95. Are You Built For It？
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Summary
Reality is what matters not what might, what might be, what could be, or could be not what should be, but what is NOT what we wish it was okay. The Realists take a bite of the lies, the fakeness, and delusions of modern society.
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told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living down spoke it
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till existence mold changed to 50 got mold cost than didn't i only weigh 180 but my watch cost
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250 what's up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists take a bite of the
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lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys reality
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is what matters not what might be not what could be not what should be what is okay and we have to
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make decisions based upon what is not what we wish it was okay and i got a real important message for
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you guys today that i want to hit on uh but it starts with a story you know when i was in school
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um i struggled with school i i was not a great student i wasn't someone who who did uh who got
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a's and b's i got c's and d's that's reality um when i went to my guidance counselor when i was 16 17
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years old we were getting ready to take uh the standardized test which at that time was sat and
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act i was asked what i wanted to do with my life and like most 16 and 17 year olds um you know i
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didn't really know but i knew i wanted to do something i knew i wanted to be something i knew
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i wanted to become successful i knew i wanted to win you know living like everybody else was not
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appealing to me um which coincidentally is why i struggled in school the reason i struggled in school
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was because i couldn't see the point in a lot of the stuff that they were teaching they would teach
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these you know trigonometry and and all like all this shit that i i couldn't see the practical purpose
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in and because i couldn't see the practical purpose in it i did poorly i wasn't interested i didn't execute
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the way that i could have or should have or or whatever but at the bottom line um i did bad in school
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and so when i went in to uh talk to my guidance counselor you know about what what it was that
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i wanted to do there you know he wasn't very receptive and uh he asked me he said andy you
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know what do you what do you see yourself doing where do you want to go and at that time i wanted
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to play football i wanted to uh i wanted to become you know successful and and i you know i told him i said
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well i want to go to notre dame i want to go to you know a school like duke or texas and you know
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play football and his response to me was laughter he laughed and he said oh andy you know those those
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places and it's getting me pissed off even thinking about it those places are for cream of the crop
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those places are for or for the the top of the top of the top and you just ain't it and and he used
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the term cream of the crop and i remember thinking like well motherfucker i'm cream of the crop even
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though you know maybe i wasn't because of what they could see but i knew i had something they just
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didn't know i had something and you know now that same school you know um i'm proud to say i've i've
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you know gone out and done some things and i've contributed financially to that school build them
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nice facilities one nicest schools in america in fact it won awards for that um and i tell you that
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story because i think this is an important lesson for what's going on in the world right now when i
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look around at what's going on in the world right now i see things that really piss me the fuck off
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and one of the things that pisses me off the most is that when i was growing up you know we were
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taught you know you could be anything you want you want to be an astronaut you could do it you want
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to you want to be a a chef you could do that you want to be a firefighter you could do that
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and as i got older and as i grew up and and and learned a little bit more you know i learned that the
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real world when you get to a certain age uh doesn't reward those kind of statements you know when you get
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to be 14 13 14 15 you're not dealing with your fucking parents anymore you're dealing with the
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real world and the real world will quickly remind you that you ain't shit and they will give you every
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fucking reason as to why you can't be what it is you want to be and that's when i was growing up
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now we have this ideology in america where the teachers are telling the kids especially the minority
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kids that they cannot do anything in this country you cannot achieve anything you're not going to be
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successful doesn't matter how hard you try it doesn't matter what you do you're going to fucking
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fail and dude i i think that's the biggest travesty and the biggest crack of shit that's going on in our
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world right now because we as adults should be encouraging these kids we should be teaching these
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kids what is truly possible instead of squashing their dreams and squashing their mentality and
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squashing what they believe they're capable of before they even go out and try okay because i'm
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a stubborn motherfucker like you could tell me i'm not going to be able to do shit and i will spite you
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by doing it that's just me i have the ability to take the negative and turn it into productive action
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i understand what it's like to get told you're fucking loser or you're crazy or when are you
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going to get serious about your life you know i worked 10 years guys my first 10 years of business
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i made 58 000 cumulative okay for 10 years i heard every person i know making fun of me i heard every
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person i know telling me it was that i was wasting my time i heard every i've had every motherfucker i know
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when i tell them what we're gonna do and by the way we've fucking done it by now laugh in my fucking
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face and i'm sure you guys can relate to that especially you younger guys younger girls too
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okay you understand what it's like to have people tell you that you can't do it and i'm gonna tell
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you something and this is the fucking truth this is the reality and if you don't like it i don't give a
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fuck the truth is this if you're willing to pay the price and you're willing to do the work and
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you're willing to take the time and you're willing to consistently get up when you are knocked down
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over and over and over again which is going to happen to you if you're pursuing anything outside
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of the norm you can make it here in america all right now if you choose you can also find
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every excuse as to why you won't make it you can find every reason if you look for it as to why you
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won't make it but at the end of the day there's going to be two groups of people and one group is
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going to be a lot fucking bigger than the other group okay and here's the groups the one group is
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going to get told that they can't do it and instead of fighting and instead of working and instead of
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you know saying well fuck that i'm not willing to accept that those people are going to just take it
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and that's what society is counting on society is counting on you giving up because if you give up
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then you can become dependent on the government system to provide for your whole life okay and
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you could quote unquote go be a little poor me over there in the corner and talk about why you could
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never make it here in this country that's going to be the bigger group then there's going to be a
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smaller group and the smaller group is going to be the group that says hey you know what um i i hear
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what you're saying but i'm not willing to accept that i'm not willing to just roll over and take
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what i'm given i'm not willing to stop trying because you say that i can't fucking do it that's
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what you say that doesn't mean it's the truth and for all of you young people out there i hope that you
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will take what i'm saying seriously i don't care where you come from i don't care where you were raised
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i don't care what color you are i don't care what gender you are i don't care about any of that shit
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if you do the work consistently if you invest in yourself consistently but and when i say invest
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in yourself i don't mean dollars i mean by reading surrounding yourself with positive inputs okay and
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then executing positive outputs and when i say positive outputs i don't mean happy go lucky ring around
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the rosy bullshit i mean work if you're the kind of person who is willing to take the information
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that's available which by the way there has never been more information available than there ever has
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been it's never it's never been more okay when i was coming up in business and and what i do i had to
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read fucking books and thankfully that habit stuck but right now you can literally go almost anywhere
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and learn from directly from people who have done what it is that you want to do we've never had
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opportunity like we've had here in this country right now but if you look anywhere other than a place like
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this in a few other select places you will hear the doom and gloom that you will never be successful
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here you will hear how bad america sucks you will hear how uh bigoted and biased america is towards
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fucking everybody doesn't matter what your group is there's an excuse for your group
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and my advice to you would be to stop identifying with the group and start identifying with the
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fucking work because at the end of the day guys one plus one is always going to equal two
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two plus two is going to equal four in 10 years of motherfucking work when everybody else is partying
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making excuses doing the cool thing on the weekend is going to pay off it just is and you'll never
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convince me otherwise and so my talk today obviously isn't for everybody because there's people
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listening right now who have already bought into this shit they've already bought into the fact that
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no matter what the fuck they do they can't win and that's just not true and i'm not talking to you
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guys i'm talking to you guys right now who still have hope who still have the fire who still have
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the want and the will and the desire to fucking be more and become more and contribute more and win
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more because you know your life will be better and everybody else's life around you will be better
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you can do this look i don't care who tells you that you can't do it
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you're not going to be able to do it you can't win the game's rigged against you you're just a
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regular human success is for other people dude we could make a list a mile long of the shit the
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world is going to tell you and i'm going to tell you this not one person that you look up to not one
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person that you look at and think man i like that kind of life not one motherfucker that has what it is
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that you're looking for out of life listens to those people not one not even for a second
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so you have a choice to make you can either listen
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to what the world is going to tell you over and over and over again i'm in this game 20
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plus years and i still get told all the reasons why we're not going to be able to do what it is we want to do
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and people who listen to them are going to lose people who win figure out reasons why they're going
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to make it they understand that that's all fucking noise they understand that that's all irrelevant
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and what is relevant is what you do on a daily basis and i guarantee you if you're sitting there
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and you're wondering why it is that everybody else has this and that and this this this and why you
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don't have shit i guarantee you that if you take fucking inventory of your actions they equal what
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you're getting period so we can talk all this shit about how uh so and so doesn't deserve what they have
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or whatever but at the end of the day people who win fucking do shit and people who lose talk shit
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and more importantly they talk shit because they've accepted the idea that they can't win
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so instead they contribute to everybody else trying to become part of this group
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and i don't care who you are i don't care where you come from i don't care what your story is
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at the end of the day you can win if you choose to learn the things that you need to do
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and then fucking do them and i don't care where you come from
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that's reality that's the shit nobody wants to admit because admitting so means that you have to
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take responsibility for where you are currently and you have to say well i am where i am currently
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because i didn't do x y and z and guess what that fucking hurts a little bit that bothers us a little
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bit it's a hard truth to accept but once you accept that truth you are able to then move forward
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with the actions required to get you to where you want to go and if you're sick all the shit you
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come here and listen to me because i'm going to tell you right now every single mother fucker
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listening to this show has the potential to be great you might not be to come the richest person
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in the world maybe that's not even what you want to become but you have the ability to create a great
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life create a great existence contribute to the people around you show them what's possible which
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by the way is your fucking obligation on this earth you're only here for a short time if you're not
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going to show people what's possible who the fuck else is who's going to show your kids who's going to
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show your aunts and uncles who's going to show your fucking nieces and nephews and all the young people
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that look at you and think you're the shit you might not think you're the shit but there's people
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in your life that think that are you going to fail those people are you going to buy into the narrative
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that you can't because if you do dude don't even fucking listen to my show go listen to some other
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bullshit go watch the fucking news go be with everybody else i will never conform to that this
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we'll never conform to that we're fucking winners here we're problem solvers here if there's a
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fucking obstacle to overcome we're going to overcome it if there's a fucking barrier that needs to be
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broken through we're going to fucking break through it this is what winning is about and at the end of
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the day the world needs winners because winners show the rest of the people what could be and every
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single time a single motherfucker wakes up and realizes that they're living less than their potential
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that they're achieving less than what they could that they are less than what they are supposed to be
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every single time one of those people wakes up you did a morally good deed by living your best life
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and i want to leave you with this thought because it's important you either are you fucking aren't
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you either will or you fucking won't you're either going to become or you're not going to become
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and it's not because of the outside circumstances it's because of the inside circumstances so you
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could tell yourself all the shit you could tell yourself all the shit all the reasons why you're
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not none of it's true and just know that just know that every fucking excuse that you've made for
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your fucking life is bullshit because there's people out there lots of people who come from worse than you
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who have fucking had bigger challenges than you who have had more struggles than you
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who have faced far more adversity than you that get it done every motherfucking day
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told my teacher dumb bitch i'm going to get millions watch this in the project living