REAL AF with Andy Frisella - July 10, 2020


55. Uncomfortably Comfortable Ft. Ryan Michler - Part 2


Episode Stats

Length

53 minutes

Words per Minute

203.60129

Word Count

10,836

Sentence Count

3

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

121


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the importance of finding your voice, how to develop it, and what it means to be a good human being. We also talk about how important it is to develop your self-confidence and self-awareness.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 especially now yes especially right now is a great time for that you know we have a lot of silence
00:00:21.320 right now because everybody's like what the fuck should i say you know why they're thinking what
00:00:25.360 the fuck should i say because they've been taught to be performers just like i was talking about
00:00:29.320 with the gary thing earlier they've been taught to be adult performers so now they don't know what
00:00:34.340 to say because everything they say is predicated on their brain wanting approval from other people
00:00:39.860 right and this is how it ties back all to having real self-confidence you need to look at what you
00:00:45.080 believe whether you know and and fuck what's popular in society fuck what everybody's saying
00:00:51.200 doesn't matter what i'm saying doesn't matter what trump's saying doesn't matter what black lives
00:00:57.120 matter saying it doesn't fucking matter what do you say what do you say and where did you get
00:01:03.160 the information from where you know we have a big problem in society right now with one being really
00:01:10.100 nervous about saying anything and and by the way this is all intentionally imposed on our society
00:01:16.720 oh i have no doubt yeah but what the fuck you think the masks are for let's be real okay a lot of people
00:01:22.480 were like oh you lost me there well that's because i'm smart all right but the thing is here is that
00:01:29.000 we have a situation where people are not capable of actually addressing the issues that they have
00:01:38.540 within themselves and because they're not able to address the issues and think for themselves they
00:01:42.760 don't know what to say and instead they resort to to saying what's going to get them the likes or the
00:01:47.340 comments or the this yeah uh i hate to break it to you guys but instagram is a fucking app
00:01:53.180 on your phone it shouldn't control your thought process it shouldn't control your life it's just
00:01:58.680 it's an out like for me i look at instagram social media so i've been doing this for we started about
00:02:02.720 the same time i think actually with with this stuff with you with mfco and me with order man stuff
00:02:06.800 um and i've actually found and developed my thought process and my voice and identified my values and
00:02:15.980 the things that are important through sharing them all right oh absolutely bro so what if i went back
00:02:22.040 five years dude i would i would not even listen to my podcast from five years ago so i'm sure i would
00:02:26.300 say things that now i'd cringe about like yeah but but i've earned where i am today too and in five
00:02:32.420 years or 10 years i'll look back at today on this podcast and think what the hell was i talking about
00:02:36.500 yeah but that's that's the process you have to go through if you want to if you want to find your you
00:02:42.260 don't get to find it that's probably a better way of saying it you don't find your voice you
00:02:45.620 develop it you articulate it dude that's the whole fucking theme of the show that is it that's the
00:02:52.720 biggest nugget you'll take from the show finding your voice is not finding it it's developing it and
00:02:57.800 you develop it through what consuming consuming different kinds of intelligence all right from
00:03:04.080 credible people not your bro that you went to fucking high school with that's posted some
00:03:09.320 ridiculous meme on the internet it's about actually looking for the facts and then developing a
00:03:16.960 worldview based upon those facts dude i was just talking about this in my instagram story a few days
00:03:22.140 ago you know the reason most people struggle in life is is because they cannot understand the
00:03:31.660 difference between their beliefs and actual facts yeah most people's egos block their ability where they
00:03:39.280 think their beliefs are the facts when in reality the facts are the facts right you don't get to
00:03:46.460 decide the facts yeah facts are don't change based on how you feel about it and so most people spend
00:03:51.440 their whole life making decisions from an emotional place an idealistic place all right instead of
00:03:59.680 taking a realist viewpoint which is what this shows about and looking at the facts and then standing on
00:04:05.640 those see guys because i've been getting a lot of heat they're like fuck dude you're you bragging
00:04:10.080 about always being right well yeah motherfucker because i am but the reason i brag about it is to
00:04:15.020 show you how to think i'm trying to present to you and to share it that's right that's i tell them i'm
00:04:21.260 like look this is no fucking magic this is how i'm always right i'm right because i look at the facts
00:04:26.440 i develop an opinion based upon the actual facts not how i feel about it and then i move and that that
00:04:32.600 applies to my business life too like dude what if i made all these business decisions based on my
00:04:37.080 emotions you know let's say there's another uh company out there that i fucking hate i hate them
00:04:43.900 and i make every decision based around get them how much i hate them well you're not going to make
00:04:49.360 good decisions no because your your motivation is on how you feel and your decision making is how you
00:04:55.960 feel not based on what's real right and so we could argue and we could kick and scream and we
00:05:03.020 could fight and we can throw tantrums and we can cancel and we could do all these things but that
00:05:09.060 still doesn't make it to fucking facts and if you stand on the motherfucking facts you will rarely be
00:05:13.980 wrong and guess what if you are wrong you can always say well that's what the data said at this
00:05:18.020 point in time and this is how i made my decision so it appears that the data was wrong well then you
00:05:22.660 that's okay that's fine you also give yourself permission to pivot when the data suggests something
00:05:27.100 else correct because if you just go on your emotions like i'm pissed or i'm this or i'm feeling this way
00:05:31.940 like you don't really have much room to develop or evolve your train of thought that's right but if
00:05:38.280 you say hey the data said this so i made decisions based on this yeah and then i got new data so naturally
00:05:44.920 what i believed changed yes because the inputs change yes but people tie way too much yeah of
00:05:51.820 they like they they sink their people are so they desire so much to be right
00:06:00.800 and i'm going to tell you like i would rather be the guy who wins than be the guy who's right yes
00:06:07.440 you know what i mean and so you have to make a decision like do you want to be the guy who
00:06:11.700 you know you're going to sink your heels in and you're always right because you you could do that
00:06:16.940 you're going to end up on an island by yourself yeah because everybody's going to see what you're doing
00:06:21.240 it's very obvious to most people when they do that or are you going to be the person that is
00:06:26.040 okay with being wrong but comes out on the winning side yeah and i could tell you this if you want to
00:06:31.080 be financially successful you got to be the latter you cannot be the former and so you know put
