Why 2018 Won't Be Your Year, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO201
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Summary
Why is it that every single year we have the same people posting the same fucking meme with the years changed? And why do they always find a reason to not do the things they promised themselves they were supposed to do?
Transcript
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what is up guys you're listening to the MFCEO project I'm Andy I'm your host and I am the
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motherfucking CEO guys today is Thursday Thunder and it's a special Thursday Thunder because it's
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the last Thursday Thunder of 2017 all right I've got something very important I want to talk to
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you about before I get to it guys three things okay one we don't publicize this podcast other than
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total of one fucking minute of your time and I would appreciate if you did that for me okay so
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with that being said guys look this is the last podcast that we're going to do in 2017
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and what I want to talk about is this we've all seen that meme on the internet and we see it every
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year every year we see it from the same person or the same type of person okay and it says something
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like this 2015 was practice 2016 was a warm-up and 2017 is game time only this year it says this
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2016 was practice 2017 was a warm-up 2018 is game time okay why is it that every single year we have
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the same people posting the same fucking meme with the years changed I'll tell you why because these
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are the same people that find an excuse every single time they get on their path and they hit some
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adversity they are the same people that will find a reason every single time to not do what they
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promised themselves they were going to do they tell themselves little stories they tell themselves
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stories like this well you know what I'm gonna get started on Monday and then Monday comes and guess
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what they don't get started and then they tell themselves on Tuesday well I already screwed up this
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week so I'm gonna start again on next Monday and if it's not the next Monday it's this I'm gonna get
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started after the weekend or I'm gonna get started after that wedding or I'm gonna get started after
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that vacation I take or next week or next month or after Valentine's Day or after St. Patrick's Day
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or after Easter and it goes on and on and on and they find a reason to not do the things they were
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supposed to do that they promised themselves they were going to do over and over and over again and
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let me tell you something guys if you look for a reason you will always find one if you look for an
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excuse you will always have one there's a reason that people post the same shit over and over and over
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again about New Year's resolutions why every year is going to be their year 2016 is going to be my
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year oh you know what 2016 didn't work out the way I wanted 2017 is going to be my year oh you know
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what 2017 didn't work out the way I wanted well 2018 is really going to be my year and I mean it
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I'm serious no you're not you're not serious because if you were serious you wouldn't be the
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kind of person that finds an excuse in every opportunity you wouldn't be the kind of person
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who finds a reason to break the promises to yourself in every opportunity people who succeed
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people who don't even make New Year's resolutions because they're always doing the shit they're supposed
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to do understand that things are not always going to be ideal things are not always going to be
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perfect things are not always going to be convenient there's going to be things that you can do or find
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or say or listen to that will help you justify you not sticking to your plan but successful people
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know this and they stick to the plan regardless they understand that things are going to get tough
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they understand that things are going to be hard they understand that things are going to be
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inconvenient they understand there's going to be weddings and holidays and vacations at every turn
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of our existence they don't train themselves to use those as excuses I know for a fact that a lot of you
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listening right now are the exact people I'm talking about you're the same motherfuckers that post success
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quote after success quote after success meme after success video but you don't do a fucking thing
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you tell yourself you're going to do all these things but you don't do any of them
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and let me tell you why you don't do any of them you don't do any of them it's not because you're lazy
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it's because you don't believe that you can do them and the reason you don't believe that you can do
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them is because for so many years for such a long time you have constantly broke promises that you've
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made to yourself would you trust someone who lied to you over and over and over again for years would
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you believe in them to get the job done no of course you fucking wouldn't and that's why you don't
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believe in yourself you don't believe in yourself because you've lied to yourself for years and years
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and years you've told yourself this was the time this was what I was going to do I'm going to do it
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this time and I'm serious I'm serious this time seriously you've told yourself that over and over and
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over again and what happens when you don't follow through what happens when you don't keep those promises
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you lose trust in yourself and when you lose trust in yourself you lose belief in yourself and when
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you lose belief in yourself you feel powerless you start thinking you don't have what it takes
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you don't have the intestinal fortitude to stick to a diet or a fitness program or a business plan
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and be consistent because you've lied to yourself so many times that all that belief and all that trust
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that you should have in yourself which is by the way is the most important thing that you need to
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have is gone and it has to be rebuilt it has to be rebuilt by keeping promises to yourself when you
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tell yourself you're going to lose five pounds or lose 50 pounds or lose 200 pounds you need to fucking do
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it because every time you try and every time you don't succeed you lose belief in yourself you lose
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trust in yourself and you become less powerful each and every time and this is why most people can never
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succeed because they tell themselves over and over and over again that they are going to do all these
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things and then they don't do them for whatever reason it's inconvenient it's hard it's not something
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they feel like doing they don't have the discipline to do these things is the bottom line and what
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happens they don't do them so then they lose belief and they become someone who is now instead of being
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in control of their life and being someone who has power over their decisions and power over their
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outcomes they become someone who becomes the whipping boy of the world the world has its way with you
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the world dictates you you're no longer actively living you're passively living you're turning your
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existence into something that is no longer something that you have any control over and is is something that
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the world controls and guys that's dangerous that's why most people are most people that's why most people
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have extreme difficulty achieving any goal because they haven't developed the belief and the trust in
