REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 458. Q&AF： Overcoming Being A Success Zombie, Becoming Detail Oriented & Exit Strategy

00:00:00.000 what is up guys i forgot what you're listening to what we're listening to today we got relay

00:00:23.080 africa mfceo old jay oh relay f today what is up guys you're listening to the show for the realest 0.98

00:00:30.320 sake of body of the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking 0.96

00:00:34.520 reality i couldn't remember what the fuck i was recording there because we've been recording so 0.98

00:00:38.540 much of both shows uh the mfceo project is coming back we are banking episodes right now it's really

00:00:45.320 really really exciting and i'm excited to bring it to you all uh with that being said today is

00:00:51.360 uh q and af that's where you submit the questions and you and uh i bring the answers

00:00:56.800 where can they submit the questions dj guys as always email those questions into ask andy at

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00:01:52.600 right now so with that being said there is a fee for the show when i say pay the fee uh that's just

00:01:57.740 me share the show okay you'll notice i don't run ads on the show uh i don't take money from people

00:02:03.040 i can make eight figures based upon where the show falls in the rankings um i don't do that because i 0.84

00:02:09.540 don't want to be held beholden to people outside of the show for the shit that i say and i want you 0.97

00:02:15.300 to trust that the shit that i say is things that i actually believe in and stand on myself it's not 0.95

00:02:19.660 marketing bullshit so in exchange for that i just ask that you share the show all right so what's up 0.97

00:02:26.540 what's going on brother oh not much dude you know what's weird so these past couple of days 0.96

00:02:31.660 i have been having higher than normal uh instances of like deja vu oh really yeah like because you're

00:02:42.200 you're like my my sensei what what's your what's your take on deja vu like legitimately bro like you

00:02:47.600 like you know i don't know there's mixed results like there's mixed reviews out there yeah i'm not

00:02:51.300 sure what i think of that but i mean it's definitely a real thing i get it all the time yeah almost like

00:02:55.500 you this you've played this part out before and and you know in your life like i mean like dude it's 0.98

00:03:00.860 like it's almost like i'm learning the same shit like i'm with the same fuck like it's it's deja vu 0.96

00:03:05.180 like crazy yeah it's almost like you're getting like a flash of the future yeah and it is weird 0.99

00:03:10.680 dude i talked to i was talking uh brad from arsenal and he was like he thinks that like deja vu is like 0.98

00:03:16.440 a near like like that's like you have died in your past life at this time i'm like well fuck i don't 0.95

00:03:22.500 want to think about it like that like that's some weird shit i like to think of it like maybe this is 0.98

00:03:26.180 where i'm supposed to be like maybe it's the universe like giving me the glimpse of like yeah like 0.74

00:03:30.220 you're doing the right shit you're where you're supposed to be i don't know man i just yeah i 0.75

00:03:34.160 don't know either it's weird yeah i i don't know man i think a lot of i think a lot of what we 0.86

00:03:39.060 understand or what we think to be true is only bits and pieces of the available data that's to us i

00:03:45.180 think that um you know i think our government and the world governments hide a lot of truth about human

00:03:51.500 history uh that would allow us to sort of figure out what it is and i think they hide these things

00:03:56.720 uh intentionally so that we never truly discover how powerful we are as individuals and then also

00:04:03.620 collectively you know like it's interesting i was thinking about this and i typed about this a while 0.56

00:04:09.280 back you know how when you watch the media right like everybody's like well yeah the media is bullshit

00:04:16.340 okay and then you watch what they say about certain things and you're you we're almost to the point now 0.61

00:04:23.440 where we believe you know what they say the actual opposite of it is ends up being more true and you

00:04:32.600 know it's interesting because they don't what do they say about god what do they say about prayer right 0.50

00:04:38.320 so it's bullshit doesn't exist you know and like when they're lying to us about everything you know 0.79

00:04:43.960 that to me is an indication that maybe they're afraid that people are going to figure that out 0.98

00:04:48.700 uh because it actually does work and i know and you guys who have listened to me for a long time know

00:04:53.820 that i know it fucking works um it's not it's not a debate for me i know it it's and you couldn't 0.97

00:05:00.340 convince me otherwise i've seen it work in front of my face multiple times um in huge ways 0.97

00:05:06.200 and i think that you know this goes this is all linked together i think you know this is why they

00:05:13.100 don't tell us what they know about prehistory okay they they classify documents they classify truth 0.80

00:05:20.080 they classify known realities about the history of people and don't fucking tell people and i think 0.93

00:05:27.260 you know i think the sole reason that they don't is because dude they want they this is no different 0.66

00:05:32.400 than the thousands thousands and thousands of years of history before this time where you had a small

00:05:38.500 peer a small group of powerful wealthy people that ruled over everybody else and we just don't see it

00:05:45.220 that way anymore because we feel like that's not the case but if you really break it down and you look at 0.88

00:05:50.680 it um from a 10 000 foot view i mean it's really the same framework that's always existed there's fucking 0.86

