SHNEAKO - How to Flirt with Girls - Kinda Quality Podcast #24

00:00:00.000 all right dude you should just get right into it just get right into it all right get no banter

00:00:03.880 no fake small talk let's go let's go all right so the first one i thought i was over this girl

00:00:09.380 but then she appeared in my dream and massaged me what the was that about kid just basically

00:00:14.360 wants us to psychoanalyze him right now well you're not over her yeah if she's popping up

00:00:17.940 in your dreams i know this from pretty personal experience you're probably not over it the thing

00:00:21.700 is you could have a dream about a bitch and then still be over her the fact that you're asking a

00:00:25.560 question about this and you're wondering and you're contemplating you're she's living rent

00:00:28.480 free in your head right now yeah if you go out of your way to dm me and tell me about it then

00:00:32.040 you're not over her yeah hopefully she's not over you too text her yeah just text her like yo you're

00:00:36.840 in my dream and tell her exactly what it was about maybe add something funny that wasn't in

00:00:40.240 the dream just so it's less awkward you had a dream that could be no that's not that awkward

00:00:43.800 oh if he's over her i don't know like were they hooking up before i feel like we need a little

00:00:48.200 more context yeah we need the context well over her implies that they were together at some point

00:00:52.140 i don't think you could you have to get over a girl that you don't if it's like that if it's

00:00:55.860 just a girl that you're stalking then maybe don't text her yeah you need real psychological help

00:01:00.220 like pass this podcast uh-huh and we don't know what we're talking about yeah we're not gonna

00:01:04.900 diagnose you then you just have to let go of it you kind of get stuck with this perception that

00:01:08.840 this girl is really awesome but in reality she's probably not all that you like the idea of it

00:01:13.800 more than yeah i like the idea of it more than the actual uh the person itself try hanging out

00:01:18.560 with her one more time and really like how she makes you feel jerk off before because you sound

00:01:22.340 like you're just horny if she's massaging you in your dreams you know you gotta rub one out

00:01:25.640 and then talk to her and see it.

00:01:26.880 Yeah, and as soon as you woke up,

00:01:27.820 you probably had that morning wood from the massage.

00:01:30.640 Beat your meat and then reevaluate.

00:01:32.440 That's always the goal.

00:01:33.240 Before you do anything important in life,

00:01:35.340 rub one out.

00:01:36.020 Hey, real shit.

00:01:37.280 Do you think being toxic is necessary

00:01:38.860 for girls to fuck with you?

00:01:39.960 Sometimes I feel like girls fuck with me

00:01:41.320 when I'm kind of being a dick.

00:01:42.680 I hate that word toxic.

00:01:43.560 Toxic is being overused so much now.

00:01:45.700 Yo, did I tell you I got yelled at for the first time

00:01:47.680 in Washington Square Park two days ago?

00:01:49.520 I was doing this street interview.

00:01:51.120 Someone had a flashlight on my face.

00:01:52.280 He was getting kind of dark.

00:01:53.620 And then this, I don't know what gender they were,

00:01:55.500 but some person with a long skirt and like pink hair went biking by and yelled toxic pussy

00:02:01.180 and like by the time i heard it like they were already kind of far away but i think it was at me

00:02:07.320 i think it was at me they didn't know that they know who you were who you were then i don't know

00:02:11.560 i'm guessing yeah they probably didn't hear the interview right no the interview was it was about

00:02:15.480 like chopped cheeses it was yeah it was just somebody yelling at me i think it was pretty

00:02:19.780 funny i can't lie like that was uh that was a first did you get it on video uh yeah it's it's

00:02:25.460 in the video toxic pussy i think it was i'm like 80 85 percent sure it was that i don't know who

00:02:31.000 else would who else would get yelled at yeah randomly it's got to be me it's an overused

00:02:35.780 word like what does that what does that mean like he's asking does he need to be toxic to

00:02:39.060 what does that yeah what does that mean normalize being toxic so you're just using all the buzzwords

00:02:43.140 you just no it's it's not what you have to do to get girls you just have to be yourself and be

00:02:47.920 confident and then people think that being confident is toxic because you're not always

00:02:52.860 simping yeah true toxicity is like some fucked up shit like your mental warfare manipulation

00:02:58.580 like gaslighting all those other buzzwords is that low-key i feel like being a little bit mean

00:03:03.480 works yeah that's flirting that's not toxic that's not like if you barely know a girl and you're

00:03:08.460 being mean to where like clearly it's not coming as long as it's not like genuine anger no that's

00:03:14.300 then you're just being dumb ass bitch get out my face you fucking whore like that's not being an

00:03:18.840 asshole that's just being a shitty person yeah if you're funny with it basically anything flies

00:03:23.360 exactly it's just like you would say you can call a girl a bitch to her face if you say it in a

00:03:28.040 funny way like they're not gonna blink an eye yeah exactly yeah being funny is one of the most

00:03:32.860 important things just in any relationship that you're trying to get into if you can make someone

00:03:37.460 laugh if they can you can laugh your way into some pussy yeah if you can make her laugh and

00:03:41.280 giggle you can make her cheeks clap and jiggle there you go tattoo that my girlfriend just came

00:03:45.940 out as asexual to me even though he's damn dog whoa that sucks you have no dick game

00:03:54.420 your dick game is so trash you change your sexuality god damn what's the rest he said

00:04:01.880 even though he's been sexually active for a fairly long time oh and she suddenly became

00:04:05.700 really sexually distant and cold i don't want her to leave i don't want to leave her for this but at

00:04:12.000 the same time what do you mean you don't want to leave what else what else are you going to do

00:04:15.400 there you can't bang she doesn't want to bang you bro like relationships it's not all about sex but

00:04:22.020 it's an important part it's the glue sexual chemistry is really important for me and i don't

00:04:26.900 know if without it i'll be enough and i don't know if without it it'll be enough for me to stay in

00:04:30.480 the relationship she said the only thing she's willing to do is start reconsidering after marriage

00:04:34.460 what get the fuck out of this relationship leave is she asexual or just a hardcore christian

00:04:42.200 she's got to be christian both and not only am i not ready to get married for a long time i'm 19

00:04:47.300 by the way dude's 19 not getting any pussy and with the girl that wants girlfriend you gotta

00:04:54.560 leave leave that relationship asap get out i'm 19 but i want to have these experiences while i'm

00:05:01.060 still young i feel like by the time i'm getting married i'll be done with the freaky shit i don't

00:05:05.100 know if you could help me out that'd be sick money sign she also used to say that she was into a lot

00:05:09.700 of stuff but now everything repulses her apparently it's weird i don't know if it's something else

00:05:13.780 yeah actually to be honest i think she might have had some trauma this girl i think it's

00:05:18.240 something happened to her that she's not telling you oh hold up the plot thickens we're all so

00:05:22.160 long distance right now how is she telling you she's asexual long distance how is she telling

00:05:28.580 she doesn't want to like bang with you fuck you if you're nowhere near her this doesn't make any

00:05:33.280 you gotta leave bro and when she used to be in the mood she called me or sent pictures or sometimes

00:05:38.840 just text but right now she always does it on her own and tells me about it later so i kind of get

00:05:42.760 the feeling that she's not attracted to anymore no she's cheating on you i really like her but i

00:05:46.640 feel like if it continues like this i might have to leave even though i know it's going to hurt us

00:05:49.760 both but i feel like you don't know that first of all but i feel like it's better than just staying

00:05:53.780 in the relationship just ends up being toxic mess of a sexual frustration toxic yeah you gotta

00:05:58.280 you know what it really sounds like she's cheating on him sounds like you're getting catfish bro

00:06:01.900 have you even met this girl no it's like a long distance online thing they said that they used

00:06:05.400 to fuck right oh yeah you're right bro that's a weird one huh no she's i think she's cheating on

00:06:09.780 you he probably has money and she wants to marry him she's not attracted to you anymore she made

00:06:14.220 up the asexual thing so she could fuck other guys yeah that's a weird one asexual out of nowhere

00:06:18.340 like it sounds it sounds like i'm overreacting i'm gonna look up the definition asexual asexual

00:06:22.600 means like you're not that's that's what it means no sexual activity at all that's what that means

00:06:26.320 yeah but he's saying she's pleasuring herself and shit and sending nudies so asexual means you

00:06:30.660 have no sexual attraction is the lack of sexual attraction to others or low absent interest and

00:06:35.580 desire for sexual activity so she's not attracted to other people she's saying

00:06:39.400 like in general not just him yeah no it's done dead that dead that she doesn't want a relationship

00:06:46.860 she's asexual why she want to be in a relationship we make none of what she's saying makes any sense

00:06:50.820 you got to leave she just got in your head she's confusing you bro she's winning i want to hear

00:06:54.440 the follow-up for show for show let me know how the break you're playing checker she's playing chess

00:06:57.660 so i've been with this girl for one and a half years and it seemed like she's starting to hate

00:07:00.960 me she's being passive aggressive all the time and she doesn't communicate with me a close friend

00:07:05.320 of mine told me to leave her but it's not that easy i know i should but i kind of can't i want

00:07:09.960 to fix what i have with her all the other girls were like lame and i'd break up or get broken up

00:07:14.260 with in like a few months but with this girl i felt a connection i thought she's the one and it

00:07:19.820 feels like she's not now but i can't do something about it or can i i feel like this is your alley

00:07:25.020 yeah you can do something about it um why is she acting all passive aggressive and mad at you

00:07:30.040 i'm curious maybe it's just a period could be i think if he's asking for help it's been like

00:07:36.060 a consistent thing it's not like a one day especially for after a year and a half i gotta

00:07:39.540 ask her you still with me what i do do you still love me me no not you hypothetically

00:07:46.120 yeah bro

00:07:46.960 what the fuck

00:07:48.100 now you're about

00:07:50.840 to put me on the spot

00:07:51.660 wait what

00:07:53.100 does she still love him

00:07:55.720 ask your girlfriend

00:07:57.200 you still love me

00:07:57.760 yeah you might get

00:07:58.320 the answer you're looking for

00:07:59.140 she just might air it out

00:08:00.340 and be like

00:08:00.700 I'm being passive aggressive

00:08:01.680 because I'm not really feeling it

00:08:02.820 and then you'll get

00:08:04.120 broken up with again

00:08:04.940 but at least it's time

00:08:05.980 you're not waiting for it

00:08:07.040 and you're not

00:08:07.480 in your head

00:08:08.600 and DMing people

00:08:09.320 trying to figure it out

00:08:10.700 beforehand without her

00:08:12.100 input

00:08:12.940 or just cheat on her

00:08:14.340 and then you have a reason

00:08:15.140 to break up with her without you doing it because then if you cheat on her then she'll dump you

00:08:18.600 and then you don't have to feel bad about breaking up with her

00:08:20.760 you think so yeah yeah but i think the point is he doesn't want to break up with her

00:08:26.460 exactly so you cheat on her so she's forced to break up with you big brain yeah or get one of

00:08:32.740 us send the instagram we'll slide in we'll see if she's loyal you'll have an even better reason

00:08:37.000 without putting yourself at any uh risk for public tarnishment of your reputation i don't know if

00:08:41.960 really a loyalty test it's just like a vibe check yeah she's just she's not really vibing with them

00:08:48.200 anymore yeah passive aggressive she's not really actually she might be cheating on you because

00:08:52.840 yeah that could be true yeah there's two types of people it's those who have been cheated on and

00:08:57.640 those who don't know it yet right now it sounds like you're the latter so if you want to vibe

00:09:01.640 check uh dr cass will help you out and if she dubs it i'll let you know too that'd be a great

00:09:05.960 sign for you make sure you get the copay ready yeah i gotta start charging for these we are

00:09:10.760 are giving relationship advice we don't know any of the results so it can't be like i want to hear

00:09:14.040 some of the follow-ups of these people i'm very curious to see what would happen yeah bro i think

00:09:18.360 you should just ask her straight up there's no point in you putting yourself through this doubt

00:09:22.000 and whether or not she's fucking with you yeah this limbo phase stop being a little bitch do

00:09:26.620 you love me are you riding vocals okay you know i'm sorry i feel like if someone's being passive

00:09:32.980 aggressive it's it's pretty telling that's why you just ask because you never know yeah i feel

00:09:36.800 like you're just ignoring the hints just ask i get that you don't want to break up there but

00:09:40.060 might be for the best dude what's your view on trying to get with someone who's taking

00:09:43.680 i mean she's entertaining it that's not on you right it's not your problem go ahead not your

00:09:48.460 problem at all do your thing i told you there's two types of people it's just that kid's turn

00:09:53.260 as long as it's not your boy there's someone you're close with nothing to do with you i

00:09:57.540 understand like the whole respect someone's relationship home record type shit but if

00:10:01.280 she's entertaining it then who's really wrecking the home you know what i mean yeah it's more her

00:10:05.980 job to not entertain it than your job not to do it girls are getting dms regardless you're not

00:10:10.040 home wrecking if they're just dating they don't have a home they're renting maybe they probably

