REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 06, 2024


Audio Exclusive 06: 4 Mental Exercises For Elite-Level Execution


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

166.61942

Word Count

2,351

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

1

Hate Speech Sentences

3


Summary

Mental toughness is the skill that enables you to execute to get everything you need done no matter what you feel no matter the situation, no matter how you feel, and that s the only way to achieve your goals and dreams by developing mental toughness.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what is up guys it's andy for selling this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies the
00:00:21.160 fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys it's
00:00:25.920 saturday and that means we have audio exclusive today all right today i'm going to talk about
00:00:32.960 four mental exercises for elite level execution now there's only one way to achieve goals and
00:00:41.840 dreams and that's by developing mental toughness we talk a lot about that on the show there's a lot
00:00:47.860 of ways i can divide mental toughness i could break it down i could talk about the qualities
00:00:51.800 of mental toughness grit confidence perseverance fortitude the ability to endure etc etc etc if you
00:01:00.260 follow 75 hard or you've done 75 hard you understand what i'm talking about but i'm going to operate
00:01:06.680 today on a very simple definition of mental toughness mental toughness is the skill that enables
00:01:15.000 you to execute to get everything you need done no matter what no matter how you feel no matter what
00:01:23.800 the situation is no matter what the circumstances are you are able to execute regardless of what's going
00:01:32.200 on the reality is the entire reason that i've experienced personal and professional success in
00:01:39.000 my life is because i developed mental toughness i developed the skill of being able to execute no
00:01:46.600 matter what okay and here's the reality guys and i've told you this for years i'm not successful because i
00:01:53.720 have more talent or i'm more intelligent than other people i don't have accesses to resources that no one
00:02:00.600 else had i'm where i am in life for a very simple reason and that's this every single day i have
00:02:09.400 identified the critical tasks that needed to be done and i did them i was able to do those critical
00:02:16.520 tasks every single day regardless of how i felt regardless of what was going on because i intentionally
00:02:24.040 developed this skill set called mental toughness and this is what i want to talk to you about today
00:02:30.360 because just as you can do physical exercises to become physically tough you can practice mental
00:02:37.560 exercises to become mentally tough now obviously this is what the live hard program is all about
00:02:44.600 but these are four exercises that you can do in addition to this program that will help you develop
00:02:50.600 mental toughness and i'm going to walk you through these four mental exercises that will help you develop
00:02:55.960 mental toughness that you need to execute no matter what is going on in your life
00:03:00.120 because the reality is guys conditions are never going to be perfect there is always going to be
00:03:08.200 hardship there is always going to be inconveniences there is always going to be things that are not
00:03:14.120 ideal and if you can only execute when things are ideal you cannot win you cannot win okay so what are
00:03:23.400 these exercises let's get into them number one consistently remind yourself of your purpose you're
00:03:30.680 not going to get anything done if you don't know why you are doing it you have to have vision for what
00:03:36.120 you really want in your life you have to have a purpose that drives all of your hard work now i've told you
00:03:42.440 guys this story about my life many many times but for the first 10 years or so in my business i didn't make any
00:03:51.080 money in fact i made 58 380 dollars collectively over the first 10 years and the reason i did that
00:03:59.880 you guys often think oh man you had so much grit you had so much fortitude you were able to push
00:04:05.320 through these hard times that's not exactly what was going on what was going on was i was trying to sell
00:04:13.800 i was trying to get rich i was operating my business for me not in a way of serving or helping
00:04:21.560 other people and we went through this process we were going to close the business and we were going
00:04:26.360 to move on to other things because we weren't making any money and that was our goal and you
00:04:30.680 guys know that i was going to start a carpet cleaning business and chris was going to go to officer
00:04:35.000 candidate school okay and we were going to close the business and during the training for the carpet
00:04:41.880 cleaning i got injured and while i got injured for 30 days i was on my bed we had a bunch of
00:04:49.560 conversations about the business and we decided that we didn't actually care about getting rich
00:04:55.720 and we didn't want to leave the business because there were certain parts about the business
00:05:00.360 that we really loved we really loved when by accident people would come in and we would talk to them
00:05:08.040 build relationships and they would come in six seven months later three months later a completely
00:05:13.960 different human and they'd be crying and they'd be so thankful and so grateful and that was awesome
00:05:20.040 that was something we could not get in other areas of business and it was something that we both loved
00:05:26.520 and so we changed our intent and we changed our purpose at that point in time and for the next number of
00:05:34.600 years we grew a hundred percent every single year because we switched from being about ourselves to
00:05:41.320 being about our customers and that was an adjustment a pivot in our purpose that has allowed us to become
00:05:49.720 successful to this day that sense of purpose drove our actions and it will drive your actions it helped us
00:05:57.080 focus on helping people rather than you know getting rich chasing the paper and all this other
00:06:02.840 shit that people talk about okay the money took care of itself when we got our purpose aligned
00:06:08.920 properly all right now notice that i realized that my ultimate purpose was helping people and providing
00:06:15.080 value if you ask most people who are in business and you say what's the purpose of your business they
00:06:20.840 will say to make money which is why they don't make any money serving people providing value should be the
00:06:27.640 ultimate purpose of every single business out there if you provide value you won't have to worry about
00:06:33.800 the money okay personally it's okay to be motivated by material goals but eventually you're going to grow
00:06:41.000 out of that and either way you have to consistently call to mind your purpose and keep that at the forefront
00:06:47.560 of what you're thinking about and what i mean when i say that is you need to literally turn your mind
00:06:52.920 and your mind's attention to your purpose consciously every single day inside your head