00:06:36.780 watching this whole scenario go down with society right and all these people ignoring the the data that
00:06:42.800 is literally there for them to see everywhere regarding covid and mass and all this shit
00:06:48.760 okay the corruption like dude we see we see these videos coming out of political candidates saying
00:06:56.100 ridiculous shit and people i'm talking about biden by the way and they just look the other way like
00:07:03.060 he didn't fucking say it right motherfucker that's what he believes and he's been saying he's saying it
00:07:07.520 you've been saying it for 40 years right you know just because you want that to be wrong doesn't make
00:07:13.000 it wrong and if you choose to like go with that you're making a terrible decision for yourself yeah
00:07:18.460 and so and that's not just with this situation it's with all situations and this is why most people
00:07:23.520 struggle financially because they don't make logical factual decisions they make decisions based upon
00:07:30.780 oh my boss came in and he treated me bad today well fuck what'd you do you know exactly you know
00:07:39.240 and if you didn't do anything was he having a bad day did he had to put his dog down earlier in the
00:07:44.180 day you don't fucking know right now if it's a consistent over and over again that's right then
00:07:48.520 that's you know what that's a different job that's a difficult conversation to have with him
00:07:51.940 hey i don't like the way that i'm being treated yep and you can have those conversations and people just
00:07:57.600 you know instead they fucking take it and take it and take it and take it and then they go online
00:08:03.200 and say i'm fucking get them you know and that's dude that doesn't help you it doesn't help that
00:08:08.060 person it doesn't help anything yeah it's like acting like a fucking child yeah so you know well
00:08:14.400 that's what i see with these statues is is like oh my god at this point it's just it's temp it's it's
00:08:20.540 the same way my six-year-old or my four-year-old my four-year-old he gets pissed you know what he does
00:08:25.000 when he's pissed he goes up and he scratches you yeah like he'll go up and he'll either pinch you
00:08:30.260 or scratch you and he's four yeah and that's what these people are doing bro there's things that
00:08:35.740 maybe all right let's look at it this way maybe there's some things that you should legitimately be
00:08:41.640 upset about i agree maybe there's some things that we legitimately need to address i agree you
00:08:46.500 acting like a little bitch or a little child is not going to get anybody onto your side not only
00:08:51.540 that it pushes people away from hearing what the fuck you have to say well i think repulsive what's
00:08:55.240 even bigger than that man is is i call it you know everybody knows the definition of insanity
00:08:59.400 right and so when we give the same exact reaction well hold on not everybody knows it apparently
00:09:04.740 well i mean apparently not right but i mean we're giving the same exact reaction to the same
00:09:10.160 situations expecting a different outcome dj it's insane that's insanity bro i show you i've shown you
00:09:15.940 a number of posts i wrote in 2013 that's wild saying the same motherfucking shit it's wild you
00:09:21.880 know it's like stuff that still holds weight today yeah no i could have wrote it today yeah you know
00:09:25.940 but the thing is is like a few of them you know but the problem is is like dude we're not growing
00:09:32.180 no we're not growing and you know why we're not growing because we don't have any real leaders
00:09:35.900 actually showing people how to grow we have a government that is both on the left and the right
00:09:41.760 in a position of power over it's become a it's become a system where it's more like they're ruling
00:09:48.960 us than they represent us representing and working with us and that's dangerous man it is you know
00:09:54.640 and and a lot of people make this a republican democrat thing i don't see it that way at all
00:09:58.480 i see it as an american thing versus people who are un-american right and both sides of the idol
00:10:03.880 on the on the political spectrum i mean you look at democrats you look at republicans i i i do not
00:10:09.660 see leaders man i i don't it's disheartening it's frustrating i could also understand i could
00:10:15.180 understand the frustration with america that certain people have that are not on the same
00:10:22.180 side i'm on i can too right and the reason i can't understand it is because and this is people are
00:10:28.300 gonna get mad about this the you know the patriots well i'm the motherfucking patriot guys just so you
00:10:33.080 know those people you know you have to understand perspectives okay and if you are someone who
00:10:41.300 is upset with the country right and you don't see any leaders actually doing anything to fucking change
00:10:47.460 it well what can you do you can break shit right you know and so we we have a leadership problem in
00:10:53.780 our country that comes from decades and decades and decades and decades and i don't think it's trump
00:10:59.800 trump's been there three fucking years so a lot of people are like oh dude it's fucking trump this
00:11:04.060 all this whole culture thing started with trump if you think it's trump you're you're not getting
00:11:09.940 you're not understanding this is this is a system you want to talk about systematic problems because
00:11:14.920 that's the topic right now this is a systematic cultural problem in the ruling class of this country
00:11:20.840 we were never meant to have a ruling class we were meant to have representatives and the people
00:11:26.060 representing us right now because there's a lack of term limits and a desire to become career
00:11:31.300 politicians and create personal wealth through that path which shouldn't be allowed to happen
00:11:37.280 by the way that's basically poison the well and so we you know no matter what side you're on no matter
00:11:45.940 no matter no matter where you stand on everything it's hard to look at the people who represent us and
00:11:51.900 have faith in them at all of course you know and and that goes for the republicans and the democrats
00:11:56.540 the republicans had an opportunity to stand the fuck up and fix shit and stop this shit from
00:12:01.400 happening but they all pussed out you know what i'm saying they don't have any spines weak cowardly
00:12:06.740 yeah and you know why because they're getting paid from all these other special interest groups
00:12:10.320 on the back end that nobody knows about and they're making decisions based upon their own personal
00:12:14.620 pocketbook instead of making decisions about what's good for me and you and you and you yeah
00:12:18.620 you know and so dude until we get some real leadership and i think i think there's a real
00:12:23.580 chance and man i'm not i'm not wrong about a whole lot of shit but i think there's a real chance that
00:12:29.440 in the next election not this one but the next one we're gonna see a whole bunch of regular people
00:12:34.440 come like just like back in the back in the old days it should be yeah like back in the george
00:12:39.720 washington days like i think we're gonna have a bunch of real people yeah that try to make a run at
00:12:44.120 being president which i should do it out of a sense of obligation bro like like some sense of not
00:12:49.680 obligation but like responsibility duty duty that's right yes that's a better word so you know i get
00:12:56.380 asked a lot they're like dude have you ever thought about running for office well no i did i haven't but
00:13:01.960 i am starting to think like well maybe i'm the only motherfucker that could fix this shit yeah that's a
00:13:06.840 duty right you know what i'm saying like doing it and i imagine too if you ran for office
