SNEAKO - February 15, 2023


YouTuber Teaches Incel How To Get Women


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Length

23 minutes

Words per minute

188.1306

Word count

4,475

Sentence count

711

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

83

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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In this episode, Jonah talks about his experience with social anxiety and how he dealt with it. He also talks about how he deals with it in the dating world and how to deal with it on a day to day basis.

Transcript

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00:00:00.360 You know, people have been,
00:00:01.120 I think it's gonna be good to watch with you.
00:00:02.880 So there's this YouTube channel called Social Animal.
00:00:05.720 And the whole channel is designed
00:00:07.240 around getting autistic schizos 0.99
00:00:08.520 and then teaching them how to be more social.
00:00:10.520 And someone told me to skip.
00:00:12.020 So that's basically the premise.
00:00:13.000 So like his subscribers, they are all like trying to be more.
00:00:16.200 So the guy holding the camera on the left is a YouTuber.
00:00:18.440 And then this guy is the autistic schizo 1.00
00:00:20.280 who wants to learn more about talking.
00:00:23.200 I'm good bro, I'm good.
00:00:25.080 This is Jonah.
00:00:25.960 If you're new here, my name is Ruben.
00:00:27.520 I basically travel to hang out with my subscribers,
00:00:30.160 talk to people and film it
00:00:31.760 to show you that we can talk to anyone.
00:00:34.040 Hi, are you guys in line?
00:00:35.680 How's your day going?
00:00:37.040 Good.
00:00:38.360 Let me get your number.
00:00:39.760 You're gonna try to continue a conversation after that?
00:00:42.280 I think I learned that I'm not as good as I thought I was.
00:00:46.320 Hey, I'm Jonah, I'm 23.
00:00:48.120 I'm a music producer.
00:00:49.480 I'm here today to better express myself
00:00:52.920 and to like kind of get over that social anxiety hump.
00:00:57.040 I don't want to be rejected.
00:00:58.160 I don't want to like my ego to feel hurt.
00:01:02.240 I don't think that this is something
00:01:03.360 that women really have to experience 1.00
00:01:05.600 because men have to go out there 0.99
00:01:07.000 and try to get approval from women. 0.99
00:01:09.280 But this, this is a uniquely male experience.
00:01:12.360 Did you ever have something like this?
00:01:15.040 Yeah.
00:01:16.040 Um, yeah, not in a little while, but yeah.
00:01:25.160 Any last words before you start?
00:01:28.000 Let's go.
00:01:28.880 Let's go.
00:01:29.800 Hi, just wanted to say, I feel like,
00:01:33.360 I think you're really pretty.
00:01:35.640 And, um, just saying hello.
00:01:38.520 Oh my God.
00:01:39.400 Terrible body language.
00:01:40.520 Oh my God.
00:01:40.840 Thank you so much.
00:01:41.720 I know you're working, but, you know, I'm Jonah.
00:01:44.520 Nice to meet you.
00:01:45.240 Nice to meet you.
00:01:47.000 How is, how's work going?
00:01:48.520 It's so bad.
00:01:49.880 It's going good?
00:01:50.520 It's so bad now.
00:01:51.240 I mean, this is a cool place.
00:01:52.040 I've never been.
00:01:52.840 It's not that bad.
00:01:54.360 No, it's so bad.
00:01:55.840 Why, why, why, why is it so bad?
00:01:57.840 Why did he not just come up and be like,
00:01:59.840 Hey, I think like, why was he like,
00:02:01.680 Sorry, I know you're working.
00:02:03.280 Like, like you're already coming up to her
00:02:05.680 and interrupting her work.
00:02:07.840 So like, you don't have to say that.
00:02:09.840 Just like, I think you're really pretty.
00:02:13.200 Can I get your number?
00:02:14.400 Something.
00:02:14.880 And then the body language is just so, so bad.
00:02:18.480 All of that.
00:02:19.520 So I, yeah, I enjoy it.
00:02:22.880 Yeah, it's very like, I don't know.
00:02:25.680 Spacious and like modern.
00:02:28.640 Yeah.
00:02:29.120 Like artists artists.
00:02:30.320 She's being responsive.
00:02:31.200 Yeah, she is.
00:02:33.840 Um, but yeah.
00:02:36.400 But what are you going to do?
00:02:37.680 Just completely ignore him?
00:02:39.360 Like she could on the inside be like, oh my God.
00:02:41.520 No, she is.
00:02:42.000 She's dying inside right now. 0.90
00:02:43.120 She's putting up with them. 0.51
00:02:43.840 She's not going to, she's going to reject him.
00:02:45.280 Right.
00:02:47.120 But yeah, if you, if you want to hang out,
00:02:49.200 I'd love to get your number.
00:02:52.080 Sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet.
00:02:54.080 What's she going to say?
00:02:55.600 No, get away from me.
00:02:56.960 Like she's obviously going to be nice.
00:02:58.240 Safe number?
00:02:58.800 And then not even fake number.
00:03:00.400 Maybe she gives him her number and then like,
00:03:02.480 but doesn't text him.
00:03:03.840 And maybe she gets desperate or something sometimes.
00:03:06.400 Um, do you want to just like tell me, tell me it?
00:03:09.200 Or do you want to put it in?
00:03:11.360 Okay.
00:03:12.560 All right.
00:03:13.040 I'll see you around.
