424. Q&AF： Employee To Employer, The Role Of Confidence & The Importance Of Faith
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In this episode of Ask Andys Daddy, Andrey Frisella is joined by his brown handsome chocolate co-host, Dj, and they talk about the holidays and what it's like being a kid on the holidays.
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what is up guys it's andy frisella and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
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the fakeness and delusions modern society welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we have q and
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the fee that's what i'm talking about as always i'm joined by my brown handsome chocolate co-host dj
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what's up dude what's going on you're not really chocolate though you're like
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you're like milk chocolate yeah the summer coat's coming off yeah yeah yeah me too man yeah well you
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why would you tell it my secret bro actually don't don't
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we should we'll post oh yeah you can't let the secret out
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you guys cannot know my secret everybody's credit score i'm feeling extra vanilla though
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i am that's why we gotta go to a hot place bro yeah bro because i can keep my soul all year
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all year round you know what i'm saying winter time i get a little nerdier i lose my ability to
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fucking dance and credit score goes up like it's yeah all kinds of shit man
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so what's up dude how was your thanksgiving thanksgiving was good man it was good you know
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i did the uh played musical family right like musical chairs bounce around gotta go all over
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the fucking city but it was cool um you know stuck to my shit got my shit done so that was always good
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uh it's always a fun conversation having that having those conversations with family because
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like there's some family don't don't really know what's going on it's like you're not eating you
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know like what are you doing i'm like no i'm i'm sticking to my shit but thanksgiving you could
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actually eat pretty decent yeah it's just about exercising some discipline yeah dude you get
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yourself some turkey get yourself some salad stay away from the zoo zoos and wham wham yeah bro that's
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it man the good shit but yeah no it was cool man what about you what'd you do it was good we went
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out to uh we went out to sales and uh we went out on out to his farm and we did thanksgiving out there
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it's pretty cool um you know it's weird because you know most people don't understand you know
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our whole family even though we're a divorced family my mom and dad are divorced everybody
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still gets together on the holidays and acts like adults or attempts to act like adults and uh
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but no it was cool man he just got his house redone it's uh it's beautiful i think it's one
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of the coolest houses i've ever been to in my life uh bro you gotta see it it's fun i haven't had a
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chance to get out there yet i see the story it looks fucking awesome bro it's it's like a fucking
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crate and barrel fucking catalog like but like i don't know like you you're a restoration like
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dude it's just it's fucking perfection like it's fucking perfection yeah perfect size perfect flow
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you know when you're you know when you're earlier in the journey of trying to succeed you always think
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like big house or a big giant house you have all these visions yeah but like what you learn is like
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the big house is is not that cool if you don't come from that like i never grew up in a big house
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he never grew up in a big house so like when i got my first quote unquote big house which is the house
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i had before the one i have now um which was actually bigger than the one i have now pretty
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fucking sweet yeah uh bro it was like living in a fucking walmart like it it was it sucked
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you feel right yeah yeah like the first two months i'm like i want to move back to my regular house
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and uh and then you get used to it but it was still too big and i i love my house now mainly because
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of the the historical relevance of the property um and it's beautiful but like bro there's a lot to
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be said for like just a really normal size home that's done properly like and that's what he's
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got out there it's fucking it's really cool that's awesome man yeah well it looks fucking sick
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yeah so maybe we could throw a s'mores party or something yeah yeah yeah that's what i was thinking
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the whole time man i couldn't wait for the first s'mores party oh shit yeah so what's up we got
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something i got some good ones man all right good i got some good ones man let's make some people
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better today all right let's do that uh andy question number one uh andy i've been welding
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for almost 30 years okay every place i have worked i have excelled and i've been one of the best welders
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there i see the kind of people that uh own some of these businesses and i see the kind of work that
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they let their other employees put out and although i make decent money for a welder i want to make
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more uh and i want to uh eventually have my own business my question is am i wrong in assuming that
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if i am consistently at the top of what i do and i have good values and good intentions
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uh that i could also have that same in business uh as far as success and top quality and all of that
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stuff i have the welding skills and i also feel i could provide better service than most places i
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have work but what am i missing well look man are you out of line in your thinking no you you could be