00:05:58.340 poor people and then there's wealthy elite people yeah and then amongst the poor people there's people who 0.57

00:06:03.080 have done you know okay better than other poor people but they're relatively compared to these people 0.94

00:06:08.260 these people are fucking dirt poor right right and it's like how well can you play the game the better 0.79

00:06:13.520 you'll do in life yeah but the thing is is like the the game for the poor people the the peasants which 0.99

00:06:20.120 is us is not we're only allowed to really go so far with it and so like dude you know these these things

00:06:28.260 all lead into you know my critical brain of trying to figure out you know what is actually true and

00:06:35.520 what's not true and what i choose to believe is true what i think really is true and i believe this

00:06:39.540 is that human beings are far more powerful than people could ever comprehend i think we as individuals

00:06:45.780 have abilities mentally that people do not truly comprehend what it is that we can create with our

00:06:54.060 own mind um things that we can do things that we can create things that we can achieve uh the power of

00:07:01.620 prayer the power of visualization the power of manifestation all of these things are things

00:07:06.320 that are like if you believe in them and talk about them like they're real people question you

00:07:11.040 and look at you funny but the reality is is if you actually practice them the proper way there is no

00:07:17.120 denying that these things are real like i could give you story after story after story after story

00:07:21.780 and people think you know they think it's like a bullshit story or something right i've seen some of 0.99

00:07:28.800 that shit yeah i know a lot of that shit yeah but bro i i know that but the point is is you can't 0.99

00:07:33.640 get people to believe it so they never fucking practice it so when they don't practice it they 1.00

00:07:38.000 never experience it if they never experience it then it doesn't exist yeah and that's the fucking 0.97

00:07:42.840 trick that they play on us so i think it's important for people to consider the fact that maybe we've 0.95

00:07:47.720 been lied to about a whole lot of things and that maybe we as individuals and collectively if we got

00:07:54.880 together could do a lot more things than what we're doing now on this earth 0.95

00:07:58.800 that's a fucking fact yeah bro you couldn't convince me otherwise yeah so that's real man 0.87

00:08:04.320 so i don't know deja vu bro i don't know like exactly what that is but i what i do know is that 0.99

00:08:10.620 there's a whole lot we don't yeah that's real man well let's uh let's talk about some shit you do 0.89

00:08:16.820 know yeah i'll give my best let's get into this man uh i got some good ones for you guys 0.76

00:08:22.640 andy question number one andy you talk about success zombies uh and i've come to the realization

00:08:29.380 that that's what i am i have all these things that i want to accomplish but i have nothing much

00:08:34.960 to show for it what i'm wondering is now that i've come to that realization and awareness is there any

00:08:40.920 hope for me to change or is it like is awareness alone it and i like to believe that there is but it

00:08:46.840 just feels kind of hopelessly i've been working on cutting out necessary distractions but now i'm just

00:08:52.320 feeling alone any advice on this well for those of you that don't know what success zombies are

00:08:57.660 you know this is something i've talked about from the mfceo project days the first time and it's a

00:09:02.900 very real phenomenon okay and we see it across the spectrum of people who succeed or who don't succeed

00:09:09.680 who pursue success okay they belong to every single coaching group they consume every single person's

00:09:16.420 podcast they read every single fucking book they go to every single seminar they go to every 0.99

00:09:21.760 single event you see these people all across the spectrum and they do all this shit and nothing 1.00

00:09:27.100 ever changes in their life those are the people who are success zombies they never cross the chasm

00:09:33.120 from analyzing and learning to actually doing and that's the most important journey that you're going

00:09:39.620 to take as an entrepreneur you can learn all the things that you want you can consume all of the 0.55

00:09:45.560 podcasts you want you can watch all the tony robbins shit you want you can go to every single 0.99

00:09:50.680 fucking entrepreneur coaching group out there uh and and sit in there for a year and hear all the shit 0.99

00:09:58.640 right but if you don't ever jump from the learning and consuming analyzing and thinking to the doing 1.00

00:10:06.040 nothing's ever going to materialize and unfortunately a lot of people get their dopamine hit by thinking

00:10:12.440 about what it is they're going to do versus actually doing the thing that they want to do and so it's very

00:10:18.580 important that you recognize and i think the awareness of this individual is commendable

00:10:22.520 because he or she understands that okay now i am i have been one of these people and now you want to

00:10:29.380 change and the reason that you're a little hopeless and feel alone is because you're realizing that you 0.99

00:10:35.180 have wasted time and opportunity and now you're a little anxious because you're like fuck all right 0.89

00:10:39.780 i'm gonna have to go out and actually try to swim and bro that's a good thing that's not something to 0.96

00:10:45.940 be upset about like breaking free of this mentality of you know constant learning constant they can be

00:10:53.480 no different this is no different than the self-victimization culture thing that we have going on in our in

00:10:59.160 our culture right people get into the victim culture and they identify themselves as a victim and then 0.96

