REAL AF with Andy Frisella - November 02, 2017


Conflict Creates You, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO187

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Andy Frisella
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6 minutes

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So many of you out there try to eliminate all conflict in your life because it's a negative thing and you don't have enough energy left to do the things that you need to do to become a better human being. In fact, most people spend so much time trying to avoid the conflict in their life, or looking at it through a negative set of lenses, that they get in a terrible mood when conflict presents itself. And I would argue that's because their perspective is wrong.

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00:00:57.080 it's going well right now it's going it's going really cool uh and it lets me know you guys are
00:01:01.860 paying attention which I really love all right guys here's the deal
00:01:06.700 so many of you out there try to eliminate all conflict in your life and I want to point something
00:01:17.220 out to you I don't think this is going to take very long to explain how you view conflict in your
00:01:25.680 life has so much to do with what energy you're putting out what progress you're making and how far
00:01:33.600 along you're going to be able to get okay you have never ever watched a movie in your life
00:01:43.000 that didn't have conflict you've never read a good story that didn't have conflict
00:01:50.900 you've never been a part of anything that gave you extreme pleasure and extreme joy that didn't
00:02:00.160 have to do with overcoming some sort of conflict but yet most people look at conflict as a negative
00:02:08.180 thing most people spend so much time trying to avoid the conflict in their life or looking at it
00:02:15.620 through a negative set of lenses that they get in a terrible mood they get totally thrown off course
00:02:22.760 they get totally disrupted whenever any sort of conflict presents itself and I would argue that's
00:02:30.720 because their perspective your perspective is wrong average people look at conflict as a negative thing
00:02:41.900 they dwell on it they get angry about it they get frustrated about it they do everything they can to
00:02:48.880 avoid it in fact they spend so much energy trying to avoid conflict that they don't have energy left to
00:02:56.640 do the things that are positive successful people people who are great people who they make movies about
00:03:05.080 people who they write books about look at conflict differently they see conflict as an opportunity
00:03:13.180 they see conflict as the way that they are going to become great they understand that conflict is going to
00:03:22.580 produce the lessons which are then going to produce the skills that you need to succeed they don't see conflict
00:03:32.700 as a negative thing they don't see conflict as something to be scared of they don't see conflict as
00:03:39.220 something that's going to drag them down or annoy them or frustrate them they understand that conflict is going
00:03:46.700 to create them they understand that everything they are and everything they will become is going to come
00:03:56.360 from conflict you're going to struggle you're going to be frustrated you're going to have things that you need
00:04:05.040 to overcome that's life and if you are naive enough to think that you can avoid all the conflict
00:04:15.440 all the frustration and everything that comes with it you're also going to be the person who learns
00:04:22.160 nothing who accomplishes nothing and who becomes nothing because they spend their entire lives avoiding
00:04:30.360 the one thing that creates greatness which is conflict
00:04:36.080 you don't want to be that person you don't want to be the person who whines and cries and
00:04:45.320 complains about how hard things are you don't want to be the person who thinks that they can get
00:04:52.200 through the day or get through the hour without having at least a small little conflict something
00:05:00.080 that annoys you something that frustrates you something that you see that you could take something from
00:05:07.180 instead of looking at conflict as a negative thing instead of being frustrated instead of being
00:05:14.180 anxious and instead of being angry about it
00:05:18.260 choose to have the perspective
00:05:21.620 that conflict is what creates you
00:05:24.780 conflict is what is going to mold you
00:05:27.980 conflict is what is going to teach you
00:05:30.480 and all the feelings that you experience
00:05:33.760 through any sort of conflict whether it be mental or physical
00:05:37.540 or spiritual
00:05:38.940 are going to teach you a skill or give you a benefit that is going to allow you to become
00:05:47.640 the best you
00:05:49.860 quit avoiding conflict
00:05:54.760 quit hiding from conflict
00:05:56.560 quit getting frustrated that you have conflict
00:06:00.060 and understand that conflict is what makes your story great
00:06:05.200 conflict is what is going to inspire others
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