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a great business operator no question do you have the skills now to do that absolutely not and that's
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a mistake most people think most people think that because they have sales skills or they've got
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technical skill of whatever trade they're in that they could go run a business but what you don't
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understand is that running the business is its own skill set just like your welding is a skill set
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okay so like just all the time that you put into becoming this amazing welder that makes you know
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perfect wells and you know you brag about on the internet look at this weld and shit i see what you
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guys do right that same skill level is required to run a successful business and you probably took
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years and years and years to develop that skill set and to think just because you understand how to do
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that skill that you're automatically qualified to do this other skill that's actually what gets a lot of
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people in trouble in business you see this a lot with lawyers you see this a lot with doctors you
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see this a lot with all architects professional people uh this is also why doctors are the most
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annoying fucking humans on the fucking planet okay they think because they went to school for 12 years
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that they know more than you about fucking everything and this is also why many of them are
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fucking broke okay because they don't understand that running the business is its own thing so i'm not
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saying you can't do that you absolutely can do that but you have to have the perspective of
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understanding that you don't have any of those skills yet and you're going to have to learn them
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so if this is something that you truly want to do you are going to have to invest in learning that
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skill set and the the you know honestly dude um there's so many resources out there to learn those
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things now for that are relatively uh inexpensive or even free uh that there's no excuse for you not
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to start learning those skills now and i wouldn't go jump into uh a new business without having any
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understanding of the skill set required because dude there's all kinds of things you're going to
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have to fucking understand you're going to have to understand how to uh get a location you're going
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to understand how to negotiate a lease you're going to have to understand how to market you're going to
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have to understand how to uh do the books you're going to have to understand how to manage people
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none of those things will require what the fuck you do right now okay and those are all very difficult
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fucking things especially the managing people part that you know then you're talking about getting
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your name like dude it's a whole different animal yeah it's a fucking completely different thing and a
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lot of people think because they're good at this that they can run the whole show and
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motherfucker you guys have no fucking idea what it takes okay i struggle with it and i'm 24 years into
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it it's hard as fuck now i'm not trying to scare you but i am trying to scare you enough that you
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will take seriously what i'm saying because if you don't go invest in learning the skills of how to
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operate a business you'll get fucking smashed your skill set alone is not good enough to operate a
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successful operation so no uh go ahead no you also say too because like you know we talk about this
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like even in the the educational like basis people go to these schools and they get this business
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degree right like there's theory and then there's actual application right so like what what would
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you say is like the i guess more responsible thing to do when it comes to getting a little bit of both
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best of both worlds right well yeah that there's also that so i'm glad you asked that because there's
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also a flip side to what i just said you can't just go study all the shit and never go right like
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you're gonna have to jump in so you have what i would recommend is getting a basic understanding
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really humbling yourself and saying okay i don't know any of this shit and the fact that you asked
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the question that way you did shows that you're already humble enough to look at that so get yourself
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uh in proximity with some people who are running companies um start to learn from them get some
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ideas on how this would apply to your welding business and when you feel like you have a pretty
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good understanding now i'm not saying you got to be an expert but you just got to understand what
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what's all involved then jump in and you're gonna learn most of the shit that you're you're going
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to need uh as you go because yes 100 so like definitely i'm glad you asked that because i don't want
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to scare people like dude you know when i jumped into my business i i didn't i knew remember i had
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failed eight businesses before i started supplement super stores my first successful business so like
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there there's a you're going to learn most of the things on the job but you also want to have
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a basic understanding for sure yeah 100 man uh and the question number two this actually kind of
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rolls right into uh right off of that first question though but but how important of a role
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is confidence uh in becoming successful and then why does it get confused with arrogance uh far too
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often well it gets confused with arrogance because most people have zero confidence damn yeah most
