The Charlie Kirk Show - July 31, 2026


Dating, AI, and Iran with TPUSA Chapter Leaders Live from CLS


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00:00:03.000 My name is Charlie Kirk.
00:00:05.000 I run the largest pro-American student organization in the country fighting for the future of our republic.
00:00:11.000 My call is to fight evil and to proclaim truth.
00:00:14.000 If the most important thing for you is just feeling good, you're going to end up miserable.
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00:01:17.000 right, welcome everybody.
00:01:18.000 We are at Chapter Leadership Summit 2026 in Washington, D.C., our nation's capital.
00:01:23.000 We have over 2,500 of our top student leaders from Turning Point USA gathered together doing training, workshops, hearing from amazing speakers.
00:01:32.000 And we wanted to get their views and opinions on what's going on in the world.
00:01:36.000 There's a lot going on, there's a lot of opinions that We think the older generations and a lot of people in power really need to hear from younger Americans, people that are voting, that actually have real opinions that might diverge from the more establishment view, the more Washington, D.C. centric view,
00:01:51.000 or from an older generation's view.
00:01:53.000 And they are critically important to understand where the country is going and what's going to happen next.
00:01:57.000 So, gathered around this table are some of our amazing student leaders at Turning Point USA, and we're going to have them introduce themselves to you.
00:02:05.000 Hi, my name is Sephora Cremon, and I'm a senior at the University of Miami.
00:02:10.000 My name is Jacob York.
00:02:11.000 I am going to be a junior this fall.
00:02:13.000 I'm the president of the Turning Point chapter at Alva Nazarene University.
00:02:17.000 I'm Orion Musial.
00:02:17.000 Morning, guys.
00:02:18.000 I am a junior at Clemson University.
00:02:20.000 I'm Andrew Colvet.
00:02:20.000 Awesome.
00:02:22.000 This is Slate.
00:02:23.000 I'm Noah Aidu.
00:02:24.000 I was the previous president at Lafayette College and now I'll be attending Salve Regina.
00:02:29.000 I'm Kennedy Wetzel and I have been the president at Liberty University for the last year and a half.
00:02:35.000 I'm Michael Giannino and I'm the founder and president of Turning Point USA at Baruch College in the heart of New York City.
00:02:41.000 You don't seem like you're from New York at all.
00:02:46.000 No, so, okay, guys.
00:02:47.000 So, there is so much going on, both internationally and domestically, but I think we'd probably find broad agreement in this group that we want to focus more domestically, right?
00:02:59.000 There's a lot of issues that we need to address right here at home, but there are nagging things abroad.
00:03:05.000 And there's been a lot of news lately coming out of Iran.
00:03:08.000 We were trying to get the MOU across the finish line.
00:03:12.000 It looks like there's been some.
00:03:14.000 Some complications.
00:03:15.000 We started striking Iran again.
00:03:18.000 Let's go back to the whole Iran topic.
00:03:21.000 And anybody can go first.
00:03:23.000 But were you guys supportive of the initial strikes against Iran?
00:03:28.000 I'm not talking about Midnight Hammer.
00:03:29.000 I'm talking about the second wave that started earlier this year.
00:03:34.000 It was very controversial with young people.
00:03:36.000 We know that.
00:03:37.000 Was there who here was supportive, who was not?
00:03:41.000 And if it's a gray area, that's fine too.
00:03:44.000 You were supportive.
00:03:44.000 Well, that's kind of the thing.
00:03:45.000 It's always going to be a little bit of a gray area because there's, There's so many different layers to everything.
00:03:49.000 I'm never going to be 100% yes, other than for America.
00:03:52.000 100% for America.
00:03:53.000 And then all of the other decisions, there's going to be wiggle room.
00:03:56.000 Why were you a supporter?
00:03:57.000 I think it was absolutely a necessity.
00:03:59.000 I think part of why, like, people who are anti it don't irritate me, but I guess the ideas behind it do a little bit.
00:04:09.000 The people who are complaining about it, a lot of it, it's not about what if we lose.
00:04:13.000 It's not about what if we lose all these people.
00:04:15.000 What if we, it's about how long is this going to inconvenience me as an American?
00:04:18.000 I think that is so insane.
00:04:20.000 There's this isolation, there's this huge isolationist wave that's coming across America right now.
00:04:25.000 And I personally, as an American, I do find it to be really damaging.
00:04:28.000 I don't consider myself an isolationist.
00:04:29.000 I think we have a lot of issues in America right now that we do need to focus on.
00:04:33.000 Absolutely.
00:04:34.000 But that doesn't mean that we need to avoid all going overseas because there are so many issues that happen all the time overseas that do affect us here.
00:04:44.000 Who maybe had the opposite opinion of it?
00:04:47.000 I kind of have a gray area view.
00:04:49.000 I feel like depending on how I view the situation and certain circumstances as well change my opinion of the situation.
00:04:56.000 And this isn't to criticize Trump or anything.
00:04:58.000 I just think judging from the rest of my peers and how they feel, Maybe it's not exactly what they voted for.
00:05:06.000 You know, like Trump very much ran on America first and no new wars.
00:05:10.000 And I think a lot of people just felt maybe misled when this originally happened.
00:05:14.000 But that being said, I'm very much of the belief that Iran shouldn't have access to a nuclear weapon.
00:05:19.000 Let's expand on this.
00:05:21.000 When you say your peers, people you know, don't agree with this, are these generally people who voted for President Trump?
00:05:27.000 And what do they say?
00:05:29.000 Do they say, I'm out?
00:05:31.000 I'm disappointed?
00:05:32.000 What's the range of opinions you're running into?
00:05:35.000 I just saw a lot of division within the Republican Party as a whole.
00:05:38.000 You've done it locally on campus?
00:05:41.000 Well, no, on campus, there's not many of us.
00:05:44.000 Locally in Staten Island, New York, the only red part of New York City.
00:05:49.000 And what were the range of opinions?
00:05:51.000 I had a lot of people that felt like Trump was a fraud.
00:05:55.000 I had a lot of people that praised Trump for it.
00:05:58.000 And the positions ranged so widely, and we saw a clear division within the party.
00:06:05.000 When the party can't unite behind main issues, I think, you know, especially in a place like New York, where we're so overly dominated by Democrats, to have that division amongst the Republicans is really detrimental.
00:06:19.000 And to follow up so we have the division when it launched.
00:06:22.000 Since then, we've settled into this sometimes on, sometimes off, relatively low intensity conflict.
00:06:29.000 Do you see the division healing at all, where some people have said it's not as bad as I thought it was going to be, or it's out of the headlines a bit more, or is it?
00:06:38.000 Getting worse because the conflict is still going on.
00:06:41.000 How do you see the trend and how people are feeling?
00:06:43.000 I think generally, especially with our younger generation, people have the tendency to forget about things rather quickly and move on to the next headline.
00:06:53.000 But with that being said, I think a lot of people still feel misled because originally Trump said that I forgot exactly how many days he said it was going to last, but he gave assurance that this wasn't going to be an ongoing thing.
00:07:06.000 And that's not quite what we've seen.
00:07:08.000 But if If Iran is not willing to work with us, then I could defend it in some way.
00:07:15.000 I mean, like I said before, Iran should not have access to a nuclear weapon.
00:07:18.000 And we've been seeing now, you know, that they're making threats against the U.S. and against the president specifically.
00:07:24.000 Very, very over the top threats.
00:07:24.000 Exactly.
00:07:27.000 We're going to kill Trump.
00:07:28.000 Big signs.
00:07:28.000 Yeah.
00:07:30.000 Any of you from slightly redder areas than New York City, same concept.
00:07:35.000 How do you see it?
00:07:36.000 How did it start off?
00:07:37.000 How has it been evolving over time?
00:07:39.000 My area specifically, I go to it.
00:07:40.000 So I'm on a Christian college campus.
00:07:42.000 I'd say the general.
00:07:44.000 Amount of students is conservative.
00:07:45.000 And I think what's interesting is the conservatives who are jumping ship, they're jumping ship because Trump said no new wars and stuff like that.
00:07:51.000 And I always ask them so, if there was a major crisis, are we not allowed to go now?
00:07:55.000 And would you jump ship then?
00:07:56.000 I think that's what's interesting right now.
00:07:58.000 And I think that's what Charlie was so good at he was so good at uniting people and getting people on the same page and be like, hey, maybe we disagree here, but we're still behind the same team.
00:08:06.000 I feel like right now you're seeing that, hey, I don't agree with this one thing.
00:08:10.000 I'm out.
00:08:10.000 Like, I don't want to be a part of it and stuff like that.
00:08:12.000 And I think that's really dangerous.
00:08:13.000 I think also it's just a terrible understanding of politics in general because it's always going to be two steps forward, one step back in some sense.
00:08:21.000 Anybody else?
00:08:22.000 I'll add on it a little bit.
00:08:25.000 I guess as far as like a Christian perspective goes, I mean, I'm a Catholic, but.
00:08:29.000 We have a lot of Christians that are kind of lukewarm in their faith, but there's like this conflict that's going on between those who are like, it's the Holy Land, we need to protect them.
00:08:38.000 And then, well, why are we going to war in the first place?
00:08:41.000 But if you're living in America and you want to protect the liberty that we live and base this country on, then as a Christian, you need to know how this Western civilization built America and that it was founded on those rights.
00:08:54.000 So it's interesting because there's Christians that are also against each other as far as Republicans go, but lukewarm versus non-look.
00:09:02.000 So you.
00:09:03.000 Specifically, are connecting the Iran conflict with protecting the Holy Land and defending those values abroad.
00:09:11.000 Correct.
00:09:11.000 I've heard a lot of people say that I support Israel because we're defending the Holy Land from Christians.
00:09:17.000 You've heard that perspective from Christians?
00:09:19.000 Go ahead.
00:09:19.000 Yes.
00:09:21.000 If I could just add on there, Sephora.
00:09:24.000 Yes.
00:09:25.000 Regarding the religious aspect of it, at the University of Miami, I know there is a revival per se in Christianity, but that's not the case at my campus.
00:09:37.000 And I think it's really important.
00:09:38.000 And something that is lacking is the education and conveying to students actually why we need to protect America from Iran getting nuclear weapons.
00:09:48.000 And that's not being prioritized.
00:09:51.000 I think we really need to prioritize the education aspect of it because students at what I have been experiencing at my campus don't want violence.
00:09:59.000 They just don't want the bombings to happen overall.
00:10:03.000 And they think the Republicans or conservatives, rather, want this to happen.
00:10:07.000 We don't want this to happen.
00:10:08.000 Nobody wants.
00:10:09.000 To bomb innocent people, or I know there's casualties, um, but they think that we're just out to get them because they're Islamic.
00:10:20.000 Um, I think it's important to recognize that though America is welcoming of all religions, it was built on Christian foundations and Islam, the religion itself, not Muslims,
00:10:32.000 the Islamic religion itself cannot really assimilate well with American ideals.
00:10:39.000 And so, if you know, they're saying, let's kill President Trump.
00:10:43.000 This isn't the first time we're hearing that.
00:10:46.000 But if you really take a step back and really educate their students who are thinking in this mindset that conservatives just want to take a certain religion out, like wipe them out completely, they would start to understand,
00:11:01.000 or in my perfect little world, hopefully understand that we just don't want them to get nuclear weapons and kill America.
00:11:10.000 Because if they get nuclear weapons, they will use them.
00:11:13.000 Well, that's very important.
00:11:15.000 Since you're up in Miami, this is probably a place that would stand out.
00:11:18.000 How did people feel about the
00:11:22.000 incursion we had with Venezuela last year and the pending matter potentially with Cuba?
00:11:28.000 What do they say about it?
00:11:29.000 So, the Venezuelans on campus and the Cubans on campus, the.
00:11:33.000 Did you have a lot of them?
00:11:37.000 So, U Miami itself, I would say not as many as you would think, but Miami as a whole.
00:11:37.000 Actually, okay.
00:11:44.000 And I've talked to people like outside of campus, and this is what I'm also attesting to.
00:11:51.000 They love President Trump.
00:11:52.000 They think what he's doing is fantastic.
00:11:54.000 And the students, it's ironic because the people or the students who are not Venezuelan, who are not Cuban, are the ones saying, You're out of your mind.
00:12:02.000 Why do you support these people?
00:12:04.000 Who were you to say their parents, their grandparents fled communism in Cuba?
00:12:09.000 I mean, it is just absurd how you have the audacity to speak to somebody like that whose family went through that.
00:12:16.000 Well, if I could touch on that, please.
00:12:18.000 There's this really interesting thing that's happening, and it's been happening for years.
00:12:21.000 Like, this is part of being in such a blessed country.
00:12:25.000 We're afraid of things, we as in a generation.
00:12:27.000 We're afraid of things and we don't want to talk about things that put like an icky taste in our mouth.
00:12:31.000 Like, I don't really like that he said that because it sounded me, or I don't like that we did this because it's not good for PR.
00:12:37.000 And I think we're able to do that.
00:12:39.000 We're able to kind of turn the other, like not turn the other cheek, but turn away from things that feel icky because we're so privileged in this country.
00:12:46.000 Like what you're talking about with the Western civilization, Western world, it is at threat.
00:12:50.000 There's this huge threat and it's these two major civilizations fighting against each other, but we don't feel it.