00:03:15.040 You too. 0.99
00:03:15.760 Damn, that was easy. 0.99
00:03:16.640 I'm so, I would, I'm excited. 0.99
00:03:18.560 I definitely had anxiety.
00:03:19.520 How are you giving him an L when he did take the W?
00:03:21.760 No, okay.
00:03:23.280 That is a W objectively.
00:03:24.800 I probably could have been more present.
00:03:28.000 Um, but I think, I don't know.
00:03:30.240 Overall, it was like a fine interaction.
00:03:32.080 Could have been more.
00:03:33.040 If I had one feedback, you were like,
00:03:35.040 Oh, you know, could we maybe, you know, like, you know, like, own what you're doing.
00:03:39.600 Yeah.
00:03:40.160 Excuse me.
00:03:40.640 Hi, um, I find you really pretty.
00:03:44.240 Just want to come up.
00:03:44.960 How's your day going?
00:03:47.360 It's good.
00:03:48.240 What are you, what are you reading?
00:03:50.880 On earth?
00:03:53.360 We're briefly gorgeous.
00:03:56.400 I guess that's true.
00:03:58.000 And then you get older and you die.
00:04:02.640 Can I, can I sit or?
00:04:05.840 You're cringing because you're on the outside.
00:04:07.680 Oh, yes.
00:04:08.080 If you could sit.
00:04:10.480 Look at this.
00:04:12.160 Very nice bag you have.
00:04:14.560 Again.
00:04:14.960 What is she going to say?
00:04:16.080 No.
00:04:16.400 Like, yeah.
00:04:17.680 Yes, exactly.
00:04:18.720 Is no.
00:04:20.320 Yes is better than no.
00:04:23.520 It's not really.
00:04:24.480 It is.
00:04:25.440 What are you talking about?
00:04:26.960 Yes is better than no.
00:04:28.880 What?
00:04:29.440 How?
00:04:29.920 That's not debatable.
00:04:31.920 Okay.
00:04:32.240 Yes is better than no.
00:04:33.040 Okay.
00:04:33.520 Yes is better than no.
00:04:35.040 Yes.
00:04:36.560 Yeah, I just saw you and met with my friend and I, I don't know, I want to be more social
00:04:43.920 so I'm like.
00:04:44.480 You're doing better than I ever would.
00:04:47.120 than I ever would.
00:04:47.920 I like your nails.
00:04:49.120 Oh, you do?
00:04:49.760 You like them?
00:04:50.640 Yeah.
00:04:51.200 Yeah, thank you.
00:04:51.840 Well, um, you're just reading today?
00:04:54.240 Like, what are you up to?
00:04:54.960 Yeah, I'm reading and studying.
00:04:56.640 Studying?
00:04:57.600 You're in school?
00:04:59.760 What, uh, what's your major?
00:05:01.120 I'm, I'm, I'm just taking interior design courses.
00:05:05.280 Oh, okay.
00:05:05.760 So that's your business. 0.99
00:05:07.760 Sick. 1.00
00:05:08.160 Sick. 0.99
00:05:08.560 Cool.
00:05:09.120 Yeah, I'm a graphic designer, but I'm trying to change it up.
00:05:12.080 My mom's a graphic designer.
00:05:14.800 So as somebody who's trying to get better at social interaction in public like that,
00:05:19.600 the guy's killing it.
00:05:21.200 Like it's for him to sign up for this and have this much confidence and not be a total spurge.
00:05:25.440 This is, he's doing really well in my opinion.
00:05:27.680 Yeah.
00:05:30.640 Nothing.
00:05:31.280 Okay.
00:05:32.640 Wow.
00:05:34.800 I'm a musician.
00:05:36.320 I make music.
00:05:37.040 Let him cook.
00:05:37.520 What do you play?
00:05:38.320 I play guitar, piano, drums, bass, everything.
00:05:43.840 All of it.
00:05:44.560 Not to flex, but to kind of, to flex.
00:05:49.600 Um, it's cool.
00:05:52.320 Thank you.
00:05:53.920 Thank you.
00:05:56.640 You see what I'm saying?
00:05:58.720 Yeah.
00:06:02.080 Yeah.
00:06:02.640 If you want to like, hang out sometime.
00:06:07.040 Oh, where do you live?
00:06:10.320 Thailand and London.
00:06:12.160 Thailand and London.
00:06:13.920 Are you, and you're just visiting here?
00:06:17.600 How long are you visiting?
00:06:18.880 Uh, a couple more weeks.
00:06:20.160 She's getting sleepy.
00:06:21.840 We should hang out.
00:06:22.480 Oh wait, no, that's so much.
00:06:24.240 Why are you here?
00:06:26.160 Let me get your number.
00:06:27.280 I'm okay.
00:06:28.240 Thank you though.
00:06:29.040 Are you sure?
00:06:29.520 Yeah.
00:06:30.000 Okay.
00:06:30.880 Well, great to talk to you.
00:06:32.000 Yeah, thanks for coming up.
00:06:34.160 Sure.
00:06:35.680 Bye.
00:06:36.960 Well, I like have mixed feelings.
00:06:39.040 I think I was calmer and I think like I made her laugh, which is, I loved doing, like it was cool.
00:06:45.360 And then I said we should hang out and she's just said like, no, I know I could have done worse.
00:06:49.600 You could have done the way.
00:06:50.880 I mean, you can always do worse.
00:06:52.000 Yeah.
00:06:52.320 Yeah.
00:06:52.880 But yeah, I think, I think you're still very cautious.