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people have zero fucking confidence so they see anybody with confidence and they say that
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motherfucker's arrogant he's full of himself he's this he's that he's this and let's be real dude
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none of those people are fucking winning not not a single fucking one and every single one of them
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lives in fear and every single one of them lives with zero confidence and thinking they're fucking
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shit they know they're a fucking fraud because they are a fucking fraud it's real easy to sit on the
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sidelines and criticize people who aren't in the game right and you should pay no mind to anybody
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who isn't in the game when they're criticizing you because that's just the nature of people that don't play
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you think of it like a football stadium there's 22 fucking players on the field there's a hundred
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thousand in the stands it's the same in life it's the same in business there's 22 people out of
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everyone 100 000 that have real confidence and anybody who fucking looks at them from the outside
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is going to criticize them and see them as arrogant because they have nothing so you know you have to
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understand that this is just the way it is like these people on the internet who just fucking decide to
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pick on people all the time and pick them apart and fucking point it in this and that look dude
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they're losing like they are losing they're not they're not as good as you they're they don't
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have any confidence they feel like shit they're frustrated they're angry they're scared little
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fucking children and that's the reality and they can huff and puff and be as loud as they want this
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is why cancel culture is such a popular thing because it gives loser motherfuckers power over people
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who are actually doing shit yeah right perceive power right right and and dude this is this is the
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game so the reason most people look at people who have any confidence at all and say oh that guy's
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fucking full of himself is because they have fucking nothing and they know they're nothing
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and that's a really sad existence if you really think about it so i would pay those people no mind
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i wouldn't even worry about what they think the minute you start worrying about what the fuck they
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think you're going to hesitate you're going to adjust your game you're going to start doing things
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that are out of the line of what you would want to do because you're afraid of what some person
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might say that you'll never fucking meet in real life right and if you did meet them you'd look at
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them like the motherfucker you see in line in front of you at the gas station getting coffee buying 15
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lottery tickets and you're like how the fuck does this person even live like how the fuck did this
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person get out of bed today and get dressed and like operate like when was the last time they took
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a fucking shower those are the people that contribute to cancel culture and criticism and calling people
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arrogant and if you really think of it like that and you like see these people for what the fuck
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they are because in real life if that person that you're talking about uh or that we're talking
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about here was getting coffee in front of you and turned around and said hey you're fucking full of
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yourself you laugh in their fucking face yeah right thanks so that's that's how i look at it so that's
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how you have to look at it like dude this is why i don't engage with people like i'm like bro look
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at you and then look at me right look at your life and look at my life you can't say a goddamn thing
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to me bro there's nothing you could say that'll fucking hurt me you know what i mean absolutely bro
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so you have to understand the reality of the world the reality of the world is most people are taught
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to be nothing they are taught to be worker bees that never develop any sort of identity any sort
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of confidence they never even sort of explore or become that badass version of themselves that they
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hold in their heart that they know they could be if they actually tried right and it makes them
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bitter so like bro have empathy for those people like and and leave them alone who fucking cares
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what they say so i would leave that alone uh how important is it it's super important this is but
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you have to understand people aren't born with confidence you know i used to think my whole life
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that people had confidence or they didn't have confidence or they had discipline and they didn't
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have this born with it right yeah and it's not you have to develop those things and the way you
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develop those things is by setting out things that you say you're going to do and then doing
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them consistently over the course of the time and as the more that you do them the more your
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confidence will build the more uh your your skills and all these areas will build this is why i built
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the 75 hard live hard program episode 208 it's fucking free the reason i make it free is because
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you fucking need it okay and if you want to know how to build confidence and you do that program at
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least the first part for 75 days you're going to understand exactly how to build confidence for the rest of
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your life it will be invaluable lesson for you i'd highly recommend doing it but in terms of how
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important it is it's everything because business is hard life is hard and there's going to be times
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when nobody fucking believes in you there's going to be actually that's going to be most of the time
