REAL AF with Andy Frisella - January 30, 2023


464. Q&AF： The Role Of Luck In Success, Foundational Blocks In Business & Finding Like-Minded People


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In this episode of the show, Andy and Andi talk about how they met and fell in love with each other. They also talk about Andi's recent trip to Las Vegas and how it almost didn't happen.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
00:00:20.980 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
00:00:25.200 have q and af this is where you get to submit the questions and i give you the answers there's a
00:00:29.780 couple of ways that you could submit your questions uh first off you can email them guys email those
00:00:35.400 questions into ask andy at andy for seller.com or you could drop them in the comment sections under
00:00:40.580 the youtube episode the q and a youtube episodes a lot of you guys still aren't checking out the
00:00:44.440 youtubes a lot of people are liking them a lot of people are checking them out but if you drop your
00:00:49.500 comments on the show in there we'll pull some from there as well now if this is your first time
00:00:53.540 listening we do a number of different formats on the show today is a user submitted question and
00:00:58.700 answer type format uh by the way the questions could be about anything uh personal development
00:01:03.520 how to win business entrepreneurship what's going on in the world what do i think of this or that
00:01:09.540 really anything you want okay so there's no limitations to the questions that i'll answer
00:01:14.220 um but other times you'll have cti cti stands for cruise the internet that is our society current
00:01:21.260 event show where we put up headlines over here on the screen we analyze them we talk about them we
00:01:26.180 talk about what might be true what might not be true and then we uh have a few laughs making fun of
00:01:30.780 these dumb motherfuckers other times we have a real talk real talk is just five to 20 minutes 1.00
00:01:36.040 of me just giving you some shit that i think everybody needs to hear uh i do so from the place 0.93
00:01:42.140 of trying to help uh and then we have full length and full length is you know a full length episode
00:01:47.080 it's what you see on most every other podcast where it's a few people sitting around having a
00:01:51.040 conversation and uh that's what we do here now something about this show that uh we've always
00:01:57.500 done is we don't run ads on the show okay i don't fill your ears with 20 minutes worth of ads so i can
00:02:03.120 make some more money i have my own businesses i do very well uh and i don't like you guys questioning
00:02:09.720 whether or not what i'm saying i'm being told to say or not i try to keep the show as authentic as
00:02:14.920 possible so i don't really work with anybody that may change maybe somebody comes along that i like
00:02:18.860 to work with i don't know but for right now i don't do that and in exchange for that i ask that
00:02:23.860 you share the show so if you find value in the show if the show helps you if it gives you some good
00:02:28.820 tips if it made you think if it made you more aware if it gave you a new perspective uh if you
00:02:33.560 thought it was good if it entertained you please share the show that's all we ask a show only grows
00:02:38.840 if you share it uh we've grown a very very large show doing it that way and uh if we don't do a
00:02:46.100 good job don't share the fucking show it's that simple so with that being said what's going on 0.93
00:02:52.400 oh nothing much fucking keith got me over here doing the cha-cha slide and shit what do you mean 0.95
00:02:57.140 because he texted me like hey scoot to your right i'm like fuck i thought i wasn't like all right 0.95
00:03:03.100 to your left now i'm like what the fuck oh you don't have the cameras like on a little remote 0.97
00:03:06.040 controlled i thought we were like high tech bro don't they make like a little servo system that
00:03:11.860 can yeah we need to get something like that what the fuck keith i'm like cha-cha wrist no um i was 0.93
00:03:19.400 gonna actually though because somebody had actually uh had actually wrote in a q a question about
00:03:23.500 the advertisement uh scope yeah right and they're like no man like you know you would think that
00:03:30.440 andy would have some products or services or companies that he does support and like i'm trying to i'm
00:03:35.320 like there's a difference between a shameless plug and then being controlled by or having your
00:03:40.480 narrative completely controlled or having somebody else's input and you do shameless plugs all the
00:03:44.840 time that's fine but nobody's forcing you to do that right well i mean i plug my own shit right 0.58
00:03:50.560 yeah sure i mean why the fuck would i not talk about the amazing well that's the thing that'd be 0.58
00:03:55.460 undeniably great amazingly refreshing in fact hold on yeah in fact
00:03:59.400 what you got there
00:04:05.400 now i know we just said we didn't run ads on the show right this is definitely not an ad right it's
00:04:13.540 not an ad uh but why wouldn't i talk about this amazing orange sunrise first form energy drink
00:04:20.100 makes you feel good tastes good makes your other things do good you know
00:04:25.740 we need somebody to come on with that that voice reading the fine print real quick 0.59
00:04:34.160 see that motherfucker should be paying me for ads i'm so fucking good at it 0.98
00:04:40.060 all right yeah like shameless plugs are cool yeah as long as there's no shame exactly right right
00:04:47.580 shameful plugs that's different we try to stay away from gotcha yeah look man i i i've turned down
00:04:54.320 many offers bro i've turned down many seven figure offers what's the biggest one what's the craziest
00:04:58.780 one well i don't want to say the company but i got a i got an advertisement for i've had two
00:05:04.920 seven figure offers um early in the mfco project one was for shoes i don't wear right and one was
00:05:12.900 for whiskey i don't drink and and i can't do that yeah like i can't rep shit that i don't use people 0.92
00:05:19.380 know people know me yeah that's real like they know the fucking shoes i wear they know the fucking 0.98
00:05:24.300 whiskey i drank when i drank whiskey i haven't drank whiskey since 2018 but i can't do that it's not
00:05:31.280 it's not in me to do that i can't rep shit that i don't fucking believe in you see a 0.98
00:05:34.840 lot of those ncaa athletes doing that yeah like they jump to these yeah and i they jump to these