00:13:11.680 from a financial perspective it would be that would not help you terrible decision which actually
00:13:17.060 makes it more reasonable correct for everybody else right it's a terrible decision for me personally
00:13:23.400 first of all it's a downgrading quality of life i give away all the things i actually like i'm a very
00:13:28.260 private person i like being alone you subject yourself to all sorts of ridicule that you don't
00:13:33.120 have i have to argue with dumb fucks all day long which you know and give them your number
00:13:37.720 to be able to do it right your email address dude and the thing is is like and look dude i'm not
00:13:43.480 saying i'm the guy but i'm saying there's someone out there like me who needs to fucking
00:13:48.300 fill that role and that is the reason i like trump people are like well how can you fuck well dude what
00:13:54.120 the fuck did he give up to come why would he do this like you guys are missing the whole point here
00:13:59.660 why would he give up that dude had the most ballerous lifestyle on the face of the planet
00:14:06.140 and now what's he do he sits in a fucking house that's not even as cool as his regular house
00:14:11.080 and gets yelled at right like that fucking sucks nobody wants to do that but dude if you really love
00:14:16.880 what this country stands for and i could see why he did it because like dude look at his life he was
00:14:22.460 able to build this incredible life the only thing i could think that's going on in his head is like man
00:14:27.480 no i here's what i think's going on and dude look people think oh he's a fucking tyrant he's this he
00:14:33.800 is that um i think really honestly what is in his head is and i think this was back in the day and
00:14:40.960 this is why you saw him switch from democrat to republican and run under the main party
00:14:44.560 was uh if i if somebody doesn't do something we're fucked yeah and i'm willing to give up my
00:14:50.960 cush lifestyle in service of america that's that's how i see it and i don't see him like really
00:14:57.360 favoring either party i see him being a guy who cares about the fucking constitution of the united
00:15:02.960 states yep and dude if you don't like him because he brags or he does this you got to realize like
00:15:08.460 that's what he's from new york he's a fucking new yorker he talks direct he makes jokes well
00:15:14.260 could you imagine what it would look like if there wasn't a fighter in the office
00:15:17.360 bro country would be done done be done you know that's what i laughed about like people hillary
00:15:23.920 tweeted the other day if i had done this we it would have been handled better lady if you had
00:15:30.420 been here our country would already be we'd already be at war right with each other right on purpose
00:15:35.180 because you want it you know so dude i don't know man like i'm excited about where america's gonna go
00:15:42.940 i really am because i think once we get through this difficult time i think people are waking up i think
00:15:48.560 they're seeing um the the leftists for what they are um and i'm not saying dude if you have liberal
00:15:54.780 viewpoints that you're a bad person but i'm saying culturally there's a problem with that side of the
00:16:00.400 fucking party that's very very bad right now and it ties in with the media it ties in with the fucking
00:16:06.200 most wealthiest people in the world and it ties in with the with the far left and so if you're someone
00:16:12.140 that sits over on that side because we do because i'm i consider myself sort of a moderate you got
00:16:18.240 to let it go man like because this is about our freedom in our america and this and that and we
00:16:22.760 gotta we gotta start unifying in that regard and stop arguing about whether you're a motherfucking
00:16:27.840 donkey or an elephant right you know what i'm saying like yeah i don't like if you really believe in a
00:16:32.340 donkey symbol or an elephant symbol your fucking brain is fucked up that's that's part of the problem
00:16:36.820 is a two-party system i i my my hope is that uh the independent party will become a more viable
00:16:43.900 party and people will actually hopefully have to start looking at what people are saying versus voting
00:16:51.080 straight you know straight party just party loyalty yeah do you do you agree with what that guy 80% of
00:16:57.180 what that guy says do you agree with 70% of what that guy says this is where i love the fucking where
00:17:01.860 we are technology wise though so i totally i'm not a very i don't really like like technology it's not
00:17:09.400 my thing i'm not i'm not like a tech like a tech guy yeah not at all like at all and i'm i prefer to
00:17:16.380 like default all decisions with technology to other people i fucking hate it so the the one thing i love
00:17:23.340 about it though is that all these dudes created these these tech platforms you know the twitter the
00:17:28.300 facebook this that the other this this this and then they censor the fuck out of it right
00:17:31.720 and what they're doing unknowingly is they're actually awaking america up oh yeah and and what
00:17:37.140 the fuck is is what's going to be great about it is that you know we're going to have we have now a
00:17:44.000 new dialogue that was not included in mainstream media or social media that's starting to happen
00:17:48.840 on the street level and it goes along with what you just said you know and and i think society was
00:17:56.560 sort of asleep for a long time because all we had was msm right we had mainstream media
00:18:01.600 that's it right well then the internet came along right and we gave a whole bunch of other people
00:18:05.320 a voice and we say oh well that sucks because we're listening to the dumbest people yeah but
00:18:09.540 everybody's got a voice and so what that's created is some some individuals who have stood up and said
00:18:15.300 like some really good shit that are just regular people yeah right and so now we're all starting to
00:18:21.320 like awaken together like like you know it's funny because the left likes to call themselves woke
00:18:27.500 when they're the most fucking asleep motherfuckers on the face of the planet but we are having a an
00:18:34.160 awakening uh to how we can actually become a grassroots type country like we used to be
00:18:44.040 right which i think is fucking great man um you know we're what would we have heard let's just say
00:18:51.640 it was 15 years ago and you're old enough to remember this right what would we have been talking
00:18:56.160 about had the situation been going on 15 years ago with no social media we'd be fucking terrified
00:19:01.340 we'd be in our basements we're fucking the world is gonna end bro the apocalypse everything it would
00:19:06.760 be total control yep and what's happening right now is like the like i mean you saw the video of los
00:19:12.680 angeles right where they shut off fireworks i was just thinking i thought that was fucking awesome it
00:19:15.960 was crazy yeah so and by the way they should just go in and remove that guy from his post yeah i'm just
00:19:21.500 saying um that's not america we're not america is not you do this i'm gonna fucking find you that was
00:19:29.960 what it was like before it became america all right and i'm gonna tell you right now there's a lot of
00:19:34.780 people out there that will fucking die to not let it go there and a lot more than people think and so
00:19:40.820 i think it's beautiful that we're having all kinds of people who used to identify with
00:19:46.900 an elephant or a donkey that are now like dude fuck all this shit man i'm gonna start listing
00:19:52.500 some motherfuckers with some common sense yep and that's cool as fuck because now we have a scenario
00:19:57.640 where maybe not i still think we need a lot of purging um in terms of like getting rid of some
00:20:04.040 of these like we need to be voting out every motherfucker that's been in office longer than
00:20:07.840 fucking eight years of course on both sides that's the starting point the starting point this november
00:20:12.320 is anybody who's been in office regardless of democrat or republican for longer than eight
00:20:17.200 years vote against them that's my official position i don't care if they've done good i don't care if
00:20:22.300 they've done bad i don't care that i'm out because we have to we have to start getting in people who
00:20:27.620 are there to serve and not there as a career eliminate that conflict correct so and that would
00:20:32.580 be my second my second executive order that i would i don't even know if you can make one on this
00:20:36.720 but i would i would tell the motherfuckers eight years that's it you're you're back to society
00:20:42.060 nancy pelosi should not still be in washington yeah go be go pre-productive that's right somewhere else
00:20:47.100 joe joe biden should that's and you know what if if if pelosi had those term limits she wouldn't be
00:20:53.320 fucking eating 15 fucking tubs of ice cream in a 40 000 fucking no she would not and and that's why
00:20:59.180 they stay there so you know there's a couple key things that could really change things for americans
00:21:03.900 um but the main thing is learning to see the facts learning how to communicate being okay with
00:21:11.380 being wrong voicing what you actually think not what everybody thinks um voting against all these
00:21:19.280 motherfuckers that have been in there forever i mean that's a good starting point you know what
00:21:22.600 i mean and uh and starting to have actual conversations instead of just screaming and
00:21:27.140 and you know and then people people say well you have to scream to be heard actually when you scream
00:21:33.220 and break shit you just push everybody else away no one no one that doesn't agree with what you're
00:21:38.460 doing right now is going to be open to agreeing with it that's the point is if you have to yell
00:21:43.780 to be heard you're talking to the wrong people that's right that's right you should that's why
00:21:48.420 these conversations work right we can sit here and even if we agree or disagree we're not yelling
00:21:52.660 at each other we're like all right yeah let me hear that you agree with that let me hear what
00:21:56.320 you're saying well dude i also think that the show i also i mean i know this is true like if you look at
00:22:03.220 what they show you on tv and what reality is it's two different things yeah like dude if you go
00:22:08.500 out in the real world and dude we live in st louis man st louis is a fucking is like the epicenter
00:22:13.020 of a lot of the shit all right people don't hate each other on the street i'm just telling you right
00:22:17.180 now a lot of people are saying st louis is fucking war zone it's uh we have some crime issue
00:22:24.000 there's no question but i'm gonna tell you right now the black people and the white people here
00:22:28.480 and all that they're friendly to each other they're nice to each other right we treat each
00:22:32.200 other respect and for the most part 90 of the people here are fucking amazing humans and but
00:22:39.740 the immediate and this goes for everywhere they show that 10 percent percent who are it's not even
00:22:45.020 10 it's probably like two percent less than that yeah they zoom in on it and make it the world view
00:22:49.840 right do you know how many friends fucking hit me up when they come into town they're like bro
00:22:53.860 do i need to like where do i need to stay what should i do that's what i actually reached out
00:22:58.660 to emily i'm like hey i don't i don't want to get into protests or anything like that so yeah and
00:23:03.100 yeah it's it it's sad because you know we're being brainwashed yeah you know we're attempting to be
00:23:12.720 brainwashed if we didn't have social media right now as much as everybody hates it we would all be
00:23:17.420 brainwashed that's what i was trying to say media podcasting i was taught i was talking with a friend
00:23:24.580 of mine pete roberts um and i was actually talking with him and his son and another and one of his
00:23:30.600 friends and they were talking about kind of their viewpoints and they were saying yeah we're going
00:23:35.000 to be ultra conservative and and we're kind of thinking about why that was the case because they
00:23:39.280 say that this next generation is going to be like the most conservative generation there ever was
00:23:43.380 and part of the reason is is because of access to information before it was like msn cnn and that's
00:23:51.900 resulted in this gap of of 16 to 25 year olds right now that are losing their fucking minds
00:23:58.160 that's what is created and if you're in that age group i'm not picking on you i'm just saying
00:24:04.180 they didn't teach you the facts and they told you a lot of shit that ain't true and you need to take
00:24:09.740 it upon yourself responsibility that's right upon yourself to be a good leader amongst your little
00:24:14.700 peer group because your peers they don't know shit either you know what i mean and that look dude i'm
00:24:20.320 not trying to pick on people i got a lot of people that work here in this office that are of that age
00:24:25.120 range and they're all great people but dude i've talked to them i've had conversations with nearly
00:24:29.460 any of them most of them don't know shit about like like dude when ulysses grant statue got tore down
00:24:35.480 which pissed me the fuck off i bet um they don't understand why i would be so mad and they don't
00:24:41.620 understand why well and then when you explain it to them they're like no way they don't even
00:24:45.260 understand the history they don't understand anything about it i'm like dude yes way yes they're like
00:24:50.200 they're like no that they so they tore that guy down i'm like yeah you know what i'm saying like
00:24:55.260 there's just it's if i were fucking 16 to 25 right now i'd be fucking pissed at my schools
00:25:02.500 yeah oh yeah because dude they were brought up to not think at all for themselves right just do this
00:25:08.700 learn these things learn you know these these rules and that's it and if you're a young man or
00:25:14.300 woman in that age group and you're and look dude we've all been that age we we think we know shit
00:25:20.760 we don't because you haven't lived long enough to actually have the personal experiences to actually
00:25:26.060 know the truth that's right and so i and bro i was the same like i thought i was all of us were
00:25:31.400 that's i was that's the point i fucking it's immature the younger i was the stronger my
00:25:35.920 opinions were on everything of course yeah the more right you were oh i was right yeah you you
00:25:40.420 know you fuck it andy was right you know you guys think i think i'm right now but i've calmed the
00:25:46.700 fuck down but but but the funny thing was is back then i wasn't right right i was always thought you
00:25:52.160 were yeah i thought i was and so you know if you're a young person and you're trying to figure out how
00:25:57.600 what to think don't dude if you're just copying some shit off of somebody's social and adopting
00:26:03.940 that as your viewpoint because you think they're cool man you're in for a long fucking hard ride in
00:26:10.100 life well you don't know the other thing i noticed about social media is you don't know you don't know
00:26:16.360 what you don't know that individual you don't know what's going on behind the scenes you don't i mean
00:26:21.060 you don't know if that meme was made up by people in china exactly or people in russia
00:26:27.400 you have no idea what's going on they don't necessarily have our interests in mind you have
00:26:31.080 no idea yeah you don't think they can fucking make funny shit in english like
00:26:34.720 bro this will be very fun yeah these people are smart they're not they're not stupid
00:26:41.460 so like but we have to get to a point where we're able to critically think and observe and know what is
00:26:48.600 actually going on and like i hear all these quote unquote woke people being like all the history of
00:26:54.400 the united states is fucking fake well okay you can i will give you this there's different perspectives
00:27:02.560 depending on what side the fuck you were on yeah right like if you were if you were uh on the losing
00:27:10.200 side of the civil war you probably have a different perspective than the people on the winning side i've
00:27:14.960 got a friend in fact in uh south carolina and he says most a lot of those people they still call
00:27:20.340 it the war of northern aggression yeah and if you look at that what does that mean that means they
00:27:25.060 thought that they were right well the north was really trying to take trying to attack them that's
00:27:31.140 their perspective and there's people that still look at it that way so depending on where you grew
00:27:35.740 up what you learned yeah but that goes i mean that's like like international too right like
00:27:40.760 there's a different perspective of someone who is an american soldier who is in afghanistan
00:27:48.340 and someone who's from afghanistan who was there when these motherfuckers just came in and started
00:27:53.540 killing the bad guys right okay so like maybe some of those bad guys was their uncle or their aunt
00:27:59.240 may you or there was collateral damage that's correct and a daughter or son got killed so we have to
00:28:04.280 be able as americans to see perspective so i will give you that there's always two perspectives on a
00:28:10.180 scenario like for example like the big knock on on general grant was that he owned slaves and that's
00:28:16.680 true but did you also know that his family who were pro-slave he didn't allow to come to his wedding
00:28:25.080 did you also know that when he was broke and had no money to his name instead of selling his slave
00:28:31.980 which could have got him a couple thousand bucks at the time he let him go free you see what i'm saying
00:28:37.800 so there's perspectives nuance and there's and this man not only did he let that slave go free he then
00:28:43.760 became the guy who went and actually won the war to free the slaves right he is credited with winning
00:28:50.280 the fucking war it's general grant versus general lee yeah that's it's a famous thing right and these
00:28:58.020 but that's a perspective right so you could shoot the perspective of he owned slaves he was this this this
00:29:04.380 or you could look at the truth and say what he actually did and say wow that's actually an
00:29:10.100 inspirational story of personal growth right and that's what america's about well i think the other
00:29:14.360 part about that too andy though is like people have one they'll take one little nugget of the truth
00:29:18.800 and that's all they want to hear right they don't want to hear the other parts they don't want to
00:29:22.340 hear the whole story you know what i'm saying and like i think that's what's happening right now
00:29:25.100 is like no they people want conversations on the table they want to ignore all the other things they
00:29:30.200 only want some conversations on the table bro we just talked about an hour before the show
00:29:34.480 about being from being sicilian yeah yeah uh do you not know that sicilians were uh basically slaves to
00:29:42.820 the moors you know what color the moors were they're black all right so like i'm sicilian bro yes
00:29:49.900 that's a black guy me winning shit we we didn't our family didn't uh immigrate to the united states
00:29:55.560 till like the 1900s okay yeah right so like
00:30:00.200 where do i fall on all this shit right you know like and and so we have to be able to identify
00:30:05.460 that there's all these different perspectives and we're not able to do that right now well and
00:30:10.340 not to mention that the the past is the past and it doesn't make it okay it doesn't make it entirely
00:30:15.300 right but nobody had to recognize it well and you have to look at it from the context of what it was
00:30:19.660 200 years ago yeah everybody 200 years ago everybody was racist yeah everybody and it wasn't
00:30:26.480 in today's terms and it wasn't from by today's standards right and it wasn't looked at as as a
00:30:31.700 character flaw it wasn't looked at as necessarily wrong see i see that and this is going to catch
00:30:36.940 some heat i'm sure but see i see that as as a beautiful thing i see that as growth because
00:30:41.400 we've evolved yes and recognizing that that's wrong no matter who does it i mean i think we also
00:30:45.960 got thrown at it too i mean during during those times it was also socially acceptable to throw
00:30:49.840 piss and shit out of your fucking windows yeah right into the street you know i'm saying so those times
00:30:54.340 have changed and wipe your hand with your ass yeah you know your ass with your hand yeah i mean
00:30:58.860 you know so so times have changed you know and i think i think if we don't give that credit if we
00:31:03.080 try to i mean about that it's going to repeat itself i'm just saying dj we're going to go back i mean
00:31:07.240 we're going to go back to wiping wiping our ass with our hands because apparently the toilet paper is hard
00:31:11.860 to get yeah right i'm saying so like i'm just saying guys you know you know we have to do a good job
00:31:19.980 and understanding perspective and growth and we're not having that right now in society and it's
00:31:24.140 really hard to sit back and watch because there's always two sides to a story and just because
00:31:29.300 someone did dude every motherfucker out there that's accusing like that's taking these stances
00:31:34.640 on you know like look at the media right now they're calling mount rushmore a fucking racist
00:31:40.720 right but three years ago but three years ago it was beautiful it was the same people yes right yeah
00:31:46.320 dude and this is great because they're all just alienating themselves and everybody that's
00:31:51.280 intelligent sees it yes um yeah they're calling themselves out yeah right dude i have so many i
00:31:56.960 have so many people my friends that are left left guys they're left wing friends believe it or not
00:32:02.360 i have a lot of friends who are on the left and you know yeah no not really no not really they now
00:32:10.060 they that was what i was going to get to you when you said still no not really actually a lot of
00:32:15.140 them have said yeah they said the same thing i said they said dude i can't fucking stand with
00:32:20.920 what's going on over there right now you know i'm saying and they're like we gotta we gotta purge that
00:32:25.340 that side of it the the i the ideals of that of so of leftism um i don't know if that's the right
00:32:33.400 way but like there's a liberal thinking liberal thinking the ideals of it makes sense right yeah but
00:32:38.420 the problem is is that a lot of it doesn't translate to real life do you uh do you follow dave rubin at
00:32:43.140 all he he's he's actually really interesting he's on the wait i don't know do i or not uh he he's
00:32:48.560 like a political pundit uh conservative he used to be very very left-leaning he considers himself a
00:32:54.760 classical uh liberal he's really interesting he used to be very left-leaning he calls them lefties
00:32:59.740 and now he's kind of transitioned over this conservative side he wrote a book called uh don't