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damn yeah it's going to be most of the time most people are not going to believe in whatever it is
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you're trying to do they're not going to believe in your dreams they're not going to believe in your
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fucking mission they're not going to believe in it until it's already fucking done and that means
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that you have to have the confidence to push through the whole entire time until you get the
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end result the end result where people are finally like fuck all right you got a job for me dude right
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right like it has to go that far for these people to admit that they were fucking wrong about you so
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like you're going to be operating basically self-sustaining with a very small support system
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your entire career until you get to a point that it's un-fucking-deniable and by the time it becomes
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undeniable by the time it becomes uh very obvious to the entire world that you're doing what it is
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you set out to do and you're doing it well you you're not going to need the approval of these
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other motherfuckers anyway so why do you even care at all you know what i mean like you're not even
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going to care like dude when motherfuckers come to me now that 20 years ago they were like telling me
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get a real job and shit and now they're like saying oh man i'm so proud of you you think i don't
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remember what the fuck they said to me dude like i remember exactly what you fucking said bro like i
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could fucking pull it out of my fucking photogenic or uh my photographic memory and fucking replay it
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you know and i don't care because like i'm good but let's not make any you know delusions about how
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this works nobody believes in you until after it's fucking done okay so stop worrying about who the
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fuck believes in you in the beginning the reason nobody fucking believes in you in the beginning
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you haven't done shit it's also why you don't believe in you yeah and dude exactly and that's
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why doing things like 75 hard live hard are the fastest way to grow your confidence to a maximal
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level because it's the shortest amount of time that you could squeeze this whole process into
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yeah it's very fucking hard it's very difficult but when you get done you're going to feel like a
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fucking animal and now more importantly than feeling like an animal you're going to understand what it
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takes to actually raise your confidence when you need your confidence raised you're going to be
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able to self-assess and say you know what man i'm off my game you know what i'm going to do i'm going
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to do a fucking round of 75 hard and it's two and a half months you're the fucking best you've ever
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fucking been and that is the shortest amount of time in my opinion that you can get from zero to
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fucking hero when it comes to your confidence your discipline your self-belief your gratitude your grit
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all these things that you develop over the course of that time it's it's 75 days is fucking tiny
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amount of time to get what you get out of that so uh one it's very it's very important it's everything
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two you got to build it three fuck what everybody else says because they don't have shit those people
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cry in the fucking corner when you ain't looking you know they're sitting there thinking why the
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fuck is their life why is his life look like this and my life look like that well motherfucker you
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don't work like me you don't do shit like me you don't eat like me you don't train like me you don't
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fucking talk like me you don't practice like me you don't do any of the shit i do and you you
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certainly haven't done it for 20 fucking plus years so fuck you i don't care what you say and that's the
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attitude you gotta have because people will not hesitate to take shots and throw little fucking
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arrows at you every chance they get every time a successful person stumbles everybody wants to pile on
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and it's because those people are sad miserable little fucks and this is why cancel
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culture is such a problem like dude i don't give a fuck if you're on the left or the right
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if you cancel motherfuckers and pile on because you don't agree with something that someone did or said
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or this or that you're a fucking weak ass little bitch period i have zero respect for it this is
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why i don't really participate in it uh either way yeah yeah and it's hard because it you know right
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now in society i think it's necessary to send a message to certain companies like disney and these
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other companies that are sexualizing children and pushing this woke agenda but i look at that
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not as cancel culture just as the reallocation the conscious reallocation of where i'm going to
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spend my money yeah you know what i mean i don't i don't need to jump on the internet and talk mad
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shit and all this stuff and i certainly don't do it to little companies like you know like these people
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that like you you motherfucking idiots that cancel your local fucking entrepreneur you understand that
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you're just fucking taking jobs out of your community you're hurting people you're hurting your
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fucking friend you're hurting your neighbor you're hurting your fucking cousin you're hurting your aunt
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you're hurting all kinds of people that are just like you in your own fucking town you're too fucking
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stupid to realize it cancel culture is the weakest shit ever and it comes from most motherfuckers have