00:10:13.860 don't even live together what do you reckon go ahead yeah go for it go ahead fuck zero to do

00:10:20.120 with you if she's going out of her way to reply to you and be flirty that's on her if he's gonna

00:10:24.640 feel some type of way just make sure you got some hands because some guys are yeah they don't have

00:10:28.700 the same mindset and could genuinely get tight at you and go looking for you that happened one time

00:10:33.740 like i fucked this dude's girl and then i didn't really know him at the time and then i started to

00:10:37.540 get to know him afterwards and he was in my house and then like i would finally introduced like

00:10:41.820 hey nice to meet you that is at your house yeah that handshake was weird she brought him to your

00:10:46.640 house no no this was like six months later so he was just he was friends with mutual yeah yeah so

00:10:51.400 he's at my house and then like oh you're nice to meet you and then eye contact like it felt like

00:10:57.220 you ever feel like you shake someone's hand their energies exchange like that handshake just felt

00:11:01.060 weird but he didn't do anything you can catch the vibe pretty easily yeah and but he never brought

00:11:05.420 it up i think he's still with her i think they're still together he definitely knows i'm sick but

00:11:10.780 the thing was like i how i justified it was he was cheating on her oh that's fine so it's like

00:11:15.340 okay you know i'm just i'm the revenge dick one one yeah it's even yeah game's gonna end the tie

00:11:21.500 there's no pks yeah i had a similar situation like that too like this girl i used to relate with

00:11:28.620 like one summer she fucked with me the whole summer and then i went off to college in new york

00:11:33.020 she was in massachusetts and she found a new boyfriend or whatever but we'd still keep in

00:11:36.420 touch and she was dating this dude and we'd still talk or whatever but we never like hooked up again

00:11:40.960 or anything i took out to breakfast once and we kissed but that was it and then i started getting

00:11:45.780 texts from him even like facetime me one time and he's like bro like just be honest with me like i

00:11:50.460 won't care just tell me if you're fucking my girl like this and that tell me if you're getting with

00:11:53.560 her and he's like this is a toxic this is a real toxic relationship like they were fighting all

00:11:57.520 the time a whole bunch of yelling screaming the whole nine and i was just home playing xbox on

00:12:01.920 my couch and he's like trying to get all this information out of me and i got kind of caught

00:12:05.400 in the limbo between like bro code but he's not my bro you know what i mean i was way closer to

00:12:10.060 the girl she's more of my friend than he is so he was kind of your friend though no i didn't know

00:12:14.220 him at all so he'd hit me up i remember one time he hit me up off her phone pretending to be her

00:12:18.400 on some weird shit like trying to get me to that's some female say some incriminating shit

00:12:23.000 but i caught it because he was just so dumb about it he's like he knew right away you could tell

00:12:26.480 yeah he texted me he's like hey quick question have we ever hooked up what come on be a little

00:12:33.480 subtle like yeah i'm like uh no like i'm sorry if you thought that but we're just friends like i

00:12:38.940 don't really so you knew right away yeah obviously i knew right away bro i'm not a fucking idiot i'm

00:12:42.800 like nah like we're just friends like i'm sorry if you thought it was anything more but i don't

00:12:46.160 look at you that way meanwhile she's so bad like i would smash today and so he facetimed me he's

00:12:51.680 like bro just tell me like this and that i'm like bro to be honest at this point my loyalty lies

00:12:56.320 with the girl just because i know her i don't know him and i don't want to put her any predicament

00:12:59.940 so i'm like bro to be honest like no one cares about your girl dude like you need to get out of

00:13:04.020 this little phase i think you're in your own head like no one cares like i don't care about your girl

00:13:09.060 like that if you want like i'll stop talking to her i'll block her whatever you want obviously i

00:13:12.740 wasn't gonna block her but yeah it's basically what i told him and i just kind of let them go

00:13:16.060 about their business and then he ended up like blocking me on her phone a whole bunch of times

00:13:19.860 like her i'm blocking me that whole thing wait what's the conclusion to the story you're not

00:13:24.440 until that part the conclusion yeah nothing i just kind of let them be they're not together

00:13:28.600 what happened when you were at that party one time and then you saw the both of them this is a

00:13:33.900 different girl this happened with this is this happened twice to you yeah i guess i don't even

00:13:39.140 know which one you're talking about you ended up fighting this dude oh that's a different that's

00:13:42.240 completely different thing that's a completely different is it the same couple no different

00:13:45.760 couple that's i really thought that you were leading up to that no you've done you've been

00:13:49.680 in multiple situations like this and they call me the toxic they're completely different situation

00:13:54.400 i thought you were talking about a completely different couple i mean what the stop calling

00:13:59.360 me the toxic one like completely different situation how are you homewrecking two different

00:14:03.040 relationships you piece of you man i'm not i'm not you sis man the first one the one i'm talking

00:14:10.160 about currently is like i just her for a summer we weren't close like that like we just went to

00:14:14.480 parties together it wasn't like oh this is not the florida no it's not okay i thought it was her

00:14:18.640 no no not the florida girl yeah like i fought her boyfriend but i didn't even fight like over her

00:14:23.200 I fought because he tried fighting me man you can't be beefing over bitches bro I wasn't beefing

00:14:27.520 over bitches I was beefing because I got I got physically altercated with over a bitch yeah

00:14:35.100 but he was beefing over his girl I wasn't beefing over his girl okay I had zero beef if he went home

00:14:41.840 that night I wouldn't have done anything you know I mean he just would have went home laid pipe on

00:14:45.440 the girl that I like and that would have been it yeah it was like the whole ego thing which I

00:14:48.740 understand it was understandable i was flirting with her when i was drunk and he obviously felt

00:14:53.420 some type of way about it he was right there watching the whole thing so it ended up in a

00:14:56.400 fight but i wasn't like beefing over her and i wasn't going out of my way to fight him you know

00:15:00.080 what i mean yeah but you did though yeah but i did just wanted them to know that because i i've

00:15:04.980 been getting called the toxic one yeah why'd you have to hear that let me i even want to talk about

00:15:10.220 that if it's not your boy get with her who cares if it's not your boy she a toy okay and i'm not

00:15:17.040 a rapper do breaks work like in terms of what what's meant to be will be i think if you're

00:15:23.040 going on a break you're just prolonging the inevitable you could get back together though

00:15:26.920 no you can get back together but i don't think it'll ever be the same no it could be stronger

00:15:31.080 you think so maybe yeah sometimes you need a little time off to like see what you're missing

00:15:35.700 yeah like once that uh saudade you like that missing her hits then you're like all right

00:15:42.280 maybe i fucked up a little bit and this is what i wanted so go on a break do your thing for a

00:15:47.020 bit fuck around make sure you're very specific about the break and the terms of the break

00:15:51.820 write it out get a contract get a lawyer make sure you're screen recording yes record her talking

00:16:00.020 about having an open relationship so that when it comes up later you say oh yeah remember when

00:16:05.140 you said this word for fucking word and you said there was an open relationship record her don't

00:16:10.820 just be like oh yeah she's gonna remember this you gotta get it get a lawyer otherwise you get

00:16:15.280 called a cheesy snack what techniques of flirting do you use we just we kind of just i don't like

00:16:21.500 this question but we just yeah i don't like the word technique like it's not a technique it's like

00:16:25.200 karate versus you're making it feel like you're we're pickup artists like we're like those dudes

00:16:28.940 yeah like that's some sociopathic you can't don't think of it like that that makes it seem like

00:16:33.220 every time you're flirting it's not genuine at all it's just like a game a technique you know

00:16:37.780 what i mean like it's not a technique well she's like the girl that i've been seeing right now she

00:16:41.160 says like um the first time we met like she could tell that i was trying to game her she could like

00:16:46.640 i felt disingenuine because like i was saying routine things that might have been said like

00:16:51.200 for instance uh right when we met like we were in the car and she brought up some restaurant i'd be

00:16:55.500 like and i said uh oh yeah we're gonna go to that restaurant i'll take you there and she's like oh

00:16:59.720 i felt like you said that to a million girls i'm like yeah that was that was pretty blueprint because

00:17:03.920 i don't remember saying that at all i don't even remember what restaurant it was but it was just

00:17:07.100 like an automatic response like yeah i'll take you there you know yeah it's just part of it

00:17:10.880 but that's a technique of flirting right there and she could tell immediately that it was it

00:17:14.560 was game and it was disingenuine so don't don't think of it as a technique just try to like

00:17:18.880 connect with the person you're not like that's true i've done that too like the overconfident like

00:17:24.560 i remember i was at a party and i'm like yo i just literally grabbed this girl's hand i'm like

00:17:28.560 you know i'm gonna marry you right obviously i'm not gonna marry this bitch and i was just

00:17:32.960 chilling with their like acting all cute so i guess it's a technique as well yeah but that

00:17:38.000 That sounded like, that's pretty good.

00:17:40.980 That's less cheesy than mine.

00:17:43.660 I think that's way more cheesy.

00:17:45.060 But she was fucking with it, right?

00:17:46.360 Yeah, she fucked with it.

00:17:46.840 I see what I'm saying?

00:17:47.500 I could tell she was fucking with it.

00:17:48.560 I guess it's only cheesy if it doesn't work.

00:17:49.720 Exactly.

00:17:50.380 You got to be funny.

00:17:51.320 If you're not funny, then it's corny.

00:17:53.100 Yeah.

00:17:53.440 Funny is the, that's the best technique of flirting is just being funny.

00:17:57.500 She was bad as fuck.

00:17:58.600 And then her dad was like in the mafia type shit.

00:18:01.880 She's like from here at Long Island.

00:18:03.720 I think I know who you're talking about.

00:18:05.060 No, you don't.

00:18:05.800 No.

00:18:06.360 It was like one summer.

00:18:07.500 She was bad as fuck.

00:18:08.280 I don't even know how I did it.

00:18:09.340 It was like one of those that I called my dad the next morning.

00:18:11.060 I'm like, yo, you're not going to believe what I did.

00:18:13.660 She had no business fucking with me at all.

00:18:15.800 No business.

00:18:16.460 There you go.

00:18:17.260 Yeah, so maybe use that technique, the overconfident.

00:18:19.700 Like, yeah, this is going to work.

00:18:21.100 Like, we're going to be together.

00:18:22.200 She also told me that she liked that, like, I'd be kissing her or whatever.

00:18:25.660 And then she'd do, like, a little flirty thing where she, like, kind of pushed me away.

00:18:28.080 And I just kind of go back and keep kissing her.

00:18:29.540 And she's like, yeah, I like when you do that.

00:18:32.240 She likes rape?

00:18:33.020 Is it?

00:18:33.880 Is it?

00:18:34.180 yeah i like when i say no and you keep going please keep raping me i like when i try to run

00:18:42.340 and you just grab me by the back i like when i'm crying screaming no no no no and you continue

00:18:49.400 when i scream help you just cover my mouth that shit turns me on bro that's real shit like

00:18:53.840 that's that's real shit and then no that's real a lot of girls say shit like that

00:18:58.800 like girls will be like yeah it'd be it would turn me on if you punched me in the face

00:19:02.120 like choke me harder too you know that's different punching in the face is different

00:19:06.000 like her running away and you not really not you you're literally in a jones she was pushing you

00:19:11.460 away from kissing her and you kept on doing it yeah but it wasn't like a get the fuck off me

00:19:15.380 you could kind of it was like a no it wasn't like you're touching me somebody we need a girls need

00:19:24.080 to specify that there's a difference in consent like there's a difference between no and no

00:19:29.920 yeah there's a huge difference it was like but if you don't read that then how are you gonna know

00:19:36.100 like what if you're like a slightly autistic guy like so many people dming you and like

00:19:40.220 i think that they would like it if if uh you said no and i kept kissing you i heard that from cas

00:19:48.520 on the podcast like you need to know girls give out weird nose you make me want to go by an alias

00:19:54.040 where i get a fucking fed knocking on my door did you say these words like oh yeah i did uh

00:20:02.280 techniques for flirting i think sometimes being a little uh avoiding the subject of flirting just

00:20:06.680 kind of friend zoning them off rip works too if you're not entertaining them specifically and

00:20:11.160 you're entertaining the crowd yeah then you seem like the fun guy girls want to be part of the fun

00:20:15.360 you know if you're i noticed when i first started going to college parties i would try to i'd be the

00:20:19.520 guy posted up on the wall looking around for the girls the whole night and then i wouldn't get any

00:20:22.500 girls but then as soon as i started going like when we started like being the life of the party

00:20:26.360 then they all came out of nowhere because everybody just wants to be part of your fun

00:20:30.120 or like you ever seen the black mirror episode where there's they have like a dating coach in

00:20:33.120 the beginning and there's two girls and a guy like in a little circle in a bar and he's like

00:20:38.220 which one do you want he's like i want the one with the black hair he's like all right so go and

00:20:41.760 only talk to the one with the blonde hair and you kind of isolate yeah now the girl needs to compete

00:20:45.340 for your attention yeah everybody wants what they can't have everybody wants to be included and if

00:20:50.000 you're not giving someone the right attention then they're gonna look for it i've done that

00:20:53.220 before and then i thought it was gonna work and i just ended up not talking to her all night

00:20:56.780 and i never saw her again because i was talking to her friend her friend was uglier and now i'm

00:21:01.960 stuck with the ugly friend yeah but you just went about it the wrong way yeah there's a balance you

00:21:05.940 like overdid it she's like trying to talk to you like oh shut the fuck up i'm talking to your

00:21:10.060 friend wait bitch shut up your ugly friend though what's your star sign do you know this girl

00:21:16.300 those are a few techniques i hope that helped try them all on the same girl

00:21:21.220 isolate her and then just get really overcompensating and then when she says

00:21:25.160 no keep kissing her and if you get arrested say that blame us blame cast

00:21:30.460 blame cheeto what do you do when your homie gets with your girl less than a

00:21:33.920 week after y'all broke up why that's like your homie that's what i was that's the

00:21:37.020 first thing less than a week like five six days holy shit like he was waiting

00:21:42.700 for it that means they've been talking way before that like during your

00:21:45.340 relationship something was going on which is what he said he said less than a week after you guys

00:21:49.540 broke up and he had been third wheeling the whole relationship behind your back that's not your

00:21:53.600 homie first of all see that's someone you could warrant fighting that's someone you could warrant

00:21:57.120 fighting yeah you know him personally and he went behind your back and he did that that's some

00:22:00.540 great snake shit right there that's some snake shit i've done that before i've been the third

00:22:05.340 way back in high school in my defense i had dated the girl first and then we broke up and then my

00:22:12.780 friend started talking to her you're like on some ray j thing yeah i hit it i hit it like come on

00:22:17.720 man yeah man that's fucked i got lucky because he luckily he my friend didn't like that girl that

00:22:21.880 much but if he was like really into her that could that would have been really really shitty

00:22:25.600 yeah yeah he was just using her for head i mean both of them aren't shit so you really shouldn't

00:22:30.040 be stressing either of them obviously it's still gonna hurt because he obviously likes the girl

00:22:33.200 to be honest i i've done that too but not like see now you're opening up about now but not like

00:22:39.760 You see, the old cast would have just let me say the toxic thing and then let it sit.

00:22:43.520 Yeah.

00:22:43.680 And then let it just sit.

00:22:44.780 And now-

00:22:45.220 But it wasn't like that.

00:22:45.800 It wasn't like that.

00:22:46.340 I wasn't like third wheeling behind his back.

00:22:48.040 I wasn't third wheeling OD, but like a low key.

00:22:49.760 You know what I mean?

00:22:50.160 I was texting her.

00:22:51.060 Yeah.

00:22:51.320 Like I was never texting her or anything.

00:22:52.620 It was like they broke up for-

00:22:53.840 It was longer than a week too.

00:22:55.020 But we were just at a party and we were both lit and I hooked up with her.

00:22:57.680 Which is still wrong.

00:22:58.580 But it's not like-

00:22:59.280 He was my boy.

00:23:00.800 But it wasn't like my boy.

00:23:02.440 You know what I mean?

00:23:03.300 It wasn't-

00:23:03.860 See, now it's not your boy.

00:23:05.440 No, no.

00:23:06.180 Like, there's people you hang out with every day.

00:23:07.940 You started doubting the whole friendship.

00:23:09.440 Like, we're not even that close.

00:23:11.060 Like, I don't even, like, we just met.

00:23:13.020 Like, he's a homie, but not a bro.

00:23:16.140 Yeah.

00:23:16.640 I mean, there's people you hang out with every day.

00:23:19.160 It'd be, like, different if I did it with Lily.

00:23:21.460 And there's people that, like, I see them, and I'm like, yo, it's, like, we're cool.

00:23:24.560 Like, it's good vibes.

00:23:25.280 How long were they together?

00:23:26.440 It was a high school relationship, bro.

00:23:27.640 They were, like, junior high school, and it was probably, like, a year.

00:23:29.960 A year?

00:23:31.100 Yeah.

00:23:32.720 It was a long time.

00:23:34.480 Especially in high school time?

00:23:35.740 Yeah.

00:23:36.180 that's like half your life yeah it's understandable he was tight he was tight tight junior year too

00:23:41.880 that's like really smash either it's a very formative year you just tongued her in a club

00:23:45.360 in a house party that's not that bad that's not that bad it'd be like that sometimes you're lit

00:23:51.320 you're young you're horny whatever comes it's like you know she was there yeah bro you just

00:23:56.300 gotta understand we're in different phases was he at the party i think he was upstairs oh my god

00:24:01.160 demon demon time always on demon time and i'm the toxic one huh that's not toxic bro i thought

00:24:08.760 you just said to stop using that word i stop using that word what is for you how do you find

00:24:15.040 new girls to talk to like i don't really rate anyone in my school or anything also this is

00:24:19.320 beta as fuck and i'm sure it'll be easy the same shit any techniques approaching girls at clubs

00:24:24.880 we just did that i turned 18 in a month because of covid i haven't had any practice so basically

00:24:28.980 how do you find new girls to talk to there's no like specific answer for this you just got to

00:24:33.160 live life and then let them let them come to it if you try to pursue it too much it's gonna be weird

00:24:37.460 yeah like those dating apps i've never really found a girl off a dating app i have you can do

00:24:42.460 it i had a whole girlfriend from from tinder oh yeah oh yeah you did was she the one who was

00:24:46.880 afraid to take the train or was that yeah that was her so maybe don't how do i find more girls

00:24:51.360 to talk you're 17 18 um you don't rate any of the girls in your school there's probably bad

00:24:57.120 bitches in your school so stop discriminating there's got to be some bad bitches in your school

00:25:00.300 yeah you always think there's no bad bitches in your school because i feel like because you're in

00:25:03.620 your school you want what you can't have you know i mean you want what's not available it's a circle

00:25:07.660 it's a vicious circle the thing is you have to have something to do that's always the hardest

00:25:11.020 part the hard part isn't even finding the girls it's finding what to call them to do you need to

00:25:14.420 have an activity yeah because it's not like you can especially if you're younger and you're in

00:25:17.860 school you're 18 you can't bring them home yeah like you don't have an open crib like this where

00:25:21.200 you can just have some you have to find an excuse to hang out even if you like you do bring her

00:25:24.320 back like you have to bond over oh i just downloaded all 10 seasons of the office oh my god

00:25:30.100 i love the office oh shit let's watch it there you go but even there you're like a lot of these

00:25:34.140 kids probably can't bring girls to their crib i feel you got to find something on instagram and

