Tate on Realistic Happiness
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Summary
The modern world has told everyone they're supposed to be happy all of the time, but I don't think that's true. I've met a lot of people who are unhappy, and I'm here to tell you that you don't deserve to be unhappy because you're not meant to be that way. You don't need to be sad all the time. You need to get up and get something that makes you happy, because you deserve it, and if you get it, you'll be happy too. But if you don t get it then you'll go on a death spiral downwards, which is why people who abuse substances are doing it to try and chase one thing that won't provide them with happiness over the long term, and that's drugs and alcohol, because that's the only thing that can provide them temporary happiness. And if they don't have it, they'll end up in a place where they're not happy, and they won't be happy for a long time. And that's why they're addicted to drugs, alcohol, and other things that don't make them happy. because they have no emotional control over their emotions. And this is why they end up with a life of sadness, depression, and a lack of happiness, because they can't control their emotions or their emotions, and this is how they get angry and sad, and their life goes downhill from there. If you want to change your life, you have to change the way you feel like shit, because there's nothing you can change the situation you're in life, and the only way you can, because it's all a matter of how you feel, and it's a disease, not a disorder, and you have no control over it. I'm not here to help you change it, I am here to teach you how to become happier, and help you become happier and more fulfilled, and so you can be happy, I hope this episode helps you understand the truth about happiness, and give you the tools you need to become more fulfilled and find happiness, not just the things you deserve to have it. I hope you enjoy this episode, because I hope it helps you to understand that you'll understand the secrets of the universe, because the universe is a place you can help you find happiness and you can find it, not only in your life and that you can learn how to be happier, but you can become more happy, not because you need it, and you will be more fulfilled.
Transcript
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so since i started taking emails from viewers i get lots of emails from people who are unhappy
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or discontent hey tate i'm really struggling or i'm really working at one day i want to blah blah
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blah i want you all to understand something about life the modern world has told everyone they're
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supposed to be happy all of the time and i don't think that's true because when i get your emails
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and if you include your instagram or something i look at your instagram and i realize you're a fat
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ugly sack of shit of course you're miserable if i was you i would be miserable there's no
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happiness in your existence discontentment and unhappiness is supposed to motivate you
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but you've been tricked by the modern world into thinking that there's a problem with you that it's
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a condition there's a disease there's something wrong with me completely incorrect when you feel
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like shit it's supposed to be warning you that your life is shit and something must change and it's
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supposed to inspire you to push harder i know people who are depressed but it inspires them to
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push further they're like i don't want this life fuck this i'm getting rich and there's also other
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people who are depressed who sit there and go i'm depressed i don't know why because you're broke
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because you're fat because you're a loser nobody told you at any point you're supposed to be happy
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all of the time you're not supposed to be happy happiness is on top of a mountain and you fuckers
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ain't earning it so i'm thinking about all the things that make me happy the fact i'm my beautiful
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physique like fucking hercules my lamp my lambo my house these bitches whatever i do whatever i
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enjoy at the moment all had to be earned my kickboxing world titles it was all earned i'm
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trying to think what happiness has just been given to me what happiness is given i can't even think of
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anything that can be given to you that will provide happiness over the long term the only thing that
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you can be given which will provide temporary happiness is substances and this is why people who
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abuse substances are doing it to try and chase one thing happiness doesn't matter if it's drugs or alcohol
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or anything else in fact every addict i've ever met has been a highly emotional person and i've met a
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lot of addicts i met a lot of alcoholics a lot of coke addicts everyone knows this so it's no big thing
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i used to sell drugs before i've never tried drugs in my life i've never even tried cocaine once but
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there was a period where i was selling drugs we're gonna do arrest me it was 10 years ago
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but every single addict i met is an extremely emotional person and when i say emotional i mean the
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kind of people who jump around in nightclubs and are extremely happy that's still emotional they
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have no stoicism you see these people in the club yeah the club britney spears rihanna yeah
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morons i i could win a hundred million dollars and i wouldn't scream like that and these people are
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screaming because rihanna's on a stage 40 meters that way at festival no wonder the world's fucked so
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extremely happy over dumb shit get angry or sad very quickly or for no real reason can't control
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their temper always talking about the past talk to an addict oh why are you drinking oh man you don't
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understand my life back in 2008 man crying about the past they live in the past and they're highly
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emotional people and they have no emotional control and because they believe they're supposed to be happy
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all the time they try and medicate themselves with substances they think well if i drink booze or i take
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drugs i will feel happy temporarily but of course that doesn't work it destroys their life everything
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gets worse it's a death spiral downwards so my view and i'm saying this now because i don't want to keep
