97. Programmed To Win
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Summary
In this episode, I discuss the two things that I see winners consistently do, and why people who are having trouble and not winning consistently don t do them. These are two things I see people do consistently, and they are not related to one another.
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told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living
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spoke it till existence mo changed to 50 got mo cost than did i only weigh 180 but my watch
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cost 250 what's up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realist say goodbye to
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the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality
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guys today i've got a real short episode for you and before i get into it um i want to remind you
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that our show is organically grown we grow this thing uh the good old-fashioned word of mouth
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referral way if you guys like the show if you got something out of it if it makes you think if it
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gives you a new perspective which is what i'm trying to do a lot of times okay um make sure you share it
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you know let people know tell people when it comes up a conversation what the good info you're putting
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into your brain is give me a shout um we don't run ads for the show i don't try to fulfill you know
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the first 20 minutes of the show with paid advertising uh i do this because i want to help
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i do this because i want you guys to win and i do this because i want you guys to be able to see
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uh the way things really are and that's why it's called real af um so do me a solid do the guys here
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a solid if you get something out of the show and it helps you help us grow it man um we really
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appreciate that now with that being said i i do have a short message um there's a couple things that
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i want to address with you guys that i see happening over and over and over again with um
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the young bucks okay and the young bucks and young bucks is not you know 20 years old it's
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it's people who are new to personal development you know not everybody finds the drive or the will
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or the desire to be better at the same point in life and that's okay uh but it's never too late
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to put good habits into play so that you find yourself in a position where your life is getting
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better and better and better and better um and i want to talk about the two things that i see
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winners consistently do uh that people who are having trouble and not winning consistently don't do
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uh and they're really not related they're two points that i just happened to notice today
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and that's how i do this show guys i sit down i talk to you about what's on my heart what's on my mind
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and so these two things um while not related they are related because there's a certain number of
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qualities or skills that successful people put into practice and as i see them i would like to call
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them out so the first thing that i notice a lot of you guys do that is hurting you okay um is this
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you're not understanding that the adversity the struggle the the hard times the difficult things
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the frustration those are the things that create our skill sets those are the lessons that we learn
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that give us the skills to then put the skills into play and produce a better life and if you think
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about it it makes sense why we avoid the adversity right like why we run from it our whole lives
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are all you know taught around convenience quick easy fast fix every piece of marketing that we see
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out there is about results now and the truth of the matter is is life just doesn't work that way guys
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it's not a realistic way of thinking there's not one thing that's great in your life that you got
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without having to push through something all right name me one thing like one thing that you're super
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proud of that you're super enthusiastic about that you are super prideful about that you didn't have
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to fucking earn all right and then off of that all different kinds of qualities come into play and if
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you've done 75 hard you're familiar with 75 hard you've read my book 75 hard you know i talk about
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earning the things like grit uh fortitude self-esteem confidence the ability to endure you have to earn
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these things okay we live in a world right now like we've talked about on the past shows recently
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that celebrates victimhood it's it's a competition now about who has the biggest challenges not who's
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overcome the biggest challenges and i'm going to tell you right now the world is going to reward people
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who overcome the challenges you might get some claps you might get some oh man you know that's such a
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that's that's such a you know that's so hard i you know you might get some of that shit but it's not
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going to change your life okay it's instant gratification shit you are putting out information
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to then get instant gratification attention which doesn't really serve you long term so guys
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understand that doing the opposite of what most people do is what's going to lead to the to most
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success in your life in general terms so when you see everybody else working to make their life
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easier more convenient um you know less frustrating basically looking to cut all the hard things out of
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their life look at the rest of their life what is it it's generally a shit show okay so that should be
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an indication to you that maybe you need to look at life a little bit different and one of the things
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that i see people do is they don't understand that you should actually be seeking out the proper
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obstacles that are going to teach you the lesson and embrace them so that you can be better because
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dude we could talk about and whine about and cry about everything in our lives but there's only one
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thing that's going to change it and that's actually taking action towards the place that you want to go
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and i don't care who says different this is a universal truth and it doesn't matter who's
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president doesn't matter who's fucking won the super bowl it doesn't give it doesn't matter this
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is always going to be true what you put in will produce the output okay so when you see a situation
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that's difficult and you see a situation that you know other people don't want to do you should maybe
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be the person who steps up to that and says dude i'm willing to do that because i learned this
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i'm willing to take on that because i'm willing to get this skill um i'm going to endure this
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adversity because i know it's going to make me stronger all right so look at these as an
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opportunity for you to grow as opposed to something that you should run away from because it's going to
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be difficult this is something that champions and successful people people who are great at what
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they do and live great lives that bring other people up do automatically okay so that's the first
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thing embrace your adversity and look for opportunities to get better and grow now the
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second thing i think is going to resonate with a lot of you guys uh dude a lot of you guys for for
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lack of better terms uh you got no swag okay um and what i mean by that is this it's not that you
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don't it's that you're too afraid to show it all right you let people humble you to death what does
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that mean you guys all know what that means think about the time that you said you know to your best
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friend or your group of friends or your girlfriend or your boyfriend and you said you know what your
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real dream was you know you got all this courage and you got vulnerable and you decided you were going
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to tell the truth about what it is you wanted to achieve and then what happened you got laughed at
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and he's oh andy dude come on man like what are you really going to do um you know or or when you
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like a lot of you guys you know in your fitness journey you know you see you start to make progress
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and you have people kind of hate on it passively right oh you're getting all serious about that
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health health junk now well yeah no shit motherfucker because it's important or you start to have a little
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success in your business and people start telling you oh andy thinks he's hot shit now blah blah blah
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okay these are what i'm talking about it's crabs in a bucket i got a whole episode 59 a real af it's
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called crabs in a bucket all right and you guys allow a lot of the people that you connect with
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and you allow in your life to pull you down because you feel obligated to hearing their opinion
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or listening to them because of the context of the relationship maybe it's your brother maybe it's your
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friend from high school maybe it's your girlfriend maybe it's your boyfriend maybe it's your mom maybe it's
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your dad right and we all love these people and these people mean well most of the time and what
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they don't understand is when they criticize us for having a little success or laugh at our dreams
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what does that make us do it makes us pull back it makes us get more conservative it makes us not say
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what we want and i can promise you if you can't say what you want you'll never achieve what you want
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all right it'll never happen so you guys have to understand that it is okay to believe in yourself
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it is okay to say i'm going to do this it is okay to celebrate your successes winning and life in any
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area is a great thing and when people start to see you win and they start trying to pull you back
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that's a good indication of people that you should probably work to separate from because those are the
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people who are going to draw energy off of you that could otherwise be spent moving you forward
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all right so guys don't let these people who haven't achieved anything who have no goals who are happy
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floating through life and by the way if that's them that's cool you don't have to want what they want
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and they don't have to want what you want but if you want to win and you want to be successful you
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cannot let other people talk you out of believing in yourself under the guise of quote-unquote being
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humble all right and i see a lot of you guys do this you think humility is a great core value or place
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to be and it is it is and here's why why is humility important because when you know you ain't shit
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you keep working when you know that you don't know shit you keep learning when you know you're not that
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good you keep working to get good so it's important to stay humble for the reason of growth but that
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could be counterproductive if you're hearing it from every all these different people that you're
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supposed to love and trust and they're all telling you to get back in line and shut the fuck up
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you people who listen to that stuff will never win you will humble yourself to death okay so those
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are my two points i want you guys to think about this week um one all right embrace the challenge
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embrace the adversity stop looking at it as something you need to run from and start looking
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at it as what can i learn and two stop letting your surroundings and the culture and the people
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you surround yourself with and you yourself humble yourself to death you and i'm talking to you
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listening are a badass motherfucker all of you you just haven't had the courage to step out and be that
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yet and when you get out there and you start becoming that you're going to have resistance
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go back and listen to episode 59 it's going to happen but like i said those are the people that
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you can then regulate by noticing that they're not putting energy into you and pushing you forward
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instead they're pulling you back and once you eliminate those anchors from your life guys it gets
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a lot easier to win all right so those are my two messages for you this week i want you to work on
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those things this week i want you to think about those things and notice when you're doing these
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things don't just be one of these people who consumes my content and doesn't put it into play
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i do this because i want you guys to win i do this because i want to help you guys and i do this because
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i fucking care and there's not enough good teachers out there really teaching people what it takes to win
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anymore because it's because it's not cool in culture all right well i can tell you this it's always
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going to be cool to me so if you ever want to talk to someone who is all about winning and bringing
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people up that's what we're going to do here regardless of what's popular or not all right guys
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i love you guys i appreciate you guys thank you so much for all your support thank you so much for
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all your shares and thank you so much for everything that you do for us we all appreciate it and uh we'll