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zero confidence they have zero understanding of what it takes to build anything they have zero
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understanding of what it takes to persevere through anything hard and they have zero understanding
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that constantly in business there's shit that gets fucked up every single day and now we live in
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this environment where everything's transparent and everything's open and motherfuckers that ain't
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ever fucking sold a goddamn snow cone got something to say about somebody's business fuck you dude you
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know what i'm saying i don't respect anybody like that i zero respect it's weak ass shit it is man
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well guys our third and final question uh andy question number three do you or have you ever left
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anything up to chance or fate uh i know you're connected heavily with universe and karmic energy
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but i got a vip car for that shit yeah but do you draw a line there
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uh yeah i mean like dude look it's not like i could see into the future right you know i mean
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contrary i don't know evidence they say um but yeah i think faith is a very important component
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to the whole process like you have to have enough trust that if you're doing what you need to do and
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you're moving that direction that the result will ultimately materialize so you know and also you
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have to be loose in the expectation of what your result may be like you know like when i used to
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visualize myself being on stage and shit i wanted to be a rapper okay right like but i but i didn't
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that's how you visualize yeah so i didn't end up being a rapper i ended up being a world-class speaker
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right it's literally almost the same shit stage like i go on the stage fucking people cheer i get
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paid lots of money i buy cool cars i roll around fucking be a badass pimp motherfucker right like
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it's the same thing it's just the result's a little bit different you get what i'm saying
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absolutely so we got to be open with what the result how it serves us and i understand that and so
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you know that's an element of faith you've got it you've got to understand that if you're doing
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the things that need to be done you're doing them consistently you're doing them without fail and
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you consistently do them over the course of time the result is going to produce and you also have to
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understand that the result may not be exactly what you want but it's going to be fucking close
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and so that's how i balance that you know i i definitely um i mean fuck dude none of us are in
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control like we don't we don't have control it's a it's a fucking illusion yeah you know what i mean
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like that's a nice thing to we believe we have because it gives us uh a peace right like we're not
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panicked we're not freaking out because we're uncertain like humans have to have a certain level of
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certainty even if they don't so they will convince themselves that this you know is okay or this
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result is going to happen uh or that i'm in control of this situation when in reality bro you have
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fucking zero control and all you could do is control what you do and control your steps and your actions
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that move in the direction of where you want to go with the understanding that if you do that long
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enough the result will occur and and it's been my experience from you know my own personal life
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literally in every single situation whether it be business fitness or relationships or anything else
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and also my experience in literally coaching more successful entrepreneurs than maybe fucking anybody
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okay uh with the exception of maybe i don't know i don't even know who okay maybe tony robbins like
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something like that but like i mean he doesn't you know i'm just saying like i have a lot of
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experience here i'm not saying that to brag it's just fucking fact and so it's been my experience that
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it's the same for everybody like we don't have control but if we move the direction and we visualize
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where we're going and we see the result in our mind and we continue to move that way that result
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will materialize in some sort of way uh whether you know it be exactly or very close to what it is that
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you want that's right where would you say that people fuck up with this thing right like leaving
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too much up to fucking chance well bro that's a cop-out that's cop-out yeah like look dude we talk
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about this on the mfceo project a lot um you know because vaughn's a pastor so like we talk about
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you know we talk about a lot of biblical principles and and godly principles and things like that
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spirituality and i think a lot of people hide behind that i think a lot of people a lot of people
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like say oh i'm putting in god's hands jesus take the wheel yeah but bro jesus take the wheel
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is not what the fuck jesus wants you to do that's what you got to understand like if you you have to
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look at it like your own son or your own kid like bro if you looked at your own kid and you say hey
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why are you such a lazy piece of shit and your kid says well it's going to work out the way it's going
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to work out no matter what are you going to fucking think that kid's doing the right thing or the wrong
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thing you're going to think they're doing the wrong thing and the goal i believe is that you are
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supposed to do your part and that god will do the other part and and so there's a there's a you know
