All In, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO90
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Summary
In this episode of the MFCEO Project, I talk about the importance of going all in on your goals and chasing your dreams. You are always the CEO of you, and you are always going to be the boss of you.
Transcript
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I want to be a motherfucking hustler. You better ask somebody.
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What is up guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host and I am the
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motherfucking CEO. Guys, what is the motherfucking CEO? What's that about? If you've been listening
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to the podcast, you know that being a motherfucking CEO is about taking control of your life. It's
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about taking control of every decision that you make, taking responsibility for every decision
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that you make, every action that you take and going through life with confidence, with swagger,
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with the ability to kick some ass with a big fucking smile on your face. All right. You don't
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have to own a business. You don't have to be in a literal CEO, but what you do have to realize
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is that you are always the CEO of you. Okay. Today, a special edition Friday fire. Usually
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we're doing some Thursday thunder today. I want to do some Friday fire because guess what?
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I can do whatever the fuck I want to do. All right. Here's the thing guys. I got an email
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today from a kid who asked me a question and he asked me, what book would I recommend that
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would help him the most with business leadership management or how to run a business? My response
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to him was simple. It was go to fucking Amazon, type in whatever it is that you're looking for
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and then look at the fucking ratings and read every book that has a high rating. Okay.
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Entrepreneurship guys is not for everyone. It's the hot thing right now. It is. And I'm talking
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about literal entrepreneurship, opening a business. It is the hot thing right now on Instagram,
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on Facebook, on YouTube. We're bombarded with these millionaire people who sell you this millionaire
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dream with minimal effort. Okay. And everybody thinks they're going to be the next dude selling
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some information product and making fucking a million dollars a fucking week, you know, sitting
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on a beach, smoking fucking weed. All right. That shit just ain't going to happen. Okay. I get asked
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questions all the time. How do you know when the right time to jump into businesses? Well, let me ask
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you this. Why the fuck aren't you in business already? Because if it was for you, you'd already
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be in fucking business. Okay. The right time to jump is the time when your gut says, I'm going to
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fucking do this. Okay. And what that comes down to is what I want to talk about today, which I want to
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talk about going all in. All right. So many people these days have this thought that they can test the
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waters, or they can try to be a business person, or they can try to be an entrepreneur. And I'm here
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to tell you, and anybody who has built any level of success will tell you this literal entrepreneurship,
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AKA owning a business, running a business, building a successful business requires you to go all the
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fuck in. Okay. Any goal that you want to want to achieve that's worthwhile in your life, whether it
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be, uh, I want to, you know, become a doctor and I have to go to school for 12 years, or I want to
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become an entrepreneur, or I want to lose a hundred pounds, or I want to become a professional athlete.
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All these big goals require all in dedication. All right. And most of you motherfuckers have this
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problem and this perception that you could try things out and that they're still going to work
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out. And that's not the way it works. You look at any person, any person who has achieved greatness
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in this life from a career standpoint or a physical standpoint, like I said, professional athletes,
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president of countries, Navy SEALs, we could go on and on and on and on the pinnacle of the pinnacle
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of the pinnacle, which I know is what you fucking want, because why would you be listening to this
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if you didn't? Any of those things guys require all in effort. I mean, jump the fuck in the pool,
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head first, don't fucking worry about the what ifs and make yourself fucking swim. And so many of you
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guys lack that ability or that will to do that. And that is always going to keep you held back.
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That is always going to keep you in the place of you being uncomfortable. It's always going to keep
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you in a place of you having regrets. It's always going to keep you in a place of you wishing you
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were someone else. And what's worse than that? What's worse than you wishing you could do something
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or be something or be someone else than you are? Life is fucking short, guys. Life is real short.
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We all know people who had big plans and didn't get a chance to fulfill them. We all know people
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who could have been. We all know people who wanted to be. The world's filled with billions and billions
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of those people. You do not wish to be that. And I'm telling you right now, your ability to go all in,
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and when I say all in, I mean all the fuck in. Every moment, every minute, every hour, every day,
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every week, every month, every fucking year, for as long as it fucking takes
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for you to get where you're going, you should be consumed
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with that path. What you do at night matters. What you do in the morning matters. What you do
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when your friends are out drinking matters. What you do on Saturday matters. What you do on Sunday
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matters. The success clock doesn't give a fuck what day it is. It's going to run no matter what.
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And you guys pretend like you can work seven, eight, 10 hours a day and then spend the rest of
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your time dicking off and you think you're going to be somewhere and you're not. You're not. And
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you're surrounded by people who enable this thought process. You know, your good friends, your family,
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people who have, who have accepted mediocrity as a life. Oh, you know, you don't need to work on
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weekends. Oh, why do you work so hard at night? Oh, why do you get up so early and do that? Why
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do you train so hard? Why are you eating all that health stuff? Why are you reading all these books
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when we're out drinking beer? Dude, you got to spend time with your friends. You got to spend time
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with your family. You got to do this. You got to do that. You got to do this. Right? We're surrounded
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by it. We hear it all the time because people have accepted a path that is far, far less than you want
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for yourself. And the most common reason that people don't achieve what they want to achieve
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is because they let those comments and those thoughts and those beliefs infect their brain,
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which affects their actions and it affects their outcomes.
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You guys don't have unlimited time here. Most of you listening to this,
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we don't know how much time we have, but most of you listening to this are between the ages of 20
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and 35 years old. And if you're not, that's okay. But if you're between the ages of 20 and 35 years old
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and you're not willing to go all the fuck in on every single thing that you need to do to get where
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you want to be for 10, for five, 10 years, dude, you ain't going to fucking get there.
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You might as well just get a job that you like to do, show up, put in your fucking hours and go home.
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And there's nothing wrong with that. If you're happy, if that makes you happy, that's what you
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should do. But I'm telling you, and I'm speaking to the people who want more, the people who want to be
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the fucking pinnacle, the people who want to be financially free, the people who want to be
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accomplished, the people who want to make a fucking difference. You guys are going to have to go all
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the fuck in. You can't listen to your mom. You can't listen to your dad. You can't listen to your
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friends. You can't listen to your best, uh, your best buddy from high school. You can't listen to the
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fucking internet. Okay. You can't stick your fucking toe in the pool and say, Oh, you know,
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I don't know. This kind of feels weird. No, you have to dedicate every fucking breath, every fucking
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ounce of energy and every fucking thought and effort that you possibly have in your heart
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to becoming what it is you want to be. Going all in isn't for everybody. Just like building a business
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isn't for everybody. But I'm going to tell you guys right now, if you want to get where I think
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you want to go, you better learn to get really, really, really used to being uncomfortable because
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guys, nothing great comes from a position of comfort, everything worthwhile, everything that
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matters, everything that is great comes from being in a position of uncomfortable. Nothing
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worthwhile is easy to get nothing worthwhile. Can you get by not being uncomfortable? Everything
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is going to make you uncomfortable. Get fucking used to it. And if you could get used to being
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uncomfortable, your fucking limits are non-existent. You guys got to go all in. You got to, you got to
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understand what that means. All in is not 50%. All in is not 60 hours a week. All in is not,
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I worked a Saturday twice a month. All in is not, I missed one birthday party. All in is all fucking