00:11:05.000 they consume all the different fucking therapy content all fucking day and they're all they're 0.98

00:11:09.980 focused on is their own victim status and they start to make their identity that and if all they're 1.00

00:11:16.800 doing is consuming the the different information about the the depression or the anxiety or whatever

00:11:23.080 it is they're going through they're never allowed to grow out of that phase which is the phase of like

00:11:28.000 actually overcoming what it is that you're suffering with okay and we see this across many different

00:11:33.320 spectrums when it comes to groups or tribes or you know just segments of you know what we what we see

00:11:43.160 in society bro and people want to be a part of something and not necessarily actually solve the

00:11:50.480 problem that they that they need to solve because then that forces them sort of out of the group that

00:11:56.400 they found so much comfort in right like when you're in a victim group and everybody else is a victim

00:12:02.260 everybody's understanding of your victimhood but once you try to grow out of that and you try to

00:12:06.960 like move past and become a healthy functioning human being you know that these people don't like 0.98

00:12:12.020 that right and and by the way if you notice none of these like therapy like fucking culture centers 0.94

00:12:19.880 you know do they ever really promote people out of it the goal is to stay in it it could be there 0.76

00:12:24.820 yeah bro and like dude it's a it's you know we see this in success culture too with the

00:12:29.720 entrepreneur culture like bro like there's so many people coaching now that just aren't qualified to 0.88

00:12:36.260 fucking coach bro that's just the fact of the matter and that pisses people off when i say that but it's 0.99

00:12:41.220 the fucking truth that they haven't built real shit how the fuck can they actually coach you through 1.00

00:12:46.080 the process of building real shit they're real coaches they'll be coaching you i'm just saying like 1.00

00:12:51.320 that's it make and so bro like it's predatory there's just a lot of things on the internet 0.98

00:12:56.960 that you know are the goal is not to ever like help the person the goal is to keep them in the

00:13:04.300 ecosystem so they continue to be milked and made money off of you you think that's to cut you off

00:13:09.720 you think there's always going to be a market for that though well until people get smart enough to 0.72

00:13:14.100 fucking understand like that you know you only need so much information before you go out and actually 0.97

00:13:18.460 do the thing that you're trying to do you know like when you're a success zombie and you're consuming 0.99

00:13:23.800 15 different podcasts and fucking you're in four different groups and you go to 10 events a year 1.00

00:13:29.620 and you do all this shit bro you're wasting your fucking life like in this and i have entrepreneurship 1.00

00:13:37.260 group i have fucking i do speak i do these things and but like when i see the same fucking person at 1.00

00:13:44.680 15 different events that i do across the year and nothing's ever changing for them this person 0.98

00:13:50.480 doesn't really truly want to go out and go swim on their own and so you know this person you're

00:13:56.080 talking about i think it's a good thing they're becoming aware and i think the anxious the anxious

00:14:01.140 and the weirdness they feel is just them becoming aware and you're gonna have to jump in the pool and

00:14:06.380 start fucking swimming it means you're gonna have to build something seth godin talks about it he talks 0.92

00:14:10.900 about if you're not shipping a product you're not doing anything okay and he doesn't mean shipping a 0.99

00:14:15.920 product he means you know creating a product you know shipping a product doing something that's his 0.97

00:14:21.960 way of saying it like you need to ship a product that's his way of saying you need to go fucking do 0.93

00:14:26.800 it yeah right it has to be something that physically exists yeah no no that's not what he's saying what 0.91

00:14:31.520 he's saying is go do it ship your product that means go fucking build something go be a part of 0.95

00:14:37.500 something go do something stop consuming information just mindlessly because you think you need to know 0.98

00:14:43.320 one more little data point or one more thing you know that's the danger when i was growing up you

00:14:49.020 know we didn't have the amount of information available and so we get this situation where you

00:14:55.800 know there was only so much information back then so i had to go do shit but now there's so much 0.76

00:15:01.100 information that like sometimes people have a problem removing themselves from drinking from the fire 0.92

00:15:06.680 hose right oh well andy said this well gary said that and ed said this and we're all saying 0.98

00:15:12.780 different shit and people get confused bro listen that's because there's 50 fucking thousand ways to 0.99

00:15:17.780 get this shit done okay and it doesn't matter this person's way or my way or that person's way 0.99

00:15:23.940 you if you're listening you heard you just heard three different fucking ways to do the same thing 0.99

00:15:28.240 and you just chose not to do it so until you start to choose to do these things nothing's going to 0.98

00:15:34.060 change your life and i think it's commendable that you've actually woken the fuck up and said man 0.73

00:15:37.940 this is what i've been doing yeah absolutely time to change it would you say that that's probably one

00:15:43.480 of the most rewarding things though right like like in in rta for example when you got guys that come

00:15:48.660 to you and you may have seen them you know a couple events a couple of years in a row but now they're

00:15:52.640 coming back like bro i just went from you know 100 hundred thousand dollars in sales to 15 million

00:15:58.240 in sales or whatever that like i mean yeah it's awesome but that the thing is those people never

00:16:01.960 leave the group because then they realize that i'm here to serve the group now right right i'm here

00:16:07.840 to teach i'm here to help i'm here to bring other people up that's the purpose of our group yeah you 0.99

00:16:12.460 know it's not just some dude ranting on about fucking bullshit right like this is you know this is this 0.95

00:16:19.280 is a real group of real entrepreneurs that actually lift and help and contribute to each other's success 0.98

00:16:23.860 and so yeah it's super rewarding but what's even more rewarding than that is when i see people 0.96

00:16:29.060 who have actually gone through the journey and built fucking amazing shit helping someone else 0.90

00:16:33.180 along the journey right that's real that's real man there's a lot to it dude but at the end of the 0.98

00:16:38.820 day you've got to cross that chasm bro you've got you've got to ship something you've got to do 0.88

00:16:42.920 something you've got to build something you've got to get in the fucking game and if you don't get in 0.99

00:16:46.600 the fucking game you can expect to fucking continue to be exactly where you are or worse those are 0.99

00:16:51.380 your options get in the game or fucking get worse that is it so my advice would be to be brave 1.00

00:16:57.740 get in the fucking game it's not it's it's not comfortable at first but here's the reality 0.99

00:17:02.620 it was not comfortable for me it wasn't comfortable for anybody that you look up to it wasn't comfortable 0.99

00:17:08.020 for anybody that you see doing great shit you see joe rogan doing great shit i guarantee you it's not 0.97

00:17:13.020 comfortable for him all the time you see fucking david goggins doing great shit dude's uncomfortable a lot 0.99

00:17:18.640 all these dudes that you admire these people are are fucking they have trained themselves to be 0.99

00:17:24.840 courageous and comfortable being uncomfortable okay and that's where you need to get to and so 0.99

00:17:30.780 stop waiting for more information stop waiting for more fucking data points and start fucking executing 0.99

00:17:38.080 and cross that chasm because most people won't do that part that's a big separator and then of the 0.99

00:17:44.860 people who do cross and start most of those people will quit in the first fucking year so if you could 0.97

00:17:49.880 stick it out for a year bro you've eliminated most of your competition so it's not it's not that 0.97

00:17:55.300 difficult to get ahead it's just they tell you it is so you don't fucking try uh guys any question number 0.93

00:18:00.740 two andy how can someone train themselves to be and become more detail oriented uh i find myself being 0.93

00:18:11.260 so quote unquote 10 000 foot view uh or having that mentality and a lot of times i miss the small

00:18:18.120 details that i know and hear are matter the most so how how can someone train themselves to become

00:18:23.760 more detail oriented and and more right now in your face i guess more present well i think training

00:18:31.720 yourself to be detail oriented is and is something that you should look at as an exercise for your

00:18:40.280 discipline muscle okay so for example and i talk about this quite often i'll pick up trash or i'll

00:18:48.380 pick up specks of paper or i'll i'll i'll make sure when i walk past the barbershop that both the chairs 0.77

00:18:53.560 are perfectly aligned um if i see a little mark on the wall i'll fucking wipe it off like all of these 0.98

00:18:59.840 things people can do here like i don't have to do them if i see a trash can full i'll take it the fuck out 0.96

00:19:04.660 so what i'm doing there is not some obsessive compulsive crazy shit and it's not like trying 0.73

00:19:13.700 to set a super high example for everybody to follow i don't i behave this way even when no one's around

00:19:19.260 yeah because i see it as an exercise for me to improve and when i went from being someone who was 0.99

00:19:26.720 very much so non-detail oriented and very much lazy and fucking fat and all the fucking bullshit 0.98

00:19:34.240 uh to someone who has their life in order i did this by practicing being detail oriented in that way 0.99

00:19:42.940 so like whenever you see something that needs to be done whether it be picking up a piece of paper

00:19:48.900 emptying a trash can or whatever that it's a small detail like when i walk by the barbershop

00:19:54.260 what i'm talking about is both chairs swivel i want both chairs aligned perfectly parallel so that

00:20:01.100 that doesn't look fucking off okay and so i'll go in and i'll straighten it and like dude you know 0.91

00:20:06.780 nobody really sees me do that but i do it because i know i'm making an investment in my ability to 0.51

00:20:12.640 recognize the details and execute on being detail oriented which flows over into every other aspect

00:20:19.400 of my life so you have to start looking at becoming detail oriented um sort of as a training exercise

00:20:26.160 that you run all the time and then allow that to sort of infiltrate who you are and it will flow

00:20:31.780 into everything else the only way that you could become detail oriented is by practicing things that

00:20:37.180 require detail orientation the only way that you could become patient is by practicing things that

00:20:41.880 require patience the only way to become disciplined is by doing things that require discipline so anything

00:20:47.700 that you're lacking you need to look at that and say okay well how can i practice that