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there's there's an equation there with multiple elements involved and so i think most people fuck
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it up because they hide behind the idea that nothing's in my control and that's that's a way
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for them to cop out of having to do anything fucking difficult so they can sit there on their
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fat fucking ass and watch fucking netflix and eat fucking bullshit and take a check from the
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government and be a lazy little piece of shit that is too stupid to understand that the entire
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fucking system is profiting off of your fucking sloth fat ass doing exactly that yeah like you're
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doing exactly what the fuck they want you to do and you're wasting your entire life and you're going
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to get to the end of your life and you're going to say fuck i didn't do fucking anything and bro there
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ain't nothing worse than that nothing i've been fortunate enough to have two very distinct close
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calls with death i talk about you know once when i got stabbed once when i had uh they thought i had
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a tumor in my brain both times i had to question like fuck dude am i living right am i doing the
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right thing like if i were to fucking actually kick it here what would i say about my life and both
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times i was highly disappointed which motivated me to be better and motivated me to be more
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motivated me to do more work and so you know you have to be real dude like this is why people
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with humility that humility the humility thing irritates the fuck out of me like a lot of you
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motherfuckers you think you're so fucking noble sitting there talking about how humble you are
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when you haven't fucking done anything well it's real easy to be fucking humble when you haven't
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done anything it's not even humility humility is a discipline so and for humility to be properly
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exercised that takes into the understanding that you have to be great at something you have to
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already be great then you could be humble you don't get to be humble without being great
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you understand what i'm saying like bro you could if you sit there and you say oh i don't want all
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that shit because you know i'm just a humble person no you're a fucking loser you're fucking lazy and
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you're too afraid to do anything and you're fucking pointing fingers as people who are actually
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exercising their god-given potential to be fucking better because you're a fucking hater and you're
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scared and you're afraid to do the fucking work there's nothing noble in that at all
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you're not setting a good example for anybody around you you're going to regret your entire
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life and you're sitting there on your fucking bar stool talking about well i don't need much
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because i'm fucking humble no you're a fucking loser because you have to be great to be humble
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you have to be fucking amazing to be humble what do you have to be humble about you see what i'm
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saying yeah people don't get it dude it's i am buying your shit dude like you come to me and
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you're like oh you know all that stuff it ain't about stuff it's about being great are you great
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are you a painter are you great fucking painter you do drywall are you fucking great doing drywall
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do you go around and tell people how great you are drywall well that ain't humble bro
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you follow what i'm saying yeah fuck yeah a lot of people have misunderstanding about it and they
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totally fucking wrecked their lives because they believe that quote-unquote humility is some sort
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of fucking mountain virtue signal and they ruin their entire existence over there it's fucked up
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man it's real shit yeah so next time your fucking lazy ass fucking aunt or uncle tells you you're
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not fucking humble and listen that be like good i don't want to be like you bitch i ain't there yet
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yeah i ain't trying to fucking be like you that's real shit yeah it's the truth dude yeah like you
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think i'm trying to live like you you can't even pay your fucking bills you drive a shitty ass
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fucking car you live in a shitty fucking house you never fucking tried at anything you never gave
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effort at anything you never stuck to anything and you're gonna die knowing that you left every
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single fucking ounce of your potential inside your fucking soul and your body i don't want that shit
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so fuck you have your fake ass humility go sit over in the corner and cry about it i'll be over here
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fucking winning bitch what share that shit what is that good i'm just saying man it's what people
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need to hear dude that's real shit man i'm i get so sick of that false humility fucking garbage dude
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especially on the fucking internet these people post this fake ass fucking humility shit and then two
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days later they're posting pictures of a fucking bugatti and shit right yeah it's like fuck dude you're
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so fucking out of line with what you truly want and you're such a fucking pussy you won't even take
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the steps to pursue what you really want instead you pretend like you don't want it so you can't ever
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look stupid for trying to get it that's fucking weak ass shit dude fucking weak shit man there's
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nothing weaker there's nothing weaker well guys andy that was three yeah go pay that fee that's right
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go pay yeah went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stove counted
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millions in the code bad bitch booted slow got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed