SNEAKO - August 20, 2022


Tristan Tate and SNEAKO On How To Get Girls


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Length

14 minutes

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211.3873

Word count

2,985

Sentence count

210

Harmful content

Misogyny

24

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Toxicity

26

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Hate speech

20

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Summary

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Does sex with women ever get old? Is monogamy just a myth or is there something better than sex with one woman? What is the best type of woman to have sex with and why is it better than all the other women out there?

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00:00:00.000 Does p***y ever get old? 1.00
00:00:01.180 Well, are you talking about does having s*** with women ever get old? 0.99
00:00:04.700 Or does an individual p***y get old itself? 0.99
00:00:07.760 Because yes, it obviously does. 0.95
00:00:09.800 But you call yourself an international playboy.
00:00:12.880 You have a lot of women in your post. 1.00
00:00:14.300 Does it get old ever? 0.89
00:00:17.580 I believe that sexual relations or sex.
00:00:23.280 I believe that sex is a lot like food or being hungry. 0.52
00:00:27.180 You have to enjoy it within a healthy limit.
00:00:29.320 Because people do become sex addicts.
00:00:30.960 Just like people can become anorexics or obese.
00:00:34.160 When they become obsessed with something that I think you need to live a healthy and happy life.
00:00:38.440 No, I don't think it's ever going to get old.
00:00:40.240 I don't think that a man will ever get...
00:00:42.280 Is there any part of you that's like,
00:00:45.120 Oh, maybe I want to settle down and have a nice woman who challenges me. 1.00
00:00:49.060 Do you ever get the monogamy, like wife? 0.99
00:00:52.100 Does that ever...
00:00:53.200 I understand the settling down.
00:00:55.860 And I understand finding a nice woman.
00:00:57.320 I have friends who have settled down with nice women.
00:01:00.240 But there's nothing challenging about those women. 1.00
00:01:02.520 Those women are complementary to your lifestyle. 1.00
00:01:05.240 And to say I've never had a girl like that, whether I don't have a girl like that right now, would be a lie.
00:01:10.340 You know, some of the best women that I know and some of the happiest relationships I've had with women weren't based solely around sex. 0.97
00:01:18.960 Yeah, I have sex with them, but they were just pleasant people to be around in every single way.
00:01:23.300 And that's the opposite of challenging. 0.70
00:01:25.600 So, no, you'll never get bored of female company if you look for the right types of women. 1.00
00:01:30.020 I believe that high quality women really do exist. 1.00
00:01:32.320 And if you have one or two or some of them in your life, it's an absolutely wonderful experience.
00:01:37.680 Women add a lot to life. 1.00
00:01:38.880 I always say they're the icing on the cake.
00:01:40.780 Every experience is better when there's women. 1.00
00:01:43.260 You're going out for dinner with your friends.
00:01:44.660 There's beautiful women around. 1.00
00:01:45.560 It's better.
00:01:45.980 You're going for a drive through the mountains.
00:01:47.240 You're next to some 10 out of 10 blonde Ukrainian chick. 1.00
00:01:49.040 It's just better.
00:01:50.080 Women make everything better. 1.00
00:01:51.620 So, I'm the opposite of a guy who hates women. 0.90
00:01:53.780 I think they're the best thing about life.
00:01:56.360 So, no, I never get bored of women. 1.00
00:01:58.380 I guess the question is, is monogamy just a lie?
00:02:01.520 Because sometimes, like, I like having multiple, but I guess the pressure and, like, other people telling me,
00:02:08.080 Oh, you need a nice girl to settle down. 1.00
00:02:09.540 When I hear the word settle down, you think of monogamy.
00:02:12.540 Is monogamy all a myth for men?
00:02:14.680 Um, no.
00:02:16.700 Because it depends on the man.
00:02:18.600 I believe if you're a charged man with a lot of testosterone in your system, monogamy is a myth.
00:02:23.780 But it depends what you consider monogamy.
00:02:25.940 Because I would say that you are not truly monogamous if you have the sexual desire to sleep with other women. 0.70
00:02:33.180 So, these dudes would be like, yeah, I've got my wife.
00:02:35.120 I've only been with my wife for the last 25 years.
00:02:37.260 And you look in their internet history, and it's filled with porn and webcam websites and OnlyFans.
00:02:43.220 I'm like, how monogamous are you really?
00:02:45.820 Yeah. 0.70
00:02:46.040 I mean, I know that you only have sex with your wife. 1.00
00:02:48.840 But the fact that you desire so many other women surely shows and demonstrates that this idea of monogamy is unnatural to you.
00:02:57.760 Because if you really felt this way, you wouldn't be lusting over other women at all.
00:03:02.300 And find any single man who's in one of these, you know, completely happy, monogamous relationships.
00:03:07.320 And I'm not saying they don't exist, because I bet some do.
00:03:09.920 I bet some do.
00:03:10.720 But I have yet to meet that guy who doesn't lust over other women. 0.86
00:03:15.120 They're cheating, cheating. 0.74
00:03:18.100 Yeah.
00:03:18.460 They found a way to cheat, cheating.
00:03:20.460 And you've dealt with simps professionally with your webcam business.
00:03:24.300 A lot of people have this misconception that it's trafficking. 1.00
00:03:26.500 It's a bunch of bullshit. 0.99
00:03:27.160 But you've dealt professionally with simps, like working around them, kind of treating it like you use women as crack and you're the crack dealer. 0.99
00:03:37.640 And my question is, do you don't like that analogy?
00:03:42.280 No, no, no.
00:03:42.720 I do like the analogy.
00:03:43.900 I was just going to explain very briefly exactly what I was doing for all the people watching who don't know who I am.
00:03:49.480 I think most of them know.
00:03:50.320 We have a pretty big overlap of audience.
00:03:52.040 I think all my audience knows.
00:03:53.800 But if you want to explain it.
00:03:54.860 Well, I mean, a very quick analogy, I would say, is if you know girls who do OnlyFans, you probably know lots.
00:04:01.940 You live in the United States.
00:04:03.020 Ask how many work for a management agency.
00:04:05.560 Most of them.
00:04:06.040 Half, 70%.
00:04:07.180 Most of them.
00:04:07.700 They have a guy that does all the messages and everything.
00:04:09.640 I was running a company that did that before OnlyFans existed.
00:04:13.140 So that's the most simple way I can break it down.
00:04:15.100 So all the people, as you said, who said, oh, they made their money kidnapping people or trafficking people. 0.98
00:04:20.840 I mean, it's totally ridiculous.
00:04:22.340 I was just one of the pioneers in the e-girl management industry.
00:04:25.900 That's essentially what I was doing.
00:04:26.940 And that's how I made a lot of money.
00:04:27.900 But, yeah, I've dealt with simps professionally for many years.
00:04:30.520 I'm no longer in that industry, just for the record.
00:04:32.720 I know.
00:04:32.980 Do you have any guilt with it now?
00:04:34.060 Because I would say most of the guys that watch your stuff are maybe, like, former simps or people trying to better themselves.
00:04:39.080 You have a lot of people.
00:04:39.780 Whether or not, like, you really are trying to garner that audience, a lot of people that watch you are trying to improve and get motivated by your message.
00:04:46.400 Do you have any guilt for the fact, like, I kind of, like, compare it to crack dealers.
00:04:50.420 Like, crack dealers is, like, they're not trying to ruin people's lives.
00:04:53.360 But ultimately, the person you should blame is, like, the politicians who started the war on drugs.
00:04:57.340 And they always, like, have that analogy in movies about drugs of, like, should the drug dealer feel guilty?
00:05:01.760 I'm wondering if you feel any guilt about that.
00:05:03.620 But I can see that you don't.
00:05:05.560 Well, I don't.
00:05:06.360 And the answer is because, to be honest, over half the people who use webcamming websites use them in a very healthy way.
00:05:13.600 There are people who would, you know, want interactive live naked chat with a girl who were injured veterans, people who were in unhappy marriages, and they really got something good out of it.
00:05:23.220 They had a positive experience out of it.
00:05:25.100 There are people who were addicts and really went down the rabbit hole and destroyed themselves.
00:05:28.820 But I'm no sorrier for them than the Cuban man who rolled this fine cigar is for me if I were to contract mouth cancer later on in life.
00:05:38.140 People are responsible for themselves.
00:05:39.720 People make their own choices.
00:05:41.200 And you can't police addiction by taking your product off the market or by closing your store down.
00:05:47.000 If an alcoholic comes to your bar every day and orders two bottles of vodka, drinks himself to death, and goes home and beats his wife, closing your restaurant isn't going to help that man.
00:05:55.020 He's going to find his vodka somewhere else.
00:05:56.780 He's going to continue his problem.
00:05:58.200 And you're going to end up broke.
00:05:59.460 It's just money that's going elsewhere.
00:06:01.320 No, I don't regret it.
00:06:03.020 It's part of my origin story.
00:06:04.540 It's something that I wouldn't get involved with today simply because I don't need to.
00:06:10.580 But the industry is full of happy, healthy, rich people.
00:06:14.000 I mean, the girls are happy.
00:06:14.860 The managers are happy.
00:06:15.780 There's very little violence in that industry.
00:06:19.080 Women are by themselves. 1.00
00:06:20.060 They're safe.
00:06:21.040 They're in a room alone.
00:06:23.080 It's not like working at a strip club.
00:06:24.560 The women are safer, but the men are sadder. 0.88
00:06:26.960 And men, the overall level of mental health for men has declined as the women become safer working in sex work.
00:06:33.880 I'm going to ask you, what do you know about male nature working with these sims and seeing the rapid decline? 0.50
00:06:40.200 Because you don't seem like a social media guy.
00:06:43.000 But now the only time I can see you've been spending on social media is to use it for your business.
00:06:47.700 You've always been kind of on the outside of it.
00:06:49.420 Most of the people watching this chat, they've been addicted scrolling all day, and they use it for entertainment.
00:06:54.520 You've kind of stepped out of it.
00:06:55.960 And with what you're doing now and what you were doing with the webcam business, you were working on the outside.
00:06:59.720 So I think you have an outside perspective on social media and the way most people's brains work that people don't have.
00:07:07.320 What perspective do you have on male nature because of working in the webcam business?
00:07:11.080 And what perspective do you have on social media being on the outside as an influencer who just stepped into this recently?
00:07:18.300 Well, I can answer the question.
00:07:19.760 I can answer both questions simultaneously.
00:07:22.180 Okay.
00:07:22.360 I feel like the world, even as young as you are, you're 24?
00:07:26.860 I'm 23.
00:07:27.860 I'm about to be 24.
00:07:28.500 23.
00:07:29.260 Even as young as you are, you can barely remember a world where social media didn't exist.
00:07:33.540 I'm a lot older than you.
00:07:34.200 I'm 10 years older than you.
00:07:34.960 Yeah.
00:07:35.640 So I feel like the digitalization of all relationships, whether it be between your friends, between people who want to talk like me and you right now, between men and women,
00:07:46.400 because it's become so overly digitalized, that's what's driving men into what we would call simping.
00:07:53.160 Let's not pretend that phone sex didn't used to exist.
00:07:55.780 Do you remember what that was?
00:07:56.820 You ever heard of that?
00:07:57.660 People would call up these lines and have girls talk dirty to them. 1.00
00:08:00.260 You know, porno magazines, people were booking escorts and hookers for as long as human history has gone back.
00:08:05.500 But the thing is, the digitalization of all relationships has made these young men who, you know, have never talked to a woman in real life outside of school.
00:08:15.180 And even then, a lot of the chat gets done on Instagram and WhatsApp.
00:08:18.140 When they want to meet some 10 out of 10 Russian girl who's perfect looking, they don't think, I better go to Moscow, put on a nice suit, go to the bar, buy a drink, talk to the girl, etc. 0.91
00:08:30.060 They don't think that.
00:08:30.980 They're like, oh, if I go on this website, I can see her and, you know, it blurs the lines between what's real and what isn't.
00:08:38.640 So I feel like the social media addiction is what's driving, you know, this simp addiction, as you'd say, because they don't know another way of interacting with people at all.
00:08:49.920 And have you seen that decline happen?
00:08:52.240 Have you seen the shift in how men think in real time?
00:08:55.620 Absolutely.
00:08:56.020 I've absolutely seen it, because when I first got involved in this industry, and I wasn't planning on talking about this, but I'm an open book.
00:09:02.680 When I first got involved in this industry, a lot of the clients were, you know, the unhappily married.
00:09:06.680 This is now 10 years ago.
00:09:09.640 The unhappily married guys, the guys in their, you know, late 20s, had a bit of money, wasting their time on the Internet to escape their unhappy relationship or, you know, at their office.
00:09:18.400 And up until I retired just a few years back, the audience was consistently getting younger and younger and younger.
00:09:25.560 18, 19, 20, 21.
00:09:27.240 The core audience for this are the young men, because they're the ones who are lost.
00:09:32.200 They're the ones who are now completely out of the sexual marketplace in terms of sexual market value.
00:09:37.560 All they've got is the money from the job that they're working, and they don't know how to interact with people any other way than this.
00:09:44.680 So, yeah, I saw it in real time.
00:09:46.620 Do you think that it's something intentional from people at the top?
00:09:52.120 Do you think intentionally people at the top are trying to make men weaker with social media and they're trying to empower women to destroy the family from the inside out? 0.67
00:10:01.340 Well, yes.
00:10:03.380 Quick answer, yes. 0.98
00:10:04.640 I believe that it was originally an unintended consequence of industries like this, making men weaker, making men more pathetic.
00:10:12.360 But, you know, the people at the top, they don't squeeze men by creating webcamming websites or by launching OnlyFans. 0.99
00:10:19.120 That's all done by private entrepreneurs.
00:10:20.780 But the laws that, you know, restrict men in their marriages, their choices after they get married, for divorce, their right to keep their home, the right to see their kids.
00:10:28.480 Those are the laws being passed by the people at the top that further drive men into this.
00:10:38.820 So I don't think it's being done on purpose and, like, it's being designed to get men hooked on this to weaken the family.
00:10:44.260 I think that the family is being weakened so much and the man's position of power is being compromised so much that it drives men further down this rabbit hole that was created by private business and private industry.
00:10:55.800 You don't think that they're just trying to take away as much power as possible?
00:10:58.520 You don't think that, like, with the last two years of the pandy telling us to stay inside and manipulating female empathy so that we have to cover our face and get a jet?
00:11:06.980 You don't think all of that was just all a plan to make us weaker and just to give us more control and to make us stay inside more?
00:11:15.440 That absolutely was.
00:11:16.880 The question I was answering was, do I think that the webcam industry, OnlyFans, the pornography, do I think that's a psyop to make men weaker?
00:11:24.340 No, I think that's just the refuge that men run into.
00:11:26.560 It's a bigger question.
00:11:27.640 Do you think that there's an intentional effort from the people at the top to make us weaker and ruin the family?
00:11:34.900 Absolutely there is.
00:11:35.840 Absolutely there is.
00:11:37.080 Why are they trying to do that?
00:11:38.260 Like, and who's behind it?
00:11:42.240 Okay, who's behind it?
00:11:44.480 It's a trickier question than why are they trying to do that.
00:11:46.820 Why are they trying to do that is the same reason they've always done it.
00:11:49.440 For all of human history, if a civilization invaded enemy territory and took over their lands, they would kill all the fighting age males. 0.99
00:11:56.320 Killing them was the easiest way to get rid of them. 0.95
00:11:58.240 Now you can't just straight up kill all the men who might throw a revolution against you. 1.00
00:12:02.000 Kill all the men who might, you know, pick up a gun and walk to the capital and think, you know what? 0.99
00:12:05.300 We have to do something about this government. 1.00
00:12:07.020 But what you can do is you can pussify them. 0.98
00:12:10.500 You can make them so weak, so dependent on porn, video games, you know, because you've crushed their hope of meeting a woman in the real world. 0.78
00:12:18.580 You've crushed our hope of getting married and having a family and supporting them on one job and having a wife that's loyal and obedient.
00:12:23.560 So many men are – men need a war, and so many men are at war with their partner, with their sexual partner, with the woman who they're supposed to love.
00:12:31.560 That's their war. 0.72
00:12:32.500 They go home and argue with their wife every night.
00:12:34.560 They sleep on the couch.
00:12:35.800 They scream.
00:12:36.420 They shout.
00:12:36.840 They go to their job to get the next paycheck.
00:12:38.700 That's the war that they're engaged in, and they're so engaged that they can't look elsewhere at who their real enemy is.
00:12:44.420 But this is no more than I say billionaires don't care about race.
00:12:50.220 They don't care about color.
00:12:51.320 They don't care about gender. 1.00
00:12:52.640 If a female Chinese billionaire and a black African billionaire and a white American billionaire all walk into a room, they're all good. 0.87
00:13:00.560 They're all cool.
00:13:01.140 They speak money.
00:13:01.820 This is just another way of dividing people on a lower level.
00:13:04.420 So it goes beyond just men and wife and men and women, which is why the media, I think, is so spun so negatively against me and Andrew.
00:13:12.460 I try to empower young men to stay away from toxic people.
00:13:17.600 I'm not talking about toxic women. 1.00
00:13:19.280 I will say nine times on a podcast, look, if your friends are sitting around smoking drugs, if your friends, your male friends, are losers, if your male friends have no ambition, if your male friends are fat and overweight and keep you from going to the gym, stay away from them. 0.99
00:13:32.660 And then on the same podcast once, I'll say, yeah, if you have a girl, if you have a woman who, you know, is trying to control you and is overeating and is lazy and doesn't like you going to the gym and is a bit of a slob, you need to cut her off. 1.00
00:13:42.360 And it's, oh, my God, Tristan's misogynistic. 0.97
00:13:44.660 It's selective hearing.
00:13:46.020 I'm trying to teach young men to stay away from low quality people, men and women, male and female. 0.92
00:13:51.520 But they'll soundbite the bits where I talk about low quality women because low quality people of all races, genders, sexes, they exist. 1.00
00:13:59.160 And you need to you need to stay away from all of them.
00:14:02.660 That's it.
00:14:06.660 Is this your job?