00:00:27.000The reason I'm telling you this story is because actually, one of the few times in my life, I felt sorry for someone.
00:00:31.000I don't usually feel sorry for people.
00:00:32.000I'm very much like, you know, The life you live is your own responsibility, and where you end up in life is your own fault.
00:00:39.000And to a degree, yeah, people are born with shit hands.
00:00:41.000Obviously, if you're born in Yemen, you know, into like a sheep-herding family, you're never going to be a fucking tech billionaire or whatever.
00:00:48.000But I'm just saying, in general, in the Western world, I'm not much one for sympathy.
00:00:52.000But I ended up feeling sorry for this guy.
00:00:53.000So, long story short, what happened was the girl who called Tristan had cut him up.
00:02:07.000I said, he was completely in the right.
00:02:10.000From a traffic perspective, so you have to understand this dude's driving down the road.
00:02:15.000Some who's 10 out of 10, hotter than he will ever get in his life, pulls out directly in front of him in a Porsche can.
00:02:22.000My guy has an old Citroën worth about $4,000.
00:02:26.000This girl's driving, and this is in Romania, this is where the average wage is about 500 euro a month.
00:02:30.000This girl's driving a 95,000 euro car.
00:02:33.000Um, so she's in the upper echelons of income, like me and Tristan are.
00:02:37.000So you're driving down the road, you're 30 something.
00:02:41.000Your life hasn't gone the way you want it to.
00:02:43.000You ain't got a wife, and if you do, she's fucking ugly.
00:02:46.000You're driving a shitty car, and some fucking bitch, like hot, the kind of hot girl who's never spoken to you, never given you the time of day, pulls out directly in front of you in a car you could never afford, ever.
00:03:00.000Of course, you're gonna be frustrated.
00:03:01.000Like, I was saying to Tristan, I understand why this guy got pissed off.
00:03:05.000Obviously, you're gonna be like, fucking, and you know, it could have just been a bad day, and things could be adding up, and eventually, because of traffic, because she couldn't escape, he gets out, starts hitting on her car, saying, You stupid bitch, you pulled out.
00:03:16.000You broke the rules of the road, da da da.
00:03:17.000But really, his frustration is not that she pulled out, his frustration is at life.
00:03:21.000And then to add insult to injury, half a million dollars of the cars pull up.
00:03:25.000She makes one phone call while you're yelling at her, this pretty girl.
00:03:29.000And half a million dollars of cars turn up, and me and Tristan get out.
00:03:33.000And I got 350 kilo of kickboxer coming up to rough you up, even though she's totally wrong.
00:03:39.000And the reason I felt sorry for him, and I'll say to Tristan, is it just shows that everyone has a place in life.
00:04:00.000We have a lot of assets that go in our favor.
00:04:02.000But I'd say we're in the top 5 to 10% of men on the planet in terms of our achievements and our abilities, etc., etc.
00:04:08.000But this poor dude, when Tristan had him all gripped up and his anger had turned from anger into pure, not even fear, it was more just like submission.
00:04:16.000Like, this pretty bitch with her expensive car has just called the half a million dollar police.
00:04:22.000And I can't fuck with people on this level.
00:04:24.000He was just like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
00:04:35.000For me, it's even hard for me to articulate.
00:04:37.000I was just saying to Tristan, it shows that there's different places in life that this woman can go through the world driving wrong, driving like a prick, and as soon as someone loses their temper with her, that's the person who ends up going home feeling disheartened.
00:04:52.000That's the kind of shit that's just the final nail in the coffin.
00:04:54.000When you go home, you park your shit car, you go into your shit house, you look around at your shit life, and you think, who the fuck is this girl can just pull out on me anytime she wants and call these two kickboxers and just Lambo and this ass to come and rough me up?
00:05:06.000I wasn't even in the wrong in the first place.
00:05:07.000Maybe I shouldn't have yelled at her car, but she shouldn't have pulled out on me.
00:05:10.000And this is why when people say to me, Tate, you're obsessed with money, I say, no.
00:05:14.000I'm obsessed with not being in that position.
00:05:17.000I'm never going to let me live my only one life on this planet and waste my years of consciousness in that position.
00:05:25.000I don't want to be the guy who's 37, driving a fucking shitty Citroën, who gets pulled out on a girl who's too hot for me, driving a car I can never afford, who can call fucking dudes, psycho kickboxers.
00:05:38.000With fucking Lambos and Asens to turn up and bust me up.
00:05:42.000I'm never going to accept that submissive position.
00:05:45.000And that's why I say when I talk about money and achievement and training and all these things and how important they are, because if you don't find those things important, well, then you're just accepting your place lower down.
00:05:54.000And I don't think anyone should have to live that way.
00:05:55.000I genuinely, genuinely felt sorry for that dude.