00:25:37.980 just dm it to them be like yo like look how sick this new little spot is like we definitely have

00:25:42.340 to go there let's go this weekend that's a whole thing that's like a whole day no just like call

00:25:46.280 your friends and i'll call my friends make it a group thing that's fun so now you're going on a

00:25:49.700 group date instead of just seeing her one-on-one yeah i mean he's trying to find new girls i just

00:25:53.840 say be more outgoing in general easier said than done this one's from a girl that's the first

00:25:59.560 right yeah she said i'm in my first relationship and my boyfriend's my boyfriend keeps calling me

00:26:05.300 the love of his life but he's 19 how old are you but let's just guess she's 19 too how am i supposed

00:26:11.820 to know if it's special if i've never been with anyone else yeah you would know you it sounds like

00:26:17.420 he likes you more than you like him or she's just trying to figure out if it's genuine no it shouldn't

00:26:21.500 even you shouldn't have to think about it it should just feel natural it shouldn't if you

00:26:24.660 have to contemplate it then it's not it's not all that it should just be and it's your first

00:26:28.660 relationship like don't go all in like you're gonna marry this dude it's the first guy you

00:26:31.740 ever been with don't don't rush it it's this guy's probably like he's probably just really

00:26:36.580 excited that he got with you yeah you're a bad bitch congratulations you scared the shit out of

00:26:41.040 me whoopsie technical difficulties almost don't get caught up in this first relationship feel it

00:26:47.700 out go through it for as long as you feel comfortable just let it let it run its course

00:26:50.980 don't think too much of it it's the first one there's many to come after when you start having

00:26:54.780 doubts debt it and move on see what other people have to offer you're gonna learn a lot yeah be a

00:26:59.760 hoe be a hoe while you're night this nasty 19. everybody deserves a hoe phase go through your

00:27:04.280 hoe phase or just have a whole life you know well why can't we just yeah yeah just a prolonged

00:27:09.920 hoe phase yeah your end goal shouldn't be to get wifed up you're a bad bitch you're independent

00:27:14.160 come to this place is she a bad bitch though i bet her profile picture is like a cartoon

00:27:19.060 No, it's her. She's like the most normal interaction I have on this thing.

00:27:22.140 Is she private account?

00:27:23.620 No, she's like artsy.

00:27:24.920 Oh, okay.

00:27:25.780 Oh, yeah.

00:27:26.940 You seem cool.

00:27:27.680 I bet the boyfriend's a four.

00:27:29.860 No, it just popped into my head.

00:27:31.280 No.

00:27:31.860 That Florida girl watches these now.

00:27:33.360 She's just going to hear everything.

00:27:34.380 What's up, Florida girl? How you doing?

00:27:36.460 I mean, not if it's on Patreon, so that's good.

00:27:38.780 What if you stay close with your ex while being in a new relationship and the new girl says it's wrong?

00:27:43.020 Who's really in the wrong?

00:27:44.020 I think your new girl's right.

00:27:45.580 I think she's right, too.

00:27:46.400 You shouldn't still keep talking to your ex like that.

00:27:48.660 That's weird.

00:27:49.060 I wouldn't like it.

00:27:50.720 Nobody would like that.

00:27:51.620 Nobody would like that.

00:27:53.260 Like, imagine if your girl was just hitting up her ex, like, talking to some dude.

00:27:56.240 Yeah, nah, that's a big no.

00:27:58.740 That's how you end up in the situations we talked about before, when you're FaceTiming dudes.

00:28:04.040 Please stop talking to my girl.

00:28:05.400 You want the ex to have no involvement.

00:28:07.760 How to tell a girl that you are no longer interested without hurting her feelings.

00:28:10.940 Salve do Brasil, meu lindo.

00:28:12.460 Salve, cria.

00:28:14.100 Tamo juta, seu puto.

00:28:15.960 Pura.

00:28:16.840 How do you tell a girl that you're not interested without hurting her feelings?

00:28:19.060 it's not you it's me like just make up some shit like you're going through something right now

00:28:23.340 i need all of like say some shit like i don't have the emotional capacity to be there for you

00:28:27.320 because like my mom has cancer my mom has breast cancer she's dying like it's it's not

00:28:33.620 oh my god i'm sorry and then it's not you it's the lump on your left titty stage four

00:28:39.740 she's dying she's dying like i would totally smash if it wasn't for my mom if it wasn't

00:28:46.760 for the terminal cancer literally anything else that's an extreme example but like make up something

00:28:51.900 like that like say i don't know like some relative or yeah i feel like it's pretty easy you have a

00:28:56.200 school work or just don't answer no he has to answer he cares about the girl he cares enough

00:29:01.640 about this girl to not want to hurt her feelings but i feel like if you don't make it explicit

00:29:05.440 then it just never ends yeah then let her string along give her little glimpses of hope try putting

00:29:12.540 around with your boy hook one of your boys up they yeah and then when they get together start

00:29:17.280 texting her in the stage when you're talking to someone before it goes being exclusive is it okay

00:29:23.500 to go and get with other girls especially if you think that especially if you think the other the

00:29:28.120 one you're currently talking to is special but you kind of just want to fuck she's not special

00:29:33.000 fuck other girls don't don't get people always fuck up that like the talking stage is not

00:29:39.580 commitment keep fucking around a lot of girls would say otherwise i feel like that's the most

00:29:46.760 i think girls would agree with that i feel like i always see on twitter like during the talking

00:29:50.420 stage don't be hooking up with someone else what i've never seen that i see that all the time

00:29:55.320 okay well this is not true you should yeah you should definitely sleep around during the talking

00:29:58.760 phase it's not commitment at all the talking phase is like you're about to date no yeah you're

00:30:05.740 spending a lot of time you're talking yeah i feel like that's basically a relationship at that point

00:30:09.680 it's not though that's basically is not a relationship yeah tell her to ask you out bro

00:30:13.600 she really wants to cuff it tell her to ask you ask you to be her boyfriend just don't be exclusive

00:30:17.200 until they could give you a valentine's to say best dick ever you know don't don't ever commit

00:30:22.420 until i would always just let the girls start the commitment don't even bring it up if the girl

00:30:27.640 wants to elevate the relationship let her offer it but not everyone's a fuck boy like you some

00:30:31.220 people want to start it first they're looking for that i think the relationship is better if you let

00:30:34.980 her do it you want to keep the power if you start like saying like oh i love you you're the one for

00:30:40.020 you're the love of my life she's gonna be like oh this guy's kind of weird like i'm 19 i don't want

00:30:43.960 to yeah i eat the last girl so don't yeah just don't give up but don't put all your cards in

