REAL AF with Andy Frisella - June 19, 2023


534. Q&AF： Solving Russian⧸Ukraine Conflict, Starting With Personal Development & Earning Passive Income


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In this episode of the Q&A show, Andi and Andi talk about the birth of their son and how it went. Andi also talks about his labor and delivery experience and how he almost didn t make it to the delivery room in time for the delivery.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
00:00:20.980 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
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00:02:35.300 anyway what's up what's going on i'm still trying to get my voice back yeah it's it's sounding a lot
00:02:41.880 better dude i can't believe it's been over a week yeah it's still fucked up yeah well i mean dude 0.94
00:02:46.760 talking to 4 000 people will do that yeah no matter it was worth it though oh well no doubt
00:02:51.340 no doubt man but uh yeah no everything's good man uh what you got going on quite a lot huh yeah
00:02:56.980 quite dude there's a lot yeah there is a lot and about to be a another another little uh member to
00:03:02.480 the to the family huh it's a little johnson tribe yeah yeah yeah it's growing we had a little labor
00:03:07.520 scare last night it's common it happens bro i he he texts me uh dj text me what it was like 12 30
00:03:14.400 yeah like saying hey man i think i might be having this baby i didn't i woke up late because
00:03:18.960 i've been fucking exhausted and uh bro i thought we were gonna have a baby man yeah yeah same i'm 0.88
00:03:24.800 like fuck all right yeah same but uh a little fake out huh yeah a little fake out man here's an 0.79
00:03:30.760 interesting thing uh so you know usually how these situations work i'll go quickly but how these
00:03:36.080 situations work you get to the hospital and check in now if it's overnight outside of normal business
00:03:40.880 hours your actual delivery doctor your ob who you spent you know months meeting with talking with
00:03:47.020 you know they're asleep right it's middle of the night so you know you're left with a doctor for
00:03:51.260 the first initial couple hours that you've never met um and so we had a doctor that we never met
00:03:57.140 um and i could tell immediately when he walked in something was gonna be wrong okay um he seems he was
00:04:04.760 like a i would assume that he's from india okay um but he walks in he has his chest hair all out i'm
00:04:11.680 like okay that's cool and then i see the glasses little hamburger meat yeah a little hamburger you
00:04:16.960 know it's fine but his glasses were leopard print at the top with pink frames and i said oh man he
00:04:23.360 don't listen to the show oh man here we go you know i'm saying so he's sitting there talking and
00:04:27.880 you know there's this whole thing because alex and i are not married yet right there's very little
00:04:33.260 opinion that they want to hear from baby daddy um which neither here nor there it's whatever
00:04:39.180 um but he's sitting there talking to alex and he's i'm hearing the language that he's using
00:04:44.040 and you know she's asking alex about her contractions and pain she's giving him feedback
00:04:49.100 and he's like yeah you know some people have different contraction pain i'm i'm but like how
00:04:54.580 he emphasized people in my mind i said oh shit this is one of those fucking guys 0.98
00:04:58.740 like like legitimately what guys like the people that think people you know all men men can have
00:05:05.640 babies yeah okay well men cannot have babies no they can't right well he didn't come back in the 1.00
00:05:10.120 room uh we're not playing that shit yeah so it was really interesting do you really want a doctor 0.69
00:05:15.520 that believes that men can have babies delivering your baby it wasn't happening it wasn't happening so 0.99
00:05:20.260 he didn't he didn't come back in the room so and uh but you know in my my my role i have to keep
00:05:24.840 the room calm cool and collected and you know alex she has to focus on what'd you do to shoot him
00:05:29.940 no no i just had a conversation with the nurse i said yeah no more yeah you know completely outside
00:05:34.480 of alex's uh hearing and sight and yeah yeah we're not playing that shit well now she knows now she 0.85
00:05:40.460 knows you're welcome babe yeah no birthing people here all right motherfuckers fucking women god dude 1.00
00:05:46.440 i'm so tired of the shit like i'm so tired of the shit bro like listen i'll respect you go live 0.98
00:05:52.720 your life i respect it all you want but like bro i'm playing this crazy this crazy shit no more no 0.92
00:05:57.800 like bro men are men women are women men have penises they say this shit in kindergarten cop bro 1.00
00:06:06.480 that's what i'm saying boys have penises girls have vaginas i've seen that movie yeah oh you have 1.00
00:06:12.840 all right now if you want to fucking talk about it in some other way or you want to like that's fine 0.89
00:06:18.480 you want to you want to go through your life and you want to be a man or a woman i'm cool with that
00:06:23.280 whatever you fucking want but dude this this trying to change the entire fucking language and the entire 0.99
00:06:29.560 world and the entire thing around to make you like to demand us to bend to you bro no listen cock 0.98
00:06:38.580 balls and sugar walls that's it but like but here's an interesting thing that i realized i'm just tired
00:06:43.380 of it yeah but like i mean here's the funny thing is dude they're not fucking they're it's it's like 0.90
00:06:48.220 when people complain about it it's like well like i hear this all the time you guys bitch about it and 0.97
00:06:55.340 you say we're shoving it down your throat but what about your religion i'm sorry i didn't remember
00:07:01.080 shoving religion down anybody's throat no i don't remember like people walking down the street shoving
00:07:06.360 their religion down everybody's throat in fact um i don't think we've seen that in like i don't know
00:07:11.240 like a thousand fucking years like let's be real dude maybe we need some of that i'm just saying 0.89
00:07:16.600 like no but dude i felt myself building this like inner inner rage man and i had to like really
00:07:22.080 like be careful because i'm sure he's a good dude on you know i don't know you know what but listen
00:07:26.700 like i'm just like i could feel myself starting to boil yeah and i'm like like it was like just
00:07:32.220 this inner rage was starting to take on my right before we get any further let's just cut this right
00:07:35.960 yeah well you know why that is though because because it has been forced and that's right
00:07:40.620 because these people these people just go ahead and take the liberty to behave like you automatically
00:07:45.980 agree with them and are going to accept their point of view in every single situation and i'm sorry but
00:07:51.760 uh some of us aren't yeah and that doesn't make us bigots that makes us realists like there is like
00:07:59.240 the science that these people talk about is not real science there's fucking real science and then 0.93
00:08:04.860 there's make-believe pretend land and a lot of you motherfuckers live in make-believe pretend land 1.00
00:08:09.300 and you expect everybody else to come join you and make-believe pretend land and these people
00:08:13.460 don't necessarily even give a fuck how you live we're just tired of being forced to live and make
00:08:18.340 believe pretend land and then be called names when we're not yeah and it's blown up in their fucking 0.97
00:08:22.460 faces yeah but here's a good thing he is not like he was an actual doctor it's not like he was doing
00:08:27.380 his residency so he's going around you know getting that means if he's new that means he's definitely
00:08:31.260 indoctrinated yeah exactly you know and so i mean because i was talking a little bit with a nurse
00:08:35.680 i don't want to you know blow him up that's fine but you know
00:08:39.300 she's like yeah you know he's been here for like a week yeah it's like three more weeks on rotation
00:08:43.640 okay well that's fine we're all sick of a shit not this room that's what sound like yeah so 0.81
00:08:48.020 yeah man well uh i got some good ones for that we'll start the show off with some good old
00:08:52.960 bigotry this is your first time welcome
00:08:56.980 bro look man i just get tired of it i'm like bro this is we gotta live in reality reality is reality
00:09:05.620 yeah i i appreciate people's freedom and their ability to live a life they want to live and
00:09:11.880 you know be happy with who they are and live there i appreciate that but where it crosses the
00:09:17.320 line for everybody else is when you start imposing that shit on everybody else's common sense
00:09:21.380 and factual reality which they understand is true and you get pissed off when we don't buy into it
00:09:27.300 well motherfuckers some of us are never going to buy into it and no matter how many names you call 0.99
00:09:32.440 us no matter how much shit you do no matter how big of a tent or temper tantrum you throw 0.96
00:09:37.480 we don't fucking care okay so just go live your fucking life shut the fuck up be a nice citizen be 0.95
00:09:45.420 nice to be you get treated just fine it's where you force the shit where the problem comes and that's 0.63
00:09:50.860 dude these people have a hard time understanding that no they don't and then they throw it up like
00:09:54.580 oh what about you and the religion well i don't know about you bro i keep my shit to myself 0.90
00:09:58.560 for the most part you know like over where you go you guys are forcing your religion no we're not
00:10:04.240 bro religion up until the last fucking year has been its lowest levels ever in humanity you guys are 0.99
00:10:11.520 forcing it back into reality because of your behavior because there's people that are like
00:10:15.620 literally losing hope in humanity and they're being like fuck bro this is like anti-christ shit i better 0.86
00:10:23.000 go get close to god like you're creating the backlash yourselves well i mean to the point of
00:10:28.780 religion they're they're i mean that's just getting infiltrated bro you know i'm saying the priests
00:10:33.000 wearing the fucking rainbow fucking i don't know what they call those things the scarves yeah i don't 0.96
00:10:38.580 know if it's called a scarf scounders scounders that's what it really is bro i i think it's i think