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themselves I challenge you guys to become people who do instead of people who talk about doing I
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challenge you to not be the person who posts success meme after success meme after success meme after
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success meme with no fucking improvement in your life quit everybody sees it I see it your friends see
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it your mom sees it and we all think you're full of shit success is about doing it's not about
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talking and no matter how much positive shit you try to put out no matter how many success memes you
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think you're gonna post no matter how many times you post that 2018 is gonna be your year it's not
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gonna be your fucking year if you don't learn to be someone of action and that's where you guys are
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missing the fucking boat you all are curious about what the secret is you're all curious about what
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certain people have that you don't have why certain people succeed when you don't succeed well I'm gonna tell
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you why and it's really simple successful people while you're bitching and whining and crying about how
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things are hard and why things aren't fair and why things are harder for you than anybody else guess
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what they're doing they're doing the fucking work 2018 isn't gonna be your year if 2017 wasn't your year
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and I'm gonna tell you why because you're probably thinking oh well I could change my habits today no
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you fucking can't you can't snap your fucking fingers and become somebody else you have to commit to
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becoming better you have to commit to being a person of action you have to commit to being someone who
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doesn't just talk but follows through you don't see the most successful people on earth out there on
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the internet saying 2016 was a warm-up 2017 was practice 2018 is gonna be my fucking year you know why
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because every year is their year every day is their day every opportunity is their opportunity
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it's just a day it's another fucking day you guys do so much illogical shit that I do not understand
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one of them being this when you get to like August you decide that you're not gonna work hard
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again until fucking January oh well after New Year's I'll you know I'll get my shit together no you
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won't you're not gonna get shit together you haven't developed the habits you haven't developed
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the consistent habits of winning you haven't developed the ability to understand that every
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single minute matters guys I talk about this I've given you the tools I've taught you how to do this
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if you need a refresher go back and listen to episode 107 you have to understand this is about
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winning and this is not about winning a year this is about winning moment by moment this is about
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winning every day this is about winning a few days in a row five six seven days in a row and
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then winning the week and then it's about winning a few weeks in a row and winning your month and
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then it's about winning a few months in a row and you'll win the year but until you grasp that concept
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until you put that into action until you understand what win the day means and understand what the
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power list is and understands how to execute on five critical tasks until they become habits of
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yours until you understand how to create those new habits every fucking year you will be posting
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that dumb ass meme that losers post about 2018 being their fucking year that's going to be you
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that's going to be you the rest of your life until you make a commitment we have a few days left in
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2017 and if I were you I would spend those days taking serious inventory of what your priorities
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are in life if you don't want to go out and make millions of dollars if you don't want to go out
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and become financially successful that's okay I'm not telling you you have to live like me
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I'm just trying to encourage you to live the way you want to live but I would spend those days taking
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inventory of what you really want because a lot of people say they want this shit but they don't
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really want it because their actions don't back it up their actions aren't showing what it takes to
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get the result their actions aren't showing a commitment to being a person of excellence it's
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showing a commitment to being the same fucking thing they've been their whole life and I don't
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think that you want that or you wouldn't be listening to this podcast so guys you have to take
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inventory of what you want and you have to take inventory of the method that you're going to use to
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achieve your goals and I've outlined that method number of times to you guys like I said go back
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and listen to episode 107 go back and fucking check it out take inventory get yourself a power list
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going and use it I guarantee your 2018 will be your year if you commit to that method but guys I'm
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just fucking sick of hearing it I'm sick of hearing it I'm sick of seeing it I'm sick of seeing all
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these motherfuckers on the internet you know post these memes and say this shit and talk all this
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shit every fucking year aren't you fucking sick of not hitting your fucking goals aren't you sick of
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being the same that you are every fucking year if I'm sick of it I know you're fucking sick of it
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you have to regain the power you have to regain the trust you have to regain the belief and those
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things come from following through on your promises if you tell yourself you're going to do something you
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need to fucking do it if you tell you're something you're going if you tell yourself you're going to
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be something you need to fucking be it every time you cancel out on a promise that's no different
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than somebody that you're friends with or somebody that you trust and telling you something that isn't
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true and lying to you you're not going to believe that person you're not going to believe in that
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person you're not going to trust that person anymore and that's what you guys do to yourselves
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every year you tell yourself this is going to be my fucking year you know what if you're not
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committed to the actions just don't say it's going to be your year just keep doing what you're doing
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and be happy with it because every time you tell yourself I'm going to be great this year I'm going
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to lose 50 pounds I'm going to fucking start a business I'm going to make this much extra money
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I'm going to get promoted here I'm going to do this and you don't follow through in the action
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you lose power you lose the ability to be in control you lose the belief you lose the trust and you
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look at yourself in the mirror and you know you're a fucking liar that isn't what I want for you guys
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that's not why I do this I do this so you can learn belief so you can learn trust so you can learn to
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be in control and guys until you stop yelling if you still you stop lying to yourself about all this
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shit nothing's going to change so make 2018 your year quietly make 2018 your year with your actions
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make 2018 your year with your results but don't make 2018 your year with a fucking instagram post
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that you guaranteed to not follow through on I'm sick of it you're fucking sick of it be an example
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for yourself be an example for your family be an example for your friends be an example for your kids
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of someone who fucking does not someone who talks about doing