REAL AF with Andy Frisella - September 21, 2017


The Key Flaw That Keeps Millennials (And You) From Success, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO176


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In this episode of The M.E.A.R.K.I.P. project, I discuss the problem with millennials and how they lack patience and how this is a problem that needs to be addressed.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys you're listening to the MF CEO project I'm Andy I'm your host and I am the
00:00:14.020 motherfucking CEO today is Thursday Thunder and I've got something to talk to you guys about
00:00:18.920 I am specifically talking today to you young people and when I say young people I mean under 1.00
00:00:27.240 30 years old all right and you may be 40 and this may be resonating with you as well but there's
00:00:34.560 something different about the generation that is 30 years old and under right now and everybody
00:00:39.440 likes to say oh they're entitled oh they're angry oh they're uh they're lazy oh they're you know they
00:00:46.540 think that they should be um you know so much further down the road or too good they're too
00:00:52.040 good to do hard jobs and this and that you know what there's some validity to that all right and
00:00:57.220 I want to get right into why I think that's the case a lot of people like to dog the under 30 or
00:01:03.100 quote-unquote millennial generation and you know I don't think it's necessarily a fair thing for 0.65
00:01:12.100 people to do but I do think there's some validity in the criticism and I want to pinpoint the problem
00:01:17.640 as I see it all right millennials don't lack work ethic they don't lack creative thought they don't
00:01:24.480 lack um the ability to do great work what they do lack is patience all right because of the internet
00:01:35.500 and because of the way these people have grown up they have not grown up or been taught patience
00:01:40.980 they don't know what it's like to have to call somebody when they're at home and hopefully get them
00:01:48.280 or ask their mom like hey is Susie home uh you know and she might be out playing so you have to
00:01:54.520 wait for two three hours till she gets home so you can talk to her they don't know what it's like to uh
00:02:00.120 not be able to have everything at their thumb uh the availability of their thumb on their phone
00:02:07.120 they don't know what it's like to have to actually go out in the public to live an actual life
00:02:13.780 all right and for that reason because everything is so instant now and everything is so available
00:02:20.560 and everything is so um you know automatic in every single way and this is how they've grown up
00:02:28.780 they lack patience okay and this is a fundamental problem with millennials this is very very fucking 0.99
00:02:37.120 dangerous and let me tell you why because in the real world in the real world that you have to go out
00:02:43.420 and earn an income build a career become successful in patience fucking matters all right we see these 0.90
00:02:52.660 kids who think you know that in three months or one year that they should be automatically earning six
00:03:00.900 figures in their position and they don't understand what a realistic time frame is they don't understand
00:03:08.220 that to create a career where you're going to earn six figures is going to take three five seven years
00:03:14.940 to get to that point and then it can greatly increase after that a lot of these guys feel like they're too
00:03:21.900 good to work for a job that makes 30 40 50 thousand dollars a year they don't understand that that's where
00:03:28.720 fucking everybody starts a lot of these people look only at the short term and they highly overestimate 0.80
00:03:35.680 what they can do in three four five six months and they highly underestimate what they can do in five years
00:03:42.580 and that's a huge problem for anybody that's young that listens to this that you need to overcome in your
00:03:49.340 own fucking brain because you know what the real world doesn't give a fuck how instant everything is on your 0.95
00:03:55.520 thumb it cares about what you do in real life and because you're so conditioned to getting everything you want
00:04:01.760 right now you have trouble seeing the long-term potential that you have at whatever situation you're in
00:04:13.640 okay you guys have to be start getting better at looking at the long term you have to start getting
00:04:22.920 better seeing where you're going to be in five years not five months you have to get better understanding
00:04:29.340 the upside to your situation and not discounting the upside to your situation for the short-term
00:04:35.960 rewards now because I'm going to tell you right now guys no matter how much you see on the internet
00:04:41.480 no matter how many fucking Lamborghinis you see posted no matter how many life coaches that are 19 years old 0.98
00:04:47.780 and haven't done a goddamn thing post on the internet how they're making four hundred thousand dollars a 0.58
00:04:54.120 fucking minute or whatever the fuck they tell you that shit ain't real life real life starts humbly 0.83
00:05:02.240 real life starts small real life starts with you paying your fucking dues over and over and over again 0.95
00:05:09.460 for fucking years and that's an extremely valuable situation that you can't possibly comprehend until 0.88
00:05:18.640 you've been through it because if I were to walk up to you right now and you are a young man or young
00:05:24.920 woman and I said here's a $250,000 job or a $400,000 job or a seven-figure job you would be fucking broke 1.00
00:05:35.540 because you would spend every dollar you had you would spend it on dumb shit you wouldn't know how to 0.68
00:05:40.920 manage your money because you haven't learned how to manage your money through the process and a lot of you
00:05:46.540 guys are like oh well that sounds okay to me well that's how people ruin their whole lives so if
00:05:51.120 that's what sounds good to you that's fine but I tell you what I get messages and emails from every
00:05:56.260 fuck every fucking day from young guys being like well I'm in a company right now where I'm making 0.92
00:06:01.380 for I'm 19 years old or I'm 22 years old or I'm 25 years old and I'm making $40,000 a year base with
00:06:07.820 the ability to make 80 if I do what I'm supposed to do with tremendous upside but I got an offer to make
00:06:14.840 $42,000 base where I get to go home and chill and not have to worry about doing the extra things
00:06:21.120 that are gonna I mean like how is that even a question like if that's a question for you which
00:06:25.740 which opportunity is better you don't have the right fucking mindset you've got the average mindset 0.91
00:06:30.980 you've got the mindset that you are going to go out you're going to take what you can take now
00:06:35.620 and then you're gonna you're gonna go sit on your ass and I can tell you as appealing as that might be 0.93
00:06:40.260 right now you are going to regret that decision your entire fucking life guaranteed 0.96
00:06:46.580 you're gonna be the guy who's sitting in the fucking mediocre house with the mediocre car with 0.98
00:06:55.320 the mediocre life with with not being able to do things you want to do because you made a short-term
00:07:00.740 decision based on fucking short-term gain period you guys who are young right now you need to teach 0.97
00:07:10.000 yourself patience you need to teach yourself perseverance you need to teach yourself that
00:07:15.120 things take time and how to develop skills through those challenges nothing in this world worthwhile can
00:07:22.420 be had instantly nothing in this world that is going to make you wealthy can be had instantly in
00:07:28.180 fucking one month or two months or three months or fucking one year it doesn't happen and because 0.97
00:07:33.840 we have the internet telling everybody that they're going to be wealthy if they fucking post uh if they 0.84
00:07:39.000 buy my program or this or that in 12 months we have this unrealistic expectation of what it truly takes
00:07:45.020 to succeed and I'm not talking about guys who just want to be entrepreneurs and own their own company
00:07:50.380 I'm talking about people who work inside of a company if you work inside of a company right now that has
00:07:57.280 the ability to grow that is growing that creates momentum that creates potential career opportunities
00:08:03.100 and you're not working your ass off to be a part of that company you are delusional about the 0.74
00:08:08.340 opportunities out there because I'm going to tell you right now there's a thousand companies for every
00:08:12.800 one of those that doesn't give a fuck about you or your career or your growth or where you're going to 0.84
00:08:18.680 be and they don't you they will promise you the sun and the moon and the fucking stars and you will 0.98
00:08:23.420 never get any of it so the first thing you need to do is identify the situation you're in and see if the
00:08:32.940 long-term potential is there the second thing you need to do is understand that it doesn't materialize in
00:08:37.980 one year I'm so tired of getting fucking emails from you young people who try to tell me like oh well I've been 1.00
00:08:45.800 at this for six months and I'm not where I want to be the fuck man six months the fuck 0.83
00:08:52.260 six months isn't shit you guys can't even stick something to something for six months and you think 0.86
00:09:00.640 what do you have what it takes to be a high six-figure earner a fucking seven-figure earner get the fuck out
00:09:06.660 of here man you guys have lost all concept of what realistic time frame is because you read all the
00:09:13.560 fucking headlines out there that ain't true and you know what I'm not going to be the guy that's
00:09:17.520 going to fucking tell you oh you know what you can make millions of dollars if you buy my program 0.85
00:09:22.600 in one year because I'm not going to do it because it's not true there's plenty other guys that'll tell
00:09:27.740 you that there's plenty other guys they'll tell you you can get rich by buying their program in
00:09:31.820 fucking 12 months but I guarantee it ain't fucking true you got two choices you can spend your whole
00:09:37.960 life chasing that fucking unicorn that doesn't exist or you could buckle down now you could develop 0.96
00:09:43.460 great skills you can move forward where you are and you could build a great career for yourself
00:09:48.260 those are your fucking only two choices because there's not one wealthy motherfucker that earns 1.00
00:09:53.140 high six into the seven figures eight figures that fucking got it overnight not one not even a 0.98
00:10:00.300 fucking professional athlete well Andy professional athlete just signed a 400 million dollar contract
00:10:04.400 yeah they also worked since they were fucking three years old that skill so they've been working for
00:10:10.040 20 fucking years to get that contract and you tell me that you can't work six fucking months 0.97
00:10:15.080 and you think you have what it takes and you think you deserve more pay and you think you're better than
00:10:20.060 the guy out there that's working for 15 bucks an hour you know busting his fucking balls and you think 0.96
00:10:25.620 you're too good for that job bullshit you don't have what it fucking takes you don't have the right 1.00
00:10:30.580 perspective you don't understand patience you don't understand grit you don't understand perseverance
00:10:37.660 and if you don't have those things and you don't understand those things and you don't develop them
00:10:42.360 in your day-to-day life you ain't ever gonna have anything because every single thing out there takes
00:10:47.280 those things and I am so fucking fed up with this Instagram society and this instant gratification society
00:10:54.740 and this fucking bullshit entrepreneur society telling all you motherfuckers out there that you could 0.86
00:11:00.340 drive a Lambo and it fucking rolls and fly around on private jets with no fucking work and you know 0.95
00:11:05.620 what you just fucking can't so you can either reside yourself to fucking average and take the fucking 0.99
00:11:13.080 short-term gain and sit on your ass and barbecue with your friends and you guys can all bitch about 0.98
00:11:17.460 how you don't have any fucking money and how the company's screwing you and how life screwed you and 0.98
00:11:22.400 it's not fair and it's all the rich man's fault that's fine that's what most people do or you could
00:11:28.180 buckle down you can fucking learn the skills you need to learn you can appreciate the process and 0.83
00:11:33.060 you can earn your way into success but those are the only two fucking choices and you better fucking 0.96
00:11:40.520 choose wisely when you're when you're young because you're never going to get that fucking time back 0.92
00:11:44.820 and remember who told you first remember who told you if you choose to take that that short-term path
00:11:50.820 remember who told you how your life was going to fucking be it was me it was fucking uncle Andy
00:11:56.640 he told you the fucking truth he told you how it was going to turn out you didn't listen and now 0.94
00:12:01.440 you're eating fucking hot pockets because you couldn't you couldn't fucking wait to make that 0.90
00:12:05.380 extra three thousand dollars a year as opposed to investing the time it takes to where you're able
00:12:10.340 to do whatever the fuck you want whenever you want with whoever you want just remember who told you that 0.70
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