00:05:40.260 deals and it's like bro you don't like you don't even use that shit like come on now yeah and what 0.92
00:05:43.960 they don't realize is that by doing that you're you're discrediting your future brand so what
00:05:48.940 you're doing by repping shit that is not something that you truly believe in is that you are 0.84
00:05:54.540 discrediting yourself you know to the future consumers because they're going to see you jump from
00:05:59.420 this to that to this to that right all right and we see this in the influencer marketing game right
00:06:05.480 like we see influencers who will jump from brand to brand to brand back to this brand to this brand
00:06:11.500 and what they don't realize they're actually doing is that they're discrediting their own word with
00:06:17.240 their consumer so it's very it's just as important for an influencer to stay with a brand
00:06:22.720 as it is for a brand to stay with an influencer they need each other yeah and so you know a lot of
00:06:28.720 people ruin their credibility by by being someone who you know signs a year deal then the next year
00:06:33.800 they go over here and the next year they go over there and what you're showing your customer is is
00:06:37.920 that you're for sale your words for sale your recommendations for sale and you're teaching them
00:06:42.140 that they shouldn't listen to you yeah and it's something that a lot of these nil athletes and
00:06:46.800 internet influencers should really think about because the only thing that you ultimately have and the
00:06:51.780 only way you're able to make money doing these things is if people believe what the fuck you say
00:06:56.360 so yeah you know you have to be careful about that and a lot of influencers just fucking it goes 0.89
00:07:01.740 completely over their head yeah well i can make because like bro nobody's telling them that like
00:07:05.680 nobody's having that conversation but they don't a lot of them don't listen when you do tell them
00:07:09.140 yeah like it's just you know they know i'll show you yeah right and it's like okay well we'll see
00:07:13.640 where we're at in five years i'm thinking five years down ten years down the road for you you're
00:07:17.160 thinking fucking three months so you know it's if you're an influencer which a lot everybody is at 0.89
00:07:23.020 this point in time at some level you should be very discerning about what brands you work with and
00:07:28.100 you should be committed to working with those brands for a long term because the minute you
00:07:32.880 switch now you might be able to switch once okay but the minute you start that game of going from
00:07:37.780 here to here to here to here to here now you're someone that people won't buy from and then people
00:07:42.120 are confused or like well i'm i'm not able to sell as much as i used to well yeah bro because you
00:07:46.860 you fucking violated all the trust that you have with your community and they know that you're just 0.95
00:07:50.720 saying the shit because you're getting paid and that's not that's that's not good yeah yeah for sure
00:07:56.620 you know so it's important for the nil kids to really understand that shit like you know you guys 0.97
00:08:01.040 you guys who are college athletes that are listening to the show you know you have a lot of people out
00:08:05.780 there a lot of boosters offering you these nil deals and shit um you should be very discerning about
00:08:11.260 which ones you take and you should think long term not short term because the truth of the matter is
00:08:15.500 is you're only going to play sports for if you're great for 10 years max if you're great i mean and
00:08:23.040 you're a hall of famer you might get to play 15 years right you know 20 years like tom brady something
00:08:29.720 you know but like the likelihood is you ain't that great okay that's just the data that's the stats
00:08:36.000 all right and and i'm you know feel free to take my words and shove them down my throat okay 0.65
00:08:40.840 yeah i would appreciate it i'd be happy for you yeah but i'm just telling you the reality and so
00:08:46.460 you have to think long term what are you going to do post sports what are you going to do after sports
00:08:52.240 and you aren't you still going to want to have a solid word with your customer base so that you
00:08:56.400 can continue to do whatever it is that you do and profit from it yeah it's real so it's you know i see
00:09:02.220 a lot of that dude you know i'm happy that these guys in the nil can make some money i think it's
00:09:09.100 great for i think it's i think it's fair i think they should be allowed to you know the way that
00:09:13.200 the ncaa has been historically is fucking super bullshit um you know these colleges are making
00:09:19.360 fucking hundreds of millions of dollars billions of dollars off these fucking athletes and they 0.99
00:09:23.940 don't get shit but i still don't even think the nil system is the right way i think the system 0.85
00:09:28.420 should be they should get paid but it should go into some sort of annuity that they can utilize
00:09:33.900 or pay out over time once they're even done with that college career yeah because what we see now
00:09:39.760 is we see a lot of kids in college atmospheres getting too wrapped up becoming an influencer
00:09:45.760 with the nil deals and not enough on their game yeah sorry coach i can't come to practice that's what
00:09:50.260 i'm shooting this fucking head and shoulders video yeah bro and the thing is is like your game is 0.98
00:09:55.120 the part that pays the bills bro like if you you the nil deal is cool i'm happy for you but bro you
00:10:01.800 you got to put that aside and if we could take the money and put it in an annuity that they get later
00:10:06.180 they would focus more on their game now i know a lot of these guys are like fuck dad dude i want this 0.87
00:10:11.180 now look man i'm just trying to be a good big brother to you man right you know thank me later yeah
00:10:15.600 so well that's like a little extra sauce for people right there yeah there we go extra sauce
00:10:20.880 but uh i got i got some some some good ones for you all right i knew you did some good ones yeah
00:10:26.320 let's knock these out uh andy question number one first well first of all how you feeling
00:10:30.560 you're all good it's been a minute feel pretty good um yesterday i was able to complete a whole day
00:10:38.140 of like my 75 hard requirements i didn't i'm not i obviously failed this round and uh for those of
00:10:45.200 you that don't know i was fucking knocked the fuck down for a week like the sickest i've ever been as 0.99
00:10:50.800 an adult uh so i'm very frustrated that i failed that program because out of all the times i've done
00:10:56.920 75 hard that was the i had put the most intent into this round and um i'm gonna go ahead and you know
00:11:05.840 pick up where i left off and execute the rest of the days uh till i finish because i have a trip planned
00:11:12.340 for the end of right after that when i finish so i'm not going to start over um but i am going to
00:11:18.600 start over right when i get back from that trip so uh that's where i'm at but i'm going to execute
00:11:23.720 the right my my finish day was february 10th and i'm going to execute every day from here on out to
00:11:28.140 the best of my ability and just you know do what the fuck i set out to do you know i know that's 0.65
00:11:33.760 outside that regular rules are supposed to start out on day over on day one well guess what motherfuckers 1.00
00:11:38.520 um i haven't been on a trip in fucking uh 11 years so i'm going on the fucking trip yeah and 0.99
00:11:46.160 whatever the fuck you want to chatter about it it is what the fuck it is yeah so that's it um 0.60
00:11:52.980 it was good to see you man yeah i'm feeling good dude um you know laying around like that isn't good
00:11:59.300 for anybody no fuck no causes me so much anxiety and depression and like just uh you know like 0.92
00:12:08.960 you feel lonely like it's just fucking i think there's a universal signal you're sending out 0.93
00:12:13.520 saying i'm accepting this sickness and weakness yeah i don't know man i know this that uh i'm glad
00:12:20.780 to be fucking moving around yeah yeah all right let's get into these questions uh any question number 0.88
00:12:27.700 one okay in in the winning slash success equation okay what percentage do we should we leave to chance
00:12:39.400 or fate or god or the universe good thoughts on that as little as possible i mean look dude some of you
00:12:49.080 motherfuckers just don't fucking get it all right i'm gonna be real with you you think this is a 0.96
00:12:53.700 fucking easy thing to do you think that you have like time you think you have uh the time to take 0.88
00:12:59.580 it easy you think you could fucking coast through and you're still going to get where the fuck you go 0.92
00:13:04.220 and this is why nothing ever happens for you okay the the question that was asked right there
00:13:09.600 shows me that you don't fucking get it okay is god a factor is chance a factor is can luck be a factor 0.93
00:13:16.940 absolutely it can be but the minute you fucking think that you're going to rely on that to get you 0.90
00:13:21.960 across the line you're a fucking loser you're going to lose all right so you need to understand 0.98
00:13:28.240 that even the fucking shitty business that you see out there that you say oh that's a shitty business
00:13:35.300 those motherfuckers are a thousand times better than you already those people are working hard as 0.53
00:13:40.620 fuck those people have done things that you're not willing to do and they're doing things that you 0.96
00:13:44.780 aren't willing to do every single day to run that little shitty business that you think is shitty
00:13:49.320 okay you're so far off the fucking path you don't understand what the fuck it actually takes 0.94
00:13:54.840 it fucking takes everything and any motherfucker on the internet that tells you that doesn't 0.98
00:14:00.000 i can promise you they haven't built shit worth fucking admiring it's it's just the way it is
00:14:05.140 if you have people out there telling you oh take it easy oh blah blah blah look what they built
00:14:11.080 just look it ain't nothing okay so you need to come to terms with the understanding that
00:14:18.200 the job here to become successful to win is to control every single fucking element that you have
00:14:25.520 that can possibly be controlled which by the way is a hell of a lot more than you think
00:14:31.880 all right you can control so much in your life to create so much positive momentum and most people
00:14:38.340 can't even understand it because they're too busy waiting around to get lucky all right the reason
00:14:42.800 i don't talk about luck does luck exist of course it exists do i fucking talk about it no the reason 0.94
00:14:49.560 i don't talk about it because it's not something i rely on it's not something i count on if it shows
00:14:54.820 up fucking cool i'm gonna laugh i'm like man i fuck got lucky there but here's the reality the minute i 0.89
00:15:00.100 start saying luck is an actual part of the deal uh is the minute that half the people out here start
00:15:05.760 sitting around they say see he got fucking lucky see that guy he got lucky i don't get lucky and 0.85
00:15:11.400 y'all fucking go and live your loser fucking lives okay so i'm trying to protect you from your own 0.99
00:15:15.680 fucking stupid ass thinking so here's the reality you control what you put in your brain you control 0.96
00:15:22.020 what kind of exercise you do you control what you put in your mouth you control how you treat people
00:15:27.240 you control the personal development that you commit to you control the actions that you take day in
00:15:32.940 day out you control all of these things that you choose not to control and you say oh it's just up
00:15:39.060 to god it is up to god but god doesn't reward motherfuckers that sit on their ass i can promise 1.00
00:15:45.240 you that and it's biblical and it talks about it in the bible all right so i hate questions like that
00:15:51.440 because it shows that that person is literally waiting around for something to happen for them to
00:15:57.900 get where they're wanting to go and that person will lose their entire life period yeah absolutely
00:16:02.440 period if you fucking wait around for the stars to align or for god to reach down and help you or for 0.92
00:16:09.980 the fucking luck you know lucky charms dude to come hit you on the head and make you lucky you're a 0.93
00:16:15.040 fucking loser and you will lose forever you will lose forever okay nobody that's built anything that 0.99
00:16:21.880 you want to build lives like that they live with urgency every single day they execute every single
00:16:29.080 day they execute when they don't fucking feel like it do you think i really fucking feel like being here 0.91
00:16:34.020 right now i've been sick for a week and a half in fucking bed i do not fucking feel like being here 0.98
00:16:39.600 right now but guess what i'm fucking here okay that's what the fuck it takes bro and that's reality and 0.97
00:16:47.020 people are confused by this they the success has become such a like there's so many people on the
00:16:53.900 internet pretending to be successful okay talking about shit that's bullshit lying about their own 0.77
00:17:01.760 success pretending to be some sort of coach that people have now they now think this is just like the
00:17:09.420 diet pill situation with weight loss okay for 20 fucking years they they ran these commercials and i 0.97
00:17:16.440 actually just heard one from another company here in st louis you know you don't have to do any work
00:17:22.080 and you don't have to uh go on a diet you don't have to exercise you don't have to do this you don't
00:17:26.860 have to do this just take this pill okay that was the marketing for fucking 30 years in the diet 0.93
00:17:33.080 industry all right and you know what happened it ruined millions of people and here's why because
00:17:41.140 people who are overweight who don't understand and aren't told the truth that it's actually going
00:17:46.900 to take some fucking discomfort you're going to have to work you're going to have to learn some 0.93
00:17:51.520 discipline and these actual truths to getting in shape what they do is they will go from pill to
00:17:58.400 pill to pill to pill to pill and when none of them worked you know who they blamed they blame
00:18:04.120 themselves they say well fuck i guess i just don't have it i guess i just don't i don't have what it 0.78
00:18:09.440 takes to lose weight i guess i'm just a fat fuck and people give up okay and so when it comes to 0.84
00:18:16.480 success that same thing is happening right now in the success landscape you have a bunch of fucking 0.94
00:18:22.020 idiots who got an instagram account who haven't built shit talking about all this shit that they 0.97
00:18:27.880 haven't done telling these people that they're ultra successful when they're not okay and what's
00:18:34.160 happening is these people are seeing this and they're seeing these young people do this and
00:18:39.440 they're seeing this guy do this and they're seeing this girl do this and they're seeing this person do
00:18:43.000 this and what ends up happening is because they don't realize that these people are 98 percent full
00:18:49.180 of shit they start to blame themselves as to why it's not happening for them okay and what ends up 0.69
00:18:55.040 happening is because they didn't accept the mindset of aggressive patience where you have to fucking work 0.91
00:19:01.620 hard every motherfucking day and it's still going to take you five ten years minimum all right instead 0.83
00:19:07.100 of accepting that and understanding that instead of understanding how important discipline is to
00:19:12.520 accomplishing these personal goals and professional goals in your life instead of working to cultivate
00:19:17.860 discipline and suffering so that you can have this skill set intentionally what ends up happening is
00:19:23.780 they end up giving up and they give up because nobody's telling them the truth of what it actually
00:19:28.140 takes they're making it seem like it's fucking easy work from home and sit on my ass seven hours a day 0.98
00:19:35.660 uh you know fucking just run this internet program that i made and you'll make millions of dollars in 0.92
00:19:43.100 12 fucking days like bro that shit ruins people because it's teaching people that they are the problem 0.98
00:19:50.180 versus making them understand what they have to become to actually be who they want to be yeah okay and
00:19:56.480 that's a fucking bullshit way to be if you're a coach and you do that fuck you because you're ruining 0.99
00:20:01.260 people you're ruining people okay the truth of the matter is this it's hard it takes a long fucking 0.96
00:20:08.680 time you're gonna have to show up when you don't fucking feel like it and you're gonna have to do that 0.89
00:20:12.940 for fucking years that's reality you're gonna fall on your face in front of all your friends and family 0.92
00:20:17.500 you're gonna look like a fucking idiot you're gonna be embarrassed but if you're smart you'll learn how to not 0.66
00:20:22.420 do that more than once or twice and if you have the uh fortitude to continue to move down the path
00:20:28.100 you will start to learn understand how this works but the reality of it is is that most of the shit
00:20:33.620 is just marketing for people who are trying to take your money and get you to believe that you can be
00:20:39.680 fucking rich in 12 fucking days when you can't there's no fucking way all right you guys can fucking 0.98
00:20:46.560 hammer it out in the comments and think i don't know what the fuck i'm talking about but 0.93
00:20:50.060 uh let's go compare my results to their results and i'm perfectly confident with that with fucking 0.92
00:20:56.820 anybody on the internet okay i know what the fuck i'm talking about this is hard as fuck i'm pretty 0.95
00:21:03.320 seasoned entrepreneur i've been doing it 24 years day in and day out it's hard as fuck for me man i have 0.76
00:21:08.560 days where i want to quit in fact today i wanted to quit all right today and you can vouch for this
00:21:14.480 did i not cancel the recordings earlier today recordings were canceled at what like 10 yeah
00:21:19.420 yeah and what happened 10 30 i got my fucking ass up yeah and i fucking came here and i said 0.99
00:21:24.640 fuck that i'm not going to be a fucking bitch and i'm not letting these guys down i'm here today 1.00
00:21:28.780 because i'm not letting you motherfuckers down and that's the attitude you have to have to win 0.96
00:21:33.520 okay so you can listen to all these motherfuckers you can fucking keep believing that there's a fucking
00:21:39.320 diet pill it's going to make you lose a thousand pounds in a fucking day okay but i can promise you at 0.95
00:21:44.540 the end of this whole journey that you're going to go on to prove me wrong you're going to be in the
00:21:48.060 exact same place or worse and that goes with every single person out there trying to build something
00:21:53.680 you're better off committing to building yourself into a fucking machine okay of execution someone 0.84
00:22:00.660 who has strong levels of discipline this is why i created the fucking live hard program the 75 hard 0.95
00:22:05.780 program it's because when you create the discipline and you create the ability to endure and you learn
00:22:11.900 these things about yourself and you build your confidence up now you're the person who can go
00:22:17.420 execute for the next five years day in and day out when every other motherfucker is out there 0.93
