REAL AF with Andy Frisella - October 16, 2023


587. Q&AF: Dealing With Useful Idiots, Talent Vs. Skill & Fixing Company Culture


Episode Stats

Length

32 minutes

Words per Minute

202.83513

Word Count

6,644

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

2

Hate Speech Sentences

64


Summary

On this episode of the Reel Talk Podcast, the guys talk about the new 75 Hard challenge, the new flavors coming to the market, and the new cream soda coming soon. We also talk about why we don't have a cream soda yet, and why it's a good thing.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
00:00:20.860 the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
00:00:25.540 have q and af that's where you get to submit the questions and we give you the answers now you
00:00:30.960 can submit your questions a couple different ways the first way is guys you can email your
00:00:34.640 questions in uh to ask andy at andy for seller.com or you can go on youtube on the uh every monday
00:00:41.380 episode which is the q and af episode and drop your question in the comment section and we'll
00:00:45.380 pick some from there as well other times you tune in you know we've got cti cti stands for cruise the
00:00:50.420 internet that's our news current events comedy show we speculate on what's going on we speculate
00:00:55.740 on what's bullshit and then we talk about how we the people can be the solution to the problems
00:01:00.620 that are happening in the world then we have real talk real talk is five to 20 minutes and me giving
00:01:04.700 you some real talk usually those come out on thursdays then we have full length full length
00:01:09.980 what you're used to seeing on most every other podcast where we have a friend of ours come in
00:01:13.940 or an interesting guest come in and we have a conversation and then we have 75 hard verses
00:01:19.100 and 75 hard verses is where people who have completed 75 hard who have changed their lives
00:01:25.280 come in and talk about how they were before how they are now and how you can do the same if you're
00:01:29.800 interested in 75 hard which is the initial phase of the live hard program it is not a challenge
00:01:35.240 75 hard is a program it's not a challenge you can get it for free at episode 208 on the audio feed
00:01:41.960 or you can go to 75 hard.com or you can go buy the book on my website andy for seller.com
00:01:47.880 so uh that's what we got here on real af we've got shows within the show and we have this thing
00:01:53.100 we call the fee you'll notice i don't run ads on the show uh i don't let people pay me and then
00:01:59.260 censor myself around what they think i should and shouldn't say even though with the traffic that i
00:02:03.760 get on this show i could earn eight figures a year uh with ads i ask very simply that you stand
00:02:09.960 with me and share the show that is all i ask it's called paying the fee so i come in here i produce a
00:02:17.320 show i pay it out of my pocket cost me seven figures a year to do all i ask is that if you
00:02:22.720 get value out of the show or you believe in what i'm saying or my messaging that you please
00:02:26.880 consistently share the show that's what we mean when we say pay the fee so don't be a hoe show
00:02:32.140 all right what's up man hey what's going on brother oh not much another another beautiful day
00:02:38.040 yeah what you got there oh this is the uh this is the new the new new yeah yeah this is the new
00:02:45.600 tropic lightning first form energy just came out i'd say right now that's the shit yeah it's pretty
00:02:51.640 good like it's definitely one two with orange nah it is orange is like number three now
00:02:56.800 i don't know bro that's pretty good it's good it's it's real good but it's definitely i think i'm
00:03:04.700 still orange yeah but tropic lightning's up there and the uh screaming freedom flavor is really good
00:03:10.500 too that's a new flavor that we got that's number two for me yeah we dropped those last week bro
00:03:14.040 sold them out in an hour yeah like both flavors that was crazy yeah that's wild not what we expected
00:03:19.260 but it was really cool and uh i appreciate all you guys that that i scooped some of those up we'll
00:03:23.520 have some more in stock here real soon yeah for sure yeah i mean i i've actually uh noticed i've had
00:03:27.520 a few people hit me up you know they were uh curious as to why curious yeah they were curious as to
00:03:34.580 why the uh the grape didn't roll out why it's because we're racist well that's not it yeah we
00:03:41.660 didn't want you know we didn't want to keep you too happy i'm discriminating against dj yeah when i
00:03:47.680 say people were asking it's just me yeah actually well great great we're actually doing grape and
00:03:52.580 cream soda together they got to be a dual release yeah it is because we got to take care of the white
00:03:56.400 people and the black people that's what i'm saying unity bro yeah unity it's it's fair
00:04:00.020 so like dude fuck up grape either like grapes he's like that's like i feel like that's a we
00:04:05.040 actually do have grape we do we do have grape it's just not out yet we do have cream soda and i'm not
00:04:11.120 joking about any of it listen bro how many how many times have i said some crazy shit and then it's
00:04:17.740 exactly what i say like i'm not i don't fucking bullshit bro that shit's coming that's real it's
00:04:22.160 going to be a gift set it's going to be called the unity pack this is how we're going to save america
00:04:28.160 save america with grape and cream soda that's fucking awesome yeah well i'm looking forward
00:04:34.500 to it man i know you are i mean i'm telling you right now listen i'm looking forward to like
00:04:40.240 holding hands and skipping down the sidewalk with my cream soda and you with your brain we got to
00:04:44.320 make that commercial yeah well i think we don't even need to make it we just should do it because
00:04:48.260 it'd be nice yeah send the message bro you got to do it got to do it man this shit is good though
00:04:54.140 no dude listen i think that that's my number one flavor right now if you haven't checked out
00:04:57.720 first form energy for real you're missing out dude yeah um go to your local grocery store and
00:05:03.160 tell them they're assholes if they don't have it yeah how about that no no do that seriously
00:05:06.980 forget asking them nice yeah don't say hey you guys are fucks yeah carry the best shit yeah
00:05:14.140 that's what i'm saying all right all right well uh it is it is q a man and uh it is i got some good
00:05:20.720 ones for you all right all right let's knock these out andy guys question number one andy
00:05:25.280 andy i used to be a useful idiot uh until the covet vax round two messed me up i've been dealing with
00:05:33.400 my decision for almost two years now besides the point my old friends uh i left behind when i
00:05:40.320 realized and it came to what was actually happening i found your show i share the show and i've lost more
00:05:45.540 friends along the way but i have gained more because of it now i have a few of those old friends coming
00:05:51.360 back around i hold so much hate in my heart for them because of how they treated me i'm not really
00:05:56.700 sure how to move forward with them do you have any input well i can understand that um i experienced as
00:06:05.460 you can imagine uh an enormous amount of hate myself you know this is not just within my friend
00:06:10.660 network and dj you know this is true too you know we get on here every day and say this in front of
00:06:16.080 millions of people all right we have eight figures of downloads every single month on this show um
00:06:21.520 so i understand the hate it was vicious it was fucking mean it was unrelenting it was bullshit yeah
00:06:29.100 okay and i i too have resentment for a lot of the people and a lot of the shit they said and i've had
00:06:34.100 very few people apologize there's been some people who have apologized but not many right people are
00:06:39.140 just assuming that we'll forget and i can tell you for sure i will never forget i will never ever ever
00:06:45.080 forget my friends and my family who called me up on the phone or wrote messages to me on instagram
00:06:51.020 or the followers who fucking said hey you're uh you're you're you know unhinged or you're a conspiracy
00:06:58.480 theorist or you're this or that and called me all these names for fucking years so i understand that
00:07:04.500 but here's the thing i also understand that what we were dealing with at the time was
00:07:12.500 the biggest propaganda campaign that had ever existed in human history and if you think about
00:07:19.720 the internet being new technology you have to understand that this was the first time that
00:07:25.440 the internet was fully utilized for its propaganda potential and so they weaponized this technology
00:07:31.340 that hasn't been around very long and people had never witnessed it before and i think that we have
00:07:36.260 to be reasonable that people have an expectation that is very reasonable that the people who are on tv
00:07:44.760 who are the quote-unquote experts are actually acting with their best interests in mind and it has come
00:07:52.660 to be shown over the course of the last three and a half years to most people that that's not the case
00:07:58.420 and so i do have animosity and bitterness towards a lot of these people but at the same time
00:08:08.120 i also feel sorry for them because just like you you fell for it when i was trying to warn you
00:08:14.880 okay and now you're dealing with the ramifications and i i feel like you know a lot of these people
