SNEAKO - July 19, 2022


She Is In A Relationship With Herself...

Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
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Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

164.39

Word count

2,113

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

40

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Hate speech

26

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Summary

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In this episode, Gia and I talk about auto sexuality, self-love, and self-pleasure, and what it means to be in love with yourself. It's a topic that's been on my mind a lot lately, and I wanted to talk about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i spent a day with auto auto are people that are in love with themselves basically they can't get
00:00:05.980 laid so they they just get a bunch of cats and they made up a for being lonely i haven't seen
00:00:11.980 this i heard it was funny every day there's a new and it always intrigues me that these are people
00:00:17.560 walking around in real life this show is sponsored by better help online
00:00:21.800 hello gia hello alex hi 0.99
00:00:30.720 he they see what i'm saying if you can't get no pussy then you just become gender neutral and 1.00
00:00:40.780 auto sexual that's what happens if you're an ugly white person just be gender neutral 1.00
00:00:46.660 kenzie hi anthony how are you how do you define auto sexuality it's self-love it's seeing 1.00
00:00:55.220 yourself in the mirror and what the fuck are you being able to not only love yourself but 0.99
00:01:00.680 be aroused by yourself i prefer what are you self-pleasure over sex with like partners or 0.99
00:01:08.960 anyone else you prefer self-pleasure because you can't get laid look look look look look
00:01:15.460 don't say bro skip please don't say bro skip please we need to watch this we need to watch
00:01:18.520 this on eid on eid look look instead of just accepting that you can't get laid people just
00:01:27.080 change their whole gender and sexuality or maybe they're actually maybe this is a real sexuality
00:01:33.120 i don't want to judge i'm gonna go into this with no judgment maybe it's a real thing and chat if
00:01:39.660 you start saying skip then you're part of the problem we need to be accepting of all people
00:01:43.760 we need to be accepting of everybody let's learn
00:01:48.080 else in the same way i would be
00:01:52.200 oh
00:01:52.940 attracted to a lover i am attracted to myself 0.99
00:01:58.300 oh bro you can't get no dick look at you it goes beyond sexual attraction to yourself it is 0.98
00:02:06.840 also romantic yes very much 0.99
00:02:09.160 she you look like the dude who fell over the wall what's his name
00:02:17.660 she looks like this dude in a bdsm outfit 1.00
00:02:35.980 no stop stop stop you're part of the problem no no no don't say skip don't say skip don't say skip if 1.00
00:02:47.640 you wouldn't have sex with her you're part of the problem look at her now she's an automobile 1.00
00:02:51.060 whatever the fuck 1.00
00:02:52.020 is it the exact same thing as interacting with like a potential suitor i look at myself the way 0.99
00:03:01.740 that like other people would look at their partners you stand there nude in the mirror 0.97
00:03:06.740 admiring your body and saying damn bangable yes like that i love looking at myself in the mirror 0.98
00:03:12.900 and when i spend time by myself why that's that this is you love staring at yourself but look at you 0.96
00:03:21.240 you shouldn't you should be ashamed i often feel like i'm spending time alone with a crush
00:03:26.100 i just look in the mirror and i like what i see i may even look in the mirror while
00:03:30.080 doing my set my central acts with myself and that can really progress things
00:03:35.060 what is wrong with you
00:03:37.120 can you imagine beating your meat staring in the mirror 0.95
00:03:41.160 can can you can you look i'm well i was about to act it out i just
00:03:47.020 there's something evil about that there's something like a villain would do
00:03:54.640 there's nothing healthy that comes from that 0.99
00:03:57.620 or maybe they're like okay they're autumn whatever the fuck let's see 0.99
00:04:02.280 i've done an episode on asexuality does auto sexuality fall under the asexuality spectrum 0.99
00:04:10.040 it is considered asexual the difference is you have the people that are sex repulsed which