00:22:23.540 looking at the fucking 19 year old life coach lying his ass off about what the fuck he's done 0.86
00:22:28.220 yeah okay it puts you at an extreme advantage and here's the thing you are in control of this 100
00:22:35.480 you are in control of it there's no fucking magic there's no luck to the work you put into yourself 0.69
00:22:41.280 it's a fucking grind you're going to be uncomfortable but if you push through you'll become someone that 0.54
00:22:47.740 can do things that other people can't and that's what you have to become to build anything that you
00:22:53.480 would admire as relevant that's the reality so let's talk about the god aspect of it okay i believe in
00:23:00.960 god but here's what i also believe and it's written in the bible that god does not reward people who are
00:23:06.740 lazy he rewards people who work he rewards people who treat people good he report rewards people who
00:23:12.240 make the effort to be better every single day says so in the fucking bible bro you haven't read it so 0.97
00:23:18.460 you don't know okay but here's the reality people people think that prayer doesn't work and that god
00:23:24.660 doesn't work no dude you're not doing your part yeah there's another half of that equation yes you're not
00:23:30.200 doing your part yeah you have to do your part you should look at it like a 50 deal like i'm gonna
00:23:36.860 pray i'm gonna hope that i get and i'm gonna do all these things to do the best i can be the best
00:23:41.900 kind of person i can and hopefully god will give me a little little help and that's the way that i
00:23:47.280 found it to work over the course of my life all right when i sat around i was lazy as fuck guess 0.70
00:23:52.420 what nothing happened doesn't matter how hard i pray but i tell you what whenever i was praying
00:23:58.260 and i was doing everything i can do things went a little faster than they did without it yeah so
00:24:03.740 that's that's the point you know you got a lot of people a lot of people will hide behind god
00:24:10.380 they will say oh you know what god wants me to be meek humble and this little bitty version of
00:24:16.280 myself bro ask yourself this what do you want for your own kids what do you want do you want your
00:24:23.180 kids to be poor broke stupid lazy and then hide and say oh i'm just humble or or do you want your 0.82
00:24:32.020 kids to go out accept that they have this ability to work very hard and improve themselves and along
00:24:38.500 the way lift other people up to improve themselves what would make you more proud as a parent
00:24:44.120 that's how god thinks about it too that's my opinion no so this ain't fucking easy there's nothing 0.52
00:24:52.700 easy about what we're talking about here it's hard and it's hard for everybody and it's anybody out
00:24:58.440 there pretending that it isn't hard is just pretending to be so skilled that it's easy for
00:25:03.500 them so that they will take your money i'm telling you right here compare my shit to any one of those 0.77
00:25:08.360 motherfuckers i'm telling you it's hard and it's hard for me it's hard every motherfucking day 0.92
00:25:13.020 it never gets easier the only way it gets easier is when you get better skills
00:25:16.620 love it man love it and question number two let's build off of it okay so i'm uh this person is on
00:25:24.740 he wants to become an entrepreneur okay uh the question is andy if i'm going to start a business
00:25:29.940 today okay outside of hard work discipline those things what are some fundamental foundation blocks
00:25:35.980 that i need to know up front before i even get started there aren't any you need to get started
00:25:41.700 okay what what you're going to do is you're going to sit there and you're i'm going to tell you the
00:25:46.540 foundational blocks and then you're going to think there's more foundational blocks that i didn't tell
00:25:50.360 you okay and then you're going to go read some more shit and you're going to go listen you know
00:25:54.140 andy said it's only this and this and this but what does ed think what does gary think what is what
00:25:59.920 so and so think right and they're going to you're going to go around you're going to keep searching
00:26:04.000 for this perfect little plan that that doesn't exist okay so here's my suggestion start and then
00:26:12.040 figure out what the foundation is for yourself but here's what i will tell you i'll give you a
00:26:16.300 free hack um learn to be disciplined yeah build discipline build discipline build fortitude build
00:26:23.640 grit build the ability to endure build confidence build self-esteem 75 hard and live hard okay
00:26:31.560 that's a shameless plug right there bro but the only reason it's shameless is because that's the
00:26:35.760 fucking truth yeah you can go much further with those skills than you can without them second
00:26:40.200 thing that you should do you should go back and listen to my last q and a f where i talked about
00:26:44.900 what i did to become able to maintain to build relationships with people i didn't know how did
00:26:51.600 i get comfortable being an extrovert combine those two foundational blocks motherfucker and you got 0.64
00:26:56.100 everything you need merry christmas all right yeah and you don't even need those because i didn't
00:27:01.040 have them when i started those are things i learned at 15 16 17 years in yeah all right so there's no
00:27:09.660 excuse for you to not start there's been lots of people that are just as uneducated and unaware as you
00:27:15.540 that have started and become everything that they dreamed of becoming because entrepreneurship is not
00:27:21.820 about having the fucking plan it's about figuring it out as you go and most people want to have the 0.91
00:27:27.420 plan they want to know every detail they want to know what it's going to take they want to know how
00:27:31.420 many hours a day it's going to take they want to know what money motherfucker it's going to take 0.99
00:27:35.860 everything it's going to take everything so just understand it's going to take everything you fucking 0.99
00:27:41.340 got for as long as you're in it and understand that's what you're signing up for and if you
00:27:46.000 understand that you'll be successful if you think anything less than that you won't be you'll get
00:27:50.280 crushed because there's enough people in the game, whatever path you choose, whatever industry you
00:27:55.920 decide to get into, there's enough people in those industries, in those games that are giving
00:28:01.220 everything. I give everything, bro. I'm in this. This is my 24th year. I give it fucking everything.