00:06:55.680 Yeah.
00:06:56.320 And one sentence where you can really see that is when you ask her to hang out, you are like, oh, if we won't.
00:07:00.560 Yeah.
00:07:01.920 Like, that doesn't seem very enticing.
00:07:04.480 Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
00:07:05.840 Hi, excuse me.
00:07:07.600 I find you very, you're very attractive.
00:07:09.200 Thank you.
00:07:09.840 Thank you.
00:07:10.400 How's your day going?
00:07:11.680 Good.
00:07:12.400 Good?
00:07:12.960 What are you, what are you up to?
00:07:14.240 I'm about to leave, actually.
00:07:15.440 You're about to leave?
00:07:16.160 Yeah.
00:07:16.640 Where are you going?
00:07:17.520 Home.
00:07:18.160 You're going home?
00:07:18.800 Yeah.
00:07:19.040 Do you have these headphones?
00:07:20.800 No.
00:07:21.360 No?
00:07:21.840 Oh, okay.
00:07:22.320 Yeah.
00:07:23.120 So cool. 0.99
00:07:23.680 I noticed a lot of bad bitches have these headphones. 1.00
00:07:25.760 I don't know what it is, like Equinox girls, like something. 0.98
00:07:28.560 Just, I'm with a friend.
00:07:29.520 I was just walking.
00:07:30.960 You're like, are you like, you're like a model?
00:07:32.880 Yeah.
00:07:34.880 Yeah.
00:07:35.520 Yeah.
00:07:35.920 Very attractive.
00:07:36.640 Thank you.
00:07:37.280 Yeah.
00:07:37.600 Have a great day.
00:07:38.720 You have to.
00:07:39.360 Oh.
00:07:41.840 Dude, I mean.
00:07:42.560 But this.
00:07:42.960 The thing about all of this is that you would never, no one, you don't approach people like
00:07:49.600 this and try to get.
00:07:51.440 That's not true.
00:07:52.400 This is a cold approach.
00:07:53.520 That's not true at all.
00:07:54.560 This is a cold approach.
00:07:55.360 If this were to happen to me, I would be like, who is this man?
00:07:58.400 I'm not interested.
00:07:59.520 Like, already.
00:07:59.920 This is the difference because this is perfect that you said
00:08:02.800 that there's unspoken ribs and then sexual harassment.
00:08:06.880 This guy's at sexual harassment.
00:08:08.320 Creepy.
00:08:09.040 It's not flattering.
00:08:10.160 If I came up to you and you were flattered and you weren't thinking, you weren't thinking
00:08:13.760 this is a spurge.
00:08:14.720 You wouldn't think of it as creepy.
00:08:16.080 This happens.
00:08:16.880 This is normal chat.
00:08:17.840 Don't listen to anything she's saying.
00:08:19.280 You cannot take women's advice when it comes to game. 1.00
00:08:21.520 They don't know.
00:08:22.240 They're not supposed to know.
00:08:23.520 It's supposed to be awkward looking for the outside in because she's aware of the game.
00:08:27.360 As soon as she's aware of the game, that it's, you're losing.
00:08:30.800 She can't know that you're even playing.
00:08:32.560 It's a grab a drink sometime.
00:08:34.880 I'm sorry.
00:08:35.280 I have a boyfriend.
00:08:36.080 It's okay.
00:08:36.480 But have a great day.
00:08:37.680 Thank you.
00:08:38.240 Yeah.
00:08:38.560 Okay.
00:08:38.800 You too.
00:08:39.760 Try to give a real compliment instead of saying like, you're attractive.
00:08:43.120 Yeah.
00:08:43.360 You're attractive is not a compliment.
00:08:44.480 Something like you had a girlfriend, right?
00:08:46.480 And one night, you're going to this event and she's like really beautiful.
00:08:50.560 Yeah.
00:08:51.120 You're not going to be like, wow, you're so attractive.
00:08:52.880 Yeah.
00:08:53.280 And that's not a compliment.
00:08:54.320 You know?
00:08:54.720 Yeah.
00:08:55.360 It's a, it's a state.
00:08:56.480 And then you were like, are you a model?
00:08:58.960 Like you might have.
00:08:59.840 She was a model actually.
00:09:00.880 Yeah.
00:09:00.960 But the way you said it, it was just like, you might have.
00:09:03.920 Too flattering already.
00:09:04.960 Now she's, she's up on a pedestal, right?
00:09:06.880 And she, and then she's like, well, nice to see you.
00:09:09.360 I'm a model.
00:09:09.840 She already got all the validation she needs.
00:09:11.440 As well just like go on your knees and start like asking if you could kiss her feet. 0.99
00:09:14.800 You know?
00:09:14.960 You were just like, oh my God, oh my God.
00:09:17.120 It's like creates a distance.
00:09:18.160 So you realize she's just a person that tried to talk to her as if like you've known her
00:09:21.920 since kindergarten and used to play in the mud together, you know?
00:09:25.120 Sure.
00:09:25.760 Oh my God.
00:09:27.280 What, what, what?
00:09:28.160 I also just don't think they're nearly in the same league.
00:09:32.720 Which is going to just make it difficult like right off the bat. 0.55
00:09:36.960 Garbage chat.
00:09:37.840 It's not about league. 0.77
00:09:39.120 It's not about that.
00:09:40.080 Yes.
00:09:40.320 There's certain requirements that like, unless you're like completely, but it's mostly about
00:09:45.040 confidence, the approach, the way you're talking, if you're making her laugh.
00:09:48.080 You can't listen to women's advice about game. 1.00
00:09:49.680 With that guy and that girl, like.
00:09:51.920 It doesn't matter.
00:09:52.800 He's so.
00:09:53.280 It doesn't.
00:09:53.920 He's not, he's not an ugly guy.
00:09:55.360 He's not ugly, but.
00:09:56.480 It's literally just a lack of confidence.
00:09:58.160 If he was a, bro, he could be an actor.
00:10:00.400 He could be.
00:10:01.120 Bro, he looks like the same, like a Leonardo DiCaprio level.
00:10:03.920 Look at him.
00:10:04.320 He's not unattractive at all.
00:10:05.840 He's not Leonardo DiCaprio.
00:10:07.280 Leo looks like that.
00:10:08.800 This looks like a paparazzi picture of Leonardo DiCaprio in public right now.
00:10:12.320 This could be him.
00:10:13.520 Really not that complicated, bro.
00:10:15.360 No, but also he should just go to the gym.
00:10:18.080 That would help.
00:10:19.680 Yeah, yes, but we're analyzing the social dynamics right now.
00:10:22.400 Yeah.
00:10:22.720 We know that part, but he's getting better because he's a spurt.
00:10:25.360 I love, I love your hair.
00:10:26.400 Thank you.
00:10:26.960 I don't mean to interrupt, but you're, you're very beautiful.
00:10:30.000 Thank you.
00:10:30.880 Yeah, and I, your dog is cute as well.
00:10:33.120 Isn't he really handsome?
00:10:34.000 Just the whole, yeah.
00:10:34.960 Can I pet him?
00:10:36.000 This is Leo.
00:10:36.640 Yeah, you can pet him.
00:10:37.200 Leo.
00:10:37.760 I told you it was Leo.
00:10:38.880 Yeah, very cute.
00:10:40.480 I like your nails.
00:10:41.680 Oh, you do?
00:10:42.080 Mm-hmm.
00:10:43.200 Yeah.
00:10:43.680 Cute.
00:10:44.240 I, uh, I did it myself.
00:10:45.760 I like that one.
00:10:46.960 I, I, I don't know.
00:10:48.320 I like to be artsy with it.
00:10:49.920 You don't have to explain.
00:10:51.840 Because, you know.
00:10:52.560 I like that one.
00:10:53.680 You're looking for a wife? 0.98
00:10:54.560 A wife? 0.97
00:10:56.000 Mm-hmm.
00:10:56.960 If a wife happens to appear in front of me. 0.96
00:11:00.240 Mm-hmm.
00:11:00.960 Ta-da.
00:11:01.920 Ta-da.
00:11:02.960 How's your day going?
00:11:04.080 Pretty good.
00:11:04.960 Pretty good?
00:11:06.160 Out with some friends.
00:11:07.120 It's a beautiful Friday.
00:11:08.000 It is, right?
00:11:08.960 What are you drinking there?
00:11:10.240 Is that a Moscow Mule? 1.00
00:11:12.320 Oh, fuck, I called it. 1.00
00:11:14.480 Why can't I know that? 1.00
00:11:15.520 Because in a Mule Cup, it's not that hard to, like, decipher.
00:11:19.040 You have a point.
00:11:20.640 No, he, he, he could have spun it from there, yeah. 1.00
00:11:23.600 Oh, I feel stupid. 0.98
00:11:26.000 No, okay, we'll get a laugh. 0.99
00:11:27.680 Good, don't.
00:11:28.400 Good, good.
00:11:29.200 Let that be a humbling moment. 0.99
00:11:30.320 I want to feel stupid more often. 0.99
00:11:31.600 Aw, now she's in charge. 1.00
00:11:33.680 Purge that.
00:11:34.240 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:34.640 That's how you grow.
00:11:35.360 Yeah.
00:11:35.840 That's how it, see?
00:11:36.640 That's how men grow. 0.96
00:11:37.680 That's how you guys get.
00:11:38.400 Aw, now she's belittling him.
00:11:40.160 Now it's a feminist moment. 0.99
00:11:41.360 This is, this is.
00:11:42.480 That's the dynamic he's setting when he's acting like this.
00:11:45.600 Yeah, his frame is off.
00:11:46.880 His frame is all off.
00:11:47.520 Yeah, I need, I need.
00:11:48.800 He's not creepy. 1.00
00:11:49.440 He's just coming off like a pussy. 1.00
00:11:50.880 Stop. 1.00
00:11:51.840 I need to just pet the dog more.
00:11:53.200 That's what I need.
00:11:53.920 Ugh.
00:11:54.800 Just try to pet the dog.
00:11:55.920 Oh! 0.60
00:11:59.440 Bro is getting demolished right now, bro. 1.00
00:12:02.960 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:12:04.480 Are you nervous? 1.00
00:12:05.600 No.
00:12:06.240 Do I seem nervous?
00:12:06.960 A little bit.
00:12:08.080 I, I mean, I'm not nervous.
00:12:12.160 I'm on camera.
00:12:13.680 My riz is being analyzed right now.
00:12:15.920 I'm so nervous.
00:12:18.160 I'm fine.
00:12:18.880 I'm good.
00:12:21.600 I didn't get, I didn't even get your guys' names.
00:12:23.840 I'm Jonah.
00:12:24.560 Nice to meet you, Jonah.
00:12:26.000 Nice to meet you guys.