00:20:51.860 how can i how can i do that where can i get reps to fix that and when it comes to being detail oriented 0.99

00:20:59.580 we have opportunities around all the time because most people are fucking lazy fucks and they leave 1.00

00:21:05.200 their messes around and their shit around and all their bullshit around for everybody else to clean up 1.00

00:21:09.880 and you say well fuck that i'm not cleaning it up well that's fine that's fine but don't get pissed 1.00

00:21:15.280 off when you're not detail oriented because you're passing up all these opportunities every single day 0.99

00:21:19.820 to actually build that skill yeah you see like what do you say to the people because i mean i know

00:21:24.960 there's people out there and like bro if they walk through this building they see that that type of

00:21:28.260 behavior they're like damn that's ocd right like what's the point of that it's not ocd it's making 0.95

00:21:33.960 an investment in my fucking own discipline like dude when i i walked out in the gym the other day there 0.99

00:21:39.420 was some guests here about 30 of them and the weights were all fucked up and i went over there and i 0.99

00:21:45.000 called them all together and i said hey look motherfuckers i know you guys are here and i know that you 0.99

00:21:49.640 fucking are excited to be here but we have a fucking standard here and the standard is this and i 0.99

00:21:54.120 explained the standard they all got it they did their shit the gym looked perfect okay i just gave 0.99

00:22:00.080 them a gift and awareness of to how detail oriented they aren't yeah you see what i'm saying and that 0.96

00:22:07.800 is the big picture right absolutely yeah so we have to you know look for opportunities to practice 0.94

00:22:13.060 discipline and detail orientation discipline and detail orientation the same fucking thing okay 0.90

00:22:18.160 the reason you're not detail oriented is because you're not disciplined to it all right and the 0.93

00:22:23.220 way you can practice discipline is by doing things that are inconvenient that'll force you to be detail

00:22:27.460 oriented does that make sense absolutely yeah absolutely so these two things are like very

00:22:32.620 parallel uh in nature and so when you could practice being detail oriented when when you have all kinds

00:22:39.260 of opportunity around you you could put put your chair uh at your desk the right way you know have your

00:22:44.920 car in order have your fucking house in order like there's there's ways to practice this all the time 0.97

00:22:49.600 and what the cool thing is is that when you practice these things your life is much more pleasant 0.99

00:22:53.980 so you know basically stop being a lazy fuck uh and start fucking looking for the details that you need 0.99

00:23:01.520 to fucking correct and correct them and over time you will become detail oriented in more areas of your 0.99

00:23:06.580 life over and over you know the more you exercise it yeah that's real dude i remember when we first 0.98

00:23:10.920 uh when i first got with you and we were doing a cardio walk over uh in grant park green park and uh 0.96

00:23:18.380 we were walking down the street and there was this fucking screw there and you had picked it up and 0.99

00:23:23.540 you know tossed to the side i'm like and my mom like okay all right and i after a couple of times 0.99

00:23:27.800 i see you do that i'm like why yeah and you said because bro i don't want that shit going to my tire 0.94

00:23:31.880 yeah so there's like a karmic response absolutely well yeah yeah also there is a karmic response to 0.99

00:23:37.560 that like i i try to fuck like if i see something that that is going to fuck with somebody else's day 0.99

00:23:42.540 i try to fucking save their fucking day right take the fucking screw out of the road it ain't that hard 1.00

00:23:47.180 i throw it in the fucking grass okay um that's simple shit but like that play like operating with 1.00

00:23:56.460 that belief system that if i do good things good things come to me and then also understanding that 1.00

00:24:01.460 even if they don't i just i just increase my ability to see details and be disciplined about 0.97

00:24:06.680 it yeah how the fuck do i lose right what do i lose why i lose half a fucking second spending over 0.98

00:24:12.680 to pick it up right you see what i'm saying like oh you're not willing to lose half a fucking second 0.98

00:24:17.420 to get better well then you ain't gonna get better guys are third i'm sorry can i hit on one more 0.81

00:24:23.340 thing because like dude there's just so much that i think goes into that man it's even like what

00:24:26.880 about the ripple effect bro like other people seeing that you know i'm saying like i know me

00:24:30.900 personally like i've had times because of like the the standards that you said they rub off of me

00:24:35.120 right and now i'm setting standards and when i see my family or my friends and i'm starting to do shit 0.74

00:24:39.660 certain ways and they're like why are you doing that that's weird yeah but then it turns into 0.58

00:24:43.240 now they're doing the exact same shit right like i mean there's just so many benefits from that i just

00:24:48.060 don't want i didn't want people to miss that part yeah that that's the whole concept of personal 0.97

00:24:52.220 excellence being the ultimate rebellion bro if you live the fucking high level of excellence and try to

00:24:57.120 live a high standard life other people are too and when we get other people doing it then other 0.86

00:25:02.620 people they know do it and that creates a ripple effect across society that creates a situation where 0.99

00:25:07.920 we aren't all dependent sick lazy unhealthy undereducated uh unaware fucking peasants and we can actually up 1.00

