Tate Speech - January 03, 2020


EP122 - Tate on The Worst Thing I Ever Did To A Woman

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London Knife Crime Epidemic EP123 - Tate on the Royal Family

Episode Stats


Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

243.69

Word count

1,385

Sentence count

130


Transcript

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00:00:12.000 I don't want to get banned.
00:00:13.000 So I have to be careful how I say this story.
00:00:15.000 Because I don't want to get deplatformed.
00:00:18.000 I don't want the feminists or the misogynist crew or anyone to come after me.
00:00:22.000 I'm just going to tell you all a little story.
00:00:24.000 Once I was dating a girl I fucking hated.
00:00:28.000 I hated everything about her.
00:00:29.000 I didn't like her opinions.
00:00:31.000 I didn't like what she said.
00:00:32.000 I didn't like her attitude.
00:00:33.000 She was arrogant.
00:00:34.000 She was rude to the waiters.
00:00:35.000 I just didn't like her.
00:00:37.000 But she was very good looking.
00:00:39.000 And I was sitting there thinking, I don't like this person.
00:00:41.000 Which is actually quite rare for me.
00:00:43.000 I know you're all sitting there thinking I'm a hateful guy.
00:00:45.000 I'm the opposite of hate film.
00:00:46.000 I'm apathetic.
00:00:47.000 I'm like, whatever, whatever, whatever.
00:00:49.000 I don't care about anyone else.
00:00:50.000 I'm extremely selfish.
00:00:51.000 It's all about me.
00:00:52.000 And that's why my life's so fantastic.
00:00:54.000 So it takes a lot of energy for me to hate someone.
00:00:56.000 We were on a date and she was extremely rude to the staff.
00:00:59.000 And she was rude to me, extremely arrogant when she'd achieved nothing.
00:01:03.000 She was just born hot.
00:01:04.000 Like I just didn't like anything about that person.
00:01:07.000 So anyway, but she was hot.
00:01:11.000 So it was kind of a weird dynamic.
00:01:13.000 Every time I dated her, I'd think, you know, I don't want to date this girl again.
00:01:15.000 And then I'd be talking to her and she'd humble herself just enough to squeeze another date out of me.
00:01:19.000 Most of you dorks, most of you dudes out here are trying to fuck anything you can get.
00:01:23.000 At the top, I reject far more girls than I ever sleep with.
00:01:26.000 This is what happens when you're like a millionaire athlete, blah, blah, blah.
00:01:28.000 Don't want to brag or nothing, but we all know it's true.
00:01:31.000 So you turn down a lot of girls.
00:01:32.000 So I'm sitting there thinking, does this girl deserve dick or not?
00:01:34.000 Whatever, whatever.
00:01:36.000 Anyway, I went to the club.
00:01:37.000 The interest to do something called a wrangle.
00:01:39.000 When we go to the club, we do wrangling.
00:01:41.000 So we wrangle girls.
00:01:42.000 So it's just like any and all girls for the table.
00:01:43.000 So we wrangled.
00:01:44.000 I invited her.
00:01:44.000 She turns up to the club, drinking, drinking, whatever, whatever.
00:01:46.000 Ends up back at the house.
00:01:48.000 And what happened afterwards.
00:01:51.000 Was probably, I wouldn't say it's one of the worst things I've ever done, but when I told this story, everyone was like, whoa, you can't do that.
00:01:57.000 But I did it.
00:01:58.000 So we're having sex, me and this chick, and halfway through, I remembered all the time she annoyed me on dates.
00:02:04.000 And halfway through, I stopped and said, I've changed my mind.
00:02:10.000 I'm laughing.
00:02:11.000 She was like, what?
00:02:13.000 I changed my mind.
00:02:13.000 I just decided I don't want to anymore.
00:02:14.000 I changed my mind.
00:02:16.000 Now, if a girl does that to a guy, that's fine.
00:02:18.000 If a girl says, no, stop, and you carry on, you're a rapist, they can do it all the time.
00:02:22.000 But because I did it to a girl, When I told some people, they all lost their minds.
00:02:25.000 You can't do that.
00:02:26.000 Why can't I do that?
00:02:27.000 Because I've destroyed her self esteem.
00:02:30.000 Well, she goes, What do you mean you change your mind?
00:02:31.000 I was like, Maybe get dressed and go or stay.
00:02:33.000 I don't know.
00:02:34.000 It's up to you, but I've changed my mind.
00:02:35.000 I don't want to anymore.
00:02:36.000 She's like, Why?
00:02:36.000 I was like, I don't know.
00:02:37.000 I just don't want to.
00:02:38.000 I didn't tell her because I don't like her as a person and because she's nasty inside.
00:02:41.000 I didn't tell her that.
00:02:42.000 I mean, she's hot.
00:02:43.000 But now I've seen her titties.
00:02:44.000 I played with her titties a bit.
00:02:46.000 You know, I fucked her a bit.
00:02:47.000 Like, I don't want to.
00:02:49.000 Like, I'm done now.
00:02:51.000 I've seen it.
00:02:51.000 I don't like you.
00:02:52.000 I don't want to.
00:02:54.000 So I stopped, I went to the bathroom, came back, she's getting dressed, in a mood, I already called her Uber, on the verge of tears.
00:03:01.000 I was like, look, you can be angry if you want, I don't want you to be angry or anything, I just changed my mind.
00:03:07.000 I hope you get home, message me, you get home safe, off you go.
00:03:09.000 And then obviously she left and my girlfriend came around to finish it up.
00:03:12.000 So when I told people this, everyone's like, oh, you can't do that, you can't do that, oh, pure evil, all this shit.
00:03:19.000 So basically they're saying I've destroyed her self-confidence and destroyed her self-esteem and I shouldn't have done what I did.
00:03:23.000 But girls can do that kind of shit to men all the time.
00:03:26.000 So, when I told this story, one guy said to me, I'm going to start doing that as a matter of habit.
00:03:29.000 And I do not recommend that.
00:03:31.000 I'm not saying you should do that as a matter of habit.
00:03:32.000 But perhaps you need a nuclear weapon.
00:03:35.000 Perhaps out there, guys, you're dating some girl and you don't like her.
00:03:39.000 You don't like anything about her.
00:03:41.000 And you just want to do something truly evil for once in your life.
00:03:44.000 If you want to destroy her self esteem, if you want to make her afraid to ever have sex with a new guy ever again, if you want her to look in the mirror and say, What's wrong with me?
00:03:52.000 Is it my tits?
00:03:53.000 Is it my face?
00:03:54.000 Do I need a new nose?
00:03:55.000 Do you want to inspire a girl to get fucking facial surgery and Mess with her face and fillers and just destroy her self confidence, especially these Instagram girls, because all they're based on is how they look.
00:04:06.000 If you want to destroy us females from the inside out, that's how you do it.
00:04:10.000 So, this girl, that's not the end of the story.
00:04:12.000 This girl, I mean, we were texting a little bit afterwards.
00:04:15.000 She was trying to get to the bottom of why I decided to stop.
00:04:21.000 She couldn't understand.
00:04:21.000 Like, she must have spent time staring in the mirror and being like, Am I ugly?
00:04:25.000 You know, what did you not like about me?
00:04:27.000 Am I ugly?
00:04:27.000 Am I ugly?
00:04:28.000 Because girls can't stand being ugly.
00:04:29.000 We all live in a very shallow society, especially for females.
00:04:32.000 They base their entire self worth on how they look.
00:04:34.000 And I was like, No, look, I just changed my mind.
00:04:36.000 There was no.
00:04:37.000 Secret, I just changed my mind.
00:04:38.000 You're a nice person.
00:04:39.000 I wish you the best.
00:04:41.000 Bye.
00:04:41.000 And the fact I didn't want to ever see her again drove her nuts.
00:04:44.000 I couldn't stand it.
00:04:45.000 So she tried for a very long time to get another date out of me.
00:04:49.000 It was a weird power dynamic.
00:04:52.000 She was trying to get another date out of me, but I know if I would have gone on that date, she would have never slept with me.
00:04:55.000 That would have been her revenge, wasting my time on dates.
00:04:58.000 So every time she tried to hint at a date, I just refused to go.
00:05:01.000 So she was texting me for a long time.
00:05:02.000 She couldn't get over it.
00:05:03.000 She's probably still not over it.
00:05:04.000 How can you get over it?
00:05:06.000 Halfway through, sorry, I changed my mind.
00:05:09.000 I shouldn't laugh.
00:05:10.000 Anyway, but this girl ended up having loads of surgery.
00:05:13.000 She was quite natural before.
00:05:15.000 She ended up having fake tits and a nose job and like Botox in her face and lip injections, all this crazy shit.
00:05:20.000 And I'm starting to, and when I saw, this is a few years ago, but I saw her a few months ago on Instagram.
00:05:25.000 She's had all this work done.
00:05:26.000 And I think that might be my fault.
00:05:28.000 I think I might have destroyed her self-esteem and then she went down the surgery avenue and just spent loads and loads of money to try and feel better.
00:05:34.000 And she doesn't look as good now as she did then.
00:05:36.000 She's ruined herself, really.
00:05:37.000 And maybe it is my fault, but I don't give a fuck, so.