00:12:26.960 Nice to meet you.
00:12:28.160 What are you up to for the rest of the day?
00:12:31.040 Nothing with you.
00:12:31.760 Just hanging out.
00:12:34.320 Hanging out.
00:12:34.800 Yeah.
00:12:35.360 Enjoying the day.
00:12:38.320 Hey.
00:12:40.080 Relax.
00:12:40.480 Bro, he's going to the dog for his little safe space to go and like avoid eye contact.
00:12:44.960 The dog is the little like, oh God, please help.
00:12:47.520 Does, does Leo know any?
00:12:49.120 Don't discipline my dog.
00:12:53.120 Bro, now you can't.
00:12:54.240 He lost his safe space.
00:12:55.840 Don't discipline my dog.
00:12:57.600 It's over, bro.
00:12:58.880 Hey, for instance, WStreamBuffCo.
00:13:00.320 I appreciate you reposting my gym stories.
00:13:01.520 Motivating to know I connect with the fans.
00:13:02.720 El Riz, bro.
00:13:03.760 I'll see you tomorrow.
00:13:04.400 Post the gym story every single day.
00:13:05.920 BuffCo.
00:13:06.320 Let's go, bro.
00:13:06.960 BuffCo.
00:13:09.360 Are you trying to do the dog thing on me?
00:13:10.800 What dog thing?
00:13:11.760 That was a little bit patronizing.
00:13:13.760 Was it? 1.00
00:13:15.760 BuffCo, faggot. 1.00
00:13:19.680 El Sticko in the chat. 1.00
00:13:20.720 I know.
00:13:20.960 We're not going to do that.
00:13:21.920 Dog.
00:13:23.680 Chill out.
00:13:24.720 It's fine.
00:13:25.280 We're good.
00:13:25.440 It was nice meeting you.
00:13:26.480 I'm sorry.
00:13:30.800 Nice meeting you.
00:13:31.440 Have a good one.
00:13:32.000 Come on.
00:13:33.200 Okay.
00:13:34.640 Okay.
00:13:35.200 Let me.
00:13:35.920 No.
00:13:36.080 Oh, God.
00:13:36.480 He heard the she's cringing right now. 1.00
00:13:39.840 I fucked it up. 1.00
00:13:42.480 With the discipline. 0.98
00:13:44.640 All right. 1.00
00:13:44.960 Fuck. 1.00
00:13:45.200 Sorry. 1.00
00:13:50.800 No, bro.
00:13:51.360 I fucked it up. 0.95
00:13:52.000 Bro, bro, bro. 0.98
00:13:53.120 Listen, listen.
00:13:53.840 That was brutal.
00:13:55.040 You're just like, you're too stressed out.
00:13:56.800 And you're not witty. 1.00
00:13:57.600 It seemed like she was going to be fucking you. 1.00
00:13:59.200 So you need to go back. 1.00
00:14:00.000 Like you own this shit. 1.00
00:14:01.280 And you need to ask her out. 1.00
00:14:03.040 What?
00:14:03.760 Don't make him go back.
00:14:05.360 Don't make him go back.
00:14:07.120 That's it.
00:14:08.080 Wait.
00:14:08.400 So just help me.
00:14:10.080 Help me.
00:14:10.480 Help me.
00:14:11.040 Basically, like, she outwitted you.
00:14:13.680 You know, you-
00:14:14.240 She outwitted me? 1.00
00:14:14.880 Yeah, like she- 1.00
00:14:15.520 I kind of fucked up. 0.97
00:14:16.720 Because the thing is, she's being playful, 0.99
00:14:18.480 but you're being too serious.
00:14:19.600 Being too-
00:14:20.560 Yeah.
00:14:20.880 Like, literal.
00:14:21.680 But regardless, uh, you should still go for what you want.
00:14:24.720 So I think you should still go for it, even if it's-
00:14:26.880 Even if the odds are against you.
00:14:28.400 All right.
00:14:28.960 So, I would like to hang out with you at some point.
00:14:33.760 You're back.
00:14:34.800 I'm back.
00:14:36.240 I-I had to express my desire.
00:14:39.120 So what happened when you walked away?
00:14:40.560 Did you, like, take-
00:14:41.760 Take a breather?
00:14:43.200 Take, like, a five-minute, like, reset?
00:14:45.520 Think about it a little bit.
00:14:46.240 Right now, you should joke back.
00:14:47.280 Like, yeah, I took a reset.
00:14:48.320 I figured it out.
00:14:48.960 And you know what?
00:14:49.760 I'm actually gonna go discipline your dog now. 1.00
00:14:51.680 Make a joke out of it.
00:14:52.720 See?
00:14:53.280 Make a joke out of it.
00:14:54.400 Go playful.
00:14:55.040 Pass the- 1.00
00:14:56.320 So this is a perfect example of how you lose the shit test. 1.00
00:14:59.040 Everything a woman does, especially when you first meet her, 1.00
00:15:01.200 is trying to qualify you as a man that is capable.
00:15:03.840 And he failed every single test, and now she's in charge.
00:15:07.440 So you have to not even play her game.
00:15:10.080 You can't-
00:15:10.640 She's the- 0.93
00:15:11.200 She's running game on him right now.
00:15:12.400 She's pimping him. 1.00
00:15:14.080 Don't play her shit test game. 1.00
00:15:16.000 Just- just own it, bro. 1.00
00:15:17.200 Own it.