00:12:55.000 Because we live in America and we're so blessed to live here, but with that privilege also comes the responsibility to understand the threats that are happening.
00:13:03.000 Like, as far as with the Venezuela thing, like that was an incredibly.
00:13:07.000 I don't think we understood.
00:13:08.000 Well, we do.
00:13:08.000 We do.
00:13:09.000 But that was such an incredible mission.
00:13:11.000 The way that we did that, what was it, 45 minutes in and out?
00:13:14.000 I don't know the exact time, but we had zero casualties.
00:13:17.000 Bonkers.
00:13:17.000 And the Macarena was playing.
00:13:19.000 Like, it was insane.
00:13:20.000 And it was incredible, but it felt icky from a PR standpoint.
00:13:23.000 Do you guys feel there's a difference between.
00:13:27.000 Sort of Western hemisphere actions, especially military actions, whether it be a potential Cuba mission, whatever that could entail, and Venezuela versus Iran, which is obviously not in our hemisphere.
00:13:41.000 I don't think so.
00:13:42.000 I honestly think most of the problem that you have when talking to people about this is that it's any conflict whatsoever that makes somebody scratch their head for any type of violence.
00:13:50.000 I think you saw that with ICE as well, where there was some type of violence and people were like pushed back, oh, I can't be a part of it anymore, which is so funny to me because so many people gave.
00:13:59.000 Trump's vote based off of how his foreign policy was in his first term.
00:14:02.000 So, kind of, I think that's what's going on in the conservative space right now you don't have like one voice and you have a lot of people.
00:14:10.000 Sorry.
00:14:10.000 Leave it to me.
00:14:12.000 And you have a lot of people.
00:14:12.000 It is my wife.
00:14:13.000 Yeah.
00:14:13.000 You have a lot of people looking for who to trust.
00:14:18.000 Like, who do I trust?
00:14:18.000 Who do I listen to?
00:14:20.000 And so then when one person does maybe one thing they don't agree with, they're all in or all out.
00:14:24.000 And it's that type of situation, which I just think it's funny because so many people trusted Trump with how great he was in foreign policy in his first term.
00:14:31.000 Versus now, one thing or two things happen here and they're all out.
00:14:34.000 But I think also along with that, it's just interesting because I don't think it's like a left versus right, too.
00:14:43.000 I think the right is so scattered as well in this issue.
00:14:46.000 No, I mean, there is no more divisive issue on the right than foreign policy.
00:14:50.000 It's just the way it is.
00:14:51.000 And that's why I'm sort of wondering where the threshold is because I didn't see nearly as much pushback on Venezuela, for example.
00:14:59.000 And there is a concept in American foreign policy, Western hemispheric dominance, right?
00:15:04.000 We don't want the Old world powers to come into our hemisphere.
00:15:07.000 We want to project strength and control of the Western hemisphere.
00:15:11.000 And for me, that was sort of a key distinction between the Iran conflict and the Venezuelan mission.
00:15:18.000 So, you mentioned you think people aren't educated about the Iran topic specifically.
00:15:26.000 So, what kind of pieces of information do you think more young people need to know about that?
00:15:33.000 So, that's tricky because And again, I'm speaking from my experience on my campus, but there are a lot of students who are not Christian.
00:15:44.000 They don't have that direction.
00:15:45.000 They don't have that moral compass like we at this table, or I'm assuming, do.
00:15:51.000 They don't believe in religion.
00:15:52.000 And so they don't take the time to educate themselves on the Christian values that really drive part of the mission to defend our nation from Iran achieving that nuclear war.
00:16:03.000 Okay, but you just said defend America from Iran.
00:16:06.000 Yes.
00:16:07.000 So one of the bigger controversies with the Iran strike is that a lot of people feel that we were dog walked into a war.
00:16:14.000 That's the expression you'll see online a lot dog walked into a war with Iran because Israel wanted us to fight that war.
00:16:21.000 I don't particularly agree with that.
00:16:21.000 Right.
00:16:24.000 But they have a more direct geographical interest in ensuring that Iran does not have a nuclear weapon or ballistic missiles that could strike Jerusalem or Tel Aviv, for example.
00:16:34.000 But should that interest extend to the United States?
00:16:38.000 Meaning, what's the education that you would like more people to understand of why that's in America's best interest to get involved in that conflict?
00:16:49.000 Yes.
00:16:49.000 And it goes back to this idea that I said that.
00:16:53.000 Isfahan does not assimilate well in our country.
00:16:56.000 And I truly.
00:16:56.000 But that's an immigration question, correct?
00:16:59.000 Yes.
00:17:00.000 But it goes back to, again, this idea that if Iran achieved a nuclear weapon, they would use it amongst Americans.
00:17:08.000 Okay.
00:17:08.000 So, okay.
00:17:10.000 I don't know that they have the capability of launching a strike on the United States, but they certainly could on Europe or they could on Israel, right?
00:17:18.000 That's usually the.
00:17:19.000 Oh, dirty bombs.
00:17:20.000 Dirty bombs.
00:17:21.000 Yeah.
00:17:22.000 Certainly.
00:17:23.000 And I would agree with you on the immigration question.
00:17:25.000 Perspective because I don't, I agree.
00:17:27.000 I want to hear from your perspective.
00:17:29.000 It's less about mine, but yeah, Charlie believed this.
00:17:32.000 I believe this that Islam, taken in the macro, is not compatible with Western values, right?
00:17:38.000 You can meet really, really sweet and nice Muslims on the micro, but as a whole and as a collective, it is a conquering religious ideology and political ideology.
00:17:47.000 This is why they pray to Mecca.
00:17:49.000 Even if they are in America, they're praying to a foreign place, to a foreign seat of authority for them, a religious.
00:17:55.000 Authority.
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00:20:39.000 I'm thinking just even on, so we're talking about making the case.
00:20:42.000 I think you and I, even before the strikes happened, we talked about.
00:20:46.000 It seems that we're building up in Iran and they might strike it and they're not laying the groundwork of why is this happening?
00:20:51.000 That was a critique we had.
00:20:53.000 And so, what I would ask we talk about how could they sell it, but for those of you who do interact with people who are perhaps Trump voters who feel betrayed, feel misled, feel angry about this,
00:21:06.000 is there a case that could be made that would win them over?
00:21:09.000 Failing that, would they be won over if the conflict ended?
00:21:12.000 Or do you feel the damage is more enduring in some capacity?
00:21:17.000 I think it may have been a little better, at least for a unity standpoint, if there was no boots on the ground in the initial.
00:21:26.000 Which there, well, there still haven't been in Iran, at least.
00:21:30.000 Yeah.
00:21:31.000 Well, about what would win someone over, that's a personal thing.
00:21:35.000 Like, I can't speak to what, I speak to a lot of people who feel, as you would say, misled or betrayed by the promises Trump made in his campaign.
00:21:42.000 And to a certain extent, in an individual sense, I understand how they feel that way.
00:21:45.000 But what would win them over, it's individualized.
00:21:48.000 As far as like, If the conflict ended, would they be won over?
00:21:51.000 I think you mentioned Venezuela.
00:21:53.000 I think part of why you saw less pushback on that is because it was two seconds and no one knew about it until after it was done.
00:22:00.000 So, of course, it's like.
00:22:02.000 And it was really successful.
00:22:03.000 Right.
00:22:03.000 How are you going to be mad about that?
00:22:04.000 It had to.
00:22:05.000 But this is more ongoing and there's so much focus on it in the media right now.
00:22:09.000 I don't think we should be hiding it, but there is a lot more attention on it.
00:22:12.000 And it is going on for longer than we would have liked.
00:22:14.000 But I think part of why maybe there's an ideological disconnect between Trump.
00:22:20.000 Is the terms that he used?
00:22:22.000 I don't think he was being dishonest.
00:22:23.000 I don't feel personally misled.
00:22:24.000 I understand what people do, but America First, I guess, for a lot of people, a lot of people that I talk to, has kind of been translated to kind of a cut and dry if this inconveniences America even in the slightest, then we can't do it.
00:22:38.000 Or if this isn't a linear progress for America, then we can't do it.
00:22:42.000 Or if prices go up slightly, then we can't do it.
00:22:44.000 And that's just not what America First, in my opinion, or in I think how Trump described it, is about.
00:22:48.000 America First is a philosophy.
00:22:50.000 And like you said, politics is often one step forward, two steps back.
00:22:54.000 And I think.
00:22:55.000 It's less about winning someone over on a specific issue and more about kind of how you said an education of how these things actually work.
00:23:01.000 And it can't be, hey, I don't want to fight anymore, Andrew.
00:23:04.000 Let's not.
00:23:04.000 It's just that's not how it works.
00:23:05.000 Well, and sure.
00:23:06.000 And Trump, to his credit, has been critical of Iran since you can go back to the 1980s.
00:23:11.000 He's got clips where he's pretty upset about the way that that foreign policy had been pursued.
00:23:17.000 And then, you know, within the last decade, maybe even two, he's talked about how Iran should not have a nuclear weapon.
00:23:22.000 So I do think there is a truth to the fact that people, Became convinced of an image of Trump that wasn't actually real or reflected in his campaign.
00:23:31.000 But nevertheless, they voted for that impression.
00:23:33.000 They voted for no new wars, right?
00:23:35.000 You heard this no new wars.
00:23:36.000 And they specifically, I think with Iran, it got even more controversial because there was an impression, rightly or wrongly, and I believe wrongly, that we did that war or we started this conflict with Iran at the behest of Israel, Bibi Netanyahu,
00:23:52.000 right?
00:23:53.000 And so while Trump has been consistent on it and he wanted to take care of this problem, there is a perception, a perceived reality that Trump did this for Israel, right?
00:24:05.000 Not for America's, right?
00:24:06.000 So you've made the connection in your head that you believe that this wasn't America's best interest.
00:24:11.000 Whether or not the larger public, especially young people, has become convinced of that question is the question, right?
00:24:19.000 Let's slightly move to the MOU, right?
00:24:22.000 The MOU, you guys know what I'm referring to with that, right?
00:24:25.000 JD Vance has been pursuing this MOU.
00:24:27.000 It felt like a random of understanding.
00:24:29.000 It was basically a ceasefire agreement to pursue a longer term peace with Iran.
00:24:29.000 Yeah.
00:24:29.000 Yes.
00:24:35.000 Now, that has hit some roadblocks, but we're not at this point of this recording, it's still something that's approximately being pursued.
00:24:43.000 Trump has said it's basically over, but I think there's certain people like JD Vance is certainly still pursuing it.
00:24:50.000 So, do you guys support that without sort of a regime change?
00:24:55.000 Like, are you glad that we're trying to pursue peace?
00:24:59.000 Do you have any faith that we can achieve it?
00:25:00.000 Anybody can go.
00:25:01.000 No, we haven't heard from you for a second.
00:25:02.000 Yeah, I have faith that we can achieve peace.
00:25:07.000 It's definitely wishy washy.
00:25:08.000 I mean, like we said, there have been roadblocks along the way there, but I think honestly, kind of.
00:25:14.000 Touching on what our last point was, I think we live in a soft generation.
00:25:17.000 Our generation hasn't really seen a war, you know?
00:25:21.000 We haven't fought in a huge war as far as, like, I mean, my brothers and sisters in Christ, they haven't gone and had boots on the grounds in other countries because of my age.
00:25:31.000 And I think a lot of people are blind to the fact, like, how was Western civilization built?
00:25:35.000 You see a lot of Gen Z pop culture people saying, oh, we're built, America's on stolen land.
00:25:40.000 Like, that's not how it happened.
00:25:42.000 That is not how it happened, sir, you know?
00:25:44.000 And I think I have faith that.
00:25:47.000 Sometimes war is good, and that's for the protection of my people and my brothers and sisters in Christ.
00:25:52.000 But obviously, I mean, this is coming from someone who doesn't even believe in the death penalty, who's a Christian.
00:25:57.000 And I still think there is peace, it is hopeful, but other people need to surrender to Christ and also America first.
00:26:06.000 Okay.
00:26:09.000 Anyone else on the same question?
00:26:10.000 The pursuit of peace, though, do you see that?
00:26:12.000 Do you think that needs to be our posture here?
00:26:14.000 Do you still have faith that we can achieve peace with?
00:26:17.000 Iran, which has been notorious at telling you one thing and then doing something different.
00:26:21.000 Like a lot of people feel that you can't go into a good faith negotiation with Iran because they basically will just lie to us.
00:26:28.000 Well, this is where I think conversations maybe run dry a little bit because what does peace mean?
00:26:32.000 What do we mean by that?
00:26:33.000 Like, I give us five years and we're not going to disagree until like authority changes and then we're right back to it.
00:26:40.000 Peace means one thing.
00:26:42.000 And I don't think that definition of peace, peace is in like actual agreement and kindness that will last between two individuals or two nations or two families or whatever you want to say.
00:26:52.000 I don't think that concept of peace, which is what I consider to be the definition of peace, is possible with Iran.
00:26:58.000 Not because there's a specific issue that we can't agree on, but because it's an ideological, civilizational difference, and they're diametrically opposed.
00:27:07.000 And especially in the terms of religion, we're diametrically opposed.
00:27:11.000 So I don't think peace, as we're talking about it, is a possibility.
00:27:14.000 What you're describing, I think, is possible.
00:27:16.000 Would you call it submission then?
00:27:17.000 Submission from Pope.
00:27:19.000 Submission, submission.
00:27:20.000 I think you're picking that word deliberately, right?
00:27:23.000 Yeah, what?
00:27:24.000 Submission to America.
00:27:26.000 Specifically?
00:27:27.000 Well, I think with the agreement that JD Vance is working on, I wouldn't call that submission to America.
00:27:32.000 I wouldn't call it that.
00:27:33.000 I think it's kind of kicking the rock down.
00:27:35.000 So, are you not supportive of that type of deal, that type of framework?
00:27:40.000 I'm supportive of us working toward that type of framework.
00:27:42.000 But I think in reality, if we look at it in the context of history and human nature and religious tendencies and just everything that's kind of right in front of us, I don't think that's a long term solution.
00:27:52.000 But then you mentioned regime change, and we've seen the last time America helped out
00:27:58.000 that world with a regime change, and it didn't go.
00:28:01.000 You know, Charlie Kirk touched on that a lot.
00:28:03.000 Yeah, he did.
00:28:03.000 He was vehemently opposed to it, as a matter of fact, because the issue being, and you could.
00:28:09.000 Apply this to Iran.
00:28:10.000 If you did have a regime change, we don't really know what the next domino to fall would be, right?
00:28:17.000 Because you could have sectarian strife, civil war, you could have a mass diaspora of Iranians all throughout the region, the world.
00:28:24.000 Every regime change we've pursued has had dramatic effects, and they were not the effects predicted before we launched it.
00:28:31.000 I want to pose potentially a challenging question here, which is some people say the Iran thing has gone on long enough, we should unilaterally disengage.
00:28:41.000 We blew up enough stuff that they're not going to get a nuclear weapon soon.
00:28:44.000 Let's just leave.
00:28:45.000 And if they want to close the strait, it affects others more than us.
00:28:49.000 Some people say the number one thing is Iran can't have a nuclear weapon.
00:28:53.000 They're not playing ball with peace.
00:28:55.000 We need to escalate, possibly including boots on the ground.
00:28:58.000 Some people say you put 10,000 guys on Karg Island and that will be enough.
00:29:03.000 Some people say they want more.
00:29:05.000 If the choice, if let's say Iran walks away from the table completely, says we're just blockading the strait, deal with it, would you prefer?
00:29:13.000 Unilateral disengagement or as boots on the ground?
00:29:18.000 I think it's a difficult question, but I, for one, have faith that we can negotiate a peace deal because I think people know not to mess around with Trump.
00:29:26.000 I think that's been proven through both terms at this point.
00:29:28.000 But also, I think what happens is people don't necessarily see the timeline.
00:29:32.000 They see short term action and they don't see the end immediately.
00:29:35.000 So they're just like, oh, we got to pull out, we got to be done.
00:29:38.000 Where I think Trump and all these different scenarios, you see short term action to prevent long term problems.
00:29:45.000 And I think that's what you kind of have to trust a little bit, especially if you are somebody who trusted Trump with your vote, that people know not to mess around with him.
00:29:52.000 And so I believe that if anybody could figure out a peace deal with Iran, it would be Trump because people know not to mess around with him.
00:29:59.000 I mean, I don't trust Iran, but I trust Trump and I trust his administration to put America first, as they have said, and do all that they can to achieve a peace deal.
00:29:59.000 I agree.
00:30:07.000 And if that's not enough, I trust them to make the decision whether to put bits on the ground or not.
00:30:10.000 I have a different way of phrasing this.
00:30:12.000 Maybe it's the simplest.
00:30:14.000 Do you believe that the actions taken in Iran? Is consistent with America first.
00:30:20.000 Yes.
00:30:21.000 Yes.
00:30:23.000 Absolutely.
00:30:23.000 Yes.
00:30:24.000 I would say, same.
00:30:25.000 I'd say mostly.
00:30:26.000 Yes.
00:30:26.000 Yeah.
00:30:27.000 Wow.
00:30:28.000 Agreement.
00:30:30.000 Would you?
00:30:30.000 Okay.
00:30:31.000 Would I?
00:30:32.000 Putting them on the spot.
00:30:37.000 I was, I think, broadly less supportive of striking Iran.
00:30:41.000 As we often say, you can determine when you want to start a war, but you can't necessarily determine when you want to end a war, right?
00:30:47.000 That being said, I acknowledge a couple truths that a lot of the isolationists, I'm not a strict isolationist, I'm a mostly isolationist, but I believe the world is a very dark place if America's power is not projected in the world in international affairs.
00:31:02.000 We are the most morally upright nation.
00:31:05.000 We have the most power and have used it less than anybody, any other nation throughout history.
00:31:10.000 And so our presence and our willingness to piece through strength, I think, is a really important dynamic that other bad actors need to acknowledge before doing bad things.
00:31:20.000 That being said, I trusted that the president probably had intel.
00:31:24.000 I did not.
00:31:25.000 And as Charlie would often say, this is why we work so hard to get him elected, right?
00:31:30.000 Is because we trust him with the hard decisions.
00:31:33.000 He's the man for the hour.
00:31:34.000 So, I give him a lot of leeway, and I'm very supportive of JD Vance pursuing peace, some framework of peace, because I think ultimately we have problems that we need to address here at home.
00:31:45.000 So, that's my basic framework.
00:31:47.000 But I think, is there anything on the international stage, right?
00:31:51.000 We've talked a lot about Iran now, and I want to get back to domestic affairs, but I just wanted to address that because it's in the news first.
00:31:57.000 But is there anything internationally that we haven't talked about that you think is a larger concern, that's something that you are concerned about or that you're hearing from your peers?
00:32:05.000 People talk about?
00:32:06.000 Is it China?
00:32:07.000 They have China a lot.
00:32:10.000 In what context?
00:32:10.000 Yeah.
00:32:12.000 Just them kind of their economy, their economy being like the number one economy and what they're capable of in the future.
00:32:19.000 I mean, I think.
00:32:20.000 Well, we are the number one.
00:32:21.000 Do they view this as a.
00:32:23.000 Do they see this as maybe just an amorphous threat?
00:32:27.000 There's a country that could become bigger or richer than us.
00:32:30.000 Do they see specific things?
00:32:32.000 Do they worry about China doing something to America, whether it's physically attacking us?
00:32:39.000 Or imposing censorship on us or like dominating us in some way?
00:32:42.000 Do they ever get more specific?
00:32:44.000 Yeah, a little bit.
00:32:45.000 It's more like, oh, like we kind of got to be careful of China.
00:32:49.000 Obviously, they're not the number one economy, but they are growing.
00:32:52.000 They're the number two.
00:32:53.000 Yeah, they're, I mean, they're growing rapidly.
00:32:55.000 Yeah.
00:32:55.000 Well, they just landed a rocket a la SpaceX where they caught the rocket returned and they caught it in a platform.
00:33:02.000 Which was noteworthy.
00:33:02.000 Yeah.
00:33:04.000 Yeah, no doubt.
00:33:06.000 But I mean, like I even have Chinese friends at school and they're, I mean, I'm fine with them.
00:33:11.000 They're just more like, We get along, but I'm not too fearful of them attacking us.
00:33:18.000 It's more like if we mess around with one of their allies.
00:33:21.000 Well, the Taiwan issue, right?
00:33:25.000 China believes that Taiwan belongs to China.
00:33:28.000 Taiwan has the best chip manufacturing abilities in the world.
00:33:32.000 Right now, China is reliant upon second generation chips or chips that we provide them, and there's ongoing negotiations about that.
00:33:43.000 So, chips in Taiwan.
00:33:44.000 Specifically, when you talk about the technological battle, is really where I think the next conflict is.
00:33:50.000 We'll see.
00:33:50.000 But, and then China has pursued its Belt and Road initiatives, buying up resources, ports.
00:33:55.000 That's why the Panama Canal fight early on in Trump 2.0 was a big, big topic.
00:34:01.000 Why don't we?
00:34:02.000 So, China was the main other country that people are looking at.
00:34:05.000 So, go ahead.
00:34:06.000 If I may, I think what might be an even greater threat than that is the spread of radical Islam in the West.
00:34:13.000 I think it's something we're not.
00:34:16.000 Taking strongly enough.
00:34:17.000 I think people are taking it very lightly.
00:34:19.000 Everybody wants to be accepting of everybody in America, but quite frankly, Islam is incompatible with Western values.
00:34:26.000 And we've seen this examples of this all across Europe where cities are practically being taken over by radical Islamists.
00:34:33.000 And the cities are turning, cities that were once really great, rich in history and culture, are now being outrun by tyranny.
00:34:42.000 And you're saying what's in New York?
00:34:43.000 Yes, we are.
00:34:45.000 I call New York, New Yorkistan.
00:34:47.000 I mean, you have Times Square filled with, you know, Muslims call to prayer and the entire square is filled with them.
00:34:56.000 I mean, it sounds like a, you can say it sounds shrill, but it's Birmingham, second largest city in Britain.
00:35:03.000 It's not merely that a lot of Muslims live there, it's that now their elections are won by independent Islamist candidates.
00:35:11.000 There are explicitly Islamist political parties that are getting seats in European parliaments.
00:35:17.000 We're having a Senate candidate in Michigan who might win, who Will have offered condolences because the Ayatollah died and that was traumatic to people, but he's also attacking his primary opponent for voting for, I believe, a resolution honoring Charlie when he died.
00:35:32.000 And this sneaks up on you over time because people aren't good at tracking demographic change and how quickly 2% can go to 4%, can go to 20%, and what effect that has.
00:35:45.000 Yeah.
00:35:46.000 I'm sorry.
00:35:47.000 If I may just add one more point.
00:35:48.000 I mean, it was incredible to me to see how quickly things had changed in New York with the elected Mayor Zorhan Mamdani.
00:35:59.000 I work in the New York City Council, and within one week of him in office, I saw.
00:36:04.000 Changes in the New York City Council stated meetings, how they started opening with Asalaamu Alaikum.
00:36:09.000 And I thought that that was ridiculous.
00:36:13.000 I will say I do agree with you.
00:36:15.000 I think that's one of the most talked about international issues that we have on college campuses, at least with my friends as well.
00:36:20.000 And people that I disagree with on every other issue, we agree on that.
00:36:24.000 But I think that has to do with there's a tangibility there for Americans that there isn't for like the Iran issue or for the China issue.
00:36:30.000 Yes, it'll come.
00:36:31.000 But right now we're really feeling that.
00:36:34.000 And we're looking over at our European brothers and sisters and In my opinion, I think most of Europe has fallen to radical Islam.
00:36:41.000 And that breaks my heart because that's, you know, so much of the core Western civilization is there in Spain and France.
00:36:47.000 And I see it really is heartbreaking.
00:36:49.000 But there's a tangibility there from a domestic perspective because we see that as America and we're hoorah, America.
00:36:55.000 And we see what's happening in Europe and how fast it happened.
00:37:00.000 And domestically, we're like, we can't do that.
00:37:02.000 So there is a uniting.
00:37:03.000 So, what do you think the solution should be?
00:37:06.000 What do you guys want to see happen on that issue?
00:37:09.000 Should we just ban?
00:37:10.000 All Muslims coming in the country?
00:37:13.000 Shit, what?
00:37:13.000 I mean, seriously, what?
00:37:14.000 Some people do think that.
00:37:17.000 But I don't think that is the American way.
00:37:21.000 I mean, I think it's important to recognize and educate.
00:37:27.000 It always comes back to education, which our education system is failing us.
00:37:32.000 But to educate ourselves on why Islam is not compatible and why it cannot ultimately be the overlapping.
00:37:41.000 Religion that Americans have to put up with every day.
00:37:48.000 Unfortunately, a lot of it does have to do with illegal immigration.
00:37:53.000 We don't even know how many Somalians we have in our country.
00:37:56.000 Most of the Muslim immigration in the United States is legal.
00:38:00.000 I don't know if that's true.
00:38:01.000 Like up in you guys all, who's Nick Shirley?
00:38:04.000 He's here, right?
00:38:06.000 Baffle situation.
00:38:06.000 I don't know that a lot of those were.
00:38:08.000 A lot of them are criminals, but they are people we legally.
00:38:11.000 Yes, I mean, there was a lot of.
00:38:15.000 People from all kinds of countries coming through the southern border and some through the northern border when Joe Biden was president.
00:38:21.000 And I think we've dealt with most of that.
00:38:23.000 So there are some illegals, but the vast majority of immigration from Muslim countries into the United States has been straight up through legal immigration.
00:38:30.000 Are you guys aware, for example, that we have 1.2 million green cards?
00:38:34.000 Those are legal green cards issued every year.
00:38:36.000 1.2 million.
00:38:37.000 That's the population of more than Montana.
00:38:41.000 That's the population of Arkansas every three years that we're just adding from all over the world all the time.
00:38:46.000 And so when Blake talks about the demographic shifts, how quickly it happens, That's why.
00:38:51.000 And then the birth rates are much higher among.
00:38:54.000 Yeah, it's going to be another point I was going to make.
00:38:56.000 Bring in one refugee Somalian who gets a green card.
00:38:59.000 They can then sponsor spouses, children, parents.
00:39:04.000 They can have three to seven to 10 children with their spouse.
00:39:08.000 Yeah, possibly spouses.
00:39:09.000 I've had three Uber rides since I've been in DC for this event three, and all three were Muslim drivers, and two of the three got just diversity visa.
00:39:20.000 Green cards.
00:39:22.000 So we're just bringing, it's diversity.
00:39:24.000 They won a diversity lottery.
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00:40:27.000 Well, you were talking about what should we do?
00:40:29.000 Should we put them on a boat and send around?
00:40:31.000 I don't necessarily think that, but like, there's a word assimilation.
00:40:36.000 And I think that's very, very important.
00:40:38.000 Now, when we talk about that, we've grown up in a nation where Christian values are the foundation of our nation, right?
00:40:45.000 And we understand that because we've grown up that you have secular people here, you have atheists, you have Jewish people here, all of these things.
00:40:51.000 But we understand that we've grown up in these values.
00:40:55.000 These are the morals that we've grown up in.
00:40:56.000 And what happens when that stops being the foundation that we have, when that stops being the majority value?
00:41:02.000 I personally think we should be.
00:41:05.000 There is, how do I put this?
00:41:08.000 I don't agree with the idea that diversity is a strike.
00:41:10.000 I'm pro diversity.
00:41:11.000 I like diversity of thought.
00:41:13.000 I like diversity of ideas.
00:41:14.000 I think these are really great ideas.
00:41:16.000 But diversity of values is a totally separate thing.
00:41:18.000 And I think they get convoluted a lot.
00:41:20.000 Diversity is important.
00:41:21.000 I'm Puerto Rican, Dominican, Irish, Scottish.
00:41:24.000 I'm the American melting pot.
00:41:25.000 I think it's important.
00:41:26.000 And I think it's beautiful in a lot of ways.
00:41:28.000 But I'm pro America.
00:41:29.000 I'm pro American values.
00:41:31.000 I'm America first.
00:41:32.000 And that's where I think we kind of disconnect it.
00:41:34.000 When people say, oh, we shouldn't have diversity, you get labeled as a racist really quickly.
00:41:37.000 But there's nothing wrong with wanting homogeneity.
00:41:40.000 There's nothing wrong with wanting to look over at your neighbor and understand, hey, we both believe these morals.
00:41:45.000 And we can rely on that.
00:41:47.000 So, what to do about it?
00:41:48.000 I think we should be stricter of who we're letting in.
00:41:50.000 Not like whether or not they want to support the country, but why are they supporting the country?
00:41:55.000 What are they wanting to put into us?
00:41:57.000 What are they wanting to.
00:41:58.000 So, what's the solution?
00:42:00.000 Rebuild the nuclear family.
00:42:01.000 Right.
00:42:02.000 Yeah.
00:42:02.000 Part of it is also the birth rate for Americans.
00:42:05.000 Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:42:06.000 Before we move on, I just, you mentioned one word that really resonates with me assimilation.
00:42:13.000 My grandparents came here from Italy through Ellis Island and.
00:42:17.000 They became citizens.
00:42:18.000 They assimilated into our culture.
00:42:20.000 They were proud to be Americans.
00:42:22.000 And they reminded me of that every day that they were alive.
00:42:25.000 While my grandfather was on his deathbed back in 2020, he was so proud to be able to send in a mail in ballot for President Trump.
00:42:33.000 And in the end, that was almost one of his only reasons for wanting to live was to be able to re elect Trump and leave this place with some hope when he unites with Christ in heaven.
00:42:49.000 They were proud to be Americans and they reminded me every day how proud I should be to be an American.
00:42:54.000 And they weren't fleeing some communist country, they were fleeing Italy.
00:42:59.000 Italy is beautiful.
00:43:01.000 And they came here and told me how much better America was and how much opportunity that they had here that they didn't have over there.
00:43:09.000 So, you know, seeing how they integrated into our culture and assimilated and became citizens, learned English, were proud to be Americans, I think that that's a unique example.
00:43:19.000 Yeah, that's a beautiful story.
00:43:21.000 And I love that.
00:43:22.000 And you're right.
00:43:22.000 We've had, America had a long tradition of successful assimilation.
00:43:27.000 A lot, if you look at the story though, the Anglo Americans, right, the English Anglos that were the predominant group here originally, they didn't want the 1880 to 1920s immigration waves.
00:43:39.000 They were very concerned about that because you were taking in a lot of Eastern Europeans, Southern Europeans.
00:43:45.000 It was, it was a, it stressed out the country a lot, actually.
00:43:47.000 And then we had the Great Depression, World War II that brought a lot of people together.
00:43:51.000 And we should also note that we say assimilation, and it is that.
00:43:55.000 Your grandparents became dramatically more American, but it is also the case that America became a little bit more Italian as a result.
00:44:03.000 And, like, even here, we can still tell you're an Italian guy from New York.
00:44:07.000 We don't go, Oh, I thought you were this Englishman, because there still is those visible differences exist, even if someone is very assimilated.
00:44:17.000 And that will be similar.
00:44:18.000 And there is difference, there's distance between cultures.
00:44:20.000 And this is, I think, another point that you guys are kind of approximately making.
00:44:25.000 It's one thing to assimilate an Italian Catholic.
00:44:28.000 Into a Christian Protestant nation, it's a whole other thing to then, but you know, they're both Christians.
00:44:35.000 It's another thing entirely to bring a Somalian that has grown up in a failed state government that's mostly corruption and, you know, there's really no infrastructure involved, right?
00:44:47.000 And bringing them in.
00:44:48.000 And so when you see the Somalian, you know, fraud schemes in Minneapolis, you shouldn't be surprised because that's actually the culture that they're bringing into the country.
00:44:57.000 And this is what I don't understand is that these people are fleeing their countries of origin.
00:45:02.000 In search of a better life, just to come here and try to replicate what failed over there.
00:45:07.000 I can't for the life of me understand why they would do that.
00:45:10.000 You come to the United States for a better life, treat it as such.
00:45:15.000 You have the right to pursue life, liberty, and happiness here.
00:45:18.000 Locustly for a better life, too.
00:45:20.000 Right.
00:45:21.000 You know, that's my point.
00:45:23.000 We're getting their opinions.
00:45:25.000 What you're asking about, Andrew, you keep asking for the solution.
00:45:28.000 You're getting into a lot of really hot button issues, and I'm not scared of a hot button issue, but.
00:45:32.000 There is, you know, there's a humanitarian issue that you have to work with.
00:45:36.000 Like when you ask about what the solution to an economic issue is, I'm asking, I'm asking what I'm really getting at is it is a very challenging topic.
00:45:44.000 So we have the Islamification of the West.
00:45:46.000 That's the topic, which is also an immigration question, which is also an assimilation and domestic question because they're already here.
00:45:54.000 At least some are, right?
00:45:56.000 Right now, I would say the issue is more on the manageable side, but it's becoming in New York and Michigan and places, it's starting to become much more front and center.
00:46:06.000 So if The question is, you guys are young people, Gen Z, you're in college.
00:46:12.000 Do you have a stomach for the types of solutions that it would require to actually fix it?
00:46:18.000 Or does it sound too drastic?
00:46:20.000 That's really what I'm getting at.
00:46:21.000 The other thing is, I'm curious what all of your friends and peers feel about this topic.
00:46:26.000 Are they ready to actually address this topic?
00:46:29.000 Yeah, I think a large part of it is it's an identity issue.
00:46:32.000 If you ask 50 people on the street, what does it mean to be an American citizen?
00:46:36.000 I think you're going to get 50 different answers, and none of them are.
00:46:39.000 Remotely close to one another.
00:46:42.000 Along with that, I mean, like if we just go back to American history, look at the founding fathers, John Adams said our Constitution was written for a moral and religious nation.
00:46:51.000 How many people would consider America a moral and religious nation?
00:46:55.000 I'm not too sure.
00:46:56.000 And I think that's an important thing.
00:46:57.000 And so you can obviously have religious freedom in America, and that's a beautiful thing.
00:47:02.000 However, if your religious freedom ends up not morally aligning with the Constitution and America, Then I think that's a valid question to ask.
00:47:11.000 Well, do you guys understand that in the founding generation, they had professions of faith in order to serve, right?
00:47:18.000 So, and they weren't.
00:47:21.000 If you had a Muslim profession of faith, I don't think you would have had a snowball's chance in hell to get in and serve in the government of your state.
00:47:29.000 So, their idea of religious freedom is much different than our modern concept of it.
00:47:34.000 Their idea was well, you can be Anglican, you can be Quaker, you can be a Christian of different denominational background and variety.
00:47:41.000 Protestant, even of denominational background.
00:47:42.000 Yeah.
00:47:43.000 Most states, yeah, you couldn't even be a Catholic at that point.
00:47:43.000 Yeah.
00:47:46.000 So, our conceptions of this have, Changed over the years, right?
00:47:50.000 What you were asking do you think the people around us, just our generation, is ready for what could be like an extreme?
00:47:57.000 Do they care about this topic enough?
00:47:59.000 I would say yes, the first question.
00:48:00.000 But also, part of it is a lot of it is happening subliminally to where, unless you have like a pulse for what's happening, a lot of it you just feel it kind of generally.
00:48:09.000 People will describe I have a lot of friends who don't consider themselves political, I have a lot of friends who consider themselves opposite to where I am, but there is a general sense in our generation of we're not really united.
00:48:19.000 Like, none of us are really together.
00:48:21.000 What you were talking about with identity, um, one of the things that kind of showed us what it kind of looked like, um, back in your heads, is the day with the dinosaurs for um, what it looks like to be a little bit more united.
00:48:31.000 You know, uh, the Knicks game that was happening, like, that was crazy.
00:48:33.000 It was like, America, this is awesome.
00:48:34.000 And we had a taste of, like, oh, this is what it feels like to be hoorah.
00:48:38.000 We're all in line for this thing.
00:48:39.000 You know, this is great.
00:48:40.000 We see it a lot when the Olympics happen, like, no one's more proud to be an American than Rain Olympics, yeah.
00:48:45.000 But there is the World Cup, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:48:48.000 Um, we took that one to the asking.
00:48:50.000 Yeah.
00:48:51.000 It's like a different team showed up for that one.
00:48:53.000 Yeah.
00:48:53.000 Yeah.
00:48:53.000 But a lot of it has to do with the kind of stuff that I was talking about at the beginning of this conversation, stuff that leaves a sour taste in your mouth because of the connotation, but not because it's morally a bad idea.
00:49:02.000 Establishment of what it means to be an American.
00:49:05.000 And it doesn't have to be hard, fast.
00:49:07.000 Like you have to look this way, you have to believe this thing.
00:49:09.000 But there are certain ways that you have to act and certain ways that you can't act if you want to join in.
00:49:14.000 So, just spanning on that, even do they have a stomach for things?
00:49:17.000 What do people say about immigration?
00:49:19.000 Do they feel they grew up in an era that is 100% high immigration the whole time?
00:49:24.000 Do young people talk about that?
00:49:27.000 Do they say, I want less of it?
00:49:29.000 Do they say, I want less of it from specific countries?
00:49:32.000 What do they say?
00:49:33.000 People don't understand it.
00:49:34.000 I mean, I've heard liberals tell me, Oh, why is Trump supporting ICE and deporting all these people?
00:49:41.000 Do you know what happened during the Obama administration?
00:49:44.000 Like, what are we doing?
00:49:45.000 You know, and I fully 100% support ICE because one, the safety of you see statistics of people, there's just a UMass soccer star who passed away from like a Uzbekistan, wherever made up country, he got hit by a car.
00:50:00.000 We found Star Wars countries, but yeah.
00:50:01.000 Yeah.
00:50:02.000 The singing aliens.
00:50:03.000 Yeah.
00:50:05.000 But he just got hit by a car and got killed by an illegal immigrant.
00:50:08.000 And that's just like part of it.
00:50:10.000 But people are blind to the fact, at least as far as the other party goes, to what we're doing in America now.
00:50:17.000 And to kind of touch back on what you said, is like people are talking about it, but I think they're ill informed.
00:50:22.000 And I think there is some propaganda in America that we're unfortunately subject to in schools.
00:50:28.000 This is a great question.
00:50:30.000 Just broad yes or no, you and your friend group.
00:50:35.000 So it's not your opinion, but just your wider campus community.
00:50:39.000 Are they supportive of ICE or not?
00:50:41.000 Campus, no, friends, yes.
00:50:43.000 Both, yes.
00:50:44.000 Both are supportive.
00:50:45.000 Where are you at again?
00:50:46.000 Liberty.
00:50:46.000 Oh, I don't want to speak for the campus, but as far as like.
00:50:51.000 It's your perception.
00:50:51.000 Yeah.
00:50:52.000 Oh, yeah.
00:50:52.000 Definitely against ICE.
00:50:53.000 Against?
00:50:53.000 Yeah.
00:50:57.000 No.
00:50:59.000 What's your campus again?
00:51:00.000 Okay.
00:51:00.000 Clemson University.
00:51:01.000 Against ICE.
00:51:02.000 Split.
00:51:03.000 It's just split.
00:51:04.000 It's about 50 50.
00:51:05.000 I'd say it's sadly no, especially from a Christian college.
00:51:08.000 Sadly.
00:51:08.000 A small majority support ICE, but I think a larger majority would if the media portrayed them differently and their most recent.
00:51:17.000 I would agree with that.
00:51:18.000 Under Christine O.
00:51:19.000 Yeah.
00:51:20.000 Yeah.
00:51:20.000 And I think Minneapolis was just as far as a public perception.
00:51:25.000 I mean, I have a lot of very aggressive thoughts about what happened in Minneapolis because they were basically like, we call them kamikaze Karens.
00:51:33.000 They were just like going in there trying to cause a problem.
00:51:36.000 And then, you know, they played stupid games and won stupid prizes.
00:51:40.000 That being said, I can't deny that from a PR standpoint, it was a bad moment for ICE, right?
00:51:45.000 It turned a lot of people like, what are we doing?
00:51:47.000 It's so aggressive.
00:51:48.000 You see Joe Rogan, you know, kind of turned on everything at that point, too.
00:51:52.000 So, there was not too much stomach for the scenes that played out in Minneapolis.
00:51:56.000 So, they think they've been pursuing a calmer, more behind the scenes, trying to work with local prisons.
00:52:03.000 Immigration, though, is a.
00:52:04.000 So, if I said to you guys, I propose an immigration moratorium, a net zero immigration moratorium, let's explain what that is.
00:52:13.000 Every year, about 200,000 people leave the country to go live somewhere else.
00:52:17.000 You know, maybe, you know, a lot, people don't realize this.
00:52:20.000 When the 1880s, 1920s big immigration wave happened, I think it was about half ended up going back home.
00:52:30.000 There wasn't the social safety nets.
00:52:30.000 About a third went home.
00:52:32.000 There wasn't government programs.
00:52:33.000 There wasn't NGOs supplying you a lawyer to argue your case.
00:52:36.000 None of that existed.
00:52:37.000 So if you couldn't cut it, couldn't hack it, got too hard, you went back home to your family.
00:52:41.000 You went back home to Italy or wherever, Poland.
00:52:45.000 So nowadays, we have about 200,000 people that just leave, right?
00:52:50.000 If you said a net zero immigration moratorium would be like if somebody leaves, that makes a spot for somebody else to come.
00:52:56.000 Other than that, there is no place.
00:52:58.000 Let's do it for 10 years.
00:53:00.000 Does that sound too aggressive?
00:53:02.000 Does that sound just right?
00:53:03.000 Would you be supportive of it?
00:53:04.000 How does that make you feel?
00:53:06.000 And we can start over here and go this way.
00:53:09.000 I'm being quite frank.
00:53:09.000 I don't know.
00:53:10.000 Okay, that's fine.
00:53:12.000 I think immigration is one of those topics.
00:53:15.000 And I think immigration oftentimes kills Western culture and civilizations.
00:53:20.000 And I think that would be an okay thing.
00:53:21.000 But once again, I think your standard for who's coming in the country, you have to set in stone what does it mean?
00:53:26.000 You're only going to get really great people.
00:53:28.000 Let's just assume for the sake of that.
00:53:30.000 Oh, that's a bold assumption.
00:53:31.000 What's your definition?
00:53:32.000 Really great people.
00:53:33.000 All right.
00:53:33.000 Well, tell me.
00:53:34.000 We don't even have to do a net zero.
00:53:35.000 It could just be a flat out no new people.
00:53:37.000 Like, I'm just saying, I want to get where you're, how that makes you feel.
00:53:41.000 Like, would you be supportive or not?
00:53:43.000 I would be supportive if our birth rate and replacement rate was better because I think abortion plays significantly into that as well.
00:53:51.000 Well, so,
00:53:54.000 but it is what it is right now.
00:53:55.000 So, you would rather have the current status quo, 1.2 million new people coming into the country legally every year?
00:54:03.000 Yeah, I would agree.
00:54:04.000 Yes, for the most part.
00:54:05.000 Because you're worried about a declining population.
00:54:07.000 Correct.
00:54:08.000 Correct.
00:54:09.000 I would support what you're describing, but I don't think you could get it passed systemically to the American people.
00:54:14.000 Okay.
00:54:16.000 I support it.
00:54:16.000 And also, I don't think they'd ever be able to do it as far as like, are we in too deep?
00:54:22.000 Kind of.
00:54:22.000 We, you know, people probably need to.
00:54:26.000 So there was the Hart Seller Act in the 60s.
00:54:28.000 And then in 1990, we took it from basically a half million a year.
00:54:32.000 I was actually in some cases like 375 a year to the current levels.
00:54:36.000 So pre 1990, we had, let's just say, half.
00:54:40.000 Of the numbers of green cards we're currently issuing, just so you're aware of the issue.
00:54:43.000 I think it's a really hard thing, and I don't think it could be done, especially with our culture.
00:54:48.000 So you feel like the political will would not be there.
00:54:50.000 It wouldn't be possible.
00:54:50.000 Agreed, especially with Gen Z.
00:54:52.000 There's so much about inclusion.
00:54:53.000 Will can change.
00:54:54.000 Do you like the idea?
00:54:56.000 I think it's the hard thing to do, but I think it is a good idea, and it could be done.
00:55:00.000 It might need to be done.
00:55:02.000 I think it's a great question.
00:55:03.000 It's one I've never actually heard proposed before, believe it or not.
00:55:07.000 But where I actually stand on it, I'm not 100% sure at this moment.
00:55:12.000 I think it could be.
00:55:13.000 It could definitely segue into a longer discussion, which I don't want to derail the roundtable with, but that's fine.
00:55:18.000 So, okay.
00:55:20.000 In general, do you wish there was less immigration?
00:55:25.000 And do you think that would be supported?
00:55:27.000 Yeah.
00:55:28.000 I don't think less is the right word.
00:55:29.000 I wish there were more tactful immigration, getting higher quality.
00:55:33.000 Getting higher quality, yes.
00:55:35.000 Amen.
00:55:35.000 Yeah.
00:55:35.000 Of certain people.
00:55:36.000 Right.
00:55:37.000 I think a little less in what she prefers as well.
00:55:39.000 Good.
00:55:39.000 Yeah.
00:55:40.000 If you come here for a better life and you assimilate into our culture, And genuinely appreciate America for the opportunity it's giving you, then I don't have an issue with you being here.
00:55:51.000 I also think it's funny because in her proposition, where if you're more tactical about it, I also think if you were more tactical, you would have less.
00:55:59.000 I actually, I've thought this same thing before.
00:56:01.000 I'm like, so you're telling me that if all the things our government can't do very well, that we are completely just great at bringing in 1.2.
00:56:11.000 They're vetting 1.2 million people every year, like really, like checking all their social media, making sure they didn't say death to America.
00:56:18.000 Yeah, it's a.
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00:57:38.000 Big, big topics.
00:57:39.000 These are great.
00:57:40.000 This has been really fun.
00:57:41.000 Let's get more personal.
00:57:46.000 Well, I want to get into affordability, housing, jobs, all that stuff.
00:57:50.000 But I've been waiting for this topic, so I'm just going to get into it.
00:57:53.000 Relationships, dating.
00:57:56.000 Yeah.
00:57:57.000 The conflict that I've heard so much about between guys and girls and Gen Z.
00:58:03.000 You said you were waiting for this topic.
00:58:03.000 Is it real?
00:58:05.000 Did you think we were going to segue from Iran and radical Islam to dating in America?
00:58:09.000 It was naturally going to happen.
00:58:10.000 Yeah, we went from immigration to dating.
00:58:12.000 Yeah, it's better.
00:58:14.000 So you're being very spicy, but I'm sorry.
00:58:17.000 I call this dinosaurs.
00:58:19.000 Yeah.
00:58:19.000 So is the.
00:58:22.000 What's it like dating out there?
00:58:23.000 Do you feel like the men and women are at each other's.
00:58:27.000 Next, a little bit here, or I think it could go.
00:58:31.000 The fault goes on both genders, quite frankly.
00:58:34.000 I think, but do you acknowledge that it's a problem?
00:58:37.000 At least, okay.
00:58:39.000 Do you think, generally speaking, the dating pool is not very good?
00:58:42.000 What about you?
00:58:42.000 Yes, okay.
00:58:43.000 Dating is rough right now, man.
00:58:45.000 It's bad.
00:58:46.000 You're not good.
00:58:53.000 Not good.
00:58:54.000 I mean, it's hard to find a Christian woman out there that's nice.
00:58:57.000 So.
00:58:58.000 Maybe not at the table, but as far as outside of it, offering no.
00:59:03.000 I mean, I would agree.
00:59:05.000 It is rough.
00:59:06.000 I'm at a point where I'm like, okay, I'm going to focus on me.
00:59:08.000 I'm going to focus on my career and schooling.
00:59:10.000 And if God brings me a man, then he'll put him in my path.
00:59:12.000 And that's what it's going to be.
00:59:13.000 I'm Going to go out looking because I've failed at that for sure.
00:59:16.000 It's funny she put it that way because the second I said that to myself is when I found my beautiful girlfriend who I'm very grateful to have met.
00:59:25.000 It's like finding a diamond in the rough in a needle in a terrible.
00:59:28.000 Yeah.
00:59:30.000 But I think, sorry, were you going to say something?
00:59:32.000 Were you going to say something?
00:59:33.000 Next year, we're good.
00:59:34.000 Okay.
00:59:35.000 I think an issue that we're seeing a lot of it, you keep mentioning education and I agree with you.
00:59:41.000 I think the way that we have grown up, we've heard these words like dating to marry and like courting and all the things, and whether or not you're Christian, there's a lot of, you would call it like dating intentionally or dating with purpose.
00:59:52.000 And we're saying these words, and I don't think it's necessarily, you said there's faults on both genders.
00:59:56.000 I would agree with that.
00:59:57.000 But I don't think we're in the wrong as genders as a generation.
01:00:02.000 I think that's too vast to say that.
01:00:03.000 I think we're all very confused, and I think we all have not gotten proper guidance.
01:00:08.000 A lot of that has to do with the gender ideology insanity that started, it's been going on for a long time, but really picked up in 2013.
01:00:16.000 We, in this generation, we've grown up with the idea that we don't know who men are, we don't know who women are.
01:00:21.000 So, it's less like we're all just unsavable, vapid creatures who can't find husbands and wives.
01:00:27.000 I think it's more like we're all really confused and scared, and men can't ask a woman out without being me too'd, and women can't do anything without.
01:00:35.000 I have a question for the men on that topic, and then I'll help Blake correct the sexes and genders thing.
01:00:42.000 Genders actually invented.
01:00:44.000 Oh, we don't need to die. 1.00
01:00:46.000 We have two sexes. 1.00
01:00:47.000 Two sexes.
01:00:48.000 All right. 1.00
01:00:48.000 That's what it is. 1.00
01:00:49.000 So, men, do you feel concerned, nervous, scared?
01:00:55.000 Fearful that you might be me too, as she said, when you ask a woman out or when you try and, you know, with them or approach them in some way.
01:01:04.000 I've been through it already, so it doesn't scare me.
01:01:07.000 See, okay, that's interesting.
01:01:09.000 Yeah, that's
01:01:14.000 for another podcast.
01:01:17.000 What do I mean by that?
01:01:20.000 It could mean anything, but essentially, if you approach a woman, are you worried that you could be accused of being a toxically masculine?
01:01:28.000 Aggressive male, she has dog hair, maybe.
01:01:30.000 I ain't approaching one of those, so we're good.
01:01:33.000 We're doing that department.
01:01:34.000 I think the bigger picture is if we're saying both sides acknowledge it's very difficult, what are the substantive drivers of that difficulty?
01:01:42.000 So, yeah, I think social media is really bad too.
01:01:47.000 Yeah, is that what you said?
01:01:48.000 Social media is well, I said hookup culture and in colleges, especially.
01:01:52.000 I mean, it uh, I mean, even that where I go to school, it's that's like what happens.
01:01:57.000 Like, people you get their freshman year, and it's like, oh, the hookup culture, people passing on from.
01:02:02.000 Those that you look up to, either on a sports team or in your sorority or frat, it's like normalized in a way.
01:02:09.000 And if you don't go to Liberty University, I'm sure, where it's more like Christian based, you're dating intentionally, that's very detrimental to just like these people don't want families, at least that I've run into.
01:02:21.000 And I've had to come out of relationships with people who don't want a family.
01:02:25.000 Or maybe they're under the impression that this is the time to have fun and I'll do the family thing later.
01:02:31.000 I will say, I will.
01:02:31.000 Yeah.
01:02:32.000 Say, I do go to a small Christian university, and you would be shocked about how much of a bad dating culture and hookup culture you can have.
01:02:38.000 I'm sure Kennedy's got some stories.
01:02:40.000 I think it's interesting because I really like what you brought up saying that, like, oh, you're young, have fun.
01:02:44.000 I've had this conversation with multiple people.
01:02:46.000 You're 20.
01:02:46.000 Like, you're not that young, actually.
01:02:48.000 By the way, it sneaks up on you real quick.
01:02:50.000 Yeah.
01:02:51.000 You know, it really does.
01:02:52.000 Like, when you're 25, you will be 30 in like a blink.
01:02:56.000 And you're younger.
01:02:58.000 So, it happens very, very quick.
01:03:01.000 And I think there is a lack of appreciation just for.
01:03:04.000 How fast time goes, right?
01:03:06.000 We know in scriptures says, you know, life is fleeting, right?
01:03:10.000 And so, I don't think young people are good at acknowledging things.