00:28:10.660 Okay. If you're not willing to give that, how can you compete when there's people like that
00:28:14.700 in every industry? And by the way, in my industry, there's a whole bunch of motherfuckers that do 1.00
00:28:18.660 that. I had the only one. And that's the same for every industry. It's everything, dude.
00:28:25.440 Let me ask you this. Have you found that? Entrepreneurship is not a fucking job.
00:28:29.220 Yeah. It's not a fucking job. It's a fucking complete lifestyle. It's all the time. Everywhere
00:28:35.480 you go, you're never off. You never clock out. There's no, there is no, you could go on vacation
00:28:40.380 and you're going to see someone who recognizes you or knows you, and you're going to have to do
00:28:44.760 business. It never ends. It's a full commitment. It's a lifestyle. Yeah. That's what I'm saying.
00:28:51.000 Like, can we just get rid of this notion now? Have you found that 24 years in you're giving
00:28:55.500 more now than you did? No question. 24 years ago. No question. And you know why I give more now
00:29:00.300 and why, why I progressively gave more because my purpose is no longer myself. My, when your purpose
00:29:07.440 is other people and bigger causes, you give more when your purpose is yourself, you give less.
00:29:12.260 Okay. So I figured out just like I said a minute ago, the reason I'm here today is not for me.
00:29:19.500 Okay. I don't have to fucking continue to do any of the shit that I do, but the reason I'm here
00:29:24.980 today is because I owe it to you, you, you five dudes sitting right here who worked their ass off
00:29:31.140 every motherfucking day to come in and produce this show and put it out. You see what I'm saying?
00:29:36.420 Now, if I was doing it for me, I would say, fuck that. I don't, I don't fucking care. I'm going to
00:29:42.440 stay at home today. You don't need it. Yeah. Yeah. You see what I'm saying? So that's, and the other
00:29:47.440 thing is, the other reason I go harder now is because I understand the game so well and how it
00:29:52.060 works. I know that if I like, if I could put a little more in, I know what I'm going to get out
00:29:55.940 on the backside. So it gets me excited too. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, for sure.
00:29:59.920 But a dude, it's never easy. It's never fucking easy. Like, dude, I couldn't tell you the last day
00:30:06.400 I had that was easy. Like, it's not, and I'm not just saying that for like sound tough or whatever,
00:30:13.840 bro. I'm a fucking pussy, bro. Okay. Like, let's be real. I'm not a fucking Goggins. I'm not fucking
00:30:18.860 Jocko. I didn't fucking go do this shit. The reason I got to do live hard and 75 hard every day,
00:30:23.460 all the time and consistent throughout my life is because I'm not that tough. I have to work hard. I have to
00:30:28.720 give what the fuck I have. Okay. Like that's, that's me being aware of my skillset and understanding
00:30:34.760 what I have to do to play on the level that I'm on. You see what I'm saying? It's required. Yeah.
00:30:39.660 It's required shit. Like I'm competing against every single day, motherfuckers that are much 0.59
00:30:44.480 smarter than me that are more well-funded than me. You know, like when I look at my competition,
00:30:49.160 I don't, I'm looking at fucking Nike, bro. I'm not like, like you guys all think, Oh, the first
00:30:54.640 forums, the biggest motherfucker. We haven't done shit yet. Like, that's not how I
00:30:58.700 look at it. I look at it like, fuck dude. We're like a booger on their fucking nose.
00:31:02.640 We got a long way to go. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. For sure. So there's no like,
00:31:07.320 which people think when I say this shit that I'm being some sort of tough guy, I'm not
00:31:12.820 fucking bro. I'm just telling you the truth. Yeah. I'm just telling you what the fuck it
00:31:16.600 takes. That's the truth. Unless you have a bunch of gifts that I don't have, which you
00:31:22.020 may, but I didn't have them. I'm just telling you what it took for me and you guys can fucking
00:31:26.500 judge that however the fuck you want. You know, I see comments sometimes. This guy
00:31:29.840 fucking thinks he's a bad. No, actually the reason that I do all this shit is because I
00:31:33.820 know I'm not a bad-ass get it. Right. Like that's why the fuck I do it. If I thought I
00:31:38.340 was so fucking bad-ass, why the fuck would I do it? Exactly. Exactly. I love it, man.
00:31:44.160 It's necessity, bro. It's required work for me, somebody who doesn't really possess anything
00:31:48.480 special to operate on the level that I'm at. That's what it takes. I assume that most of
00:31:54.360 you are similar to me. You probably come from regular places. You probably come from regular
00:31:59.080 families. You probably have fucked up shit happened to you in your life. You probably
00:32:03.180 fucking struggle with most everything. That's who, that's the kind of person I am. I'm not
00:32:08.100 a fucking quote unquote gifted winner. Like I've, my winning has come from me having to
00:32:15.160 fucking get my ass beat and learn enough and then constantly make the commitment into getting 0.97
00:32:20.460 better every single day, you know, over the course of decades. Yeah. So like I, and that's
00:32:25.760 why I'm, that's why I get so irritated, dude, when I talk, cause it's like, motherfucker,
00:32:28.880 I know what you can do. Yeah. You know how I know what you could do because I was just
00:32:32.280 like you and I fucking did it. So it's not like this tough guy shit. It's just, I'm trying
00:32:37.520 to tell you and shake you and say, Hey motherfucker, quit looking for that fucking easy route and 0.98
00:32:41.900 just accept this route because this is the short route. This is the route that's going to
00:32:45.220 get you the fastest. It's kind of funny. Cause you were saying that I was thinking
00:32:48.000 about that quote, you know, people say like, Oh, I was just too stupid to quit.
