like you come to me and 0.99
00:28:19.700 you're like oh you know all that stuff it ain't about stuff it's about being great are you great 0.99
00:28:26.120 are you a painter are you great fucking painter you do drywall are you fucking great doing drywall 0.99
00:28:30.920 do you go around and tell people how great you are drywall well that ain't humble bro 1.00
00:28:34.440 you follow what i'm saying yeah fuck yeah a lot of people have misunderstanding about it and they 0.99
00:28:39.880 totally fucking wrecked their lives because they believe that quote-unquote humility is some sort 1.00
00:28:44.920 of fucking mountain virtue signal and they ruin their entire existence over there it's fucked up 1.00
00:28:50.320 man it's real shit yeah so next time your fucking lazy ass fucking aunt or uncle tells you you're 1.00
00:28:57.300 not fucking humble and listen that be like good i don't want to be like you bitch i ain't there yet 1.00
00:29:01.660 yeah i ain't trying to fucking be like you that's real shit yeah it's the truth dude yeah like you 1.00
00:29:06.120 think i'm trying to live like you you can't even pay your fucking bills you drive a shitty ass 1.00
00:29:10.040 fucking car you live in a shitty fucking house you never fucking tried at anything you never gave 1.00
00:29:14.840 effort at anything you never stuck to anything and you're gonna die knowing that you left every 1.00
00:29:19.600 single fucking ounce of your potential inside your fucking soul and your body i don't want that shit 1.00
00:29:24.240 so fuck you have your fake ass humility go sit over in the corner and cry about it i'll be over here 1.00
00:29:28.440 fucking winning bitch what share that shit what is that good i'm just saying man it's what people 1.00
00:29:37.980 need to hear dude that's real shit man i'm i get so sick of that false humility fucking garbage dude 1.00
00:29:43.500 especially on the fucking internet these people post this fake ass fucking humility shit and then two 1.00
00:29:48.960 days later they're posting pictures of a fucking bugatti and shit right yeah it's like fuck dude you're 1.00
00:29:53.500 so fucking out of line with what you truly want and you're such a fucking pussy you won't even take 1.00
00:29:58.820 the steps to pursue what you really want instead you pretend like you don't want it so you can't ever 1.00
00:30:03.280 look stupid for trying to get it that's fucking weak ass shit dude fucking weak shit man there's 1.00
00:30:10.160 nothing weaker there's nothing weaker well guys andy that was three yeah go pay that fee that's right 1.00
00:30:17.980 go pay yeah went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stove counted 1.00
00:30:24.520 millions in the code bad bitch booted slow got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00