01:03:14.000 And I know it's a dirty word or dirty expression, but the biological clock is real, right?
01:03:19.000 It is for everybody.
01:03:21.000 But yeah, I think the question is hookup culture, social media, Christian University.
01:03:27.000 Would you agree that some of this is even happening?
01:03:31.000 Yeah, of course, right?
01:03:31.000 Some of it, absolutely.
01:03:32.000 I mean, it's no disrespect to liberty.
01:03:34.000 It just happens.
01:03:35.000 We have furries, too.
01:03:36.000 A few, a few.
01:03:38.000 At Liberty University.
01:03:39.000 Wow.
01:03:40.000 It's kind of bonkers.
01:03:41.000 Yeah.
01:03:42.000 For you three, you mentioned you have a girlfriend and you've also mentioned that you've been me too'd and whatever.
01:03:47.000 Yeah.
01:03:48.000 So if you want to know more about that, I'm definitely open.
01:03:51.000 So where are you going with that?
01:03:53.000 Are you guys looking for a relationship with people?
01:03:56.000 Are you guys like actively?
01:03:57.000 Yeah, looking for to date and touch.
01:03:59.000 So what do you think has been the biggest?
01:04:01.000 I'm asking you three because you're men, obviously.
01:04:04.000 What do you think has been the biggest separation between the looking for it and the receiving it, like actually getting that?
01:04:09.000 I think also part of the problem is.
01:04:11.000 Men are so scared that she'll just say no because of cancel culture, because of social media, and because it's this big deal to be rejected now, which that's okay.
01:04:20.000 Like, there's a reason that the term is the worst that she can say is no.
01:04:23.000 Like, that's true.
01:04:24.000 Like, if you go up and approach a woman who's, you know, a woman of God and she has everything you like, you ask her out and she says no, like, oh, I'm interested in this or I'm not looking for a relationship, great.
01:04:31.000 So what?
01:04:32.000 You gained experience, you were confident, and you made a good choice and it just didn't work out.
01:04:37.000 If you think in life every single situation is going to work out that you try to go for, you're not probably going to get very For it to be honest, you're closer to finding your person exactly, and you learn, and also you learn how to deal with that and realize that not every single time it's your problem,
01:04:51.000 but also if it is something that you did, learn from that and become a better human being through that, right?
01:04:57.000 You said you think one of the main drivers for men not being confident asking women out because girls would you say that that's a problem?
01:05:06.000 Guys don't ask, they're not being leaders in that way, they're not being okay, so that's a frustration.
01:05:12.000 Um, yeah, make a mental note, men.
01:05:16.000 I have never been asked out ever once.
01:05:20.000 Yeah.
01:05:20.000 Wow.
01:05:20.000 Oh, wow.
01:05:22.000 It doesn't have that shocking.
01:05:23.000 It doesn't have that shocking.
01:05:24.000 Okay, so this is like sidelines. 1.00
01:05:28.000 And there are other women, I'm just saying me, but like, yeah. 0.95
01:05:31.000 And perhaps when I was in college, it was probably trending down, but it was not this bad.
01:05:36.000 Okay.
01:05:39.000 You said people are scared of rejection.
01:05:40.000 Men are scared of rejection because that's become a really big thing.
01:05:44.000 What did you mean by that?
01:05:45.000 Like, it.
01:05:46.000 I mean, men have been probably scared of rejection from, you know, time immemorial here, but you're thinking right now because of social media or because, okay.
01:05:54.000 So, because if you say, if you get rejected, then it's going to be on social media, everybody's going to be talking about it.
01:05:59.000 Is that a big part of it?
01:06:00.000 Let me ask you three a question.
01:06:02.000 You said you've never been asked out formally on a date.
01:06:02.000 Okay.
01:06:04.000 Have you, I'm guessing, you've talked and flirted and had guys who are interested, though, in some capacity in high school.
01:06:10.000 Great.
01:06:10.000 Okay.
01:06:11.000 I would say, probably for all three, I would almost guarantee you've had an encounter like that where it wasn't face to face and it was all over the phone.
01:06:18.000 Yeah.
01:06:19.000 Yeah.
01:06:19.000 I think that's because you have a screen to hide behind, and men are so scared of just putting themselves out there and having a face to face human conversation, which is, I mean, I heard you're scared, though, because of the rejection.
01:06:29.000 And I think it's because people are soft.
01:06:31.000 So I'm very curious.
01:06:33.000 I want you to unpack this more.
01:06:35.000 I usually, when I'm talking about that with my friends, I usually attribute that to them being scared that I described as getting me to, but the woman is going to post that and say that she made her feel uncomfortable and scared of almost the more legal ramifications.
01:06:48.000 Is it more the embarrassment and rejection aspect of it?
01:06:51.000 Well, I think in our generation specifically, gossip is a huge issue, especially on college campuses.
01:06:56.000 Cancel court. 1.00
01:06:57.000 Yeah, cancel court.
01:06:57.000 And they have to say social media now.
01:06:59.000 Social media, through friend groups and whatnot.
01:07:01.000 Like, for example, I asked this girl out.
01:07:03.000 She says no, I guarantee you within hours and maybe minutes, every single girl that she's close to knows back home, family all knows about the situation.
01:07:12.000 Correctly.
01:07:12.000 So you can't do anything.
01:07:13.000 And I think that's the hard part about it if I ask a girl out and she says no, why is that such a bad thing?
01:07:20.000 And why do you have to demean the other person so much from that?
01:07:22.000 You should feel honored in some sense.
01:07:24.000 In some sense, you should be able to be like, oh, have a little bit of respect that the man was able to put himself out there and be willing to be rejected.
01:07:30.000 That's part of the risk, you have to be willing to be rejected.
01:07:34.000 Yeah, and people can say anything about anybody, and it doesn't necessarily have to be true for your name to be defamed and for people to change their view about you, especially with social media.
01:07:43.000 It's not like I'm telling the six of you.
01:07:44.000 I know nothing about being defamed.
01:07:46.000 Yeah.
01:07:47.000 But it's not like I'm talking to the six of you.
01:07:49.000 Like, I can make one post on social media and reach thousands, maybe even millions, depending on what my platform is.
01:07:55.000 So, you know, that threat is real.
01:07:58.000 And it's something that I personally experienced for things that I didn't even do.
01:08:02.000 I was the one rejecting the person.
01:08:04.000 And they took it very poorly and resorted to social media to defame me because they couldn't handle being rejected.
01:08:09.000 It's ridiculous.
01:08:10.000 Noah, do you agree with what they're saying or do you have a different perspective?
01:08:13.000 I would say, well, I'm glad you asked me because I'm more of the kind of buck that would go out and be like, hey, would you go on a date with me?
01:08:22.000 I think there's a lot of athletes on my team that are, oh, I've seen some guys that are very open for going up to a woman.
01:08:27.000 And especially, I mean, are you looking in the right spot?
01:08:31.000 And like the difficulty finding, I think, is more challenging for me, finding someone.
01:08:35.000 That I want, you know, and I think I was watching a video of Charlie two summers ago, and it was the best advice I've ever had dating.
01:08:42.000 And it's obviously on your phone, which kind of sucks, but he was like, You got to date someone that has the same ideals as you.
01:08:49.000 And I remember that video vividly because I'm like, Oh, shoot, like, it's probably why I haven't had a girlfriend.
01:08:55.000 And I've had relationships with people, but it's like it never got to that point because I'm like, Oh, like, she believes this.
01:09:03.000 She doesn't really like going to church.
01:09:04.000 She's an atheist.
01:09:06.000 And I'm like, Oof, like, I, There's something there where I'm like, why would I pursue something that I can't see raising my children?
01:09:13.000 This is great intel because I think Blake and I probably would like, we've internalized these kind of principles.
01:09:20.000 Like, of course, you need to date a Christian.
01:09:22.000 You need to date a Christian.
01:09:22.000 Are you a Christian?
01:09:23.000 And by the way, what kind of Christian?
01:09:25.000 Do they believe the Bible?
01:09:26.000 Are they praying?
01:09:27.000 Are they going to church?
01:09:28.000 Like, yeah, absolutely.
01:09:29.000 You need to fish where they are and you need to make sure that you're getting high quality candidates, right? 1.00
01:09:34.000 But I think it's interesting for the women here to, so you've never been asked out. 1.00
01:09:39.000 You've, You're complaining that it's a problem.
01:09:42.000 I don't know if you've been asked out.
01:09:43.000 If you've been asked out, what do you want to see from the men of your generation more?
01:09:48.000 And you could talk personally or talk like maybe you and your girlfriends have complained.
01:09:51.000 What are you complaining about right now?
01:09:54.000 To your point, I think more courage.
01:09:57.000 I don't think there's anything wrong in being chivalrous, but it goes back to being me too.
01:10:06.000 Men are scared and not that.
01:10:10.000 I'm like, not know it.
01:10:13.000 Some of us are scared.
01:10:18.000 It's all very complicated.
01:10:19.000 And to be honest with you, I think if we.
01:10:21.000 What do you want out of the young men of your generation?
01:10:24.000 I think.
01:10:26.000 Church date.
01:10:27.000 Yes, definitely.
01:10:28.000 I agree.
01:10:28.000 Do it every Sunday.
01:10:29.000 A lot of guys, most men right now, most young men in our generation, they just don't know what they're doing.
01:10:35.000 And that's not in dating, that's everywhere because no one's showing them.
01:10:38.000 You're in trouble for being born as a man these days.
01:10:42.000 I don't blame you for being scared.
01:10:44.000 To learn how to be a good man.
01:10:46.000 So, I'm going to answer your specific question and not go on a soapbox.
01:10:50.000 I would agree, courage is a big thing.
01:10:52.000 I would say intentionality individually.
01:10:54.000 A woman is going to respond very well to a man who says, I'm going to college for this.
01:10:59.000 This is what I'm going to do.
01:11:00.000 This is my passion.
01:11:00.000 This is my plan.
01:11:01.000 This is my conviction.
01:11:03.000 And it doesn't have to be all spelled out, but a lot of times I'll be talking to someone and they might be very charismatic and great.
01:11:03.000 This is where I want to be.
01:11:08.000 I've been asked out before, but when they're talking, it's like, yeah, Elon, I'm doing grab the communication.
01:11:16.000 Just hang around, you know, and it's intentionally.
01:11:20.000 What about you?
01:11:21.000 I mean, I think just be bold.
01:11:21.000 What would you?
01:11:23.000 Like, honestly, like, girl pair, be a man, okay?
01:11:25.000 And if you do get rejected, then again, don't go on social media and like whine about it or whatever and bash that person.
01:11:29.000 And if you do, like, we get our security through Christ, right?
01:11:32.000 Not in what other people think about us and if they reject us or not.
01:11:35.000 So if you're a real man, And you get rejected, you find your security in Christ, and you're going to be fine.
01:11:40.000 What is.
01:11:40.000 Yeah.
01:11:41.000 Can I add one thing off of that?
01:11:42.000 Actually, I want to add something you said because you said you know a lot of guys, and obviously we play on the baseball team, so obviously they're most respectable men.
01:11:47.000 But, you know.
01:11:49.000 I don't have.
01:11:51.000 Yeah.
01:11:52.000 I want to make a statement about baseball fans, wherever they come from, whatever culture they are.
01:11:57.000 The Dodgers are annoying.
01:11:58.000 They are good people.
01:12:00.000 Nine times out of ten.
01:12:01.000 Baseball fans are the best.
01:12:03.000 Unless they like the Yankees.
01:12:04.000 Good.
01:12:04.000 Yeah.
01:12:05.000 No, even if they liked it, I'm telling you.
01:12:07.000 Go Dodge.
01:12:08.000 Are you a Yankees fan?
01:12:09.000 Yeah, let me cheat.
01:12:09.000 Come on.
01:12:10.000 I had it in with him last night already.
01:12:14.000 I don't know.
01:12:14.000 You know, the Mets were in the news for dating the other day.
01:12:16.000 Yes, you don't know.
01:12:18.000 Their Mets announcer was talking about his bloodline being extinguished because his children have a terrible day.
01:12:23.000 Which is funny because you brought up like chivalry, and then you said like a lot of your teammates are either, yeah, I have some guys who like just do the social media route, but then I have some guys who are really aggressive and they're not afraid of anything.
01:12:33.000 I think there's a, you got to be in the middle somewhere, right?
01:12:36.000 There's a way to be courageous and bold, but also respectable.
01:12:40.000 And that's what, Attracts a woman of God, I think.
01:12:42.000 You can't go up to someone at the bar and be right off, and also being like, Is that boldness?
01:12:47.000 It's going to be something I'm going to want to be with.
01:12:49.000 Yeah, is that boldness for sure?
01:12:50.000 Is that the right type?
01:12:51.000 Correct.
01:12:52.000 And anything that can be used for good could also be turned and used for evil at the same time, where you can have this good boldness and good passion, but you can get off on the wrong foot.
01:13:01.000 But I have a really important follow up question.
01:13:03.000 Blake, sorry, you had more questions.
01:13:04.000 Well, I just thought it was interesting that you said the guys don't know what to do.
01:13:08.000 And I feel like this actually might be speaking to an even bigger crisis, which is, I think.
01:13:13.000 Nobody knows what to do about anything, which is dating careers.
01:13:18.000 It's, I've often heard the phrase from people, oh, they'll eventually figure it out.
01:13:24.000 And you hear it from older people where figuring it out was in a much narrower band of options for what to do.
01:13:30.000 There was much more explicit guidance.
01:13:33.000 And that certainly applies to dating as an example, where I think if someone was getting married in 1950, there was a big superstructure of what it actually was socially expected for you to do.
01:13:44.000 There was a narrower range and everyone knew what these things were.
01:13:47.000 So, The unwritten rules were actually known.
01:13:50.000 Whereas today, it's not merely that people don't know what they are, they often are in total conflict with each other.
01:13:55.000 I ran into this myself where you're in a culture and, like, at a church, for example, and what actually does the woman consider an unwritten rule for how a man is supposed to behave?
01:14:04.000 Totally different.
01:14:05.000 This is in DC, so they came from different places.
01:14:08.000 And as a result, you truly have no idea what to do.
01:14:09.000 It is luck based almost.
01:14:11.000 And I think Charlie spoke to that because Charlie, for example, presented such an explicit vision for how men should behave, as an example.
01:14:20.000 And I think that also is the appeal.
01:14:22.000 You guys might agree with this of someone like even Andrew Tate, is that someone who stands up and says, This is what you should do on all these different things is going to create appeal because they offer so much structure.
01:14:32.000 Because the picture is lacking so much structure.
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01:15:35.000 I want to follow up.
01:15:36.000 That's a really good point. 1.00
01:15:37.000 The women you're saying to the men be more sure of yourself, have an idea of who you are, be aggressive if you want.
01:15:45.000 I mean, not, you know what I mean by that?
01:15:48.000 Be confident, right? 0.95
01:15:50.000 What is your advice for other women?
01:15:51.000 I'm looking at you guys.
01:15:52.000 What is your advice for other women?
01:15:55.000 What are women currently doing that is getting in their own way? 1.00
01:15:59.000 Be nice, Mini. 1.00
01:16:00.000 They are brutal.
01:16:04.000 I feel for the guys. 1.00
01:16:06.000 Like, no excuse, but these women are brutal. 1.00
01:16:09.000 How so? 1.00
01:16:11.000 This, like, if they ask them out, they talk crap about them on social media.
01:16:15.000 That they'll laugh at people's faces.
01:16:17.000 I mean, and it's totally mean girl, men, it's the mean girl culture.
01:16:23.000 Oh, yeah, I've never experienced that, it's only gotten worse.
01:16:26.000 Yeah, so so they're just brutal, basically.
01:16:29.000 Well, I think also a lot of people have you know an RBF or whatever, they are really hard to go up to, men and women, you know, than RBF, but I think you know, honestly.
01:16:29.000 Be nicer.
01:16:39.000 People need to be more aware of that, like in any situation.
01:16:42.000 Because if I'm sitting here, like, no one's going to come up and talk to me, right?
01:16:46.000 Like, when we're tabling for Turning Point, I talked to the chapters about this.
01:16:48.000 Like, if you're tabling, have a smile on your face, be approachable, okay?
01:16:52.000 So if a guy's standing across the room and he looks mean, I'm not going to go talk to him.
01:16:56.000 Same with a girl. 0.98
01:16:57.000 And so I think if us ladies look mean and despicable, then they're not going to come up and talk to us anyway.
01:17:02.000 So we have to be approachable and be kind as well.
01:17:04.000 I'm definitely not approachable.
01:17:06.000 It's funny what made me approach my girlfriend the night that I met her was her smile.
01:17:10.000 So it's.
01:17:11.000 She felt approachable.
01:17:11.000 It's a good point.
01:17:12.000 We're really just in a culture that's against men right now.
01:17:15.000 So there's a lot of mini issues, but a lot of it comes down to how we view men and how they really can't do anything right a lot of ways.
01:17:21.000 And a lot of women that I talk to my age, most of my friends who are women aren't Christian and aren't really looking to get married right now.
01:17:31.000 So I have a good pulse of how they're talking about men, how they treat men.
01:17:35.000 And it's just awful.
01:17:36.000 I mean, you guys know it's so bad.
01:17:38.000 And you talked about the fear of rejection and the fear of embarrassment when asking someone out.
01:17:44.000 It takes a lot as a guy to, like, okay, I'm going to ask, how can I end up being awkward about it?
01:17:48.000 It takes a lot. 1.00
01:17:49.000 And women kind of take advantage of that a lot. 1.00
01:17:52.000 I think a lot of it has to do with social media, you know, over normalization of things.
01:17:55.000 But it doesn't really register, like, this guy really had to go out of his way to be okay with embarrassing himself and understand that more than likely she'll probably say no.
01:18:03.000 Can I actually add on that?
01:18:04.000 Another thing that I see in women a lot is, like, if you do go that step, ask a girl out, send that message, whatever, is you're not only dating the girl, you're also dating all of her friends at the same time.
01:18:15.000 She will not respond.
01:18:16.000 She will not respond until she consults all eight.
01:18:19.000 That's very true.
01:18:20.000 Here's the other thing, though, is women as a culture, men as a culture are being told one thing.
01:18:23.000 Women as a culture, and I'm not talking about Christian culture, and I'm definitely not talking about the culture that Charlie Kirk cultivated.
01:18:29.000 I'm talking about mainstream.
01:18:31.000 Yes, the mainstream post feminism. 1.00
01:18:35.000 When you get married, when you have kids, your life is over, and you don't have a place in society anymore.
01:18:39.000 So, in the same way that I don't blame men for being scared after you're married.
01:18:42.000 You're saying that's the perception, that's the message.
01:18:44.000 Yeah, that's how that's being baked into our bones.
01:18:46.000 You lose power when you join a relationship.
01:18:49.000 You lose things more than you gain them.
01:18:51.000 That's what we lose.
01:18:52.000 Oh, I 100% agree.
01:18:52.000 You're not in.
01:18:54.000 I think the idea that children are a blessing has completely evaporated.
01:18:58.000 So, in the same way that I don't blame men for being scared to reach out because of how culture's painting them, I don't blame women for being scared to lock themselves down because of how culture's painting them.
01:19:07.000 Can I ask the women a question on the table?
01:19:10.000 Where do you think a man should meet a woman? 0.85
01:19:13.000 Not at a bar. 0.68
01:19:14.000 Okay.
01:19:14.000 Yeah, no, yeah, for sure.
01:19:16.000 And then, I mean, excluding church, because I think some guys are like, I mean, for me, at least, I'm focused on Jesus when I'm at church or maybe a church group.
01:19:24.000 Well, that's interesting.
01:19:25.000 Church is an unacceptable place to go for.
01:19:27.000 There's been debate about that.
01:19:28.000 I may also have 80, like, it's just grandmas there.
01:19:32.000 That's not what I'm looking for.
01:19:33.000 It depends on the church.
01:19:34.000 I think it depends on the church.
01:19:35.000 That's where I'm from.
01:19:37.000 Well, you ask a good question.
01:19:37.000 I'm glad.
01:19:39.000 And that also poses a different issue that I think women are probably dealing with. 0.99
01:19:44.000 I don't, as far as in the online sphere, I have kind of strict standards for that.
01:19:47.000 I don't really go out with a guy if you ask me out online.
01:19:49.000 I don't really do that.
01:19:50.000 I don't go with texting.
01:19:53.000 I'll smile when you're here.
01:19:54.000 Julie's someone you don't know, too, right?
01:19:56.000 Yeah, exactly.
01:19:57.000 I'm from another state somewhere.
01:19:58.000 So there's a kick for a second.
01:19:59.000 Fly you out. 1.00
01:20:01.000 But then, what you're pointing to, a lot of it, at least in my opinion, the other issue that stops women a lot is the low standards. 0.97
01:20:09.000 It's really, really, really bad. 0.84
01:20:11.000 As in, what do you mean?
01:20:13.000 The men have low standards for men.
01:20:16.000 Like, it really breaks standards.
01:20:17.000 What do you mean?
01:20:18.000 All of my non-critical, because when you're a woman in the church, in a good church, I'm talking about the ideal situation, you're being told, you know, you're God's daughter, and there's a certain joy and a standard that you get from that expectation that you have.
01:20:32.000 When you don't grow up in that sphere, in a sphere that says women should be protected, you just have this really, really, really negative thing.
01:20:39.000 Like women, I actually said this to Charlie on the panel that I was with him.
01:20:44.000 He was talking about why hookup culture is such a big thing. 0.90
01:20:46.000 And the thing that I mentioned was women have sex to receive love. 1.00
01:20:54.000 That's why women do it.
01:20:56.000 Men do it for a different reason.
01:20:57.000 I think biologically it's different.
01:20:59.000 Men, and this is more in a secular situation, give love to receive sex.
01:21:05.000 And women give sex to receive love.
01:21:07.000 And I have so many friends where I'm just, I'm like, if you held fast to not giving up that, you would be happier.
01:21:16.000 Okay, so I understand what you mean.
01:21:17.000 You were saying they're dating losers.
01:21:19.000 I actually think it's funny you said that because you made a joke and you were like, oh, I'm below that bar.
01:21:23.000 I think it's actually the opposite of that.
01:21:24.000 I think it's you're so far above that bar that women don't even want to try because that's actually more work to be righteous. 0.97
01:21:30.000 It's way harder to be righteous than this. 0.52
01:21:31.000 Did you say women are scared about it? 1.00
01:21:33.000 Yes, that's way harder to be righteous than this.
01:21:34.000 Yeah, terrible.
01:21:35.000 Yes, no, I 100% would.
01:21:37.000 It's intimidating.
01:21:38.000 And It only takes one bad boyfriend to absolutely wreck a woman, especially if she doesn't have a good father figure.
01:21:43.000 Definitely wreck a woman's perception of herself and what she deserves.
01:21:46.000 And it's just heartbreaking because they just keep getting battered down and beaten down.
01:21:51.000 And it's a confirmation bias thing and a self-feeling prophecy thing.
01:21:54.000 But they think men are bad.
01:21:54.000 They think men are evil and will abuse them.
01:21:57.000 And then they only talk to men who will be bad and evil and abuse them.
01:22:00.000 And it's a confirmation bias.
01:22:01.000 Ultimately, what you're saying is on some level, the wider culture is infected with what you just described.
01:22:07.000 Absolutely.
01:22:07.000 Rebuild the nuclear.
01:22:08.000 And so, yeah.
01:22:09.000 Well, no.
01:22:10.000 And by the way, Charlie said if he ever got into politics, Like directly in an elected sense, that was going to be his number one mission, right?
01:22:17.000 To restore the American family, yeah, uh, because it's that central and critical to everything, right? 1.00
01:22:22.000 Um, uh, feminism, you brought up feminism. 1.00
01:22:26.000 Do you think conservative women are also sort of infected with some aspects of feminism and maybe don't even realize it? 1.00
01:22:35.000 I would say so. 0.80
01:22:36.000 And men, do you feel that as well?
01:22:38.000 So, the question could be so you said you think so, she's not so convinced over here, and beyond that, what would that mean? 1.00
01:22:45.000 What specific Feminist norms that you think are distracting.
01:22:48.000 Well, I know I just went on a whole thing about how women don't have high enough standards, but now I'm taking the other side of it. 0.98
01:22:53.000 A lot of what feminism says is you're, as a woman, you don't have to do anything to receive the best from men. 1.00
01:23:02.000 Like, there's nothing that you should offer because you're the queen here. 1.00
01:23:06.000 So, a lot of like really feminists, and this is in the conservative movement as well. 1.00
01:23:10.000 Women, a lot of times, don't really think that they need to put anything to be in a good relationship. 0.98
01:23:15.000 Like, I don't do this, I don't do this, I won't accept this. 0.99
01:23:18.000 And a lot of times it's okay, but what are you putting in as a woman?
01:23:22.000 As a woman, like they expect their man to be a traditional man and then they don't want to be a traditional woman. 1.00
01:23:27.000 That's very extreme in the more secular feminist areas. 0.99
01:23:31.000 But you mentioned conservative. 1.00
01:23:32.000 I would say that's that infects everyone as well.
01:23:34.000 So you're not convinced?
01:23:38.000 I am, but it varies. 0.99
01:23:40.000 But to your point, I think even this affects conservative women too, I think their priorities are in the wrong places. 0.99
01:23:48.000 I know several conservative girls on campus who, Um, we'll dump a guy because they don't pay for their Ubers out, right? 1.00
01:23:55.000 Or they don't pay for their meals or their mani patties, exactly.
01:23:58.000 And it's that's we broke out here.
01:24:01.000 Yeah, especially you guys are all in college.
01:24:03.000 Like, what are you supposed to be doing?
01:24:05.000 Do you feel that way that uh, even the conservative women and again, it's split too.
01:24:09.000 I mean, if you have conservative women who are not Christian and conservative women who are Christian, I think there's a big difference there, okay?
01:24:14.000 Um, what about it?
01:24:16.000 I think it's like a liberty.
01:24:18.000 Um, I don't think so.
01:24:19.000 You think people are embracing traditional.
01:24:22.000 At liberty, 100%.
01:24:23.000 Yeah.
01:24:23.000 Okay.
01:24:24.000 All right.
01:24:24.000 Well, I guess we know where we're going.
01:24:25.000 Yeah.