00:33:04.000 burn this book okay and he talks oh i saw that book it's a good book we had him on the podcast and
00:33:08.740 he's very fascinating because he actually goes line by line and breaks down each of these thoughts from
00:33:15.560 uh being transsexual and multiple genders to homosexuality to uh cancel culture and he breaks
00:33:25.240 down all of the issues and how destructive this far left-leaning uh ideology it is and how how bad and
00:33:34.900 how rough of a road it's going to be if we embrace these as mainstream ideals well which is what we're
00:33:40.560 doing at this point it's shifting it's being attempted well i guess that's true that's what
00:33:44.580 i think we're gonna see the snap back of the rubber band pretty soon yeah i'm saying yeah well i think
00:33:49.000 i mean it's easy to attack like you said i think there there is good intent and there's good like
00:33:54.020 you know there's some good heart behind some of the left side no no no i think that's the whole
00:33:57.740 problem with them but the whole problem is their hearts are bigger than their brains yeah well that's the
00:34:03.260 problem so i was i told you about the two old older people that i was talking to over the weekend yeah
00:34:07.380 right and so like the one of them she's like but dj like we got to take care of the kids like we got
00:34:13.100 to give resources to those kids out there i'm like yeah okay so listen that sounds great right but
00:34:17.920 shouldn't the point be is so whether we don't have organizations that do that like shouldn't that be
00:34:22.760 the goal is to not have that and we don't not we don't get to that point by keep doing it we get to
00:34:28.780 that point by by changing who we're who we're talking to i heard a quote it was something like
00:34:33.260 if if you're if you're a conservative when you're younger you have no heart if you're a liberal when
00:34:40.080 you're older you have no brain yeah something like that yeah dude look man and and that's a
00:34:46.380 whole nother thing like all of you guys who are conservative out there you have to realize
00:34:50.000 these people who are opposing you and arguing with you and canceling you and fighting with you
00:34:55.640 um they think that they're correct and they think they're morally right and you know that morally
00:35:01.940 that moral superiority complex that that the left seems to have is amplified by the media
00:35:07.520 but when you have a talk with someone in real life usually those people they actually have
00:35:12.800 conservative values and what they're doing is they're they're either voicing something that
00:35:17.220 they believe is an injustice okay which i can get down with there's lots of injustice of course
00:35:21.760 all the time yeah and we got to fix them or they're doing it because their friends at work
00:35:26.760 will not let them say anything else and that's not okay you know you know when when we're getting
00:35:33.060 fired for for you know saying like i'm not gonna post a black square uh in my instagram because i know
00:35:41.040 that the funding goes to um marxist uh basically money yeah money laundering yeah money laundering and
00:35:50.480 and uh you know uh police violence and or violence against the police i misspoke there um and all
00:35:59.300 these things that it funds when it doesn't actually go to black people and you you're aware of that
00:36:04.000 right like like i was right but then you get trashed and you get you get told that we're never shopping
00:36:09.480 with you or we're never going to support you and you're a piece of shit when in reality now it's pretty
00:36:14.860 much common knowledge that i was correct right so we have to get to a point where we're able to
00:36:21.400 recognize these little things that that that these powerful people are trying to do to us to get us
00:36:27.040 fucking pissed off at each other that's a really good point i think just being aware of the motives
00:36:31.940 yeah like what is the motive then that gives you the idea of okay well how do i act based on what i
00:36:37.400 know their intentions and motives are dude i don't take anything for face value no no yeah you can't
00:36:43.060 yeah because you're being lied misled everything else and pitted against each other oh and that's
00:36:47.780 the problem is like americans and a lot of a lot of a lot of people right now on the left and the right
00:36:53.680 they are putting an un reasonable or unearned amount of trust into people who are fundamentally bad
00:37:06.680 people you know what i'm saying like it's a reasonable thought for us to think the government
00:37:11.620 has our best interests in mind you would hope that's a reasonable thought sure it's a reasonable
00:37:16.580 thought and and the fact that we're like when we see these people on the media like just blatantly
00:37:22.980 fucking lying to us which we see every fucking day multiple times a day uh painting perspectives
00:37:29.620 to be something that they aren't which we see multiple times a day every day when we see all these
00:37:34.620 things happening you know you have to remember like i think a lot of people in america right now are
00:37:39.920 thinking like no there's no way there's no way there's no way this could really be handy your
00:37:44.200 conspiracy theories there's no way i mean dude i've had people telling me that like no there is a way
00:37:50.040 and it's because these people don't think like you yeah and so this meant this mentality that all these
00:37:57.480 people think like us is actually what's creating the scenario right like guys i hate to break it to you
00:38:04.240 man not everybody's good well did you see that any of that uh epstein documentary that came out
00:38:10.720 yeah i saw that and i'm like jesus christ i mean i saw a couple episodes of it and this is one of the
00:38:15.080 most fucking connected dudes in a fucking planet i mean i was blown up like just to see what was
00:38:20.940 happening i'm like holy shit i had no idea there were human beings like that bro that's what i'm
00:38:25.840 saying crazy but that but the you know what why they got to keep this woman alive is because
00:38:30.720 there's so many more of those motherfuckers and i'm not saying just child abusers molesters rapists
00:38:36.060 killers yeah i'm not just saying that i'm saying that it's a it's a reflection of the mentality
00:38:42.240 other people are there to serve them regardless of what
00:38:46.600 aspect we're talking about serving them it could be a total like dude those women that did that with
00:38:54.500 him that he fucking fucked up their whole lives by being a dirty old fuck bro he doesn't think twice
00:39:02.920 about that no like you guys got to understand this those kind of people they don't have that they
00:39:07.520 don't feel guilt no like dude that that girl or that 15 year old girl or 12 year old whatever the
00:39:13.800 fuck that's just a piece of fucking meat served to serve him right there's no humanizing there and
00:39:21.320 people don't see because people can't relate how that's even a possibility because they're not like
00:39:28.420 that they start to deny that it's the truth when when all the evidence that's available points to
00:39:34.880 that being the truth the other thing i know that we do is we put people on pedestals they don't belong
00:39:39.680 yeah right like i i've even experienced that like i i was down i was just taking a little mini
00:39:44.900 vacation with my family a couple weeks ago and somebody had stopped me on the street like oh bro i love
00:39:49.720 everything you say and i was very flattered and grateful that they tuned in yeah yeah and then
00:39:54.640 they said oh but like we talked for a little while oh you're just a regular dude i'm like
00:39:58.280 yeah like just because you hear me on a podcast or you hear me talking with people that you also