00:32:51.060 That's it. That was it. Well, dude, for me, it wasn't stupidity. It was, I didn't have
00:32:56.020 other options. Okay. I don't, I didn't have a choice. All right. Now I was stupid, but I'm
00:33:02.500 just saying like eventually in business, you like even today, bro, that's still drives me
00:33:08.280 like that, that mentality of zero option mentality. Like I don't have a choice, bro, because I know
00:33:14.040 that if everything crumbles, I don't have anything to fall back on. Now, now that that's a lie
00:33:18.980 now, right? Like if everything fucking went away, I have the skills to rebuild shit. I can rebuild
00:33:25.020 it and I can rebuild multiple different things any way I wanted to. But, but the point is,
00:33:31.020 as I keep it in me on purpose because it keeps me moving and it keeps me driven and it keeps
00:33:36.140 me effective. And, uh, you know, I think that you guys just need to quit looking for these
00:33:41.520 fucking shortcuts, bro. And realize that the shortest shortcut is you investing in your
00:33:46.500 discipline, uh, investing in your people skills, getting fucking started and then figuring it 0.91
00:33:51.700 out on the way. That's, that's how, that's how the fuck you do it. You know, analyzing for
00:33:55.740 the proper schematics. Yeah. Like, and then it compared, let me compare what so-and-so said
00:34:02.240 to so-and-so and so-and-so. Bro, the reason that everybody has different things to say is
00:34:06.140 because there's so many different ways to fucking get it done, but they all require the same 0.83
00:34:10.760 shit. Yeah. They require you moving and doing shit. Yeah. That's real, man. Well, guys,
00:34:20.120 Andy, our third and final question, question number three, Andy, I am 37 years old and I
00:34:25.640 literally have no real friends that I can relate to. As a child, I moved around a lot. So I never
00:34:30.920 really made great friendships growing up. Now, as an adult, I struggle with making friendships.
00:34:35.560 I've spent the last seven years pouring into my personal development and I feel like I've
00:34:40.040 reinvented myself and would like to go out and meet like-minded people, but I don't know where
00:34:45.160 to really start. How would I go about finding like-minded people that I can build relationships
00:34:49.540 with? Well, fuck man. I mean, we've only have the most connected universe that we've ever had in
00:34:56.880 eternity. It's not that hard. You know, it's hard because you're saying it's hard. It's not that
00:35:02.300 hard. What are you interested in? Oh, you're clearly interested in personal development. There's
00:35:07.120 whole entire cultures built around personal development. I happen to run one, Arte Syndicate.
00:35:12.040 It's massive fucking culture there, but there's plenty of others as well. Are you interested in
00:35:17.780 fitness? Fitness has a great culture. There's lots of people that you can meet, you know, like there's
00:35:22.520 groups that you can join that, you know, like a lot of people come into Arte and they join the group
00:35:28.280 and they start learning shit. And then all of a sudden, like some of their best friends become people
00:35:31.860 who are in Arte. And now you've got some great friends that are aligned with you on what it is that
00:35:35.500 you want. You know, I can empathize with this question because, you know, I had a lot of friends
00:35:40.240 when I started my business. And as my business progressed, I had less and less friends. And I
00:35:45.900 went through this phase where what he's talking about, right around his same age too, where I felt
00:35:51.160 like I had no friends. And the reason I felt like I had no friends is because my priorities in my life
00:35:56.580 were not aligned with what my old friends' lives were. And that's not a knock on them. I still love
00:36:04.180 them. They're great friends, but like you feel lonely when you're the only one on a certain path.
00:36:09.120 Right. So I think it's important for you to recognize that you need to be friends with people
00:36:13.580 who are on your path. So you have shit in common to talk about. Like I got to a certain point in
00:36:19.560 business where I would go to dinner with old friends and like, we'd start, they'd say, well,
00:36:22.580 how's business going? I started talking about it and they perceive it as bragging.
00:36:25.920 Right. Okay. Well, I'm just, you just fucking ask me, bro. I'm just telling you.
00:36:29.360 Right. You know, so it's very hard to have genuine relationships with people that aren't
00:36:33.920 on the same path as you. So I would suggest looking into some groups that you are interested
00:36:38.380 in. Maybe you're into motorcycles, join a motorcycle group. Maybe you're into fitness,
00:36:42.240 join a fucking fit, join a gym, uh, you know, start following some of the fitness hashtags.
00:36:46.940 You know, I like, there's lots of ways to meet people, bro. And like, you know, if you want to
00:36:51.180 meet people online, don't be a fucking creep. Like don't be sending fucking DMs being like,
00:36:55.260 oh yeah, I saw you. And, uh, we, I wanted to be friend, be your friend. Like that's not,
00:36:59.000 like, that's not, that's not how the fuck it works, bro. You get engaged in a comment section,
00:37:03.820 you know, start supporting them. They show you some love back and you kind of let it foster from
00:37:08.340 there. But I empathize with this guy because like, dude, I went through that phase two and it
00:37:12.580 fucking sucks. Let me ask you this. Would you say to like, I feel like you had mentioned we're more
00:37:18.880 connected now than ever, but I think that's also, there's a detriment there though, right? Like
00:37:22.640 we are connected, but we're still not in reality. Not exactly. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. I think that's
00:37:27.840 important. Why that's why it's important to, you know, I'm talking about actually making the,
00:37:31.620 the, the introduction initial has never been easier, but the actual fostering the regular
00:37:36.100 real relationship has actually never been harder. So I could get that, you know, important thing to
00:37:40.880 remember to an entrepreneurship, personal development is there's that saying, you know,
00:37:45.340 it's only at the top. Okay. Motherfucker. Are you at the top? Do you know, are you up there?
00:37:52.000 How's the weather up there? Right. Right. Right. You don't fucking know if it's lonely at the top
00:37:56.320 because you ain't at the fucking top. You're just repeating some shit that somebody else said. 0.90
00:38:00.380 So let me tell you how it actually works. When you start out, you got lots of friends and then you
00:38:05.760 go down this path and you get to a point where, you know, your friends are like, man, you're obsessed
00:38:11.340 or man, what, you know, when you get a real job, like they told me, or when you're going to give up on
00:38:15.980 these dreams and they start pulling you back. So you fucking cut them loose and you keep going down the
00:38:21.340 path and you find yourself here. Okay. And you find some success, you built some things,
00:38:26.540 you're doing okay. And you're like, fuck, it's true. It's lonely at the top. No, motherfucker,
00:38:33.060 you are misjudging the top. You are in the middle of a phase. Okay. Cause your, your business is not
00:38:40.180 number one in the world. You're not the fucking top. You're in a phase. You have outgrown your
00:38:45.680 original friends and you have yet to connect with the friends at the next level. Okay. I call this
00:38:50.560 no man's land. Entrepreneurs spend a lot of time in no man's land because they, they, they are
00:38:55.800 constantly leveling up. Now, what will happen is if you keep going, you will end up aligning with a
00:39:01.020 group of people who are all on the same path as you and your friendships will be far more rewarding,
00:39:06.160 uh, way more fun, just better in general in every single way. Okay. And you'll have a healthier,
00:39:13.620 happier group of friends because everybody's aligned. All right. But what, but, but here's
00:39:18.580 what happens again. Right. So if you want to fucking level up and you want to keep going,
00:39:22.180 shift that right over here and it works the exact same way. Again, you start out growing these,
00:39:27.820 these first tier success friends. All right. And the difference is these first tier success friends
00:39:33.820 usually don't hate on you for trying to get bigger. They usually support you. Yeah. So it
00:39:37.620 actually doesn't, it's not the same in the beginning, only in the beginning do they hate,
00:39:41.880 but they might get a little jealous, but in general they'll support you because they think it's cool
00:39:46.200 and it's inspiring. Right. But you'll find yourself a little bit detached from these guys
00:39:50.780 and not quite on this level yet. Right. And the process will repeat and that process will repeat
00:39:57.620 as long as you want to go until you find yourself with Elon Musk at fucking dinner. Yeah. Okay. Like
00:40:03.100 that's where the fuck it ends. Yeah. But at the end of the day, man, you know,
00:40:07.240 that saying is total bullshit. Yeah. And anybody who says it doesn't know what the fuck they're
00:40:11.120 talking about. Nor are they there. No, they're fucked. No, they're not there. Look at their
00:40:14.340 fucking life, bro. You're in your mom's basement. You never hear, you never, ever hear someone truly
00:40:22.120 successful say that fucking saying. They don't fucking say it because it ain't true. You only hear people
00:40:27.240 who have quit on their own dreams, their own desires, their own things that they've wanted
00:40:33.380 their entire life. Okay. And given up, that's who you hear it from. And they use it as an excuse.
00:40:38.760 Just like I mentioned a couple of questions ago about how people hide behind God for the reason
00:40:43.160 why they don't do shit. Um, those people will use this as an excuse and be like, you know what?
00:40:48.540 I did that. It was so lonely at the top. I'd, I'd rather have great friends. You don't even know
00:40:54.040 what great friends are because you haven't earned the great friends. When you go through this
00:40:58.200 process, bro, these people in the first, at the beginning, these are just motherfuckers you hang 0.95
00:41:01.960 out with. These are people that you can tolerate. These are people that you drink beer with or smoke
00:41:07.080 weed with and you have a good time. Yeah. Okay. They're not your fucking real friends. Those people
00:41:12.300 aren't supporting you. They're not helping you. They're not making calls on your behalf. They're not
00:41:16.080 fucking helping you finance your next business. They're not, these, those are not your fucking
00:41:20.480 friends, bro. In fact, they're asking, why aren't you showing up to drink? Why aren't you showing
00:41:25.520 up to smoke this and that? You know, like they're, they're pulling you back. Okay. So you have to
00:41:31.560 understand your real friends. You haven't even met them yet because you're real friends. You have to
00:41:36.640 go through this fucking no man's land to find the people that you truly align with that will help you 0.67
00:41:42.120 progress your life. And that's, that's the thing. So like, you know, don't tell me about friends
00:41:47.260 when you ain't even had any yet. Well, guys, that was, that's the show, man. Yeah. That was three.
00:41:52.460 Don't pay the fee. Yep. Don't be a hoe. Share the show. 1.00
00:41:55.800 Went from sleeping on the floor. Now my jewelry box froze. Fuck a pole. Fuck a stove. Counted millions 1.00
00:42:01.860 in the cold. Bad bitch. Booty swole. Got her on bankroll. Can't fold. Doesn't know. Headshot. Case closed. 1.00