REAL AF with Andy Frisella - September 15, 2016


Active vs. Passive Living, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO94


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11 minutes

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Are you running your day, or is your day running you? Are you taking control, or are you letting the stream take you where you wanna go or where you don t wanna go? Is your day being run by your day or is it running you??

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00:00:00.000 I wanna be a motherfucking hustler, you better ask somebody
00:00:03.760 What is up guys, you're listening to the MFCEO Project
00:00:16.060 I'm Andy, I'm your host, and I am the motherfucking CEO
00:00:21.620 Guys, if this is your first time listening
00:00:24.480 On Tuesday's Practical Application Business Life
00:00:28.820 Anything and everything that has to do with being the CEO of you
00:00:34.120 Or being the CEO of an actual company
00:00:36.920 That's what we do on Tuesdays, okay
00:00:39.380 We're gonna give you practical tools
00:00:41.200 We're gonna give you things that you can put into play
00:00:44.340 And then we have what we're gonna do today
00:00:47.340 Which is called Thursday Thunder
00:00:50.040 Sometimes we get busy around here and it turns into Friday fire
00:00:53.200 But hey, that's what you gotta do
00:00:55.360 You gotta make adaptations
00:00:56.720 You gotta make adjustments
00:00:57.980 And sometimes you gotta go off track
00:01:00.820 And that goes right into what I wanna talk to you guys about today
00:01:04.320 Are you running your day?
00:01:08.420 Or is your day running you?
00:01:12.240 Okay, and I've heard that saying before
00:01:13.980 You've heard that saying before
00:01:16.040 But what does it actually mean?
00:01:17.900 What it actually means is
00:01:20.640 Are you living actively?
00:01:23.240 Or are you living passively?
00:01:25.680 Are you taking control?
00:01:28.560 Or are you giving up control?
00:01:31.940 Are you paddling your boat in the direction you wanna go?
00:01:36.520 Especially when that direction is upstream?
00:01:38.860 Or have you pulled your paddles in the boat
00:01:40.860 And you're letting the stream take you where you wanna go
00:01:44.360 Or where you don't wanna go
00:01:46.040 Which could be into the rocks, over the waterfall
00:01:49.040 Who the fuck knows?
00:01:51.200 Okay?
00:01:52.020 Guys, winners live an active daily life
00:01:55.660 They go into life what they plan
00:01:58.160 They go into every single day what they plan to win the day
00:02:03.000 They're organized
00:02:04.200 They have a set of accomplishments
00:02:06.840 That they want to put down
00:02:08.980 And make happen for today
00:02:10.640 They take their big goals
00:02:12.300 They deconstruct them into small daily items
00:02:16.380 That need to be done
00:02:17.280 That break that down
00:02:18.760 Into something that you can accomplish
00:02:20.840 Over the course of time
00:02:22.120 Okay?
00:02:22.900 And if you wanna learn more about that
00:02:24.340 You can go back and listen to Kill It Every Day
00:02:26.600 Where I talk about something called the power list
00:02:29.460 Alright?
00:02:31.120 Guys
00:02:31.640 You have to live an active day
00:02:34.300 You have to go in the day
00:02:35.960 With a plan
00:02:37.400 Okay?
00:02:38.160 If you wake up in the morning
00:02:39.240 You don't know what the fuck you're gonna do
00:02:40.740 And you don't have a plan
00:02:41.820 You're living a passive life
00:02:43.620 Okay?
00:02:44.320 If you go to work
00:02:45.120 Not knowing
00:02:46.120 Who you're gonna call
00:02:47.900 Or who you're gonna email
00:02:49.280 Until the moment you sit down
00:02:50.920 You're living a passive life
00:02:52.340 Okay?
00:02:53.380 If you go through the day
00:02:55.140 Eating whatever it is
00:02:56.340 That's put in front of you
00:02:57.340 Or stopping at the nearest convenience
00:02:59.620 You live a passive life
00:03:01.620 And you are gonna fucking lose
00:03:03.380 Because of that
00:03:04.660 Okay guys?
00:03:05.920 There's not one successful person
00:03:07.760 On the face of this earth
00:03:09.580 That doesn't go into every single day
00:03:13.080 With a concrete plan
00:03:14.700 Okay?
00:03:16.340 Think about that
00:03:17.280 Not one
00:03:18.060 There's not one person
00:03:19.480 That accidentally got where they are
00:03:21.620 There's not one person
00:03:22.920 Who accidentally
00:03:23.980 Made the progress they needed to make
00:03:26.460 Without a plan
00:03:27.720 Not one
00:03:29.080 So what makes you think
00:03:31.180 You're gonna be the only motherfucker ever
00:03:33.120 To go through life
00:03:34.880 Without a plan
00:03:35.880 And still get where you wanna go
00:03:37.280 It's not gonna happen
00:03:39.040 Okay guys?
00:03:40.500 If you wanna be a champion
00:03:41.900 If you wanna be successful
00:03:43.580 If you wanna fulfill your obligations
00:03:45.920 Of financially successful
00:03:48.440 Of setting an example
00:03:50.380 Okay?
00:03:51.180 Of being a leader
00:03:52.220 You've gotta live an active life
00:03:55.040 You've gotta live an active plan
00:03:56.780 You've gotta attack the day
00:03:58.500 You've gotta win the day
00:03:59.880 And you've gotta stack those wins
00:04:01.720 To a point
00:04:02.860 Of where winning
00:04:03.940 Is just who the fuck you are
00:04:05.760 Okay?
00:04:07.220 And let's talk about
00:04:07.940 What I said just for a minute
00:04:09.100 Leadership
00:04:10.520 I mentioned leadership
00:04:11.780 I talked about leadership
00:04:12.880 In my last podcast
00:04:14.000 But realize this
00:04:15.340 And this is something that
00:04:16.880 Far too many people
00:04:18.680 Don't realize
00:04:20.680 Is that you are a leader
00:04:22.140 Whether you choose
00:04:23.440 To be a leader or not
00:04:24.680 Okay?
00:04:26.000 There are people
00:04:26.800 That look up to you
00:04:27.620 There are people
00:04:28.380 That look to you
00:04:29.020 For guidance
00:04:29.600 There are people
00:04:30.440 That look to you
00:04:31.160 And depend on you
00:04:32.080 To set an example
00:04:33.600 For them
00:04:34.140 Whether you like it
00:04:35.680 Or not
00:04:36.600 Whether you asked for it
00:04:38.100 Or not
00:04:38.760 And that means
00:04:39.940 That you are leading them
00:04:41.880 Regardless
00:04:43.000 Of what path you're on
00:04:45.100 Now think about that
00:04:47.300 Are you leading those people
00:04:48.420 Down the right path?
00:04:49.720 Because if you're not performing
00:04:51.080 If you're not excelling
00:04:52.060 If you're not doing
00:04:52.980 What needs to be done
00:04:54.020 You're leading those people
00:04:55.300 Down the wrong path
00:04:56.320 And so it's not just
00:04:57.600 About you anymore
00:04:58.540 It's about how you're
00:04:59.760 Affecting them
00:05:00.700 Think about that
00:05:03.080 The next time
00:05:03.680 You don't want to
00:05:04.240 Fucking do
00:05:04.760 What you know
00:05:05.620 You need to do
00:05:06.420 Okay?
00:05:07.720 Leadership just isn't about
00:05:09.080 When you choose
00:05:10.060 To be a leader
00:05:10.660 And stand up
00:05:11.300 And say
00:05:11.560 Rah rah rah 0.99
00:05:12.340 I'm a fucking leader
00:05:13.440 No
00:05:14.320 You're leading people
00:05:15.620 Regardless
00:05:16.120 It's not something
00:05:17.420 That you can default
00:05:18.660 Out of
00:05:19.300 And I think
00:05:21.020 A lot of you people
00:05:21.880 Need to ask yourself
00:05:22.940 If you're leading people
00:05:23.940 Down the right path
00:05:24.880 With your actions
00:05:25.620 Because it's important
00:05:28.840 It's not just about you
00:05:30.580 It's not just your life
00:05:31.940 We're talking about
00:05:33.700 The impact that you make
00:05:34.740 On other people's lives
00:05:35.840 Okay?
00:05:37.340 And if you want to
00:05:38.260 Lead people down
00:05:38.980 The right path
00:05:39.840 You have
00:05:41.380 To control
00:05:42.640 Your day
00:05:43.720 You cannot
00:05:44.840 Let your day
00:05:45.680 Control you
00:05:46.560 Every single person
00:05:50.020 Listening to this
00:05:50.820 Right now
00:05:51.320 Has an opportunity
00:05:53.240 Every
00:05:54.100 Single
00:05:55.140 Day
00:05:56.020 To win their day
00:05:58.360 It's very simple
00:06:00.460 You have to take
00:06:03.460 The tasks
00:06:04.060 That need to be done
00:06:05.200 And you fucking 0.82
00:06:06.080 Do them
00:06:06.720 Okay?
00:06:08.020 There's no magic to this
00:06:09.100 There's no luck to this
00:06:10.300 There's nothing other
00:06:11.960 Than doing
00:06:13.060 What needs to be done
00:06:14.360 When you need to do it
00:06:17.160 And if you look back
00:06:19.420 At the end of the day
00:06:20.220 And you say
00:06:20.640 I was in control
00:06:21.660 Of my day
00:06:22.180 I won my day
00:06:23.580 And you can make a habit
00:06:24.960 Out of winning your day
00:06:26.200 Guess what?
00:06:27.420 You're gonna fucking
00:06:28.140 Win your week
00:06:28.800 And guess what happens
00:06:30.200 When you win two weeks
00:06:31.160 Or three weeks
00:06:31.720 Or four weeks
00:06:32.280 You create a habit
00:06:33.580 Of winning
00:06:34.220 And then what happens?
00:06:36.700 Winning becomes
00:06:37.520 Less about
00:06:38.540 Actively
00:06:39.780 Trying to win
00:06:41.000 And more about
00:06:41.960 Just who you are
00:06:43.880 So winning
00:06:46.180 Becomes effortless
00:06:47.360 It becomes
00:06:48.280 A character trait
00:06:49.560 It becomes
00:06:50.180 Something you carry
00:06:51.040 With you
00:06:51.460 No matter what you do
00:06:52.700 That's where you
00:06:54.740 Want to be
00:06:55.280 You don't want
00:06:56.320 To fight this
00:06:57.020 Every day
00:06:57.560 You don't want
00:06:57.940 To struggle
00:06:58.440 This every day
00:06:59.280 Take the time
00:07:01.000 To develop
00:07:01.460 The discipline
00:07:02.080 To develop
00:07:02.680 The habit
00:07:03.320 Of fucking winning
00:07:04.420 And guess what happens?
00:07:06.520 You become
00:07:07.380 A winner
00:07:08.020 But you can't
00:07:09.780 Do that
00:07:10.200 With your paddles
00:07:10.840 In the boat
00:07:11.260 People
00:07:11.660 You can't do that
00:07:13.360 Just accepting
00:07:14.760 What life dishes
00:07:15.640 Out at you
00:07:16.180 You can't do that
00:07:17.340 Without a plan
00:07:18.140 Make a plan
00:07:21.760 Execute the plan
00:07:23.840 Win the day
00:07:25.600 Take control
00:07:27.340 Of the day
00:07:28.120 It's that simple
00:07:29.840 I wish I could
00:07:31.860 Make this
00:07:32.480 Sound magical
00:07:33.760 To you
00:07:34.240 I wish I could
00:07:35.540 Make this sound
00:07:36.200 Like there was
00:07:36.640 Some sort of
00:07:37.540 Unspoken
00:07:41.080 Control force
00:07:43.260 That makes you
00:07:44.940 Not in control
00:07:45.720 So that you
00:07:46.240 Could defer
00:07:46.940 The responsibility
00:07:48.200 Of controlling
00:07:49.420 Your day
00:07:49.840 On to some
00:07:50.280 Other force
00:07:50.900 And I could
00:07:51.560 Let you off
00:07:52.060 The fucking
00:07:52.500 Hook
00:07:52.720 But guess
00:07:53.140 What?
00:07:53.380 I can't
00:07:53.880 You are
00:07:55.940 Where you are
00:07:56.840 Because of the
00:07:57.460 Decisions that
00:07:58.140 You've made
00:07:58.600 So far
00:07:59.100 You are
00:07:59.920 Where you are
00:08:00.620 Because of
00:08:01.300 The amount
00:08:02.100 Of wins
00:08:02.800 That you've
00:08:03.760 Made
00:08:04.240 So far
00:08:05.660 Or the amount
00:08:06.600 Of losses
00:08:07.140 That you've
00:08:07.600 Made so far
00:08:08.300 They've all
00:08:09.220 Equaled up
00:08:09.780 To put you
00:08:10.240 Right exactly
00:08:10.860 Where you are
00:08:11.400 Right now
00:08:11.860 And I know
00:08:13.760 Most of you
00:08:14.320 People listening
00:08:14.920 To this
00:08:15.160 Are bad
00:08:15.540 Motherfuckers 1.00
00:08:16.260 And you're
00:08:16.880 Not the type
00:08:17.320 Of person
00:08:17.700 To sit back
00:08:18.260 And just
00:08:18.520 Take an
00:08:18.860 Ass whooping 0.88
00:08:19.280 From life
00:08:19.840 But guys
00:08:21.800 We all
00:08:22.240 Get in
00:08:22.500 Those habits
00:08:22.980 We all
00:08:23.580 Get in
00:08:24.320 Those mentalities 1.00
00:08:25.260 Of letting
00:08:25.780 Life control
00:08:26.580 Us
00:08:26.900 Letting the
00:08:27.360 Day control
00:08:27.980 Us
00:08:28.380 And you have
00:08:29.360 To learn
00:08:29.760 To recognize
00:08:30.420 When that's
00:08:30.880 Happening
00:08:31.240 Because when
00:08:31.780 That's happening
00:08:32.420 You've got
00:08:33.040 To snap
00:08:33.420 Out of it
00:08:33.920 You've got
00:08:34.600 To make
00:08:35.020 A conscious
00:08:35.620 Decision
00:08:36.180 To take
00:08:36.860 Control
00:08:37.380 Of the
00:08:38.700 Day
00:08:38.940 Right now
00:08:39.540 And make
00:08:41.220 It the best
00:08:41.820 Rest of the
00:08:42.680 Day
00:08:42.980 That it can
00:08:43.820 Be
00:08:44.060 When those
00:08:44.580 Kind of
00:08:44.840 Days
00:08:45.020 Happen
00:08:45.360 We all
00:08:45.840 Have bad
00:08:46.400 Fucking days
00:08:47.060 I mean
00:08:47.860 Yesterday
00:08:48.600 I woke
00:08:49.120 Up and by
00:08:49.680 10 o'clock
00:08:50.500 In the morning
00:08:51.020 I wanted
00:08:51.380 To take a
00:08:51.840 Fucking nap
00:08:52.520 Because I
00:08:53.420 Was so
00:08:53.880 Overwhelmed
00:08:54.480 With negativity
00:08:55.120 But you
00:08:56.500 Know what I
00:08:56.900 Did
00:08:57.200 I went
00:08:58.220 And worked
00:08:58.700 Out
00:08:59.000 I went
00:08:59.760 And took
00:09:00.060 Positive
00:09:00.540 Action
00:09:01.040 And then
00:09:01.740 I did
00:09:02.080 Three or
00:09:02.480 Four more
00:09:02.900 Things that
00:09:03.400 Were on
00:09:03.680 My list
00:09:04.100 And you
00:09:04.340 Know what
00:09:04.660 By the
00:09:04.980 End of
00:09:05.180 The day
00:09:05.480 I could
00:09:05.880 Look back
00:09:06.400 And say
00:09:07.040 You know
00:09:07.300 What
00:09:07.580 That day
00:09:08.260 Started off
00:09:08.780 A little
00:09:09.020 Rough
00:09:09.340 But I
00:09:10.060 Made the
00:09:10.380 Best of
00:09:10.760 It
00:09:10.940 And I
00:09:11.500 Won that
00:09:11.880 Motherfucker
00:09:12.420 And guys
00:09:13.820 That's
00:09:14.060 That's
00:09:14.080 That's
00:09:14.100 That's
00:09:15.020 What you
00:09:15.180 Have to
00:09:15.520 Learn
00:09:15.700 How to
00:09:15.960 Do
00:09:16.180 Okay
00:09:17.460 So if
00:09:18.220 You're
00:09:18.340 The kind
00:09:18.640 Of person
00:09:19.100 That is
00:09:19.920 Going to
00:09:20.600 Which you
00:09:21.120 Probably
00:09:21.420 Aren't
00:09:21.860 But we
00:09:22.540 All know
00:09:22.860 These people
00:09:23.400 If you're
00:09:25.020 The kind
00:09:25.280 Of person