00:06:59.640 you should be constantly asking yourself why am i doing this when you ask yourself that question
00:07:05.240 you should know and state the answer immediately you should be able to recall that right away it's
00:07:10.840 imperative that you consistently remind yourself of your purpose not just because it will keep you along
00:07:17.080 the path but also it will keep you fulfilled along the path to success if you don't know why you're
00:07:24.040 doing something you cannot do it and you cannot have fun doing it and you cannot feel fulfilled doing it
00:07:31.640 so what is your purpose you have to be able to keep that at the front of your mind the second thing is
00:07:38.520 make up your mind that the rules are set in stone you cannot change them once you start average people
00:07:45.800 make the assumption that if things get tough they can compromise the rules they can change the path
00:07:52.040 they can adjust the situation which is why most people are most people okay when you set the rules
00:07:59.000 for what you're trying to accomplish you have to make up your mind that those rules are non-negotiable
00:08:06.120 they are unchangeable they are set in stone zero compromise zero deviation i am going to do this
00:08:14.600 no matter what happens no matter what comes my way no matter what challenges no matter what hardships no matter
00:08:22.840 what pain i am going to do this you have to have that mentality because compromise leads to quitting
00:08:31.960 people tweak and adjust and make little sacrifices because conditions aren't perfect and they don't understand
00:08:39.400 that conditions will never be perfect so if you give yourself the option to compromise when conditions
00:08:45.160 aren't perfect you will always compromise and compromise leads to complacency complacency leads
00:08:51.800 to loss of confidence and loss of confidence leads to quitting the truth is guys you shouldn't even try
00:08:58.440 to accomplish anything if you haven't made up your mind that compromise is unacceptable okay you shouldn't
00:09:04.520 even go because you won't make it make up your mind decide that you are going to do this you are going
00:09:11.640 to overcome you are going to push through and no matter what comes your way you are going to get where you
00:09:17.320 want to go and when you make that decision and you mean it you will see major progress in your life
00:09:25.080 point number three get your mind clear on the specific critical tasks that are essential for you
00:09:31.320 you know the phrase you've all heard it aim for nothing and that's what you'll hit too many people
00:09:36.680 are way too vague in the way they try to accomplish things they have some general idea of what they want
00:09:42.440 to do but they don't know specifically in detail what they need to do or what they want to become every
00:09:49.960 single day you need to get your mind clear and get the critical tasks you need to complete that day to move
00:09:55.960 you forward we talk about this a lot with win the day in the powerless system you can go to episode 16
00:10:03.800 and get my exact system for this for free okay don't just make a mental note you have to follow a
00:10:12.520 system all right you can't just wing it you can't just say i'm gonna do these critical tasks today and
00:10:18.600 they're gonna get done that's not how it's gonna work you have to consciously list them out you have to
00:10:23.800 consciously follow the system and if you follow that system exactly as i've laid it out in episode
00:10:30.520 16 you cannot fucking lose it is the only system that i know of that will guarantee success if you
00:10:38.920 execute on it and it's free so go to episode 16 and get that point number four intentionally focus your
00:10:47.400 mind on what you will gain not what you're giving up this is a huge thing guys repeat after
00:10:53.720 me action follows focus your actions will always follow your focus the reason people fail at
00:11:01.640 achieving their goals is that they focus on what they have to give up when they're dieting people
00:11:07.320 follow up their diet because they think about giving up pizza and french fries and their brain is
00:11:12.440 constantly fixated i can't have pizza i can't have french fries and eventually it gets to pizza and french
00:11:19.000 fries and pizza and french fries and pizza and french fries and eventually it breaks them and they
00:11:23.960 go eat the pizza and the french fries okay instead you should be thinking about how great you're going
00:11:30.520 to feel when you look in the mirror and you're fucking jacked and ripped and looking the best you ever did
00:11:36.280 and getting admiration from everybody around you because of the discipline that you clearly display on
00:11:41.880 a daily basis you should be thinking about how you're going to feel when you go on that vacation or when you go to the
00:11:47.400 pool or when you go to the store and your clothes actually fit you should be thinking about when you
00:11:52.200 go to that wedding and the suit fix fits good that's the shit you should be thinking about not what you
00:11:57.720 give up but what you're going to gain if you focus on what you're giving up you will lose because you will
00:12:04.680 give up it will mentally break you so focus on what you're gaining because if you focus on what you'll gain
00:12:11.240 you'll keep pressing on you will stay on the gas like i said focus how awesome your life's going to be
00:12:18.440 focus on how great you're going to feel focus on how much you're going to gain focus on all the money
00:12:24.120 that you're going to make because of the respect and the relationships that you're going to build
00:12:28.360 and these things will help you press forward action always follows focus the minute you start wavering
00:12:35.880 you should ask yourself what am i going to gain from this what am i doing this for which also ties
00:12:41.400 back to point number three of purpose okay so ask yourself if i keep repeating this action what will
00:12:49.720 the good result be focus on what you're gaining not on what you're giving up okay so to recap we have
00:12:57.880 remind yourself of your purpose consider the rules set in stone get clear on your critical task
00:13:05.640 and focus on what you're going to gain not what you're giving up remember guys mental toughness
00:13:12.520 is the skill that enables you to execute to get things done no matter what it is the source of
00:13:19.640 your problems the reason you are not where you want to be is not because you don't know what to do
00:13:25.800 it's because you don't have the capacity to do it when you don't feel great when things aren't perfect
00:13:32.920 and that is a requirement for winning so yes go out and live the live hard lifestyle yes practice
00:13:40.360 mental toughness but also keep in mind these four tools because these four tools will help you break
00:13:46.840 down any obstacles that come your way during this path that you have chosen to go on
00:13:53.240 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze
00:13:56.600 fuck a bowl fuck a stove counted millions in the cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bank road
00:14:03.240 can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed