60. Liberating Your Mind
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
185.64207
Summary
In this episode, I discuss how to liberate your mind and free your mind so that you can become more comfortable finding out what the truth is and how you can stand on the truth. I walk you through a few simple steps that I believe will help you liberate your thoughts and allow you to find more freedom in your life.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living
00:00:04.680
spoke it till existence mo changed to 50 got mo cost than did i only weigh 180 but my watch
00:00:11.720
cost 250 what's up guys it's dandy frisella and this is the show for the real let's say
00:00:16.840
goodbye to the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking
00:00:21.940
reality guys today we have a real talk episode it's not going to be long but it is going to be
00:00:27.780
packed with information that i believe will help you right now all right we look around the world
00:00:34.380
and not a single one of us can deny the chaos that's going on we have all sorts of information
00:00:42.500
coming out as 24 7 we've got political issues social issues personal beliefs and all these things
00:00:51.740
you know the media jamming stories down our our throat to get us to see things the way they want
00:00:58.560
us to see them and we're having all of these influences and information collide and what's
00:01:04.260
it do to us it makes us confused it makes us have anxiety it makes us frustrated it makes us angry
00:01:12.220
and it makes us unhappy and so today i thought what i would do with you guys is sort of walk you through
00:01:20.860
um a couple points four to be exact that i think will help you understand a couple things uh that you
00:01:29.820
can do to help liberate and free your mind and your anxiety and your frustration and your anger and to
00:01:35.800
help you become more comfortable finding out what the truth is and how you can stand on the truth
00:01:44.680
okay and you guys first have to realize that most of the things that you believe you believe them
00:01:51.300
because you were indoctrinated to believe them all right and a lot of people hear indoctrinated and
00:01:56.220
they start to think conspiracy theory but the truth is you are who you grew up around okay what your
00:02:02.680
parents taught you was indoctrination whatever it was they taught you you were indoctrinated to learn
00:02:10.480
those things over the course of your upbringing that doesn't make them right or wrong it just makes
00:02:16.760
it what it is and so we as humans are constantly fighting what our core beliefs are with what the data
00:02:25.760
is that's available out there in the real world and it doesn't help us when there's 15 different news
00:02:33.980
channels all reporting the same data in different ways to push their agenda it confuses us it makes us
00:02:43.300
doubt what we believe and then when we consider what it is that we were taught and how we were brought up
00:02:50.320
and what we were taught in those regards it can make it extra confusing because now we're collaborating
00:02:56.600
you know and conflicting our own belief systems with what society is showing and see guys this is just
00:03:05.260
a big attack on our own egos these people who are pushing this information out understand the nature of
00:03:14.080
humanity and the nature of humanity is this we all have an ego and we all like our ego and we all have
00:03:20.900
a tough time stepping aside and detaching our personal feelings regarding a matter to accept things that
00:03:28.640
might not align with what we personally believe okay so if you didn't understand that i want you to go
00:03:36.380
back and listen to it again we have a hard time detaching our personal beliefs from what is actually
00:03:43.680
happening and a lot of people right now and it's really hard for me to sit back and watch are really
00:03:49.220
struggling with this and this struggle can show up and you know all kinds of different ways it could
00:03:54.960
show up in anxiety it could show up in frustration it could show up in anger but none of it's good
00:04:00.840
all right none of us none of these things make us feel good and what i want to do here is just have a
00:04:06.680
nice calm talk with you so that you could understand uh how to liberate through this process so that
00:04:13.460
you can feel free have less anxiety have less frustration and you know focus on what you can
00:04:20.780
do to be better all right so the core of this issue guys it comes down to a real simple fact none of us
00:04:27.760
like to be wrong right we all want what we believe to be the truth and the way that conversations happen
00:04:33.940
amongst humans uh especially with the culture that we have right now in america is that we tend
00:04:41.060
to want to win conversations all right think about how you speak with your friends you know one of
00:04:48.500
your friends says they ran a mile and then you got your next friends like yeah dude i ran a mile too
00:04:54.100
but that was like two years ago now i'm up to two miles and then you know it goes around the table
00:04:58.340
and then by the end of it you feel like shit because you only ran a mile right so we live in this
00:05:04.380
competitive atmosphere where we're competing with other people's egos everybody wants to be the best
00:05:10.160
everybody wants to talk about what they did and everybody wants what they did to be better what
00:05:14.340
you did that's just the truth and it's frustrating right like but if we're honest and we look at the
00:05:20.180
internet and we look at conversations in real life this is this is something that happens all the time
00:05:24.460
so when we come to a point where we believe something to be the truth we have a really hard time
00:05:33.600
changing our minds off of that all right our culture is a culture which values itself based upon
00:05:43.820
how right they are okay how good their argument is are they making points and i want you to forget about
00:05:52.480
all that shit and i want you to realize a very huge truth about your own happiness and it's this
00:06:04.220
if you attach yourself too hard to any given belief and don't allow yourself the opportunity to learn
00:06:12.240
something new and to change your mind you're setting yourself up for misery okay and what you're doing
00:06:19.760
is you're letting your ego get in the way of the truth and because you can't actually accept the
00:06:26.680
truth or be on the the truth team so to speak it makes you feel bad and that's just the way we feel
00:06:33.500
and you feel it in your soul right like you know when you're wrong and it's not what you believed
00:06:39.640
and other people are right and the facts have shown it and it's a very difficult feeling to process
00:06:45.700
right you feel like guilty almost you almost feel like fuck you i wish i could say i was wrong but i
00:06:52.220
can't right that's what people do but that's that's wrong the truth is if you want to be happy and you
00:06:58.800
want to be successful and you want to be fulfilled and you want to be light and free and feel good
00:07:04.920
you have to be willing to change your mind when it's appropriate now i'm not saying you're gonna jump all
00:07:12.660
over the new trend over here or jump all over the new trend over there or whatever's new that's not
00:07:17.780
what i'm saying there's value in digging your heels in sometimes but only when you're well informed about
00:07:24.460
what you're talking about and that's something that only we can self-regulate we have to go in we have
00:07:30.760
to do the research we have to figure out where we stand and once we're confident in where we stand
00:07:36.800
sometimes you can dig your heels in right um there's a lot of things that are good in the world
00:07:42.080
happen when you do that the problem we have now is we have a lot of people that dig their heels in
00:07:46.480
when they actually haven't done the homework okay so the first thing you need to understand is
00:07:51.160
there is a huge difference between being wrong and being bad okay a lot of people associate being wrong
00:07:59.640
and being bad as the same thing that's not true all right if you don't know any better and you
00:08:05.780
haven't done the homework and you haven't done the research you're just wrong that doesn't mean
00:08:10.920
you're bad okay when you don't have the information or have the facts and don't know the truth it's
00:08:17.040
okay to be wrong this is normal and right now we're living in a society where they are purposefully
00:08:23.820
confusing us so that we don't know what the fuck is going on so it makes it real hard for us to decide
00:08:30.680
what it is that is right and wrong all right the data is confusing the personalities are confusing
00:08:37.300
we're hearing all kinds of crazy shit come out about people that we trusted and loved and liked
00:08:42.360
and enjoyed our whole lives we're having a lot thrown at us right now guys so understand that
00:08:50.380
you can't plant yourself on a on a hill when you don't know what the hill's made of all right that's
00:08:58.500
how i want you to think of it so point number one is this understand there's a difference between being
00:09:03.940
wrong and being bad big difference it's not the same okay point number two is this and it's sort
00:09:10.900
of in line with point number one but it's an inverse relationship okay if you get to a point where you
00:09:19.140
know you're wrong and you refuse to accept it you are no longer just wrong now you're crossing the line
00:09:26.860
to negligent or bad all right if you know better and still refuse to admit that you're wrong
00:09:32.820
that's not a good thing that's going to make you feel bad you're going to feel that in the in the
00:09:37.840
form of anxiety in the form of self-criticism in the form of pain in the form of frustration
00:09:42.580
and it's going to make you angry stop and ask yourself why are you so mad at the people who
00:09:48.820
are arguing with you okay you'll find out a lot by just asking some questions um there's been plenty
00:09:55.480
of examples about this throughout history uh where you know all the facts seem to say one thing
00:10:01.000
and then comes to find out that it was a whole nother thing all right i can remember years ago
00:10:05.880
there was a situation where there was a car seat and this new and i can't remember the exact name
00:10:10.440
of it but there was a new innovative car seat right and everybody thought it was cool and a bunch of
00:10:16.360
parents bought it and this car seat because it was designed the wrong way uh ended up killing a bunch
00:10:23.120
of kids like i think at least a dozen kids or so and because it was considered to be the cool thing
00:10:31.520
a lot of parents ignored the data all right and said well we're still going to use this car seat anyway
00:10:38.060
and guess what happened their kids died okay so this situation the parents whose kids died
00:10:46.620
through ignorance they didn't know that's not that's not a bad thing right but then when the
00:10:53.040
people ignored the data and then went ahead and put their kids in those positions anyway and then they
00:10:57.220
died now you're crossing a line to negligence okay and and not good things things that will haunt you
00:11:03.300
for your entire life you have to understand there's there's a big difference between being wrong and being
00:11:08.960
bad and if you come to the conclusion that you might be wrong and you don't stand on it and say hey man
00:11:15.560
i was fucking wrong and then something bad happens that's where you're in real deep shit to have a
00:11:20.740
lot of regret a lot of pain and and who knows what else okay a lot of bad things nothing good comes from
00:11:25.620
it so uh and another thing to consider too in this point is that you know when you stand on your hill
00:11:32.620
on your view on your thought process when you know it's wrong and you start to go out and voice it
00:11:38.960
what happens is you're misleading others with the mentality and that's that's not good that's bad
00:11:45.220
that's evil okay when you know you're wrong and you're going out and stating certain things to
00:11:50.780
get people to believe in you that's manipulation that's bad bad bad shit all right so understand
00:11:58.120
there's a big difference between being wrong and being bad and then understand that once you realize
00:12:02.360
you're wrong it's important to adjust fire quickly because it's going to save you a lot of heartache
00:12:07.460
all right now the third point is this and this is a big one admitting that you're wrong is not a
00:12:14.420
weakness okay everybody thinks this is a weakness i actually think this is a superpower i actually
00:12:20.160
believe that being able to detach enough and admit quickly that you're wrong is actually a huge strength
00:12:27.220
that you could possess in all areas of your life okay and i'm going to tell you something people
00:12:32.220
respect this sort of behavior a lot of people put off the fact of admitting that they were wrong
00:12:39.080
or admitting that they were misled or admitting that they didn't know all the things because they're
00:12:44.380
afraid of letting all the people who agree with them down and that the people on the other side who
00:12:49.940
are actually operating a different way they're afraid those people are going to ridicule them and
00:12:54.460
they're going to say well you know fuck you still you thought that's not what happens what happens is
00:12:59.640
is when you admit that you're wrong people respect that people see that as a tough thing to do they
00:13:07.380
understand that it's very difficult because they've had to do it before and what you'll find is is kind
00:13:13.160
of once you figure it out you're going to get a big hug from the people that you've been arguing with
00:13:17.800
for your whole life and that that should make you feel less anxious about maybe making some new decisions
00:13:24.940
about what you believe and not believe and i think a lot of people are doing this right now
00:13:28.620
because of the amount of information that we're having i think a lot of people are seeing a lot of
00:13:34.060
this shit and you know we have people that are saying oh you know i whatever this is all bullshit and
00:13:39.300
then we have people who are saying hey um this doesn't look good and this is not what i'm about and
00:13:45.340
this is not what i believe in you know what uh i'm not with that those people are being celebrated
00:13:50.880
as strong those people are being shown to have strength and i'm not talking about you know anything
00:13:56.080
other than how to work through this situation in any scenario it could be you know at work it could
00:14:02.260
be in your relationship it could be in business i can tell you for sure in business admitting that
00:14:07.080
you're wrong is a huge necessary you have to have the ability to do this because i'm going to tell you
00:14:13.260
and i will tell you from from from coaching you know thousands of entrepreneurs for many many years
00:14:20.040
i'm just telling you this is what holds most people back from being great at business is that
00:14:25.440
they let their ego get in the way of their decision making they know that they're likely wrong but they
00:14:30.400
push through on their agenda anyway and it ends up having them lose and that sounds stupid right like
00:14:35.480
why would you break yourself over you know your pride but guys i'm telling you man it happens every day
00:14:42.880
i've been in this game for a long time it happens every fucking day and it is the biggest
00:14:47.280
weakness that most people have most people's biggest weakness is they cannot change their mind
00:14:55.520
they cannot admit they were wrong because of their pride all right so again there's a big difference
00:15:02.780
between being wrong and being bad if you realize you're wrong and you still spouting that bad shit
00:15:08.560
that means you're bad admitting you're wrong the third point is not a weakness it's actually a
00:15:14.960
superpower strength all right and the last point is this you're going to feel better okay you hear
00:15:21.920
that saying before you know the truth will set you free and a lot of people don't know what that means
00:15:26.340
but what it means is is that you're able to have a clear conscious about what you believe and you won't
00:15:32.460
feel the need to argue and fight and bicker and you know be mad at other people because of what they
00:15:38.540
believe so a lot of what's going on right now in the world is a lot of people have you know
00:15:43.580
they're coming to terms with the fact that what they were taught what they were supposed to believe
00:15:49.000
what they think was the truth actually isn't the truth and it's making them fucking mad that's not
00:15:55.140
how you should feel you should feel disappointed you might want to feel like embarrassed a little bit
00:16:00.180
but guys i'm telling you guys there's so much manipulation going on in the world right now in
00:16:04.580
all different areas there's so many lies there's so much um posturing and presenting of facts that just
00:16:11.280
isn't true in all regards by all sides it's extremely difficult to see what's going on
00:16:17.480
and so if you feel embarrassed about this i'm just telling you you shouldn't because nobody fucking
00:16:24.640
knows okay so here's the thing when you start to come to the truth that you know in your heart is
00:16:32.520
the truth because you've done the actual research and you've read and you've investigated and you've
00:16:38.700
discovered on yourself versus just following the herd and whatever the fuck they're saying
00:16:43.700
you are going to feel lighter you're going to feel freer you're going to feel better and you're going
00:16:48.580
to understand what it means when people say the truth will set you free because you won't have that
00:16:54.480
anxiety you won't have that weight on your shoulders see that weight what it comes from is you knowing
00:17:00.580
that you're wrong and not being able to admit that you're wrong all right and i could tell you this
00:17:05.460
in a real world scenario real quick and just a stupid example for you guys all right i always drove
00:17:13.180
chevy trucks always and i i planted my identity into driving chevy trucks i always drove them well
00:17:20.640
i got to a point where you know and like dude i'm not saying i was like pro chevy i'm saying like
00:17:27.780
i hated ford i hated ford i wouldn't use their products now i like their cars i don't like their
00:17:33.620
trucks and the fair the fair thing is i did have some bad experiences in the past with their trucks
00:17:38.040
but anyway so for like three years the last three or four years my brother started driving ford trucks
00:17:45.060
and i gotta be honest they're really nice and i knew they were really nice i saw they were really nice
00:17:52.760
but instead of me accepting that the truck was really nice and well built and they actually had
00:17:57.660
made a change for the better i didn't say anything and every time i saw the truck dude it would make
00:18:03.840
me mad like i'm like fuck why are they why is that truck so nice like fuck that truck like that i had
00:18:09.220
this weird like emotional reaction to it and that's my ego right because i wanted to be right i wanted
00:18:14.440
chevy chevy chevy and guys the truth is both of them make really nice trucks so i decided to say you
00:18:21.360
know what i know i've been the anti-ford guy forever and i know like you know i've said all
00:18:27.000
this stuff about ford but uh i wanted to give it a try and i'll tell you what dude i bought a ford truck
00:18:34.920
for the first time i have in 15 years and i love it i love it i've driven the shit out of it i drive
00:18:41.880
it almost every day it runs perfect it's comfortable everything about it i like and i'm super happy and
00:18:49.140
guess what i don't have i don't have that hate anymore in me i don't have that negativity i don't
00:18:53.800
have that anxiety when i see a chevy truck i don't get mad at the chevy truck you know what i'm saying
00:18:59.220
like i still see the chevy and i'm like that's a good truck and then when i get my ford i'm proud to
00:19:03.600
drive the ford too so now i've like eliminated this negativity right out of my life and i know that
00:19:09.460
sounds silly but when you can remove these false barriers and you can start to experience new things
00:19:16.580
and become free to change your mind and i'm talking about anything guys you remove a tremendous
00:19:22.380
amount of anxiety from your life you remove a tremendous amount of frustration from your life
00:19:27.760
you remove a tremendous amount of unnecessary negative energy from your life and guess what else
00:19:34.940
people love it okay no one likes those guys everybody thinks that that everybody likes those
00:19:42.140
people that dig their heels in and they feel i used to think that was cool too when i was like 20 years
00:19:47.400
old right i used to when i was 25 up until i was about 35 years old honestly if i'm being totally honest
00:19:53.480
with you i used to think that was cool to be the guy who dug my heels in and i was this so matter what
00:19:57.680
what i realized was not only was it handicapping me in life but it was making me unhappy and so right now
00:20:05.500
i want you to understand that you know it's okay to change your mind and it's a very liberating
00:20:10.760
process and a healthy process so that you'll feel at peace with yourself by doing this all right and you
00:20:18.400
have to let go of what your friends are going to think most of your friends if you're able to be the
00:20:23.600
person who will look up the data make a decision and stand on your own ex they're not going to ridicule you
00:20:29.840
for it they might tease you a little bit but they'll respect it i could promise you that all right
00:20:34.380
so if you're having trouble right now and you're having trouble admitting that you you know you you
00:20:39.900
saw something the wrong way or you didn't know the facts understand that's okay but we are at a
00:20:45.900
critical time in this country we are at a very critical time and this is not left or right or
00:20:50.900
anything this is about america and the constitution of america and the beliefs of america
00:20:54.680
america and this also happens to be a skill that is useful in all areas of life so i wanted to
00:21:01.420
provide this tool for you guys to maybe help some of you guys who are struggling with your beliefs
00:21:05.540
to start to um you know think about it maybe in a different way i understand dude just because you
00:21:13.100
didn't know doesn't mean you're bad but if you did know and you continued that's not a good thing
00:21:19.320
it's never going to bring you a win it's always going to bring you losses all right understand
00:21:24.380
also admitting that you're wrong is not a weakness it's a strength and people love and respect it it's
00:21:31.020
actually a sign of leadership great leaders are the best people at saying they were wrong that's the
00:21:37.820
truth okay you bring up my friend jaco jaco's led people his whole life this guy is an expert at being
00:21:46.780
wrong real fast because he understands that once he finds the truth that you can win and this is
00:21:53.580
something that you guys all have to understand in every area of life once you find the truth you
00:21:58.920
can win okay and then we get to the point four the truth will set you free what does this mean
00:22:04.000
it means it's liberating it means it feels good it means you're going to feel more at peace you're
00:22:08.820
going to feel more proud you're going to have more confidence because you know you're doing something
00:22:12.620
that you need to do all right so guys look i know we covered a lot there i just wanted to provide
00:22:19.700
you guys with a tool that will maybe help you uh walk through the process of finding a new perspective
00:22:25.280
and i also wanted you to understand that like look this is a very confusing time for everybody a very
00:22:31.160
frustrating time for everybody and we're looking for a way to reduce the anxiety reduce the pressure
00:22:36.480
reduce the stress and i'm going to tell you the first thing that you can do on this is to be okay
00:22:42.220
with not knowing be okay with observing be okay with doing your own research but i'm going to tell you
00:22:48.020
this also the quickest way to be unhappy the quickest way to be really embarrassed the quickest way to be
00:22:55.320
ashamed of some of the things that you believe in a long term is to ignore the actual facts of what's
00:23:02.080
going on because of your pride and your ego you will always lose with that mentality okay it's not
00:23:11.620
told my teacher dumb bitch i'm going to get millions watch this in the project living down