00:40:04.480 admire and respect don't put me on some pedestal and think that i'm perfect that i have everything
00:40:10.120 figured out because then you're giving too much of your own authority to me yeah i don't deserve that
00:40:17.560 and you need to be careful of doing that dude i i get it i get it every day you know people people
00:40:23.100 they think because you've been successful in one area that you're just as successful in all areas
00:40:30.960 yeah which isn't always true in fact most of the time it's not true right and that's why you know i i
00:40:38.240 i i take the opposite road of what most like i guess i don't know what personalities right or
00:40:45.540 influence or personality whatever the term is right i i try to like let people know like hey dude uh
00:40:51.840 this shit is just as hard for me as it is for you i fucking hate it that's why people resonate with
00:40:56.840 yeah but but but dude that's just me letting go of my ego because i can very easily the easy ego move
00:41:02.600 would be yeah dude i'm the fucking man like you don't have what i have blah blah blah but that's
00:41:08.920 just not the truth and all these other motherfuckers that you all know they ain't got no shit that you
00:41:15.180 don't have either i promise you because i know them all right now one of them now they'll come in when
00:41:19.900 i first some of these dudes have been so big in life that they think like they're gonna come in i'm
00:41:24.760 gonna be like oh this guy's jesus no i fucking see right through that shit bro yeah all these dudes are
00:41:30.160 the same and that's the big that's the biggest lie being told right now in society especially on
00:41:34.880 instagram is that people have this like superhuman ability that other people don't have like i remember
00:41:40.940 thinking like when back when i was you know 16 17 i knew i wanted to be successful and i knew i would
00:41:47.140 do it in business um but i always thought of it like it was a lottery right like am i going to get to
00:41:53.180 be one of the guys that gets to do it but now looking back it has nothing to do with that it has to do
00:41:59.220 with your ability to wake up and execute regardless of how you feel that day and that's it
00:42:03.520 because everybody feels like crap that's right no and dude i just said that yesterday uh all the
00:42:09.100 great things that have ever been accomplished have been accomplished by tired men i heard you say
00:42:13.940 that everything so we have to start understanding there is no magic out there guys you got to stop
00:42:19.520 searching for it you got to stop putting people up on pedestals you got to stop letting people
00:42:23.920 blatantly lie to you it's just fucking wrong and it hurts society and and i i on a positive note
00:42:31.520 i think it's cool because i feel like everybody is sort of waking up maybe slowly but man i've had so
00:42:38.680 many guys that would identify as hardcore republican or hardcore left and they're like dude fuck all this
00:42:46.780 shit yeah we're about america and everybody's starting to be like damn dude we're about america we're
00:42:52.280 about america you know and the ideals it should be dude is america perfect no it's not it never will
00:42:59.020 be it never will be never and because we can always do better just like you'll that's why i always tell
00:43:04.860 people i'm not successful dude i'm working to be yeah you know and that's what america needs too it
00:43:10.360 needs the attitude of we're working to be and a lot of people will get mad and say i've been waiting a
00:43:15.360 long time well you know what man this is a process that's reality and i think that the lesson that's
00:43:22.780 been learned through all of this shit that started back in february with us is that dude we got bad
00:43:27.600 leadership across the board and some of us are gonna have to fucking make a change in our lives
00:43:33.120 and start fixing the fucking problem yeah you know like there's i like the i like what you're saying
00:43:39.020 about it's it's just a work in progress i had posted something about i don't know if it was the
00:43:44.040 pledge of allegiance or national anthem and somebody said oh man i can't believe you know you
00:43:48.000 dissed on the national anthem and the pledge of allegiance and i said you know it says liberty
00:43:52.420 and justice for all they said something that hasn't happened i'm like yeah maybe not like i maybe not
00:43:57.760 like perfectly yeah i can i can to see yeah yeah for sure yeah but a pledge is a promise yeah it doesn't
00:44:05.200 mean it's fulfilled yeah it just means that i promise to work towards that right and i think america
00:44:11.780 has done it better than any country that has ever existed on the face of the earth that does not
00:44:17.480 mean it's perfect that does not mean it's free of any blemishes or injustices yeah it just means that
00:44:22.840 we need to keep working towards it because we've pledged to do it dude i could see you know i i could
00:44:29.080 like because a lot of black americans have that viewpoint the the viewpoint of well you guys celebrate
00:44:35.620 independence yeah but that wasn't you know for us or you celebrate this and that wasn't for us because
00:44:41.040 not everybody was free i can understand that i get it i totally understand that but but also it
00:44:47.060 created the opportunity correct for us to do that right because it was a move in the right direction
00:44:51.480 if you go look at any other country in the world it's worse than us totally and if you go over to
00:44:55.240 africa look it's really fucked up all right there's still slave trade in libya every fucking day there
00:45:00.720 are still humans bought and sold every fucking day in libya every day right now
00:45:05.640 we as americans have done we have to be able to acknowledge it we've done a great job at becoming
00:45:13.440 better there's no reason to pull the plug now and burn it the fuck down right we need to learn our
00:45:18.400 lesson and say all right the next thing we clean up here's step number two or whatever right here's
00:45:23.600 step number one get rid of these motherfuckers that have made a career out of ruling us and robbing us
00:45:29.820 and then we'll get back to the ability to move forward again well i just think i think honestly when
00:45:34.600 you look at what these politicians are doing again on both sides of the aisle it's it's a de-evolution
00:45:39.680 right we're not evolving in the in the right way we're devolving into something that we moved away
00:45:46.460 from in 1776 that's right or at least we took a step away from ryan that's people's grief right like
00:45:52.680 like dude look everything sounds good when you ain't got nothing okay and you're like fuck yeah dude when
00:45:58.900 i get in that office i'm gonna fucking do it except when you get in the office now all of a sudden
00:46:03.700 everybody that's there that you thought you hated they're coming up to you and they're saying hey
00:46:07.280 man congrats yeah if you need this this is the guy to call yeah if you need that this is the guy and
00:46:12.100 they have their own little fucking thing going on in there you guys got to understand this this is why
00:46:16.920 you don't see republicans coming out and fucking attacking the democrats that are letting their
00:46:21.780 cities burn that's why because dude they're all in the special interest together and they all look
00:46:27.760 after each other and dude and i'm not saying like let's storm and overthrow the government
00:46:32.140 but i think that trump is the best chance we have to fix what's going on that's the truth and that's
00:46:37.660 not me like sucking his ball everybody's like oh dude you fucking suck trump's nuts got something