00:08:22.140 are people who had reasonable expectations to not be lied to and when they were lied to they reacted
00:08:30.920 poorly and you know here's something that i think about a lot is that if you think back to the covid
00:08:37.100 hysteria and the way people were and then you think back to the argument of what would you have done
00:08:42.840 during the uh holocaust right everybody likes to say oh how could this have happened i would have stood up
00:08:49.460 no you wouldn't you would have been one of the people saying take them to the fucking concentration
00:08:53.560 camps and a lot of people are going to have to live their whole lives knowing that they're on that
00:08:57.640 side of history you were wrong other people were right and people like us people who were spreading
00:09:04.080 the message from the beginning are legitimately responsible for stopping what probably would have
00:09:09.840 been a genocide and the reason for the genocide was to remove the resistance and if we look about
00:09:16.100 what happened and the language that was used and the actions that were taken i fully believe that
00:09:22.140 that was their plan you know i believe that they believe that the amount of people that were going
00:09:26.060 to resist were much smaller than what actually resisted and that they plan on disposing of those
00:09:31.400 people they plan on imprisoning them or eliminating them and they there was many places in the world that
00:09:37.840 actually put people in actual camps there are places here in the united states that were building camps
00:09:43.120 and we had leaders like justin trudeau saying what are we going to do with these people we had our
00:09:48.600 president saying these people we have a pandemic of the unvaccinated these people should be shunned
00:09:53.760 from society they should be uh you know basically shamed and and you know we had all these things
00:10:01.080 happening bro the rhetoric was insane go back and watch it and uh i think if people didn't you know
00:10:06.780 see what was happening they would have been ushered off and disposed of and and for the reason of
00:10:11.980 disposing of people who were going to stand in the way of the 2030 agenda which is what ultimately
00:10:16.660 they're trying to do so um you know i don't have an answer for you uh i don't think people should
00:10:23.480 forgive and forget i think people should be very cognizant and aware that those same people who said
00:10:30.240 that you know the unvaccinated people shouldn't be put in society the unvaccinated people are are
00:10:35.720 grandma killers and they're dangerous and you know all of these people you have to remember that was
00:10:41.020 psychological manipulation and those same people are capable of being psychologically manipulated
00:10:46.560 again into the same actions or even worse actions and so i don't subscribe to this idea of forgive and
00:10:53.080 forget and move forward i i subscribe to be aware understand that they were manipulated and if they
00:10:59.640 take responsibility for being manipulated like this person has is asking the question then we can move
00:11:06.160 forward but i i personally after witnessing that and witnessing what's happened from covid to the
00:11:13.580 vaccine to black lives matter to ukraine to now what's going on in the middle east i am very very
00:11:21.360 very aware that there's a large number of people that can be psychologically manipulated into literally
00:11:28.280 murdering a large percentage of people that they don't agree with and i think you know that's very
00:11:33.640 dangerous and i think it's something for all of us to be aware of and continue to fight continue to
00:11:37.400 work towards shining the light on how we were all being manipulated um to fight each other and so when
00:11:44.360 we look at the situation as a whole we have to remember that you know the only way they can maintain
00:11:50.040 power over us is by dividing us and getting us to do these kind of things and this is why we see this
00:11:55.440 same pattern over and over again you know we saw it with covid we saw with the black square it's always two
00:12:00.660 sides yes right it's this or that and pick a side and if you don't pick a side you're a piece of shit
00:12:06.000 that that never yeah you can't even stay neutral no bro they don't allow you to so you have to stay
00:12:13.520 neutral and you have to look at them right in their fucking eye and say i don't give a fuck okay and
00:12:18.880 that's where i'm at i don't give a fuck what you think about me i'm going to say what i think i'm going
00:12:24.180 to say what i'm observing and you can call me any motherfucking name in the book see the best thing that's
00:12:28.520 happened to me over the last three years is that i have become highly conditioned to being called
00:12:32.680 names i don't care anymore i don't care i have no fear i don't give a fuck what you think which gives
00:12:38.020 me the freedom to say whatever i want to say okay so if we could all get to that point and we could all
00:12:45.220 get to that point where we say hey fuck you all right things will change in this country but they use
00:12:51.140 fear to control us and they use the fear of social rejection and social outcasting and mob
00:12:58.080 mentality to keep us from speaking the truth because when we speak the truth and we say i don't
00:13:02.760 give a fuck what you call me they lose all their power okay like when people call me shit on the
00:13:07.820 internet and i'm like yeah okay what can they do right they're punching air so like be okay with it who
00:13:16.620 cares you know the truth yeah i'm trying to i'm i'm this is about solutions this is not about who's right
00:13:23.180 in the moment we have too many people out here trying to be right and then spouting misinformation
00:13:29.200 and spouting bullshit and propaganda because they want to be right because they weren't famous before
00:13:35.000 covid like how many social media influencers do we have that nobody knew before covid who now have a
00:13:41.640 brand have a page having a way to sell t-shirts and they're monetizing that as hard hard as they can
00:13:47.480 and at the same time propagating the uh the the misinformation that's intentionally put out like
00:13:54.820 we talked about on on last friday show the atrocity propaganda these these tales that have been proven
00:14:01.260 to not be true right and they do this because they want to get likes clicks and shares and then you know
00:14:06.960 they become a pawn for the overall propaganda machine and and dude i think it's shameful i think a lot of
00:14:13.960 these people who claim to be freedom fighters and claim to be for the people and claim to be about
00:14:18.040 america are not they're about themselves and it's evident by the way that they regurgitate information
00:14:23.500 and try to be first so that they can sell some fucking shit okay that's not why i do this guess what
00:14:28.980 motherfuckers i was pretty famous before this started people knew who i was i had the number one
00:14:33.880 entrepreneur podcast on the motherfucking internet okay i was also rich okay before this happened that's just
00:14:41.040 real i'm not bragging i'm just saying stating facts i've been working for 20 years to build my life
00:14:45.880 and now i'm in a position where i thought this whole entire time i'd be able to live my life in
00:14:50.920 peace right this whole time i've been working i've been thinking fuck dude all right i'm gonna get in
00:14:54.820 my 40s i'm gonna fucking enjoy my life okay and you guys know this you listen to my show remember when
00:15:01.480 i had been talking to you guys about how i was gonna buy a second place in florida and do all this shit well
00:15:05.880 you know what that's not happening now you know why it's not happening because i have to take on
00:15:09.940 this battle now because if i don't take on this battle and i don't come in here and fucking do
00:15:14.320 this work which i do for free by the way then i'm afraid that you guys who have always listened to me
00:15:19.760 for years and years and years and years and years will never have the opportunities that i had to build
00:15:24.640 a life that i have which is my whole entire teaching prior to this happening yeah so like understand
00:15:32.220 there is a difference between people who actually want to solve this problem and create a freer
00:15:37.760 better america for the future generations and then there's a lot of motherfuckers that are just
00:15:42.660 existing because this is the only identity they've ever been able to create for themselves and they
00:15:46.780 don't give two fucks if they're right or wrong they care about the reaction and the attention because
00:15:51.000 that's the economy that we live in so to answer your question in a roundabout way um i don't forgive
00:15:57.860 people for the way i was treated because it was horrible i had people break in my house i had people try to
00:16:03.340 assault me i've had to arrest i don't know what a dozen people over the last few years
00:16:08.140 okay for harassment all kinds of shit i've had to put up with for having this voice and for speaking
00:16:13.760 the truth and it's been frustrating because i haven't been able to get you guys fully engaged
00:16:18.700 behind me to speak with me because if it was you guys and me and all of us they couldn't do anything
00:16:24.180 about it but because you're scared and you're probably scared of some fucking dumbass in your family
00:16:30.180 who talk shit to you for 10 years because they don't know what the fuck they're talking about
00:16:34.360 and they shame you for everything you've been conditioned for silence and if we would all just
00:16:39.020 wake the fuck up and we would all just say you know what i'm done with this i'm gonna say what i think
00:16:44.260 just like andy's saying what he thinks and we're gonna stop this shit the shit will stop okay so that's
00:16:50.020 what i'm waiting for to happen i'm waiting for everybody to engage and join in and preach the
00:16:55.320 fucking message of real american freedom okay i am tired of innocent people dying
00:17:00.080 i'm tired of our families being taxed into poverty i'm tired of our economy being shit i'm tired of
00:17:06.200 being taken advantage of i'm tired of being manipulated i'm tired of being purposefully
00:17:10.540 enraged i'm tired of the division i'm tired of the hate our life is not supposed to be this way
00:17:16.140 our life is supposed to be peaceful and pleasant and filled with opportunity and joy and because we
00:17:22.020 are led by a bunch of greedy fuck tyrants we aren't allowed to have that life our whole entire life
00:17:27.920 gets stolen from us that's what i'm aware of i'm in my 40s now i'm not 25 i'm not 35 i'm in my 40s
00:17:35.520 time is more valuable when you get a little bit older and when you start to realize what's actually
00:17:40.460 happening what's actually happening here is that they are stealing our fucking lives that we will
00:17:45.460 never get back okay and that matters to me i'm not here to fight this fucking battle because these
00:17:51.160 people are evil fucks we're here to fucking live life and make this place a better place and we're not
00:17:57.040 able to even do that because these people are such shitbags anyway i don't forgive any of them
00:18:04.200 they all need to be held accountable at the highest level your friends and family they're useful idiots
00:18:09.880 they don't know any better i don't forgive them either if they come around and they apologize and
00:18:14.220 they admit they're wrong and they join the team great i can fucking forgive that but trying to
00:18:19.020 pretend that like it didn't happen or they didn't say this shit i'm not with that shit bro
00:18:23.000 own your shit say you're sorry apologize to people that you fucking insulted okay and then
00:18:29.300 we can work together moving forward to fix some of this shit going on and until that happens this
00:18:34.300 these operations will continue to happen over and over and over and over again and they'll continue
00:18:38.100 to destroy our lives you know absolutely bro absolutely all right guys andy question number
00:18:44.040 two mr frisella this shit is good yes it is it does taste like a squirt you want to squirt what'd
00:18:52.660 you say you don't even know what squirt is bro i know what fucking squirts are what is it sodas
00:18:57.820 they're fucking great soda yeah it tastes like squirt i personally like the mellow yellows i think
00:19:04.380 they're underrated you ain't ever had a mellow bro i fucking love mellow yellow bro and the only
00:19:11.120 place that i know that still serves it on fountain is like penn station pretty good mellow yellow is
00:19:16.900 good bro it's pretty fucking good yeah i'm pretty sure like i saw some shit about the dye or whatever
00:19:21.060 they use in that you know it's whatever but yeah well they put atrazine in our water it makes our
00:19:26.080 balls shrink so i'm pretty sure whatever the fuck is in mellow yellow is probably not that bad well hold
00:19:30.780 on yeah what still good yeah well i'm just being honest guys andy question number two uh mr frisella
00:19:40.800 i am in my first year in college and i'm part of a division one track team one of my dreams is to
00:19:47.540 become a professional track athlete but i am not a naturally gifted athlete i had to work very very
00:19:54.520 hard to be in the position i am in now i struggle with comparing myself with others in this sport i have
00:20:01.500 to be compared to others but i believe it rules more of my headspace than it should how should i begin
00:20:07.160 to attack the issue um you should attack it the same way you've been attacking it here's what you
00:20:13.200 have to understand there's talented people and then there's people with less talent that have to work
00:20:19.340 very hard and the people with less talent that have to work very hard if they actually do the work
00:20:25.300 end up being much better than the people with just talent alone when you're young and especially in
00:20:31.460 sports but this applies to business or anything else in life when you're young and you have talents
00:20:36.040 you assume that you're going to continue to be good and you assume that you're going to continue
00:20:39.700 to perform at a high level and what happens is is you never learn how to actually follow that with
00:20:44.900 the work ethic and we see this over and over again in professional sports and all kinds of areas of
00:20:49.460 life we were just talking about this yesterday on a walk talking about being athletes in high school
00:20:54.440 and like you know going back yeah yeah yeah line on just talent yeah but what i'm saying here
00:20:58.620 is that the people who have the work ethic who have less talent end up producing much more than
00:21:06.680 the people who just have talent all right because the people who work they develop the work ethic
00:21:11.840 early because they have to to compete and then that work ethic sticks with them and they continue
00:21:16.560 to push and push and push and push and eventually their skill set gets to the level of the talented
00:21:21.120 person which is the max level for the talented person but is a mediocre level for the person who
00:21:26.360 wants to continue to work and so what ends up happening is kind of like what happened to tom
00:21:30.300 brady all right tom brady gets drafted at the end of the nfl draft reason he got drafted at the end of
00:21:35.920 the nfl draft is because he wasn't as talented as a lot of the other players but during his high school and
00:21:41.480 during his college years he developed this insane work ethic and that insane work ethic he kept while he
00:21:46.640 was playing professional sports and he continued to improve and get better and better and better and
00:21:50.700 now is considered probably the greatest nfl player ever by most people look at michael jordan michael
00:21:58.540 jordan got cut from his high school basketball team the reason michael jordan got cut from his high
00:22:03.200 school basketball team is because he wasn't as talented as the other players so what happened to
00:22:08.240 him he understood i have to work hard i have to do things that other people aren't willing to do
00:22:13.320 and because of that he developed this insane process for improving himself and over the course
00:22:19.520 of his career he kept on that process and he got better and better and better and better and better
00:22:24.340 and he now he's the greatest basketball player that's ever lived and some people consider him the
00:22:28.980 greatest athlete that's ever lived so none of these people that you consider the greatest of all time
00:22:34.460 whether it be sports whether it be business whether it be anything are the most talented people these are
00:22:39.800 people who who had a little bit of talent but had the work ethic to attach to so the fact that you're
00:22:45.580 one of those people is a gift the fact that you're someone who doesn't have the raw talent that everybody
00:22:51.400 else has around you is a gift if you match it with the discipline and you match it with the work ethic
00:22:57.260 you're going to go 10 times further than any of these other people because when they max out they won't know
00:23:03.160 how to get any better and you'll never max out because you'll continue to get better and better and better
00:23:07.560 the longer you go so obviously there's limits on physical capabilities as you go but here's the
00:23:13.200 cool thing about this process when you develop this work ethic and you develop this process of
00:23:18.000 understanding that if i work and work and work and work and work and work and work i win that starts to
00:23:23.480 apply to anything and this is why we see you know michael jordan come out of basketball and become a
00:23:28.980 multi-billionaire okay this is why tom brady comes out of football and is going to become a multi-multi
00:23:35.560 billionaire with all the projects he has going on all right this is why i'm successful okay i i was
00:23:43.000 nothing special i was never fucking special i wasn't considered smart i wasn't considered exceptional
00:23:48.760 i wasn't anything i was just someone who was a little bit had a little bit of drive and a little
00:23:54.300 bit of ambition and knew that i didn't want a regular life and i worked and worked and worked and
00:23:58.240 worked and worked and worked and worked and i have a skill set of the process of the work now
00:24:01.960 that's its own skill set okay now i'm going to continue to get better while all of my friends
00:24:08.720 who are the same age as me who might have had an advantage or rich parents or investors or this or
00:24:14.400 that they're kicking their feet up on a fucking beach in costa rica while i'm up here building a
00:24:19.320 fucking empire you see what i'm saying so like this shit if you're one of these people who is not
00:24:27.220 gifted with the natural talent and the natural ability but you understand that you can work to
00:24:32.000 develop it you're you're the right kind of person to become great that's the people that become great
00:24:37.560 we have this misconception that people think that greatness is like something you're born with or it's
00:24:43.220 something that you're gifted and it's absolutely not there's a lot of great players who were gifted
00:24:49.080 with greatness who never became great because they couldn't figure out that they needed to do the work
00:24:54.040 with it so don't be discouraged all right you're on the right path you're understanding exactly what
00:25:01.720 you are and exactly what you are is the best kind of person to be it's someone with a little bit of
00:25:06.280 talent a little bit of skill that allows them to compete in the game but also an understanding that
00:25:11.540 for them to be great they have to work their fucking ass off and that person those are the people
00:25:16.480 that people write books about that change industry that change sports that change the world it's not
00:25:22.240 the person that was born with the most talent it's the person who has a little bit of talent
00:25:25.760 and then pairs it with the insane work ethic i love that man i love that i feel like also too right like
00:25:31.500 would you agree that you know if you're one of these people you you truly do have to buy in
00:25:38.900 to whatever goal that is if it's running track like you know michael jordan the reason he had to learn
00:25:44.800 how to work hard is because he really wanted to play fucking basketball yeah you know i'm saying so i
00:25:48.480 feel like a lot of people they're not even committing to that overall objective to begin
00:25:52.000 with before the hard work even starts yeah well those people don't have a chance yeah you have no
00:25:56.680 chance of that you have to make a decision on what the fuck you're going to be it's not just for
00:26:01.360 nothing it's not just show up and work for nothing because here's the thing the the goal that you want
00:26:08.860 for yourself has to be so real and so vivid and you have to be so obsessed about it that you are willing
00:26:16.660 to suffer more than everybody else to achieve it that's the reality of achievement you have to be
00:26:22.920 willing to suffer when everybody else gives up you have to be able to endure when everybody else packs
00:26:28.700 it in and this is what creates greatness and without that vision of what you're trying to be
00:26:33.340 without that conscious decision that i'm going to do this no matter what the fuck happens you can
00:26:39.640 never achieve it because you don't have the motivation to stick through the hard times when
00:26:43.380 everybody else quits that's how it works i fucking love it i love it guys andy our third and final
00:26:49.720 question any question number three andy in my lawn care business my leaders at the top are completely
00:26:56.980 bought into the mission and vision and that rolls downhill with most of those under them these past
00:27:03.120 couple of years as the labor market has gotten even more cutthroat since covet i've noticed that some
00:27:08.840 of our newer hires aren't as quote unquote bought in and they seem to just be here for the benefits
00:27:15.340 themselves not the company as a whole we are the highest paying company in our markets with the best
00:27:20.480 benefits in our industry 401k health four-day work week etc and we treat our team extremely well
00:27:27.140 are people just that entitled now or are we missing something you're missing something all right you're
00:27:34.920 missing the understanding that if you make it too cush and too easy in the beginning people will take
00:27:40.600 advantage of you all right so they have to learn that if they work they will be rewarded and if you
00:27:45.860 give them the reward up front without them having to earn it they're going to act as you're describing
00:27:50.060 so here's the solution the solution is stop treating them like they've already won before they've won
00:27:56.520 all right figure out a way to compensate them and then paint a vision for their progress that they can
00:28:03.120 achieve within your company and make that vision so big that whatever vision they have for their own lives
00:28:09.680 they can fit that underneath your vision right if you're trying to cut lawns and that's all you're
00:28:15.180 going to do is cut a few neighborhoods these people are not going to be motivated they're not going to
00:28:19.000 show up because they're going to realize that you know all i'm getting is all i'm getting now and what
00:28:23.480 difference does it make if i work any harder so we have to create a scenario where they're driven to work
00:28:28.060 harder to achieve their own dreams and so what does that mean for you that means your vision has
00:28:34.220 to become so large that they can easily say well fuck dude if i work hard within this vision i can
00:28:39.460 afford the house i can afford the car i can afford the life i don't need to be you know worth a hundred
00:28:44.440 million dollars but like bro i can live in a nice hood i can fucking drive a nice car i can go out to
00:28:49.180 dinner at nice places if i just help build this vision okay so you're probably lacking that aspect in
00:28:55.180 your business and then you're turning around and blaming it on people for being lazy you're you've
00:29:00.600 actually got it all fucked up all right stop rewarding people when they first come in day one
00:29:05.760 yes take care of people yes do the right thing yes be fair but don't over deliver because then they
00:29:11.420 don't have any motivation to work and then on top of it create a scenario where they can very quickly
00:29:16.280 move up the ladder by executing and what you do there is you're you're creating the behavior of
00:29:20.840 achievement within the culture of your company and that's creating the drive right and then here's
00:29:25.440 how this works other people that you hire they come into your company and they talk to you know
00:29:30.800 let's say steve who's been here for for two years and steve's driving a decent truck and lives in a
00:29:35.920 pretty nice decent house and steve's telling the new guy bro when i started here i didn't have shit
00:29:40.480 okay i did this and this and this and i moved up and now i'm winning and that's going to inspire the
00:29:45.800 new guy to follow that so then you create a culture of achievement within your vision so you're
00:29:49.900 missing a few things all right you're missing the motivation built in you're missing the ability
00:29:54.640 for them to achieve their dreams and your mission you're missing most importantly your responsibility
00:29:59.660 to paint the big vision for them to work within all right nobody's going to be motivated to to work
00:30:06.240 for a mowing lawn company uh if you're just like trying to get by for yourself if you're already made
00:30:12.680 yeah that this is a common misconception amongst employers to employees all right a lot of employers
00:30:19.720 believe that they're doing these people like a big service by just offering them a mediocre or
00:30:26.060 shitty job you're not you're not going to have inspired people by offering them uh you know a
00:30:31.680 basic fucking level existence the way you're going to get people inspired is by showing them that they
00:30:36.840 can achieve a whole lot more by helping you do what it is you're doing and then you have to follow up
00:30:41.920 by actually allowing them and following through on your promise to them to provide for them the life
00:30:47.340 that they're after does that make sense absolutely okay a lot of people fuck this up don't feel bad
00:30:52.360 that you're fucking it up a lot of people do it yeah it's funny because when i was listening to to you
00:30:56.680 know like reading this question and then hearing you come to it like the word that came to mind is
00:31:01.460 like man the leadership it just feels complacent well that's usually they've almost like arrived at
00:31:06.720 whatever goal that they had as a company as leadership right like and it's completely counter to how you
00:31:12.340 you know describe the vision for all of your companies right like every single company you you work
00:31:17.060 uh or you run it's it's day one in every single one of them yeah right and that vision is massive yeah
00:31:22.240 i just i just felt complacent like i've had to describe it in the way well people don't understand
00:31:25.620 too strategically okay in the big picture
00:31:29.060 every company comes to a point where they're either growing or they're dying right and companies will grow
00:31:36.860 grow grow grow grow grow get to a point where the founder or the owner is comfortable and then they
00:31:42.180 start to regress and people can't ever figure out why that happens well the reason that it happens
00:31:46.760 is because you're no longer growing and the people that you are in the boat with no longer want to row
00:31:52.240 the boat because they don't see any forward progress for themselves ultimately people are selfish they
00:31:57.780 care and by the way they should be they should care about what they're getting out of the deal and if
00:32:02.400 you're not showing them that you're working to expand the business so that they can get more
00:32:07.080 out of the deal how do you expect them to be inspired to row the boat you can't you can't
00:32:12.620 fucking do it right man just a few things i've picked up over the years okay for me yeah i would
00:32:20.520 save you guys your whole fucking business if you listen that question closely bro i feel like there's
00:32:24.560 a lot of fucking nuggets right there man that's fucking awesome well uh that was three go pay the fee
00:32:31.280 yeah went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stove counted millions
00:32:37.340 in the code bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold just a no headshot case close
00:32:44.840 you