00:25:16.620 our standards and create a situation where these people's tricks and plays and fucking bullshit that they 1.00

00:25:23.340 run on society doesn't work anymore because we're too fucking smart for it we're independently capable 0.99

00:25:28.340 of providing for ourselves uh we're working in unison as a people not as black people white people 1.00

00:25:35.300 asian people this people that people like dude when when all that shit comes together these fuckers 1.00

00:25:40.820 can't fuck with us no and you know that's that's the whole point of my messaging that it's been this 1.00

00:25:45.760 way for the last however many years if we get better and we fucking raise our standards other people 0.99

00:25:51.960 raise their standards when other people raise their standards other people raise their standards 0.97

00:25:55.580 and so like dude you know people want to shit on that like every anytime i talk about that right 1.00

00:26:03.760 there's always an element of pushback oh all these words and no action blah blah blah motherfucker 1.00

00:26:10.220 you're the fat fuck that's sitting at home being a fucking lazy peasant who is unwilling to take care 1.00

00:26:18.000 and handle your own fucking responsibilities in life and this is why we are all where the fuck we 1.00

00:26:23.960 are so if you want to know where the problem starts it starts in the fucking mirror okay nobody's coming 1.00

00:26:30.040 along to fucking save you bro not only that your fat ass couldn't even fucking fight for your own 1.00

00:26:35.460 freedom if you had to so let's shut the fuck up about that too and let's start becoming higher level 1.00

00:26:40.500 fucking human beings so that maybe we can get the fuck out of this tyrannical bullshit that all of 1.00

00:26:46.480 humanity is fucking dealing with right now yeah no arguments there yeah i know 1.00

00:26:50.600 uh fucking fat hot pocket juice fucking sucking motherfucker in the basement of his mom's fucking 1.00

00:26:59.240 house talking about violent revolution bro you can't even fucking you look at you yeah you don't 1.00

00:27:05.600 even wait you look like a fucking marshmallow dude and you think you're some kind of a badass american 1.00

00:27:10.620 bro look in the fucking mirror yeah i'm not saying i'm the fucking baddest dude that's not what the 1.00

00:27:14.980 fuck i'm saying bro i'm a business guy i'm not a fucking jocko i'm not a fucking goggins i work hard 1.00

00:27:20.820 and keep these high levels so i can be good in business i'm not out here doing hard shit just to 0.99

00:27:25.220 do fucking hard shit but i do enough hard shit that keeps me at my standard very fucking high and that's 0.98

00:27:30.820 what we should all strive to it's not about being an ultra marathoner like fucking chad wright it's not 1.00

00:27:36.560 about running you know all day like fucking goggles does all day all day dude if that's your thing 0.98

00:27:42.360 that's your thing i get it uh and that's these guys are amazing by the way i'm not taking anything 0.98

00:27:47.000 away from them but i'm just saying we all have a higher level that is high enough to inspire others

00:27:52.860 bro and i like to think that i live to that fucking level yeah and i at least try to i try my best and 0.89

00:27:58.640 um these things that we're talking about are the things that make a difference you know it's it's those 0.99

00:28:04.840 people who talk that shit about oh all this words and no action and blah blah blah blah blah bro you 0.99

00:28:11.580 haven't done shit in fucking three years and before that three years you weren't doing shit 1.00

00:28:16.220 okay and you got motherfuckers out here trying to show you the light they'll show you the way and 1.00

00:28:21.480 you're so fucking hard work averse you can't even admit to the fact that you're part of the fucking 1.00

00:28:26.980 problem so i you know like fuck dude it is what it is you can't save everybody bro you can't 1.00

00:28:34.400 you can lead the horses to water but you can't force them to fucking drink yeah but i will say 1.00

00:28:39.260 this if you ain't gonna drink and you ain't gonna make yourself better shut the fuck up 0.98

00:28:43.260 thanks well guys andy our third and final question andy question number three 0.99

00:28:52.600 andy what is your exit plan i know you're in the business to die i will die one day that will be my 0.79

00:29:00.800 exit plan why don't you worry about before you even ask the question why don't this person worry 0.96

00:29:09.120 about building something before they worry about fucking exiting it that's the context yeah i know 0.96

00:29:13.800 because everybody wants to fucking exit and everybody wants a fucking hundred million dollar 0.97

00:29:17.540 payday and everybody wants 50 million dollars and everybody wants everybody wants everybody wants 1.00

00:29:21.720 everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to fucking die okay it's a fucking it's a stupid 1.00

00:29:27.700 ass fucking question to even think about what strategy i don't know i fucking have a heart 1.00

00:29:33.440 attack tomorrow fuck i don't know i don't know my exit strategy is i don't fucking know i'm gonna 1.00

00:29:38.880 do the best i can i'm gonna show up every day i'm gonna fucking put all the inputs in that i can 0.99

00:29:43.920 to be the best and wherever the fuck that takes me is where the fuck it takes me i don't worry about 0.96