00:46:43.420 on your chin no man i'm just saying he's the guy that represents the least of the qualities of both
00:46:49.440 the right and left you know what i mean he's a he's a moderate dude he's very you know i don't know man
00:46:55.720 i'm just so i'm so
00:46:59.280 ready for people to start thinking and to start
00:47:05.500 understanding what america is supposed to be and start voting for that you know what i mean like
00:47:13.100 bro i love america you know what i'm saying there's no reason for me to not love it do i get hurt
00:47:18.440 sometimes by some of the shit that i see yeah dude it makes me disappointed it makes me disgusted with
00:47:23.060 some of the things mainly the media and the politics right now i think if we had a fucking
00:47:27.520 honest view of the people the people are pretty fucking good yeah you know what i mean do we have
00:47:31.940 some fucked up people yeah dude we do that's just why we need a system to regulate it well and a lot
00:47:38.680 of that stuff here's the funny thing is like you see like even with um uh injustices from police
00:47:44.820 officers right and unnecessary violence and people get upset about it and they should they should yeah
00:47:50.580 and also the system's working yeah right like this like those people are being brought to justice
00:47:57.180 the system i'm not saying it's not never gonna happen yeah but it seems to me that at this point
00:48:02.860 we're actually doing a pretty good job of bringing those individuals to justice well the only caveat to
00:48:08.760 that though ryan though is that yeah the system's there the system's in place but we got people in that
00:48:13.600 system who don't let it work and that and prime examples is like what's going on with george
00:48:18.680 forward right that ag in in minneapolis he's a democrat he he purposefully upgraded that man's
00:48:25.380 charge that police officer and now he's not going to get uh convicted for that yeah because of
00:48:30.340 something he charged him with the wrong right with the wrong crime right so i mean yeah we have a system
00:48:34.880 there in place but until we start holding the people who have to make sure that system works
00:48:38.900 accountable and get pieces of shit like that ag out it's going to keep happening well not not only that
00:48:44.720 then you look at vetting with police officers and training requirements that they're not getting
00:48:49.160 bro you're not going to help by defunding it simple problem to fix i said it on episode 44 or 45
00:48:54.840 this is fucking real simple we have a 800 billion dollar military budget we have a 45 what is it 40 like
00:49:04.380 40 45 billion police budget we could take 100 billion from the military budget put it into the police
00:49:11.080 budget get them the training get them the equipment get them higher payroll to attract better people
00:49:15.040 and we will fucking fix the police system in fucking three years but dude we can't get we can't it doesn't
00:49:21.520 even have to be from the military there's it could be from anywhere but i'm just saying the police are
00:49:25.640 underfunded not overfunded and exactly and that's probably getting worse that's correct and we have to
00:49:30.160 work to create a a a system to where we're going to attract good people into it like right dude when i
00:49:39.040 grew up being a police officer was super honorable oh yeah like dude if you're if my buddy's dad was a
00:49:43.460 cop you looked at him like he was he was something yeah you know i'm saying yeah and that's not the
00:49:47.900 case anymore and regardless of the issues right you could argue the facts because the facts don't
00:49:52.860 really point to any of the shit anybody's saying anyway that's the truth okay nobody likes to talk
00:49:57.560 about that because it's uncomfortable but let's just take it and say okay we could all agree that
00:50:04.740 being a police officer is not desirable so if it's not desirable how are we going to get good
00:50:10.400 people to do the job you see what i'm saying so we have to make that position a desirable position
00:50:16.280 honorable position again and we have to do so by paying them more by creating a system where they
00:50:22.360 can be in control of their pay scale meaning you could come in when you're 21 years old or whatever
00:50:28.000 i don't know what is it how 21 all right yeah you come in you're 21 and by the time you're 35 or 30
00:50:33.720 you could be making 250 grand a year as a cop how many motherfuckers would join then oh yeah and then
00:50:39.300 and then you make their incentives um you know hey you got to hit this training and that training and
00:50:44.440 this training and you got to have a great record yes okay now dude now we have a totally different
00:50:50.140 scenario now we have great people fighting for an in-demand job right which now not everybody gets it
00:50:56.280 right but like dude why is that not being discussed right because i'm gonna tell you right now i'm a
00:51:02.540 fucking dumb ass from missouri and i can see that so what the fuck you know what i'm saying like this
00:51:09.240 would be an easy problem to solve if we just had some people that actually wanted to solve it which
00:51:14.440 we don't right so dude thanks for coming down on the show man this has been an awesome conversation i
00:51:19.140 think people are really gonna like it uh tell people where they can find you and basically what you
00:51:23.940 know what your deal is because we didn't really hit that in the beginning and a lot of people
00:51:26.840 you know obviously the show's grown since the last time it has so we should have done this in
00:51:31.240 beginning but yeah but it's all right yeah i just enjoy the conversations me too brother i mean
00:51:35.340 ultimately i i just want to give men the tools they need that's it you know whatever they want to do
00:51:40.840 if if they want to be a father i want to help them be a more engaged father if they want to be a
00:51:44.280 business owner i want to i want to connect them with people i want to have conversations with men like
00:51:48.780 yourself so they can learn from guys who are successful in that route if they want to serve in their
00:51:53.180 communities if they want to get strong like whatever their thing is my job is to create all
00:51:58.040 the resources and conversations and everything available to do that so where can people find you
00:52:02.900 order of man.com or order a man wherever you listen to this podcast and you'll find us and uh man we've
00:52:08.680 had it's been awesome i could not have imagined five and a half years ago whatever it was it being
00:52:14.540 where it is today which is just a testament to you know i feel like i've done some things right
00:52:18.200 but it's also a testament to how much this message is needed and how how men need to be served in this
00:52:24.280 way and it just wasn't available before no bro you're doing great work thank you i mean this is
00:52:28.840 uh i love having you on i love our our conversations i wish we could do it more often yeah i think people
00:52:35.860 are really going to resonate with this conversation and i want to be able to find you so make sure you
00:52:39.740 guys support ryan he he's doing good work he's a great man he's one of the best guys i know for real
00:52:44.500 and uh go to order a man.com subscribe to his podcast listen to it it's always good stuff
00:52:50.060 um and and give my man some support because he's doing good work so um guys that's the show um
00:52:57.740 remember if you like the show pay the fee you know what the fee is just you know spread the word a
00:53:02.780 little bit and uh we'll see you next time
00:53:04.980 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living
00:53:09.340 spoke it till existence
00:53:10.860 i'm from where you can't trust so welcome