00:30:48.960 one table poker bro was that the chips or cards or something like that don't put all your eggs

00:30:53.480 in one basket yeah yeah well yeah don't let your cards out on the table don't put all your sperm

00:30:58.140 in one egg there you go i found it do you believe hollywood type love exists yeah i think christian

00:31:04.040 couples like young married christian couples are like 23 and that's the only person they've been

00:31:08.620 with i think that they believe that they're christian couples are crazy bro they'd be getting

00:31:12.000 married like 18 yeah i think those those people have that type of hollywood love it's because

00:31:17.220 jesus is holding it together they love jesus more than their partner so it's like if you both

00:31:21.140 love the same thing it's like it's easier to be together yeah jesus is the glue they don't even

00:31:26.500 need to have sex just just lay in bed and look at jesus jerk off next to each other yeah and wait

00:31:33.980 until you're married i don't think other than that other than that hollywood love is not real

00:31:37.280 see that's a turn i feel like in the other podcast we did you thought so i did yeah that what the

00:31:43.500 fantasy hollywood love yeah like the person that you fall in love with is gonna be like everything

00:31:48.220 to you forever forever no no i don't i never i don't think i ever thought that run it back run

00:31:54.700 the clip i'm editing for it is no clip like whoever's that there is no clip to edit like

00:31:58.420 i've never thought that i've always been pretty pessimistic about love i made this whole video

00:32:01.760 called falling in love is corny but i'm still lonely and i'm just like saying that oh love is

00:32:06.260 just like chemicals in your brain just like i've always been pessimistic about that so even if it

00:32:12.520 might feel like a hollywood relationship for a month it's not gonna last yeah i feel like if you

00:32:16.920 just look at the immediate relationships you have around you whether it be your mom your dad and

00:32:20.760 any relationship you'll see that it's not like that like even today my dad hit me up like he

00:32:25.860 called me bitching about my mom like bro like that's your standard for most things so how am i

00:32:31.040 supposed to expect that one girl is going to be like the love of my life for the rest when it's

00:32:34.100 not even for my dad well that's part of love bitching about your spouse to your kids that's

00:32:39.260 part of love yeah i guess it's all it's all loki they'd just be using me for therapy like they

00:32:44.340 don't want to see a marriage counselor or some shit so like he'll call me and then my mom will

00:32:46.860 call me and i just have to like mediate yeah and i just can't tell anybody anything dr cash

00:32:53.400 you're really mending these relationships and i don't understand why people think i have like

00:32:57.720 the credibility or they trust me enough with this information but it always seems to happen

00:33:03.240 like the less i look for obviously this one i'm looking for it i'm dming or putting on my story

00:33:07.720 like tell me but in general life my friends you're easy to vent to without much consequences

00:33:13.000 you're not going to be very judgmental you're just going to like i need to fix that because

00:33:16.980 that's just not what i want to listen to like there's people that i don't even have that close

00:33:20.880 of a relationship with and they just feel comfortable telling me a bunch of shit really

00:33:24.500 yeah like some fucked up shit or whatever and that's detrimental to me you're fucking up my

00:33:28.940 mental health you got to think about me sometimes you think i want to hear all that now i'm thinking

00:33:32.240 in my head like bro you know what i mean whatever let's move on save cast do you think it's worth

00:33:38.580 it for men to get married and do you think you'll get married don't get married it's not worth it

00:33:43.720 especially for men don't get married because then she's gonna take half your money

00:33:46.820 um and men have more money than women get a prenup or just don't get married even if you

00:33:52.020 get a prenup she can still take your money prenups are not as valid as people think they are

00:33:55.000 just don't get married unless you're doing it for like a passport or something all right come to me

00:33:59.800 for relationship advice go to him for legal advice yeah just a one-stop shop for bad advice

00:34:05.620 i was seeing this girl a good while back was really competitive

00:34:08.940 i don't really know what that means i told her about my past sex stories because we were having

00:34:14.840 that conversation and she didn't take it very well then i tried reassuring her saying shit like

00:34:19.380 how she was the best fuck i ever had i was lying obviously just to shut her up but that didn't help

00:34:23.740 either she was mad insecure and also overcompensating during sex what does that mean when you're

00:34:28.500 overcompensating during sex

00:34:29.660 that's when she walks out the bed she's like waddles trying to make you feel good

00:34:40.460 shut up bitch i know my dick's not that big she was mad insecure also overcompensating during sex

00:34:46.100 which ruined it and she even pulled up on one of the girls i fucked like only thrice i like how

00:34:51.200 you put that thrice i only fucked her like thrice i've never heard that word used she pulled up on

00:34:57.960 a girl you you yeah she's weird weirdo you said he pulled she pulled up on her and tried to slut

00:35:02.840 shame her how would you deal with that situation oh nah she gotta go she gotta go now i bet she

00:35:07.800 has a bomb ass pussy i can't even lie she probably has fire pussy crazy girl yeah overcompensating

00:35:12.320 pussy like she's performing oh that must be fine but like she's crazy you got to get out of there

00:35:16.700 she's trying to slut shame a bitch you used to fuck and you're not even with like that's that's

00:35:21.200 you said she was really competitive yeah that's big crazy yeah what does that even mean like she's

00:35:26.380 trying to be the best fuck he's had she's literally like trying to be top of the leaderboards of his

00:35:31.100 body count you gotta nah that she probably has some bomb bombs that fucking the slurp slurp

00:35:37.640 9,000, but it's not worth it. Your CS ratio,

00:35:39.880 your come to sex, the amount of times you

00:35:41.740 come to, the amount of times you had sex ratio for her?

00:35:44.080 It's got to be up there. I just think

00:35:45.680 the word competitive is weird in terms of

00:35:47.640 sex. After, she's like, was that the best?

00:35:49.580 Is that good? Did I do good, daddy?

00:35:51.660 Yo, that pussy got to be fire

00:35:53.660 though. I can't lie. I want him to leave, but

00:35:55.700 that... Bro, I want nothing to do with that

00:35:57.620 girl that you're telling me about. I do. Send me

00:35:59.460 your ad. Nah, send me her Instagram so I can avoid her.

00:36:02.160 So I know to block her.

00:36:03.120 So I know who to not talk to her.