00:29:49.240 exiting bro i like what i do i enjoy what i do i get to come here to fucking first form every single 0.99

00:29:54.340 fucking day and help people get better i get to help these employees get better they get to help 0.98

00:29:59.720 all these people change their fucking lives i get to do this fucking show that helps people get better 1.00

00:30:03.720 what the fuck am i going to exit from so i can sit around with a fuck a couple extra dollars bro i got 1.00

00:30:11.120 everything i want every fucking thing i want to have like bro i don't show you guys my life because 1.00

00:30:16.780 there's so much fucking bullshit out there and i'm going to on my new platform when i start doing 0.99

00:30:21.400 the ms ceo project but i don't show you guys the shit because a lot of you guys just don't 1.00

00:30:25.440 appreciate it you fucking say dumb ass shit every single time i fucking say show you anything you 1.00

00:30:30.900 got something to say about it you know but like i live a fucking awesome life there's nothing that i 1.00

00:30:35.480 would like to exit from at this point in time yeah is there more to the question no that's it 0.97

00:30:41.400 that's it dude you guys fucking worry about money with stress on that bro yes like you're not even 0.99

00:30:47.240 good at what you do yet you're not even good you haven't mastered the fucking play you don't know 1.00

00:30:52.960 what the fuck you're even capable of and you're talking about wanting to exit i want to exit i want 1.00

00:30:56.780 to exit i want to exit like bro starting a business for the purpose of exiting it is a is a 99.99999% 1.00

00:31:05.380 of the time going to get you kicking the fucking balls over and over and over again okay 0.99

00:31:09.280 businesses that exit to make money are good at what the fuck they do that means they're successful 0.99

00:31:15.040 that means they're so successful that they're attracting the attention of people with a lot 0.98

00:31:19.760 more fucking money than you to say we got to have that okay like your idea of creating this business 1.00

00:31:25.840 to uh you know trick some fucking company into buying it so you could sit on the fucking beach bro 1.00

00:31:32.760 there's too much competition for that it's not going to fucking work i get asked this question all the 0.98

00:31:38.340 time and the reason i'm answering it the reason i i'm a little fucking annoyed by it is because i feel 0.95

00:31:43.500 like that's the fucking thing that everybody focuses on well the reason that you focus on it 0.94

00:31:47.960 so hard is because you don't actually fucking know how to build a company that you enjoy operating 0.99

00:31:53.220 you don't know how to solve people's problems that you find fulfillment in okay i would i would 0.98

00:31:57.900 suggest you start there because dude you're gonna get if you built that and you could go to work every 0.99

00:32:03.400 day like you don't fuck it like it doesn't feel like work and you fucking enjoy it you wouldn't be 0.99

00:32:07.720 so worried about exiting it you know i'm saying i could sell this shit and walk the fuck away and be 1.00

00:32:12.140 fucking done for fucking ever forever i fucking like what i do i have to turn down exit plans 1.00

00:32:18.920 all the fucking time do you think too there's a part of that too bro where like people people's 0.99

00:32:25.000 understanding and comprehension of of how much money like like they can't comprehend how much money is 0.95

00:32:33.180 enough to actually live a life they're they're happy with where they don't have any needs or no most

00:32:37.840 people don't put any planning into their into their success route at all they they plan more

00:32:42.600 for the fucking weekend trip they're going to go on than they do where they're going to be in 5 10 0.98

00:32:47.040 20 years you know what i'm saying like they don't ever do the simple math like okay well this is the 0.99

00:32:53.800 lifestyle i'd like to live it's going to cost me this much money per year i'm going to live probably 0.80

00:32:58.760 this many more years so i need this much fucking money and then i account for inflation and i account 0.93

00:33:03.840 for the reduction of the value of my purchasing power which means if inflation rate is x percent 0.97

00:33:09.180 i have to have x percent more money at this at the top line to get through like nope not a single 0.99

00:33:15.000 motherfucker listening has fucking done that yeah we were just talking about this okay now maybe a 0.99

00:33:19.860 couple have yeah okay so for you fucking guys are gonna fucking email maybe a couple fucking did it 1.00

00:33:27.560 but the point is is that most people don't fucking do it and they will agonize over what they're going 0.99

00:33:33.520 to do this fucking weekend or this trip they're going to go on or this fucking van they're going 0.99

00:33:38.600 to ride around in or whatever the fuck it is that's on their mind more than they will all of that 1.00

00:33:43.180 okay and that shit matters yeah oh money doesn't matter yeah well come tell me how much money doesn't 0.99

00:33:49.220 matter when you don't fucking have any so you know it's you know and love is love bro come on man 1.00

00:33:57.560 that's fucking real though man i know that's real shit but like the thing is is like i just get 0.99

00:34:03.280 frustrated with some of these people because you know they worry so much about shit that's so fucking 0.99

00:34:08.700 far away from them that they don't focus on what needs to happen like that question probably came 0.98