00:09:25.720 That's going
00:09:26.200 To pull
00:09:27.160 In the
00:09:27.380 Paddles
00:09:27.900 And just
00:09:28.680 Say oh
00:09:29.200 You know
00:09:29.480 I'm just
00:09:29.760 Going to
00:09:29.920 Go with
00:09:30.220 The flow
00:09:30.640 And hope
00:09:31.960 That it
00:09:32.260 Provides
00:09:32.920 The best
00:09:33.480 And you
00:09:34.180 Know
00:09:34.320 Dude
00:09:34.640 The fucking
00:09:35.240 World's
00:09:35.540 Gonna kick
00:09:35.800 Your ass
00:09:36.220 You know
00:09:37.440 That hippie
00:09:38.020 Fucking
00:09:38.400 You know
00:09:38.840 Oh I'm
00:09:39.300 Just going
00:09:39.680 Through life
00:09:40.220 Dude
00:09:41.380 Those people
00:09:41.800 Never fucking
00:09:42.680 Get where
00:09:43.080 They want
00:09:43.360 To go
00:09:43.640 We all
00:09:44.560 Know where
00:09:44.880 They end
00:09:45.180 Up
00:09:45.420 We all
00:09:46.600 We all
00:09:46.960 Fucking see
00:09:47.440 Those people
00:09:47.940 None of
00:09:49.300 You want
00:09:49.540 To be
00:09:49.740 Those people
00:09:50.260 Okay
00:09:51.860 It's time
00:09:53.820 To take
00:09:54.120 Control
00:09:54.540 It's time
00:09:55.260 To make
00:09:55.520 A plan
00:09:55.980 It's time
00:09:56.640 To fucking
00:09:57.120 Execute
00:09:57.840 On that
00:09:58.320 Plan
00:09:58.640 And I'm
00:09:59.600 Not talking
00:10:00.080 About just
00:10:00.520 Monday
00:10:00.780 Through Friday
00:10:01.340 Either
00:10:01.780 I'm talking
00:10:02.820 About the
00:10:03.220 Weekends
00:10:03.880 A lot
00:10:04.740 Of you guys
00:10:05.120 Think you
00:10:05.480 Can get
00:10:05.740 By on
00:10:06.200 Monday
00:10:06.580 Through Friday
00:10:07.300 And Saturday
00:10:08.340 And Sunday
00:10:08.880 Or for the
00:10:09.500 Fucking
00:10:09.800 Recreation
00:10:11.380 Or my
00:10:11.740 Friends
00:10:12.240 Or this
00:10:12.640 Or that
00:10:13.020 Dude
00:10:13.460 No
00:10:15.680 Being
00:10:18.660 Ultra
00:10:20.080 Successful
00:10:20.880 Is hard
00:10:21.400 As fuck
00:10:21.880 Excelling
00:10:22.880 Is hard
00:10:23.560 Hard
00:10:24.060 Hard
00:10:24.400 As fuck
00:10:25.160 You have
00:10:27.780 To put in
00:10:28.720 All the time
00:10:29.500 That you can
00:10:30.100 And make
00:10:30.860 That time
00:10:31.500 Effective
00:10:33.120 For a long
00:10:34.780 Fucking time
00:10:35.400 It's not
00:10:38.240 Up
00:10:38.480 It's not
00:10:38.940 It's not
00:10:38.960 It's not
00:10:39.260 Something that
00:10:39.720 You're going
00:10:39.940 To do
00:10:40.180 For a
00:10:40.560 Week
00:10:40.820 It's not
00:10:41.440 Something you're
00:10:41.840 To do
00:10:42.000 For a
00:10:42.280 Month
00:10:42.500 It's not
00:10:42.760 Something you're
00:10:43.160 To do
00:10:43.320 For a
00:10:43.640 Year
00:10:44.220 It's something
00:10:45.460 That you have
00:10:45.960 To make
00:10:46.320 A commitment
00:10:46.980 To
00:10:47.380 For your
00:10:48.580 Life
00:10:49.080 Make a
00:10:54.260 Plan
00:10:54.640 Kill the
00:10:56.020 Fucking
00:10:56.280 Plan
00:10:56.620 This is for
00:10:57.800 The cheese
00:10:58.420 And this is
00:10:58.920 For the
00:10:59.280 Hustler
00:10:59.820 This is for
00:11:00.420 The hustlers
00:11:01.020 Now back to
00:11:01.700 The cheese
00:11:02.420 This is for
00:11:02.960 The cheese
00:11:03.160 But
00:11:03.340 The cheese
00:11:03.460 And
00:11:05.020 qualcosa
00:11:05.760 Who
00:11:05.960 Will
00:11:06.040 procrastinate
00:11:06.160 This is for
00:11:06.940 The cheese
00:11:07.540 That you hate
00:11:07.940 That you have
00:11:08.740 And this is for
00:11:09.080 A
00:11:09.740 Decision
00:11:10.320 Music
00:11:10.620 Subtale