00:10:44.860 it's fucking i think what the problem here is like real talk is like these people have had free reign 0.96
00:10:51.660 for the last 12 to 15 years to just harass everybody and now the fucking i like i said 0.99
00:10:57.140 three years ago the the pendulum swinging back and now they're playing victim and they even started
00:11:02.420 swinging yet for the worst thing i hear is all you conservatives first of all i'm not conservative
00:11:07.040 all you conservatives throwing this shit up all the time you're worse than them no you've been doing 0.90
00:11:11.820 it for over a decade bro and we are tired of it it's only been three months we're tired of your
00:11:16.180 fucking shit yeah it's only been a couple of months yeah just wait because it's gonna get way 0.81
00:11:21.880 worse yeah shit anyway almost died we got a show we do have i got good ones are we just gonna bitch 1.00
00:11:28.980 i mean we could make a whole show just call it the bitch show people probably still love it 1.00
00:11:33.360 i'm just saying no man i got some good ones for you man let's get into these uh andy question number
00:11:39.620 one andy your take on the russian ukraine issue is a great perspective and one that i haven't really
00:11:48.420 heard from anyone else we've heard donald trump mention how he could end it in 24 hours but he never
00:11:54.020 really talks about how andy if you had the keys to the free world today how would you end the war
00:12:02.140 well first of all you gotta understand donald trump was made to be the antichrist slash hitler of
00:12:14.500 our generation by the media intentionally because he's an outsider all right they made up the russia 0.78
00:12:23.980 collusion thing they made all this shit that people hate donald trump for for the most part was total lies
00:12:30.580 that were made up and propagated fabrication okay and this goes back to the point that we try to make
00:12:35.280 on the show all the time which is the people they attack the most are actually the people that are
00:12:40.480 with us the most because that's why they want to keep them out because remember it's not left right
00:12:45.860 black white gay straight it's us them right and all of you listening that's us and then there's them
00:12:51.380 you think that they're for you they're not for you no matter what you think of my opinions or anything
00:12:55.280 they're not for you they're for them and not for us and donald trump has been clearly identified as
00:13:03.240 someone who's with us and that's why they attack him and so when they villainized donald trump over
00:13:09.560 the last you know seven eight years remember that before donald trump was villainized for all this
00:13:15.460 shit remember he was a cultural iconic hero he was the american dream everybody loved every fucking rap
00:13:20.940 song from pre-1916 or i'm sorry 2016 uh has fucking donald trump in there when they talk about 0.95
00:13:28.860 like who's the biggest fucking baller boss motherfucker it's trump right then all of a sudden 0.98
00:13:34.720 he's a racist he's all these things well part of how they villainized trump was he actually went out
00:13:41.080 and created strong foreign relations with our allies and people who are our adversaries which is very
00:13:48.440 intelligent to do because if you just have adversaries that you don't have open communication
00:13:53.620 with nothing nothing can be solved and people used to like make fun of him when he went over and saw a
00:13:58.560 little man from north korea right rocket man yeah and um and how he you know had a respectful
00:14:05.300 relationship with xi xi ping and how he had a respectful relationship with uh putin and people the media
00:14:12.520 used that to make him look like he was a villain but in reality that's more security for us the people
00:14:18.180 to have those open lines of communication because guys we occupy this planet with many different
00:14:23.920 cultures it's not just us and so how would i end it probably the same way he would end it
00:14:30.300 they're bro this is i mean i would just call him up and say
00:14:32.660 hey what's up vlady how you doing bro mr fazela how are you hey why are you taking it so hard on the ukrainians
00:14:42.320 bro bro they have the you the biolabs they have to get rid of the biolabs all right well let's work 1.00
00:14:47.500 together let's sweep these corrupt motherfuckers out let's take care of business man let's stop 1.00
00:14:51.080 you know killing the innocent people and let's kill the right people how about that how's that
00:14:54.440 sound brother i say i say that's a good idea i give you a bottle of fuck all right let's do it 0.98
00:14:59.880 shots for everybody problem solved and when that happens the media if it's not disbanded by then
00:15:06.920 is going to make it look like trump's with russia again right based off of their lives they ran for
00:15:12.920 the last seven years but we have to remember that a lot of these people that they make look like our
00:15:18.180 total enemies are not actually our enemies they're actually their enemies they're their enemies they're 0.55
00:15:23.680 not our enemies they're not the people's enemies they're the enemies of these corrupt people that are
00:15:28.100 in government that are calling the plays that are against the interests of these countries and we are
00:15:33.280 brainwashed through the media to believe that these people hate us that they fucking hate america
00:15:38.360 they don't actually hate america they don't hate american citizens the whole world has benefited
00:15:43.180 greatly from america existing the whole entire world has much more freedom because of the 247 years that
00:15:49.720 america has existed all right people don't hate americans they hate the government of america and there's
00:15:56.140 that's two different things okay so this is probably as simple as a phone call of calling them
00:16:03.220 saying hey stop blowing these things up and let's fucking clean house here and let's work together 0.95
00:16:07.980 to fix this and what you guys fail to understand which what i covered i think and what this person's
00:16:12.900 bringing up was how ukraine is a cesspool for corruption for all these elite people and they've
00:16:19.360 been doing all of these things with bioweapons and biolabs and washing money shell companies and all 1.00
00:16:25.080 this shit for a very long time if you remember that you probably don't the united states actually 0.59
00:16:30.500 overthrew the ukrainian government in 2014 okay that was under obama and then the ukrainian government
00:16:36.980 started executing and persecuting the the people who live over in the area that where the conflict is
00:16:44.820 right now for uh you know being russian okay because ukrainian and russians are the same fucking people 0.94
00:16:51.840 all right so this is something that could be probably solved with a literal phone call saying hey
00:17:01.720 fuck these guys this corruption is going to ruin the earth it's going to cause nuclear he knows this
00:17:08.260 otherwise he'd already be doing it he'd already be bombing everybody so like bro it's open communications
00:17:13.480 man and you know this is good advice for anybody with a business too like your competitors or people that
00:17:20.620 like your your work like you should always have open lines you know what i mean like it's not good to
00:17:26.380 to just have these closed communication channels to where things get misunderstood and then you end up in
00:17:32.600 a real bad position so i mean dude i think this could all be solved for a fucking phone call and i think 0.97
00:17:38.800 that's the last thing these people want they want it to keep going that makes a lot of sense i mean i even
00:17:44.680 think of it too just like on a man to man level right there is a lot of respect and just mutual
00:17:52.100 understanding that comes from shaking another man's hand you know what that man is capable just off the
00:17:56.780 handshake whether it's soft whether it's hard what's hands feel like right and you know people like russia
00:18:02.700 you know president putin in russia what he's left to see of the united states is an 82 year old man that
00:18:10.700 he's got no respect his pants and falls down fucking trips over stages and it's like like 0.96
00:18:15.820 there's no respect in that no you know i'm saying but like being able to shake a person i mean donald
00:18:20.500 trump's what six foot three or something like that like no that's a decent size man i'm sure he has
00:18:24.920 some decent size of a big dude yeah you know i'm saying but like there's something to be said with
00:18:28.680 that and all the small dudes out there be like what's that have to do with it well actually it has a
00:18:32.440 lot to do with it there's actual science to show that listen i didn't make the rules yeah i didn't
00:18:36.600 i'm just telling you why you're fucking tiny it's what the fuck it is all right okay calm down there 0.96
00:18:40.460 little guy like bro but that goes a lot into it man hey here's the reality dude you make up you
00:18:50.140 fucking call him up you say hey let's stop this shit let's work together clean out the corruption
00:18:54.700 let's make some fucking arrests let's arrest the people that are behind this shit okay and then once 0.85
00:19:00.380 how that's what putin wants that's all i know that's what he wants bro but the whole media won't
00:19:04.340 let us see a goddamn word he fucking says like you guys you dude all these people are jumping on 0.85
00:19:09.720 saying oh putin kills this and that well what do they do like you know like we're doing like well
00:19:17.140 we got people running up and down the streets killing people not being held accountable we had
00:19:20.820 a guy here in st louis missouri walk up to another guy shoot him in the back of the head in broad
00:19:26.500 fucking daylight and they fucking let him out of jail bro okay um if i'm president i'm killing that guy 0.96
00:19:34.340 that's how you keep order in society and these bleeding heart people in our country are preventing
00:19:41.760 order from happening because it's not affecting them right like you have all these white wealthy
00:19:48.140 liberals who live out in the fucking suburbs and their big ass houses and they're saying oh you know 0.71
00:19:54.160 we shouldn't hold criminals accountable that's that's racist that's this that's that while you have
00:19:59.760 all the people who are living in the inner cities black and white suffering because of those policies
00:20:04.560 okay so we have to have a leader in this country and every country and every company in every place
00:20:11.540 of leadership that will hold accountability to a standard so that there can be civility and we don't
00:20:17.160 have that right now in fact we have the opposite of that we have an administration intentionally creating
00:20:22.000 chaos as much as possible and the only reason that so many people are still against it if they are
00:20:27.760 because i think it's less and less every day the only reason is because they haven't seen it they
00:20:32.040 haven't touched it they haven't dealt with it they've never been a victim of crime they've never
00:20:36.020 been a victim of violent crime they don't understand what it's like they've never had someone in their
00:20:39.780 family get killed by a criminal or been stabbed in the fucking face by a criminal you see what i'm 0.99
00:20:45.320 saying so until it until it touches them they don't get it and we're dealing with a bunch of idealists
00:20:51.060 this is why this show is called real af because it's we got to talk about the realist perspective
00:20:55.760 make believe all you want but that fucking that reality is smacking the face you know so i think 0.95
00:21:03.880 this is a communication issue i think putin wants it to end just as much as everybody else wants it to
00:21:08.420 end the only people that want it to keep going are the people that keep sending all their money all
00:21:13.000 our money over there and fucking stealing it your money my money that's facts man i love that and if 0.98
00:21:20.300 he didn't okay let's just say let's say putin is who some people think he is and he says fuck you
00:21:26.700 all right we fucking kill him yeah i mean hey yeah yeah that's what i would do very very simple yeah 0.87
00:21:33.380 but i think i think the first is definitely the solution yeah i love it question number two andy
00:21:39.840 andy i'm 35 years old i just got turned on to your content from a tiktok reel and i love every bit of
00:21:46.980 it but for someone like me who many would call a late not really interested in opening a business
00:21:53.920 a late bloomer um however i just want to become a better human better father husband friend when it
00:22:00.860 comes to personal development where exactly should i start start with yourself dude okay there's three
00:22:07.360 components to self that are going to make or break your life there's your brain there's your heart and
00:22:13.240 there's your body those three elements make up our tool chest those are our weapons we cannot go to
00:22:19.660 battle with shitty weapons we get beat all right and this is why most people lose most people lose
00:22:25.660 is because they get in the game without actually fully developing or working on fully developing those
00:22:31.200 three items that i said you have to be smart you have to put good shit in your brain you have to read 0.75
00:22:36.000 good things you have to you have to and as important as it is to put good things in your brain it's
00:22:40.440 important to keep bad things out of your brain okay you have to be intentional about it in your heart
00:22:45.280 you have to ask yourself what's my intent am i doing the right thing am i standing for what i know to be
00:22:51.820 true because every single thing that every time you guys stay quiet every time you don't say what it is
00:22:57.940 you know to be true and you keep that inside you're killing your own heart and your own spirit every time
00:23:02.960 you don't speak up when there's when there's injustices in the world and there's things that you know
00:23:08.040 are fucked up and you keep your mouth shut bro it's just like the bully at the schoolyard that 0.99
00:23:12.500 takes your milk money every single time they take your fucking milk money you don't do shit you become 0.99
00:23:17.480 a lesser version of yourself and a lot of problem that's happening with people on the inside right
00:23:21.900 now inside of their own heart is that they understand what's going on in the world right
00:23:25.780 now and they're not doing or saying anything about it and they know it's wrong and it's shrinking
00:23:29.860 their own confidence their own belief their own self-esteem day by day by day so speaking the truth
00:23:36.040 standing for what's right doing the right thing being a good ambassador of america being a good
00:23:41.920 ambassador of humanity that's all going to contribute to your heart spirituality goes in there too but i'm
00:23:46.320 not going to tell you how to do that because that's what america is about it's about freedom of religion
00:23:50.660 and spirituality and you can believe whatever it is you want to believe all right and then your body
00:23:55.000 your body is the most important fucking weapon that you have bro like just like we talked a minute 0.91
00:24:00.140 ago about trump being an imposing figure um your body and your physical fitness says something about
00:24:07.020 you automatically when you walk into a room and you are a fit strong healthy human being not only are
00:24:14.560 you going to feel confident but everybody else in the room is going to notice it's it's like a calling
00:24:19.560 card without you having to say a fucking word okay so where do you start you start with those three 0.95
00:24:25.760 things get your mind right get your heart right tell the truth tell yourself the truth and stand
00:24:31.460 for the things that you believe in and take action for them and then get your body fit get your body
00:24:36.020 healthy i mean this is a big part of what 75 hard live hard is this is why i live the live hard
00:24:40.700 lifestyle okay you guys see me post on instagram every day me doing the different phases of live hard
00:24:45.800 i do that because i want to show you that i'm actually living it in reality okay and this is how i keep my
00:24:52.100 shit in check because that live hard will keep all of those elements in check for me automatically it's
00:24:58.980 just it's just the baseline of how i live my life and if you're interested in that if you go listen
00:25:02.840 to episode 208 it's a program i developed it's free it's not a diet it's not a challenge it's not a
00:25:09.560 fucking contest it's a fucking program that you're going to use to build the framework around how you're 0.97
00:25:15.080 going to keep these three things that we just talked about in tune all the time as best as you can
00:25:20.800 dude that's such an important thing because many people i mean maybe it's not many people i don't
00:25:25.360 know but i would say most people would probably believe that you know once they they get a tool
00:25:31.320 or get a knife sharp it'll be sharp forever well that's not true it's not true that's where self
00:25:37.760 awareness comes in okay when you sharpen your axe right like you're going to cut i have this analogy
00:25:43.160 i talk about with sharpening the axe all right there's axe is the most powerful tool that's ever been
00:25:50.200 created in humanity when you go down your street and you see fields that are cleared and civilization
00:25:56.400 existing remember that men with axes actually created that okay now when you think about an axe
00:26:05.880 and you think about men using an axe it requires different elements for it to be effective right
00:26:10.700 the first one is effort if you don't pick the axe up and you just leave it over there on the ground
00:26:14.560 it's not going to do anything okay so you got to have that fruit if you pick up the axe and you
00:26:21.060 swing it all at the tree and you hit it in a different spot every time how long is it going
00:26:24.840 to take you to cut down the tree forever because we're not showing any consistency we've got to hit
00:26:29.520 it right at the exact same spot okay and then not only do we got to hit it at that right exact same
00:26:35.220 spot we got to hit that exact same spot over and over and over and over again and that takes
00:26:39.240 persistence all right so you have effort you have consistency and you have persistence and then the
00:26:45.780 last part is self-awareness because eventually when you hit that spot on the tree over and over and
00:26:51.580 over and over and over again sometimes it's a really big fucking tree and guess what happens to that edge 0.80
00:26:55.900 on that axe it gets dull and you have to be smart enough to know when it's dull and not just sit there
00:27:01.360 and swing a dull axe against the same hole that you've created and then take a step back sharpen the blade
00:27:07.600 and then go back at it okay and this is the same way with your skill set of discipline mental toughness
00:27:12.820 and the three the the mind the heart and the body that we just talked about it's and this is this is
00:27:18.780 why i get like why i almost laugh when people say oh well live hard's not sustainable there is no
00:27:25.140 fucking diet there is no fucking fitness program which this isn't even that in the first place but this 0.93
00:27:31.460 always comes from those people yeah okay that is sustainable over the course of time if it was if
00:27:39.200 there was one fucking program cured everything uh you wouldn't need to continue to do these things 0.92
00:27:44.940 for your whole life it's no different than taking a shower every day or putting on deodorant like some
00:27:50.160 of you motherfuckers by the way you talk you never take a shower you never put on deodorant y'all some 0.97
00:27:54.380 stinky motherfuckers okay this is reality we have to understand that our blade is going to get dull
00:28:02.000 and when it gets dull we have to pull back and then we have to intentionally put work back into
00:28:06.900 our mind our heart and our body to get it tuned up again and then when it gets tuned up again
00:28:11.820 everything that we're trying to do gets that much easier i love that man i love that guys andy
00:28:18.480 our third and final question andy i have a full-time job that i love and i'm seeing a bunch of people
00:28:26.940 online talking about passive income i am genuinely interested in creating a few streams of additional
00:28:35.260 income but i don't really know what to trust or who to listen to do you have any recommendations
00:28:41.440 for obtaining passive income if anybody says passive income to you you should fucking run 0.94
00:28:47.100 okay because they're either lying to you or they're selling you just the good parts of whatever
00:28:52.940 it is they have or they are just trying to sell you something to get you to buy to learn the secret
00:28:59.160 to passive income which is how they make their passive income okay so here's the reality about
00:29:05.560 passive income and i know there's a bunch of people i know what about real estate all right let's talk
00:29:09.860 about real estate have you ever owned a rental property because i have owning a rental property is hard
00:29:14.620 as fuck and unpassive and unpassive you got to deal with renters you got to deal with construction 0.89
00:29:19.140 you got to know how to do a bunch of shit you got to deal with contractors there you got to deal with 0.74
00:29:23.260 fucking shitty tenants like there's a whole lot of hands-on here okay now when you get to the level 0.90
00:29:31.040 of mega investor and you own a thousand properties and you have a management company built into that and
00:29:37.780 they manage all your properties for you now it's it is sort of passive but i still have to call uh
00:29:44.740 madat over here and say hey madat what's up with the fucking rentals what's going on here what's going 0.98
00:29:48.580 on there what's going on here so this idea of passive is not true okay because it takes a long time to
00:29:54.740 get to that point and then even then it's still not passive it's not passive like when you guys hear
00:30:00.100 passive the reason that word appeals to you is because you hear no effort and there just is no way to make
00:30:06.900 income with no effort all right especially in the beginning so when people promise you or any of
00:30:12.920 these knucklehead coaches out here why my system for passive income automatically fucking just scroll 0.98
00:30:19.880 okay because it's going to fucking cost you a whole bunch of time a whole bunch of energy and you might 0.91
00:30:24.300 make some money you might learn a new skill but i can promise you there ain't gonna be nothing
00:30:28.500 passive about it and this is reality so if you want to create passive income uh here's what you can do
00:30:35.200 you can create an ad and you can say hey buy my course for passive income and you could run the
00:30:40.780 ad and people will pay you for the ad uh until they figure out that you don't have a course for
00:30:45.920 passive income and then your brand will be over and you will have made a few thousand dollars
00:30:49.740 a very small drop in the bucket for your reputation over the course of your entire life
00:30:54.920 because you want passive income if i were you i would give up on the idea of passive income
00:30:59.600 and i would start focusing on the idea of for sure income and uh focus my efforts there and
00:31:04.820 understand that's going to take some fucking absolutely some hardcore bro listen part of the 0.90
00:31:09.220 reason that people struggle so much with this concept is because they don't just accept that
00:31:14.600 it's going to fucking take a lot of effort like bro the only reason that it sucks for you guys is 0.96
00:31:20.940 because you you're expecting it to be easy because you have all these people telling you that easy
00:31:26.300 passive free right if you would just accept it's like somebody with anxiety all right somebody who
00:31:33.480 has anxiety or struggles with anxiety they create these expectations that they're going to be able
00:31:38.680 to get through the day without feeling anxious at all and because they're they're now trying to get
00:31:44.020 through the day without feeling anxious the minute that they feel anxious they get super fucking 0.93
00:31:48.800 frustrated and it makes it way worse okay so once you just accept that anxiety is just a part of
00:31:56.300 doing real shit in real life you're going to have problems and you just accept it now all of a sudden 0.80
00:32:02.080 when it happens you're like all right cool well that kind of sucks but we'll get through it yeah all
00:32:06.580 right same thing with passive income stop expecting it to be passive stop expecting it to be easy stop
00:32:13.020 expecting it to be fucking automatic and start understanding that like hey this is just going to be hard 0.89
00:32:18.400 and i'm going to go at it every single day and i can promise you if you commit to that process and you
00:32:23.780 come back in five years versus the person who's just saying oh i'm going to do this passive income
00:32:28.260 they're going to be exactly where they are and you're going to be five years down the road real
00:32:32.780 progress i fucking love that man i love that guys drop down in the comments let us know if you fucking 0.99
00:32:39.500 with that or not guys andy that's three go pay the fee hey don't forget to click that subscribe
00:32:45.120 button on youtube let us know what you think in the comments all right love you guys appreciate you
00:32:48.500 guys we'll catch you next time went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole 1.00
00:32:54.600 fuck a stove counted millions in the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bank road can't fold 1.00
00:33:01.300 doesn't know headshot case closed