00:15:17.760 Yeah, I'm gonna tell your dog what-
00:15:18.880 Yeah.
00:15:19.120 A little bit.
00:15:19.520 Yeah, I had to, like, revaluate my whole-
00:15:21.760 My whole-
00:15:22.320 Nope, nope, nope, nope.
00:15:23.520 Life's decisions.
00:15:25.280 My future in life.
00:15:26.240 My goals.
00:15:26.720 Did you?
00:15:27.280 My passions.
00:15:27.920 Did you?
00:15:29.120 Yeah.
00:15:30.160 Very-
00:15:30.560 I mean, I think I've changed.
00:15:32.000 Did you?
00:15:32.400 I've changed.
00:15:32.960 In the 10 minutes.
00:15:34.000 He's still qualifying himself.
00:15:35.200 Can you see how she's just running with it? 0.75
00:15:36.480 I'm- I'm a better man-
00:15:37.920 Are you?
00:15:38.480 Than I was.
00:15:39.520 Are you? 0.99
00:15:40.320 Literally shit test, like, in verb, but- 1.00
00:15:42.800 Are you? 0.99
00:15:44.080 Are you?
00:15:46.480 Yeah, reformed.
00:15:47.840 You know, more mature, sophisticated-
00:15:50.160 You're not gonna discipline other people's dogs?
00:15:52.640 No.
00:15:53.120 Nice.
00:15:53.680 No.
00:15:53.840 Okay.
00:15:54.640 Yeah.
00:15:55.360 That's-
00:15:55.760 That's what we learned.
00:15:56.880 We learned that today.
00:15:58.320 If we learn anything.
00:15:59.200 Good.
00:16:00.000 Yeah.
00:16:00.560 And I-
00:16:01.120 Yeah.
00:16:01.680 I'd like to hang- 1.00
00:16:02.720 No, she's just a bitch and doesn't want other people disciplining her dog. 1.00
00:16:05.920 It's not even about the dog. 1.00
00:16:07.440 It's-
00:16:07.840 It's not about the dog.
00:16:09.360 Wombo wifey has nothing to do with the dog. 0.98
00:16:11.920 Nothing.
00:16:12.320 She found a way to tell him, 1.00
00:16:14.320 You're a bitch. 1.00
00:16:15.680 And is running with- 1.00
00:16:16.400 You don't care about a guy disciplining your dog.
00:16:18.080 Who cares about that?
00:16:18.880 I don't, but-
00:16:19.920 Nobody does.
00:16:21.040 Nobody does.
00:16:21.920 She sensed his weakness and took advantage of it,
00:16:24.080 and now she has a reason to be in charge of him.
00:16:26.800 It has nothing to do with the dog.
00:16:28.880 Hang out with you.
00:16:30.960 That's cute.
00:16:32.080 See?
00:16:32.640 She just wants to like-
00:16:34.320 That's cute.
00:16:36.320 Let me get your number.
00:16:38.080 You think I'm going to give you my number?
00:16:39.360 Oh my god.
00:16:41.200 I think so.
00:16:41.680 Yeah.
00:16:44.000 Here we go.
00:16:46.720 Your face is twitching.
00:16:48.320 It's twitching?
00:16:49.040 Yeah.
00:16:50.560 Did he get the number?
00:16:51.760 It's not twitching.
00:16:53.200 You know what?
00:16:54.080 Fine.
00:16:55.760 For your-
00:16:56.240 For the persistence.
00:16:58.960 All right.
00:16:59.600 Well, we'll hang out.
00:17:01.040 We'll see.
00:17:02.640 Okay.
00:17:03.200 Maybe I'll be more-
00:17:05.120 They might actually go out.
00:17:07.200 They might-
00:17:07.760 She might actually be-
00:17:09.360 Loving with your dog.
00:17:12.080 Why don't you just drop this facade?
00:17:14.240 This cool-
00:17:14.960 This cool guy facade.
00:17:16.640 Yeah.
00:17:18.080 I think things would work out a little bit better for you.
00:17:20.880 If I drop the facade?
00:17:21.840 Yeah.
00:17:22.080 Am I supposed to be like this like-
00:17:25.520 More like Leo.
00:17:26.480 Just be who you are.
00:17:27.520 I'm like, yeah.
00:17:28.720 But the sly thing is working for you.
00:17:30.720 The lie thing?
00:17:31.440 The sly thing.
00:17:32.320 Sly?
00:17:32.880 Yeah.
00:17:33.280 It's kind of like cringy to see.
00:17:37.680 It is?
00:17:38.560 Yeah.
00:17:38.800 So you gotta switch it up a little bit.
00:17:40.800 Okay.
00:17:41.840 I don't know.
00:17:42.480 You're attractive and it makes me nervous and-
00:17:44.720 I know it makes you nervous.
00:17:45.440 I'm like-
00:17:46.400 I think I'm doing fine.
00:17:50.640 I'm doing great.
00:17:51.680 Okay.
00:17:53.760 Keep telling yourself that.
00:17:54.960 You're going to try to continue a conversation after that?
00:17:59.680 I don't know what to do.
00:18:00.640 There's no like-
00:18:01.200 I don't think there's like a rule book on like what to do.
00:18:05.440 I'm winging it for sure.
00:18:06.960 You are definitely winging it.
00:18:08.720 We're going to wrap up though and we're going to go walk and continue our day.
00:18:13.440 Yeah.
00:18:13.520 Why are you still there?
00:18:15.760 It was good talking to you.
00:18:16.720 This was like a-
00:18:18.560 Was it a learning transfer moment?
00:18:21.440 It might have been.
00:18:22.480 I hope so.
00:18:23.440 All right.
00:18:24.000 Well, I'll talk to you later.
00:18:26.320 Cool.
00:18:26.960 All right.
00:18:27.840 Peace.
00:18:28.320 I thought she was just playing with you and you were just kind of like-
00:18:30.880 Ah, I don't know.
00:18:31.840 You just couldn't-
00:18:32.480 Literally.
00:18:33.360 Then I think you missed so many opportunities to make fun of her and to play with her.
00:18:37.280 She's hot. 1.00
00:18:37.760 I mean, we're not making fun of you and whatever, but like it's fine.
00:18:40.560 You know, just eventually you'll-
00:18:42.880 It's all a process of iteration.
00:18:44.160 Process.
00:18:44.800 But this was just funny because she was-
00:18:47.360 She was very good at it.
00:18:48.480 Like she really just like-
00:18:49.840 She's very-
00:18:50.560 She was basically in control of this whole interaction.
00:18:52.880 Yeah.
00:18:53.280 And you would-
00:18:53.920 And it seemed like you were looking for her validation.
00:18:56.240 Like all the time.
00:18:56.880 Yeah.
00:18:57.280 You need to own the moment.
00:18:58.320 Own the moment.
00:18:58.800 You need to know what you're doing.
00:18:59.760 And-
00:19:00.160 Dude, when she's- 0.74
00:19:00.560 And stop being so impressed.
00:19:01.760 I- I am really impressed with his ability to not be destroyed right now.
00:19:06.240 Like I- I'm happy that he got in and stepped out of his comfort zone to do this. 0.97
00:19:09.280 That takes a lot of balls, bro.
00:19:10.880 And he's- 0.98
00:19:11.520 Look at him like looking-
00:19:12.400 Studying.
00:19:12.800 He's really trying to learn, man.
00:19:14.400 Most people who like in that situation where they don't know,
00:19:16.800 they'll never put themselves through these uncomfortable situations to get better.
00:19:20.320 But he's going to be better after this, man.
00:19:22.480 He's-
00:19:23.040 This is an attractive guy.
00:19:24.320 Bumble Claude, I know.
00:19:25.120 Bumble Claude!
00:19:26.160 Gets more sun, better haircut.
00:19:27.520 He's tall.
00:19:28.480 Right?
00:19:28.800 Decent frame.
00:19:29.440 He needs to work out a little more.
00:19:30.560 Not an ugly guy. 0.73
00:19:31.440 Right.
00:19:31.680 It's literally all to do with confidence.
00:19:33.680 Yeah.
00:19:35.440 You know, she's just a person.
00:19:36.400 Yeah, man.
00:19:36.880 You know, but honestly-
00:19:37.840 I tried my best.
00:19:38.960 Honestly, I think this is-
00:19:39.760 I did.
00:19:40.240 I think this is one of my favorite interactions of the whole channel.
00:19:43.840 Really?
00:19:44.640 Yeah, that was, that was, that was-
00:19:46.640 I swear, like she was, she was so good.
00:19:48.480 She was good. 1.00
00:19:49.280 I fucked up. 1.00
00:19:50.400 As if you were like a little thug and you went like this, you know? 1.00
00:19:53.360 For real. 0.93
00:19:54.400 Yeah, I know.
00:19:57.280 Are you guys in line?
00:19:59.280 Are you guys in line for the-
00:20:01.440 What are you in line for?
00:20:02.000 Are you just, uh, chilling or?
00:20:03.920 We're just taking some pictures.
00:20:04.880 Are you just taking some pictures?
00:20:06.320 Yeah.
00:20:06.400 Cause I saw the guy was-
00:20:08.720 I don't know if you guys were involved with that.
00:20:10.400 Oh, we're just watching the photos.
00:20:11.760 Oh, you're just watching the photos.
00:20:12.800 Yeah.
00:20:13.120 Oh, okay.
00:20:13.760 Cool.
00:20:14.160 How's your day going?
00:20:15.280 It's great, thank you.
00:20:16.480 Good?
00:20:16.960 Yeah.
00:20:17.280 I'm just here with a friend.
00:20:18.640 I was just walking by.
00:20:19.360 Awesome.
00:20:20.160 Saw you.
00:20:21.200 Enjoy your day.
00:20:22.080 Thanks for saying hi.
00:20:22.880 Yeah, yeah.
00:20:23.920 Um, yeah.
00:20:26.240 I mean, has your day been good and-
00:20:27.840 It's been great.
00:20:28.400 Oh my god, you asked about the day already, man.
00:20:30.640 Ponder the conversation point.
00:20:32.000 Great.
00:20:32.320 Yeah.
00:20:33.440 Yeah.
00:20:34.560 My day has been great as well.
00:20:36.000 Oh.
00:20:37.120 So, it's a good-
00:20:38.880 Like, it's-
00:20:39.440 It's clear, you know?
00:20:41.680 Oh! 0.60
00:20:43.280 This is the McLovin rinse, bro.
00:20:45.760 It's a clear day.
00:20:48.640 Like, not been raining.
00:20:49.600 It's very-
00:20:50.160 Oh! 0.60
00:20:51.040 This can't be raining!
00:20:52.160 It's not-
00:20:53.680 It's not raining!
00:20:55.280 It's not raining!