00:34:15.800 from someone read the question what what is your exit plan i know you're in the business every day

00:34:21.620 culture and vision are more important than the money so how do you plan on exiting and what are you 0.97

00:34:26.080 doing to ensure the vision won't i plan on exiting when i fucking die 0.96

00:34:30.040 okay that question comes from the same person who asked the first question most likely or someone like 0.99

00:34:38.080 it who's a success zombie who hasn't actually jumped in and built shit when you're building something 0.96

00:34:44.280 you're passionate about when you enjoy what you do and you enjoy the people that you get to do it with 0.65

00:34:49.300 um i don't know if you guys have ever experienced the people here at first form but you should 0.99

00:34:54.380 because they're about the fucking baddest ass motherfuckers on the place on the face of the 0.99

00:34:58.580 fucking earth and i get to come in here every day and work with them coach them learn with them 1.00

00:35:03.700 fuck bro yeah what where can you buy that why would you want to go yeah yeah so like you know i can't 0.99

00:35:10.800 say that i would never fucking want to do something else i don't know what the future is going to hold 0.99

00:35:15.380 but while i'm here while i'm fucking here i'm going to come in every single day and execute to the best 0.96

00:35:21.580 of my fucking abilities knowing that the only way to truly win is to stack daily wings on top of each 0.97

00:35:28.220 other i don't necessarily agonize over where i'm going to end up because i know that if i continue 0.99

00:35:33.000 to win the day i'm going to end up in a great spot i put faith in there i put faith in that process 0.97

00:35:38.160 because it's real if you really logically break it down as a critical thinker how can you fucking lose 0.90

00:35:44.000 if you win every single day how can you not get where you want to go if you win every single

00:35:48.980 fucking day it's impossible it's the only way to win that i know is actually a guarantee for you to 0.86

00:35:55.980 fucking win and i actually give you the process the exact process for fucking free okay it's episode 0.98

00:36:02.180 number 16 in this right here real af feed it's not on video it's not on youtube it's on audio we just 0.98

00:36:08.680 started youtube fucking month ago okay go back and listen to it it gives you the exact 0.91

00:36:14.580 fucking process that i use and i give it to you for fucking free and it will allow you to understand 0.99

00:36:22.400 how if you win day by day by day by day by day that winning isn't something that you strive for 1.00

00:36:30.320 it becomes who the fuck you are like everything you do will be a win because you're winning every 1.00

00:36:35.620 single day and you'll mystify all your fucking friends all your friends be like fuck dude everything 1.00

00:36:40.820 this dude does is win well no shit bro because i come in every single day and i execute all the 1.00

00:36:46.340 shit that needs to happen for me to win there's no fucking magic to it it just looks magical from the 0.99

00:36:51.280 outside this is very logical day one win day two win day three win day four win day five win day six 0.99

00:37:02.900 i spent some time with the family we went to the bar and we had some drinks and shit we okay so i 0.83

00:37:07.780 didn't win day six day seven win okay even if you operate at that level where you win six out of

00:37:14.880 seven days okay let's do the math here you're winning at 85 percent of the time so if you did

00:37:22.500 that your fucking entire life over the course of the next let's just say 20 years and you won 85 percent 0.99

00:37:29.380 of the time that is about 90 percent more than any of your fucking friends will win maybe even more 0.99

00:37:36.580 than that maybe 99 more like that's how powerful it is it's a fucking massive deal so stop looking at 0.98

00:37:44.320 this as magic like oh one day i'm gonna fucking be this start breaking down what it is you want to 0.97

00:37:49.700 become executing it on on it just with the method i give you episode 16 go fucking listen to it go 0.99

00:37:57.460 apply it if you operate on that fucking system you cannot fucking lose will you have days that you lose 0.99

00:38:04.420 yes will you have days that you choose to lose because you want to do other shit yes but you'll 0.99

00:38:09.860 be able to clearly see how effective you actually are in real real time in real life you'll have a 1.00

00:38:16.220 fucking record of it right in front of your fucking face and don't fuck with the system and think you're 0.99

00:38:21.140 fucking smarter than it because you're not okay now when you go out and you grow and you do a lot 1.00

00:38:26.500 shit more than me and you fucking far surpass everything i've done i'll listen to you okay but 0.99

00:38:32.860 for right now that's the system and if you listen to it you won't fucking lose love it well guys any 0.99

00:38:40.240 that was three yeah don't be a hoe share the show went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box 1.00

00:38:47.080 froze fuck a bowl fuck a stove counted millions in the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll 1.00

00:38:54.120 can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed 1.00

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 16, 2023

458. Q&AF： Overcoming Being A Success Zombie, Becoming Detail Oriented & Exit Strategy

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 16, 2023

458. Q&#x26;AF： Overcoming Being A Success Zombie, Becoming Detail Oriented &#x26; Exit Strategy

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458. Q&AF： Overcoming Being A Success Zombie, Becoming Detail Oriented & Exit Strategy