00:04:15.680 most asexuals find themselves kind of on that side i'm not to the point where i will never
00:04:21.780 have sex with someone else but i just don't prefer it i've known for a long time that i've 0.71
00:04:27.500 been able to experience love desire and pleasure with other people but the second that you surpass
00:04:33.840 you know second base and you're migrating on to third my brain tends to um shut down
00:04:39.720 to what degree because they don't know how to embrace their actual biology you're either a man or
00:04:45.500 a woman just embrace it don't i'm weird this is i don't get it they just cuddle and put their legs
00:04:51.900 okay do you prefer self-pleasure over pleasure with others out of the entire month i usually
00:04:58.720 only have sex like once or twice but then with myself it's pretty healthy pretty regular it's
00:05:04.680 like i'm not completely turned off on it it's just not that common to find me actually wanting it with
00:05:11.060 other people freedom rage you just gave five and said isn't this just narcissism i'm in love with
00:05:14.880 myself it is see if it was me they would call it narcissism but if you just have a lack of self-esteem
00:05:21.120 and if you got piercings and you're just like a non-person then it's a sexuality if it's me
00:05:26.740 i'm a narcissist is it fluid is it some days it's more than the other or is it pretty consistent for 0.50
00:05:35.800 me i would say it's pretty fluid like i have some weeks where i have pretty regular sex with my 0.64
00:05:41.360 partners and then other times where i go several months without wanting right anyone else
00:05:47.060 why do you think auto sexuality is seen as narcissistic while the self-love movement is
00:05:57.040 seen as something empowering and encouraging the only difference is that it's a sexuality i feel like 0.98
00:06:03.080 it's their own self-esteem or their opinion of themselves that may guide them it's just ugly white 0.98
00:06:08.360 people thinking well you have this inflated ego you you're you're narcissistic so i think it's 0.97
00:06:13.640 really true to heart a projection on themselves where is that line drawn between encouraging someone
00:06:18.440 to love themselves and saying you that person is narcissistic for loving themselves a little bit too
00:06:22.600 much narcissism tends to be psychological and fit and mental whereas auto sexuality tends to be like 0.89
00:06:28.200 emotional and personal you look at yourself and you find yourself hot for you you don't sit there
00:06:32.980 and go everyone around me knows i'm hot that to me screams more of the narcissistic mindset
00:06:37.880 because you're just not hot no one in the world could know that you find yourself sexually 1.00
00:06:43.220 attractive moushashi yeah notice how they all white it's really just ugly white people bro if you 0.99
00:06:49.460 didn't choose to talk about it yes exactly do you remember the moment when you realized that the 0.97
00:06:56.380 attraction that you felt for yourself was different than the way that others were attracted to themselves
00:07:02.620 it started when i was seven and i looked at myself in the mirror after i had showered and i noticed
00:07:07.620 that doesn't even look like a real person man and so only Allah's wrath can save them they i think 0.86
00:07:15.300 they're just gone it's just it's over for you what is she wearing on her waist how do you get in a 0.91
00:07:22.140 shower how do you fit in a car i really liked what i saw i discovered i was autosexual before i realized i 0.53
00:07:30.040 was attracted to other women actually i actually decided to go online and say why is it that sometimes
00:07:35.000 when i'm doing the do i think only of myself and that's how i came to the discovery that autosexual 0.75
00:07:42.020 was even a term your brain's gonna sit there and think wow i'm am i full of myself and it takes that
00:07:47.220 sitting down and saying no because i don't care what other people think of me you should you should
00:07:54.060 before you had the term for it did you try to suppress it did you try to say oh wait i shouldn't
00:08:00.100 feel these things about myself i should feel that way about others god yeah a lot of it was me you
00:08:04.160 know trying to force myself to enjoy things with other people but what i came to realize was
00:08:08.780 yo imagine if they had identical twins yeah that that was exactly exactly if they had identical twins
00:08:15.540 are you still autosexual are you just i'm with other people was a chore it wasn't pleasing it was i am 0.85
00:08:22.960 doing this to make sure that everything feels normal in the relationship see i never really
00:08:26.900 suppressed my auto sexuality like once i realized it was there i really tried to cultivate it and i
00:08:31.820 found it's been really beneficial for me when i was in college i had a wet dream whoa what happened
00:08:39.620 i would get top i would get top from gia in college gia in college i miss you
00:08:48.300 actually maybe not she still kind of looks like a dude but what happened
00:08:53.700 about myself that i was hooking up with the okay dad no i wouldn't okay no i'll take that back
00:09:01.020 sorry sorry yo yo yo l in the chat a o in the chat i don't know what i was on i i'm i'm on i'm on but
00:09:06.980 how version of myself with green hair and then i actually went and dyed my hair green and then
00:09:14.500 you were like damn i am into myself right 0.92
00:09:17.840 have you ever come out to your parents they don't need to know that i pleasure myself to myself 0.98
00:09:26.260 it's like what why would that come up a conversation chance they might see this video
00:09:29.980 yes hey kenzie's parents hope you learned something new hope it didn't scar you too much
00:09:36.460 john and wendy i love you very much i'm sure only white people call their parents by their first
00:09:41.140 names man i'm sure you're gonna support me my dad's got a psychology degree he'll just go read
00:09:46.580 a few books and i'll be fine have you dealt with any adverse reaction from anyone that you know when
00:09:50.820 you come out as autosexual to them i think when it comes to sexuality people can be very closed-minded
00:09:55.460 and if something isn't traditional then people tend to be wary of it but i've also heard obtuse arguments
00:10:02.180 like well if everyone was autosexual then you're an obtuse argument nobody would reproduce ever so i 0.52
00:10:08.080 think people just bring their assumptions into it right and project them onto me chad should we skip
00:10:12.620 this should we skip this and it's just a reflection of their prejudices why are people caring about who's
00:10:17.440 reproducing it's it seems bizarre that they're basically saying like i want you to reproduce
00:10:22.720 so bad because that's the point of human life why is this dude remember the smosh dude chat what the 0.74
00:10:28.420 fuck happened to you you got all these rings and you got this fruity thing going on bro we need 0.96
00:10:33.120 people to have kids to make everyone so that's how the you that's the point of life that's the point 1.00
00:10:38.900 of night that's a jerk off in the mirror and tell people online we're supposed to have kids 0.96
00:10:44.380 everyone's here saying skip 1.00
00:10:47.100 okay fine all right i'm done i'm done make a baby damn it i don't know you but i you probably won't 1.00
00:10:55.520 you cannot make a baby you're too overweight what the fuck all right let me just skip to this part right 0.99
00:10:59.660 here i'm skipping i'm skipping chat i'm skipping chat change terms apply so be quick and nimble 1.00
00:11:06.920 now back to the world of autosexuals 1.00
00:11:09.100 have you found that the lgbtq community is completely accepting of autosexuality i've noticed
00:11:18.260 that people who are in the lgbtq community tend to be more accepting of my autosexuality
00:11:24.280 there are also plenty who aren't i've even been accused of making the lgbtq community look bad
00:11:30.140 other asexuals who tend to be a lot more turned off because they think it gives them a bad look
00:11:37.180 i had someone tell me flat out that i shouldn't be going to pride because i'm making them look
00:11:44.160 to be a joke why do you think people do feel like it's making a mockery out of sexualities i feel
00:11:51.400 like it just comes from not understanding it they don't think to look into it because why would
00:11:56.100 they look into it more if they already know what it is unlike other sexualities autosexuality 0.98
00:12:01.760 cannot be seen unless you're into some really freaky shit do you find that you have felt 0.98
00:12:08.560 oppressed at all in public for autosexuality one could say yes because not many people know about 0.99
00:12:15.840 autosexuality but part of that is tied to because it's so self-involved really i feel like the only 0.58
00:12:20.540 person that could oppress you is yourself okay yeah enough enough enough enough this chat
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