00:36:05.820 Yo, what would you do? I'm tired

00:36:07.500 of corona dating because here it's illegal to be outside after 9 p.m and there's this girl i like

00:36:12.040 and she's definitely cool and all but i'm scared of being stuck in the relationship if corona is

00:36:16.040 over in like four months or so and every girl is desperate and every girl is desperate so i think

00:36:20.820 he's saying like if he gets put in a relationship then after four months the band's lifted and she

00:36:24.620 just goes out and hoes and he's attached so yeah don't yeah i feel like you answered your own

00:36:28.860 question yeah don't i guess you just really want a corona date like you just want someone to cuddle

00:36:34.280 up with goes back to really do those zoom dates you know that people are like really zoom dating

00:36:37.920 and shit it's not crazy like you set up a candle like one person oh like that yeah you put on a

00:36:43.240 suit and tie nah at least you put it on a button down to go on zoom date like you're throwing on

00:36:49.220 the fit to sit in your fucking living room and just chat shit people do that like that's really

00:36:54.240 common this one's like a weird one i can't even answer this because i have zero experience with

00:36:57.560 this this is like a new age dilemma for kids coming into school i'm going into my freshman

00:37:02.760 year of college next year and all the shits looking to be online next semester coming as a

00:37:06.580 guy who never dated in high school and was played hella hard she mooched free meals off me sophomore

00:37:11.100 year how do i start approaching girls in college i feel like it's a lot more difficult right now as

00:37:15.500 well because everything's online one specific thing i'm having trouble with so far is trying

00:37:19.200 to be flirty i've been trying to talk to some girls i met in group chats but it's hard to try

00:37:22.680 and find how to be flirty yeah i feel like i just come off as funny friend zone guy some kevin hart

00:37:27.180 shit thanks if you read this that's tough it's a tough time to try to date in those situations

00:37:32.280 can't even i can't even give like good advice on that yeah like how would you even flirt in the

00:37:36.740 group chat like you're in class on zoom and you just kind of privately message her can you poke

00:37:40.980 like like facebook back in the day i wish you could poke in in zoom the poking used to go hard

00:37:46.060 but that'd be perfect for the for zoom classes right now or zoom group chats you ever had the

00:37:50.340 poke wars some pokes leading to some pokes if you know what i mean i bet you texted girls like

00:37:55.320 at 3 a.m go to bed

00:37:57.540 that was you

00:38:00.420 you probably still do that

00:38:02.180 if you see a girl post a story

00:38:03.620 go to bed

00:38:06.100 how do you crack nerdy girls

00:38:08.600 and maybe religious girls too

00:38:10.360 don't try to change a girl

00:38:12.540 religious girls are more

00:38:13.800 I know what he means

00:38:17.440 it's probably not worth it

00:38:19.820 just don't try

00:38:20.580 find a girl who's ready

00:38:21.740 religious girls are a little easier

00:38:23.620 Cause like they want to

00:38:24.520 But they're just like

00:38:25.200 God

00:38:25.760 Nerdy girls

00:38:26.460 Is like you're not gonna

00:38:27.020 Nah I feel like nerdy girls

00:38:28.080 Are wifey

00:38:28.620 Like nerdy girls are cooler

00:38:30.240 I feel like they have

00:38:30.660 More substance to them

00:38:31.480 But it's gonna be

00:38:32.300 Way harder to crack

00:38:33.140 Like you're gonna need to

00:38:34.100 I don't think so

00:38:35.160 Really?

00:38:36.000 Nah

00:38:36.260 Everyone has sex drive

00:38:37.480 I don't think so

00:38:39.640 I think a lot of people

00:38:40.200 Have low sex drive

00:38:40.820 They might be a little more

00:38:41.300 Hesitant to like

00:38:42.060 Partake in the actions

00:38:43.060 But they definitely want to

00:38:44.040 Just cause they might be scared

00:38:44.920 They like porn better

00:38:45.640 They wanna watch anime porn

00:38:46.700 They don't wanna like

00:38:47.300 Wanna watch hentai

00:38:47.960 Yeah that's what they like

00:38:49.360 There's no point

00:38:50.500 Trying to crack them

00:38:51.080 Alright so pull up on her

00:38:52.280 in a link suit costume a zelda costume get it going use the sword what would you do if your

00:39:01.200 girl was sexually assaulted but she still wanted to keep the baby would you still be with her and

00:39:05.040 raise that child whoa nah damn maybe shit right that's like shit she wasn't assaulted she was

00:39:19.120 raped she was fully yeah she was raped she got impregnated and that's your girlfriend and now

00:39:24.500 she's it's against her morals to abort i wouldn't want to raise that kid i don't think i could raise

00:39:31.160 it properly bro yeah but it's just so fucked up like i wouldn't want to put it that's just so

00:39:36.540 fucked up it's not it's not your responsibility to raise someone else's kid though that's just

00:39:40.700 bottom line that's facts it's not your kid but it's not like her fault either it's her decision

00:39:46.280 to keep it though it's her it's her decision to raise it and it's not your responsibility to raise

00:39:50.300 it with her i just have like a special place in my heart for girls who get like assaulted like that

00:39:54.180 yeah you would raise the kid i don't know bro i really can't just answer that because i have no

00:39:59.700 idea i would i would coat hanger season bro i don't know that was a fucked up question i wish

00:40:06.440 you didn't ask that this one just makes no sense blondes or latinas both wait what there's so many

00:40:14.420 blonde latinas i feel like it's either blonde or brunette or like latina white girl black girl

00:40:18.400 like why blondes or latinas yeah there's way latinas can be blonde a lot of them are you've

00:40:23.860 never seen shakira before how do you feel when like you're on tinder this is even a question

00:40:27.200 how do you feel like when you're on tinder and a girl messages you first that kind of like dubs it

00:40:30.700 for me to be honest i like that a lot my ex-girl the girl that i met on the train she messaged me

00:40:37.100 first it was a way to filter out because like you go through so many people on tinder that you end

00:40:41.020 up never talking to and then when you just find the girls that have already messages like oh okay

00:40:45.140 she's interested like this could i'm not gonna text her like get her snapchat and then she's

00:40:49.000 just gonna leave me on red clearly she's interested wait that doesn't dub it for me at all i'm like

00:40:54.320 happy one girl i love when girls make the first move i love i love it yeah i never really thought

00:40:58.840 of it like that but it takes away so much of the pressure yeah i guess i guess you're like that you

00:41:02.820 like to chase a lot but i don't know it just like speeds up the process a lot like let's get to the

00:41:07.340 point you know you let you fuck with me you're cool let's do something about it you fuck with

00:41:11.160 the five pictures i put up there yeah yeah let's do one more we're about to hit an hour how do you

00:41:17.000 end the first date all right same way you end this podcast just dapper up good shit homie see you next

00:41:34.260 date

SHNEAKO - March 04, 2021

How to Flirt with Girls - Kinda Quality Podcast #24

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