00:20:56.240 Yeah. 1.00
00:20:57.200 Such a stupid question. 1.00
00:20:58.160 Do you come here like- 1.00
00:20:58.800 Do you come here often?
00:20:59.440 Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
00:21:02.560 Sorry, if you don't-
00:21:03.520 Okay!
00:21:04.080 Sorry.
00:21:04.720 All good.
00:21:05.280 Have a good day.
00:21:05.680 All good.
00:21:06.080 Have a good day.
00:21:06.720 Have a good one.
00:21:07.600 That was pretty rough, I think.
00:21:09.360 They said, have a good day.
00:21:10.720 At that point, you go.
00:21:12.400 You said, have a good day.
00:21:13.760 Okay.
00:21:14.320 That's where I-
00:21:14.800 It's not raining.
00:21:15.360 It's like a clear day.
00:21:16.560 So, how's your day?
00:21:17.520 Nice day.
00:21:18.080 It's like-
00:21:18.720 Rough.
00:21:19.600 Good day.
00:21:20.640 Going on to like-
00:21:21.600 Anything I could to like-
00:21:22.640 Keep the conversation going.
00:21:24.080 Straight away from the beginning like-
00:21:25.760 You're not genuine.
00:21:26.800 You come, you ask if they're in line.
00:21:28.640 Like you-
00:21:29.280 You create this like-
00:21:30.320 False story about why you're talking to them.
00:21:32.880 They don't know what you want.
00:21:34.320 You know, you didn't hit on this girl.
00:21:35.840 Yeah.
00:21:36.160 You just came and you made random conversation.
00:21:38.560 You know? 1.00
00:21:39.200 So, stop with the bullshit. 1.00
00:21:40.960 Yeah. 1.00
00:21:41.120 Just say why you're here.
00:21:42.320 You're very cute.
00:21:43.120 How are you?
00:21:44.400 Good, how are you?
00:21:45.280 I'm good.
00:21:46.960 How's your day going?
00:21:47.920 Not great.
00:21:50.160 Not good?
00:21:50.720 Not great, no.
00:21:51.840 Why?
00:21:52.800 I locked my keys, my phone, and my wallet, and my car.
00:21:56.320 We just had to wait for two hours to get it unlocked.
00:21:58.400 So, we just started with one of the reservations.
00:22:00.800 Your reservations?
00:22:01.920 Yeah. 1.00
00:22:02.720 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:22:03.520 You crazy, right? 1.00
00:22:04.240 Sounds like a bad day. 0.98
00:22:05.680 Yeah, but I was able to go take pictures.
00:22:07.280 So, it was nice to meet you.
00:22:08.480 Nice to meet you.
00:22:09.600 Are you for real?
00:22:10.720 If he had offered the help, that's-
00:22:12.480 That's what I'm saying.
00:22:13.200 Like, let's go help.
00:22:13.920 Let's go find the keys.
00:22:14.720 Yeah.
00:22:15.520 Yeah.
00:22:16.240 I thought we could make your day a little bit better.
00:22:18.240 Maybe we could hang out.
00:22:25.520 All right, kids.
00:22:26.080 Like, we could exchange.
00:22:28.000 I actually have a girlfriend.
00:22:29.680 Oh, okay.
00:22:30.160 I'm sorry.
00:22:30.960 Cool.
00:22:31.200 No, that's no worries.
00:22:32.160 So nice to meet you.
00:22:33.120 Yeah, nice to meet you.
00:22:33.840 At least you went, you went for what you want, right?
00:22:36.080 You have to practice going for what you want.
00:22:37.760 Yeah.
00:22:38.080 And always reaching for what you want.
00:22:39.920 You have to create this habit of being good to yourself.
00:22:42.240 Yeah.
00:22:42.480 Because the more, you know, like if every time you touch yourself, you second guess yourself
00:22:46.880 and you never go, you never reach for actually what you want.
00:22:50.800 You know, you're just, so what, you're just, you're just acting up the beginning. 1.00
00:22:54.320 And then, and then it's just bullshit. 0.99
00:22:56.080 Yeah, you're right. 0.99
00:22:56.960 So just, just go for what you want.
00:22:58.400 But that was, that was good.
00:22:59.520 Thanks.
00:22:59.920 I took some readings, but I, it was, it was so worth it.
00:23:04.320 You won't scar, you won't scar.
00:23:05.280 I won't scar.
00:23:06.400 That girl's, that girl's red hair. 0.99
00:23:08.160 It's some cream tonight though.
00:23:09.760 I couldn't leave Jonah like this, so get ready for part two.
00:23:12.480 Hi, how's it going?
00:23:14.080 We're in the sun.
00:23:14.880 Here, how's that?
00:23:15.600 He got a haircut.
00:23:16.880 Good to meet you.
00:23:17.840 Good to meet you.
00:23:18.960 Thanks.
00:23:20.800 And you got some drip.
00:23:21.920 Yeah, that's awesome.
00:23:24.560 Man, shout out to this guy.
00:23:25.680 Shout out to this guy. 0.98
00:23:26.480 This is, they take some balls, bro. 0.98
00:23:29.920 Whew. 0.97
00:23:31.200 Whew.
00:23:32.240 But I think this experience is going to make a much better chat.
00:23:34.320 It's, look, it's okay to be uncomfortable.
00:23:37.520 You got to put your, you got to put yourself to pain, man.
00:23:45.200 That's it.
00:23:45.600 Is this your job?