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replying to these sad emails and i'm going to explain why in a second but if you're not happy you're not
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supposed to be happy because i'm happy because i deserve it and if you deserve to be happy you'd be happy
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too and that's the truth you don't deserve happiness until you get up and you go get it so don't email
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me anymore the reason i don't want any more emails when people tell me how unhappy they are is because
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there's also something else we have to discuss quickly nikolai tesla said something very interesting
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and it was if you want to understand the secrets of the universe you must think in terms of frequency
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vibration and energy and i for the last couple years have been paying very close attention to energy
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exchanges and how energy is generated between people so if i walk into a club and even if i don't do
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anything i just walk in everybody notices man woman staff everyone pays attention they are now aware that
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i have arrived and that happens because as the souls of humans evaporate in real time i absorb them
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like shang seng i steal energy from other people this is what i'm good at this is what i do what i don't
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like reading are low energy emails from low energy people because it's sapping i mean you can't sap my
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powers because my chi is too strong but it's just it's just it and i'm so sad i don't want to read it i
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don't want it in my existence i don't want it in my realm i'm a master of energy transfer and i don't i
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don't like that kind of energy transfer you have to email me things that provide me with energy and
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i'll reply and provide you with energy and we will spiral upwards while everyone else spirals downwards
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this is the truth most people are involved in low energy activities so let's look at the rihanna thing
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we were just talking about if you're a rihanna on stage and all these people are screaming at you
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think how much energy and attention and i'm talking energy in terms of genuine measures of energy
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like kilojolts of energy that can like heat up a cup of coffee screaming you can scream at a cup of
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coffee to make it hot i think it would take like three years or something but you could do it well
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between all those people you can heat up coffee pretty quickly genuine energy is coming her way and
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she's absorbing it all and you wonder why this bitches all these celebrities look good when they're
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old and why they're happy all the time now pseudoscience whatever but they're absorbing energy and
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attention from people and they seem to defy age and they're happy whereas the people in the crowd are
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giving all their energy away what are they getting back a recording of a song they could listen to on
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youtube and then they go home and they're depressed oh i really love that cancer but i'm having a come
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down now and i'm just sad and i can't wait for the next one that's not a fair exchange of energy
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you have to make sure that everything you're doing in your life there's an exchange i know a lot of people
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are watching this going what the fuck is tape talking about but you also have to understand i
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seem to do the impossible so i'm seeming to do the impossible in your eyes you have to understand i
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know things you do not know and one of the secrets to the universe is learning how to absorb the energy
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from other people and use it against them some people are energy takers others are energy givers
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there are producers in the world and there are consumers and what's actually interesting is if you
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talk about content being a producer is better than being a consumer but if you talk about energy
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be a consumer is better than being a producer so when i walk in the room the reason everyone
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fucking stares is because they can sense their powers being stolen from them i don't even have
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to do anything i just it's just who i am now i mean i this i so unsubconscious to me that is what i do
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when i was young and broke and poor and i was not nearly as important as i am today if i go to a
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business meeting with someone who was far more important than me i would steal as much of his
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energy as i could in the first five seconds and what i would do is i would shake his hand look him
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in the eye and i'd hold the handshake a little bit too long and let go and when i did that i was
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deliberately because he's the he's the boss i'm there to pitch to him he's the big rich guy i'm the
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young salesman blah blah blah when i did that it was deliberately to try and steal some of his power
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to use against him in that exchange you can steal people's power why do you think fighters look each
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other in the eyes before they fight have you ever fucked a bitch and look her direct in the eyes
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shit this shit's real back to the original point if you're unhappy you deserve it because you are
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not absorbing energy from other individuals you need to find a way to steal the energy from others
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there's only so much energy in the world you do not have enough of it i will teach you if you want
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to learn the secrets of energy absorption then you can email me i want to know the secrets of
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energy absorption here's the email address email me there do not use substances to try and give you
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happiness because they're not giving you they don't give you any genuine power the only genuine power
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are the evaporated souls of lesser men understand me