01:24:26.000 You got to pitch where they are, man.
01:24:28.000 Yeah.
01:24:29.000 We're screwed.
01:24:30.000 That's wildly not true, but that's it.
01:24:33.000 Kennedy, you mentioned before that, you know, you had never been asked out in person and then you made a comment like, be a man.
01:24:39.000 Now, where I'm like, you know, a little concerned is where's the line between being a man and engaging in toxic masculinity, as a lot of people might say.
01:24:51.000 Well, I think it's easy to tell when somebody comes up to you whether they're coming up to you in good Faith or not.
01:24:55.000 Whether it's a debate, whether it's just a regular conversation, whether it's a man trying to approach you for a date, like it's very easy to tell their intentions.
01:25:01.000 Well, also,
01:25:04.000 so I'm picking up so much stuff here.
01:25:05.000 It sounds like there's a crisis of confidence with the men, and the women are just really brutal and cruel and mean and have weird expectations.
01:25:14.000 But, you know, there are some like, and candidly, I feel like the men need to get a little game too.
01:25:20.000 I hope that comes off the right way.
01:25:21.000 But it's like, if you find a girl you like, why can't you like, You know, if it's a church, like I'm churches do activities like hang out, do something casual to see if she's welcoming you in her general proximity, hang out with her some more,
01:25:37.000 and then be like, Hey, we're going to this thing.
01:25:39.000 Do you want to come?
01:25:39.000 Like, I mean, there's ways to do this more in a casual way where you don't need to, you know,
01:25:46.000 slap yourself in the mirror and go, You can do this.
01:25:48.000 And then, like, Will you go out with me?
01:25:50.000 You know, like, I just, it feels like, you know, there's a whole bunch of different things going on here that I find really, really fascinating.
01:25:58.000 But, um, You said people don't know what they're doing anymore.
01:26:04.000 There's like a lack of basic expectations.
01:26:07.000 A lot of what you're talking about, it has to come down to moderation.
01:26:10.000 Like, I know on one hand, I'm saying women don't have high enough standards, and on the other, I'm saying they have too high standards.
01:26:15.000 It's moderation.
01:26:16.000 Because on one side, a lot of it is the radicalization that came from social media.
01:26:20.000 You can't just be a man anymore.
01:26:22.000 It's either Toscan masculinity or beta male.
01:26:24.000 Like, there's no in between, and you can't just be a woman anymore.
01:26:27.000 It's either a strong woman of God, a trad wife, or a feminist, a woke woman.
01:26:30.000 Like, there's no middle ground, and all of the beauty often exists in the middle.
01:26:34.000 God made a very balanced system that we operate within, that we're supposed to operate within.
01:26:38.000 So, like, what you're talking about, men need a little game.
01:26:40.000 Like, yeah, you don't have to.
01:26:43.000 There's this, if you go too far into the like courting and dating to marry, there's this really aggressive, like, hey man, we just talked for three weeks and it didn't work out.
01:26:51.000 It's okay.
01:26:51.000 I promise.
01:26:52.000 You'll move on.
01:26:53.000 It's okay.
01:26:54.000 And then on the other hand, there's you talk for five seconds and then you have a one night stand and then you never talk to each other again. 1.00
01:26:58.000 And it's there's just a lot of it between the genders.
01:27:01.000 And just as a generation, we're so, you know, not moderated.
01:27:04.000 And I think it was Benjamin Franklin who said everything in moderation, but that's like we've lost that ideal.
01:27:09.000 Yeah.
01:27:10.000 I think that's interesting.
01:27:11.000 I love that you brought up a Charlie clip earlier because Charlie also said, If you're serious about someone, go on a sizable road trip with them, which I think is hilarious because there's so many little things in that.
01:27:20.000 First of all, I think on the woman's side, do you think most women would either make the man start every conversation or they would lead every conversation?
01:27:29.000 If they expect the man to start every single conversation, that's ridiculous.
01:27:33.000 I think most people you could group into one of those two a lot of time.
01:27:37.000 I think that, yes, let men start every conversation.
01:27:40.000 I think either you have two contrasting elements, and I know you got, I saw you not, you have two contrasting elements.
01:27:45.000 Is you have the girl either Hyper focused, and they want to almost lead the scene and not let the man even show any of his game, or it's the opposite of that.
01:27:54.000 And the man has to use every ounce of energy and do the entire thing, which I think is interesting. 0.92
01:27:59.000 I think that's where maybe the women's side for the dating pool could get better. 0.71
01:28:04.000 For the man's side, Kate, throw another hypothetical into the situation. 1.00
01:28:07.000 Let's say you got a flat tire.
01:28:08.000 How many men of your friends do you think could fix a flat tire?
01:28:12.000 You're asking me?
01:28:12.000 Yeah.
01:28:13.000 I'm a little car, so not you specifically, but of your friends.
01:28:16.000 I would say not many for me.
01:28:18.000 Of the guys at Lafayette College, you could probably pick like one.
01:28:21.000 Exactly.
01:28:22.000 Okay.
01:28:22.000 So, like, and you said, like, have things figured out.
01:28:24.000 I think for sure.
01:28:25.000 Career, college, mission, all that's great.
01:28:27.000 But I think it's also like basic stuff.
01:28:29.000 And I think our generation specifically misses out on just asking their parents, their mentors, people at their church, basic life questions and just learning.
01:28:38.000 Last summer, I worked at my high school and I did maintenance.
01:28:41.000 I learned more in one summer of not opening a single book regarding that and skill wise, and I can apply to the rest of my life.
01:28:47.000 Now I will have.
01:28:48.000 So much fun in the garage when I'm married and older and whatnot, building things for my wife.
01:28:51.000 And I think that's a great thing.
01:28:53.000 How many men in our generation think you have that opportunity?
01:28:55.000 Nobody.
01:28:55.000 So there was that.
01:28:58.000 I'm excited that I get to share this actually, because I remember going through it with Charlie right before he died.
01:29:05.000 It was this NBC poll that came out and it listed the priorities of male and female Gen Zs.
01:29:13.000 And it was the men, the top priorities was, you know, get a job, have a family, find a wife.
01:29:18.000 Literally, it was like that.
01:29:20.000 Women, it was. 0.92
01:29:21.000 Like, I think having kids and getting married was like number 11 on the list or something like that.
01:29:25.000 You remember that, Bull?
01:29:26.000 Yeah.
01:29:27.000 And top of it was like, you know, be financially independent.
01:29:30.000 And like, well, that's a big push.
01:29:32.000 So, where is this coming from?
01:29:32.000 Yeah.
01:29:32.000 Okay.
01:29:34.000 Where, who are the sources pushing this? 1.00
01:29:36.000 Where are young women getting this? 1.00
01:29:38.000 And yeah, why do they believe that? 1.00
01:29:40.000 And I think Terrence, influencers, and professors at universities push that.
01:29:45.000 I know there's a big push.
01:29:47.000 I mean, even at my friends' universities, the professors always make sure to single out the females and emphasize how important it is. 1.00
01:29:56.000 For females to be financially independent.
01:29:59.000 And to an extent, I agree with that because of how bad the dating pool and the marriage pool and normalizing divorce is now. 1.00
01:30:07.000 You need to be financially independent.
01:30:09.000 But I don't think that should prioritize having a family, making that connection with somebody.
01:30:15.000 But I think those are great places where it stands.
01:30:17.000 I agree with you.
01:30:18.000 A lot of what started with specifically with women, because historically, women didn't have a lot of the rights that we have now.
01:30:24.000 So what started out as empowerment.
01:30:26.000 There's a whole bunch of conspiracy theory about like if it really was empowerment, whatever.
01:30:30.000 What started out as in theory of power, those are conspiracy theories.
01:30:32.000 We're running out of time.
01:30:35.000 What started out as empowerment for women has really very quickly turned into a shaming aspect.
01:30:41.000 Like, I don't know if you guys agree with this.
01:30:42.000 Tell me if you disagree or if this is just me being a crazy person.
01:30:45.000 A lot of it, and this is from other women.
01:30:47.000 I don't think men are pressuring women to be the career women.
01:30:51.000 It's all from other women, but it's from your grandmother, your mother, your friends, your professors, your teachers.
01:30:55.000 I might ask Did your parents give you more advice about what career to pursue or how to find a husband and have a family?
01:31:01.000 Well, I had gangster parents.
01:31:03.000 So they were awesome.
01:31:04.000 Like my mom, she's a stay-at-home mom, and my dad served in the military.
01:31:07.000 So they were very much like, do what you want, but being a mom is the greatest gift that you can receive.
01:31:14.000 So, a lot of it was in.
01:31:15.000 Can I add something to the professor part you brought up?
01:31:17.000 Hold on.
01:31:18.000 You were just about to. 0.86
01:31:19.000 You were saying that most of this is coming from women.
01:31:22.000 Thank you.
01:31:23.000 Got it. 1.00
01:31:24.000 A lot of it comes from women. 1.00
01:31:25.000 It's the shaming aspect. 1.00
01:31:26.000 If you're not thinking about what business you're going to start and what book you're going to write and what government policy you're going to institute and how many people you're going to save, before you're even thinking about being a mom, you're a failure to the feminist cause. 1.00
01:31:41.000 And there's so much shame that happens there.
01:31:43.000 And whereas before, like if you look at in the Victorian era, You wouldn't be considered a part of society as a woman until you were married.
01:31:50.000 But now there's this major shift where it's like the anti Victorian era, where when you're married, you don't have a place here anymore.
01:31:56.000 And when you have a child, you are the scum of the earth to society.
01:32:00.000 Like, don't come on our planes, don't come on our buses, don't be in a public area because if the baby cries, then it's your fault.
01:32:05.000 Yeah, it's like your life ends once you have kids.
01:32:08.000 And it's so funny because everybody who I talk to who has kids says the exact opposite.
01:32:12.000 It's like I learned so much about this.
01:32:13.000 I have three kids, and I'll tell you, it's the best, most important, most gratifying, wonderful thing in life.
01:32:18.000 Everything else pales in comparison.
01:32:20.000 Now, to the women, do you guys agree with what I'm saying?
01:32:22.000 Do you think there is that shame aspect where there's a pressure there?
01:32:24.000 I do.
01:32:25.000 I mean, I see both sides too.
01:32:25.000 Yeah, I do.
01:32:27.000 I mean, what you're saying about financial independence, I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting until after college to get married.
01:32:33.000 I think there's a lot of pressure to get married in college, especially at Liberty's Ring by Spring.
01:32:37.000 Everybody's married by sophomore year.
01:32:39.000 I'm like, okay, the MRS degree.
01:32:41.000 Yeah.
01:32:42.000 But honestly, like from my perspective, I think it's best, especially for me personally, and you can say if you agree or not, but to graduate college.
01:32:50.000 Get a job, be financially stable.
01:32:53.000 I would want my husband or my boyfriend to do the same thing and then get married.
01:32:57.000 Then we're financially stable and we have started our own careers and we have future success lined up, right?
01:33:03.000 But also, you know, if something were to happen, because in these days, like you said, I mean, divorce is at much higher rates.
01:33:09.000 Something were to happen and I were to get divorced, God forbid, you know, I would have these skills because I had a job.
01:33:15.000 I would have these skills where I could go back to work if I was a stay at home mom or I have, you know, my own savings and my own ability to make my own money.
01:33:24.000 Yeah, I think that's valid.
01:33:25.000 At the same time, I think that's like culturally, that's the problem with our view as marriage is that you have to have a safety net all the time.
01:33:32.000 Like, I think marriage is you're supposed to like date and figure it out.
01:33:36.000 Like, you're never going to know.
01:33:37.000 And 10 years from now, you're going to be like, oh, I thought I had that figured out and I had no idea.
01:33:41.000 Charlotte would point out nothing will actually drive a man to establish that career and that security net like actually having a wife.
01:33:48.000 That's correct.
01:33:49.000 And I think like having that safety net all the time, like, yeah, I don't think that's a bad thing to want all those things, but also, If God brought you the right person, would you abandon all that?
01:33:57.000 No, absolutely not.
01:33:58.000 Well, no, I'm saying, like, would you commit to that now before being able to settle for all those safety net situations?
01:34:03.000 I think that's a good question to ask yourself.
01:34:04.000 Well, and Jacob, I agree with you a lot, but we could talk about no fault divorce and the fact that there has been a hollowing out of the sanctity of marriage, and that even somebody like yourself, and I'm not judging you,
01:34:18.000 I'm just saying that is at Liberty University, has to think through safety nets because you're sort of in the back of your head going, oh, this might not work.
01:34:27.000 I think that's a huge indictment just on the culture in general.
01:34:32.000 Gosh, we have so many more things we could get into, guys, including you talk about jobs, AI, and all the stuff.
01:34:37.000 We're going to have to leave a lot on the table because we have run out of time.
01:34:41.000 But this was really, really fascinating.
01:34:43.000 And yeah, man, I learned a ton.
01:34:47.000 I really did.
01:34:48.000 So thank you guys for joining Sephora, Jacob, Ryan, Noah, the guy who likes to ask women out on dates.
01:34:57.000 So CLS, look out.
01:34:58.000 Kennedy and Michael, thank you guys so much.
01:35:01.000 Thank you.
01:35:02.000 Appreciate it.
01:35:02.000 Thank you so much.
01:35:03.000 This is fun.
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